Is Min’s Feminine Energy a Deal Breaker? | First Dates New Zealand

Bunny girl Kellie, 23 goes on a date with Min. But he seems to be too feminine for her.
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[@Skeezer66]

I'm glad she didn't shut down based on her first impressions and they bonded over a love a food! I was prepared to complain about another too young girl, but it all worked out!! Nice!

[@nenechi4ever]

shes allowed to not like someone either way

[@Skeezer66]

@@nenechi4ever Of course she is, that wasn't the point.

[@Bunny11344]

All Asians love food it’s a sign of affection when they feed you or bring you food

[@airaelavsieab]

when he said “if you don’t try to pay your half then you’re a gold digger” LMAOOOOO

[@w.urlitzer1869]

truth.

[@NELSONandWIGGLES]

@@w.urlitzer1869 yes, because gold diggers are after a meal in a normal restaurant 🤣

[@Dee-yj1im]

@@NELSONandWIGGLESyou’ll be surprised the bs women do these days. Id say half the ones on dating apps are literally just using it for free food and rides.

[@sheff-eb6jb]

Then it shouldn't be a problem paying half then if it's no big deal init ​@@NELSONandWIGGLES

[@user-hx7ud4xe1n]

@@Dee-yj1im Unfortunately, yes - they do. One of my close friends in 1 week went out with 2 girls, they chose quite expensive places, he paid for their dinners and drinks, then got ghosted. And one of my female friends said London is getting very expensive to go out so she has dating app just for this reason -to get free meals and drinks. Crazy times lol

[@user-dq2zv6rc1g]

Min is kinda zesty 💅

[@josuebrown6001]

she will make him a gangsta if they keep dating ive been ther

[@paulcooper5748]

I bet the bunny talks to her in a deep voice.

[@Fisheatpho]

They would be good friends and should go explore restaurants together, but not date. Chemistry isn't there but friendship is

[@barrywest9456]

5:54 not pleased with how he holds a knife and fork...

[@Skysablu]

He literally said "Im Kelly" 🙄🤣

[@erichchan3]

I think he said "Hi Kelly" but I can see how you interpreted it that way.

[@ralphlyda4545]

He said, “Um, Kelly, nice to meet you.”

[@LoveIsVitalEverlasting]

I think he said hi Kelly too, but I definitely heard I'm Kelly as well.

[@Skysablu]

Anyway, they're really cute together and I'm glad she gave him a shot. Good guys don't alwaaaays finish last!

[@Bunny11344]

He was probably nervous

[@alisonseymour2546]

so sweet, he's not to be underestimated

[@nicholasrooksby3327]

He said. “I’m Kelly.”

[@x3Stoopid]

They’re actually so adorable together.

[@darkerbinding6933]

They are very cute together. Great match.

[@TimCaruana]

The ending is so awkward. It's clear that he's not her type yet she says yes and ends up walking off holding his hand.

[@wge621]

She seems into him, she's just shy.

[@marialove109]

The way they hold hands is awkward too, his hand should be infront of hers taking the lead but it is reversed. 😅

[@dazy03]

​@@marialove109the taller person actually always has their hand in front (at least when you interlock fingers) because that feels the most natural and confortable. If you switch you'll notice it physically feels very awkward :) Usually the man is taller so his hand is in front but with them its not the case.

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

...interesting....I wouldn't even notice that type thing...she at the onset, thought him femine...he must have rethought the splitting the bill issue...give & take....go get acquainted...both intelligent young people.

[@tizzlekizzle]

They're gonna have little food critic babies.

[@jennifergirling6850]

I think the male concierge likes her

[@aron.gortman]

He hits on all the female daters and then acts cold towards the men.

[@boulderman1357]

​@aron.gortman really bro😂 why the hell is he still on thats his job lol

[@sharifahsyed7774]

Malaysian couple are the cutest and we love food 😂

[@w.urlitzer1869]

he's sweet. but two kellies at the table is going to be more like girlfriends.

[@independentx0x0]

Ok that was actually pretty cute

[@NYC1E1]

I wonder who’s going to carry whom across the threshold, lol…

[@stevent425]

This young lady is beautiful!!!!

