Do we face challenges being interracial?

[@karenaminez1029]

Great story. My best friend was kicked out of his house for having a black girlfriend. He was 19 at the time. I invited both him and his girlfriend to come stay at my house in the meantime and I don’t regret it one bit. They lived with me until they finally got an apartment and eventually got married! His parents refused to come to the wedding and cut him off entirely. But love always wins in the end. 💕

[@MHASLiyra]

You are a gem ❤️ without you who knows what other struggles they would have had. So glad they are living happier without that toxicity 🥰

[@mol-charles3616]

How long ago was this?

[@sandracheeks9332]

Bless you Karen for being such a true friend.

[@sepumomas]

I bet his parents support Trump too!

[@Andy-gw7hd]

I got married to a black girl when I was 19 I’m 37 now and I get more problems with black people then white

[@yoshiryoki2206]

When someone hates without knowing you, they hate themselves, they're broken.

[@despinachristakis1485]

Yoshi Ryoki That’s right, they hate themselves and God. He created us all.

[@LindaJohnson-rf7kz]

That is a perfect, but terribly sad statement

[@lesiebrown2509]

@@despinachristakis1485 that's so true because God created us all in His image. The devil out here causing so much chaos all because mankind would not read the bible and know who they are. Like I will always say, Racialism is a Spirit of the devil in a human being magnified in hate. God is love , we are His image ...now tell me why would you hate your own image. The devil having a grand old party with humans who dont know their creator. Time is short I pray that all the people that are allowing this devil to use them to hate another human because of their color to repent and turn back to God. There is a firey lake for the devil and his angels, it's not meant for mankind , but since mankind want to allow the devil to use them to hate what God created in His image , they too will be going there with the devil and his demons.

[@1967HectorRivera]

I was married to an amazing black woman back in 1989 and she taught me good. We divorced in 1992 but still remained friends until she passed away a few years ago. I’m now remarried to another black woman for a little over 11 years now and have an 11 year old daughter.

[@adriennesmith2133]

Paul McCarthy and MJ said it best. Ebony and Ivory = perfect harmony. God bless.

[@jacquelinebailey3118]

Awesome story !!! As long as love and respect is in relationship forget color and enjoy life.

[@gorgeouslymade1754]

Great for you... so glad you chose love

[@lilianjohnson5679]

Love doesn't choose who to love.

[@patmebg3794]

Lovely Sir❤

[@willyd7744]

I am 71 years old and in an interracial relationship. I've been with this woman for 8 years. We both consider you as Role Models not just as an interracial couple but also as human beings. I think your endings to so many of your videos "Stay Positive" means so much in so many ways. THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR SERVING YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE SO WELL

[@anastasia4001]

The haters are just jealous individuals who are miserable to see other people's happiness. You both are really beautiful together

[@clairegordon7951]

Only stupid people hate others for the way they look or by the colour of their skin or better yet for whom they fall in love with.. We need to accept the fact that God was the one who created human beings in His own image. Cole and Charisma, l have been watching you both for a long time and you've come a far way. Keep on loving and caring for each other and l can't wait to see your beautiful kids come into the picture. Love you both..Be blessed.

[@madgiereynolds6087]

God bless you both

[@mercymureithi1699]

Judging someone based on the colour of their skin is the most shallow type of thinking

[@odlinejean8204]

😁😁😁 facts

[@odlinejean8204]

@@mercymureithi1699 Amen said that 😁😁😁

[@Natasha-oz6ik]

The US is really a strange place, I’m black and married to a white man living in Western Europe, no one, I mean no one cares! Except for the odd American we come into contact with, asking weird questions about our marriage like we’re from different planets. God bless you both.

[@MrsNicolas]

it's your normalcy. However, in America it's different because of past history and present. It's going to take quite a few decades if not centuries, before the US has the mindset of Europe, thanks to pass discretions. I think the more people have open dialogue, the better it'll become.

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

Wow! The irony of an American going to Europe and acting weird about interracial relationships. That's so crazy to me. I'm not really sure what is going on the US. It's supposed to be so progressive but it seems so...stuck sometimes. Living here, sometimes I feel like I'm watching the progression of an autoimmune disease

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

@Angie Gi this is definitely not enforced here in the US. I've lived in multiple states here and got married in the US, and have not heard of such blood testing. I heard that decades ago it was common practice for engaged couple to get blood tests to check for STDs but it was not treated like a regulation and is less common now since nowerdays many people get such test done by default whenever they have a physical or some doctor's visit.

[@Natasha-oz6ik]

Infinity Nexus Reviews very, my husband is normally quite sarcastic with his answers but I use it as an opportunity to enlighten.

