Is Charisma Cole's Full-time Caregiver?

[@ms.trueheart6302]

Im so glad that Cole has had so many great caregivers in his life. Charisma you are amazing amazing amazing.... Im so glad he has you now

[@Nicole215]

Amen, such a beautiful relationship! ♥️

[@mariaschwartz447]

Such positive attitudes🌈

[@cedarsable1014]

@@Nicole215 Matchmaking from haven 100%

[@tracysharp1361]

in my mind when you have a relative or a person who is disabled and you live with them 24/7 you are automatically their caregiver 24 hours a day even if you do get that occasional break for an hour or two you're still caring because you never quit thinking about them but I think they have a very beautiful relationship because it is based on love and not on the fact that she thinks that taking care of her husband is a burden it is a loving relationship. it is not a burden and that's why the relationship work because she doesn't look at him as a burden when is her husband an equal partner in their relationship.

[@roseabasi9190]

Charisma is such a sweet soul Cole is so sweet he never lets his sickness get him down God bless them

[@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570]

He doesn't have a sickness! You can't catch his disability! Please do us all a favor and do some research before you respond! Thank you!

[@debrapaulino918]

@@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570 She knows that and did not mean it that way. It was brought to her attention by James. Be nice.

[@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570]

@@debrapaulino918 How do you know that she knows that? Do you know her personally?

[@debrapaulino918]

@@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570 You're ignoring the point which I made just fine. Again, be nice. We are positive here. Please contribute to that.

[@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570]

@@debrapaulino918 I'm a person with a physical disability! We are not sick! We are regular human beings! I'm going to be real!

[@maiyacousin3570]

can’t wait to see you guys get married! never seen two people more suited to each other. keep up the good work!

[@mz8194]

Maiya Cousin Give them more time. They are so young.

[@coleandcharisma]

And we can’t wait to get married!

[@debrapaulino918]

@@coleandcharisma And I'm just as looking forward to seeing it happen for you both.

[@POOKATKC]

Why did I think they were already married?😊

[@jaymeal123]

I love the way Cole looks at his fiancé Charisma!!! It’s amazing and they both are beautiful and good looking people!! Love y’all BOTH some much!!!

[@latonyagreen-warner7402]

I love how they look at each other. You can tell that they are really really in love and really into each other. They are very inspiring.

[@clash4421]

For real. He looks at her with so much love, gratefulness and adoration. It is a beautiful thing to see.

[@TheKrystolMethod]

Yes I pray for that.

[@bobbieshutes424]

It's amazing to see their love shine brighter than a million stars!! I love how grateful Cole is to Charisma for her love and care for him. Also, he loves to give care back to her! They are #COUPLEGOALS!

[@feleciaredd5625]

Its also a role that is the ultimate expression of love. I was my mother's care giver when she was going through to go home to be with the Lord. She would often apologize for being a "burden"...I would always respond to her with "No mom, I have the best role, I get to be with you and laugh with you and love on you all night, just like she did for me when I was a kid going through Crohn's disease and that yukky devastation. It's a love work indeed!

[@egd5588]

Felecia Redd that’s so sweet of you to say to your mom. I bet she probably felt such relief to know that.

[@feleciaredd5625]

@@egd5588 Yes, she loved the vision of heaven...we would talk lots about the future and she was looking forward to seeing the Lord, face to face!

[@alina-nq5fb]

aw God bless you (:

[@bobbieshutes424]

I'm sorry to hear about your mother's passing. I am so glad that you were able to take care of her and give the love back that she gave you when you were a child. You are truly God's wonderful blessing to your mother and I'm sure she was grateful to you for your love work! I pray that God continue to bless, heal and strengthen you and your family!!! God bless you!

[@feleciaredd5625]

@@bobbieshutes424 Thank you! Be blessed yourself Bobbie! Shalom shalom.

