Is Your Body Language Scaring Men Away? ✋🏾 II Steve Harvey

Cori's best friend Jessie is turning men off with her attitude and uninviting body language. It's time for ‪@SteveHarvey‬ to give her a lesson in dating etiquette.
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[@drica86]

Somebody pleasssssse give Steve a dating show!!!!!! I’m sure it would be a hit!!!🎉

[@lolojen794]

Agree!!

[@newjerseylove1373]

ABSOLUTELY

[@nontandongidi9613]

Totally agree

[@mrs.georgeglass3997]

OMG HE SHOULD BRING BACK LOVE CONNECTION! He could be the love connector!! 😂

[@nancyhoward7005]

Yes

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

Body language is more fascinating to me than actual language.

[@nancyhoward7005]

True

[@nancyhoward7005]

Me to

[@MyWayWendy]

"Body language is more powerful than words"..

[@tlcSerenityScents]

I appreciate how her dad groomed her! There would be less pain, heartache, and single parent homes if more daddy's would groom their daughters this way!

[@elijahsesi4755]

I don't this groom is the word. Probably raise?

[@GlendaClarke-ir2cd]

Groomed? Pfft! She was not being manipulated.

[@ilovebirkhoff]

Groom?

[@Dira7411]

How is she negative??? If he approach with hey shawty she should turn his arse off

[@cuprunnethover2509]

No, the way you do it is like this. The guy comes up Hey Shorty! You say Hello! How are you doing! My name is xyz. How is your day going? You talk to them properly, in the way you want to be spoken to. The guys, I found will step up their game once they see how you talk and present yourself. They will start to talk more proper or try to... at least that has been my experience! You have to teach them because they may not be sure how to approach you! Let it be a teaching moment because some men think all women are alike. So you have to introduce them another side! Don't talk down to them but try to encourage them to kind of step up a little bit. They will rise to the occasion! I hope that helps!

[@Dira7411]

@@cuprunnethover2509 doesn’t that make a person act fake, naw you keep being yourself and I’ll know you are not my type… idk that’s just my thought

[@amaragrace94]

Factsss! I don't entertain it if it's not a respectful approach. I'll keep walking if it's downright disrespectful or just say sorry I'm not interested. But I also see what they were they saying. Eye contact, smiling, laughs, no crossing arms, light touches (hand/arm). I do both.

[@MindRegulatorMusic]

​@@cuprunnethover2509 Thank YOU for your wisdom, your patience, your teaching!

[@Remi_marie]

@@cuprunnethover2509 I'm curious what age range you're referring to. I don't believe in being rude but you shouldn't feel obligated to teach, but if you wish and legitimately have overflow(as your handle suggests) go ahead. Sometimes, this is a window for men to start pretending rather than actually elevating.

[@everythingniasha]

The woman may need therapy for herself . She is trying to protect herself from something , I think.

[@alyseh9539]

This is so uncomfortable to watch I wouldn't want to be watched by hundreds of people being told "look at you, you're a problem" she's self conscious because she's being watched and critiqued not because she trying to be stand offish or rude. I'd rather be observed from a far and then adviced privately otherwise my intention won't seem organic. For all we know this woman does have more openness than people want to give her credit for and we didn't get to see the full scope because of the situation she's in.

[@shedaone9620]

Thank you Alyse!!!

[@michelletrim9632]

Agreed - this body language was so cringey to watch.

[@everythingalyb]

‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@jacobjohnson1130]

Imagine listening to experts of body language then dismissing what they say with no evidence or basis

[@jacobjohnson1130]

The video is how to attract a man, 90% of the women triggered by the content have no game, and are probably single

[@runningdogapiary5009]

No need to compromise. Single is better than “used”!

[@setsom2857]

Slow down! It's just conversation. How does it become being used? when I was out there, I'd run from people like her. Her beauty ant real beauty. Guarantee you, she was a fool for somebody, and now she want everybody to pay. Classic bag lady.

[@tamikadaniels6556]

Lol I love Steve! He said but, “ you just did it to me and I ain’t do nothing to you.”

[@augustinebrotherstevis2298]

Steve's body language is so funny 😂😂😂

[@PhearomGame]

Hello 😊

[@ConnectWithUganda]

Shoutout to the best friend for bringing her

[@gedogdarker7211]

She doesn't want to be approach disrespectfully how is she mean for that but she does come off a bit aggressive at the same time she doesn't want to deal with nonsense can i say props to the man for doing the chivarly

[@name9601]

High standards... fine. really no need to over-analyze every move. but If her type approaches there's still overall advice she learn to be more subtle/feminine.