[@Natasha-oz6ik]

Ana Wellington 3.0 true

[@AaronShu]

As someone who has a disability similar to Cole's, I can't possibly tell you enough how much your channel inspires, informs, entertains and fills me with so much hope for my life and the future. You're both such a blessing. Keep doing great guys! 💙♿

[@danitapenn-green2347]

I love interracial marriages. There is nothing wrong with marrying interracially. Society can only progress when racial barriers are broken down. This world is just a mean old place. Charisma and Cole, I am in my 50s, and you just have to not pay any mind to hateful racial people. People are taught to hate, teach your children to love.

[@EnyaMooreBarbour]

“Change starts in the home” yes!!!! No one is born bigoted! Teach your family to love!! 💗

[@susanjoynes6395]

I agree my son's best friend growing up was African American he was like a son to me and I have a niece and nephew that are half African American and my cousin is marrying a African American woman my family is not prejudiced I also have Hispanic nephew and niece I love these two they have so much love for one another. Love you guys

[@noreenflaherty4309]

Wow such small minded petty people out there.. your babies will be adorable for sure. Stay safe LOVE your CHANNEL

[@nygirlinancworld1628]

Absolutely!!

[@lesiebrown2509]

Enya you are so right !! Racialism is taught!! I was once a nanny , and those white children didnt see my color , they all loved me because I gave them so much love. One race and thats the human race , and God is so awesome He made so many people with all different colors.

[@rickmurray3859]

In 1981 my own mother said to me just before I left for the Marine Corps basic training not to go marry a woman of another color. In 1985 I marry a beautiful girl that was not even close to being white. Was immediately disowned by my mother and family. All was well because their was love in my life. It was my life and I will live it my way. Yawl are beautiful together. Keep smiling and lean on love.

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

@@rachmae4180 I think you are right about the pressuring and coercion thing. I think a lot of these racist families initially intend to pressure and coerce you into changing your mind and think they will prevail, and then their pride and idiocy allows them to take it too far. It really is self sabotage because they raise a child to be a strong independent thinker with the confidence to make decisions, then punish the child for the same traits.

[@jesslabrunette]

What? I remember my family was upset because i didn’t marry a Mexican, and i know his mom was okay with it but his sisters and some people would make fun of him because he is white and I’m Mexican. Literally his sister posted something on Facebook about me that said “what my brother has to deal with.....and it had a picture of hairy arms, polo shirt, jordans, and hot cheetos” when i literally don’t look like that, i can’t eat hot cheetos but everyone likes them? But yeah because of her i got so self conscious about my body hair, which everyone has. She would try to call me ugly because i am brown but after a few years i just yeeted her out of my life and he did so too. I just hate the fact that someone could be so racist....just because i was with a white man. Now we have a little boy and he’s just so beautiful🌻y’all know interracial babys are so cute lol. But yeah i just ignore people now.

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

@@jesslabrunette I really hope your husband spoke up for you after your sister did that. That was utterly unacceptable

[@jesslabrunette]

@@TripsCloudsPureBliss he did but she would always and still starts drsma when she tries to talk bad about me

[@dusk5956]

People like you keep paving the way for our younger generations. Little by little love will prevail.

[@carrolmw6682]

I can not believe you guys get comments that nasty! Some people are just raised wrong🎩 #staywinning💕

[@rayarena879]

There are a lot of sick trolls out there. If anyone says nasty things about them, they're warped.

[@miriamneal2086]

There are jealous of their love!!

[@CLDJ227]

@@miriamneal2086 Yep I said the same thing.

[@dila4834]

The trolls need to get blocked for life.

[@kerrishagayle9708]

I agree with you, it's just wrong

[@royper1]

Unfortunately, racism seems to be everywhere. Even here in Canada, a lot of people are speaking out against racism, and people are telling their stories of racism. I don’t know if racism will ever end, especially in the world we live in today, but I pray that it will.😢

[@anushkaa28]

Wow this comment of yours made me sad.. bcoz I THOUGHT CANADA was really LIBERAL.

[@royper1]

@@anushkaa28 I thought so too. But with COVID-19 and Black Lives Matter happening now, the bad side of some people is coming out. :(

[@Mytake584]

This is my fear too..racism won't end but we won't stop talking about it

[@bamilekewoman373]

Preferring to socialize, be with & date or marry one's own kind is NOT necessarily racism. I happen to prefer the company of others who look like me, without shade or hostility to anyone else. People are too quick to yell racism. I have a right to my feelings, just as others have rights to theirs; there is no need to call names or indict attitudes.

