Is Going To The Strip Club Cheating? Stripper Answers Your Questions | Honesty Box

[@ladbiblestories]

Thank you so much to M for taking part! Find out more at her KZbin channel - www.youtube.com/@M_and_the_city . Follow her on instagram instagram.com/m_and_the_city

[@feisalmohammad]

Who's this Lady? @ ?

[@GB-TX]

"I've been harassed more at normal jobs than as a stripper" 😂 Hard Facts.

[@stratvar]

12:12 "is there anyone out there that has got any morals, that is not going to cheat or to flirt?" Ummm.... yes, yes there are. They just don't hang around in STRIP CLUBS.

[@doloreschansey9556]

I've gone to a strip club one time because my friend was playing in a band at one. I was there for about 30 minutes, there was good music, I had two drinks, and then went home. Big deal.

[@TheFlyBullet]

Let her work in a prison, in two years she'll think every man is a criminal

[@009Daft600]

@@doloreschansey9556 an exception doesnt confirm the rule.

[@HurricaneIvana]

Great point 🙏❤️

[@TheHectic0ne]

went to a strip club in prague when I went away with a few mates, I went there because everywhere else was closed and it was the only place I could get beer ha. I'm happily married, told the wife about it. Beer was also cheaper there as well.

[@Gigifrancetexas]

As someone who worked in these types of places for years…yes it is cheating

[@brianarc2]

Thank you for your field research!

[@Poopinagroup]

Thank you for your cervix

[@Lawdylawdy651]

So why do you choose to be an accomplice in cheating… have some dignity and leave it to those who feel it not cheating to simply get a lap dance. I personally wouldn’t but think it’s fine and wouldn’t mind if my wife got a lap dance

[@Sub-om7hq]

@@Poopinagroup Underrated joke.

[@andreajennings3242]

I couldn't care less. I can't make promises either.

[@rickygrenadier6303]

I think she's French, she did mention working in Cannes which is conducive to this

[@Okinawatrip]

She does sound very French to me.

[@alextownley9388]

She literally mentioned France lmao. How did you miss that

[@RhythmAddictedState]

She's definitely French. I'm French and Russian, and I swear to god, she sounds extremely French, but looks extremely Slavic lmao

[@familiarstranger6891]

What gave you that idea?

[@pebbles4715]

She’s evidently got a lot of self confidence, she’s earning her own money, not bumming off the benefits, I say good for her. A lot of naff comments on here. I wish her well and this was a great interview, ❤

[@Mrs.Thatcher]

agree with all of that

[@iainmurphy7244]

Same here

[@mewe1023]

Yeah..As long as she is not having any kids to pass this trauma to them. Good for her.

[@小鹿-p8f]

"bumming off the benefits"... speaking of naff comments🙄🙄

[@angelagraves865]

I'm surprised she would be in a relationship with a client because now she's in a relationship with a guy who goes to strip clubs, which she said is cheating. Doesn't surprise me she has a hard time trusting people.

[@veselinjokanovic3032]

Well she said if you're not available then you shouldn't go. And obviously, her BF was single when they met.

[@gromcom]

It's not cheating if you aren't in a relationship

[@simergoth]

She also said she hates man, but it's easy to feel attracted to a nice client "with lots of money". Hu.

[@applepower5]

OMG! I've been following "M" for a couple of years now, this video is brilliant! Make sure to follow her content, she is super bubbly and funny and introspective.

[@TheMILVSCR]

We used to visit a Deja Vu location after late nights at work (prob back in the mid-late 2000s), and I was a smoker at the time. We had a lot of fun just blowing off steam and hanging out together, and our female coworkers would join us quite a bit. They enjoyed the camaraderie as much as we did. We went so often that the dancers would just hang out with us on the smokers patio from time to time. It was really fun to just talk and chill with them, and the dancers weren't just doing that so we'd spend money because we were pretty broke 😂

[@jlongino51823]

I used to go with my guy friends just for the sit down time just hanging out because they were friends with a few of the ladies and bartenders. The cover was free. The drinks were free. It was never about anything sexual. I had a blast. No problem with drama or competition there! Loved the times we had together there.