[@TheRam273]

Guys y’all are awesome! My father was paralyzed from neck down when I was ten and it was the worst and the best thing that ever happened to me. I learned real quick the world didn’t revolve around me anymore and how to truly care for someone. I learned how to transfer him to a car yes a 87 grand national. I learned so much and I grew up real fast which wasn’t all that great but I survived. He passed away after 22 years. My mother never once left his side and loved him the whole time. She taught me what a real women is supposed to be. I’m 43 now and both parents have moved on to Jesus. Seeing y’all , Shane and Hannah have brightened my life and I thank y’all for that. My mother said it wasn’t caregiving it’s just good ole LOVE.

[@roseiam]

Aww when Cole got excited about caring for Charisma during her migraine ❤❤

[@godschild6343]

Thank y'all so much! I take care of my grandmother who is 102 years old and I have been so encouraged...sometimes I feel that I am forgotten but I am also reminded that she took care of me when my biological mom left me with her at the age of three years old. She can no longer do the things that she used to, obviously. But I am grateful that she took really good care of me and she made me feel safe to the point where I have had the best childhood! Even though my mom didn't want me...my grandmother did want me ,so I am going to care for her until the end! She was my caregiver in a sense so I decided to be hers in return...God Bless you two!

[@catyc1314]

May GOD bless you abundantly child of GOD, yes your grandma was there for you, and now you're returning the blessings to her , am a grandma myself and I know my grandchildren will do it for me when I will need it.....cuz I love them very much.....and I know they do too...

[@MsKeepgodfirst]

Ask her so many questions about her childhood. Grandparents have the best stories.

[@godschild6343]

@@MsKeepgodfirst This is so true! She has lots of her memory even though she forgets at times!♥️

[@fitzy2]

Caregiving is not always an easy thing..but it is an act of love...which is a most beautiful thing!...Again, Thank you Cole, Charisma, Momma Kelly, Clem Daddy and Quint for giving us a glimpse of your journey❣️

[@lindas5511]

Love how you explain the caregiving. You both have such a beautiful relationship. When Charisma was sick Cole stepped up to be a caregiver for her. That just goes to show how mutual and loving your relationship is. Everyone has something to give and everyone one will need help someday. Sometimes people forget that. Thanks for reminding us if that

[@donnettehenry3764]

Charisma God has chosen you for cole you are a God a sent cole i love your strength and positive

[@sandraatkins2539]

How did he manage that?

[@specialevents9879]

That’s right TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER🥰you two will be just fine

[@colmmulligan158]

Myself and 10 other colleagues ran a 5km road race and raised over 300 euro for the Spinal Cord Association. Wouldn't of known it was Spinal Cord Awareness month if not for you both. Keep up the fantastic videos. Love from Ireland

[@gloriasmith128]

@Colm Mulligan, OMG! you and your colleagues are rock stars, this C&C squad members love you guys. I’ve learned so much from this vlog as well. Stay positive!

[@colmmulligan158]

@@gloriasmith128 Thanks a lot for the lovely comment, Gloria :)

[@joanflemmingkendrick1107]

@Colm Milligan • fair play you you. Learning so much from this young couple. Wish you and C&C the very best of love and luck! ❤❤

[@ktc0900]

Cole hit the girlfriend jackpot with Charisma 🥰🥰🥰

[@rachaelamayo7031]

ktc0900 definitely!!!!! This girl is a special human being

[@daisyhinojosa23]

Fiancé 😉

[@rissadawn2047]

ktc0900 yes she seems so down to earth, smart and shes gorgeous, but hes a very attractive young man himself

[@youruniquestyle]

rissa dawn Yes she's beautiful inside and out, but Cole is too. He is really good looking.

[@amytsiga8047]

ktc0900 it’s both ways lol she hit the jackpot too

[@berthaholley5334]

Cole was and is Blessed to have family and friends that truly loved him like that. Charisma came along and he is Blessed even more for her love also. Stay Positive and keep doing what y’all are doing. Have a really good life together ❤️❤️❤️

[@chrystieheath1791]

This was great! My son is blind and autistic, so I am his caregiver and this definitely applies to all of us. Also I love how much you can tell about y’all just by looking at you. Y’all are so in love with each other and it shows😊😊

[@mmsfoxxie1]

You two were made for each other, obviously.