[@parrismack3576]

Laureen Williams the question is why do you not decide to socialize with people that don’t look like you. Are you scared of the color of their skin. Does that bother you? Bc that’s kinda what you making seem like. You don’t have to marry someone that doesn’t look like you. But to say that you CHOOSE not to socialize with anyone outside of your race IS a problem. In my opinion that’s what I call not being racist BUT BEING PREJUDICE. it’s your right to prefer who you want to be around but at the end of the day people like you... act like your scared of the color of someone else’s skin. Hope you have a very blessed rest of your day though ma’am🙂

[@mckennamccall5163]

I agree with Charisma, BUT! I don’t even care if someone else is “happy” with other people’s choices. Just mind your own damn business. I do not understand why people care who other people spend their time with. What a waste of time.

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

Agreed. People need to understand that they are not entitled to other people's choices.

[@MariaJotalhao]

Charisma is so beautiful, and I love the fact that she doesn't let nasty people's prejudice get under her beautiful skin. Way to go girl!

[@dottymamwacha2482]

She is so beautiful not to love. She is a gem

[@markieannexplores]

My jaw hit the floor with that 3/5ths comment.

[@freereinartstudio1463]

I know!! That is awful!!

[@coleandcharisma]

Ours too :/

[@mcontent9201]

Yes

[@mcontent9201]

Awful

[@jacquellesconiers7961]

I know! Some people are absolutely horrible. Pray for those who despitefully use you, for it is like heaping hot coals upon their heads.

[@karenkennedy1605]

I’m black and my husband is white and we’ve been married for 37 years and have a son whose 36 yrs old. We are blessed beyond measure. We’ve had some issues throughout our years but what was important to us was that we’re a family. When we were dating there were some people who had a problem but we just chose to ignore the ignorance of others. I’m so very happy for you both. I love your posts and I can’t wait to see what your future holds ♥️♥️♥️

[@jamey6236]

Awesome!

[@BayouKitchenGuy]

Thanks for sharing💜💪

[@patmebg3794]

Lovely ❤

[@SuperAnimelover100]

Karen Kennedy Love that ! :)

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

Godbless you ❤️

[@wheelinthroughlifewithbria7570]

I agree everything starts at home!

[@fmfdocbotl4358]

What if home is surrounded by racists. My mom grew up in the south during civil rights era and as soon as she graduated high school left for the military. The first time I heard the n word was when I was about 7 because I was watching soul train and dancing. I been married 22 yrs to a black woman and her family hasnt been part of my life for 30 yrs

[@sharonharrilchak1365]

You are such a loving couple and your children will be absolutely beautiful inside and out because I know you will raise them to be good people.

[@feliciaj8690]

Y'all a loving couple and it shows. People who is very miserable in life want other people to be miserable. Don't pay any attention to those negativities. May God keep blessing you doing y'all Journey. Because you too are made for each other. Opposite do attract. I should know, my husband and I are opposite we've been married 27 years.

[@gailclarke206]

Misery loves company!

[@maryannbroussard7938]

Charisma, you're beautiful and such a free spirit. Can you guys give me a "SHOUT OUT," please. It would make my day. Be safe and live life to the fullest everyday, you two were made for each other. Have you noticed that both of you have dimples?!♥️🌻🌹🍀🤗🙃🤣🐅🐞🐕🐩😓🤷‍♂️🌻♥️🤷🏽‍♀️🍬🙆‍♂️🌹🙆‍♀️😂✌🏼🐢🤙🏽🤣🦄🐙🐩🦆🐎Can I get personal? Thank you. Are you all planning to start a family right away after your beautiful wedding, we all are looking forward to seeing a little blonde Cole or a cute little dimpled Charisma.🦄🦆🐩🐥🐙🐢🐞🐕🍀🥀🐙 🐹🐑🐇🐥🦁 Love you guys and be safe. Mary Ann 🤗😋😘

[@b2kzangelalwayz]

Being different races means opposites?

[@jessicabranch4641]

I am also in an interracial and interabled relationship. I understand what you go through. Also appreciate the Lovings’ story.

[@olawunmiruby1953]

@nelson Lea what does this mean exactly?

[@olawunmiruby1953]

@nelson Lea I don’t know what to say to you except to tell you to seek help early for your shallow and small mindedness. Please check out wags of sci on instagram and get educated please. Most of the wives and girl friends are white. Jesus loves you, surrender your life to Him today.

[@justkidding7523]

It’s incredibly important to have these sort of conversations. These conversations need to happen. They don’t need to be difficult subjects. People make it difficult. I’m glad you both use your platform to talk about the these issues.

[@thobilembambo3774]

I'm addicted to this channel.. positivity, love, and happiness dose. (Love from South Africa)

[@amandamorrill2543]

My husband always says to me “I’m so proud of our loving interracial marriage” lol. We’ve had fun over the years learning about each other’s different cultures and heritage. My parents are also an interracial couple and had to overcome a lot of racism and bigotry even within their own families to keep the love alive. Both sides eventually warmed up to them once the grandkids came. (Yes, we were that cute). =) You two are awesome. Keep speaking your truth and spreading that positivity!