[@Hwiwnaoa]

Omg I like m in the city !! I’m so happy to see she got this opportunity

[@samv2023]

'we are just dancers' - yet a minute ago she was describing her 'weird clients' who got her to do things that were definitely not dancing and were actually pretty much sexual fantasies xD yeah ... I don't think strippers being sex workers is a misconception by and large Great interview though :)

[@samv2023]

@@Citizen876ix eh - I thought that part was understandable. If day in and day out the only men you met were the sort that went to see strippers, I think most people would have a negative skewed view of men. I think that's basically all she meant by it, and that she recognised it was a bias.

[@samv2023]

Agreed

[@cachedreamer]

Yeah, that is the one problem that I had with this. You can't say ''we're just dancers, go to a dominatrix for the other stuff'' when you take requests that would commonly be given to a dominatrix.

[@Velereonics]

It's cognitive dissonance. But I think to her there's a very bold line between sex and weird requests

[@alexandrodl1371]

Strippers saying they arent sex work is some major league copium. Own it. At the end of the day, the only difference will be the stripper wont look dumb saying its not sex work.

[@JW-jt9rl]

My husband got a lap dance on a guys trip, while I stayed home with our 4 month old. Its cheating. I didn’t think he would betray me like that. It changed the way I see him. I’ll never trust him the same as I did before.

[@Baalaaxa]

Would you say seeing a burlesque show would be cheating? How about a twerk dance? An erotic movie? Any kind of suggestive content? I wouldn't count getting a lap dance as cheating, unless there was a massage, etc. included. Or some kind of relationship with the dancer. But I agree it would definitely be disrespectful towards you for breaking your trust and the boundaries of your relationship, at least if he knew your opinion about it, and if you had an agreement about such things beforehand. Those things need to be communicated about, because different people have differing views about morality. But trust is indeed a very difficult thing to mend, once it has been broken. Maybe you need to evaluate what kind of a man you've chosen to be your husband.

[@stephmeisterm8]

​@@Baalaaxa then I guess you would be fine with your girlfriend gettinh a whole magic mike show just for herself

[@Meangirl22]

That’s so ignorant…. If your husband is taking care of his family and providing you need to count yourself blessed. It’s silly to even worry about something like that at all

[@AuraKumo104]

​@@BaalaaxaAllowing another naked person to touch you is cheating period. Just because it's payed for doesn't make it ok. Getting a stripper to give you a naked lap dance is no different than meeting somebody on the street and taking them to a room for them to do the exact same thing. By your logic it's not cheating if a married person hires a prostitute because it's a 'service'. Payment or not it's still unfaithful.

[@AuraKumo104]

​@@Meangirl22so if a guy 'provides' for his wife he should be allowed to cheat on her? What kind of backwards logic is that? Literally the entire point of a marriage is you're supposed to be committed and not do sexual things with other people.

[@Velereonics]

I think the ambiguity around whether or not stripping is sex work comes down to the fact that there is contact and requests that are ultimately for sexual gratification, but are not literally sex. Even the guy that wanted to be fed and the one who just wanted you to stand there. It's about arousal. So it isnt intercourse, but it's sexual in nature. I also dont consider it sex work, but I get why people categorize it that way.

[@10pmmemes88]

That's like saying prnography isn't a sex industry because you're not making physical contact with the projected partner. Stripping is sex work.

[@Velereonics]

@@10pmmemes88 But you are making physical contact projected partner in porn. I think porn is inarguably sex work. I think there's legitimacy to the argument that's stripping is sex work because she is doing things for the purpose of somebody else's sexual gratification even if they're not like literally having intercourse, but I also think there's legitimacy to the argument that it's not sex work.

[@melisaaraujo2604]

If it wasn’t about sex guys wouldn’t go

[@Velereonics]

@@melisaaraujo2604 thats a perfect way of putting it

[@alexandrodl1371]

There's no ambiguity. Its only you.

[@tan_apek]

She said going to the strip club is considered cheating because there's a connection. But if she works there, technically she's building connections with the clients too. Is she cheating?

