Is Sex Ruined by Overthinking? Is it Pee? feat. Ricky Shucks | Lovers & Friends Podcast Ep. 81

[@HH_Julius]

FINALLY Rick stopped being hard headed and jumped on the podcast. BEEN waiting on this one ever since Shan was on No Chaser!!

[@MohammedMoheuddin-hx9db]

Love you.

[@BALLSOHARDU]

WE NEED RICKS ONLY FANS ACCOUNT!!!!!

[@maths_monkey]

I love how this guest brought the playfulness out of you Shan. I enjoyed your energy in this video❤

[@Michyyyy538]

Not him saying "ew. spit that shit out" 🤣😆

[@Christina-Claire]

Sometimes, i think getting out of your head and getting connected to your body is something you need to work on. I would recommend reconnecting with your body so others can connect with you the way you require.

[@cvstaff22]

Really enjoyed this conversation and hearing his experiences/ perspectives. I also liked the logical breakdown in the beginning of why you guys prefer more open relationships vs why others tend to not partake in them

[@MultiLatina95]

We missed RICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Finally!!!!!!!!! We missed y’all hanging out!!!!!!!!!

[@WhatIsHasValue]

In any relationship I have, whether it’s my kids or my friends or my partner, I can go to movies, grab coffee, have great conversations, cry with, get hugs from, even share a residence or bills with… The only thing I do with just my romantic partner is the sexual intimacy. Monogamy isn’t about ownership; it’s about sanctity.

[@amberpooran]

WE STAN RICK so glad for this episode

[@bobdole991]

I feel most people in society aren’t ready to be exposed to public non-monogamous relationships.

[@Uworld17]

Polyarmory has been put on the global scene to indirectly find a solution for commitment/accountability issues and fear of attachment but even in polyamory u r exposed to the same challenges u deal with in monogamous relationships. ..u just need to add to it additional soul ties...anyone who has experienced polygamous families know that it's far from a peaceful journey even if all partners are aware of the arrangement

[@TheDkSkye]

These are *thee* highlight to the start of my weekends 🥰😂 I look forward to them every week 🍿

[@Tyrell4Real]

Shan I don’t comment much and part of this stems from other videos , but you are so good at this . Your clarity , script writing , and ability to deliver it organically , and still some how still be you is good . Your also so aware in conversations , and always have something , when your guest ( RICK! 😂) may give you nothing . I’m a fan because I love the content , love you and Jared, and just as someone who did Radio and podding before ( 2006) I know how difficult it can be . However I’m jealous of Rick right now because I would love the opportunity to do an episode like this with you. I’ll audition , whatever . Maybe you can hold a contest, or whatever . Bring two of on together or just one at a time , and just do this. If you do decide to do that , please consider me . Best, Tyrell

[@briolivia]

Ricky Shucks! Seeing his face takes me waaaay back

[@luraayzit]

I love this encouraging and informative talk

[@jessicah2o123]

Love the podcast! Also gum comes out of your body as stool like any other food. It doesn’t stay in you for 7 years in case anyone was worried about that.

[@angellawalker4948]

I was concerned about the gum thing🤔🤔

[@kareemfofana]

this has been one of my fav episodes, i laughed and laughed, learned, and laughed some more.

[@leizabethcolon]

Love your podcast Shan ❤ always so thought provoking and insightful!

[@LadyLaRose1]

I loved this episode! I could relate to some much but let me just say that I love the way you explain things Shan, I just be listening like that’s exactly what I meant or how I feel and I appreciate you for that. I can always learn or take something away from your podcast

[@hightunnel2723]

I’m really glad I stopped and clicked on this. This conversation with Rick is refreshing cause it’s laid back and came from a genuine place. This reminds me of what it’s like to have a conversation between me, a girl, and a guy friend platonically without it being weird. It’s real talk and insightful. This episode is underrated. Also, I think it’s hot when guys touch themselves too 😂 I get it when guys are turned on by girls masturbating

[@JARARIAN]

I love me some Ricky Shucks ❤

[@akirasmiiith]

I love Rick!!

