Is Swearing Really THAT BAD? w/ Fr. Gregory Pine, OP

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In this segment, Fr. Gregory discusses swearing or "cussing." It's not good, but is it really that bad? And what implications can it have on our spiritual lives?
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@deepseablu91
@deepseablu91 2 жыл бұрын
Father Gregory, could you make a video regarding how to get past shame & embarrassment of a past sin, even though you’ve gone to confession?
@Peter-jo6yu
@Peter-jo6yu 2 жыл бұрын
I've found that one of the things that helps you overcome shame of past sins is acknowledging that we have many weaknesses and frailties. We aren't fully evil or useless like Protestantism pretends, but we have some weaknesses and tendencies towards evil. Acknowledging that "yes, I sinned like that in the past. It's ok, because God has forgiven me, and I will forgive myself. Instead of beating myself up, I will just focus on becoming a better person. There are many good things that God has made about me, and I will work to improve them. If others think what i did was very shameful or bad, then it's ok, because I can't control the way others think. God has forgiven me, he has cleaned my sins and made me white as snow, given me a fresh chance"
@godsarmy8746
@godsarmy8746 7 ай бұрын
@@Peter-jo6yu I find it helpful to focus on the good qualities that we have, because that is what God likes to focus on.
@nicholasm2469
@nicholasm2469 3 ай бұрын
I find myself worrying too much about what other people think of me. The root of this is Pride, and that's a deadly sin. There's certainly discernment in how open I should be about my sins, who I should be open with, when I should, etc. But overall, I would caution one against thinking so much about themselves, that they worry about how they look subjectively by others. How we look objectively is important; not subjectively. We're called to be charitable towards others, and they should be charitable toward us. Ultimately, it matters how God sees us. We should be sincerely contrite, and ensure we're "right by God." If we've done all we can do, especially through God's graces, then there's no reason to worry.
@joshzeringue4862
@joshzeringue4862 2 жыл бұрын
The video makes it clear that foul language is a small venial sin. Nonetheless, the comment section is filled with guilt, scrupulosity, and opprobrium. Oh, the fudging internet.
@thstroyur
@thstroyur 2 жыл бұрын
@Katrina Guerrier Indeed; Fr. Pines' points are excellent as well-spoken as usual, but I disagree with his _a priori_ "vulgarity = sin". I see it the same as alcohol, tobacco, and money: yes, these things can easily lead to sin, but they're not themselves sinful, nor is their use, necessarily - and moderation and thoughtfulness are some of the things we can employ to avoid making them so
@markiangooley
@markiangooley 2 жыл бұрын
A friend was overly prone to swearing but after a deepening of his faith he worked to overcome it. He told me it wasn’t easy, even though he’d come to think swearing childish and unsuitable for a grown man.
@EAP0804
@EAP0804 2 жыл бұрын
You know how to use words in the best way! “Faculty of speech ought to be exercised…” “it drops the level of discourse” “it debases..those aspects of human life that are most sensitive” Wow. Right on the money again Father Pine!
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 If someone thinks there's no difference between saying "no thanks" and "f*** off" bc of the fact that each phrase means what it means arbitrarily then they've missed the (arbitrarily selected) meaning of those words.
@jmwvirgil
@jmwvirgil 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 It drops the level of discourse, not only in terms of offense, but also in terms of linguistic accuracy. Swear words are so versatile you can put them in almost any context, which leads to your vocabulary being less than it should be, because these more versatile words are applicable to almost anything.
@daniellawrence1256
@daniellawrence1256 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 bruh, all words are arbitrarily selected. That's kind of what language is. Your tangent is still extraneous and failed to escape being somewhat specious. It requires a certain disingenuity to believe. Swing and a miss. And this comes from a dude who loves to curse
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 You keep saying "some old people" or something similar. There are literally ratings to movies, video games, tv shows, etc based on the vulgarity/obscenity of the language. Language is societal. If someone rejects the meaning of certain words or phrases which society as a whole has agreed upon then that person is living in his or her own head space.