[@Realitychecknique]

Omg!!! Seeing him so excited for something so simple to show his fiance that he can be her caregiver is beautiful. Love you guys

[@kaitko]

You two are doing so much to break stigmas and it’s so wonderful. I work in the aging and elder care field, and so many older adults need full-time care. I know independence is important, but I think we need to reframe how we look at it. Humans are supposed to be in communities and be around other people. Working together to assist someone is a really beautiful thing and not a burden. I know caregivers can have burnouts sometimes, but that’s why it’s amazing to have a support system around, and to reframe the idea that caregiving is nothing but a full-time job. It’s also spending time with a person. Ya’ll are the cutest.

[@tammymasson2343]

I am so impressed with Cole's attitude and perspective on life! I appreciate the frank discussions about so many private topics. These are the kinds of discussions help so much on so many levels! I can tell Cole is slightly shy about some parts, and that is refreshing to see his personality shine through. I'm grateful for him being courageous to share and teach us all. Thank you both!!

[@MsMoniqueAntoinette]

Charisma it is so awesome that you wanted to learn how help Cole with his restroom nerds just so you all could have a real relationship / more alone time . i respect you and Cole so much Thanks for sharing what y'all do and who y'all are

[@allyrooh3628]

I'm new to your channel. I went from being a critical care/trauma nurse to disabled person in the matter of 30 minutes at age 33. I love this video. I understand both sides of the patient bed, neither is easy. I have been fortunate to be married to my love for 28 years. He helps care for me, but he realizes I'm still the same person I was before. You two have what people of all abilities strive to have their whole lives. Thank you for sharing so openly the concerns, questions, and private moments that so many wonder about.

[@sanjafiliposka]

The way they look at each other.. Magical.. ❤️

[@Free2BeRiRi]

I just can’t get over how cute y’all are 🥰

[@debrapaulino918]

Ain't that so true? I can't make up my mind which is cuter lol. Two cupcakes. One chocolate. One vanilla. With sprinkles.

[@kendrajohnson8255]

IKR!!!

[@traceyhulin4328]

Right.

[@mariaelliott706]

I just love this. I was a caregiver to my parents for 9 years and although hard I did it out of love. You two are blessed to have each other and such a great support network. Many hands make any load lite. ❤️❤️❤️

[@GeorgeJansen]

I will always enjoy seeing the love on Charismas face when she looks at Coleezy' ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@shaneluke346]

As they COLE and CHARISMA are ENGAGED to be Married , I think she SHOULD help Cole as much as he will allow her to as one day she will be HIS WIFE , I gather he will ALWAY'S need some sort of assistance

[@shaneluke346]

Being an OT I thought Charisma would have had " SOME" IDEA what was wrong and how to help

[@carolynwilliams6153]

Cole has such a great outlook on life! I love you both; you all are so inspiring.

[@vesta41]

Appreciate y’all sharing and teaching us about SCI.

[@rissadawn2047]

Elizabeth Bevins my sister in law has a spi, I remember her talking about how good her husband was although not a perfect man he stepped up for her, and that the divorce rate after a spi is like 90% so I would imagine finding a companion would be "hard" as well that's why ppl like this and squirmy and grubs channel is so refreshing it just makes u have faith in humanity again and I dont doubt for one second that its real

[@deanawells4395]

This upcoming wedding is going to break the internet if you have it go live. The Royal Weddings will and have never seen the social media craziness that will happen on the best day ever that is coming.

[@hulietstrachan8697]

In

[@oklahoma1295]

Wow. This is goals. What a blessing that these 2 found each other. It’s eye opening & really makes you think about what makes a great partner.

[@mamadeebuildsahouse]

Just sitting here imagining the wedding :) And I absolutely love your support system especially your brother Quint because siblings are not always as giving of their time.

[@audreybraggs7567]

I loved when he said "Yes! This is my chance" when he was able to care for Charisma. Tears...I'm in tears!!!

[@CharmedR1]

Awwwww it's soooooo refreshing to be allowed into your world C&C. This topic if caregiving is so relevant ...I love how Cole was enthusiastic to want to care for Charisma and likewise how Charisma took on the role so lovingly! Cole you are a blessed young man and we know that you know this and is grateful! Hey C&C thank you and stay Positive!