[@kat1984]

My boyfriend and I still run into racism. We've been together for 13 years (not married). I don't understand why the amount of melanin in his skin means we shouldn't be together

[@patmebg3794]

I agree

[@lesiebrown2509]

Kathryn ....racialism is a Spirit of the devil magnified in hate, it's not the people that hate another race it's the Spirit of the devil that is using that person to hate another person. The only way that person would be free from all that hate is to repent to God for hating on a person He created in His image and give their lives to God. That Spirit of hate will continue in the world unless mankind repents and stop allowing that Spirt to use them to carry out his wicked acts.

[@Xxaire31]

Depends on who is taking issue as to their reason.

[@alexandralaye41]

@@lesiebrown2509 Amen. My Pastor did a teaching on this. He also said racism is ancient

[@lesiebrown2509]

@FancyTruth Amen!!!

[@SuperMjphillips]

Somebody called yall a 3/5th of a person that would have made my blood boil and someone called Cole half of a man. That is just racist. Cole and Charisma I have yall backs.

[@sntn1]

Cole is my guy. Love the comment "do you have a license to carry those" 😁

[@zoetbulle8919]

whatever Cole and Charisma said in their prayers. amen 🙏

[@daneliec]

Yesss!

[@wowodoudinchengxurouroufen6939]

Amen sister.

[@kristytaylor4851]

And Lauren and Cameron...🙏 lol

[@baekage7002]

Kristy Taylor That part!!! 🙏🏼🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@yolantida]

Cole is a courageous man, Charisma is such an angel!

[@mybabynicky]

I know that this may sound stupid, but i honestly didn't see them as an interracial couple, i just see them as a couple. Anybody feels the same way? 🤔😂😂

[@rajammajohn6060]

Yeah same here

[@yolo.kay4191]

Same

[@gncarnes]

Kinda. I do see them as an interracial couple (with an emphasis on COUPLE). It doesn't bother me in the least, though especially since two of my brothers married women of another race. The most important thing for anyone should be that the two are compatible. There is some same- race marriage that shouldn't happen, by the way.

[@dorothyclabaugh1488]

Yeah i remember on my pool league me and a young Hispanic man had this conversation.he said it best nowadays nobody gives a blank.times r changing.

[@angelabrown4938]

You were raised right!

[@lavendreblush7897]

Cole is not bad looking himself. I watched many of his videos. He is determined and hard working. Love it!!! I bet a lot of "normal people" can't measure up to cole. I know.

[@sigrunwestrus68]

I'm Norwegian and my husband was Dutch. I'm now a widow, but we had 52 wonderful years together. I have lived al over Europe and in my 'world', people marry who ever they fall in love with. Black-white- yellow..... who cares? You are lucky when you find someone to love and be loved back. As an European I find the US scary! Stay strong and lots of love to you both!

[@stefanross8129]

..... As European born I find the US a bit scary too, and now wayyyyyyy too Politically correct. AWFUL.

[@sigrunwestrus68]

@DeathBecomesHer I'm confused. Where in my comment do I say that political correctness scares me? Violence in all forms scares me and being political correct shouldn't be something you have to learn but something naturally.

[@rebekah3483]

@@sigrunwestrus68 she was talking to Stephan Ross. That's why his name is blue in front of her comment.

[@amxx3291]

that's right, Europeans don't care as much and if they have issues with it, they say nothing.

[@tmc1373]

Yes, it's an absolutely scary race-obsessed place! NO other country is like it.

[@paulahummel4641]

3/5 a person!🤬 I guess that's the kind of comment you get from someone who only uses 1/5 of their brain.

[@joyceakufo7945]

Paula Hummel I agree with you a 101%.. I think they use 0/5 of their 🧠

[@lesiebrown2509]

Paula that person needs to know their creator , if that person know that they are hating on their own self becsuse we were all created by one man and his name is Adam, if they only know that we are all one lol The devil have them all saying foolishness!!! If they only know that God created us all humans in His image and likeness they would stop all the silly talk and know that we are all one blood and one race . The human race with many colors

[@ZedRN]

LOL, this is so good!

[@yolyn5861]

Yes, and it is stated in the US Constitution. If your country deemed you as inferior, how do you overcome?