[@PanHaszaman]

Soft spoken and gentle, yet more manly than most of the "modern" men.

[@osamaaljalsi4903]

"More manly" Lmao this must be sarcasm

[@zariisofficial]

lol

[@josuebrown6001]

i just rewatched this eps and at first i thought he was a simp but now i see that he is actually kinda cool just the fact that he is aware that he is fuzy i thought his awarness was atractive and he eat s very well mannered too

[@jones2277]

they're so adorable.

[@psor9983]

I think he's cute! I'm a 40 year old man. I'm probably his type. 😅

[@TheWeardale1]

he's a strange guy..

[@Turnpost2552]

She is like wearing a robe.

[@JG-zb4mz]

There was no second date, was there?

[@Skeezer66]

There's no follow up, but they both said yes, so who knows?

[@jay-lm4we]

No there wasn't. Bus she introduced him to her brother and they both hit it off😍

[@jonulmer]

I'd bet her respiratory congestion would clear up if she got rid of the allergenic rabbits! 🐰

[@lauran3244]

They are the worst!

[@gillowens24]

Both very handsome very nice to

[@tvo6453]

They’re more like girlfriends and BFF. Maybe Kellie can coax Min to come out of the closet.

[@barbsteele3301]

Oddly enough, these two may work. He already dismissed his deal breaker

[@leamarleychnnl]

I love seeing not 1 but 2 Malaysian ❤

[@kimmoran4437]

They're both lovely.

[@flameex1708]

yeah this mans playing for the other team. I think he just wants a friend xD

[@user-lw4kw3rz2c]

If you need someone else to be happy then all your relationships will not work out. You need to find your own happiness and learn to combine that synergistically with your partner’s happiness

[@YungMama90]

Her parents would love him, she was smitten - love is a feeling, not a vision

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

He isn't into women

[@johnsteelman3397]

Uncle roger says emotional damage

[@guffygox6818]

He needs to go on First Dates UK and be matched with his type. His gender type.

[@ShadowGin3]

Anyone know if they're still together?

[@user-dq2zv6rc1g]

His biggest smile was when he had a banana in each hand at the start.... says it all

[@amilcarballantyne]

💀💀💀

[@naobe5]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NuRespira]

broooooooo omg 👏👏👏

[@savedfaves]

Good one. On another note: "My hands are bananas"

[@TomNook.]

Niiiiceeeee

[@supremennn3829]

When is that guy gonna come out?

[@hegenoxmaar704]

When he's 55 and he'll have wife and kids that he could abandon...

[@speedythings7396]

@@hegenoxmaar704 women abandon more despite being straight. Stop projecting on men

[@MC-cg2qx]

Did they just leave dinner to go eat Korean BBQ?

[@deborahstevens9587]

He speaks with an accent that is not from someone born in New Zealand.

[@endlessglizzys_.0233]

Are men who love Cocktails 😮??

[@Jg-ww7rr]

He's def bi

[@karenlewkowitz5858]

So adorable together🎉

[@HansBohr]

Well, i was let down by a girl that found me too girly for a man for her taste...she went on to date a girly girl afterward so what do I know.

[@giannishen]

Maybe she is a she-man.

[@leigh7507]

He was super camp so I can see what she meant

[@nadiajohnson4923]

Was it your brother?

[@silentwitness536]

lol @@nadiajohnson4923

[@see9968]

​@@leigh7507 I don't think yk what camp meand

[@siddaye]

No just because a woman doesnt attempt to pay ie offer to pay their half doesnt make them a gold digger and as he said that makes him cheap and stingy so he answered his own question

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

Imagine going shopping and not paying. Where is equality?

[@user-br2cn3ri1r]

A first date.. they're not even friends let alone in a relationship. Why shouldn't a woman pay for her own food? When there's an actual relationship happening then the guy should pay ( but not before). Too many women acting like tramps out there now days just looking for free meals.

[@Shewas-kathybates]

I mean offering would be a courtesy and some courtesy goes a long way.