[@johnybrokeit]

Good one! 😂

[@notjustanotherbrickinthewall]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@enjoystraveling]

I don’t think she’s working there anymore, I believe she said she was working there while she was studying for a different job

[@cherryslampa]

No because she’s not the one in the relationship

[@theowainwright7406]

It’s only cheating if you are breaking the trust of your partner. It would be fine for a guy to go to the strip club if he is honest and his partner is fine with it.

[@aaronlee2371]

A french accent with a cockney/essex twang! what a different voice. wow. cool

[@babalonkie]

It's like asking a bar tender if Alcohol is bad...

[@RobertCooper1999]

agree

[@magicalgibus3006]

Bro did not watch the video

[@babalonkie]

@@magicalgibus3006 I did... but the point remains and "Bro" did not understand the multiple meanings... which means... you should not be allowed on the internet.

[@magicalgibus3006]

@@babalonkie then you would've realised that she views it as cheating. Nice try lil bro

[@Baalaaxa]

Any proper and honest bartender would know and admit that yes, alcohol is unhealthy and bad for you, especially when enjoyed in excessive quantities. But we all got vices, and functioning adults can still choose to dabble and enjoy those things for entertainment, even with the risks, and not have them negatively affecting their lives too much. Most things in life are not black and white, but instead add some color and flavor to our otherwise dull and dreary existence. Never did a little drink here and a little dance there hurt anyone.

[@shamrock141]

Yes, unless you've had a very clear conversation beforehand, going to a strip club or getting a lap dance is cheating

[@subsamadhi]

@@shamrock141 no it isn't shit for brains

[@swagmama408]

Loved her personality! Great interview, people are always gonna have negative things to say about women who do this work, but fuck that! She's dope (:

[@UmmEss]

You'd be happy to have your daughter get her bits out for 💰 would you?

[@yessi1585]

She isn’t going to sleep with you mate

[@GB-TX]

"Do you hate men now?" "Yes I do. They make you lose hope in humanity." "You stroke his ego and he caves immediately and forgets his wife and children etc." Nailed it 😑

[@FrenkieWest32]

Then why do the job? Just for the money.

[@小鹿-p8f]

@@FrenkieWest32 "just" for the money, as if we don't need money to survive and as if it's not increasingly hard to earn it. but ultimately it's not her fault these men are losers. if anything, she gets to profit from them, so she probably sees it as a win

[@FrenkieWest32]

@@小鹿-p8f did we watch the same video? She mentioned the money involved; it's more than one needs to ''survive'' in case you weren't aware. They get her to perform sensual acts for some money. I bet they see that as the win and her as the loser in that context...

[@Nomad12780]

Such a beautiful and informative video

[@OKBoomer2k]

I say that cheating is doing anything your partner wouldn't understand.

[@tlanimasstool]

So calculus ?

[@OKBoomer2k]

@@tlanimasstool that made me laugh so loud!!

[@Sr19769p]

I changed the brake pads on my wife's car the other day while listening to Transformer by Lou Reed - got to stop cheating on her like that 😂. 👍

[@OKBoomer2k]

@@Sr19769p you guys are killing me with laughter!!

[@OKBoomer2k]

@@Sr19769p you guys are cracking me up!

[@Andres64B]

For better or for worse, I'm quite familiar with strip clubs and strippers. I met my best friend of over 20 years when she was working at a strip club. Like you said, the girls are just regular people. Most of them are really nice and some aren't, just like regular people people. And several of the girls were going to school and at least one was working on her Masters.

[@artair70]

What cope

[@Andres64B]

@@artair70 Uhhhh...what?

[@lisbonspotter]

Good guys don't go to strip clubs , that's all.

[@AlexAugustinex]

Yeah, good guys die alone at home.

[@benchmarked7771]

​@@AlexAugustinexgo and use blender more

[@AlexAugustinex]

@@benchmarked7771 will do, thanks for the advice.

[@FrenkieWest32]

Is that what you tell yourself

[@Andres64B]

@@lisbonspotter Riiiiiight, because consenting adults aren't allowed to do what they want. 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@milesy35]

Strippers get more respect than restaurant workers. Nothing worse than seeing/hearing a waiter getting grief for no reason.

