Is India Safe for Women?| Real stories and experiences| Albeli Ritu

[@AlbeliRitu]

Is there anything we can do to feel safe? Do you think change is possible? Comment below 👇

[@suneeshkachroo]

@@AlbeliRitu nothing ...... when you have rapist and criminals sitting in parliament dont expect anything to change. A citizen never asked for safety they are been kept busy with religion politics.

[@deepikashelly]

Yes we can do .education begins at home.when u hear of few reported case,eg a7year old violated by a local teenager.a small protest then neighbour’s. should hold public meetings.and parents of that guy should leave there protective shell for their son n make him at least apologise to the offended in that neighbourhood.if repeated in future then he should be reported in police.so many small measures

[@sonalimhaisekar6151]

@@suneeshkachroo politicians themselves r demons..but again we indians too want this kind of politics..the thing is..there should be some strict criteria to be a public representative and age limit for retirement of politicians..otherwise politics becomes family buissness..and it's purpose get lost nd it gets overpowered by crime..

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Will u give or update ur Indians viewers that USA has right to recalll and Juryy...also much more rightss....and we have none in india....how come u didnt came to know importance of these laws....

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

​@@suneeshkachrooha ye bhi sahi hai...citizens ne politicians jo bhi khada hua election chahe first time ya..kuch bhi aise hi vote de diya...kabhi ache kanoon ki demand hi nahi ki...bus kabhi face, kabhi party, kabhi news dekh ke vote de diya...police...inn sabko kaise improve karna hai ye kabhi pooch hi nahi

[@abhachitlangia3616]

Mindset needs to be changed, parents teach your darling boys how to respect girls and women from their childhood....... Politicians and police have to develope senstivity.................. Ritu you did a good job by picking up the Calcutta rape incident.......... ..What ever happened in Calcutta hospital it's extremely heart wrenching, very difficult to trust boys and men........

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for watching

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Zero Iq....most middle class and upper dont do these things...and those who do are different people who will never see such videos....will police and politicians automatically develop sensitivity...be practical....we need to force them to do their duty properly...

[@mash6943]

No place in the world is crime free 😢 I was walking through a jhuggi area I wonder who will teach them ?? people who say Teach your Boys ,who will teach these people?? Inki to khane ki maramari hai..😢 Who will teach those rayees zade???Jinke zaroorat se zyada paise hai?? Koi lagam nahi,roktok nahi🙄 What everyone said is right, the legal system should be in place. Hope for the best 🙏🏻

[@vinuthashetty6037]

I lived in Louisiana for 5 years and it was not a safe place US. Is no safe haven for women as well . There were certain areas I avoided going to even during day time .

[@awesomedude4428]

that's the most poorest state in the US.

[@RadhikaKal]

Hi Ritu good you spoke about this topic in your vlog, i get scared when i cm to India fr vacation you can't trust people .but we should know to protect ourselves and be alert . A mother should teach her son to respect girls and women, schools girls should be taught about good and bad touch, they must be taught karate to protect themselves in different times . Law should be strict And severe punishment should be given for such incidents. India should become safe for girls and women.

[@ishita6842]

Now it's time to change boys, the thought process of society handling the situation. Differentiation of girls and boys, daughter in law and daughter. Emotional support for girls. We are giving all privileges to boys and sons in law. The thought process of society needs to change.

[@saherhoney8050]

Love ur videos. One thing I will say. If u talk about a serious crime topic like today. Try to be bit serious not smiling all time. Women safety is a very serious concern in India. I m totally agree that india needs more laws n protections for the women. Keep up the good work.

[@AlbeliRitu]

@@saherhoney8050 that’s for the suggestion

[@vrindarao16]

It’s not safe even for young boys and girls.

[@zunairbirds3984]

Truly saying not only India. Whole world no safe

[@shwetag2697]

Hey Ritu... No place in the world is safe! I agree recent incidents in India are pathetic , but atleast childrens are not shot in schools and no code red taught here in India. Do you feel safe in US for your kid? And Yes I do feel unsafe. We need strict laws.