[@kocominaj6599]

The best message I've heard in weeks. *Just be happy for others*

[@mervielledejong5685]

Hi guys. Thanks for the positive message. I met my husband in high school that was in 1996..he is Dutch from Amsterdam he is white.. we have so much love for each other and nothing and no one could keep us apart.2020 with gods will still going strong. So like you always see stay positive 😍..all the love from Dubai!🥰

[@mysisterskeeper256]

I'm a black woman married to a white man happily for 12 years. I have experienced hate on his side of the family, but I also experienced love. We have subtle things that happen to us like for instance when we go out to eat we are never look at as a couple. We are often given separate checks and I even had waitresses completely ignore me like I wasn't there. I don't care though and I would go through it all over again to be with the man that I love.

[@marylee4390]

That's when you're suppose to lean over and give a big juicy kiss .Then smile and wink at the waitress.

[@MrsNicolas]

@@marylee4390 I agree with you. That's that passive aggressive bull and I wouldn't given my man a nice big kiss.

[@lesiebrown2509]

Speaking truth I'm also married to a white guy and we love each other and we dont care what people say .. when they stear my husband tells them take a pic it would last longer 😂😂... I also say if people know their creator and how he said he may all of us humans in His image they would stop all the hate and love each other.

[@pinkmosquito22]

You should care, that is completely unacceptable!! People are people no matter the color of the skin and should be judged not on that but as individuals! We as a society NEED to STOP grouping people no matter the "category" we put them in and instead consider every person as just that... A person.

[@biancagutierrez6614]

Wow. That is so fucked up and sad! I would’ve been all over my husband at that restaurant! Like haha, oh, you’re uncomfortable?? Lemme make you REAL uncomfortable. Makes me so angry.

[@nadinelduval7754]

I hope you guys blocked these peoples with negative comments. Cannot wait to see your children 👶. I love you guys so much. Please stay safe and healthy for the big day. 💕💗💪👏👍🏾🇭🇹

[@delisalewis3245]

To conquer racism and prejudice we need to educate our children, families and communities. It's just an acceptable heart and an open mind. Love you guys from Trinidad & Tobago🇹🇹

[@lauradavis4174]

They are a cute, happy, and adorable couple. It's beautiful to see them together. Some people need to mind their own business if they can't be positive.

[@frankieboy1212]

Y’all just gave me another reason why I like watching your videos. Stay positive.

[@corkipollock7617]

Omg. People are crazy! Cole, you hit the jackpot with this beautiful woman...I love her and I love you....your babies will be the cutest babies ever and I can’t wait to see them❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕😘😘😘😘

[@Paula_KentuckyRed]

I was taught by my parents we’re all member of the human race, our differences make us unique. Although we are all different in some way, it doesn’t make anyone better or worse because of our differences. If you treat everyone with kindness , most people will treat you the same in return. I’ve always tried to live by what I was taught. I love you two and I think your babies will not only be beautiful on the outside but on the inside as well, because their parents will teach them by example. 🦋

[@darknesofnight4u]

I really wish people would spend just as much energy as they do focus on race on just seeing people as people. There's no such thing as race... just human...

[@vh7637]

💯

[@traceyhulin4328]

I totally agree with you.

[@halfheartedniki6207]

Thank you two for sharing the Loving Day story. I about spit out my beverage at the 3/5th comment. 🤬 This is why our history needs to be taught, so we can all learn from the mistakes of our past. Our cultures need to be exalted so we can appreciate and love one another more.

[@angelamatyko7276]

My daughter and her boyfriend plan to marry and are also interracial (in the south). They have experienced racism u mentioned regularly. But they have also had the same conversations you shared. Thank you for being so open and honest. Great examples to others of how to see and treat one another.

[@Glueby]

You guys give me and my girlfriend hope for our future. Thank you so much ❤️

[@sunflowermom51]

You are a beautiful couple, both inside and out. Charisma, your name was divinely inspired. Cole, you are an inspiration, how you live your life to enlighten and encourage others. Both of you... keep on keeping on.

[@oceanamber9378]

Love is love 💕 POINT BLANK PERIOD 💕 I love you guys so much. Thank you for being such positive role models and being yourself and making your voices heard 💕

[@margedeogee8525]

After watching your video the old adage of "you can't fix stupid" is the first thing that comes to mind. I know comments like that must hurt to read but you two are much more than rude and untrue words typed on an electronic keyboard. You two are such an inspiration for so many people and it proves once again that when God answers prayers he gives us what we need and not what we ask for. The only way to overcome those with the nasty comments is to keep doing what you are doing "staying positive and living it every day".

[@Lena-qk2cg]

Is soooo cute how cole looks at carisma when she talks about kids! no matter what people say you are a beautiful couple, I love to seeing you and seeing how much you love each other. Greetings from Colombia!

[@Deano_P]

I love you guys so so much. I love both your accents too. 😂❤ . I am a black guy and I have Autism and some people always think that i am doing something bad when I am not. I had the police called on me a few times too. But not just because of my autism. I find it hard to be in public with a lot of people so I mostly stay at home. Your videos make so so happy. ❤❤

[@oasisagee1468]

Yall are the cutest couple ever!!🥰❤️

[@gwynethhenke8296]

I love hearing you guys say that you're proud of your relationship. As you SHOULD be.