[@MizzzzJVeVE2828]

I totally get your point and I completely hate when people are mean to waiters and waitresses. I think it’s the absolute worst when people disrespect restaurant workers but at the same time I think restaurant workers and strippers are completely different. I think ones entertainment and one is customer service. However, I guess they could go hand-in-hand.

[@4850m-ve4qj]

If you wouldn’t do it with your partner standing right there… then it’s cheating. Simple.

[@merlinrainbow2804]

I read that as parents 😭😭

[@4850m-ve4qj]

@@merlinrainbow2804 😂😅

[@FrenkieWest32]

So like making a sexist joke is cheating? Or smoking a cigarette when you're supposed to have quit? This makes no sense.

[@4850m-ve4qj]

@@FrenkieWest32 it makes sense if you have a brain.

[@MizzzzJVeVE2828]

I used to be an adult entertainer and honestly, I agree with the fact that going to a strip club is cheating. I used to fucking hate and despise when men would come in there and they were in committed relationships. However, sometimes their wives would come in there with them and have a great time each person‘s gonna make their own choice husband’s included we have to make sure we’re with the right people

[@elledee5705]

She is so beautiful and well spoken

[@shatteredsoldier81]

I used to be in a relationship with a stripper. I'll never do that again.

[@johnhelms8226]

The naked bar is not what it used to be. 25 years ago, they were fun. The dancers would dance, talk to you, and have fun. In recent times, all they care about is getting you to the VIP room, where they can maximize your payout. If you don’t go with them after one dance, they are mad and gone. It hasn’t been fun in decades.

[@missbosspants4068]

That’s because the nightly club fees and tip outs have skyrocketed while the stage and floor tips have dipped horrifically LOW, year after year. And the biggest ball buster is, inflation for both customer and entertainer 😂🤦🏻‍♀️ clubs are dying fast.

[@aleczandergordon1298]

French who has spent a lot of time in London. Like a classy French/ London mandem accent.

[@sinthe6]

I love the pure honesty girl 😂 you look so good! What’s your make up routine? ❤

[@dustinshadle732]

I think it's a little different here in the states. There aren't as many places you can go to satisfy other desires.

[@ofadetergentsud]

This is the exception. It's one stripper. I know plenty. All the stereotypes are true for the most part and they were asked by their employers to sleep with their customers.

[@kappaslapper14]

"Don't like men" Then tells us she dates a ex client lol 😂😂

[@kirstyackah9853]

I dont like men but unfortunately attracted to them 😅

[@ArianrhodKarma]

My ex husband was carrying on a relationship with a stripper for at least two years before we divorced. Turns out there were a lot of strippers.

[@stefftj3493]

thankyou for your info bless you xx

[@Horse-and-Butterfly]

I think the question of cheating depends on if you are there purely for recreation or if you're there to escape your home situation. Then again strip clubs are not really my thing so 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@julianduquemin7701]

watching Disney with a cuppa? sounds like my kind of evening 😁

[@LS-fe4ob]

She’s so pretty ❤

[@bigmofarah9084]

She has some strange takes. Fair enough, married men, men with partners and so on should not go to strip clubs IMO…but does she still take money from those men?

[@小鹿-p8f]

why shouldn't she? she's not there to make sure every man who shows up is single or has their SO's blessing. that's on those men

[@avikarpik]

Strippers are not doing sex work, BUT they are facing the same risks that sex workers do. Maybe she doesn't want to be under this umbrella because of her ego or something, and I can acknowledge that this interview is about her, not about her opinion about all stripper things... but many strippers need protection and resources to stay safe. Strippers are assaulted, abused, forced to do sex work, exploited or trafficked. I appreciate the distinction she was trying to make, but not every strip club offers decent employment.

[@toastyod8233]

This is the most self conterdictive video I've ever seen.

[@AlexanderHL1919]

You have a right to be whatever you want to be. More power to you. But you dont have a right to not be judged. 10:55 ish Humans judge and its important that they do. Another word for it is discernment. If you are against being judged, perhaps you're not so comfortable with what you're doing as you claim to be, otherwise why should it matter if someone is judging you? Everyone is entitled to have opinions including about you and including opinions you dont like or agree with. Demanding that doesnt happen is puerile nonsense.