[@AlbeliRitu]

Yes! In this video, we talked about how women aren’t safe anywhere. I agree that school shootings are a major concern for our children’s safety. We shared our experiences about safety in India, but we also discussed our thoughts on safety worldwide and how we feel as women.

[@anuacharya7681]

Due to some city of india entire India is getting blamed.. there has to be strict law which can resolve these issues

[@anuacharya7681]

I am from Bangalore also lived in other south indian states n travelled other south indian states So far i never felt unsafe i do travel by bus regularly but never faced any Harassment also have seen women sitting in men seats.along with men without any fear..there are many female bus conductors in a crowded bus.in Bangalore..n rural n village side is even more comfortable and better than City here due to less pollution, cheating or robery comparing to city I have been to Mumbai once Mumbai n thane i never felt unsafe in local train also people were helping in crowd Delhi is the one place where i faced lots of sexual assault in a single day this is before 25 yrs also at night men enters sleeper class at midnight n sit in seat where we sleep...i still wonder how do they got such audacity to enter local train

[@r.ptiwari4510]

Parent should teach their children for respecting each other . And to avoid such evil practices , laws should be strict and fast punishment . Society should be aware and raise voice against the criminal for fast punishment

[@AlbeliRitu]

@@r.ptiwari4510 great thought 🙏

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

I have...baki ka kya?

[@aditilagvankar9783]

V well choosen topic Ritu 👏🏻👏🏻i hope authorities out here in India see this vdo & learn something frm views of their own Indian dgtrs/sisters feeling safe outside, but not in their own country !👏🏻👏🏻

[@manis1852]

Good video. I am surprised we don’t hear similar stories from South India ? Any reason why?

[@gowrisanjeevoberoi406]

I feel due to being more educated and generally I feel South Indians are much more progressive thinking.

[@simidas7781]

​​@@gowrisanjeevoberoi406I don't agree at all..I lived in Chennai when I was in college and faced lots of harrasments and eve teasing over there...they r very disrespect towards north Indians and even Kolkata is full of educated people and not all are rapist

[@sarthakshirbhate9270]

Hi Ritu, I have enrolled for MS in Data Science in January 2025, is my decision right or should I come? I have subscribed to you for 2 years, everyone in my house watches your videos

[@AlbeliRitu]

There are a lot of factors which will decide if it’s a right move or not.. Please evaluate the pros and cons before coming. Wishing you all the best.

[@lakshmigopalakrishnan2588]

A son learns to respect a woman from his father.

[@shavinderkaur473]

I don’t think all American states are safe,barring a few like New York or Washington and probably one or two more,the rest are deplorable in terms of gun violence or violence against women

[@AlbeliRitu]

New York is also not very safe..

[@shiks123]

There are many incidents of attacks within this year only, on Indian students in USA, in which many of them lost their life. Is it safe place to send our kids for study , specially the gun culture exists there....

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

If gun culture exists then how come education is so good at such place? Ever thought about that..

[@kavitajasani6375]

Is US safe for women? Why not a vlog on that!!

[@AlbeliRitu]

Maybe I will try and ask people next and do a street interview.

[@Anonymous-oq6zf]

@@AlbeliRitu you must because that's where you live.

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Yes it is...and even if some crime happens there is rarely a need to protest...police and judiciary works on its own..and take action against the strongest of people....but why they do this...what compels them to do their work? Ritu will tell..?

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

​@@AlbeliRituare madam USA me jo rights citizens ke paas hai wo batao sirf...aur koi case hone k baad faisla kitne din me aa jaata hai....न्याय kitna jaldi milta hai aur kyu....ye batao...

