It's all a joke at this point, just find something else to do already.

[@BetterBachelor]

Intro and main story/video 0:00 15:16 Extra Credit (Good feelz personal story from recently)

[@ethanknight3970]

last I heard Steven had prior girlfriends, and I don't think he's a blue pilled guy but he is a dad who was doing all he could to make his marriage work and last. She just wasn't having it.

[@Proj.A.Z]

It’s all a joke to the knuckleheads in the State, along with the lay-sees…and their s!mp-entourage of useful useless idjits! Until it stops being a joke…Mr. Joker. Live your best life now…bros…tmr doesn’t exist for these shells, fells and P-Sleeves from Nine Hells!!!

[@dezznutz3743]

STOP VOTING for women. Stop working for them. DONT MARRY them. We need to take back all this power we have just handed them.

[@InlandDiscoEmpire]

Fxck humanity. As I get older, I start to need people less and less, even my own family. I'm eventually gonna cut contact with them as well, disappear and live alone like a hermit until I die. I'm done with life and humans, nothing matters.

[@JericMesa-MRA-1462]

CROWDER = GRIFTER HE DODGED LIBERAL SAM CEDAR IN DEBATE HES AN ACTOR LOL

[@racebannon96]

I met my wife at church. We were married for 10 years when she decided to leave the kids and me. She was not helping me with the kids and the everyday chores. I was pretty miserable with her. She got sloppy with her affair and made it so obvious. Two months after leaving us, she realized she had screwed up. Her affair partner was an alcoholic, tobacco chewer/spitter, and was on dialysis every other day. She tried in her own manipulative way to come back. I knew if I allowed her to return she would be even more hateful towards us. I got the divorce done in 5 months. I got custody of our kids. She became an angry demon and would sabotage her own visitation visits with the kids. I haven't talked to her in 15 years. I am still relieved that she is someone's else's problem. I never remarried and have no plans to. There is too much risk involved.

[@jasono2139]

It still amazes me that there's some women who demonstrate this level of narcissism. To think you can act like that then still think you can turn around looking for support from the people you just 💩 all over is unreal to me.

[@hoobeydoobey1267]

Good job on standing firm with her. She'd have used the make-up to build time, find another lover, and used the time together to get more from you in divorce. You were wise. Her abandonment of the marriage and family, coupled with adultery was a nail in the coffiin.... or I hope it was and that the courts worked in your favor.

[@tdrive398]

Just goes to show- you can't even trust the "good Church girls"...

[@cardenasr.2898]

I wasn't married like you fellows but I had an awful relationship with a psycho and I felt exactly like you said "now she's somebody else's problem". 8 years now, sleeping quietly knowing I don't have to deal with her thottery

[@rollotomasislawyer3405]

You lost your wife to a violent alcoholic, tobacco chewing, dialysis patient? Wow just wow 😲

[@rajakghosh6602]

Men choosing not to get married is denying women their retirement fund.

[@joeswanson733]

given future economic grim prospects retirement is going to be all but impossible for anyone not making six figures minimum

[@sammyvh11]

Ain't that the truth. Minus the liberal intellectual educated women .

[@TheStarMachine2000]

​@@sammyvh11 Ah yes, the "everyone except for X is plagued by this thing" argument Just remember it is your money on the line

[@Gunsight-One]

No one is going to retire on my dime but me.

[@primafacie5029]

Just like a high credit score subsidising the risk of crap credit scores, they'll find a way to make you pay for cats and box wine

[@spidalack]

As long as divorce is a payday for women, this will keep happening.

[@jakeryan2805]

And the state. They get like 60 cents on the dollar for every dime you have to pay to the woman in alimony of child support. The laws wont change because the politicians make more money than the single moms off of us! The systems is terrible.

[@sergiogonzalesYT]

True words!

[@marks-0-0]

Make divorce completely equal then going intomarriage then I'll gladly get married

[@chriskirsten8221]

amen to that!

[@InteractiveIdea]

It's only a payday if the husband earns more. In my case, my wife makes more money, so in case of divorce, I get paid. 😅

[@burtbakerack1110]

My uncle is about to go through this. He’s 62. Guy worked his ass off his whole life. Started in the field, worked his way up to the C-suite. Provided a great life for his family. His wife demanded an upgrade from their nice, modest 4-level split. He bought her a sprawling new build. Now she wants out, rewriting their past during the process. He’s crushed and deserves better.

[@blackpillfitness9136]

If she hasn’t already filed for divorce, but is talking about it, then you need to tell him immediately that he can put the house in someone else’s name and when she files she won’t get the house.

[@tomsmith6513]

@@blackpillfitness9136 He's going to need a very good friend who will take possession of a house and give it back when he needs it.

[@bigdaddyd7674]

Coming from an extremely conservative area in the middle of the woods I could've told you that it's no better here. The court system is so backed up I've been waiting on six months to see my son. So don't give me this shit a woman from the sticks is any better

[@joeswanson733]

any country that is economically developed also has these issues.

[@manager4409]

I went to catholic schools, this new christian movement on the right wing is completely delusional about church women. They'll divorce you just the same

[@dezznutz3743]

@@joeswanson733 No, not all countries treat men like garbage. Many cultures still put men on a pedestal, and not weak and ineffectual women.

[@joeswanson733]

@@dezznutz3743 that's good but i would reckon that a lot of countries don't treat men right just as many countries that do. so 1:1 and that's the best case scenario right now. this virus is spreading globally

[@saster3673]

@dezznutz3743 not first world culture that's for sure.

[@sushioishii8950]

If women smell weakness in their man, they bail. God forbid that a woman stands by her man when things are tough.

[@coffee-co8gk]

Truth

[@manager4409]

exactly, imagine going home from work exhausted and having to keep your guard up and "lead" all the time. sounds awful and impossible.

[@AnointedOne4God]

most important comment. when i see other men do even a minor weak thing in front of their girl. i see her demeanor change quickly. most guys don’t even notice.

[@idontcare9797]

​@@manager4409 because it is impossible, no man can stay on point constantly.

[@LembeckIsStaying]

​@@idontcare9797 Exactly. No man is a robot, no matter how alpha.

[@paulraines9635]

She started pulling out of the marriage as soon as she got kids. He's about to find out how conservative family courts treat fathers.

[@manager4409]

yep, secured the bag first.

[@idontcare9797]

​@Manager guys never keep assets in your name

[@Kevin-kj5th]

Oh yea your so right! She married him to take his money and have guaranteed money for life now thru both alimony and child support

[@mattlol163]

@@idontcare9797 doesnt matter in the USA, they can till take them Guys, never listen to uneducated people in the youtube comments for life advice. Worst part is how she decide to leave WHILE all his heart problem issues and all that were going on. smh

[@vulkanlives3821]

@@idontcare9797 Even if he hadn't she still has him for 10+ years on child support for two kids.

[@kmech3rd]

Skip some steps... find a woman who despises you, and buy her a house.

[@PennPearson]

Hilarious!

[@Gizziiusa]

Skip some steps... find a woman who despises you, and buy her a house. Change my mind...

[@RedWhiteNBlade]

Be a Man

[@al-imranadore1182]

So be a SIMP??

[@abelee709]

hahahahaha savage

[@flak88gun]

I was married 18 yrs with 3 kids. I came back from Iraq with a case of dysentery. Six months later, she filed for divorce. When I asked why she filed, she said, "I don't think you're going to get to retirement because of the dysentery, and I'd rather have you're money now and not have to put up with you being sick."

[@solodad001]

wtf

[@damienthedragon6987]

Is this for real? That is pure evil. All she cares about is what she can take from you.

[@flak88gun]

@Damien The Dragon yea, it really happened, and I didn't even bother writing about the really bad parts of the divorce. It was horrendous.

[@samanthony6282]

You thought it was love but for her your just a utility.

[@ModPapa]

God bless you for your service man. I hope things are much better for you now!

[@someoneelse9059]

It takes two people to get married, it takes one person to get divorced.

