Is family a burden?

[@amarillasolo5864]

Your wife and child are very fortunate to have such a balanced man.

[@janithgunasena9741]

True af

[@klytouch7515]

Yeah.. I think I took it from my father.. hmmm.. it is our extremely old culture of if you're depressed just walking away for a few weeks or months.. And comeback when your mental issue is resolved.. hmmm Yet our western culture doesn't understand that.. and yes marriage breakdown, divorce and sp forth.. hmmm reminded me of pink song .. Go away and comeback..😊.. I can't blame my father .. hmmm Because pregnancy pills as birth control wasn't invented yet.. hmmm.. I guess.. like that of gangish Khan wife's the love always was her husband.. 😊

[@anilkumarhalimani3204]

Please also talk about HOME SCHOOLING. Because in INDIA here many poor people investing all their Money to ENGLISH MEDIUM SCHOOL, by sacrificing their own disires.

[@ghoomantu52]

True home schooling is slowly coming to India. Many families are opting for the same.

[@uk7769]

You are on to something. I went to public school in the USA. It was a complete waste of time.

[@JesusSaves86AB]

Homeschooling is the best way, it's the original way.

[@lilcricket4379]

@@JesusSaves86AB but don't just leave the kid, interact show them stuff encourage creativity...it helps both. js

[@JesusSaves86AB]

@@lilcricket4379 That should go without saying.

[@_Wai_Wai_]

Family can be a burden. Some humans are not fit to procreate and be parents.

[@freedomformen2548]

Very true , meny people cant handle children . Making childeren is easy but after they dont know howe edicate them .

[@Kelberi]

darwinism

[@kimikimikimikimikimikimikimi89]

Exactly !

[@joetomgizzledancer]

I think you are correct, but... Who has the right to say if someone is fit to parent?

[@freedomformen2548]

@@joetomgizzledancer Yes thats dificult to answer ofcourse.

[@russellm7530]

Thanks Jon. God bless you and your family.

[@brandonandreski1709]

Family is a necessity. Love and companionship is needed for a healthy life.

[@MrGowdagowda]

For those who are lucky will be blessed with such good atmosphere... there are others for whom its becomes saffocation and toxic..

[@runswithraptors]

There are two families though and they often get lumped together. There's your family of origin which you are born into and can't choose or change and can be everything for some people or they can be a source of great turmoil and stress. Then there's your family of creation with which you generally get to choose your mate and create your own version of family which for many is their greatest source of joy and strength.

[@brandonandreski1709]

@@runswithraptors That’s true in which case I don’t consider them family. Families build you up and carry you when you are down.

[@raynatha4450]

I've been a backbone for my mom, 3 kids, since I graduated from high school. Later added my 2 sisters. I took care of them too over a decade. And after that, my older brother suddenly showed up again (after "disappeared" for almost a decade when he was success), and my mom "forced" me to help him. And he became my "additional" burden for almost a decade too. Practically, I must feed 8 humans (including myself). And AAAALL live in my rented house. And finally I was fed up and couldn't stand anymore. I was broke as hell. I got no savings at all. So, I let my brother go. My sisters too. Didn't care anymore. And my 2 kids already graduated from high school too. So they move to another city to work. It's left my mom that now I'm still taking care of. And only 1 one of my sister is helping me. And lately, the last half year, my 2 daughters whom work in another city, without I know what mistake I made, they just suddenly never call me or even call me back. Which is they were pretty close to me before. One of my daughter even didn't say any single thank you after I sent her a birthday present. I chat, I DM, none reply I got. Btw, I'm 47 y.o woman. Jobless, broke, heart-broken, and been battling generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) since 2016. So... I don"t know what "family" means to me anymore.

[@ceputehching-ching1503]

Hopefuly you find peace in future whatever situations you are in..now i am the only bread winner with steady income having to support a husband which do not have a steady income, 6 children, 2 elderly parwnt...before i also have a brother also with no steady income with his wife & 2 children but not anymore after he moved to other city...my grown children are not yet working..only one graduated others still studying...

[@ceputehching-ching1503]

my parent live in a rented house with no income..and i fully sponsor all their expenses including the rent, food, bills etc i never ask for any return as an adopted child i could not show my gratitude to them more than what i can do now...as they had brought me up..

