Is my Twin Flame a Narcissist? Will They Change? 😡😤💔😩

[@MikaelB-y1y]

The so-called TwinFlame is a mirror of you that reflects what you cannot see in yourself - just like every other person here on earth. When we recognize ourselves in everything that exists, the game comes to an end 💚💚💚🦋

[@ReiraSeju]

The ''twin flame is your past life'' video made so much sense to me. Guys get your soulmate, is way better lol

[@alchemicalsoul]

Non-attachment even better.

[@Nessachez]

Kurt hearing that you went through narcissistic abuse is so validating! I went through abuse from a narc boss last year. This was four years after my awakening and it was really tough to go through. This woman is a master manipulator and I'm convinced that she's a sociopath. This boss was incredibly insecure and she tried to bully me into feeding her ego. That's when the abuse started because I wasn't feeding her compliments like everyone else. This woman is truly pathetic and ultimately the same tools from the spiritual journey is what helped me get out of that situation.

[@Tgaclaim]

Everyone isn’t a narcissist.. some ppl are just toxic as hell which can hurt really bad and them not being a narcissist doesn’t make a difference. You should t allow anyone to mistreat you. Especially when you don’t deserve it

[@phoenixrising1237]

Narcissistic tendencies come from being raised by narcissistic parents or being over exposed to toxic environments as well as unaddressed mental health issues anyone who has borderline personality disorder or antisocial personality disorder has the cluster b personality type and narcissists share that same cluster b personality so I believe that's where people would be mistaken for narcissists.

[@VenusSweden]

Bipolar is not a cluster b personality disorder 😆

[@phoenixrising1237]

@@VenusSweden true, but they are often related sharing similar characteristics which could be a reason why someone with bipolar would be a magnet for narcissists. I'll fix that ;)

[@trystanlb]

I was cracking up watching this. After the first year of ego death/missing them horribly, I started to think about the things he said to me and literally spent another 6 months just RUMINATING that someone spoke to me like that. But being angry toward your twin flame is the same as love obsessing- it all keeps the wheels of your mind spinning and keeps you in DUALITY. Once I became more conscious I was able to look back and see how horribly cringy I was to him - just think of it this way. If someone is telling you to STOP contacting them, RESPECT them and YOURSELF enough to listen. Once you are able to transcend above duality all will basically be forgiven and forgotten on both ends, but maybe just do yourself a favor and skip the stalker behavior part and go straight to the focusing on self/transcending part 😂❤ 🙏

[@王慧君June]

Even if you didn’t meet your twin flame, you can use this painful experience as an opportunity for your spiritual awakening🎉 I mean, Kert's videos are all worth watching, and then you can wake up from your ego illusions. Everything that happens in your life awakens you to who you really are

[@elifyilmaz981]

My Dm never got angry or said anything bad but ignored my messages and disappeared. That made me soo angry every time. I stopped chasing him. It’s been nearly 3 year with no contact. Kurt’s videos helped me a lot.🙏 every time I want to move on I start missing him but I don’t want him anymore. I am on my spiritual journey now. What else could I do to not miss him anymore.

[@VenusSweden]

the ”DF” goes through what would be labelled (most likely wrongly) as manic psychosis or even schizoaffective episode if assessed by psychiatrist. NPD can seem like they display manic and psychotic symptoms too. But it’s not that unless they have that comorbidity. The ”DM” tend to seem very very very healthy in their reactions and behaviour compared to NPDs and ”DFs” initial behaviour. It’s kinda fun, the one displaying serious really concerning symptoms end up enlightened and the one doing the only sane thing, distancing themselves from the madness tend to not even care about conciousness and would probably throw Tolle’s books in the bin. 😅 Kurt have your flame ever meditated? She must at least be curious about it since you went from total cray cray to this peaceful easygoing chill confident man she wanna be around all the time.

[@shanicehunt9548]

My ex was a narcissist or he definitely had those tendencies he'd blame me for him treating me bad and tell me he's only mean to me but he's nice to everyone else because it's my fault

[@claudiasbarra1882]

This is so helpfull. Thank you so much. I have been raised by a narcissistic mother. I was married with a narcissist for over 20 years and I thought the whole time that he was my twinflame. This kept me stuck for years in the abuse circle.