[@Ddog785]

yes, i have always thought i can account for what i do, but can not account for what somebody else does. With tons of friend zoning, rejections, shaming and plenty of 6 months relationships and they just leave and make up stupid excuses,,,,,,,i realized that could easily happen in a marriage and it just was not worth the risk

[@Blackraptor1234]

​@@Ddog785 It doesn't help you can tell she planned this out entirely. She was planning on divorcing him at the 10 year mark as that is when alimony kicks in in Texas. She also got pregnant within that time frame so she maximizes the amount of time he has to pay child support. Got to give her props in a twisted way, well planned out on her part. He was a super easy mark.

[@leoanimefan444]

Honestly I feel like no guy should get marry until divorce laws so some serious and permanent changes. Marriages is no longer seen as a long lasting investment anyone, yet a guy can still lose half their income and give his ex wife alimony til death at some places. Women can work as much as guy can, and we need divorce courts to base payments on modern standards

[@TheHipisterDeer]

@@Blackraptor1234 Exactly, she played the long game and won in cash and prizes... How many times are men going to keep falling for this shit?

[@someoneelse9059]

Every single time... Men are suckers.

[@trzmdpath]

I am now a retired MD. During my forty-one years of medical education and practice I have seen so many physician marriages where the female absolutely could not accept the issues involved with a busy physician/surgeon/obstetrician/pediatrician/psychiatrist/radiologist/pathologist/anesthesiologist lifestyle. But I have surely seen these females love the money produced by their husbands!

[@patrckhh20]

They want a millionaire who works 16 hours a week.

[@Macheako]

@@patrckhh20 not even bro, they JUST want our money 😂😂❤ They’re robbing us and we’re over here crying cuz “she doesn’t love me anymore” 😂😂

[@hoobeydoobey1267]

It's like that with woman across the board. Saw it and dealt with it in my military career.

[@dobermanownerforlife3902]

They want the wedding and lifestyle, but they don't want to be wives.

[@trzmdpath]

@@patrckhh20 Thank you for my laugh of the day! That is not possible in any specialty in medicine.

[@patrickmcavoy7283]

This is why he didn't take that 50 million dollar offer.... he knew he'd have to turn around and give her half. Smart man.

[@drakomus7409]

crowder is a liberal, like most 'conservative' personalities, he is not conservative. He grifts conservatives, loonyleft have no money. ONLY LIBERALS ARE FRIENDS WITH BLAIRE WHITE

[@mattvon-miller]

Sidenote: He was by her side during all the time she was ill, and now that she is cured, she leaves

[@GLoLChibs]

Yep, right after he got over his health issues.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@GLoLChibs A woman can bail emotionally months before a guy recovers and seeing him at a moment of weakness is enough for her to lose all respect.

[@starscream7755]

a true Christian

[@Mitch_Tech]

​@Logan Blackwood Even as I know this, still everytime I think of this my blood starts to boil.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@Mitch_Tech It is a bitter reality but women are there for their own survival, not for yours. As soon as they see the guy as weak and potentially on his way out of this life, their evolutionary psychology kicks in to find another man to protect her. That's largely why they divorce, to get the resources from the man before the cost of his recovery leaves nothing left for her to take. Women don't go back in standards.

[@JarinXeno]

There is no way to pick the "right" woman. The woman she becomes after 10 years of marriage will be nothing like the woman she was when you first met. Women always change and almost never for the better.

[@michaelblaes9847]

That is the truth. Every single person changes but women change and get bored. Then the husband becomes the oppressor who must be destroyed. Because she is bored.

[@marvthedog1972]

the only right woman is no woman in the modern western world.

[@Renzo112345678]

and women have the problem of marrying "the potential" man, but then are surprised when the man never changes. She's marrying the man in hopes he becomes her molded "ideal man". man marries woman hoping she never changes. woman marries man hoping he will change.

[@pwalker1360]

You have a better chance of winning the Powerball than finding a decent woman these days.

[@SelectCircle]

She doesn't change. She just reveals the witch she was all along.

[@1975KyleDavid]

I'm a conservative and even my wife and I are divorced. We were married for 10 years before we got divorced. Her friends were always telling her I was having an affair when I had my oilfield welding business because I was gone all the time. Anyone who has worked in the oilfield knows the rigs are all over the place. I was welding in the pan handle of Texas, the entire state of Oklahoma, and even parts of Arkansas. She hated me being gone all the time, but she sure loved the money.

[@MickeyMishra]

Same here. As soon as I started to travel for my job? The fangs came out. You think I would have learned bing in the Navy. Nope. Lesson learned. But it took a second time to do learn it.

[@inciacci549]

Fairly sure she was cheating on you while you were gone as well.

[@DaMaster012]

Women have zero understanding of what money is, how it is made, or why it has value. They're all collectivists by default, with artifacts of thought they've carried with them from infancy, so they genuinely think work is just some ornate magic ritual that magically produces the magic paper that lets -you- *them* buy things.

[@dpeagles]

I flew for PHI. You guys had some crazy schedules

[@dpeagles]

​@@MickeyMishra Nah. Plenty cheat and divorce with a 9 to 5

[@jimmyneutron6127]

When a woman says she's old fashioned she's not talking about values. She just wants you to pay for everything.

[@AgeRestrictTheInternet]

I met a virgin after my divorce. She came from an intact family with a hard working father. 2 years into the relationship, she got a new job after her studies. She worked at a theater. She started hanging out with the feminist it's ok to be a slut types and needless to say, she started cheating and lying. She's never yours and it's hardly your turn.

[@wreagfe]

Not reading any agency from you in this story. It just happened. It's the universe. Man up.

[@grizzly_8917]

Sounds like you just sat there and watched it happen lmao

[@darkstar114]

​@@wreagfeI spot the feminist or simp

[@daze507]

​@@wreagfe Yeah, man up. In some countries there are ways to handle things when your wife starts riding d around. Not in the Western world and certainly not in the USA.

[@georgecarr6509]

Well I hope you had a good time,while it lasted. It's a common occurrence.

[@tjhookit]

I dated a girl many years ago who was the most traditional person I ever met. She took me to a bible group a few times even (I was very young and curious). Kissing her took months and we split before anything else had the chance to happen.....although she made it clear no sex before marriage. She never cursed, never drank and was a special education teacher. I remember her telling me that her parents friends got divorced, and that she could never do that......as marriage is "forever". Years later she married and had two daughters........and is now divorced. I am so glad that I never put myself through that.........seems like the only marriages that last, are miserable. These days anyways.

[@RafaelBenedicto]

Women don't have principles. Their "principles" change depending on whatever is most convenient at the moment.

[@LembeckIsStaying]

Bullet dodged bro. ✊🏾

[@comment6864]

Nah, that's not true. In some (very happy) marriages divorce is virtually impossible. It all depends why you even got married. Many people have no clue. (Conservatism has nothing to do with it)

[@Grizzly_Adams.]

They’re all Christians and play it perfectly until they decide to cash in for themselves.

[@tikifreaky5204]

There are plenty of successful health marriages out there

[@Prosecute-fauci]

She probably hated losing arguments all the time while trying to change his mind.

[@city_of_coompton6832]

lol

[@city_of_coompton6832]

couldn't handle all his FACTS and LOGIC

[@johnc.8298]

I guess "commitment" is just a word subject to change without notice>

[@turtlemaster9000]

kek

[@YeshuBenPandera]

truth.

[@ws-ss8ks]

"He picked wrong..." He absolutely did. He chose to get married. Wrong choice.

[@tomsmith6513]

It was the milk. Milk was a bad choice.

[@Gizziiusa]

yep, the only winning move is not to play...

[@Coffeendonuts]

To an older woman than he, and put a couple kids in her while she was 33. Bad move. He should have got a younger woman. Idiot

[@loverofhumanity]

I disagree tbh Crowder is a pretty awful guy to be married too. I agree with not getting married as a man but let's not use this guy as some example. You can tell from his channel he's an insufferable narcissist. If anything I'm shocked his marriage lasted any amount of time. His show change my mind is idiotic because Crowder isn't doing it in good faith. What a silly concept of a show if the only person allowed to change their mind is the person he's arguing against. He's coming from a place of bad faith.

[@punknoodles0]

He knew he had picked the right one. He KNEW she would never do this.

[@52down]

- be fit and good looking like Crowder - have money like Crowder - be famous like Crowder - be willing to worship your wife like Crowder - be literally Crowder And it's not enough

[@15xgg80]

Forget about Crowder, Tom the goat Brady could not keep his wife happy. What chance do we plebs stand.