[@SuperMjphillips]

I need 24/7 hours care because I have Cerebral Palsy. I need help with everything but I can use my computer and drive my power chair.

[@secrettreasures2038]

Sending peace and love your way! Blessings from Trinidad!!❤

[@cathyjonie7861]

I got u

[@commscompany1502]

WoW « driving power chair » sounds like your have a super power 👍

[@beverlydust5381]

Cole and Charisma I am disabled and I have to have help at times, I have an aide that helps me or family members it was difficult to get use to ,I was born with a disability but as I got older I was able to do less for myself, that was a hard thing to take as when I was younger I could be more independent but my body is less able to do things I used to do, as I think is the case as people age.You are right that most people will need a caregiver at some point in their lives,weather it be for a short term illness or a long term we all will probably need someone to care for us,so we should have compassion for those who need care as it could be any one of us at any time.

[@tawanaavery9840]

So true, as a caregiver, you never know what roads life will take you, but just about "everyone" will be on the receiving end. I have a great respect for the both of you. This was so humbling. Blessings on overflow 📿💞

[@beverlydust5381]

@@tawanaavery9840 while I am disabled I did have a job caring for disabled people, for twenty years but I had to stop because of my disabilities getting worse.,so I have been on both sides of the situation. The caregiver and being cared for neither one is easy.I respect both sides .

[@mercedesray9098]

I have watched your channel consistently for several months. I, too, appreciate your openness and positivity. I wish you both every happiness in your relationship and every success in your lives and business ventures. In addition, I thank you for educating me on SCI and for showing me that a great life is what you make it, not the advantages you have been blessed with through no effort of your own. Your lives ore great examples of doing the most with what you have. I hope we all can learn to maximize our existence as you have. May God continue to bless you both, and I hope to follow you for many years to come.

[@rachellejeune2105]

This video is sooo genuine. You both just let your guards down and were your honest selves. I am happy to subscribe!

[@RollingThroughLifeWithTALISHA]

Loved this video! It can be super awkward as a disabled person to express our personal needs such as bathroom help to someone we have feelings for in the beginning. I must say, people like my husband and Charisma make it so much easier. Thanks for sharing and being so open about the topic of caregiving.

[@tanyasweatland9244]

i agree its like if you have an accident in the bathroom situation you do not wanna ask for help cleaning up but sometimes you have to ask i went through this tonight i was telling my bf he is so amazing for just helping whenever i ask even thought its not a thing we like to do we do it because we love each other

[@gffarg1263]

@@tanyasweatland9244 Have you had an accident in the bathroom situation before and couldn't clean it up?

[@tanyasweatland9244]

@@gffarg1263 yes

[@gffarg1263]

@@tanyasweatland9244 What's your injury? How old are you?

[@tanyasweatland9244]

@@gffarg1263 its not an injury its a disability and i am 38 about to be 39

[@skj3365]

I just love these two people...Cole has so many great loving relationships to be there for him. ♥️

[@patgqirana447]

I salute Charisma...and i salute nurses too.coz of their great job they are doing

[@keishaj336]

I'm a nurse so thanks so much for being appreciative of what we do on a daily basis. It's not easy by a long shot but I absolutely looooove what I do and wouldn't trade it for anything ❤👩🏽‍⚕️

[@Godgirl1966]

Cole you are so mature and intelligent! And Charisma You are sweet and Bless! Baby time!👶

[@mavisacarr4481]

Father God we pray that Cole and beautiful Charisma will have healthy and beautiful triplets in Jesus Mighty Name God guide and protect them; Keep Cole, Charisma, their parents, siblings and true friends safe and healthy . Bless them all beyond measures in everything. I am putting up a big prayer for a supernatural miracle of healing and restoration of Cole's health from tge crown of his head to his toes now. We decree and declare these prayers in your Mighty Name Lord Jesus. Amen

[@nicolemitt1]

Cole you are so blessed to have found an amazing women in your life to takes such wonderful care of you !

[@rachealbusingye1628]

Thanks for the video. I was a caregiver of my fiancee for 1 full year .unfortunately he lost the battle to cancer. I love you both. My inspirational couple on utube

[@isabelramirez381]

I love to see how open and honest you guys have been, especially during the SCI awareness month. ❤️ you guys.