[@ceeceebart6676]

I was truly upset by the video that I watched yesterday it brought me to tears, I had to wait until today to post my comment.... I am in my 70’s and I was sadden that after all these years society has not change for some people. Please know that my prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 will be with you always, and continue to stay positive 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@lesiebrown2509]

Cee cee society will continue to be the way it is until mankind return back to God. Mankind has strayed away from their creator so they do not know who they are, they are made in Gods image and God is love . Mankind suppose to love each other and not hate. Hate is of the devil , and it's the devil that is working through mankind do cause all this chaos and separation. God said people perish because they lack knowledge, if mankind only know that they are God image and He is love , they would love each other. So mankind needs to repent and turn from their wicked ways ,pray , seek God and God will heal our nation from racism

[@teetawn9454]

@@lesiebrown2509 Amen

[@juliegrajek5322]

Imagine everyone being able to see people for who they are , not what they look like !!! It's so simple yet hard for those resistance to change. Charisma- your a beautiful person inside and out. It's so endearing to see how much you care, respect, love Cole ! So REAL cause action proves louder than words. You show it everyday girl ! I'm sure people who REALLY know you will agree with me. Even though I don't personally know you, I can understand how you feel when resistance come your way. I am Asian and my husband is Caucasian . Married 20 years this year and 23 years total- and counting ! ........ 2 BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. In my experience, time has been the biggest change in resistant people . More noticed my character - staying devoted to my marriage than my appearance. May you and Cole have a long long long long long marriage ! God Bless

[@lindawashington5171]

don't be color blind - be color blessed!!! I just read that message!

[@AA-yb6jw]

Love this😍

[@Aralk998]

Hearing what you guy have to go through and what people say to you make me lose a bit of faith in humanity, but seeing how strong you are together and how much you love each other brings it back. Keep loving 💙

[@mikegriffin6345]

I love you both and don’t listen to the extremist from either side. God lives you both just the way you are and together. Rest in that and everything will be all right.?😊👍

[@lesiebrown2509]

Mike that's right God is love and He created all humans in His image so there is no need for us to hate each other because of color smh , the devil really causing chaos in this world and if people only get to know their creator there would not be so much hate in the world .

[@chaundasumara]

I really enjoy your videos. My mom is now in a wheelchair. I have been educated on the difficulties of physical disabilities. Watching your story has given me much knowledge, encouragement and joy.

[@andreaparham79]

I’m biracial, and grew up in DC. I appreciate you talking about this. My family often talk about race. I was raised black and even though I knew I was also half white, the reality was I had to live like a black woman. It took a long time for me to understand who I am, and how the world perceived me, but I did eventually find peace with it. I’m proud to be both and I’m happy to see more people like you guys! Keep loving each other!

[@SuperAnimelover100]

AndreaWasHere My Father was half Black half White , i just loved it !

[@TripsCloudsPureBliss]

I've heard that from biracial kids now and then and have to remind them that it's a responsibility and a blessing of knowledge to be perceived as black when the chips could have fallen either way. Would you rather have been perceived as something else and been oblivious to the trials of people who do not have that luxury? Some non-black people have empathy and refuse to ignore racism but many choose oblivion because it's not their problem. The latter is no way to live and let live.

[@hyacinthgrannum737]

@@TripsCloudsPureBliss I

[@cats1921]

Love the fact that u 2 are shining a light on a topic that many people are uncomfortable to speak about. I wish only the best for both are you!! You are a wonderful couple!

[@AleciaNichole92]

I LOVE YOU GUYS!! I'm also a Virginian (VCU Grad, heyyyy) and also in an interracial relationship and June 12th means SO MUCH to me! I'm also very thankful that you guys are talking about these conversations you have to have in mixed relationships both on KZbin but also in your own home! It's very important people are now having these difficult conversations both in public but also at home. Stay strong y'all. I'm praying this movement brings about a HUGE change for our kid's futures

[@ellove370]

The two of you making this video is SO IMPORTANT!! Thank you and I really appreciate you two saying "you're not colorblind"! Whenever I hear that, I'm seriously offended, for me it says perhaps a person doesn't want to respect a person's race and history so THANK YOU!!!!😉

[@margiemayhew5214]

I love their name. LOVING! This is something we should all do....LOVE, be LOVING to each other regardless of the color of our skin! You two are so beautiful and LOVING. Wishing you a life full of happiness and joy 😚.