[@haize21]

I think cheating varies from place to place and person to person . E.g in japan the husband has to like participate in many business deals which are mostly done in that closed shack with a saki and then the clients may have a prostitute and sometimes to not make the clients feel bad the husband who is hosting them fro the company also has to go thorugh it .and when asked to their wives if its cheating most said she wouldnt consider it cheating if there is no relationship between the prostitute and husband while many also said its cheating . Now if u went fo conservative countries even seen by another man or stranger is cheating or getting touched by someone even if it isnt appropriate and then comes the middle ground . I for one will consider it cheating and wouldn't want my partner to do that but i can understand if some people doesnt consider it that . If it works for them ,then good for them

[@小鹿-p8f]

an interesting thing i'm getting from the comments is that everyone sort of missed the part where she talked about men *spending money* to see women strip. it's not about watching women dance naked, you can do that at home for free. i also know that many women (not all ofc) wouldn't consider their SO watching adult videos as cheating. The reason this is different is because the man is going there specifically to spend large sums of money on another woman. i can imagine that especially if the finances are shared, and if they have children, this feels like a huge betrayal unless it was agreed on. also people thinking men going to strip clubs is equally "cheating" as what strippers do again miss that point. for a stripper, it's a job. it's her livelihood. she gets something from it that isn't sexual or emotional. but a man goes there for a service and pays a lot for it. why can't he get the same service from his partner for free? of course it's sending the message that the partner isn't sexy or desirable enough, which is more or less the whole point of why people feel cheated. so no, she is not contradicting herself and she is not hypocritical, a lot of people just seem to think that strippers walk around the streets hitting up married men so they can dance for them for free. and it's because a lot of people still struggle to understand that for a lot of people sex work and/or other forms of adult work is just that - work. and i get it, a lot of people can't imagine doing something like that so impersonally, but trust me, there are people that can. but at the end of the day, what constitutes cheating is actually quite individual and these boundaries aren't something that should be assumed but something that should be discussed and communicated. we're all different, sex means different things to us all. what might not seem like a big deal to me might be a big deal to my partner so just talk about these things early on in the relationship

[@maumas98]

If you seduce someone - this is entertainment. If you are being seduced - this is cheating. Right...

[@小鹿-p8f]

it's not like she's hitting them up on the street lol. they come to her for that specific service, they PAY for that specific service

[@maumas98]

@@小鹿-p8f ok, so the butcher is blaming me for not being vegan while working at slaughterhouse... 👍

[@ELLImellicaramelli]

8:30 thank you, "most strippers" (who talked about this in videos etc) deny it entirely although it's different for everyone but overall i think most would consider it cheating and that's why it wouldn't be an option to go to a strip club while in the relationship. and for me tho the problem (she said it isn't the first problem for her) is that the significant other looks at naked or half naked bodies.. like.. why do you need to make yourself horny or admire a strangers body when you got someone you hopefully love and admire at home? i just don't get it and never will. if you're single and even as a single woman, sure, go have fun but like.. in a relationship?? and if it's not communicated at all? although i really think it's weird to do it even tho you have a "happy relationship" bc it doesn't and never will match with my morals and expectations in a relationship. idk, maybe you guys see it differently or the same. let me know, i think it's a very interesting topic.

[@lb9029]

Well that's all under the assumption that humans are monogamous animals, which I think, given the amount of people who cheat or are in poly relationships, we have enough evidence to say that that's not true. Another assumption here would be that love has a one on one relation to sex, which is also not something I believe in. It's very natural for people to have sexual fantasies that are not about their partner. In fact, if that were not the case, I'd probably find that a bit weird or even creepy. As for communicating this sort of thing: yes, it's obviously better to communicate these things clearly. And if you can't, you should work on that. But if you're unable to communicate (lots of people aren't great at it), and the net outcome of secretly going to a strip club once in a while is that you don't physically or mentally abuse your partner, that's probably a less destructive way, I'd argue. Of course, that's also a sign that you've got important issues you need to work on. It's just that there are a lot of people with issues, and a large percentage of them will never resolve them.