@CatholicK5357
@CatholicK5357 2 жыл бұрын
I distinctly remember having a swear fest in front of some peers around grade four because I noticed it got me attention and made them laugh. But I felt so bad that night that I promised God to not swear anymore. The next day they had wanted me to continue the show but were quite surprised when I was upfront and honest. I had no idea that making promises to God was not considered normal, so I just told them thinking they would understand. In hindsight, I am still glad that I was upfront about God. I got back into the habit of swearing a few different times during my life. But I kept deciding to give it up because I just didn't want to be that kind of a person. It wasn't in judgement of anyone else, but it always bothered my conscience. At first I had to replace the vulgar words with joke/fake swear words. Then after that I trained my mind to resort to prayer instead of being even jokingly vulgar. It seems strange, but it really is just a matter of habit. Now, by God's grace, I just offer up my frustration with a short prayer - such as "Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, I love ye, save souls." Every once in a while I do catch myself saying "shoot", but it tends to be more when I mess up and am not sure what to do, rather than out of anger - and not uncontrolled. Anyway, I hope this might help anyone else who wishes to give up the habit, to show that it is possible by God's grace, even when falling into it multiple times during life.
@pauljohnson6019
@pauljohnson6019 Жыл бұрын
Well done- how long are you free of cussing?
@CatholicK5357
@CatholicK5357 Жыл бұрын
@@pauljohnson6019 By the grace of God I would estimate five to seven years. After writing the original comment I have caught myself whispering the "sh" word in a panic once a year or so (such as when a candle fell over). Therefore it is not 100% conquered as I had previously thought. I am grateful to God for conquering the habit of swearing, but I hope to one day have it off my tongue entirely. Until then I will accept the humiliation as a thorn in my side. God bless.
@pauljohnson6019
@pauljohnson6019 Жыл бұрын
@@CatholicK5357 I'm 13 years+ no f word swears, about 2+ years no s words, 29 years no pu words, the rest b words, pi words etc I'd say 24/25 years, not too bad.
@Saint_DBag
@Saint_DBag 2 жыл бұрын
so all kinds of profanity are sins? so theoretically we can just make up words that are sins to say? who decides what words are a sin to say, man or God? it really doesn't make sense to argue that using "profane" words for any reason is a sin. Is this subject dogmatically taught or is the common Christian consensus that all cuss words are a sin to use no matter what is just an opinion?
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
Society/custom determines the meaning of all words. It's completely arbitrary that "tree" means "woody, perennial plant." Society (at least US society) has determined the meaning behind the words "no thanks" and "f*** off". If someone rejects the latter words' determined meaning but doesn't reject the meaning of all the other words in the English language then they're living in their own head space but not in society (as far as language goes).
@user-hj8vd2od9h
@user-hj8vd2od9h 2 жыл бұрын
One time I was being an a**hole and my brother called me out. He said "Dude, why are you being such an a**hole?". It took me a bit to realize my vulgar behavior, and at first I was salty that he called me out with such directness, but now I am grateful that he used such vulgar language to describe my vulgar behavior - it helped open my eyes to my vile behavior. I think vulgar language can have it's place in authentic charity, if used correctly.
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
29 Let no [a]unwholesome word come out of your mouth, but if there is any good word for edification [b]according to the need of the moment, say that, so that it will give grace to those who hear.
@carolinpurayidom4570
@carolinpurayidom4570 2 жыл бұрын
@@Wgaither1 we as a society decide the word is unwholesome when it just means buthole and over time it will change
@vguitar4118
@vguitar4118 2 жыл бұрын
There are synonyms that you can use for such vulgar words to express yourself. People who swear have a simple vocabulary. Furthermore, swearing is wrong.
@CedanyTheAlaskan
@CedanyTheAlaskan 2 жыл бұрын
@@vguitar4118 Okay, but if the other words are truly synonyms, then they mean the same thing, so what makes it wrong to use the word above vs another word someone could use? I hope that made sense
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 "I'd rather be alone" is synonymous with "f*** off". And "I don't think she's very smart" is synonymous with "She's a dumb a** b****". Still, if someone doesn't see the difference in each case then they either don't understand the language of the society they live in or they're arbitrarily rejecting the meaning of certain words and living in their own head space.
@harryfaber
@harryfaber 2 жыл бұрын
My grandmother went to a Methodist Sunday school, way back in about 1908. The Minister there taught her certain standards, along with the other children. In 1962,3,4 & thereafter, my grandmother taught me some of the things that the good Minister had taught her, including 'not swearing'. Now, if you wanted to argue with my grandmother on such subjects, she would ask you if you wanted to feel her wedding ring around the back of your ear.