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

​@@AlbeliRituPolice SP is elected so he is directly responsible to citizens...also वहाँ की जनता उसको नौकरी से निकलने के लिए वोटिंग करवा सकती है। जज भी इलेक्टेड होते है। उसको भी नोकरी से निकाला जा सकता है।। नेता का कोई कण्ट्रोल नहीं है इनके ऊपर, इसलिए वहां सही से काम होता है।।।और वहाँ जनता भी अदालत में फैसला देने जाती है।।।ये फर्क है।।।।ये बताओ।।।अगर मैं गकत हु तो मुझे सही भी करो।

[@bharatideshpande9391]

Madam Ritu your headlines is wrong. I do not expect such question from an Indian who is still Indian although you are currently staying in US. I too am leaving in Chicago US, but will never ask anyone if India is safe for women. Tell me if US or any other place in world is 100% safe for women. You are asking that delhi nurse if she feels safe to go for rest or bathroom. Don't be judgemental. Laws are well made all over the world but nobody follows and implements it. So let's not be judgemental about India or any country. Choose the right government and stand by each other

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[@gowrisanjeevoberoi406]

In india in some states like Punjab and Haryana and a few others they don’t even allow girl children to be born and female foeticide is so common even in these days so it’s going to take a long time for the mindset to change. Effort to change this mindset from parents, teachers and through television and social platforms is the need of the hour. I have two daughters and they are living in New York since past 7 years and feel very safe even late at night to travel or walk in the city but when they grew up in india they had to be protected always as we faced many situations when through ogling, touch, speech and attitude, women of all ages were disrespected and tortured. That’s one of the major reasons my girls don’t want to come back to india. I live in Delhi and myself have faced the same things and even now at my age I am facing ogling if I wear a certain type of outfit or even in Indian outfits. Certainly efforts need to be made by all to support feminism. I need to share how even elders mindset is, even today! My daughter was doing a project on feminism and needed to get opinion of people of many age groups and when she asked my in laws, they refused to give their opinion saying that feminism is bad and women should never be equal to men even though they too have a daughter. My MIL still says that women need to have the ability of being submissive and have to tolerate men’s atrocities if they want domestic peace as that’s “Bharatiya Sanskar!”!!! My daughters laughed at her saying Daadi this is not sanskar, this is atyaachaar! But this is the crude reality! Elders too need to change their mentality. Fortunately my parents were very forward thinking so they let us grow up independently and they treated both sons and daughters equally always. I am a South Indian and my husband is a Punjabi. I feel the culture in south India is much better that’s why such crimes are lesser there.

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for your message. I appreciate your POV.. and indeed there is a change that we all need..

[@dubeyvs6159]

Who was Dr sangeeta reddy who was brutally gangraped by mechanics in hyderabad ?

[@sonalimhaisekar6151]

Surprising to see no one is taking abt small changes we should start doing rt from each nd every home/family..simple example is..how many fathers or elder brothers do aukshan of daughters or younger sisters during festival time? Not even single! Why ? Cause this is male dominating family culture and we just hype this male ego during rituals too! We all r responsible to boost this male ego..knowingly or unknowingly!

[@amiytiwari2845]

3:20 like seriously ...you have this kind of mentality about the villages.... change ur thoughts please🙏

[@anjanatamang8013]

Ritu Girls are not safe in anywhere,not only in India.haan yaha kuch jyada unsafe hai kyuki rapist ke against koi fast or strict decision nahi aata,Jis country mein aap rehti waha bhi safe nahi hai.shayad aapne ek news Landon ki bhi nahi padi jaha itni security ke baad bhi aadmi room ke under tak chala gaya 😢 . justice sabko milna chahiye.esa punishment do ki dusra ye sab karne ki soche bhi na.bhagwan sab betiyon ki raksha kare esa janwaro se bachaye🙏

[@tabassumsyed9623]

Mumbai is also not safe in all areas and also in public transport like buses and trains ,maybe it has reduced nowadays as girls are more outspoken and bold in our college times no one taught us about good touch or bad touch and how to speak for ourselves so we had to face some embarassing situations like groping etc and the weird thing is that in India ladies are also worshipped in form of goddesses still they are taken for granted, raped, molested, acid attacks , harrassment for dowry , domestic violence and the list goes on and on

[@AlbeliRitu]

@@tabassumsyed9623 thanks for your comment

[@bhaswatichatterjee563]

Thank you for your sharing this horrific incident.

[@shuklamajumder7232]

I think who chose to leave her own country she has no right to judge the country. U stay in your own happy place. Dont create videos for views

[@sonalimhaisekar6151]

Agar aisa hai to tumhare hisab se desh ke PM jab foreign country jake waha ke indians se communicate karate hai, salahmashvara karate hai..wo bhi galat hai!? Apani ye mendhak vali soch apane pas rakho..