[@why25why]

These are my favorite segments of Steve's shows! I want him to find me a guy 🤣

[@olamideniyiafuye]

I’ve always thought that the most powerful women are the ones who know just how much control they have over human interaction and use it to their advantage.

[@commonsensecorner7275]

Steve had me cracking up back there!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@AnitaCole-ug6nq]

It can be difficult for a man to approach a lady, but if you do come at a lady with what up Shawty or hey baby, I wouldn't blame a woman for dismissing him approach a woman as a gentleman should say hello and introduce yourself respectfully and that can make things much easier to deal with

[@kingnb]

The most powerful form of scaring people away is ·complaints ·big words ·silence treatment

[@captainrakgoale]

I mean a man can't know how you want to be approached because we humans are not the same. So sometimes we can bring different vibes in our approach depending to what energy she's giving before thee approach correctly or incorrectly.

[@sheilamorrell9296]

She so used to shutting ppl out that she’s programmed herself to not letting people in or maybe she doesn’t know how to

[@rainacherienne1010]

I don’t dig that “expert,” she seem like she has very low expectations and does 50:50. Touching a guy at the first meeting?? Omg, lady, we are trying not to have physical contact for as long as possible.

[@euniceolawoyin1041]

This content is an eye opener to single men and ladies out there,its impactful and can be easily absorbed for a wholesome relationship to be formed or developed.For it's not spoken aline but acted,such visible action can easily be imitated,well done to the producer,the teacher and the students 👍👍👍👍.

[@Akindami]

Steve is a legend 😂

[@shannonstephens939]

❤

[@Akindami]

@@shannonstephens939 💗

[@ahmedsalman3726]

She is great women form my point of view , a lot of guys will like her personality, clear and firm and loyal lady. you can live with her for life with no worry, she is just need a man with warm feeling to make her relax.

[@lonelyplanet2021]

I got the same impression about her

[@amaragrace94]

He didn't ask for your number. FACTS!! Let the man be the man.

[@sonjag.8686]

She think she’s giving less, instead all that body language is too much!

[@princesstroublez2276]

She in got no chill😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@roseloveapples6877]

Thanks for teaching us Steve. I have watched 30 times just to correct my own mistakes.

[@MissJaneSyombua]

I understand her reaction because it all depends on the guy's approach. If a guy comes to me with a certain attitude definitely he'll get a version of me but if he is respectful, I'll warm up to him

[@setsom2857]

The question is how's that working for you? Remember in the end, it just conversation. It does not cost you nothing, and you may learn something at minimum.

[@sherwood9917]

@@setsom2857 It goes both ways. All she is asking is to be approached in a respectful manner, not called at as if she were cattle. It doesn't cost men anything to be decent.

[@setsom2857]

@@sherwood9917 Respectful and pleasant is always a good start. However, no one advocating whistling at a lady. I don't care how cute a woman is. No real sense of humor is a deal breaker for most men. It is not a job interview. Attitude shows baggage. No one wants a bag lady. If a woman is a stick in the mud because of her past experiences or some preconceive notions about some uniform way she should be approached, most men did not get the manual or memo. She'll become invisible to a real sincere guy. Who needs that trouble. She'll never be a happy wife, so you want have a happy life.😃😃

[@sherwood9917]

@@setsom2857 And she is asking that if they approach her, they do so in a respectful and pleasant way. She said she does not want to be approached with "hey Shawty". She said that she only has a negative disposition when she is approached in a way that she deems to be disrespectful. Finally, she does not have to be a wife in order to have a happy life. The two are not synonymous.

[@setsom2857]

@@sherwood9917 I was referring to guys position regarding a happy life. You can't make a scorn woman happy. She has that option to tell a guy to keep stepping. I'm certain they are not getting a beautiful smile initially from her either. Most guys don't like them rolling eyes and folded arms. They can get that from a mother or an aunt. So like they've been doing, they will keep stepping. No harm- no foul. Her good day socializing is scary to most men. I'm just saying.

[@bestkksser]

If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸

[@southerngal7582]

😂😂😂. Love you Steve Harvey 💗. Going To Watch On Utube On My Firestick TV 🎉

[@maryalabi9255]

Omg! This body language expert is just so good! C'mon all these subtle lessons in one episode (😁😂 i feel for this high standard lady), and Steve the Bartender?!😎😁 you've got a 'connection' there 😅❤

[@mhmdd]

"You ain't got no game" 😂😂😂😂

[@luisfrias1210]

Body language is a strong key. I love observing it and I learned a lot from this video.

[@acd1168]

We unconsciously judge people based on this

[@everlynejudith5445]

This is interesting. People are gifted in many areas I applaud the coach.