[@Meangirl22]

Why??? Because men like and NEED variety

[@ELLImellicaramelli]

@@Meangirl22 well my man doesn't and the majority is monogamous. but like i said, it's my opinion and my expectations and beliefs. i don't care what you do in your relationship. but people who think like this need to understand or tolerate that it's not normal aka a standard in relationships and don't need to be surprised when others don't find it normal.

[@yuvalhuck5437]

I have come to the conclusion that she's British.

[@treavorwhitlock5606]

Dutch or I'm a laotia

[@treavorwhitlock5606]

Dutch or I'm a laotia

[@treavorwhitlock5606]

Dutch or I'm a laotia

[@thandie67]

how did you come to that conclusion??? 😂😂😂

[@donna6407]

Lol she’s french

[@yepthatsme83]

On the perception of gender part, M is comparing two different scenarios. The real comparison should be female strippers vs male strippers. Then I think it's the same if not worse for the guys.

[@МартинДиклиев]

Hee accent is so fun 😂😂

[@michaelcole4441]

She would consider it cheating if her boyfriend sees a stripper, but it’s not cheating for her to be stripping?😂

[@nenasiek]

Theres single men...

[@Josep_Hernandez_Lujan]

She's a former stripper now

[@shanechyba9976]

In the u, s, prostitution is illegal in most states. So a lot of people go to strip clubs and try and get extra.

[@Bunstonious]

Is going to a strip club cheating? Yes. However she has a boyfriend and is a stripper, so she is cheating everytime she goes to work? Also, it's false equivalence to compare PERFORMING sexual services vs CONSUMING sexual services.

[@Josep_Hernandez_Lujan]

Was a stripper

[@tubetop123]

She should try to be an actress. Gorgeous face

[@qwer-jy9kj]

She hit the point girls make The best pimps!!

[@Robs01]

She’s absolutely beautiful

[@RobertCooper1999]

stripping bad, hope this helps.

[@Andres64B]

Because?

[@artair70]

@@Andres64B Because it's "Oardome"

[@sugarfreeXcandy]

"I dont know why they dont go to a dominatrix" well, because you agree to do it too, but cheaper? 😅

[@historychannel365]

"spends a lot of money on me; doesn't have to be very attractive." usual, apologies

[@sayunara]

what about it lol. it makes you feel wanted and taken care of

[@Mambojambobombastic]

Cool interview. She seems fun and mostly quite sensible and smart, but her take on double standards on men and women doesn't quite make sense. There is a big difference in being a sex worker and a client of said services. It's like comparing a porn star to a porn consumer, totally different background and line of work. I'm sure male sex workers also get treated differently than average women.

[@randisallah]

Wow. Who'd have thought, don't take your girlfriend to a strip club.... 😳😲🤯

[@TommyCurrell]

How can it be cheating if it's just a performance?

[@shamrock141]

Because your partner may not be comfortable with you seeking out a sexual performance

[@TommyCurrell]

@shamrock141 you understand the hypocrisy of that right?

[@nissanzenkiboy]

“don’t have to be very attractive spends a lot of money on me” typical lol sorry

[@anthonymcnamee6297]

Where’s the soap

[@RustyVaperGameplay]

If he wants to be called Daddy he is not submissive...

[@TheREALJWMGaming]

Whats her name?

[@jackholt6860]

13:54 well no the difference is the men are customers being taken advantage of.. male strippers would face the same judgement

[@Wavelover33]

She’s addicted to probably the worst thing - easy money. That and a whole mass of psychological issues that were not dug up. I wish the best for her but that’s one scary labyrinth she’s getting into

[@Onmysheet]

Even dancers get trafficked.

[@Fiyaaaahh]

Why do you decide for her that her job is bad for her? What makes you think she has issues? This is _exactly_ the unfair prejudice that she talked about that she and her colleagues need to deal with.

[@artair70]

@@Fiyaaaahh Because they ALL have issues, you can't enter such an industry without having certain issues from it.

[@VAVORiAL]

​@@artair70 They "ALL" have issues? How so? What makes you so confident saying this?