[@lauranunez7337]

Thank you for being so inspirational!!! My amazing father has suffered a massive stroke and before this he was an independent, funny, energetic 72 year old man. And now he needs 24 hour care , he’s not walking or talking right now. You have no idea how your videos have helped me in so many ways to continue to stay positive for my dad! I wish you both a lifetime of love and happiness!

[@bluesky1807]

Hi Laura I could've written this. The only difference is my dad is 70. It's been 2 years now. Just wanted to let you know that it does get better.

[@bethkanyua6209]

God bless your relationship. May you never ever take each other for granted!!

[@deew2923]

My brother broke his neck and was paralyzed. He recieved rehab at Shepherd in Atlanta also. They did a great job, it was a very scaring time for our family. My brother was told that he would never walk again, but would be able to operate a special chair. He never gave up, fortunately his injury and his determination allowed him to learn to walk again. I sometimes forget that he was once paralyzed, he walks well and can skip (not run) if he's in danger. I say that because someone targeted him and tried to rob him and he laughed about how he skipped away as fast as he could. Needless to say, I was hot as fish grease and it was not funny at the time. I wanted to hunt that dude down and kick his butt...I'm the baby sister. But dont mess with my brother and he's disable too😡👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽. I got really upset watching the video about the rude bully with the handicap parking space encounter you guys had. He was truly a coward, if I was a passerby I would have caught a case. Love your channel.

[@kcnmom446]

The two of you fill my heart... and I’m crying right now. God bless u both.

[@teresaharris3899]

Cole and Charisma I believe that you both are Kindred spirits and are destined to be together. Charisma the genuine love that just seems to exude from you for Cole is seen. There's is no hesitation in your love for Cole. You both have a gift in each other. I am enjoying y'all sharing your journey with us. I also can't wait till y'all get married. Yes, I am from Tennessee. Happy Wednesday, beautiful people.

[@pipinm2214]

This is very true, I have watched and followed many KZbin family vlogs, but never seen a relationship like Cole and Charisma, they seem like soulmates even if I don't believe in that, when I see them and their families together, I can't help but think that that's how soulmates are meant to be.

[@Millie-il7in]

I just Love how you two and your families are just caring for one another. The world can learn a lot from you all #staypositive ❤ I just love how Chramisa was so into wanting the relationship to be for you two that's Love. Cole, the piss on myself part had me rolling

[@perisndirangu1018]

Every time I watch u guys.. I have a smile .. even if you r ..speaking about bladder control .. of urine bag .. wow I still like u guys ..

[@denisegarland1815]

You two are the best!!!!! I just love everything Cole and Charisma! Care giving is one of the most difficult things you can take on! I care for a sister with MS and I wouldn't have it any other way! My family is everything to me! Cole is so blessed to have so many Angels in his life❤❤

[@juliadesl5465]

I was introduced to your family and this site by the Dumpy rescue vid. Just from that one vid, I thought Wow, what a beautiful, compassionate and engaged family. Then I hit on the “Princess Grumpy Update” vid. I was looking at other people’s comments and saw a person who commented on all the hardship your family has overcome. That lead me to your moms site and then yours. I have watched your journey, which is miraculous and empowering. I cracked up at the vid when you went to the historic site where Charisma’s dad was so ADHD!! Even though the vid was from Sep. 2018 I had to comment how beautiful both Charisma’s parents are inside and out. Thanks so much for sharing.

[@gonsahnr]

"Love! Love changes everything Now I tremble at your name! Love will NEVER EVER BE THE SAME". Beautiful lyrics to a beautiful song that illustrates a beautiful relationship. STAY POSITIVE!

[@heatherwilliams9073]

I have found this post and it’s great . You two inspire me . To keep my pe kids able bodied and to inspire me to be a better caregiver for my dad who has Alzheimer’s .

[@mslaurakres]

This video has given me strength as a caregiver in a relationship. You truly have been a blessing to me. Support from a distance.