[@dweez4703]

Tom Brady as well

[@katelady1370]

Getting death threats everyday can wear down a person.

[@albertoarmando6711]

it sad an funny at the same time

[@slimjimpui]

-and date *down* like Crowder (and every other guy) He worshiped that person even though any reasonable person can tell he could do waaaaaay better and she still ditched him

[@jasonturcotte3797]

"It's not that all women will... it's that all women can." -Karen Straughan

[@sthcproductions]

And that the government will hold you down while she does it

[@dreamcore]

where's she been?

[@Gizziiusa]

wasnt Crowder poking fun at people, calling them incel losers b/c they laughed at him getting married? if so, who's laughing now? reap what you sow.

[@jonathanjohnson9611]

@@Gizziiusa I remember that. I hope the blackpill community is raking him over the coals right now.

[@Gizziiusa]

@@jonathanjohnson9611 ok thx. i thought so, but honestly i dont really keep track of this fella. only when it was announced he was getting divorced that someone else mentioned it. im just parroting what i read. thx for clarifying.

[@anthonywilliams7052]

Marriage is the only contract that PAYS someone to break it. The men always lose. Never, not worth it.

[@InteractiveIdea]

Nope. Not always. In cases when women make more money, men get paid. And there is always a prenup. My brother is getting married and had his gf sign one. So if they divorce, she won't get a thing.

[@imammo867]

@@InteractiveIdea Hahaha 🤣🤣. Do you really think a prenup is ironclad. She can say she signed under duress thus make the prenup agreement null and void.

[@therecoveringsaver9097]

Thats why you make sure she signs months in advance and with multiple witnesses. That way the prenup will be enforced

[@InteractiveIdea]

@@imammo867 She can say whatever she wants, but how will she prove it?

[@Sarkhan69]

@@therecoveringsaver9097 are you trying to reply to someone? theres a button for that.

[@Hynotama]

"My wife divorced me and I feel like a failure." Tragic how beaten down and destroyed some men can be that they assume the failure of a disloyal woman. And yes, she's disloyal. She broke her vows, even if she didn't cheat.

[@city_of_coompton6832]

Who knows what really went on between them. There are rumors that Crowder is actually ghey and their "marriage" was just to keep up the appearances of a proper "Christian conservative". Maybe that's why he keeps saying it's his fault? Idk or maybe he is just a simp and she is just a 304.

[@AdrienMelody]

It’s almost embarrassing how much sway women hold over us 😵 When my girl left me I was practically useless for more than two years, it took me forever to get over the depression and start being productive again. The worst part is, a part of me still misses her. 🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

[@SpiritusMundi4EVER]

@@AdrienMelody Don't blame yourself, bro. Its totally natural and normal to want a woman to love and value you. When she breaks up with you, its soul-shattering. The pain will get diminish with time, and I encourage you to keep focusing on your self-care and develop deeper relationships with compatible family members, good friends and even a Higher Power. Good luck! 🙏

[@curious164]

His wife divorced him for a good reason: he is a failure. Failure to respect and protect her. He was manipulative and abusive.

[@madhatter8508]

I watched that Ring video and she was threatening to call a "friend" to come pick her up. She did cheat on him. The divorce filing started before she got pregnant. Those children aren't even his.

[@allseeingotto2912]

I married a Japanese woman, she was 25 years old ,a virgin , her parents are still together and she was quite traditional and for a while was a good wife and mother . over the course of twenty years she changed completely , I blame the friends she had , I felt my worth decrease soon after she met them .

[@littlekingtrashmouth9219]

When you date or marry a woman, you date her friends and her friends’ perceptions of you. Women can’t seem to stick with their decisions, so they rely on their friends to make up their minds for them. It usually leads down this road

[@titanomachy2217]

Did you settle down in Japan or the West or what?

[@wreagfe]

Assuming you are divorced now, blaming others isn't going to help you.

[@darkstar114]

This is the exact reason why if your marrying a foreign girl, you sty there and dont come back.

[@purebloodiiier]

Miserable friends will make your wife miserable too.

[@VaticusChadicus]

She stuck around for years begging to have kids, waiting to get married, and as soon as she got "rights" to what he built she left.

[@ITech2005]

Yeah, they've turned relationships into a hustle. Divorcing a man for money replaces a career for them. It's an alternative for bches that don't want to work.

[@davidturner1641]

effing facts evil what she is doing but yeah FACTS

[@Marcara081]

The reality is that women want to feel controlled and oppressed by their men with no way out. It turns them on but simps don't understand that so they gave them rights and ruined it for everyone. Simple as.

[@allseeingotto2912]

@@ITech2005 So very true .

[@ethosterros9430]

Absolutely insane

[@LitD]

Women went from being "the juice not worth the squeeze" to "don't touch, it's poisonous"

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

You see a rose with thorns don't touch

[@Marcara081]

Let's be real: women are filthy and Crowder is a good Christian boy. She probably wanted a guy to choke her out or boink her in the butt.

[@randomuserame]

All part of Bill Gates and Epstien's plan to depopulate the planet so the population can drop low enough to initiate Operation: Enslave the entire human species *You are being played. Wake up, Neo.* Wives become citizens through marriage anyways. As long as you don't let them on social media, and avoid the ones that are.

[@johnparla6252]

Bad milk 😂😂

[@DaMaster012]

​@@KevinSmith-xt8xr_"Eeeeeevry rooooose has its thooorn..."_

[@georgevue8175]

Example: My wife was awesome for 14 years until she became pregnant. Pregnancy hormones triggered dormant Borderline Personality Disorder and BOOM overnight she turned into a nightmare. Reckless spending & driving, extreme anger, cheating, extreme mood swings. You never know.

[@christoph3187]

Friends wife even got sent to the mental asylum after developing post natal mental issues.

[@georgevue8175]

@@christoph3187 In a Muslim country she would have been stoned to death.

[@tomsmith6513]

No children for 14 years?

[@kenrehill8775]

@@georgevue8175 there are days when I have a great deal of sympathy for the Muslim way of treating certain women.

[@Bo11Jangles]

What’s crowder’s excuse then? He has been a huge pos over the last 2 months to friends, co workers, and told his pregnant wife he would “fuck her up”. Maybe get both sides before you open up your big ignorant pie hole

[@eloyrodarte1083]

A bored woman is a sign that the man has done everything right. She wants for nothing. Her goals have been met. She is bored and starts thinking she is unhappy. She thinks she deserves more. I have to ask, what kind a person does it take to distroy the family bond and ruin your childrens home? To disrupt everyone's lives because you are bored is asinine. We see it all the time. I'm convinced the leading cause of divorce is marriage. Don't do it!

[@lostvayne9146]

"A bored woman is a sign that the man has done everything right. " now that is a game I do not want to play.

[@lucianocasanova8924]

Society has become too pussified to hold women to any accountable degree. Remeber the engineering project in Florida?

[@thedoruk6324]

​@@lostvayne9146 because its literally a honey trap not a game

[@keshhan6412]

"To disrupt everyone's lives because you are bored is asinine." Correct, but I would also call it childish. That's how I see them, as children in adult bodies. For marriage to become attractive to men women's rights have to be taken back about 200 years to when they were considered the wards of their fathers and then their husbands.

[@mitleid_en]

She got the side eye from the next door neighbor man. 😂

[@TheVexCortex]

Crowder is 6'2", very fit, attractive, funny, and makes a lot of money. He had every advantage and still lost.

[@I-DEPRESSIONIST]

Women don't know what they want

[@manager4409]

also has great hair

[@loganblackwood2922]

But he isn't 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III.

[@Dayz3O6]

LOL I think the standard has already changed, you need to be 7'3, absolute unit, make her wet when he ignore her, top tier comedian, a trillionaire, can fight a whole US army and win with just a chopstick, >300 IQ, and the lists goes on.

[@Dayz3O6]

@@loganblackwood2922 ahahahahahhaaha

[@civicboi96]

He is in an extremely dark place right now. A lot of guys will have the attitude of "just move on bro" but any guy who's been through it knows - when your girl you've been with for years and years is no longer attracted to you anymore, it can be one of the most confusing and and depressing things you will ever face.