[@lataciajackson6574]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I needed this!😊 Thanks

[@agy51]

Steve is thee one. 💕

[@ishakeister6725]

Steve love all your presentation

[@rebeccaemmanuel8074]

Steve is so funny!! His face when she tapped his hands. LOOL

[@ishakeister6725]

Very true

[@bochra7109]

this woman is so pretty god bless her 💙i like her personality too i think its just a matter of time that she will open up more about her body language and feel more comfortable

[@TH3ROCKSTAR]

Blanca Cobb was amazing… Side note - no man worth his salt is going to spend time trying to convince a young lady to speak with him. Simply move on to a more approachable & more amenable female. She’ll be 50 years old still struggling with men.

[@AMSL2020]

I hope he did ask her out though they were cute hahahahaha

[@cuprunnethover2509]

I know! I hope they did connect. He seem interested!

[@michelefitzpatrick109]

STEVE- please do a follow up show on them, would love to see how this turns out

[@ishemalauryn313]

Awwwww I've learned allot from this as in how to hold my body and hands.

[@elietkalindatv9741]

😂😂 I like to watch this channel always 😂

[@ishakeister6725]

Good program Steve. Watching from London Isha Betty

[@adaofcharles1217]

A father teaches, Steveeee 💕

[@fideliaolokor]

This is great😍

[@josemabiala3447]

Steve is crazy 😂😂😂

[@PaytonandMommytime]

That young lady is hilarious....I think she really is a fun person, she just have her walls up hard...best of luck to her🤗🤗🤗🤗🙌🙌

[@ayannalewis8470]

If a guy wanna get a young woman attention he must know how to address period otherwise is body language excuse with a big attitude or with a cold shoulder

[@superdemanka5192]

The flower part 😅

[@user-cs1xz]

steve's book on dating is fire. my fellow single gals pick it up!

[@PhearomGame]

Enjoy watching the video and watching the comedy love ❤

[@rosegardner5262]

I am loving it wwoow❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@teckakhanjackson5795]

This is WHAT not to do 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ForbiNoeline-fy8ge]

OMG I'm chocking😅😅

[@BornLoveandEnergy]

Amazing video

[@anthonysutter1078]

No 'benefit of the doubt' for "Hey, Shawty." Eye rolls are in order.

[@kivemaleonard2757]

I was scrolling down to these comments but I haven't seen any clapped to mr harvey Guys where are mr Harvey's claps let's give him some claps👏👏👏👏👏!for this lesson!

[@gsbgsb9514]

Don't wear a snake print blouse when you going to meet a man for the first time lol, 😂

[@isay207]

Or anytime

[@legendaryeddyb228]

A perfect demonstration as to turning your body & torso away from someone as it has happened to me recently. Exactly right & show her the same disinterest & mirror what she does. I would definitely just mirror her actions in return & just show her my disinterest by doing the complete take away & by walking away in keeping my distance & talking to others as I did this recently. Why would anybody even bother to approach such a female or anybody in that matter who just clearly displays this kind of body language in clear view in front of you & or others? This is a clear spit on the face as nobody would even approach such a garbage of an individual & especially if that was done in intent in front of someone else who clearly sees this. A HUGE RED FLAG!! Since she has done this & other kinds of disrespectful behaviors to me & that includes insulting me in being sarcastic, I just got charged her to the game as she got eliminated by me in just dropping her like a hot piece of coal & cutting her out of my life. Extremely Disrespectful.

[@bluespagirl1]

You sound.... lovely!

[@concernedcitizen4824]

@@bluespagirl1what’s your name?

[@johnpitsi2984]

He ain't asked for it😂 Let him hunt

[@verenamaharajah6082]

Men do not want mixed messages, they get very angry if they feel you are flirting with them and leading them on, then you go cold on them because you weren’t really interested from the start. I think this lady is right to be protective of herself and not into messing about with men’s feelings. She just needs to tone it down a little as there’s no need to be rude or sarcastic. THAT is off putting to men.

[@timal5564]

@Blanca, I see you at 4:41!!

[@Eiramilah]

" I was raised right so I have standards" Is sometimes an excuse to be unreasonable. I think her body language has become a habit and she needs to unlearn it, before she does it by accident with a good guy.

[@marshalewis1036]

Steve #Goat

[@Musa20244]

It's very interesting 😂😂😂

[@roseloveapples6877]

I'm single and I hardly go out but I need somebody.

[@khalfanmohd5807]

Blanca sounds exactly as shes supposed to sound ❤

[@visualdramadesigncompany4031]

Is Steeeeve eat’n up the snacks?😂😂😂

[@lydiamesfin2139]

she did great.