@mattberg916
@mattberg916 2 жыл бұрын
Your grandmother was right. Whining about "physical abuse" is way over the top. Physical reminders are very fitting to us as creatures that are so extremely driven by our senses.
@mattberg916
@mattberg916 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 we disagree. I believe in discipline and started very young is far easier to develop and requires less chastisement than to let things slide. Small issues such as language should never be allowed to develop into moral issues
@mattberg916
@mattberg916 2 жыл бұрын
@Katrina Guerrier nobody said anything about hurting children. Hurting children is letting them stray from what is right somehow thinking that you're educating them.
@spiffygonzales5899
@spiffygonzales5899 2 жыл бұрын
@@mattberg916 Agreed. Nobody wants to cause physical harm to their children. But if we want to let our children learn before they suffer for poor behavior we have to punish them for bad behavior. "But what about timeout/scolding/taking away a toy" Nobody is saying those punishments shouldn't be allowed nor are we saying that physical punishment is the only thing that should be used. Just that physical punishment shouldn't be avoided solely because it is physical.
@RunningRiotRaiden
@RunningRiotRaiden 2 жыл бұрын
I think a main problem however is the subjective nature of swear words. Take the word “Whore”. Many people see this word as a curse, but in reality it is just a descriptor, and yes, it is a vulgar descriptor, but that’s because what it describes is vulgar behavior I.e.,: “Whoring”. In this similar sense (and I’ll sensor myself for the sake of the nature of the video) the F word is NOT referring to sex as such, but sex within a certain context. To have sex for the sake of lust and pleasure but without love is to “F***”. To have sex in the context of love and marriage is to “Make Love”. In fact perhaps the reason the F word is seen as bad is because it speaks to this reality that sex outside of love and marriage is simply F-ing, but it cannot be making love. In this sense F can be used to describe other extremes. Idk, I don’t buy that any use of curse words is wrong, lest we fall into an overly legalistic mentality. And if we end up using non-curse words to replace curse words, then they end up serving the same teleological end. If I say “Wow that’s an extremely beautiful Waterfall” and feel a deep appreciation for it, and someone with less command of language from the cities says “Wow that’s an F-ing beautiful waterfall” and feels a deep appreciation for it, then I believe both are expressing themselves with the language suitable for them. But just because Someone says in a crowded bar “I want to have sex with that girl” vs “I want to F her” doesn’t make either sentence more or less respectable. Both express a desire towards wickedness. Srry for the long response
@gloriapatri1
@gloriapatri1 2 жыл бұрын
We are all called to holiness.
@bhas3373
@bhas3373 2 жыл бұрын
Fr what are your thoughts on the Fr. Stu movie that has numerous F bombs? God Bless
@ponderingCanuck
@ponderingCanuck 2 жыл бұрын
Father Mike mentioned this point while recommending the movie. He pointed out there were many, in every scene, but that it was part of the authenticity and showed the significance/impact of what father Stu went through and how dramatically his life was changed.
@carolinpurayidom4570
@carolinpurayidom4570 2 жыл бұрын
Here's the thing about modern day swear words most of them should not be because most of them describe things that are mundane in of itself like poop or sex and what is considered a curse word changes over time so...
@EmberBright2077
@EmberBright2077 9 ай бұрын
This video hasn't convinced me that swearing is somehow a sin. The entire video requires that you already believe that swearing is a sin.
@apball1223
@apball1223 2 жыл бұрын
Matt correct me if wrong but I believe The earlier days of Pints with Aquinas had an audio podcast on the topic of cursing that when I listened to it made feel that cursing was permissible like using the f bomb is ok because it came from a Dutch word to breed. As long as it was not used in a vulgar sense.It still feels dirty to use that word and I guess that is God speaking to me in my heart. I’m much more of a fan of the later PWA videos with Jonathan Prague and Fr Gregory pine and their explanations on why cursing is wrong. It’s good to see today the PWA channel promoting us to higher standard with our speech. Thanks for your work in building up the kingdom!