[@whatshappening7724]

A person who stays in their city and hasn't seen the world has no idea or even sense to make or form an opinion/judgement. I'd rather have opinion from someone who has stayed in multiple places to even compare how one is different from another. In your own bubble , sure india is extremely safe for women. Stay in that bubble forever. :)

[@shikhamishra98]

Very nice vlog good you you made it

[@mash6943]

Aamchi mumbai 🫶🏻 आमची मुंबई❤

[@yogitabaviskar8900]

This is going to be long and I hope Ritu reads this. I believe she is capable of understanding and taking charge: Every rapi$t starts with rap!ng animals. You guys think animal rights activists keep shouting about respecting animals and leaving them alone,not commodifying it or objectifying them,are crazy. But we are the ones who see the reality that you guys conveniently refuse to see. Every rapi$t in the world has a long history of rap!ng animals. We have seen that time and again. They always start this way and then because they arent punished for rap!ng an animal,they gain courage to move onto children and women. This is the reason that you see men objectifying and commodifying women and children. They arent reprimanded for doing so to animals who are innocent and dependent on humans. Thats the root cause. Its about power struggle. When a society has vices like alcohol,meat eating,dairy,slaught€rhouses,those things corrupt a man's mind. Men are evolutionarily wired to feed their ego and power. These things Ive listed above feed it. It starts with animals. Any animal that has a hole is explo!ted in the industry,especially females because the entire animal agriculture ind. Runs on female genital explo!tation. But tumlog ko ye batao toh samjhta nahi hai. Culture tradition economy falana dimkana ajata hai dimaag mai. And these rapi$ts come from such backgrounds. Theyve seen all this,they see this as normal. Government in India has legalized animal rap€. Just a while ago a govt employee was caught rap!ng a 6 year old child and then because he was "unsatisfied", he rap€d a goat later. Because he was caught rap!ng a child he was caught. Or else he could have moved on to more animals and children. This is how it is and you guys simply dont get it when we say these thins. We get soooooooooo many animal rap€ cases,you have no idea about that part of the world. Youd be so disappointed in this society that this world exists. Follow animal rights space and the animal agriculture industry. You will see the real world. And how you contribute to it. You will instantly go vegan. Mark my words -when the human civilization becomes capable of respecting the lives of those innocent animals and not showing their power onto them thats when human society will become liberal and leave behind the systemic issues we have. Otherwise, women and children will continue getting rap€d.

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for your message.

[@amiytiwari2845]

View's lene ke liye india ko bhala bura bol rhi....just read report's..... America is 2nd in rape cases around the world...i am praying for you guy's to stay safe in America 😊....jab president Trump tak safe nhi hai America me to you guys are just foreigners to them ...stay safe 😊

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Trump wala mamla sab bade level ka natak tha...

[@barkhasingh7425]

Indian law should be strict

[@sumedhab3802]

Indoan laws are the ampng the strictest. The woman doesn't need to prove, the accused needs to prove his innocence. Even a verbal fight with a girl at traffic light cost a man years in court while the girl moved to Canada for studies. So no, we are fine. Situation in WB is due to local politics not soft laws.

[@swastimukherjee6030]

Thanks for taking this topic about unbearable incident of W.B.Jab tak strict aur immediately punishment ke laws nahin aayenge....Iss pratha ka ant nahin hoga....aur iske row mein hamari country hee suruwati numbers pe hoti rahengi.

[@zunairbirds3984]

Beautiful sharing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@thought430]

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[@mosmae]

This is a mature and professional way to create vlog content specially for this sensitive topic. A welcome change from other cringe worthy NY Indian housewive vlogs. India is safe as long as your approach is correct. Children raised in India need to be made aware of diversity of attitudes. There are plenty of options in India thanks to large population. It is not impossible to find like minded people. The weirdos are in minority and typically mid and south India specially r very safe for all genders. Even north east is very chilled in this regard.