[@tama7327]

What happened to me was that after I met my possible twin flame, I realized my husband were Narcissist...then I decided to divorce. My encounter with TF saved me from the Narcissist.

[@MsGigi777]

Oh Kurt… I love your channel… it’s only 6am yet hearing you boldly say “mother fucker” on YT has me laughing so hard. What a way to start my day 😂 very informative as far as the TF thang too 🤪💛

[@Elizabeth_717]

Thank you for addressing this important issue. It has been annoying me for awhile now because I had a terrible experience early in life with a narcissistic boyfriend. It was exactly as you described in this video. It was a living hell for 5 years. Thank God I finally had the courage to break up with him and move on with my life. 🕊

[@chriscordsen2643]

I love Dr Ramani, she’s helped me so much in the past and put things into perspective. I would never wish that kind of relationship on anyone.

[@chriscordsen2643]

Asshole part of the narcissist is an understatement.

[@salmpro]

My os is really nice, he just ghosts me when I come on to strong. Then I know I have to back off 🤣🤣🤣 and off course he comes right back. Think I'm catching on...

[@Rukayoutube]

Exactly what I wanted to know 🫠

[@LMS952]

Thank God this video was more realistic than about TFs 😭‼️💯

[@angelfairy5010]

I can’t count the amount of times my TF has ran in the last 6 months, with no explanation I’m just ghosted, he’s def not narcissistic, since I’ve worked on me, he’s come back in and I’ve not put any pressure on him as I’m still working on me, met up with him last week for the first time in 6 months, it was brief didn’t ask to see him again, although hes come in and out a few times in that 6 months just messages, he’s always the one that contacts me, put any pressure on him they run again, the more I retract my energy the more he comes in and comes forward I’m just going with the flow and focusing on me, example yesterday he suggested we meet again I just said whenever left it at that

[@Memyself-g5m]

From personal experience and raised by a narc (so it’s pretty common for me to have the same narc traits in one way or another) most people that throw the “narc” label out is just personality clashes. My mum a narc and I attracted someone who I thought was my tf but he was a narc that either subconsciously or consciously was using my energy to build himself up. Overtime whilst seeing my own reactions because we all have narc traits, some are just unconscious to the fact. I learned through myself, my mum and my “tf” that it’s all energy!! It’s about becoming centered within yourself to a point where you see the narc actions before they happen and these narcs subconsciously know that you know and let you be or in my mums case, become present in your presence!. With my experience I hold no resentment to either because they both taught me deep presence. Today!! People throw around the label like it’s nothing esp gas lighting🙄 Like I say to people that tell me there stories of injustice, can you accept the situation as it is, right now? The injustice is a reaction of thought which we all know, narcs LOVE!!! Much love to those suffering with these types of people❤️

[@CarlaShirley-g8i]

Thank you for this helpful video of the awesome advice.

[@heather4089]

A twin flame wouldn’t ever treat you with disrespect and even from the beginning is a respectful one.

[@sierraG333]

Yeah except they lead you on and then discard you. It hurts like hell.

[@lynette6356]

I just had this talk with God. I said to God, why would you put me with a narcissist as my twin soul? It doesn’t line up with your Word. So.. I answered my own question. I seem to switch from chaser to runner. I get scared because of the narcissism I have dealt with prior to this new nightmare. I’m concentrating on me now. I really wish the person I chased and ran from well. But I need to be present for me now. Love the heck out of him, but I have to take care of me and my daughter.

[@Felcia-of5bb]

My X Husband and My son are narcissitic. I can't be around them . Done ! Studied Psychology. Know what I am talking about. mean Charismatic . But not ... Controlling another aspect and so on. Horrible Humans.

[@joanthomas6012]

Spiritual awakening kundalini and psychic experiences is what I experience on my journey I have meet the other half of my self right on spot Kurt 👍

[@winehousted90]