[@Vexrak]

if a woman does not offer to pay her half on a date she was not raised right. And if the guy does not pay for the first date he was not raised right. It's definitely a red flag if the woman does not at least offer to pay her half or she does not show gratitude. No one owes you anything just because you are a woman, women in 2023 are all about eqaulity until it comes time to split the bill or get on the life rafts

[@speedythings7396]

Nah, if they're coming on a date and don't pay they're a gold digger Funny how men are still held to their traditional roles but women aren't.

[@IntrovertLeo22]

Soju and Korean Barbeque ❤

[@sue8237]

He's picky about how a girl eats, yet he takes food off others' plates (hell no!) and he eats with a fork and knife the entire time.

[@ralphlyda4545]

They agreed beforehand to share.

[@Skeezer66]

So you're not supposed to eat with a knife and fork the entire time??

[@sue8237]

@@Skeezer66I believe etiquette dictates that you use your knife to cut something and then put it back down - not to use it to shovel food onto your fork. But I guess it depends on where you live and who raised you.

[@billstapleton1084]

That is the Way Americans us their Knife and fork.. i @@sue8237

[@ostrogoth]

​@@sue8237 That is a peculiar Usonian custom. In most other places, one eats with the knife and fork the whole time, unless it is something that does not need cutting, in which case you use only the fork.

[@sugakookie6303]

Why I can’t meet someone like him, I always get the guys that are alpha to the max, and in texts and phone they don’t come off like that…so still single..

[@Turnpost2552]

You found him, just dont like him lol physically. Also its this shty economy

[@marcm83]

They’re cute. I hope they give each other a chance.

[@thushfdo7262]

Ok then! 😂🤔 Guess that's a wrap.

[@diegoamezquitaguerrero540]

08:42 there, she fell in love

[@rampar77]

2 nice looking couple, but there are more to life than food. They didn't talk about more important topic like jobs and other interest.

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

...dogs & cats...they 'll get on the other subjects at 2nd. meeting...

[@pohacaraio]

Put the guy on the door to have a workshop with Freddie from First Dates UK .... omg, so stiff

[@pcharm3711]

05:28 😂

[@akainikki]

The hand hold at the end was probably the final nail in the coffin as to why she'll flake over text message. Never be the hand on the bottom guys, come on...

[@dylanparker8292]

I just noticed it!

[@LeandroVelez7]

Brother is so wound up he needs to be on grinder.

[@TheAndyweeras]

She is absolutely gorgeous, great eyes and super sweet.

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

I have 9 bunnies myself and am a manly man I wish I had a chance at her we could do bunny play dates and I could do her bunny 🐰 style while the bunnies play

[@scap11]

She so cute 🥰

[@soup-nazi6824]

She's a real catch & he is goofy & feminine 😅

[@Bambi-ul1tz]

Are you serious Kelly ?😂 The way she eats her food? 😂

[@shoelacedonkey]

He's not wrong. Messy and loud eaters are gross.

[@apurple86]

Nice couple 💜

[@Be1smaht]

i like her so mature

[@JohnDoebr47]

She is deluded. "Happy for the rest of my life" Happiness is as fleeting as the pleasure from food.

[@nprudhomme111]

she bring bunnies to the taping of the show

[@leigh7507]

I'm surprised she likes food that much and stays skinny

[@Den34lle]

Wait she’s only 23

[@Ali.Aideel.Ismail]

I love food. People can love food as long as they workout to stay in shape.

[@chrystianaw8256]

Liking food doesn't mean that you over eat

[@GJH3735]

She should go out with the host. He’s hot 🔥

[@PatriciaPruitt-nt5zn]

Adorable

[@VanessaAndrade-fw6vq]

He said his name was Kelly. Lmao 😅😂just because you don't offer to pay for the bill it doesn't mean you're a gold digger 😮

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

...agree

[@jeretso]

Reminds me of the Muppet song: She wants a rabbit or a man If It's a man that makes him a rabbit of a man 🐰🤣 If he really likes rabbits its a perfect match

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

I love bunnies I have 9. I dream about meeting a girl like this haha I could do her bunny style all night long while our buns play together

[@niconotfound282]

its a bit rich to talk about the bon ton and savoir vivre at the table and then being caught holding the cutlery like a 3 year old.