[@artair70]

@@VAVORiAL The fact that there’s enough data on said individuals and there later lives of which they never recover from. You don’t come from said lifestyle without losing something, as one who knew a few very famous “Adult stars” by an acquaintance ALL the women are deeply afflicted without any chance or a return to normality, there’s a reason the average age they pass at is so low. You cannot rehabilitate a “street walker” in 2024.

[@tomxyz3889]

800 AN HOUR. what is this world bruv

[@JohnSmith-sl6eg]

Not McD or Wallmart

[@MrTaliz]

There is nothing inherently wrong with stripping or sex work. The only problem is the stigma created by people's perception(which has its roots in religion). Our genitals are just another part of the body. Why can't we work with them just as we do with other body parts? All jobs are about selling your body after all, it's just a question of which part. 🤷‍♂️

[@artair70]

Oh yes there asbloutly is, and no region predates this, it was an issue long before such.

[@genericchannel126]

Very well said.

[@nenasiek]

Im not religious and u consider it wrong, I dont look down on ppl but I wouldnt get in a relationship with anyone who works as a stripper or visit strip clubs. I will judge the hell out of anyone paying for sex tho.

[@bradley3125]

contradicts herself constantly, not a bad interview though.

[@montegrifo]

I guess I am old. Can't figure what kind of relationship a person like her would have. My late wife and I got married as a bond to share life's journey - and what a ride that was. What she describes sounds like life as a series of business transactions. No peace of mind there, imho.

[@LS-fe4ob]

Romanian who grew up in France?

[@misanthrophex]

12:00 baby, you work in a strip club, of course that's the kind of men you'll see. None of the men in my circle go to strip clubs. It's a very niche subculture. Judging all men by how some men behave in a strip club is like judging all women by how some women behave around red lights... silly. Avoid absolutes, there's not a single thing that every man or woman enjoys. Someone won't like it someone will. We're individuals. 13:45 are male strippers judged too? This is not a sex issue, but a career choice. Traditionally strippers aren't seen as reliable people.

[@Tedanson]

I’ve never met a stripper that was very smart or that didn’t take a lot of drugs .

[@iainmurphy7244]

To best of my knowledge, I’ve never met one at all. But I think it’s a fairly sure bet this interviewee is both very intelligent, well spoken and not under the influence of any drugs.

[@mrmacken]

Brothels aren’t so common over across the pond

[@martinstranak1197]

Is she Lithuanian by any chance? What accent is that?

[@India.H]

French

[@Wayzor_]

An hour for 200? Where is this again?

[@rhyswhittington8759]

shes very wrong on a lot of things lol, it absolutely is sex work, you are collecting money from people by dancing sexually. theres a reason its 18+, its absolutely easy money as well. you are dancing for a living and you said yourself you can sometimes earn £2000 in a single night. its absolutely easy money (which funnily enough sex work always is). you get paid very highly for dancing and looking sexy. (and she also said its easy for her to be on a stage naked) lots of contradictions going on here.

[@autobootpiloot]

Is a job still easy when it’s mentally draining? I would say it’s very difficult for sex workers to keep a good and realistic view of the world. That makes is very difficult to do the job properly but it’s easy money if you do the job poorly. Poorly meaning destroying yourself in the process.

[@rhyswhittington8759]

@@autobootpiloot id argue almost all sex workers destroy themselves in the process. i wasnt talking about whether its an easy job or not, i was talking about whether its an easy job for the money you get which it absolutely is. requires absolutely no skill and you can earn an absolute fucktonne of money if you are good looking.

[@alexandrodl1371]

Its really hard to make yourself look good while doing sex work. But she's trying really hard and successfully convinced herself.

[@HurricaneIvana]

​@@rhyswhittington8759 Exactly what I've been thinking too! 🙏❤️

[@小鹿-p8f]

@@rhyswhittington8759 you are so wrong about it not requiring any skill. keeping those men entertained, talking to them, pretending you like them and are enjoying your time etc, it's all actually really hard work even if you disregard the dancing aspect. personally, i wouldn't mind undressing for others, the part that would kill me would be all the interactions, and even more so the flattery and other sales tactics. also assuming "all" sex workers destroy themselves assumes they all have the same attitude towards sex/stripping/ etc that you do (presumably) which they don't. sex isn't a huge deal or even an intimate thing for everyone

[@Heykittygirrrl]

Ngl some of this feels like kink shaming and it's a bit rubbish to expose people's experiences ...