[@ceputehching-ching1503]

my brother sold my parent house to buy a new home for his family in other city

[@Scrumptious_93]

I'm really sorry to hear that you've been asked/ made to take responsibility for everyone in your family I really do hope you can find a way to let those emotions out because you deserve peace and to heal and still have so many amazing years ahead of you. I would suggest identifying what you want in your life moving forward in all areas including relationships with your family others and yourself. Life is not over you have experience in the things you don't want know is finding out how to get the experience in the things you do want. Its not any easy journey but you can grow and change things to fit your wants especially your needs. And somethings may not show up how you want it to but it still maybe just what you needed. May God give you peace, love and strength to keep loving yourself and discovering your purpose on your journey ❣❣❣

[@ngip]

Hey I know I'm just a stranger passing by... I just wanna say i can see how hard it has been for you, and people around you feeding off of you can be real toxic and sending them off was the right thing you did and that you shouldn't be sorry about it and you can always start afresh anytime anywhere. And like the saying goes age is just a number, there's still so much more you'll be capable of doing from here on for yourself. Don't give up :)

[@tkilla1202]

Burdens don't have to be bad Khun Joe. As you say. In my humble opinion, and I speak metaphorically, we have to learn to carry ourselves; after that, our duty is to carry and lift up everyone else until they themselves can fly. 🙏

[@gsftom]

I think you are strong and have a strong character and philosophy that allows you to be an equal with your wife. You had a plan for your child and you educated him to be self sufficient and strong. You are not the average man. You have an inner peace as well as strength and strong character. Most relationships are burdened with jealousy and strife bc there is not a strong enough person to guide things to be successful. I understand this bc I was not strong enough to guide my own marriage to make it successful. I am strong in many ways, but not in some. I did help raise an awesome child and together my child and I share and learn. My child is a good person and citizen and works to earn money. She helps and cares about others. We both continue to learn and share. I was not strong enough to guide the relationship with her mom and it failed, but I have a relationship with my daughter and we work together to learn, share and grow together. It is something very special and a chance to help a new person succeed in learning to understand herself and the world. My daughter helps me in the same way to learn and grow 😀. If a romantic relationship fails, all is not lost. If there is a child, you have a new chance to help your child to learn. You can learn with your child. Build trust in that relationship and enjoy the results.

[@rogathesarwatt]

Camily is good if you are compatible otherwise its burden and is a prison

[@Christian_1980]

Truth. Unfortunately, it's prison for me. It went toxic and nothing is getting better. The only way things would change is if I compromise, and that would be the death of me. Busy escaping. Like prison break.

[@rogathesarwatt]

@@Christian_1980 im sorry but dont closw the door ofr good thing to get in its not you fault let it go

[@4cil3gna]

🙏🙏🙏

[@MrGowdagowda]

For those who are lucky will be blessed with such good atmosphere... there are others for whom its becomes saffocation and toxic..

[@theresegay8569]

I understand what you were trying to say, if we have too much going on we need to decide if we need to cut out something to devote more to what's most important

[@kkrriissy]

Aw you made this for myself and others here ♥️ I just subscribed last night so. Perfect timing ♥️

[@Education1992]

Family is very very important, that's why for thousands of thousands years human still make a family. people say family is burden maybe they have mental problems. dont listen to them.

[@Shambala_G]

Just walk your own way and don't carry burdens because you are walking your own way

[@amarillasolo5864]

We are all family...blood or no blood. You are a person first and a mother later, a person first and a brother later...infinitum. Face value...know who is with you, stay with your tribe...blood does not matter.

[@johnmathew4670]

Beautiful way to think and practise

[@jovhenobial2126]

Parents are the best teacher

[@mohameddoccali7872]

Thank you Sir for sharing your experience

[@aimeka4111]

I was there , then i found my purpose in life. Felt so blessed so grateful. And all the rest does not matter nor exist anymore. All are good as they are.

[@ManoharReddy26]

Relatives are burden they always want your money!

[@honeybadger8942]

Then why on earth are you staying with your relatives ? Take your family,that is your wife and children and stay elsewhere in your own home. You, your wife and your children will never make progress while staying with others.There will always be strife,jealousy,anger that will have a negative impact in your lives.

