Helps me realize the reason people could be so hostile these days and not as friendly as previous decades could just be due to all the fear and being in a hyper vigilant states from what’s going on in the world today.
@markgroves6 ай бұрын
Yes!! Absolutely. He explained that so well right?
@philipholding5 ай бұрын
Or we might now be seeing the world as we are, not as it is.
@ItsJustmytraumaАй бұрын
The body translates accessibility as Vulnerability. Right there, healing begins. Dr. Porges's works have transformed my life, and I am so grateful for them. I also wholeheartedly agree with his warning about social media, especially as we attempt higher consciousness and mindfulness in our lives.
@PearlMayaSusieItsy6 ай бұрын
Steven Porges is such a gift. Thank you for having him on.
@PixelatedReality806 ай бұрын
24:59 🙌 social media is not meant to be healthy. My kids and I had this discussion where we feel we live a virtual life and often robbing our awareness of the present moment. And it was heightened through Covid. We engage socially, shop, research and gather information on our social media platforms, living within our head. Which my daughter and I feel like we are more sensitive to the environment around us, triggering dysregulation. My son, he never got over involved in social media and online applications. He prefers outdoor activities and being with friends face to face. He doesn’t struggle with anxiety or dysregulation.
@philipholding5 ай бұрын
Your son has the answer. It's a common addiction now, and like all addictions, it drip feeds into the subconscious
@curiouscat27226 ай бұрын
Love this humble, brilliant man! As a clinical practitioner I've come to understand how much the ANS is impacting gut health and general well being. We use Dr. Porges' Safe & Sound therapy with every patient in the clinic as a foundational piece of every program. I can't wait to utilize the new polyvagal music! Thank you for your work and great interview.
@nicolearmit44066 ай бұрын
A measure of a great therapist is someone that admits their own challenges in their own life. We are indeed all human. Great interview. Thank you 🙏🏼🌟
@viccinagli38746 ай бұрын
The bit on safety... reminds me of Einstein saying.... is your universe a friendly place or not? Because however you answer that question will determine how your life pans out....
@dr.davidgerstenaminoacidth24216 ай бұрын
Brilliant interview…both of you. I’ve paid some attention to all the ai voices on KZbin. Do you know what they lack? Their voices lack all melodious prosody. They are similar to the voice of a real person stuck in collapse/freeze, and people are getting used to that. As a therapist I practice Polyvagal Theory. I took a lot of notes while watching this video.
@chrisnam16036 ай бұрын
true, oh i can't listen to an audiobook with those voices, even the best that i would so love & can't find in life, greetings from Belgium
@normasilvia246011 күн бұрын
A lot of voices aré AI
@joannakusz45436 ай бұрын
Thank you Fantastic Conversation 😊
@Ana-Karina5 ай бұрын
Very interesting discussion. Thank you to both of you. I find Dr Porges consistently interesting to listen to and his expertise is apparent no matter who he speaks with. For what it's worth, I learn more from Dr Porges than I do from his son Seth with regard to their manner of communication. Seth has some great insights into simplifying the academic denseness of the information, however, Dr Porges has an emotionally calming and naturally engaging speaking manner. I would like Dr Porges to speak about his views on empathy and why some people lack empathy. For example, how does a lack of empathy relate to the polyvagal nerve and a person's bodily sense of safety?
@Erika_Bustos6 ай бұрын
Such an amazing conversation and very validating and necessary for everyone to hear! Thank you for this.
@teaowilson68714 ай бұрын
That was beautiful, thank you two ❤
@Me-nc8pp6 күн бұрын
(Notes to myself: ca. xx people are good in "interpreting" ca. 13:50 it's less intentionality and more physiological state of the body, that leads to behaviours/actions. ca. 49:00: IBS, hypertension (and other physical and mental problems/diseases) are not necessarily caused but highly correlated with individuals with trauma history. The autonomic nervous system got retuned to keep the body defensive, and it interfered with digestion. ca. 56:20 The funding units are not interested in functional core variables, but... because they're pushed by... ca. 1:03:35 We're not self regulated. We're coregulated, and then we use the memories of successful coregulation to self regulate. )
@Jigolpets5 ай бұрын
Good work 🥰🌸
@jennyafricandance1665 ай бұрын
Talking about digestion and having time to relax and digest, makes me think what if cows were not given the opportunity to sit down and chew the cud. Poor things in overcrowded transport to the slaughterhouses must be torture.. They must be so traumatised in industrial farming. I mean more than we could imagine maybe 🤷🏾(I'm a vegetarian, beef farmers daughter lol)
@edition_89235 ай бұрын
Every video about Polyvagal Theory I watched is fantastic, but I'm not sure *exactly* what do in order to get better. Breathing is one of the things I need to to. I remember him mentioning elsewhere meditation, the importance of being with other people, which is almost impossible for me to do. I also can't own a pet. A house with an ocean view is out of reach lol I think his son explains the concept/theory better; his language is more accessible, especially for someone like me who's English isn't a first language. I understand that my nervous system isn't flexible, and that it's stuck in "danger mode", but I don't know exactly how to charge it. If someone knows more, please don't hesitate to share!
@markgroves5 ай бұрын
Have you checked out my episodes with Sarah Baldwin? They are incredible... Breathwork, nature, hiking, meditation... and ultimately being able to be in the company of other regulated humans. A good coach or therapist is helpful for that, and especially a somatic therapist.
@edition_89235 ай бұрын
@markgroves thank you very much for your reply!! :)
@khansherani29 күн бұрын
FEEL the feeling fully and complete it, this is at bottom of all therapy for trauma release. U can also do Conscious breathing Breathing into feeling inhaling through feeling Shining light of ur consciousness on feeling Meditation Tapping Yoga slow body movement with consciousness Deep prayers singing Dance Connections Hooponopono Self compassion Compassion for all humanity......this is some more u can use
@thedancingdivaofdaviestree232011 күн бұрын
Somatic tracking videos can help you sit with your emotions and sensations and learn to befriend them. There are lots of free ones on KZbin. Journaling is beneficial, as are many forms of meditation - find what works for YOU. For me, Chi Gong, guided visualizations, and yoga nidra are wonderful, and help calm the nervous system. Being in nature is always helpful and I love to listen to birdsong. (Studies show that increases calm for up to 8 hours.) EMDR, havening, neurofeedback - there are SO many wonderful ways to help regulate, and many are free on KZbin to try. Best of luck!
@HealyTheresa6 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤😊
@jennyafricandance1665 ай бұрын
After school my mother had food for us as soon we got in the car 😂
@paulmead58325 ай бұрын
Mark, there's a slight lag between your mouth movements and the sound you're making. A wonderful wonderful interview. Thank you so much. Paul New Zealand
@markgroves5 ай бұрын
Thanks for this feedback! I'm not sure what happened there. My apologies!
@moniquelgrace19086 ай бұрын
The house looks incredibly uncomfortable I hope he watches this and see some self