[@JonasFilberg]

wtf

[@kpahk]

meh

[@mvfF1Fanatic]

"If you're in a relationship you should not go to a strip club." OK, only dance/strip for single men and see if you can maintain your earnings. 🤣

[@Bluemoon4415-s5v]

I would like to ask her is it ok for stripper to be in a relationship? And if so why is not ok for a client to be in one?

[@Gargamel616]

€800 p/h 😱..... I'm in the wrong game!!

[@AmarD87]

You also have to factor in that the strippers earning that much is a small percentage. You have to compete for the customers against the other strippers. On a slow night I can imagine the claws coming out.

[@subysudhakaran]

Share this video with all the conservationists. She can being about change in people in a very positive way and i am not talking about how beautiful she is. Also very educative.

[@RaeRaenicorrrn]

you are talking only about straight womxn. lots of queer womxn love going to the clubs.

[@anshulvashistha8720]

Most egoistic and hypocritical interview I have seen 😂 But well 😂

[@lindanorton2088]

800 per hour. Wow that is a large amount of money. I literally thought they made 20 to 40 an hour.

[@fionanicholson1995]

❤

[@arishaafroz9968]

She is giving two opinions about everything

[@TheEternalOuroboros]

That's her alter ego vs ego that she discusses, probably.

[@jamiegreenberg8476]

these comments are sure something

[@pantsarmstrong7518]

The answer to the question about whether it is cheating for a man to travel to a club that exists solely to entice predominantly males to pay money to watch females (who the men are not married to) strip naked for their sexual pleasure.. comes down to either 1) each person's subjective opinion without God, or 2) some absolute moral standard given by the moral authority that created everything and defines what is right and wrong, i.e., God. If we go based on the standard that Jesus described in Matthew 5:28, then it would be "cheating" in God's sight if someone were to oogle at the naked body of a woman that is not his wife. Just because an urge exists does not mean that it is morally right (in God's sight) to act upon it.

[@kaps121]

What a load of nonsense

[@thesheeepjd]

" the standard that Jesus described in Matthew 5:28" That it is not a standard. It's just some words someone wrote into a book. You can agree or disagree with them, but a standard they are not.

[@kaps121]

@@thesheeepjdI agree, people write lots of things in books - doesn’t make it correct

[@Spratdragon]

I'm not basing my life around a book that's 1000s of years old. It's been updated before and needs it again.

[@VesperHelsing]

Omfg she's beautiful

[@jlongino51823]

Get your money!

[@constantinvasiliev2065]

(10:47) Just be who you want to be, ignore responsibility or consequences... the logic seems broken to me. (12:17) Maybe you should try looking for normal men outside of a strip club? And why are you judging them, if you yourself said you would like women to be able to do whatever and not be judged for it? Or should only women be exempt from judgement? (13:14) She is just so used to twisting her logic to suit whatever narrative she wants. She's trying to equate working as a stripper to watching a stripper. I'm sure if a male has a stripper job on his CV, he will get the same attitude at the bank as a female stripper. Don't conflate. Isn't there a difference between a drug dealer and a drug user?

[@mingwhachamang5727]

it's not sex work, but she says going to stripclub is CHEATING!!! lol

[@BouncyStickman]

She says that it's her opinion on the matter, not that it is a fact. Some see it as cheating, some don't. Get over it.

[@小鹿-p8f]

isn't kissing usually seen as cheating as well? kissing isn't sex work...

[@MrVinceMunro]

Depends on what you do at the strip club, but watching is never cheating. If someone makes you think otherwise, get out of that toxic relationship lol

[@southpawlibranine3511]

Hello everyone iam a moraless ho

[@stonedonjewels]

you also cannot type

[@鬱鬱-e2w]

sounds French

[@NefastusJones]

She says 'dem' instead of 'zem', so I don't think she's French.