[@LastMinuteRecipe]

Not true.. I dont agree India is safe. Infact no part of India is safe for women. Do you know how prevalent casting couch is in the south Indian entertainment industry? Now, you would think “entertainment” industry doesnt define the entire region. But, honestly people who work there are also born & brought up in the same society. Eve teasing, objectification of women etc is pretty much everywhere. Boys locker room conversations, porn etc etc common in the south as well. Its not just about the extreme cases but overall view/ mindset around women that matters.

[@mosmae]

@LastMinuteRecipe Talented actress like kajol are very rare now. If you have talent and don't want to be a star there are plenty of options for actors. Now if ur heart is set upon to become a star it's ur own needs that will dictate how safe u feel. This is very relevant for guys too as they r more disadvantaged in entertainment. Even the strongest of Hollywood men have wept over their treatment. India is very safe as long as you know where to stay away from. It's not germany where I regularly went skinny dipping in summer in a lake behind my house like tons of other german frauen. Be aware of ur surroundings is best advise. Thanks.

[@pallavil6189]

Mumbai ismost safest place 👍mumbai police is one of the best in country/ world

[@vickeysingh752]

Dear Ritu, I understand that these days it has become somewhat trendy to criticize India. Just because you've been living in America for a few years now, you feel that India is unsafe. I agree that there are many issues in India, and what happened in Kolkata was indeed shameful and heartbreaking. However, simply saying 'India is not safe' and implying that India and its people are not good, or that India is not safe for women, is unfair.When I read reports, I see that the USA ranks 2nd or 3rd in rape cases. By the way, I believe India is safe. Yes, we have our shortcomings, but we will improve. After all, the education you received and your husband's IIT degree-weren't those achieved in India? So let's have a fair discussion and stay on topic. It’s not right to defame the entire country based on a single incident. We are raising our voices for change, and you should too. Jai Hind 🇮🇳

[@AlbeliRitu]

Thanks for your message. We wanted to share real stories, not follow a trend. Our goal was to talk about our experiences. While we did discuss some challenges, we also shared positive things, like how the Mumbai police helped one of my friends and ensured her safety. We talked about areas that could improve and ways to stay safe. We also discussed safety in the U.S., where some of us don’t always feel safe either. The video shows that, as women, we always stay cautious, no matter where we are. Our intention wasn’t to criticize India-we’re proud to be Indian-but we believe it’s important to talk about areas that need improvement and find ways to do better. Jai Hind 🇮🇳🙏

[@Anonymous-oq6zf]

@@AlbeliRitu Yeah!!! that's why you made this video at this particular time.

[@baraks7487]

Then send your mom sisters and daughter outside late till night, you will realise how safe is india

[@Anonymous-oq6zf]

@@baraks7487 we do go outside late till 2am in the night to watch movies and other things.

[@AnnieAbraham-h2b]

Strict punishment has to bring

[@xyz-gu9cz]

Even if a woman is wearing jeans men look at there abdomen at the first instance ....

[@Govindkumar-zj5iw]

no

bill Clinton on the White House oval room...what happened girls?

[@suneeshkachroo]

That is the best argument that you came with !!!!!

@@suneeshkachroo during covid a kyu resident doctor had supposedly committed suicide after going home..who knows what had happened google it

[@Boohoo19999]

What is your point?

[@Lavi_kalyan]

Ye pooche ki baat h?😮

[@bhagirathdudi6193]

good work

[@radharanjankumar5361]

Madam america kitna percentage safe hai india se

[@jyotisalwan7884]

Hello Ritu, I always see your vlogs and always like them.Your today vlog is good but the general perception you portrayed in this seem to be narrow and unjustified a bit too .Aap generalise nahi kr sakte ki India me sab bure log bhare hain and dusre country sab achhe hain especially USA. Aap ne do logo ka nam liya Godman kahke ki unhone series of …… kiye hain . Aap ne unke cases ko kya personally jana hai unke cases ko read kiya hai especially Asharam Bapu case.Sirf media se sun jan kr social media platform pr responsibility ke sath example quote karna kitna sahi hai. Media and social media kaise jhootee sachhi perceptions creat karta hai , isse dil ko dukh laga.