[@bek_ruby]

thank you for this video! please also talk about HOME SCHOOLING～

[@anilkumarhalimani3204]

Can you talk about PRANAYAMA & MEDITATION

[@amarillasolo5864]

Equality is balance Balance is not what you think So called balanced scales is stagnation Balance is up and down.. Ie: when one is happy and one is sad, The happy makes the other who is sad happy... If balance is like scales..then two people would be unhappy at the same time, there is not one to bring the other up. Maybe I don't explain this well🤷‍♀️

[@stebarg]

Thanks for sharing, Jon! :)

[@trttoday7440]

true that wise words...🙏

[@ajinash]

In Muslim..husband n wife thinking of responsibility towards Obey of GOD need from us. Likes a 🔋 having positive and negative to produced LIGHT (POWER)

[@renaldfranley2258]

Has nothing to do with religion!

[@ajinash]

@@renaldfranley2258 ..then what's RELATED WITH...im respectful your THINKING

[@renaldfranley2258]

@@ajinash every husband and wife want the best for their family.... this has nothing to do with being muslim.

[@ajinash]

@@renaldfranley2258 ....hopefully your believe were true...ensure you gets the paradise key before DEATH..to brings your beloved one together in your believe of creator indeed...GWS

[@JA-ow7yb]

@@ajinash FUCK ISLAM CAUSE SO MUCH PROBLEMS TO OTHERS

[@erichopham]

When I was young around 18 I wanted to travel the world alone, go whatever I wanted without any strings attached. But when I was 19 I got my girlfriend pregnant and now I have a 5 year old son, I missed out on a lot but now looking back I wouldn’t change a thing!

[@nishantkumar6960]

why ??? could you please explain?

[@erichopham]

@@nishantkumar6960 I learnt that the dwelling on the past doesn’t matter, because without it I wouldn’t be who I am today, sure, I had to make mistakes to learn but I’m here now. I learnt that family and relationships with other humans is the most important thing in the world

[@bobfitz7886]

Same I have a 7 year old daughter and 2 year old daughter I'm a single dad

[@bobfitz7886]

And I wouldn't trade it for that if I could go back. Even raising a girl by myself is hard it feels like it was meant to be

[@renaldfranley2258]

What you mean you got your girlfriend pregnant...... your girlfriend was there to right!? So she got her self pregnant to right!?

[@changeisreal2450]

The only thing that concerns me is the social life of the kid on home schooling. Did he live a normal interaction of the world around him or he become separatist? This is a lifestyle of some foreigners applied to their kids when they become adults. They have to work on their own and separates from the family. Theres always the positive and negative impact on the kid as a normal being.

[@antpoo]

A blesssing or a burden? A blessing snd a burden ?

[@josephinekalumba4014]

Thanks Jon

[@nhidu6755]

The thing that many people wish

[@alexgiorev7252]

Jon, could you give examples of what kind of work your son did to make his own income, especially when he was very young? I don't know what kind of work such a young person would be competent enough to perform and get paid sufficiently well. Also, In many countries it is illegal to hire people below a certain age. Thank you for your videos!

[@JonJandaiLifeisEasy]

whatever they learn they can make money from it .When they learn about plants in science they did not read text only but plant seedling and sell seedling when some of them grow big and have flowers they do pollination, when they have seeds they sell seeds . Some kids they sell seeds online their income more than their parent made. There are ways to make money from every things.

[@pritamsinghmatwani9892]

Hello Sir! I am from a small village of Punjab (India). I watched your videos and want become a natural farmer. I want to meet you in Thailand. Can you provide me the address of your farm? I will be thankful to you Thanks 🙏

[@JonJandaiLifeisEasy]

You can see detail from www.punpunthailand.org

[@pritamsinghmatwani9892]

Thanks for your quick response

[@milaschannel6557]

Hello always support one yrs ago

[@Thee-_-Outlier]

Without something to love outside of yourself life offers no meaningful reward. That something can be family, god, it can even be a pet dog, but providing for someone or something gives a real psychological reward. If you wonder how that would apply to God it's because sacrifice in the name of God is the same as providing in this regard, it's selfless effort for another's gain or survival be it providing or sacrifice

[@anilkumarhalimani3204]

You are Right

[@asmith8898]

SIN is this world's problem. They're just delusional.

[@swapanmanjhi]

I thought family is Unnecessary burdan, thats why at 25 not Intrested to marry .