TWIN FLAME HERE 👋 with a TWIN THAT HAS NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER. I want to come on here and be 100% transparent so that maybe I can help someone or help them not feel alone .. so like you I had an upbringing wasn’t so great : my grandmother has NPD like that actual full disorder like you I’ve done sooo much research and this isn’t just me loosely tossing around the word she fits all the symptoms . My mom her daughter also has some traits or the illness and mixed with other things etc. so I know a lot about this illness. It is possible for you to have a twin flame that is abusive or has NPD. At first this has been such a long road I didn’t know what was going on but the weird spiritual stuff started happening and then I did tons of research too about twin flames and I really wanted to make sure that’s what this was ; things would happen that I couldn’t explain. then I spoke to ppl and asked for guidance and it was also confirmed through that . I would encourage most twin flames to get a past life regression session because I know I definitely need it . But my question is I wonder what will happen when this journey because apart of the dynamic for someone with that illness it’ll definitely be interesting to see .. can they someone be redeemed ? Or mind shifted from all of the symptoms ?? And just to add I’ve been through soo much I felt like iw as going crazy because at first I was sure this was a twin flame connection but then I doubted it and got caught up in a belief: doubt cycle because on Quora “you may just be in attachment with a narcissist and it doesn’t mean anything” so I waited for the feelings and strange things to pass .. they never did I tried to get help and nothing changed ..

[@T4NK01]

Thanks so much for this Kurt, needed the extra clarity on this today, being a survivor of legit narcissistic parents, that thought had crossed my mind a time or two in regards to my twin flame, breifly, but i know if I was in the runner's shoes, i'd feel the same way about the "crazy obsession" too... Your hot and cold picture in the video, though have seen it before, did maybe give me a sort of "AHA" moment this time, as I've been trying to detach... Do I just need to be cold/indifferent towards my twin in order to switch the roles?

[@agnezadzambasevic9560]

Thank you Kurt. ❤

[@unstoppable-n6e]

thanks a lot for this!!🥰

[@RozaTruchinski247]

Yes he's a narc. He would deliberately post pictures of other girls as we were talking on the phone. He would tell me that I suck at dancing, I'm too old for him but would pursue me then tell me that he cheated on me with some chick then lied about it saying that I'm making it up. After cutting him off he went crazy contacting me from many phone numbers over and over. Then told me that the universe was going to punch me in the face and it happened twice. This was after I experienced all the signs and synchronicities that he was my twin flame. I haven't ever had such clear signs about someone. See his name everywhere, number syncronicities and songs that we'd listen to would come on non stop. He even sent me a video of a song that would play every time we were together. He (the me in the other body) has a lot of healing to do and I gave him some tips and tools then said Bye after my Spirit team said: Get the fuck out. I cried non stop and I thought I was going insane. I've done a lot of healing in my life so I knew there's something different about this person. We have a 14 year age difference he's younger. We went through the bubble phase of being in love and then when I shared that I kept getting all these videos popping up that I did not look up. I didn't even know of twin flames. He said it's probably limerance even though he's contacting me. Lol. So I said ok peace out and I'm moving on and blocked him and he then kept contacting me and I've become the runner and will not answer his texts because he hasn't come forward with an apology and when I checked with my own cards Spirit said to let him go. I literally knew that he wasn't what I was looking for and tried to let him go but he was in my head non stop and it is not that difficult for me to let a guy go being 45 I've been through enough to not let anyone disturb my peace but I have no choice it seems because no matter how much cord cutting and pulling my energy back and focusing on myself I always think of him at some point and it makes absolutely no sense other than he is a very unhealed me in another body. A lot of readings have confirmed that this is my truth. I wish it wasn't so but it is what it is. I'm moving on. I'm not allowing this back into my life.

[@NewWorldAllstar]

Did you have an extremely intense kundalini that caused your body to move uncontrollably? Are you now incredibly psychic? Unless you answer a hard "yes" to both of those questions, he's not your twin flame. Don't be offended by my question, I'm just checking.

[@RozaTruchinski247]

​@@NewWorldAllstarYes when I invited him out and he chose not to meet me I had this electricity running through my body like crazy. That actually happened a few times. Also yes I can feel people's energy and intentions towards me.

[@NewWorldAllstar]

Cool. Well, then take the awakening and forget about twin flames. As you are aware, that's the True Purpose of meeting them. BTW, now that you have a greater consciousness, you can manifest a really hot guy into your life who is not toxic! ;)

[@RozaTruchinski247]

@@NewWorldAllstar I totally appreciate all of your videos Kurt! I even sent your channel to him a year ago. Lots of love! 🙏🏻💚🌟

[@shwetaarora3775]

Kurt i had awakening and i cannot stop thinking about the guy since 4 years but did not have Kundalini awakening. Is it not twin flame pls help​@NewWorldAllstar

[@seeratkk7231]

As always ❤

[@sophiawebb7097]

I am narcissist survivor too. I don’t claim to be an expert either but I know o dealt with it directly and in my TF. Well he definitely has narcissistic tendencies but we all know this is from the wounding. I know I love my TF unconditionally more than I did with my ex who I had 3 kids with. Yes IT’s complicated but absolutely not at the same time.