[@evelynprice3976]

Amen

[@puzzlesjay]

My husband and I (he’s white, I’m black) will b celebrating our 25th anniversary in September! It has always astonished me how people feel it is their business to judge who I love. You two are a beautiful couple and I know you’ll do right by your future little stars❤️❤️❤️

[@judethfenton5978]

I love you both. My husband and I have been married 41 years. We are a biracial couple. Our children and grandchildren are all beautiful. Yours will be simply gorgeous. Keep on going as you are, loving and working out any problems.

[@heidia6270]

People are cruel. You both are beautiful inside AND out! I love your videos and I love your genuine beautiful souls. ❤️❤️

[@tommytobin6]

I think that couples from different backgrounds can fall apart because of a failure to handle differences, talk about their challenges (and any stress they create), and external societal judgment and prejudice. After watching you guys videos from the past, I haven't seen nor since any type of negativity in ya'll relationship. Those are the type of signs that you know that y'all heading for a blessed and healthy marriage. And the only way to guarantee any chance of success is to know what you're up against. I wish you guys nothing but for a safe and happy engagement... Showing you love all the way from Texas👊🏿👊🏿👊🏿🤠🤠🤠

[@birgitelisabeth9661]

I’m so sorry that you had to deal with such terrible hateful comments. I didn’t know that. I’m glad you brought this up. It breaks my heart. I admire your courage to break through this negativity and continue to bring us your wonderful videos.

[@bribricotin659]

How better the world would be if there was more people like Charisma and Cole. I literally have been bench watching their channel since I'm new here and cried like 3 or 4 times

[@donnafiebigshababy5918]

I have heard that story many years ago but am glad to hear it in detail. Thanks for sharing and your right about kids learn from their parents. I grew up in a large family and my parents taught us everyone is equal and you treat others how you want to be treated. So I raised my son (28 now) the same way and he has strong values about respect one another.

[@fatounjie7152]

Cole & charisma what is important is u two loving each other do not listen to those people love you guys

[@yolandawilliams9528]

Cole is the sweetest. He’s so gentle with Charisma.

[@karlakeller4739]

You children will be beautiful because they come from beautiful people inside and out!!!

[@donnaholmes1158]

Love knows no color. I am sooo inspired by you two young people. We got ya back!! Stay blessed.

[@beautifulrainbow6989]

I'm a black woman, you love who you love no matter what race they are. Racism is taught in the home. My parents taught us to love all races, was no discrimination in our home, judge people by their character not skin color. I also raise my daughter to luv all races, no discrimination in my house. All races allowed in my home. 💕☺🙏. You both are beautiful i enjoy your channel. ☺

[@Nona-413]

I'm so proud of you both. If we had more people in the world like Cole and Chrisma, it would be a better. Keep loving!

[@Nona-413]

I meant Cole and Charisma

[@markw.ruhnke9067]

Two perfectly imperfect people making their way in the world! You will be awesome parents and your children will be created in the image of God! Rock on, you two! Mark, Burlington, ON, CANADA

[@lesiebrown2509]

Mark that is so true!!! If people would only get to know God and know that we humans are all created in God's image. There is no need for hate .

[@MJ-gj6mj]

@@lesiebrown2509 The sad thing is, so many churches are tainted with racist people. God's love is indeed for everyone.

[@Taylor-xo8nv]

I love how gracefully you guys are able to handle the BS. You both are able to be proud of who you are and still be 100% there to witness and support difficulties around the oppression you individually face.

[@sherronguy5448]

When you mention the type of comments you get I broke in tears seriously it's mind blowing how senseless some people are,however, may God bless you richly Stay in love I'm still crying

[@marcus8016]

Was unaware of this story...wow. One that definitely needed to be told. Thank you.

[@glenroseeventing3090]

I was actually really curious for you guys to talk about this even though I know it’s not the main point of the channel. I’m Dutch/American and my bf is Korean and we can get some weird looks - especially because we speak in Korean. So I was curious what your experience was!

[@jackiehudson9965]

I don't care what no one says, you both are of the best couples and happiest couples but I've ever seen in my life. You move to do everything together and that's what I love about your relationship. Keep up the good work and I can't wait to see the babies.

[@imcodyjacob]

I’m so happy you two brought this up and had this conversation with us. I have been thinking so much about you two; and, how you’ve been feeling lately Charisma. Know my heart is with you and your family; and, I am so glad you and Cole have each other to lean on during this fucking crazy time!