[@monicaswavel6074]

Awww great video! My husband had had cancer in his colon and had to wear a bag after surgery. It was terrible because the bag was full and no one was around. Couldn't find any nurses so I texted his sister who is a nurse and she told me to KZbin it. So we did. I learned how to change the bag from the first day and it was an adjustment especially for him. Thankfully they were able to reverse it later that year and he is healed and back to going to the restroom normally. But it made us more thankful for good health. He learned to have compassion for those who have to live with bags. God bless you both! Very refreshing!

[@la-nekabrown6825]

Ok Charisma with the baby hair. I see you sis.

[@worldhealthrn]

🤣 what I was thinking immediately 😂

[@penelopenichols1654]

A sweet couple. Best wishes for a beautiful life together!

[@josephboyd4406]

The birds wanted to serenade you guys.Loved the video!!!!!

[@notocharenee0411]

I have dreams of having a relationship like this. Such a beautiful couple, inside and out! I wish you both a lifetime of love and happiness. It's been a pleasure to get to know the both of you through your vlogs. 🙏🏽😀💜

[@easyspanishwithluz6861]

You're right, Cole & Charisma, and thank you for bringing that up. Not much attention is given to caregivers and what they must endure during the whole process. I am the sole caregiver to a 24 year old son and it has not been easy for me at all. A tragic event impacts not only the disabled person but the family members who must step in and assume new roles. Life changes for everyone involved.

[@shuneughu4244]

Charismas energy is amazing She seems so pure and wholesome

[@phebophebo7437]

You both are awesome. Charisma you said it correctly --when you love someone that much you are willing to care for them. I pray for both of you always. I pray that God continues to give both of you strength -physically, emotionally and spiritually.

[@detchaczoble]

Caring for others is a calling. Great video! I have been caring for patients like Cole. Sometimes it could be though for the family as well. Cole family is great. God bless you all!

[@capitalfowler7021]

Cole and charisma I love y’all I am a care giver to my daughter and she is 10 it’s a lot she was born with cerebral palsy and development delay

[@nannyboo9832]

Man they are a gorgeous couple!

[@coleandcharisma]

Thank you! ❤️

[@traceyhulin4328]

@@coleandcharisma You really are. I fell in love with ya'll right away....

[@janetfernandez7227]

Charisma is one in a million Cole your blessed and loved well deserved

[@Mstees1]

You guys are too sweet.....don’t EVER let social media change you. May the blessings be🙏🏽

[@steadyhauling2236]

Thank you for taking the time to address some of your caregiving needs and also explaining how caregiving goes between you and charisma you all definitely have things down and I wish nothing but success and happiness in your days to come much love sent out to you both

[@kre.7339]

Wonderful Cole has a very supportive family, and Charisma. What a great blessing. Sweet you can't take your eyes off each other! Thanks for sharing.❤️️❤️️❤️️❤️️

[@joychalkley6289]

You guys are so open and real. I understand so much more. It’s wonderful to have family and friends who help. Love you guys

[@cherylsmith347]

As someone who needs a caregiver all the time due to MS, I find your story so uplifting! And you both are so young! I am 59, and daily learn from you!

[@cclegendary609]

He has been soo fortunate with the input of his family, and his community. Now a partner that understands and is involved with his care, blessed young man...

[@yessirthatsher007]

Y'all are so cute together! Your connection and love for each other is obvious! Absolutely beautiful!

[@realrosesforever3847]

Charisma you are a blessing to Cole and his family, they all have to appreciate and love you for your unselfish giving and positive spirit. Sometimes in care giving it's easy to neglect oneself without even realizing it so please Cole continue to keep an eye on her to take care of herself. Also, Cole you are a blessing and inspiration to everyone! Both of you have positive spirits and care for others and it's beautiful! The two of you - keep up the good work, stay strong and enjoy your lives! God bless you both.

[@msmith692]

They compliment each other. Very sweet couple. The kind U would want for besties!👍

[@aprilr.8052]

I think it's great that you both take care of each other. That's a major step towards a strong fulfilling relationship!! I wish you both years of happiness 😆!!

[@carolinekaka1823]

Thanks for shining your light for other people to be encouraged👍🏼💝

[@clarrisawilkins7039]

Omg. Y’all are both so considerate of others. I love it.

