Is It Possible to Stop Being Possessive in a Relationship?

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Sadhguru

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@mirsharipovbehzod
@mirsharipovbehzod Жыл бұрын
Pain of possessiveness has healed me. Absolutely true.
@telugulomatladudam3722
@telugulomatladudam3722 Жыл бұрын
Same is applicable for the pain of ignorance if the pain of ignorance is unbearable we will know who we are we will realise self
@MusicaParaTodos111
@MusicaParaTodos111 Жыл бұрын
Same here :/ Was ... a total life teach ❤
@testing38919
@testing38919 Жыл бұрын
What did your possessiveness lead to that eventually heal you of it?
@stayhappylittlemermaid
@stayhappylittlemermaid Жыл бұрын
You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great
@bisweswardas5135
@bisweswardas5135 Жыл бұрын
@knowpassword
@knowpassword Жыл бұрын
Not even to be great, just start..
@Corteum
@Corteum Жыл бұрын
Paraphrase: _Completeness doesnt happen by getting this or that (i.e. objects, possessions, expereinces, credit). It only happens when you're alive at/to your core. The moment you touch that, then you're truly alive... then you can play it like a game._
@jigarrpatel3606
@jigarrpatel3606 Жыл бұрын
Stll need details explanation…
@Corteum
@Corteum Жыл бұрын
@@jigarrpatel3606 No. What it needs is practice and persistance. It's more practical.
@knowpassword
@knowpassword Жыл бұрын
“The less you have the more you gain!”
@manrajchauhan5862
@manrajchauhan5862 Жыл бұрын
The Last Statement he made is the way I have been living ever since I completed inner engineering. And I would have never imagined it's way more beautiful and fun way to be. If not for this being I would have never tasted even a single drop of freedom. Thank you Will never be enough. So I surrender myself to the process.
@nupurbharti3157
@nupurbharti3157 Жыл бұрын
I am in the same situation right now When I try to walk away Consequences happen But this clear vision is much needed this moment
@ouwqaplmruzvearlfgalwhclak
@ouwqaplmruzvearlfgalwhclak Жыл бұрын
This man is the treasure in the current world
@NondualityChannel
@NondualityChannel Жыл бұрын
Being possessive in a relationship will only cause both parties suffering. I am non-attached to my wife and she tells me this is the easiest relationship she has ever had.
@0nelight19-SaveSoil
@0nelight19-SaveSoil 8 ай бұрын
when you are really possessive, there is only one party 😂 therefore I prefer Sadhgurus technology 🥰
@NondualityChannel
@NondualityChannel 8 ай бұрын
@@0nelight19-SaveSoil You can not even possess yourself, so how can you hope to possess anyone or anything else?
@beastgalaxygaming9402
@beastgalaxygaming9402 3 ай бұрын
I believe my possessiveness and stupidity is going to make me lose the love of my life. I want to be less possessive, but what do you mean by un-attached to your wife? I don't understand that because I'm extremely attached to my girlfriend so much that each one of her mood affects me. I wanted to know your insights on being "Un-attached"
@CosmicDesending32534
@CosmicDesending32534 Жыл бұрын
Reactions from processions brings out the visual truth from Reactions 😊
@holyhelper7400
@holyhelper7400 Жыл бұрын
This satsang is of immense value.. where can get the full episode?
@aarchiagrawal938
@aarchiagrawal938 Жыл бұрын
Isha downloads🙏
@PreciselyProactive
@PreciselyProactive Жыл бұрын
Sadhguru you saved me ..I am so grateful to You❤🙏
@madhutalwar3333
@madhutalwar3333 3 ай бұрын
Not finding words ...how to express my extreme thanks ..the way u transform a person. Many Many Thanks.
