It's funny how we keep circulating back to things that religion has always told us, we have just let society remove these deep spiritual spear and reduce religion to what they can quantify

This video is giving me anxiety 😂

Thank you for telling me who I am ❤ empathetic, a bit psychic and an Indigo ❤

I have always been telepathic, and as I have healed and now have earned secure attachment, I find that I am even more telepathic. Thank you for addressing this, Mark!

Can I be anxious and avoidant at the same time?

Dr Joe is one-off the gems of beautiful medics who care about others instead of filling his pocket like so many medics who does not give a shit about there patients!

AP leaning here but rapidly becoming Secure after learning my lessons by being in a 7 year relationship with a DA. I have been in therapy to get over the enormous anxiety that has become my norm in this relationship and thankfully it has worked. Thing is, I remember calling the DA out very early on in the relationship and relying on his response that he understood that his behaviour was totally unacceptable if we were going to co-create a relationship. I had no idea what a DA was at that time and believed that my relationship skills re open communication would work. Boy, could I be any further from the truth. Constantly being shut down and ghosted and with diminishing connection finally led me to call it quits yesterday. Never again.

Thank you for being SO on point with all of what you said.

Great interview!!

I had a clear agreement , talked only for a year and still got burned. Doesn't matter if someone plays the long game and they're good at it.

Your the best ❤ thank you

This almost made me wanna cry bc I didn’t even know this was a real crazy dynamic I knew I wasn’t tripping

You ROCK ❤

Can the securely attached be almost falsely accused by the anxious of being "avoidant". To the anxious, won't a secure partner seem avoidant to them because the secure are happy being in themselves while the anxious type needs constant attention/reassurance? And in that way, can the constant need for attention turn off the secure partner almost making them avoidant or wanting to leave the overbearing "relationship"?

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I really hope you’ll be able to see this and give me insight- been with my girl for 3.5 years. She was extremely loving and caring for the first 2.5 years. Over the last 6-8 months shes been a completely different person trying to break up with me, then wanting to work it out, then breaking up with me, and letting me stick around in the picture. About 3 months ago she sent me a TikTok about avoidants and told me she thinks that’s her. She has told me she wants to get therapy for herself and us but then will go back to “I’m checked out of the relationship”. In October we had a big argument because she overreacted about something big time and she then told me she wants me. She was never checked out of the relationship, she never fell out of love with me like she claimed and promised we’d get help together and in a year would be in a much better relationship together. Things have been great for 2 months and this past Monday we were talking about New Year’s Eve activities and that I had a big plan for us this weekend and she was very intrigued and not even two hours later when I questioned why she had been short and pulling away lately this week, she again told me she’s just done with the relationship and doesn’t want to try any more and has nothing to give. Usually when she gets like this, she blocks my number. Blocks me on all social media but hasn’t done that yet. She just simply won’t speak to me. And still has me in a relationship with her on Facebook. Idk what to do

I started communicating my needs and expressing I wanted more consistency and alone time together that it would help me calm my anxiety down. My ex became more avoidant and basically ended things...

This is way more about anxiously attached than securely attached persons in a relationship with a doomed avoidant. Even a secure person will feel doom with a resistant avoidant . Sometimes is just not worth the slow burn.

Thanks a lot, really. I've had a terrible hot and cold situation today and I needed that

Incredible no comments. Is that because people don't care? Now with that being said. I think this is an important topic but we should not forget the elephant in the room and that points squarely at Big Pharma and that thing they forced everyone to take. You know what I mean? Sadly that focus is not one we are free to speak openly about. So the new villain, to distract the people is now seed oils.

Thank you for your vidéo. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you 💜

So you think you have dug down to the cause of heart disease which is high insulin. My question is why are we becoming insulin resistant. The late Dr. McDougal agrees with you right up to that point. He believes that the resistance comes from clogging your receptors on your liver and muscles... and causing insulin resistance.

Isolation is my best form Of self care.

This was so clear and understandable, I've never seen it explained this concisely. And most important of all, it actually seemed doable, since you gave a clear model of what to strive for. Thank you so much!!

Very good explained. Thank you

You clearly brainwashed yourself into thinking that your needs are too much. Eastern ppl are the coldest in relationships, so distant while being physically close it is crazy

The left is more moral? I'm puking.

FA here, this is Super valuable 💯 Well done bro

This video was so relatable! Thank you for your amazing work. Your clarity in explanation is so crystal. Loved this one 👍🏻

Cool drawings and nice way to simplify this complex topic. Thank you!

1:02:40 -- After cutting out CARBS from your diet, adding more *protein(amino acids(AA)* instead of just going with fats to replace the CARBS, is AOK for many. *Point being,* we all need AAs more and more as we age ...

I don’t think you answered why avoidants are attracted to anxious people….. I’m wondering

Dammnnnnnn that was good! Thanks so much for making this stuff so understandable! And relatable to a guy! I always feel like the relationship advice is often directed towards women who are anxious. 🎉❤

Thank you for all the work that you have done in yourself within your relationship and your liberated unconditional love. You're helping me heal from my intense heartbreak and truly learning to let go and trust 🥲

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You’re so awesome -I love the way you explain and share your incredible knowledge and insight on being human - thank you ❤️

Masters of friends with benefits, one night stands, etc. Amen because I lived it.

The only thing I would add is fearful avoidant and the inability to tell whether one wants space but is being anxious to grab the space .

Relationship are dead haven't you heard men are thinking with their big head now!!!!!

PREACH! You have nice eyes

My ex was a fearful avoidant. We got too close & suddenly “i was too emotional for him” Before that i was his “dream man”. Almost a year later & I’m still slowly working through it. Cause how does someone say so many good things about someone else & then “stonewall” the other person to the point that the relationship implodes? This video explains how; thank you for sharing the difficult truth about avoidant attachment style 🙏

I was more avoidant and he was more anxious until we married and the roles flipped. I’ve learned to allow that space, but it hurts.

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There’s a difference between common and normal - what most people describe as normal, like spanking, is actually common - not normal like you said. When we change the words we use, we can change our behaviors and that can change the world.

Sugar is the problem not cholesterol

This doctor explains heart disease so well and so correctly. Thank you for interviewing him.

My body would shake internally 😢 just left need to heal ❤

Just found out I’m an anxious attach 😢 I was so confused 🤔

i miss when people said eat and not "crush"