[@lostvayne9146]

how much you want to bet he will go in circles justifying to himself on everything else but the root problem.

[@Blackraptor1234]

He deserves it. He has been shitting on dudes for years who don't wanna get married telling them to "man up" he can suffer a bit for it.

[@kylel7158]

​@@Blackraptor1234 he's ultimately a good dude though; was just starry eyed with marriage and the ideal of a traditional minded woman (doesn't exist). It took me two years to get over my break up - he's going through it

[@fotis3v480]

We've all been there but nowadays there's too much info for you to dwell in it. Took me like a year to find some RP content and some more serious content like Jokers to realise that i was fkn myself over from the moment i said my name to my ex lol. Stay away they are all subhumans, hell my aesthetician is probably a 9/10 in terms of what i would want in a woman and I'm not even interested in her to bother ask her out regardless of outcome.

[@Blackraptor1234]

@@kylel7158 Quit trying to cover for him. He hates men who didn't want marriage and seen them as weak and pathetic. The dude deserves every bit that he gets for it. He was willing to kick men down. That does not make him a good guy.

[@mycull]

Went through the same thing with a "Christian Girl". Dated 3 years, married 5. Church every Sunday, bible studies, shared values.... One day, she just walked out. No abuse, no lies, no cheating. Wasn't my choice, she just lost the butterflies. 1.5 years with a boot on my neck. Finally free since early 2022.

[@jeremystonell690]

Out of curiosity, did you have children with her and was she ever on birth control pills for a prolonged period of time? I have a feeling much of the 'Christian Girl' syndrome is caused by boredom. In the past women had large families (usually 8+ children) and didn't have time to be bored. You see this in the churches too, they want to be pastors, deacons, choir directors etc which were traditionally male and for good reason. Crowder's case is a little different though. Prior to 2021 he lost a child with her. Couples that experience the loss of a child, even in the womb, still have heightened chances of divorce according to the statistics. It's really bizarre that she wanted a divorce while pregnant with twins though.

[@mycull]

@@jeremystonell690 We were trying, thank God she didn't get pregnant. I'm sure it's one reason she left, but she never verbally told me why she left. I'm just left guessing that might have been a reason. She was 30 and was on bc since 16, off at 28. Her parents were very sad to see me go, but they felt a duty to "protect" their daughter, despite them finding out she lied to them about things I did.

[@jeremystonell690]

@@mycull Yeah, I figured that was your story. It's not uncommon either. Many young women, inside/outside church, are recommended BC not for sex but for behavioural issues (i.e. regulating hormones). This is probably having a greater effect on their ability to stay married than the laws. Its also the reason she couldn't get pregnant because prolonged use leads to infertility and it takes years for the body to repair itself. I think men need to start looking at women on BC as a huge red flag and insist that they get off it for several years before marriage.

[@mycull]

@@jeremystonell690 You called it. They were primarily used for hormonal control, some for pain relief for periods. I was having a feeling the prolonged use was a reason we weren't getting pregnant. Thanks my man. I agree with you on that bc issue. Women should also be told of the long term effects of prolonged use. Informed consent, for everyone.

[@RealYRM]

The divorce rate among believers always got me. Look, if a couple don't really believe in God, or don't necessarily think God cares or affects their lives in any way... ok, fine. But what about those women who claim to really believe in God? They have a personal relationship with Jesus, they believe God created a trillion galaxies, and their marriage vow is a promise to the giant, all-powerful being that they love and have a personal relationship with, who will reward them for being loyal in heaven. They break THAT PROMISE? (Hint, they don't actually believe)

[@johnblackhead2384]

Moral of the story: For women, nothing is ever good enough.

[@kcirtapelyk6060]

The story of Adam and Eve proves this. I don’t know why so many self proclaimed Christians ignore the theme in that story. Eve literally had everything she could ever want and yet it still wasn’t enough for her.

[@Yggdrasill8]

That is one of the lessons to be learned from that story. Both men and women experience building a tolerance to all pleasures, that is when having an orgy, living in a mansion, driving hyoercars becomes normal or boring to an individual.

[@deadcell1]

​@@kcirtapelyk6060I'm glad you pointed that out. Alot of women today are like Eve.

[@King44192]

@@deadcell1 jezebel more like.. the accountability wont be from society but from Yah.. i'd rather be accountable to society than face his wrath

[@carlrogers1412]

Crowder is bisexual, and as he claimed he had some FUN with men. Conservative, traditional, yeah, my ass.

[@deadlyshells6830]

They will learn the hard way. Marriage sucks for all races of men regardless of their political background.

[@joeswanson733]

there's no point for marriages anymore considering the only reason for marriage in teh past was to pool resources and sire kids...

[@malteadota2736]

True.

[@cendrizzi]

I'm here as a very happily married man. I'm not trying to suggest any advice or anything to anyone here. I just hate to see these comments as I do know a lot of happily married people. It can happen but I think a lot of people here have had very bad experiences so I don't blame anyone for not wanting to jump back in.

[@lostvayne9146]

@@cendrizzi i know married people and they tell you they are happy when they are not. in fact, just read the man's body language.

[@Blackraptor1234]

@@cendrizzi Congrats for you being very happily married. Fact of the matter is, the odds are not in favor of that happening. The fact you had it happen doesn't mean anyone should be jumping into marriage as stat-wise it is the dumbest move a man could make in this day and age. You happen to be on the small % that had stuff work out for now. Your anecdote of "knowing alot of happily married men" does not change the stats. These comments are not made from bad experiences. They are made from knowing the stats of what happen. Just because you don't like it doesn't make it any less true.

[@starsaber9631]

She waited for the 10 year alimony mark. Got the kids\child support and half his resources then said bye felicia 😂

[@emilfrederiksen.1622]

She filled the divorce 6 months after she had gotten 2 kids with Steven.

[@justaprogrammer3764]

In the quran it says „surely your guile is great“ in other words „ their planning is great“. God was specifically talking about women here. Search the word guile, it means cunning and intelligent in negative connotations. Its was written on the wall, god warned us.

[@thedoruk6324]

​@@justaprogrammer3764 and quite openly nobody have listened

[@therealmr.incredible3179]

Brother, You are Right.

[@savioblanc]

Is that the rule in Texas though? Isn't that a California rule?

[@cheeseburger12]

As a person that is introverted and hates meeting people and has no game....I can't understand that I am in a better place then many other guys. Man, society is F-ed up. I feel sorry for kids these days.

[@jeremystonell690]

Dude, change your response at the end. 'I feel sorry for the playas these days' :p

[@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants]

​@@PrinceoftheVioletFlame you don't have to be alone. Just understand that it is not forever and she is not intentionally evil. It's just her nature. Don't blame the fire when you get burned.

[@cheeseburger12]

@@jeremystonell690 The playas don't care. They are all about the short term.

[@jeremystonell690]

@@cheeseburger12 I meant it as an irony. As in, introverts do well today not because they are introverts but because their introversion keeps them from getting wrecked by women. Whereas the extroverts who end up with the women end up divorced if they are unfortunate enough to fall head of heels for one of these women.

[@RealYRM]

@@GoogleAreEnemyCombatants Right, even if you get married, treat it like she can walk out at any time... because she can. It's possible if she works with you on her exit, she won't destroy your life. There are some women who've left relationships without taking everything they possibly could (there really are, and they're rare, but they do exist)

[@Profitglutton90]

He claims there’s no infidelity on either side but if he looked at her DMs and find the erased messages bet you he’ll fall into massive depression when he realizes the truth.

[@adama7752]

Some men can't handle the *truth*. I'm with you and bet it's ugly

[@emmanuelellis4996]

This was calculated! She was emotionally and physically with someone else and decided to make the switch. A woman will never leave any relationship without having access to another one

[@Profitglutton90]

@@emmanuelellis4996 bingo. She got all the provisioning she needs from him and now it’s time to have fun with the bad boy Chads.

[@harrisonsir1]

@@emmanuelellis4996 Right on point.

[@daze507]

Just from listening to him, you know this dude ia absolutely not ready for the truth and will probably never be.