@sourabhsharma9395
@sourabhsharma9395 Ай бұрын
Listening in 2024❤️when the pain surrounds you from your loved ones...that will eventually heal you one day.. until then...no matter how hard you try to possess ..it will give you just pain❤️
@gaurikasingh4473
@gaurikasingh4473 Жыл бұрын
So beautifully expressed my situations and gave the answer i was looking for thank you so much guru ji ❤
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
"whatever you are doing, do it whole souled so as to Yah"
@rudyponzio5871
@rudyponzio5871 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻You can't even posses yourself. You can't love what you can't live without. That's called something else altogether. 🫐
@speaktruth3612
@speaktruth3612 Жыл бұрын
MY SADHGURU 💯 FOR LIFE🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤ PRANAM
@ludibinoinprogress
@ludibinoinprogress Жыл бұрын
Fantastic Sadhguru 😊🙏🏻 thank you with all my heart for everything 🫶🏼
@Devi-pg4rj
@Devi-pg4rj Жыл бұрын
How is Sadhguru so clear on everything 😁🙏
@alienallen2983
@alienallen2983 Жыл бұрын
👍 SADHGURU 🙏>>>💚
@AmandaZ-ft2ow
@AmandaZ-ft2ow Жыл бұрын
Missed your videos! With Gratitude! ! !❤⚜️❤ Blessed Be! ! !❤🙏❤
@saras03
@saras03 Жыл бұрын
A great mentor ❤🔱
@MaryTea-yp5tj
@MaryTea-yp5tj 3 ай бұрын
WOW~ a few words and I finally get it! Thank you!
@harshsoneji2070
@harshsoneji2070 Жыл бұрын
Just at the right time Sadhguru.
@srisurya2001CAaspirant
@srisurya2001CAaspirant Жыл бұрын
This video came to me at a tight time..❤
@humane_and_selfless__love722
@humane_and_selfless__love722 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sadhguru. 🙏 💕 Thanks for everything. 💕 I'm praying for the best for you and your family.
@selvarajchettiar5039
@selvarajchettiar5039 Жыл бұрын
NAMASKARAM SADHGURU 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@bowloflight2201
@bowloflight2201 Жыл бұрын
9:53 🙏🏽
@chaththa85
@chaththa85 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Sadhguru!❤ This came to me at right time 🙏🥹
@OfficialGOD
@OfficialGOD Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙏
@chaththa85
@chaththa85 Жыл бұрын
@@OfficialGOD ❤️🙏
@BikramNeupane-d5v
@BikramNeupane-d5v Жыл бұрын
salute to video maker, the intro, BGs and Sadhguru's audio was all perfect.
@GR-rk2fi
@GR-rk2fi 3 ай бұрын
I only learn through pain. Problem is, there is still so much to learn...
@deltacharge
@deltacharge Жыл бұрын
I agree to the utmost degree of Agreement XD Nicee One!
@michae2869
@michae2869 Жыл бұрын
Amazingly enlightening
@ShantiDevi-m9y
@ShantiDevi-m9y 2 ай бұрын
You opened my eyes 🙏🙏🙏
@bohdanbasenko4092
@bohdanbasenko4092 Жыл бұрын
That’s me!!!😂😂😂 Right in the beginning of this video. It seems I am going viral 😄😊
@Royal__Vidhya
@Royal__Vidhya Жыл бұрын
Ohhh yeahhh it's look like uh😮😮😮
@Being_Unidirectional
@Being_Unidirectional Жыл бұрын
Yeah its you hhh
@consciouschirag
@consciouschirag Жыл бұрын
Please also answer, how to not be pushy in relationships? i.e. not forcing ourselves, our ideas, etc. onto other people, accepting others & respecting their individuality.
@Zyrenyafantasy
@Zyrenyafantasy 3 ай бұрын
Low your expectations
@atharvamore2280
@atharvamore2280 Ай бұрын
First and most important Be happy in your own company. Respect yourself. And happily go into the relationship, dont forget you are individual. Once you go happily into relationship you are not gonna talk or beg the person for happiness. Thats where relationship starts growing.
@luzbeelluzbella369
@luzbeelluzbella369 Жыл бұрын
Sadguru!!! Buddha your Nemesis is my friend.
@108Marycelestial
@108Marycelestial Жыл бұрын
No never be possessive. Be good and considerate instead. ❤
@heeralsharma9765
@heeralsharma9765 Жыл бұрын
Sadhguru Namaskar Pranam Blessings Please Aum Namah Shivaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@jack-e-designs
@jack-e-designs Жыл бұрын
True.💗it’s all a vibe.💗🦋💛
@RickWitan
@RickWitan Жыл бұрын
🪷 Maharaj, thank You for Your insightful words. Attachment is suffering, regrettably. Please keep me off this path so I do not suffer just as my parents went through much much suffering. My humble pranams 🙏🏾🪷
@navinnimgale155
@navinnimgale155 Жыл бұрын
How lovely ❤❤❤
@AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id
@AnthonyMoitzger-nw1id Жыл бұрын
I believe both should be positive in a relationship. And celebrate it. For neither one walks alone anymore. Peace 🕉 and joy.8888 🎶 🙏
@EnergyReleased
@EnergyReleased Жыл бұрын
Wow… Amazing…❤
@Penbuddy418
@Penbuddy418 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sadhguru for motivating us i respect you a lot
@PadmaSahani-we1we
@PadmaSahani-we1we Жыл бұрын
Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ishakeister6725
@ishakeister6725 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir
@swarnalidutta7235
@swarnalidutta7235 Жыл бұрын
Very true❤
@raghavendrapachahara9643
@raghavendrapachahara9643 Жыл бұрын
Beauty of thoughts really 😊😊😊😊
@soubhikmukherjee2982
@soubhikmukherjee2982 Жыл бұрын
Namaskaram Guruji ❤
@tchaliz4925
@tchaliz4925 9 ай бұрын
I have been reading the comments, and well, intelectually, we all have the same understanding. But, feeling not complete as far as you can remmenber is not intectual thing at all, it s only a ball of pain that you carry inside, and all you dream of is someone you can give love, take care of, but someone you are not affraid to lose, cause ypu got used to lose what you love. What thought can cope with such basic animal / compulsive yes, pain ?