[@NewWorldAllstar]

Did you have an extremely intense kundalini that caused your body to move uncontrollably? Are you now incredibly psychic? Unless you answer a hard "yes" to both of those questions, he's not your twin flame. Please don't be offended by my question, I'm just checking :)

[@sandrahunt543]

I don't think my tf is narcissistic but my kids father is definitely one. I was hit victim for years Until I learned what narcissist was. We haven't been together for years and he still trys to start shit. Like I'm gonna take that crap. Na I'm at peace. Im good with that stuff.

[@jesslynncoachinghealing]

8:28 they prime ya up.. bate you…

[@hannahrae927]

This is so confusing to me. I also had actual narcissist parents. I have CPTSD, my ex husband also was an extreme case. My Twin displays patterns for sure of behaviors and things that coincide with some of the same things I have seen and known from my life. It's extremely painful. How you asked at the beginning, if perhaps your parents were narcissist? Does that tie into your Twin somehow? Or what was the point of that statement? I have so many questions. haha. I and we are going to be on a binge of your videos to get more knowledge beforehand, but I think we need your coaching desperately lol. I hope you can genuinely reply to me on this because I am just perplexed by the intricacies of our journey. It's been almost too much. (Edit): I should probably also say, there are a lot of moving parts, like so many things, mainly trauma, a TBI, multiple addictions trying to be broken. It has not been easy or linear. I also realized, the thing you said and asked about the parents being narcs, was in a previous video that LED me to this video. You’ve got a lot of vids and I’m getting lost and overwhelmed, my bad lol

[@Ghgf-hy1gk]

Bro you only just touch the edges with narcissism although you have explained very well

[@NewWorldAllstar]

I know. There are whole KZbin channels about it.

[@Nadiia333]

I m done with that kind of people's , my ex hubby, my sisters, friend.. They did the same patterns,like reading a book together,Hufft they not make sense for me😅 Then I met my Twinflame with inner child traumas but he not hurt me, he just too scared. Universe hit me to awake,he not let me sleep😂

[@virginialilly7269]

Then he would chase me I would run

[@meganschmitt8028]

Yep, not my OS, but his manager that told him he couldn't see me while she sleeps with a lot of her employees and shows hatred to all women lol. She's notorious for being nasty to women. She'll pretend to like you while doing underhanded things like overcharging you which I confronted her about. She tried to blame my OS when it was him giving me a discount and comped my whole tab 4x. I didn't tell her that of course.

[@ninamarielavu]

My last narc is severe am going thru trauma bonding I can't let him go he's devalued me won't talk to me and when we do talk he has a additude cause he triggered me made me crash out smh

[@TwinFlamesHealingAndNewWorld1]

I never got kundalini but i got opening of the third eye, you said you can have one of those right? Of course, i got satori, ZEN, unity conscnss with my twin,...

[@ninamarielavu]

He is and I feel he's neva gonna change he is WHT he was born into its his parents fault

[@kippyc98]

ok so what about.... Avoidant Attached vs Anxiously Attached - as TF partners?

[@NewWorldAllstar]

You're not a psychologist.

[@kippyc98]

@@NewWorldAllstar 🤣 I didn't say I was! But I know I'm a bit anxious, & my partner is a bit avoidant.