@sz4963
@sz4963 2 жыл бұрын
They’re sentence enhancers 🤣
@TJ1920
@TJ1920 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe I am old but I was brought up to not use vulgarity lots of words to express ourselves without resorting to profanity
@CedanyTheAlaskan
@CedanyTheAlaskan 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up with swearing being common place. Often times it was used when surprised(someone scares another) hurt(someone fell down the stairs, as I did commonly lol) and to emphasize something(make a point you are trying to make more boldened or to try and correctly express the size or scope of something). Although with this, swearing was also used against another. Calling someone a such and such or telling them to do such and things. Put like this, I think swearing becomes more than just saying the "words you can't say on TV" as George Carlin put it. It is about how we are directing our speech, whether or not we are degrading the human person, life or worse of all God(although we would typically call that blaspheming). I think there is a mighty difference from me saying the F-bomb when I get surprised, hurt or to emphasize a point trying to be maid, and using it to degrade, insult or otherwise scandalize someone. Now a counter thing someone will say is, well you could use a synonym for that word. And that is true, but if it is truly a synonym, then the two words mean the same thing, and if I am going to be using them in the same way, why not just go with the first word? Now, this is where scandal comes in. If I am aware that there are words that scandalize someone I am talking to, I see it as a moral duty to avoid those words as well as I can. Example: I have two friends who do not cuss. One is fine with hearing cussing one is not. So with one friend I might cuss, and with the other I will avoid it when possible. This is also why I would try and avoid cussing out in public, it may scandalize someone and I may not know that. There are also other reasons but for this that will do.
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 "I'd rather be alone" is synonymous with "f*** off". And "I don't think she's very smart" is synonymous with "She's a dumb a** b****". Still, if someone don't see the difference in each case then they either don't understand the language of the society they live in or they're arbitrarily rejecting the meaning of certain words and living in their own head space.
@sasukeCS7
@sasukeCS7 Жыл бұрын
@@don7502 I'm sorry but your example just made me laugh out loud LMAO
@Hyperb2002
@Hyperb2002 9 ай бұрын
Exactly. My biggest issue when it comes to swearing is not just that swears and their euphemisms are synonymous, but also what determines one word to be socially acceptable but others not. I can avoid using certain words because people don't like them, but what determines a word to be socially acceptable? Not to mention some socially unacceptable words have become more accepted, meanwhile other words that used to be accepted aren't now. My issue isn't whether or not it's accepted, but why, and with the why being opinion and subject to change, I can't find myself agreeing with certain words being (arbitrarily) uncouth.
@mattberg916
@mattberg916 2 жыл бұрын
A priest told me in confession that as we receive our Savior in our mouths we should strive to keep our mouths clean. I also feel it's akin to guarding your eyes to guard you soul...watch you mouth, mister! I struggle with anger and of course the accompianing language. My whole life in the trades and now a trucker it's a particularly hard habit to break.
@enouelle4446
@enouelle4446 Жыл бұрын
I struggle with anger too, I have said to some one silently you animal bec I got annoyed with the attitude of this person which is not nice that's why I said " you animal" but that person didn't know and heard me said that ..the moment I said you animal, I quickly realized its a bad word and I felt sorry for saying that I feel so guilty inside ..is it mortal sin then should I go to confession if that's mortal?
@jmwvirgil
@jmwvirgil 2 жыл бұрын
Swear words having such a wide array of uses definitely results in speech that is less precise than it should be.
@pijayes3059
@pijayes3059 2 жыл бұрын
Why aren't they sins against charity if they are used offensively or contemptuously and insultingly?
@brandon6896
@brandon6896 2 жыл бұрын
Fr Gregory I have a question that I'm sure everyone else knows, but that I don't. What is Glory? I hear it more than nearly any other word, but is it just describing excellence? Or is there another dimension to the word?
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
W Scott Cleveland has an article on the glory of God which might help.
@BindingTheYoke
@BindingTheYoke 2 жыл бұрын
You know this is my number one vice but I always found it ironic that other Christian women (Catholic or protestant) would be more grievously offended by my vulgarity of speech than that of their rampant malicious gossip of others hidden behind a guise of piety because "they are praying for them" 😒 so all the sordid details are emphasized and elucidated for good measure doing irreparable harm to the persons reputation without any regard for true charity. But of course they told it with modesty of speech, with impeccable eloquence and with "good intentions" I'm sure! 🙄 The irony is where my vulgarity is venial, their gossip is mortal, breaking commandment. IRONIC which one sounds uglier to the ears of the Lord I wonder.
@pseudo-dionysiosareopagite6541
@pseudo-dionysiosareopagite6541 2 жыл бұрын
Could you do one on the sun of presumption?