@avinash6820
@avinash6820 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍😊😊💖💖 Jai Gurudev!
@MusicaParaTodos111
@MusicaParaTodos111 Жыл бұрын
Redemption by the pain
@pallavivaidya7423
@pallavivaidya7423 Жыл бұрын
Shambho ❤
@abhisheksingh-lp1vw
@abhisheksingh-lp1vw 6 ай бұрын
I only thought of breaking up with her 😢 no one knows how much i think of her including her also. I am very much possessive to her against every single boy , even for her cousins also, i know this sounds cheap but it is. My body goes in a freeze mode .i can't focus. So much depressed.
@sivaroyal4246
@sivaroyal4246 Жыл бұрын
Aum namasivaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@Weed_Y_Libertad
@Weed_Y_Libertad Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sadhguru
@PadmaSahani-we1we
@PadmaSahani-we1we Жыл бұрын
Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@iammadhurima
@iammadhurima Жыл бұрын
Where can we get the full satsang?
@SajiSNairNair-tu9dk
@SajiSNairNair-tu9dk Ай бұрын
👉temple 🕵️😊
@ishaartworks
@ishaartworks Жыл бұрын
5:32 & 7:24
@PadmaSahani-we1we
@PadmaSahani-we1we Жыл бұрын
Bérhmànad sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha atí Anand sewrupa ísha ís jagdísha 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kajalagarwala3697
@kajalagarwala3697 Жыл бұрын
What if the other person doesn't know how to maintain a certain boundary with others?
@SuperJamalShah
@SuperJamalShah Жыл бұрын
Sadhguru, how would you differentiate possessiveness with persistence? 😊🎉
@HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335
@HAR_HAR_MAHADEV3335 Жыл бұрын
I don't shift but I decrease all my desires through entering a state of samadhi…..like a shiva did when sati died…..I wanna possess with samadhi state for skipping this time 💀na punyam na papam….na soukhyam na dhukam…..chidanada ruph shivoham shivoham
@sachinbhat1857
@sachinbhat1857 Жыл бұрын
Where can I find background tune...
@fotispasas5324
@fotispasas5324 Жыл бұрын
Try what fully, I didn’t get that part please help
@prithwirajjadhav1611
@prithwirajjadhav1611 Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if this is the correct answer, but he told once that - If u disconnect for 3 days, no TV, no mobile, no visitors, no talking, just being there, silent, then many things will be suddenly clear to you within no time!
@Naresh14316
@Naresh14316 Жыл бұрын
Peace of vioce
@towerofresonance4877
@towerofresonance4877 Жыл бұрын
Woice
@anamazinglife5628
@anamazinglife5628 Жыл бұрын
💜💙
@juncuspatens
@juncuspatens Жыл бұрын
"Is it ok..." -Jagadish Vasudev "If they can get you asking the wrong questions, they don't have to worry about answers." - Thomas Pynchon
@rupalideshpande1746
@rupalideshpande1746 Жыл бұрын
🙏❤🙏
@ekansh6267
@ekansh6267 Жыл бұрын
💯💯🔥
@CosmicDesending32534
@CosmicDesending32534 Жыл бұрын
Judgment is in the 👀 of the beholder😇👻
@rachellepeterson6225
@rachellepeterson6225 Ай бұрын
❤✌️
@monikawy231
@monikawy231 9 ай бұрын
Yes possessivess is bad
@tahiyamarome
@tahiyamarome Жыл бұрын
Life will relieve you of all you think you possess in any case. So enjoy what enters your life and wave sweetly when it leaves. Why do so many people get upset with intensity? Why do people who go fully into things get reprimanded, called too much, over- invested, crazy?