[@MelkorHimself]

I listened to his opening monologue. He is unbearably naive and blue pilled, but it's more tragic than anything. He said this was his "deepest personal failure" and that he "picked wrong". His wife filed. She wrecked the home. She broke up the family. She decided to bail out of a lifelong vow by playing the "I'm not happy" card, yet Steven thinks it's his fault. Regardless of what you think of his politics, this is nothing short of a Greek tragedy.

[@fabricliver]

To think is our fault is the very essence of the blue pill

[@drewdatification]

I think he held back on purpose, so, as not to bash on her publicly and give even more ammo for her to brainwash the children into hating him.

[@joshuastoughton1693]

@@drewdatification I agree with this sentiment. Not only does he not want to give her or her lawyers more ammo to use against him, but he also at the very least doesnt want to shit talk the mother of his children publicly for them to view for themselves when they grow up.

[@allseeingotto2912]

@@drewdatification Exactly that

[@rockmyworldmusic]

​@Double-D Yes and no. His statement was probably pragmatic, and he didn't want to jeopardize his case. But at the same time, it fits the narrative of "everything is your own fault." This is the flaw with taking the "personal responsibility" mantra too far. There genuinely are extenuating circumstances. You can't control what another person does. He is finding out that life doesn't always happen the way we want. We can't "manifest" everything.

[@rickjensen2717]

Women are rewarded and men are crushed by the system: do not play!

[@anthonywebster8638]

His surgery was mid 2021, and she filed at the end of 2021, so that explains a lot. They almost always do this after a man has experienced a hardship.

[@milescivis1018]

She got the kids, then went for the cash & prizes. Stevie was a means to an end and his offer to marry was a means to those ends. The end.

[@loganblackwood2922]

Now Chad can say he plowedherbetterthanCrowder.

[@Blackraptor1234]

This is why she was planning on divorce, but waited until after she had her kids to do so on the advice of her lawyer.

[@FadeHook23]

The classic female white collar robbery.

[@Blackraptor1234]

@@FadeHook23 Yep exactly. They were married in Texas too. Google "how many years married for alimony in texas" Then realize they were married for 10 years.

[@kauetadaieski3131]

​@@Blackraptor1234Holy shit that is true. Oh man, I swear, that just f up my brain...

[@i_am_thebatman]

Marriage used to be till death do us part Now it’s till she says “I’m not Happy”

[@carvingboss7598]

I followed the same path, courted an extremely conservative and religious girl, waited until marriage to consummate, had two kids and found out five years later her mother was organizing members of the church to fast and pray for our divorce so she could have better access to the grandkids. After a year of fighting to keep my family together my ex wife split with the kids and took everything with her. Conservative and religious partners are often much more sinister and dark when you peel back their intentions.

[@ML-sc3pt]

Sounds a lot more like the mothers doing than hers. As the saying goes there's 2 people to blame in a divorce. Her, and her mother

[@davecrupel2817]

So we can't even trust the Christian conservative ones either.... I give up.

[@kly826]

That's why I don't go to church...

[@bannedmann4469]

Conservatives hide the vileness, Leftists wear it like a badge. The only real difference...

[@elbarto4069]

Thats why you need a prenup

[@dbsommers1]

As others have pointed out, the instant she doesn't get paid for wanting out, divorces drop by 90%.

[@VixxKong2]

Crowder is having a no fault divorce. He's probably not gonna have to pay her much

[@TheVagolfer]

My uncle once told me - "Women are as reliable as a three dollar watch."

[@daze507]

"The oaths of a woman I inscribe on water" Sophocles, around 450 BC.

[@jimsimpson1006]

Even a cheapo watch might last for years if you look after it.

[@darbyohara]

At least you can smack the watch if it don’t work 😂

[@4evalost948]

3 dollar watches are work horses

[@deanchur]

@@jimsimpson1006 Ah ah ah here we go. Casio F91W, the very best there is. When you absolutely, positively gotta outclass every motherfucker in the room...accept no substitutes.

[@PsiCorps85]

My ex-wife did that too. We were each other's alone, and she left me. It's sadly funny how lifelong vows are only meant to last until either decides to throw it all away.

[@guilhermehank4938]

Until SHE decides to throw it all away

[@garythomas4936]

Yes, even Christian vows mean nothing in the end.

[@orga7777]

Yup. Until marriage is returned to the Church where it belongs and No Fault Divorce is completely wiped away, there is no shot of it working anywhere. There are of course exceptions, but those exceptions get less and less each passing year.

[@loganblackwood2922]

AI anime waifus will be loyal. Women will not.

[@OrwellsHousecat]

🧡🤗

[@JoseNavarroCo]

She made it to the typical 10 years of marriage. Got millions, then divorced. Welcome to America Steven Crowder. 🇺🇸

[@Strutinan]

Until she "mysteriously" shoots herself in the back while hanging herself, Clinton-style. Society is falling apart as it is, and once we hit madmax-level, she's toast.

[@Blackraptor1234]

you know what is even better? look up how long you have to be married to recieve alimony in the state of texas where they live. The number might surprise you.....(or not....spoilers it is 10 years)

[@radicalizedoffline1103]

​@@Blackraptor1234 Jeepers Creepers dude, this stuff is writing itself now 😅

[@Blackraptor1234]

@@radicalizedoffline1103 Oh 100% you can time most of this crap out for a lot of people. It isn't rocket science.

[@cameraredeye3115]

You mean "Welcome to Mystery Babylon", because that's where we're headed.

[@dmil843]

Here’s the thing that people need to understand. You never truly know anyone. What they tell you is just a story. They’re just words. I’ve learned to look at what they do, and not listen to what they say. Even that isn’t fool proof. It’s an evil world we live in.

[@SpiritusMundi4EVER]

💯🔥👏👍

[@scienceofthemagi9750]

Yep. The 1 state global brurocracy/ fascism/ illuminati has truly got the masses stupid self & delusional. Fuck we even drink flurid which cases brain damage. Niceee

[@vibeworldmeta]

As a divorced guy myself, I don't recommend marriage in the modern era, period. It's over.

[@ToABetterTomorrow]

Well put. I got divorced a little over a year ago - marriage was only 4 years and 4 months, no kids, no alimony, so it was a clean break. No drama, but had we stayed married, we probably would have become enemies. I miss being a husband sometimes as it gave me more fulfillment and sense of duty I suppose but I do not truly miss being married in the "modern era," as you put it. It's ultimately a shitty deal for men. Even women will admit that if they were men, they likely would not get married.

[@lucianocasanova8924]

Feminists and degenerate progressives have desstroyed marriage, just like any other institution in America, including church, the education system, the workforce, the housing market and our overall values we stand for as a culture.

[@RealtyWebDesigners]

Mine was conservative; church two times a week etc etc.. Wife took everything and the kids. You don't meet your wife until you see her across the court room.

[@mouthpiece200]

heavy words. My mom was that same mom. Took everything from my dad.

[@christopherqueen3194]

Courthouse s*x: You pay a lawyer to tell her to f* herself....

[@XanVicious]

Should I be scared? My prospective wife is a lawyer.. lol.

[@decwow]

​@@XanVicious If you're engaged, think carefully about your circumstances and drop some hints that you want to delay the marriage. Drop some possibilities in front of her that she's not going to get what she wants, and *_carefully_* observe her reaction and behavior for a little while.

[@patriarchmike]

Exactly. They can wear a mask for decades. And as soon as she no longer needs you or finds someone she thinks is better then suddenly you get to see the real her and the mask slips off

[@michaelweston1042]

I remember an article where Steven was saying men needed to "Man up" and get married. How men were immature for not wanting to get married today. So much for that. I'd say he who laughs last laughs best. But I am not happy about the situation of modern society. It is the reality we live in however.

[@joeswanson733]

looksl ike who gets the last laugh

[@AlejandroDelarosa-x7x]

That was the first thing I thought of. I remember that

[@manager4409]

all these christian guys talk like that, it's pure arrogance. "Why aren't you married with children you degenerate" they have to learn the hard way. I grew up in catholic schools so I already knew it was bullshit but they thought they found away around female nature.

[@rajakghosh6602]

The worst part most men don't learn from their mistakes. They keep on making the same mistakes again mad again hoping different outcome each time. That's not intelligence but sheer stupidity.