@TJ1920
@TJ1920 2 жыл бұрын
Blasphemy I truly believe is a sin Brought up to believe Blasphemy is a mortal sin People use of vulgarity these day is taken so light that a lot of people don’t think much about it Very Troubling Toronto Ontario Canada
@enouelle4446
@enouelle4446 Жыл бұрын
Is saying a bad word or swearing a mortal or venial, for instance when I said you animal then is that mortal? Should I go to confession right away
@classicalliberalarts
@classicalliberalarts 2 жыл бұрын
So well said. Thank you.
@graham6774
@graham6774 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for that Father! It meant a lot.
@DachoL777
@DachoL777 2 жыл бұрын
Pine's with Aquinas😁, Happy Easter. Thank you for all the great lessons
@Martin4Mary4Ever
@Martin4Mary4Ever 5 ай бұрын
What would you say to the usage of crass words with a gradient scale in order to communicate with precision? Granted precision of speech and speaking to your audience would be the reins on the speech. If malice is in speech, or the speech does not reflect the object in the mind there is sin. Speaking with philosophical or literate precision is a great barrier to speaking with rougher characters. This creates an occasion of unevenly yoked conversations that destroy trust. It is in speaking well of people and things that we love them. If we speak with precision: - cursing is always a mortal sin - swearing is often a moral sin - vulgar speech can be a mortal sin given circumstances of justice - foul/crass speech is always a venial sin but is the entry point of intentional impiety - speaking of vulgar things with vulgar speech is proper as long as they are spoken to and by people disposed by their state in life to those objects without intention to magnify the words. Veiled speech has its purpose but only to protect those who should not be present to hear the conversation in the first place.
@arielmartinsoliman7413
@arielmartinsoliman7413 9 ай бұрын
Watching from Philippines
@nathanielgroff
@nathanielgroff 6 ай бұрын
O o!
@Enya111Bayting-pz2zv
@Enya111Bayting-pz2zv 2 ай бұрын
I think all human person must practice the right thing for we could allow to be happy in space
@msgoody2shoes959
@msgoody2shoes959 2 жыл бұрын
I only have to remember Matthew 5:22 and Colossians 4:6,...I can not ask God to damn anyone.."G,D, that person, that situation...so forth." And I may not hate/loathe a person; but using a profanity as an adjective....is ok ...for now. This keeps certain people at bay, and the Father in control. Oh, also I may not teach others, things that loosens self control. So this is a situation similar to Paul and Peter over the need to convert to Judaism then to Christ. I am like this-such and such, with Christ but other people may have a different relationship with Him. Fine.
@Enya111Bayting-pz2zv
@Enya111Bayting-pz2zv 2 ай бұрын
Father Pine That is difficult...I am human
@MagnumLapua338
@MagnumLapua338 2 жыл бұрын
Saint Faustina did talk about being silent when to be silent .
@marynellessen8790
@marynellessen8790 2 жыл бұрын
Great topic! Thank you so much! Gives more insight to help stop this habit 🕊🙏🏻
@patrickmicheal6235
@patrickmicheal6235 2 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for this video for so long Thank you Father
@suzyzieg4758
@suzyzieg4758 2 жыл бұрын
Father Gregory, could you comment on why God did not make all of us sinless like he did for the blessed Virgin Mary?
@mattharazin5578
@mattharazin5578 2 жыл бұрын
In order to reveal His love for us by giving us His Son, Jesus, to suffer and die on our behalf. He gave us free will and our forefathers abused it and we reap the consequences, which is our fallen, sinful state. He used Mary’s sinlessness to bring about our freedom from sins by using her as a vessel for His son to become one of us. It is what He decided, His reasons and wisdom far exceeds our own and we might not totally understand His reasons, but must accept what He did with faith
@karsonbruce7451
@karsonbruce7451 2 жыл бұрын
What if I only use it in comedy!!!!!!???????
@pauljohnson6019
@pauljohnson6019 Жыл бұрын
That's still cursing, it's a sin.
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
Which is greater in the eyes of God , an infinite amount of venial sins or one mortal sin that if you rank it would be on the bottom
@koyo3376
@koyo3376 2 жыл бұрын
What if you're writing fiction? You aren't using them yourself but you're writing a character to say them.
@mmvr2680
@mmvr2680 2 жыл бұрын
Won’t that make any reader/listener/watcher be exposed to that? You will know better than anyone: is it the tool to convey what you want to in your story? Are there any other options? I pray that the Lord enlightens you and enriches you with His creativeness. As for myself, if that helps, having curse words might make me stop watching a movie if I feel it’s too much for me.