@lokeshbarri6052
@lokeshbarri6052 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@shreeharikulkarni5614
@shreeharikulkarni5614 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@saras03
@saras03 Жыл бұрын
@aryabolke8226
@aryabolke8226 Жыл бұрын
🌺💖💖
@anoopcomputech4109
@anoopcomputech4109 Жыл бұрын
😊
@StarLink85
@StarLink85 Жыл бұрын
❤️💛💚💙💜💖
@Tourhours
@Tourhours Жыл бұрын
🧤
@rashmiyadav4062
@rashmiyadav4062 10 ай бұрын
💕💕💕💕💐💐💐💐🙏🙏🙏🙏
@CosmicDesending32534
@CosmicDesending32534 Жыл бұрын
Put a fork on it 😅
@camilacatriman7293
@camilacatriman7293 Жыл бұрын
🙏🩵🦋
@samyadeepsengupta460
@samyadeepsengupta460 Жыл бұрын
Possessive ness is not good
@chichi-x3u1u
@chichi-x3u1u Жыл бұрын
Medium selected. no, no choice
@Tourhours
@Tourhours Жыл бұрын
111
@RoslynDoe
@RoslynDoe Жыл бұрын
Earth is a prison not a school
@chullotm1970
@chullotm1970 Жыл бұрын
Save Soil!
@s.g.5318
@s.g.5318 Жыл бұрын
Get a cat you love, it'll teach you how painful possessiveness is
@tchaliz4925
@tchaliz4925 9 ай бұрын
Dogs givve us unconditional love, cats teach us how to love and expect nothing in return, is that what you mean?
@kspavankrishna
@kspavankrishna 2 ай бұрын
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@ShantiDevi-m9y
@ShantiDevi-m9y 2 ай бұрын
😂😂
@A.Shek_
@A.Shek_ Жыл бұрын
I am tired of listening into the same narrative from Sadhguru that all is in ur control, when you want to switch it on you can or you can just be or be high all the time e.t.c. I have never came across any of his followers who say Yes I am like that. I am tired of hearing this at the point that either I want to experience it staright on upfront or just forget about Sadhguru & his wisdom which is not going to happen !! Sigh...
@shivankchopra8552
@shivankchopra8552 Жыл бұрын
I understand what you are going through, i am sometimes in same boat as you frustrated (even abusing) Sadhguru when I try to implement what he says into my life and things are going out of control. But it does work slowly when you are constantly trying to improve fiercely. I have done inner engineering, so when i practice shambhavi regularly, i start getting the power of sticking to making choices my way, instead of getting frustrated with situations and people. But this takes time, years of consuming mental shittiness takes sometime to cleanup man
@A.Shek_
@A.Shek_ Жыл бұрын
@@shivankchopra8552 Heard ! Thanks man, perhaps inshud keep aside all complaints n struggles and practice shambhavi for atleast 6 months to test & analyse change if any. Its been 2 months of continuous practice from me till now & sometimes my practice mis successful & sometimes not(to much distracted by my own monkey chatter). Let's see after 6 months or a year. 🤔
@sgthasb
@sgthasb Жыл бұрын
solution is that swhen you try to get satisfaction out of hearing to your ideal or you want to find out something knew even if you had already read the title and found that what already will be content then you will be bored,,, so only solution is sadhna and practice.
@shivankchopra8552
@shivankchopra8552 Жыл бұрын
​@@A.Shek_ Sure bro, all the best to you! Doing Shambhavi I have realized that you tend to get better with more practice. As in you build more insight into keeping the mind mum. It's like 1000 ways in which you discover how every thought is just shiet at the end of all day. At this point of my life, I am beginning to pretty much give in to the fact that if not for outer help like shambhavi, I by myself would never be able to direct my mind by my will. So I have like given into Shambhavi and let it do all the heavy lifting. Cheers! 🍻
@karunasreejetty917
@karunasreejetty917 Жыл бұрын
Then make an effort. Do Shambhavi Kriya.
@rutviumrigar1720
@rutviumrigar1720 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sadhguru 🙏
@PadmaSahani-we1we
@PadmaSahani-we1we Жыл бұрын
Jai shree satguru ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@IamItziar
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❤️❤️❤️
@Puranvlogs143
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❤❤
@CristianaCrina-cu9ov
@CristianaCrina-cu9ov Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏❤
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