[@kimikimikimikimikimikimikimi89]

One question why there is so called marriage certificate ✴️

[@kimikimikimikimikimikimikimi89]

@@MerwinARTist so marriage it's about you and you're spouse and society's

[@fly.god.infinite1626]

Maritime and admiralty law, ciest la vie act 1660

[@gowrhis6577]

Sir, how your son can make money? Can u share with us. By home schooling will they get friends as much as attached like school friends

[@billzepp69]

Yeah yeah people have their own ways. People also have a lot of pain and suffering in their lives. They will fight for their ways all the time not seeing that it’s their ways that are creating the life of pain and suffering. So yeah let them defend and fight for their way but the truth won’t go away and living in untruth is the sin and the punishment is the suffering and pain. Just my opinion do what you want 🤨 but the animal is broken when it becomes a pet I agree with you. But what about farm animals for food and labor I don’t know maybe it should all be hunting I really don’t know.

[@videotutorial5471]

PLEASE SHARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON SPIRITUALITY IN NEXT VIDEO.

[@alexanderkronick2625]

Turn on the subtitles pls.

[@gomer2813]

I can understand him perfectly

[@darrellgee1823]

you can do it yourself down in the screen settings (cog down the bottom right of youtube video)

[@sissybolt7860]

Marriage is the ugliest institution

[@cameoutofthecloset6742]

Reasons why family can be a burden: 1. I think we need a licence to breed as humans and prosecute rapists fairly because there's tons of unwanted pregnancy and selfish parents who weren't ready and never used contraceptives. 2. Kids need to be allowed to sue their parents for abusing their kids in any form. (From mental, physical). The law needs to take sides on children, not filial piety non-sense. 3. Heterosexual couples should be ok with swapping on taking contraceptives - if the guy is so worried about getting a baby for the rest of his life, then vasectomy instead of destroying a woman's body in taking pills. Hey just to be fair women play a huge part in being submissive too. Dumbing themselves down for being with a toxic guy, are you kidding me?

[@vintagedream80]

Nice..but in Asian countries why always men are blamed. We saw many women who treat their husband as slaves. In India for outside world men are seen has head of family. But inside it is fully controlled by his wife.

[@vaishalibhaip6415]

Although it all seems correct but I still have doubt that this people they don't do job but earn money my selling something but the one who buys this they do job and earn Money .. can this self reliant concept be followed by everyone

[@luckysimwanga2761]

Personally I feel every direction of life is important and depends on each other, what is there is just to choose the one which you feels suits you. We need those who works in offices to buy our products and those in offices needs our products for food. And so many other things.

[@chepindichepindi3328]

I'm happy single marriage is a burden from hell.lol

[@uk7769]

Happily SINGLE!!!!!! In the USA the pendulum has swung all the way to the other extreme. Husbands are now slaves. Thank you Tom Leykis!!! No court dates, no attorney fees, no debt, no drama, no bickering, no screaming, no emotional abuse, no physical abuse... know peace, know solitude, know yourself. "Blow me up Tom" Thank you.

[@-whackd]

Tom's not here, it's Jon Jandai

[@Rob-tm5bi]

I did trust and then I was cheated on

[@chriswong8659]

"Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose" - The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida

[@blakeavila4409]

5:04 bad take

[@mr.balawis9948]

A human who is not capable of raising a family is a burden to society.

[@michaelbassolino]

🌲

[@ahmedtariq5424]

Dear Jon, I have sent two emails to pareents with no reply. Looking forward to get some drought resistant seeds. Kindly find time to address this. Thanks

[@wisnudivayana2344]

LOL. This man let women have power. Luckly his wife not divorced him or cheat on him. I dont agree with your equality thing. Many women divorce their man easly, becouse the man is weak and or by simple thing like lose job.

[@vintagedream80]

True.

[@nlorens]

Wisnu you are contradicting yourself. You are opposed of women having power, but the you complain if women leave men because “the man is weak”. If you insist that you should have more power over your wife when you get married, then you fail to deliver, why shouldn’t your wife have the right to leave? Mind you, I am not advocating for divorce here, I am simply want to highlight the contradiction you made.

[@VitalityMassage]

Only a WEAK man cares if his wife leaves him. If you're secure, you don't care what she does.

[@erikvz]

@@VitalityMassage Do you still squat at public toilets tho ?

[@wisnudivayana2344]

@@nlorens "why shouldn’t your wife have the right to leave? " Amazing word. You just explain yourself women nature