Is He Stepping Out On Their Already Rocky Marriage?

Their marriage has been on the rocks for over a year! They're going to marriage counseling, but she thinks something is missing. She suspects he's messing around. Did we catch him in the act? We have results!
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[@devonmackify]

The only way that joint counselling works is when BOTH are involved in saving the marriage. If only one shows up emotionally and physically, it is going to fail because resentment will build up.

[@Madisontaylorholmes]

I agree.

[@jennylowe2498]

If you don't want me I'm out! Why even waste the time....

[@Madisontaylorholmes]

Baby I do want you. I love you.

[@kinebrembry6224]

I think the question is why does this person want to hold on to this if it is this miserable?

[@saraelisabeth9038]

This is tragic. I’m sorry but if it was me and he doesn’t want to be with me anymore I’m gone. Don’t gotta tell me twice.

[@dochamp2]

Absolutely, I have never understood men who are told they want to break up by the woman then chase them. Tell me your done and I’m gone!

[@valuba]

yup, the alternative of trying to force something is too painful and exhausting. Life is way too short

[@Madisontaylorholmes]

It was 8 months ago get use to it.

[@kcelaynes]

I love how Bert is so open about his marriage. And I love how he talks about his ex wife. good man!

[@pooh4025]

Having marriage problems and you have a chance to send free flowers and you send them to a co worker🤔 come on now he should have sent them to the person he supposedly fighting for a relationship with .

[@amilllion1]

He’s not fighting, the wife is 🤷‍♀️

[@Madisontaylorholmes]

I’m fighting for you baby. I love you.

[@laurao8099]

Exactly!

[@jamiersher5131]

Kristen, Bert barely remembers what happened on the show yesterday and you expected him to remember who suggested counseling first. 🤣🤣🤣

[@TBoneWinters]

This works for us: when we have something to discuss or something we don’t agree on, we say “Table talk.” We sit at our table, respect each others time to talk, and at the end, review where we agree. This has worked for 13 years.

[@valuba]

I'm wondering why she wants to rescue a relationship where it looks like if you weren't married he'd be gone. How long are you going to be this hard on your self. Even if he's not cheating you are not feeling loved. Life is too short to stay that sad and confused around being with someone who you don't feel even likes you. Ask him some straight questions at the next session and decide from there. I'm saying this with out even listening to war of the roses outcome.

[@snicholson8884]

Guy is hip to the game. Sending vague messages so he doesn't get caught. If he had any kindness in his heart towards his wife, he would have sent her the friendly flowers. But, he's being Mr nice guy and planting seeds for developing a strong relationship with someone other than his wife.

[@christinamichelleee]

Ding ding ding

[@Madisontaylorholmes]

No. Never.

[@frenchbluehen]

He might be hiding the romance because he is sending them to work. They know he's married, and it might not be in the policy to date work people.

[@teri4220]

Obviously neither of them are fighting for the marriage. To let sex go for a year and not even discuss why it's not happening is a huge sign. Stop settling with a less then mediocor marriage and move on. Find true love ❤️ it is possible. Sh*t I'd rather be single and sexless then married and sexless

[@ThesteelLion]

If you get a free gift that woman might like and you're having issues in your relationship you send it to the woman but you are in the relationship with it doesn't always help but at least it's a start

[@charliemoorejr.]

It is time for a divorce! You only have one life. You should be with a man who will treat you well emotionally and physically.

[@huguettejoseph3919]

I don't condone cheating but if you not giving sex and intimate you have no reason to be married in the first place people overlook 90% of people cheating after a year of no sex

[@thomassullivan5837]

They need a new therapy person

[@rhiannonhooper]

Update

[@WendyMartinez-qs2pq]

What child did kristen’s husband bring to the mix?? Im confused!? 😮

[@valg.3270]

Were y’all intimate more before counseling? Maybe he has trouble playing piano. Is he extremely self conscious? For sure there is a problem, because most guys want piano. It could be that he is interested in another woman or man, but he doesn’t want to end your marriage. He isn’t intimate with you as a way of not cheating on the person he really loves.

[@BarekHalfhand]

Fake