[@chrystieheath1791]

People are so mean. Like you said chrissma, I don’t know people can’t just see the love people have for each other. Us true fans see y’all’s love everyday. We love you 😘

[@kellegaus6457]

‘This makes me sad that everyone needs to even have this conversation, we each have hearts, a brain, lungs and we all bleed blood. We are human beings and it should not matter who we love and choose to be with. I enjoy watching your channel and learning from you both

[@sheliadaniel2886]

I agree with Cole change starts within the home. People aren't born racist. I loved this video. God bless you both🙏🏽❤️

[@tolunimibamigbade8143]

I stumbled on your page a week ago and I just binged your whole channel. I love your light, love and the joy that just exudes out of the both of you. Very handsome Cole who is funny and resilient, and the delightful very beautiful Charisma with her enterprising and supportive nature. What's not to love? I just want to encourage you to stay strong and hold on to what you have. Your geninue steadfast love for each other will leave it's indelible mark on time. I started watching you cause you're an interracial couple and I'm always intrigued by beautiful people. You've helped me come to terms with difficult decisions I have to make in my own life and I really appreciate that. You and the surely gorgeous kids you'll have, will be an important part of history. Paving the way for future generations to come. Their existence will lead to even more civilization and improvement upon the human race as a whole. These times, with these protests are necessary to prove to all people that we're all equal non more equal than the other. One day we'll look back and say it's cause of couples like you, like the Lovings, that we are able to have what we have today. Just stay strong and positive. Like water off a ducks back it's a necessary evil to get to the other side. Don't let thier venom get to you. There's people out here who love just the way you are.

[@airenebanga2553]

It’s beautiful that Cole recognizes the micro aggressions toward Charisma. The fact that you all talk about it and don’t ignore it is vital. Thank you both for this video. Acknowledging what’s going on and letting folks know it starts at home! I love that you both embrace who you are and aren’t afraid. I say eff people! Continue to live in love and positivity!

[@aniyag2075]

Btw the woman(Mildred Jeter) is my bestfriend’s Aunt ✌🏾....(edit) thanks for the likes ♥️

[@ConnyNordlicht]

The way she handles with all is great!

[@carolynmason8348]

Is Mildred Jeter still with us? I would love to sit with her and hear their love story.

[@ajh.4131]

Carolyn Mason Unfortunately, no. She passed in 2008.

[@carolynmason8348]

I'm sorry to hear of her passing.

[@michelenorth2620]

Keep doing what you guys are doing you guys rock🥰🥰🥰🥰, some people are just miserable and hate themselves and want to affect others they don’t and won’t win.

[@MorticiaAttoms]

I need someone to make a compilation of Cole hyping up Charisma. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love y'all!

[@anythingandeverything4807]

I'd definitely love to watch that😍

[@msmechanic]

Some people are horrible to say things about people they do not know at all. Just remember for someone to act like that means they have been through some traumas and do not know how to show their feelings properly. No one is born with that much hate, it is taught. Keep rocking that swirl life!!!!

[@wandahurley7063]

Happy Loving Day!!! I look forward to watching this movie, even though I will no doubt cry. How appropriate that their last name is Loving! They knew the true meaning of love. That it has no colour, is unconditional & has no room for hate.

[@oliviarossi6066]

My husband and I had the supreme court quote read at our wedding. We also had a part of the oberfgell case (gay marriage legalization) read as well. Love is love.

[@grannymae1013]

I can't wait for those babies. They will be the most beautifully, happily, loved triplets. Keep on loving and living in your joy.

[@judithjackson1182]

Indeed. Charisma could have entered Miss America and won. Two people with high emotional intelligence. That's what it takes to look beyond outward appearances: colour or disability. Not everyone has that level of intelligence, Cole and Charisma, so even after this beautiful explanation, they still won't get it. Enjoy your happy lives! Remember that there are many of us who just really enjoy your possitivity! So we gonna staaay positive!!! Love ❤️ you guys! God bless you always!

[@traceyjones9685]

Happy loving day🥰🤗 we all just have to take Albert' Camus poem " dont walk in front of me I may not follow. Don't walk behind me I may not lead. But walk beside me and be my friend" cause a friend sees you as you are and accepts you. Much love guys🥰💙

[@peaceofserenity1387]

You guys are amazing... keep bringing that awareness... it takes nothing to be kind and humble in our speech to one another. That’s why I like watching your channel for the positivity. 🤗

[@tmoffatt2411]

What I love and respect about you guys and both sets of parents is you guys seem to "Love Each Other Without Boundaries!!!" I have admired that about you guys from the 1st time I watched your channel! God Bless You All and Keep Loving Unconditionally! Charisma don't worry about that dude who disrespected you that same thing happened to me at Wal-Mart...but little did the guy know my husband is black but looks white...No Joke! The gentle disregarded me as if I wasn't there but he had a full on conversation with a BLACK man who looks white and married over 20 years to a dark skin black woman! I honestly chuckle everytime I think of that time at Wal-Mart.

[@karlastevens9292]

I completely agree, real change starts in the home. Encourage your kids to love and respect all people.