[@heatherscherf8749]

It’s natural to try and apply attachment styles to TF dynamic. Because in the mind it’s the only thing from a psychological perspective that makes any damn sense to describe the energy. But you are truly only hurting your own feelings staying in that mind trap. 😢 it’s not that it couldn’t be true or isn’t true. But ask yourself if that’s helpful? How is that belief system keeping you stuck? Because it will actually will pull on your empathy strings. It will also keep you the “DF” thinking you are “broken” because your “anxious”. You’re anxious because the energy makes you bananas. And side note-I feel true DM Tf’s can’t be that level of mean to you like a narcissist because their intuition won’t allow them to. For them it’s a lot of intuition. So they might think you’re acting crazy and run. But in all the crazy things I sent my DM (prior to finding Kurt lol) he STILL never treated me unkindly. I once asked him to block me because I didn’t trust myself. His response “I can’t do that it just doesn’t feel right.” --intuition. Things like this happened in my TF dynamic. In the push pull. He eventually came back and asked me to be his therapist after the long initial run phase. (To which I said no for obvious ethical reasons 😂). But again-intuition. (I’m a licensed therapist by trade) anyway, point being even in my craziest moments towards him he didn’t name call gaslighting etc. he either just ran or set a boundary.

[@virginialilly7269]

And he is married

[@lLucky4236]

Yes He is in my thought but me if I stay neutral..to my thought (him) so that way I believe not pushing him.

[@mikerozic7225]

Thank God you were the 'one that got away:)

[@natg0118]

What if my Twin Flame is running, because she’s traumatized from love/past relationships? We haven’t spoken in a year (she ghosted me after she left our job); and I’ve been going on her social media this whole year - checking to see if she’s been seeing anyone (romantically), and it really looks like she hasn’t been. Psychics told me she’s traumatized from love, and when she developed feelings for me, that’s what caused her to run from me (ghost me). I guess her feelings for me triggered her past traumas? I know the psychics are correct too; because she’s a musician, and she wrote a song about being heartbroken (her song is on Spotify, and I listened to it) and the way her ex treated her sounded pretty nasty (according to the lyrics of her song)… Is this a common phenomenon with Twin Flame runners?

[@freshfacedb1981]

i get blamed all the time for no good reason i just ignore it its funny how people with do stuff, you call them out angry, and they cannot believe you said that! omg and they just stop texting and ghost you yes family members my sister in law does it to me but my whole family does it. i think narcissist and charcuterie are the worlds of 2024. yes mine will schedule and cancel with a reason like i was just doing it mostly out of obligation. right now ive moved on. i finally stopped the insanity. i feel him coming back but im not anxiously waiting. i cant do the insanity.

[@virginialilly7269]

What if your twain flame completely left one church we both going to and went to other different one will he come back and would run from me does he want to be chased.

[@chitrakripalani7175]

No, mine is an empath like me.

[@RozaTruchinski247]

@@chitrakripalani7175 Congratulations!

[@meganschmitt8028]

Mine too. He made it so 2 guys couldn't come around me where he worked. Said something to keep them out. One of them should definitely be in prison. So the most romantic thing was done by my OS. Like white knight shit and then that romantic bubble of course popped a few weeks later and I became chopped liver. So devastating.

[@LMS952]

The weird energy shit lol facts

[@samsak3251]

Hi kurt, how can we achieve unconditional love for every entity in tf journey. Plz do a vedio.

[@faezehhere]

I've started my spiritual awakening journey and heee doesn't reject me anymore but he also does't take any step toward me haha.. why?

[@chenh339]

2% narcissist tendencies ???? More like 20 % would be more adequate.

[@kerensegevnoy]

How about avoudant attachment style?

[@kimberlyg2874]

Have you met a pilot?

[@Silvercos]

Kurt when she was being mean to you at the start did you find you couldn't get angry with her like you would be towards someone else

[@tamaraparker3380]

Wow. I am 222 likes. 🤍🩵💙💜💙🩵🤍

[@ninamarielavu]

Narcs neva change and all narcs not bad we all have narrsiem in us it's the duality in us

[@agnezadzambasevic9560]

Tf cant be a narcisist but a karmic can. Tf love is pure light after you finish with Ego death.

[@NewWorldAllstar]

There's no such thing as a karmic

[@agnezadzambasevic9560]

@@NewWorldAllstar please explane?

[@jhalak831]

​@@NewWorldAllstarmeaning karma doesn't exist? every action has some reaction.?

[@NewWorldAllstar]

@@agnezadzambasevic9560 kzbin.info/www/bejne/p4DamoqCmbdsmJY

[@agnezadzambasevic9560]

@@jhalak831 asked the Universe the same answer got yesterday 😂

[@diddles100]

Sometimes a narcissist does things deliberately and sometimes they are unaware of their narcissism through environmental conditioning.