[@ShyiaRobinson]

I think a lot of these questions that ppl have can be answered by understanding your sexual blueprint (you can google and take a quiz). A lot of ppl aren’t sexually compatible. Women are more complex when it comes to our sex drives and some need to be wined and dined or start sexting earlier in the day if it takes her a while or maybe you have to be more adventurous and play with certain senses with taste, textures, smells or touch/vibrations. I think if you want to be pleased, you have to ask your partner to help them help you and vice versa. If they’re unwilling, then it seems it’s not a match. But it can be fun and exciting finding all this out! 😊 my SB is energetic so I’m not easily sexually attracted to most ppl but when I have found a sexually compatible person, the passion is legitimately out of this world and multidimensional. And I think it can be better. 😎

[@siliziwex44]

Hilarious and informative please bring him back 🤣🤣😍

[@sabrina_smilez]

Gotta have Rick back on !

[@ChrisGayle-m5e]

I know what it’s like to have your relationship public and then have it private

[@sunvavachi]

I love him!

[@KhanyiTamana]

THE PEEN AND THE POON!!!!

[@DellaMora2222]

Squirt is not mostly pee.. there are traces of it.. if it was ppls rooms would be smelling terrible.

[@Lafaa-t7p]

Exactly

[@joshblock06]

great episode, love seeing guys together having this conversation... 10/10. That squirrel def wanted them rounds with you LOL black squirrel dont play

[@theetravelhippie]

loveee rick!

[@Msdeanna.angela]

The poon and the peen reunited at last! 🫶🏽 yay

[@mihotsubaki8892]

Awesome episode ❤

[@Abigail-bh5kr]

i make that face too 😂😂

[@Bigbobbie69]

Great episode!!!! 💪🏿

[@thedouglaspodcast]

26:25 MANIPULATIVE AF BRUH WTF 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 basically being like “get tested and I’ll swall*w your l*ad” 💀💀💀💀

[@thedouglaspodcast]

27:21 yes Rick!!!! With him 1000000000% on that one. Also Shan.. I wish you woulda asked how the internet affected his personality specifically. Hate when famous people talk about stuff that are completelyyyyy un-relatable. If he spoke about the strain it actually put on the relationship tho.. we can alllllll relate to that. Idk bruh 😓 maybe it’s just the LA podcast scene but I’ve been cutting them off one by one for this reason. I can resonate with “oh the internet hate. Oh living on the road. Oh having so much money.. im out of things to spend it on 💀 oh im bored because I can choose what to do 24/7. Oh I have anxiety because im worried my views will go down.” Lmaooooo. Those are LITERALLY things I’ve heard podcasters speak about for wayyyyyyy too long. And it’s not just one occasion.. after like the 3rd time they go on and on about something I can’t relate to in any way, shape or form.. I unsub and never watch again. This is getting to that point 😅

[@thedouglaspodcast]

30:38 oh shit 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 STRIKE TWO. Add “oh I was -dating- ‘paired with???’ (Idk what that means lolol) a rapper and he was way too cool” lmaoooooo

[@ChrisGayle-m5e]

The first time it happened for me I was clumsy to what was going on lol

[@lillian_desu]

Black squirrels are built different XD

[@merocopa3624]

Here for no chaser.

[@divinegangsta3692]

All FACTS!!!!!

[@stylinson.9839]

Shan is in an open relationship? :0

[@amark8786]

Your in Canada! Everyone is in Texas or Cali 🫣🤣 Drake is the only one in Canada 🙆🏾‍♀️ In my air head

[@simoneholmes5216]

Is he talking about the Asian women ? Or someone else

[@frankie9953]

weird that he's tripping about the "wet spot" after sex.

[@toomuchinformation]

But didn't HE create it?

[@frankie9953]

@@toomuchinformation yea, so why is he trippin about a wet spot? lol

[@MrPrincessdlow]

i am with him! I hate the wet spot. i'm ok with a pee pad.

[@Sotica1324]

5:59

[@TBREAKTIME]

Hes a Leo

[@MrPrincessdlow]

Libra

[@TBREAKTIME]

@@MrPrincessdlow lol thank you, do you happen to know his rising sign by chance?

[@Fac0999]

Oh hell nawl thats piss!!? Gonna be immature about this for a while