[@Kindaul]

Well the thing he didnt realize he was trying to say and wouldn't admit even if he were aware of it, is that the only hope for women to ever get better is for men to do the work. Man up and mold a girl into a proper woman. This is unfortunately true, but also pretty much impossible as long as woman have so many backup plans and safety nets available to them thanks to modern society. Steven was just unfortunate enough to misunderstand his hormonal fluctuations as "love", far too common in men.

[@bayekofsiwa365]

Question: If you go bungee jumping and they tell you that 4 out of 10 time the rope will break and the customer will be eaten by a crocodile? Would you still jump? Modern men: I DO!

[@7fall]

Nice! I think it’s 6 of 10 with the other 4 losing less-than-all lol

[@punknoodles0]

It's closer to 3/4

[@brianorndorff1387]

She had their twins in Aug '21, and filed in Dec '21. Got the kids, got the bag, time to split.

[@LembeckIsStaying]

Holy shit that's cold!!!!

[@ESL-O.G.]

100000000%

[@TheSubatomicCheese]

And yet he still blames himself for "picking the wrong one"...unbelievably deluded fool.

[@tikifreaky5204]

Mayb he’s a terrible father

[@dontworryaboutme6410]

@tiki freaky I highly doubt that. If he was he would've gotten exposed for it

[@jasonbourneistreadstone]

Get this if you get nothing else: They do not love you. It's all about the resources. And it's just your turn, nothing more.

[@BetterBachelor]

This man has resources, it's a billion things they want now, and if you're missing one they want, you're out.

[@drawmaster77]

@@BetterBachelor 100% not about resources, she decided to "explore herself" I'm sure

[@lostvayne9146]

@@BetterBachelor he did and she will take it from him. It's just your turn. she played the long game. But being together with one person for that long makes you not like that person anymore you see.. So she'll get enough money from him to coast the rest of her life in freedom away from a partner that would restrict her. play stupid games win stupid prizes.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@lostvayne9146 Now all his ex wife's future sexual partners can say they plowed-her better than Crowder.

[@GB-en7ue]

Old head repeat offender here. I 💯 agree.

[@sdcgnojhmr8755]

When i was in the army, we had an old saying. "If Uncle Sam wanted you to have a wife, he would've issued you one."

[@leeh5307]

From a Gen X female: what the HECK is wrong with some women!? My husband passed away in '05 when our son was 10. I made the decision to not date and just focus to bring up our son as best I could . Now an adult, my son grew up to be a strong, stoic and conservative man that I'm proud of BUT I would give anything including my own life if my son could've grown up with a father figure in the house- his own father. Do women not realize that a man in the house is more valuable than gold? Ugggggh!°°

[@TheWealthOfNationz]

@lee h, With women being told for the last 60 years that a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle, no most not realize a man in the house is more valuable than gold while society continues to bury its head in the sand as to why kids have SO many problems.

[@leeh5307]

Till they realize when the kids are teenagers and young adults. Despite my son having strong values, I can see a stark difference between him and his friends with their dads in the home. He lacks direction, where others are more driven , he went off traveling for years to go 'man up' ie learn how to be an independent, strong man through hardship, again where his mates are much more confident and purposeful. Only a father can bring that to a child. I want to shake these women who don't appreciate and honor yheir husbands and father of their kids. Please ladies, appreciate and value your husbands. Treat them with respect and gratitude. Nothing can fill that precious space.

[@Deadgod91]

Problem is the culture. In US, we have failed to teach our children that with freedom comes responsibility and with rights come duties. We learn nothing from our historical or religious figures, their hardships and sacrifices and more focused on our rights to parody and make fun of them. A Capitalistic society that focuses on consumerism and individualism. Truth is the only thing that matters and lasts longest are our relationships and family, they're the real legacy. Compare to them, those numbers on C.V. , money and even personal dreams are irrelevant. These things may sound corny but are of real value, and honestly this is why I think its time US falls and China replaces the $. When people have actual hardships, they might start to see things more clearly.

[@adamdeveau6311]

When women believe the ‘patriarchy’ is the cause of all suffering, they definitely do not see the value in male role models. They think we are innately evil.

[@John-ou4rm]

​@@leeh5307Us gen X (well many of us) are the last that were brought up by stoic parents who endured tougher times. Priorities had to made, family first. Now it's all hedonism and adult children without boundaries...

[@MrCadet08]

Reminds me of the recent headline "My boyfriend's cancer battle was ruining my mental health so I left him - now I'm running a marathon in his honour"

[@JCardo2502]

What a disgusting human being

[@Butterflyyyxoxo]

Or I can't handle having a gay husband anymore so I had to divorce him

[@fredflintstone8569]

@@Butterflyyyxoxo What???

[@Butterflyyyxoxo]

@@fredflintstone8569 she left him cause he's gay

[@MrCadet08]

@@Butterflyyyxoxo crowder is gay?

[@PistonAvatarGuy]

I love how our entire culture is completely hostile to marriages, and people are still scratching their heads about why marriages don't work.

[@spambot_gpt7]

Yeah, we are all about sustainability - until it comes to actually supporting children and families.

[@a-dutch-z7351]

It is not our culture but taken over, and it is hostile because it is hostile towards what it replaced.

[@hardplans2366]

Did you notice Joker simping, and opining whether Crowder might be a monster behind closed doors ? The brainwashing is sitting DEEEP in all of us

[@MrEdrftgyuji]

​@@spambot_gpt7 "Sustainability" is just code for "eat the bugs, pleb".

[@chaptermasterpedrokantor1623]

EXACTLY! This society is utterly toxic to long term relationships.

[@randomguy123able]

It doesn’t matter how many times conservative/ traditional women say they don’t agree with feminismmm or how much they dislike them. In the end, the still benefit from no fault divorce, child support, etc.

[@DaMaster012]

Only 5% of women will admit to being feminists. 94% of the rest of them are liars.

[@LetsGoforDabash]

It's a typical chameleon tactic I don't understand why men can't grasp this simple logic. These self proclaimed conservative 304s will are amazing actress. They will use this conservative shield and sword of feminism as per their convenience

[@johnc.8298]

Feminism is firmly embedded in pop culture. It's a major part of what makes the West what it is, different from other regions of the world.

[@latetotheparty184]

I believe that women rarely if ever feel regret for blowing up a marriage. Even if they struggle afterwards they will usually rationalize that in their favor. I was married a long time and had noted that my wife and women in general just didn't regret things they did ever. It makes sense in a way as they typically live in the moment and are rarely truly introspective. Also to do it would be to admit fault, also something women typically do not do. After my 25 year marriage ended I thought maybe some day she would come to a little bit of an apology for blowing up our marriage in the way she did, but she never did.

[@maambomumba6123]

Thanks for telling your story. Youve touched on something that I've realized too from experience and observation, that I think more men need to be aware of. Women are generally not apologetic or remorseful. Especially when it comes to their dating and mating choices and things in and around that. You will almost never find a woman who is sorry for infidelity or break up. They are more readily defensive. Proof: See how hard someone very methodical and strategic as Kevin Samuels tried to simply get women to consider their own actions.

[@drakomus7409]

till death do you part. you should of had a plan of how to hide her body after she wanted a divorce. jokes on you man for watching movies thinking thats reality

[@demigodluis]

And now his wife will take 50% of his income, these guys never learn lmao

[@manager4409]

these christian guys are really arrogant about pushing men to get married. "Why aren't you married with children you degenerate? if you'd go to church you'd get a good, loving christian wife".

[@michaelweston1042]

Yup, you get to pay for access that you wont get. It's like leasing a car but somebody else gets to drive it and you pay.

[@hippyjason]

Eh, 50% is just the opening bid. At this point, losing _only_ 50% would be like a win for him.

[@BossDogChillin]

Meanwhile, divorcees I work with think I'm gay or something just because I haven't gone through the wringer like them. Thinking outside of the box (or at least learning from other people's mistakes) needs to be considered a superpower at this point. 😒

[@ricardor7578]

🤔 They think you're gay? Were you drinking Bud Light at the time?🍺

[@BossDogChillin]

@Ricardo R nah, just the only one that hasn't gone through 2-3 marriages or having the life sucked out of me by child support. Some people think it's worth it so long as you have a legacy.

[@kdash2657]

@@BossDogChillin Hope you call them out on their bullshit.