[@talethiaowens-wand8079]

Sounds a lot like my husband and I routine... I love the love you two share!

[@mauangmil8612]

Yesss Cole, unconditional love has no boundaries, you do all your can for the one you love, so you can be happy together. Stay blessed. 💞💝❤🎈

[@Jah_LEASE_yah]

she looked back like, "these birds are so rude!" LOL

[@missy12q]

My son is epileptic/autistic and I take care of him and recently my family helps me so I can work some. I love your videos, I love y’all relationship and positivity. Lately, I’ve been having trouble keeping my son positive.

[@janedoe1229]

Great informative video. It provided me a moment to reflect on the life of a care giver. I thought to myself how can I make life easier for a caregiver

[@mandyh9832]

I have no idea how I found your channel. But I’m so glad that I did. I just adore you both. Such a strong loving couple. Congratulations 🎊🍾

[@LeendaRella]

You guys have really opened my eyes about disabilities and relationships. I always thought it was intimidating but now I I’ve got a fresh perspective

[@pauluvettebrown7717]

I really really love you guys it gives so much hope to people with disabilities that you can find someone that loves you for you I have low vision and other issues and I pray that God will bless me one day with someone to love me just for me so I love watching you guys for that reason alone and more

[@lindaallder3662]

You two are a joy to watch. Hearing Cole talk about how he takes care of Charisma I'd beautiful in his condition or not. So happy his healing happened due to such supportive loved ones. Your kids are going to be so lucky !

[@undrac472]

Cole and Charisma I just love you guy’s Cole I know what it’s like to be taken care of most of my life my mom was my back bone. She had to watch me go through many sicknesses and lot’s of pain not to mention cancer, rape, domestic violence but I survived and when my illness hit she lost everything just to take care of me. So when my mom became sick I was there for her until god called her home last year, I just want to say that you two are such an inspiration and you also so that love can come when you least expect it I love you guy’s

[@toddsheffield4271]

It is awesome when can give back as far as caring for our loved ones. Sometimes people just don't understand how hard it is on us emotionally receiving the care all the time. The fact is we have to make it work and it finds it's own way with lots of love and understanding. You guys are great..thank you for sharing.

[@StellaRaeVon]

Botox is nothing to be ashamed of!! It has done wonders for my aunts SCI... amazing!!

[@corenecarter7934]

Stella How is Botox used beside facial vanity?

[@ShayPeee]

W00LYZ YT plenty of other uses. I know someone who gets it for migraines!

[@sublimesamoyed]

I work for the Rosalynn Carter Institute for Caregiving and a great quote (right along the lines of what you were saying) from Rosalynn Carter is "There are only four kinds of people in the world: those who have been caregivers, those who are currently caregivers, those who will be caregivers, and those who will need caregivers."

[@JamieLeeBunch]

Cole and Charisma the best love story ever! I am so happy I found your channel!!!! ❤️Love you guys!!!!!

[@Lisa-kz7vw]

I love how open you guys are and explain everything because people don't understand really what all is involved especially if they've never been around someone with a disability. I just think god place's us in the right place with the right people in life.😊

[@kevinspeiss8004]

Thank you for being so open. I have multiple sclerosis and in a wheelchair. I don't have use of my right hand, arm and leg. This is so helpful.

[@proudboricua6102]

You both deserve the world Cole you maybe don't see this way but you are inspiration for so many people Charisma you are awesome women's like you are diamonds....you and Cole look amazing together god karma bless both of you

[@bronelove565]

Welcome! nice seeing you again. My dear, some people are so curious over people lives that they make all kind of assumptions just stay positive as usual. ♥️❤️

[@rikaclements1777]

I agree disabilities are a family thing... I have epilepsy and have since I was 3 years old and I’m lucky in the fact that as I have aged and learned to manage my condition the only thing it truly effects is my ability (or lack of ability) to drive. So my family and my friends help a lot when it comes to getting me around to work and other places and things like Lyft have given me some independence. You definitely have to thank the team behind you.

[@fatimatoudiallo5172]

What an amazing couple you are

[@evettburke9555]

Well done guys. Keep the faith, think positive and never give up.