@raveneden7028
@raveneden7028 2 жыл бұрын
Debatable. Pray and talk to people smarter than myself
@carolinpurayidom4570
@carolinpurayidom4570 2 жыл бұрын
Censor it
@aiantenor9080
@aiantenor9080 2 жыл бұрын
thank you Fr Pine for showing us an example of using the faculty of speech really well. I am blessed, I hope others are too
@marcosvinicius-iq4lp
@marcosvinicius-iq4lp 2 жыл бұрын
Father Gregory thank you for your wisdom, clarity, and sanctity. This was very helpful. The insight your shared will help guard me against scrupulosity and yet at the same time guide me to christian perfection. God Bless You and Happy Easter.
@DominusTecum316
@DominusTecum316 2 жыл бұрын
With the same mouth that we bless and worship God. This same filthy mouth we use to nail Jesus to the Cross each time we curse. It is stated in the Bible. I understand the gravity of the sin we all do against God by swearing. I pray for anyone who still curses because it took me the worse curses to be guided by the Holy Spirit to not do it anyone. Previous people that knew me from the past are now let down that I do NOT curse. Honestly I did it to make people do their job steadily, with sense of extreme precision and determination to accomplish the job. I was so wrong because of what I did to Jesus at the Cross each time.
@enouelle4446
@enouelle4446 Жыл бұрын
Is cursing or saying bad word mortal sin then? If I had said to someone bec of anger you animal then is that mortal or venial
@drewmaal8264
@drewmaal8264 2 жыл бұрын
Would love a video on monogenism and polygenism
@debbieobryan5607
@debbieobryan5607 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou father, I burned my hand the other night and let out a swear word, I am humbly sorry for swearing 🤬 but it did hurt and yes at times I have sworn real bad, now I try to not do this, I am a female.
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 "Old people" determined the meaning of all language. Do you reject the ascribed meaning for all words or is it just a small, arbitrary set of words whose meaning you reject?
@don7502
@don7502 2 жыл бұрын
@@Unclenate1000 The reaction is determined by the meaning. If a person doesn't find someone else spitting on them offensive then they don't understand the meaning of the act (at least in the US). Certain people that think "f*** off" has the same meaning as "no thanks" just don't understand the meaning of the words. Those certain people can live in their own head space but they're the ones who either don't understand or are choosing to reject the the custom/norms of the language of their society.
@enouelle4446
@enouelle4446 Жыл бұрын
Is it consider mortal or venial when swearing accidentally? How about when I got upset at someone and I said a bad word by saying "you animal " because I find the attitude not nice and annoying then dis I commit mortal sin? How about when I also said the word whoreor slut to someone is that mortal ?
@TyroneBeiron
@TyroneBeiron 2 жыл бұрын
🌿Felix Pascha🌿 to everyone 🌅🍻
@giovannigennaro9732
@giovannigennaro9732 2 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful.
@Lu.G.
@Lu.G. 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Father. 🙏🏻
@FrJohnBrownSJ
@FrJohnBrownSJ 2 жыл бұрын
Danged good video ;)
@kristinagillespie7704
@kristinagillespie7704 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully explained!
@kmln55
@kmln55 2 жыл бұрын
A person with an imagination could get emotions across without the cursing especially using God's names in vain. Some might say vulgar words in movies reflect real life...cussing is in real life BECAUSE Hollywood has inserted this language into movies. We need to do better. There are great movies out there that are made hard to watch because of the language...
@kmln55
@kmln55 2 жыл бұрын
Not to the degree it's used in movies.
@daniels5511
@daniels5511 2 жыл бұрын
I'm cautious with mistaking a sanctified meaning being Ned Flanders.
@alexqtea
@alexqtea 6 ай бұрын
Gonna try to remember this next time I'm driving 😭
@randocalthewebaccount8595
@randocalthewebaccount8595 2 жыл бұрын
OK let be celery , most prayer occurs in the bathroom. this is also the most humble and disarmed place to pray. really they should put a cross in all church restrooms.