[@robertgelblum5154]

I feel that he has too many deal breakers. First, if he doesn't like the way his date eats her food. And second, if his date doesn't offer to pay their half on the first date. If he wasn't so picky, and tried to be a little bit more flexible, then he might find many more dating possibilities.

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

Not offering to pay for your own food is rude. Equality, right?

[@TomNook.]

Also, he's Kelly on the weekends

[@Frombie_01]

Mate, people eating with their mouth open or talking with a mouthful of food is just gross.

[@jones2277]

i think he was just talking. he was so gleeful that he gave her a kiss. he would have overlooked those things. just like she overlooked his fussiness, which she saw as feminine.

[@w.urlitzer1869]

@@Frombie_01 yes, but then it's new zealand.

[@user-se2dt4lm8t]

"Gold digger" for a dinner paid?! Seriously? Real men will disappear very soon,with such an attitude....

[@chrystianaw8256]

Fr

[@j.j.9748]

That peck on the cheek was wack ...

[@andreeasiminiceanu8440]

There's no attraction between them🤦‍♀️

[@happyclappyslappy]

"alpha guy". Min could probably be that guy. Masculine you meant masculine.

[@gillowens24]

Boys most pay on first dates though am I right ?

[@chrystianaw8256]

You're right

[@johnmorgan4405]

Wow she is a cutie.

[@DANIAADIL-Fam]

Their cute 😫😫

[@annetteyoung6676]

They both eat with their mouth open but nice couple

[@rogdawg123]

min is 🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 kellie is very pretty 👌

[@AdamFrancisco]

How do I meet Kellie for a first date? 😍😍😍

[@virg0_lem0nade]

you'd have to move to New Zealand for that lol

[@nadiajohnson4923]

Grindr

[@qp4367]

She looks at him like she would a little brother....as a person she definitely likes and could se herself caring for him...probs why she agreed to a second date, she already cares oh and his vocals make him sound trans. It is what it is

[@desi.superhero]

What is it that makes you think that about his voice?

[@Turnpost2552]

Trans acceptance has moves spades if this guys your bar.

[@youparejo]

22 yo and 29 is a large age gap for a girl in her early 20s

[@katechipata9934]

Nice age gap. They would make a cute couple ❤

[@TheCarlScharnberg]

He is a little effeminate.

[@jarrodhall3686]

“Yeah, I love COCKtails…”

[@Turnpost2552]

I am sure you do. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THT

[@ss-wu1vp]

🌈

[@6Sambora]

orang malaysia rupanya haha

[@Sheryle7777]

❤

[@mateopavolini]

a bunny lives up to 9 years, how did she have 16?

[@Briana-li]

Pretty sure she said she has 15 to 16 individual bunnies. Number of bunnies Probably not all at once, but maybe in her lifetime

[@elap1529]

Is she stoned?

[@christinemv9542]

😂z

[@colaboytje]

Very bad match. But women: why do you keep going for "tough, bad, manly" guys, and then complain that they are tough, bad and manly. It should really be a blind date. Eyes closed.

[@erichchan3]

Its crazy to me why women want an "alpha male" as a first date. Its like ok lets you get an alpha male and he just orders for the girl and doesn't care about listening to here since he DGAF and then the girl asks why he is rude. I mean women should be expecting a guy who can keep up a conversation and can be nice. Its just bassackwards in their thinking.

[@stormyweather1392]

Damn y’all are bitter

[@colaboytje]

@@stormyweather1392 About what?

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

...lol

[@NancyFoshee-cl1rl]

...I found it unusual, to say the least....that HE has a food menu planned for his wedding...wow

[@Theloverboy2987]

They say they are animal lovers while eating animals clowns 🤡

[@ryantucker2166]

animal lover eaters.

[@CanadaHasFallen]

Giving those limp wrist ladyboy vibes

[@Akgolf1234]

You should know about ladyboyz😂

[@savedfaves]

@@Akgolf1234 lol