[@AlbeliRitu]

Yes, we weren’t comparing India to the USA. We were simply sharing our experiences. Some of us even mentioned that we don’t feel safe anywhere. It’s important to stay alert and protect yourself because bad things can happen anywhere. I apologize if it came across differently.

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[@sumedhab3802]

Ritu, I am disappointed by this video. It appears you have neither knowledge nor have you done research abt this topic. Such videos malign our image unnecessarily. Did you know US ranks 14th in rapes and crimes against women while India ranks 95th? Did you know that 97% rapists walk free in the US? And to rhose who would say Indian numbers are wrong I say yes. There are a lot of false cases because only in India women file rape cases if boyfriend refuses to marry. One lady in yourvlog said that laws are harsh in US that's why crimes are low. She is wrong. Laws in India for crimes against women are non bailable and much harsher than other countries. Women here don't need to prove, the men have to prove their innocence. Also are you aware of the case in UK where 1500 white girls under 16 were groomed in by a certain community? Those crimes were swept by the authorities to prevent racial tensions. Thise girls were se*****y abused for a long period and the police, govt did nothing. So trust me, no country is 100% safe, but my country is much safer. I too take cabs at 3 or 4 in the night with my kids when I return from weddings in Mumbai. My cousins go clubbing and take cabs all the time. As for godmen, study missionaries and cults in west and then compare. Pls research and invite experts before you post.

[@summaryshorts4169]

India itna bhi negative nahi h jitna ye usa citizens india ko bta rahe. India me problems h jo ki hm Indians hi change karenge.

[@suneeshkachroo]

@@summaryshorts4169 really stop being in denial mode. The crime and justice expectation in india is sooo poor which makes its more unsafe . Ask a female in your family if you even let them speak at home.

[@sonalimhaisekar6151]

Decades after decades we r discussing the same topic..lifestyle is changed but the core problem is same.. But when the culture itself is absorbing so much male ego..it is very difficult to do changes..even to talk abt it...see how many comments r there for this vlog? Shame shame! We Indians r so selfish!

[@summaryshorts4169]

@@suneeshkachroo kon deny kr raha ki india me crime nhi h.aur crime kon kr raha h,hm Indians hi na. To apne aap ko achhe logo me batane aur dusro ko criminals bolne se pahle, apna aur apne aas pas k logo ka women k liye mindset change Karo. Rahi bat meri family ki to, 5 bahno ka akela bhai hu acche se ladkiyon ki izzat karna janta hu, aaj tak mere aas pass k gav me aaj tak rape ka naam tak nhi suna....apne desh k liye kuch achha karna ki bajaye desh chhodkar bhagne vale hme gyan na de.

[@vickeysingh752]

Alright, I’ll go along with your point, but tell me one thing-do you really think only India has shortcomings? What about the USA? I can point out many incidents, like the one where a U.S. policeman hit an Indian student with his car and then laughed about it. Have you ever read about the challenges Indian students face over there? I agree there are flaws here, and I also agree with you that our laws need to be stricter. But brother, isn't it also wrong to defame the entire country?​@@suneeshkachroo

[@vickeysingh752]

​@@sonalimhaisekar6151 Fine, grab your passport, get a visa, and move to the USA. Take their citizenship and settle down, because India is 'unsafe,' right? And since we Indians are 'selfish,' go ahead and leave.

[@Lokesh12saini]

who gave u right to judge India while you are sitting in USA. u can do it if u stay here but while u dont stay here so just to wash ur hands in running water dont do these cheap tactics to gain views

[@amiytiwari2845]

These wanna be so called educated indian Americans... views ke liye Kuchh bhi kar rhi.... channel dead hai channel revive krne ke tarike hai bus😂

[@Lokesh12saini]

@@amiytiwari2845 ryt bro

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Just google black wallstreet tulsa case 1921...usa will not shy away doing that to indians there also...

[@yashpalchaudhary9752]

Agree with lokesh....either do prachar of good laws that persist there since centuries.....pls tell why police and judiciaryy is better than india.?

[@baraks7487]

I gave right. Ab bol.