[@lostvayne9146]

tell them your retarded and that your marriages was meaningless. That your trying to justify to yourself why it was a good idea and got squeezed out for it. Also tell them that your legacy is worthless when your kids will grow up poor in this culture having no nuclear family to support them. That they will have a higher chance being another cog in the system and failing in life than they will succeeding.

[@oldsport4029]

Honestly prob best. No false accusations against gay men.

[@starscream6629]

Ironic cause he was crapping on modern western dating issues, marriage critics, and especially bashing young men for avoiding dating as well as western women. We don’t have all the details but classic modern woman move when she left after his health issues. Have a friend who’s dad had the exact same thing when diagnosed with cancer, where his Brazilian now ex wife left. I also suspect it’s partly some post natal hormone changes involved. I believe they said they did medically assisted pregnancy after the miscarriage. Hopefully it wakes up some of the conservative men as well as those across the political spectrum who are still playing Russian roulette with the marriage legal system. Weak willed people become products of their environment and the west is one of little to no accountability put on women, with all out cash & prizes for bad behavior. All it takes is one social media video or one friend embedding propaganda in their minds and you’ve lost everything. Only if you play the game of course in most cases. Sometimes paternity fraud forces you to lose no matter how careful you are as well. We’re at the point where men & boys are waking up enough that you don’t even need to point this stuff out anymore. Despite the tech censorship & gaslighting by the media It’s apparent and in the minds of the masses now.

[@tgatt5759]

*Wah wah wah* sound effects begin

[@MajesticLawnGnome]

😂😂😂😂

[@Gunsight-One]

Watch how his tune changes once he re-enters the modern dating market. Of course he is rich so that makes his prospects much easier than your average man.

[@loganblackwood2922]

All tradcucks like Michael Knowles cape for marriage, make dumb arguments for it and then shame men for not doing it. But what happens in divorce court? They make chowder of Crowder.

[@starscream6629]

@@Gunsight-One I disagree, HER tune will change once she enters the modern western market. She had a high value man (regardless of disagreements on his views and some of his characteristics). He will be fine, he’s at the top of the food chain, he may chad out with his likely many options. Her, a single mom with twins, likely buggered out, and getting up there in age, not so much…

[@safehaven3949]

As a city boy…I yearn for the country. I used to be a big liberal…the older I gotten…the more I realized it wasn’t the way. The city is crap…my kids go to a crap school…with crap neighbors. Wealthy? Yes. Healthy mindset? No.

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

City boy here, older I get the better the country looks...my own space, a fishing dock, and a dog and I just want to be left the hell alone.

[@janelleg597]

Leave. Do whatever it takes.

[@wolfypilot]

Stay there. We’re full

[@morganmorse2086]

Steven’s first mistake: marrying a woman named Hilary/Hillary. That never works out.

[@CharleyVCU1988]

I thought it was the names of tiffany or Stacy or Barbara 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@morganmorse2086]

@@CharleyVCU1988 my statement wasn’t exclusive. You can add names to that list.

[@douglastibbitts364]

End yet Bill is still married to her. Soooooo that didn't work.

[@manager4409]

it is a slut name.

[@alexanderplatz517]

Never marry a Stephanie either...

[@alexdoe5121]

Good looking, muscular, rich guy can't hold onto his virgin wife; what chance do the rest of us have? 😅

[@D3xterJettster]

Truth is, the game was rigged from the start

[@ESL-O.G.]

Slim to none

[@BossDogChillin]

Exactly, I've told this to every divorcee I know. They stare at me like I'm some exotic pet because I haven't been through the wringer.

[@bobbob-zc1nx]

They met her senior yr I believe in college. She was absolutely no virgin

[@emilfrederiksen.1622]

I don't she was a virgin at all seems like she rammed through probably cheated as well.

[@charlestruppi7793]

There is a major difference between a woman marrying the “wrong” man and a man marrying the “wrong woman”. When a woman marries the wrong man, 99% of the time all the signs were there that the guy was an a-hole and would be a terrible husband. The woman expects him to change. For the man, the wrong woman 99% of the time the woman is fine and changes after the wedding.

[@StupidityInANutshell]

It's like a pit trap. You don't realize what you stepped on until it's to late.

[@Baltimorelax]

Exactly, this is 100% correct.

[@M0viLover]

"changes after the wedding." Aka a chameleon.

[@watchthesuit1683]

She wasn"t fine though, she just wore the mask long enough to trap the man.

[@EBR1]

Classic bait and switch.

[@Adrian-qr6gk]

As a 24 year old man i can tell people with confidence young men actually are quitting dating. Marriage of course too, but specifically we're not interacting with women. The truth is they're no longer the women we once had. And neither men or women were perfect back then too, but holy crap women went crazy and extremist. They went nihilistic, promiscuous, evil, hateful, and many other things. If men have fallen short in some ways we understand women who fall short in some ways too but it's proportional. We are thinking about our unborn children, we can't give them terrible mothers nor can we give ourselves terrible wives. Girlfriends may work, and even then it's such a monumental task it's not worth sacrificing your precious time for them. Let them drown in their delusions, their sins, their beliefs. the 20th century laid the ground work for women's modern existence. But the 21st century will be the era of men's changes. And women will be left behind no matter how hard they try to deny reality and nature.

[@blackpillfitness9136]

They will drown in their “truth”

[@wedidntstartthefire1]

Hey bro I'm a bit older than you and I mostly agree. However I do have some advice, don't obsess over it or become bitter. Live your life, be a good and caring soul, work hard, and have some fun. You'll find your way and maybe even a nice girl eventually, they do exist.

[@jcol341]

This is the most real lesson to give guys: what you want as a man doesn't matter in this society. Want kids? She can abort. Or they might not be yours and in some states the courts don't care if you didn't know when you signed the birth certificate. Want marriage? Your hopes and dreams are only as valuable as you want them to. No one else cares and it is the lowest threshold imaginable.

[@TheOzStu]

They don't even care if you know they aren't yours and didn't sign. Even if you are infertile and can prove it......touch shit. In many states if a woman is married her husband is the legal father of any children she births.

[@isaacvanderbilt4505]

The fact that prenuptial agreements can be thrown out depending on the judge is absolutely insane. The idea that they can just say they were forced to sign it to get married is ridiculous. As if marriage is a Need thing for women. The only people getting married in today's society are the ignorant.

[@kocoffgames4144]

This story scared me for some reason. We keep thinking that palying by the rules will always pay back. If a woman is done, she is done. No amount of effort can change this. So ungrateful. I feel so bad for him.

[@needparalegal]

There is no justice on this world. You can hope there is justice in the next, but probably the only way to have justice is if we do it ourselves.

[@johnc.8298]

According to stats, marriage/divorce is like playing Russian Roulette with three of six chambers loaded.

[@YellowEye25]

StarSeed is half right. There will be justice indeed, but in the next world. Right now we must believe in the Messiah and learn what good and bad mean, and learn that to be good is to be brave enough to make sacrifices for others. Blessed are those that believe my words, for they will be led to the light of the world.

[@TheOzStu]

Now watch him focus his entire efforts into finding another unicorn. They never learn.

[@kocoffgames4144]

@TheOzStu Bro i hope not. 🙏

[@ramgladore]

This happened to my uncle. Their family went to church ever Sunday. He paid for his kid's private Christian schooling. His wife still divorced him and shacked up with an old boyfriend she knew before she got married.

[@AnointedOne4God]

got em

[@THX5000]

Fee mail nature trumps religion

[@josealexi5141]

Men: if you are considering marriage in 2023, you need a CHECKUP from the NECK UP!! Men: if you're already married, you better START NOW to protect your assets from a divorce.

[@crex1074]

Marriage as an institution is finished. Married my first love. 33 years later divorced. No way were those years worth the bitterness I am now living with. Telling my sons to "never" "ever" marry. Our society is utterly doomed.

[@LembeckIsStaying]

33 years??? Jesus Christ! Might as well ride it out at that point. What life or freedom are you missing out on in your 50s or 60s?

[@IssacEinstein]

Damn……… 33 years? Did she file for divorce?

[@RealtyWebDesigners]

@@LembeckIsStaying 50's is GOLD without a wife brother - TRUST ME.

[@darthbrooks4933]

33 years….damn man.