[@charleneselausingh3085]

That’s crazy😱

[@iffyrira7299]

Truth is a perfect gentlemen get the perfect gentle approach. No one asked her the kinda men that approaches her too. It will take alot of gentle men to get her right approachable.

[@Nelly.Jackson]

10:10 😂😂

[@tlp1160]

Wow Blanca Cobb Greensboro North Carolina she's on channel 2 WFMY every week

[@quincoco4899]

Look how she acts when she being approached respectfully, she’s not the problem

[@ishakeister6725]

I like this programme

[@abdibasidadan]

You see what I am saying 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ayannalewis8470]

👏👏

[@iiii179]

The friend😊😊

[@malkiascholastica5121]

I have had people tell me that I'm a very serious lady and men will find it hard to approach me. I'm an introvert but not a serious person. 😅

[@concernedcitizen4824]

It’s not that men will find it hard, they will just avoid you all together and go to a woman that’s more welcoming. Some women don’t get this and normally end up never married, used up and alone. If a woman wants a man to approach, just be welcoming. Granted, don’t be welcoming to a guy you know you don’t like but don’t be mean either. Just say thank you but I’m not interested or the main lie you all say which is “I have a boyfriend “

[@malkiascholastica5121]

@@concernedcitizen4824 That's nice advise. I am learning to smile more 😌😀

[@DaraVRose]

Lol 😂

[@jessthecreativeee]

She’s gorg… I really want an update

[@thumper6425]

💜

[@ishakeister6725]

He is comfortable

[@hazhu2153]

What she is doing is what we do everyday and it don''t mean none of what she talking about. These ppl does come up with some crap to get rich off of ppl. You maybe going thru something and not focusing, that dnt mean you rejecting somebody

[@ayannalewis8470]

Nooo lady do not bring up contact number conversation leave that for guy he is the HUNTER to approah

[@tyronzasmith3735]

Can she let her finish before she start criticizing

[@lcoleman45]

Additude, NO WAY!

[@SomeThingsDontNeedCommentary]

Whewww cori is sensational

[@NBaBall3r26]

oh damn lol 3:15

[@destinyschild2370]

From the role play, she doesn't seem the way they made me perceive her. She rather seemed to be the kind of woman who doesn't feel comfortable being approached by men who don't have the major qualities she's looking for . This explains why in front of this guy, she was shy because the guy is hansom.

[@setsom2857]

That's judging a book by its cover. You never find out unless you have a conversation with the guy. Granted, the conversation may go south, but that's ok. Conversation is free. Be kind, and you'll find what you ask God to send you.

[@joyandbeauty2024]

@@setsom2857 no conversation isn’t free no one’s obligated to give their time to talk to someone they’re not interested in or put off by, women don’t have to do that. And not every woman is desperate for a man, it’s perfectly fine for women to have standards and not respond to men they’ve been disrespected by. Now if the guy isn’t rude but the woman just isn’t interested then she can politely decline his advances but she doesn’t owe him conversation

[@setsom2857]

@occasion644 That's my point, no one's obligated to anything and saying hello is not advances. She is mugging at first glance. Whatever she's doing is not working. She is setting on Steve airing out her socially dysfunctional behavior. hopping she can catch a prince without kissing a frog while acting like a scorpion. The world doesn't work that way. If you're an intelligent decent human being, you treat everyone with kindness and respect. What you put out in the world- you get back and sum. Saying this as a male, she comes across as miserable with negative energy. No one wants to be around that especially if you're a guy that's got it going on which she is looking for and can't find in the daytime with a flashlight because of her stank attitude. Most men with common sense keep it moving, and she becomes invisible. My mom did not treat my dad that way, and I would not be with my significant other if she was that clueless about men. Real Gs are just not that weak.

[@wildhaert]

Is his show recent or these are old videos?

[@nancyhoward7005]

Shes shy.

[@ninamkillings2702]

🫵🏽 YEAHHH

[@natarajkhushbo]

I saw you in my dream today Steve.... Please come back.

[@arvin24ph]

She's already a cat person. A feisty cat i would say. Loud and proud.

[@cashmereglow7549]

Cats are very pretty though lol

[@cutenice3459]

😂😂😂

[@peperipesweet6809]

😂😂😂😂

[@219tfair]

In my opinion, no man who is looking for a certain type of woman should never approach a woman talking about “hey shorty”. As a woman, that shows me that he is either trying to be street or from the steeets and he is used to getting the attention of women that way. I get what Steve is saying about how men feel because he is a man. However, all a man has to do is be himself. No need to act or talk like he is a rapper. That’s foolish. If he gets rejected for being himself, then the woman is being shallow. If he is patient, there will be a woman who will enjoy his company.