@landynrussell38
@landynrussell38 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@bruhidk3069
@bruhidk3069 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Father
@StudentsBunnyHome
@StudentsBunnyHome 2 жыл бұрын
Gracias Padre Gregory
@jessegonsalves5412
@jessegonsalves5412 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, can you answer the question, 'is masturbation a mortal sin'? Idk if other viewers find this an interesting topic. Or idk if it has been answered
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
Go ask a liberal priest
@andrewgrajeda3349
@andrewgrajeda3349 2 жыл бұрын
Short answer is yes it is. But I would advise looking into the catechism or watching Ascension Presents KZbin channel for better answers. The act itself is grave and I guess you could say mortal. However, responsibility of culpability can be reduced depending on circumstances. But, the act is grave. Now it might be that one does not fully and freely choose it but the act is grave itself. So I suppose maybe theoretically it could in some circumstances not be mortal but that is not because the act isn't a grave act. Again, perhaps look into the catechism or Ascension Presents KZbin channel for better answers.
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
How come it’s not a mortal sin to beak the greatest commandment?
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
Isn’t swearing a mortal sin? When someone swears they break the greatest commandment , which is a mortal sin. Hear, O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord: And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength” (Mk 12:29-30)
@martinrivera6770
@martinrivera6770 2 жыл бұрын
It is when used in conjunction with any persons of the Holy Trinity. Profane words in and of themselves are still sinful, not quite mortal, but it is certainly a gateway to committing false oaths and perjury through the disordered use of speech, which does break the first and second commandments. In other words, it is best to avoid them and to order our speech in all ways to things Holy and for the edification of souls. Disordered speech will lead to habitual and desensitization to sin, and could lead a person to mortal sinfulness.
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
@@martinrivera6770 On judgement day someone that swears constantly their whole their whole life and never misses mass or someone that never swears but misses mass once without a good reason,who gets more time in purgatory if everything else is equal.
@martinrivera6770
@martinrivera6770 2 жыл бұрын
@@Wgaither1 bottom line is the soul that dies in unrepentant mortal sin will not even have the option to be purified in purgatory. Dying in a state of mortal sin is condemnable to hell and only God knows what the ultimate judgment will be. Judgment and punishment is God’s alone, and there is much more to consider from a person’s life than just a life of swearing or missing Mass without reason. No one knows what the ultimate result of that soul will be in purgatory. Our purpose in our earthly life is to gear our souls more towards heaven everyday and less to towards the world, in every aspect and with every fiber of our being
@Wgaither1
@Wgaither1 2 жыл бұрын
@@martinrivera6770 so there any exception for someone that dies in mortal sin, like someone with a bad memory that commits a mortal sin in between confessions . What does the church say about that
@whitevortex8323
@whitevortex8323 2 жыл бұрын
@@Wgaither1 As long as you confess everything u can remember within reason u will be forgiven of all sins. If u remember a sin that u forgot to say u say it next confession
@johnvain4147
@johnvain4147 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely angelic 6 minutes of music on youtube- enjoy !!! Worship: John 3:16 in Hebrew, Arabic, Russian, English, Korean and Persian
@JW_______
@JW_______ 2 жыл бұрын
In our contemporary culture, where there is a real social cost to not swearing (getting pidgeon-holed as boring, uptight, or "inauthentic"), abstaining from swearing has become a way of taking up our cross, a sacrifice to God.
@estebangarcia5265
@estebangarcia5265 2 жыл бұрын
That’s good fuckin’ advice, padre
@pauljohnson6019
@pauljohnson6019 Жыл бұрын
You just swore! 99%- I would repent immediately!
@JeremiahIsacc
@JeremiahIsacc 2 жыл бұрын
"You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." When a well packaged web of lies has been sold gradually through time to the masses over generations, the truth will seem utterly preposterous and its speaker a raving lunatic. It’s easier to fool people than it is to convince them that they have been fooled. No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth. This truth will free you to seek for the Living God in the Spirit and to truly KNOW GOD instead of just knowing ABOUT HIM. The GOSPEL is NOT written with ink, nor on tablets of stone, but on our hearts by the Spirit of the Living God. The gentiles who have not the law, do by nature the things contained in the law, then they are a law unto themselves. Under the New Covenant we are to be led by the Holy Spirit, not the bible. I was searching for truth when Jesus told me, "The bible is an idol" which completely changed my direction. After that I only sought for Him in the Spirit and He has taught me many things on life's journey. The most important of which is that He died so we could be regenerated by the Holy Spirit into sons and daughters of God. The gospel is simple, repent from living after the flesh, ask Jesus to fill you with the Holy Spirit and then be led and controlled by Him through the Spirit. The bible is only history and has absolutely no authority from God to control us, the outward law was under the old covenant. Jesus died to redeem us from the curse of the written law because we were unable to keep it. Have a great journey through life with the Living Christ guiding you. When Jesus words are written down and Satan is using them, then the bible becomes the word of Satan. Constantine (1st) beast compiled 50 bibles, legalized Christianity and set up the false prophet (pope). King James (2nd) beast, born 6/1566, 6th of Scotland, authorized a bible in 1611 that now has 66 books to control people with, an image of God's word they make to speak (the bible says). By having faith in the bible which has been made into an idol, they break the new covenant of having faith in the Living Christ through the Holy Spirit, who is the true word of God. THE BIBLE IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST Ask Jesus -Yeshua for the Holy Spirit. Link To Blog Site Book: Book 1 THE BIBLE IS THE MARK OF THE BEAST bibleismarkofbeast.blogspot.co... BOOK 2 THE BIBLE IS AN IDOL bibleismarkofbeast.blogspot.co... KZbin Channel: kzbin.infovideos •🕊💖••••
@rolandovelasquez135
@rolandovelasquez135 2 жыл бұрын
I always go straight to the Source (the Lord God Almighty) on this subject or any other, being that He is, after all, omniscient; Colossians 3:8 But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Ephesians 4:29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. Ephesians 5:4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. Matthew 5:37 All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one. Matthew 12:36-37 But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned. Matthew 15:10-11 Jesus called the crowd to him and said, "Listen and understand. What goes into someone’s mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them." James 1:26 Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. James 3:6-8 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. James 3:10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 2 Timothy 2:16 Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly. Psalm 19:14 May these words of my mouth and this meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer. Psalm 34:13-14 Keep your tongue from evil and your lips from telling lies. Turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it. Psalm 141:3 Set a guard over my mouth, LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips. Proverbs 4:24 Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. Proverbs 6:12 A troublemaker and a villain, who goes about with a corrupt mouth Proverbs 21:23 Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity. Exodus 20:7 “You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name. Luke 6:45 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. God has given us a great gift. He has placed His Word at our fingertips. Open the Gift. "In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God... In Him was life, and the life was the Light of men. The Light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not comprehend it. John 1:1‭-‬2‭, ‬4‭-‬5
@michelegeis2301
@michelegeis2301 2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this list of verses! I just wish you had stopped before the malice against all Catholics came out in your words, stored from the evil in your heart and you will have to give an account on the day of judgment.
@rolandovelasquez135
@rolandovelasquez135 2 жыл бұрын
@@michelegeis2301 Michele, you are correct in your comment. Please forgive me. I have amended my comment. Thank you and God bless you in the Name above all names.
@thstroyur
@thstroyur 2 жыл бұрын
Yet the only ones that strictly apply to vulgarity (once we factor in the context) are the first three - Colossians 3:8, Ephesians 4:29 and Ephesians 5:4 . These verses _did_ give me pause about this kind of language as I read them, and one shouldn't take St. Paul's words lightly as they're inspired - but we shouldn't also ignore the historical context, nor the pastoral nature of these Epistles, which were written to address particular issues in those two communities (remember, for instance, the mention of the Jerusalem donations in 1-2 Corinthians - a particular historical occurrence, which we can link with the need for intercommunal charity). Indeed, just like many modern critics, _prima facie_ one could read Paul's letters and denounce him as sexist and pusillanimous towards slavery, _if_ one doesn't take these historical factors in as well as the theological message.
@yeshua1st
@yeshua1st 5 ай бұрын
Yes it is
@francmittelo6731
@francmittelo6731 2 жыл бұрын
It is not bad at all. The fact that we are brainwashed into feeling offended by certain words is ridiculous. They are just words invented by humans to communicate. There is nothing intrinsically good or bad about words.
@nathanielgroff
@nathanielgroff 6 ай бұрын
Words carry weight. Words matter. Jesus is the word incarnate and our speech matters
@MyMy-tv7fd
@MyMy-tv7fd 2 жыл бұрын
theLoonyOldFuckIsInHisBox, dooDah, dooDah, theLoonyOldFuckIsInHisBox, dooDahDooDahDay
@pauljohnson6019
@pauljohnson6019 Жыл бұрын
How dare you type the F word out- you crass sinner- what a yob!
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