[@xandercrew6088]

As a man, you are entering a great age to soar and do all you want without that wife anchoring you down. Her loss. You can go find another woman if you want. She will die and be eaten by her cat.

[@Ell-J]

As a MAGA conservative, I understand no matter who you marry,it's a horrible deal, for men.

[@joeswanson733]

rule #1... don't say you're a MAGA. you're painting a bullseye on your back

[@nailinpalin1477]

MAGA was a scam, we are way worse off than we were before trump and he took no action to help us. It's a big club, we ain't in it but he is.

[@Tushar_Talwar_09]

​@@joeswanson733 he's just brushing up his evasive maneuvers.

[@CorporealFixation]

​@joeswanson733 Rule#1 of MAGA, is to say you're MAGA. Rule #2, is to realize DJT is also compromised. Stop playing Chess, and start playing Go.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@UrFriendlyNeighborHood Jewish Banker Is Crowder a bunghole stuffer or are you just saying stuff? Because if he likes a bit of knobaction, that would explain his marriage ending.

[@philmstud2k]

Handsome guy, masculine, alpha, $20 million net worth, man of God, conservative, both each other's first, semi-famous, has children. Ended the same way as every other divorce. It's over. Don't get married.

[@Andrew-zr1jt]

It is amazing how an institution as marriage has been destroyed , a nightmare come true. Today is too dangerous to get married , Christian countries are really KO.

[@michaeltuffin8147]

And admitted he is/was bi and liked slurping schlongs

[@kunka592]

@@Andrew-zr1jt Our Greatest Allies really helped push things along.

[@tonyngo9200]

that took me by surprise too!

[@generalwillwelsh7926]

Nah bro you gotta watch the video of him telling his wife she couldnt even drive to go get groceries. He seems a tad bit controlling

[@citywinesspirits6583]

I was married, offically, 14 years. Effectively 10. Took 4 years in court to get a reasonable and fair conclusion is really what it boils to. She was extremely unfaithful, averaged every 3 days for a decade with reckless behavior associated with my kids. It still took 4 years. She even filed a Protective Order against me, totally unwarranted and forced her to have it expunged from my record and pay for the legal work to have that happen. The way the legal system works today it is absolutely not worth getting married, there are far too many risks and far too few rewards. I seriously doubt I will ever get married again. And if I do, it will be due to a very significant change to the legal system.

[@emperorpalpatine3045]

What hurts the most is him blaming himself for something completely outside his control. He truly represents the meat shield that conservative men has been for a very long time.

[@Blackraptor1234]

It was perfectly within his control. He could have just not gotten married in the first place.

[@jamesjonnes]

Conservatives who help the enemy deserve no sympathy. Zero.

[@toxicmale2264]

Remember that conservatives are still gynocentric.

[@upstar21t]

Tradcucks gonna tradcuck.😂🤷‍♂️

[@theoneman2084]

I don't really feel bad for him.

[@jagenau6334]

I did the marriage, 2 kids and divorce in Australia. Throughout the duration of the marriage, even when things weren't that bad , living with the knowledge that at any moment, on the slightest whim she could destroy the family , ruin our finances and damage the children , was a major stress factor in itself. The sword of Damocles hanging over a man's head never knowing when it would drop.

[@jimbonater]

Exactly!

[@Alfaskulls]

@@jimbonater Exactly!

[@basicfilmblog]

You sound like you have severe anxiety and should see a professional

[@TheOzStu]

That's it. The power they have alone, even if not used, will turn you into a fearful doormat. You will know that everytime there is disagreement about anything, if things escalate, YOU will have to give in, because only you have something to lose if things go bad. Marriage is total submission for men. And women are not attracted to men who submit to women. You can't win.

[@city_of_coompton6832]

​@@TheOzStu Married men should have a bug out plan. Keep a significant portion of their assets in crypto. As soon as she announces her intention to divorce be on a plane to a country with no extradition treaty.

[@PAIP_Studio]

Here is how you pick the right one. You become a nomad and travel the world. If she follows you everywhere you go and she brings up marriage you tell her this. "Do you want to share my journey through life? " She will likely say yes. And then you say "Prove it" The she will say how? And you respond "With the rest of your life. No marriage, no ceremony, no vows, I go where I go and you follow if you want. You can leave when ever you want but if you leave you can never return."

[@mouthpiece200]

A very true story but too bad its fiction and no girl will follow a guy for long when she has options.

[@PAIP_Studio]

@@mouthpiece200 Yeap.

[@SmokeADig]

I’m consistently amazed by how many lonely, isolated, friendless men I come across. They’re absolutely starved for brotherly companionship and it breaks my heart how common forgotten misbegotten men have become.

[@MichaelJames-lz7ni]

There's a lesson there - if you don't have a clue how to be a 'true friend', how EXACTLY do you know how to be a spouse? You don't.

[@boxhead9282]

I have life long friends in real life from high school and people online. If you can get into videogames there's so many friend groups online you can hang out with gaming together.

[@Cheekiemoney]

His wife filed for divorce. Again it's not the men that are the problem. Do not get married. Even the conservative women are still women. Until ALL women are taught a lesson, leave them be.

[@ikechukwuobiajuluonweluzo762]

so this is just a nature thing? like snakes are beautiful but can't change their nature.

[@V-A-N-G-U-A-R-D]

@@ikechukwuobiajuluonweluzo762 yes, exactly. There are exotic "beautiful" snakes out there, but are you going to chance a close encounter to find out if it's poisonous? Not me. Can't get angry at the lion that eats the gazelle. Just nature.

[@jabba0975]

There is no 'teaching them a lesson'. There is no saving them. The only winning move is not to play, and that will not change in our lifetimes.

[@Valk..]

​@@ikechukwuobiajuluonweluzo762 society just became so safe that women ended up being modern day darwin award traps. So much information out there that if you still fall for these traps its on you

[@sarahnovella4971]

what lesson that women supposed to learn?🤔 and will they really learn? if women don't 'learn' that lesson, what's gonna happen then?🤔🤔

[@crazyworld54321]

43, single, never married, no kids. And damn I couldn't be more happy and relaxed with my stress free lifestyle. The whole relationship thing wasn't for me.

[@Primalinstincts101]

32 and am going down the same path brother!

[@lostvayne9146]

yup. fk these whores. Their all walking the streets everywhere you look.

[@MS-ku6uw]

38, I never wanted to be married, "no mariage, no divorce😊

[@cool08player]

31. After my last one, I realized every relationshit went the same exact way. Told myself the juice was not worth the squeeze almost 10 years ago and I've been happy ever since.

[@Pototoes949]

42 and exact same!

[@BreadAndGatorade]

Dude looks like literal superman in that shirt. Essentially a perfect man (looks, money, status, faithful, etc) No reason to get married anymore. Have children at your own risk.

[@scanspeak00]

She prefers a bad boy chad or tyrone.

[@broryku]

Maybe he turned beta as time went by.

[@tikifreaky5204]

Mayb he has a terrible personality

[@JohnDoe-le8fy]

Remember the Tom Brady one .. best example for anyone saying to get married in upside down USA.

[@bobbob-zc1nx]

​@@tikifreaky5204 not an excuse to divorce EVER. DEFINITELY NOT AN EXCUSE TO PERMANENTLY DESTROY YOUR FAMILY. not an excuse to make the likely hood of your kids being abused and gain mental illness sky rocket. She could hate him and it's no excuse to divorce as long as he's doing his job as a husband and father So if no infidelity nor abuse it doesn't leave many options to justify this evil. Most people have bad personalities but we still need families for nations and humans to not be destroyed. So bad personality = get over it you spoiled brat.

[@TigerbanGaming]

Funny how the divorce happened only a couple months after his health issues, with 2 kids no less.

[@InvokeZero]

I will never forget the time I heard the best advice I was ever given regarding getting married: "Never enter into a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it." Marriage is, boiled down into simplest terms, a business contract between two individuals where one is rewarded greatly - at the cost of the other - for breaking the contract after certain periods of time.

[@timsimms65707]

That's true, well said, it should be a bumper sticker.

[@DaMaster012]

Wrong... Is even worse than that. This bastardized thing we erroneously call "marriage" is a contract between to adults and the incorrigibly corrupt gynocentric governments of man, which rewards itself and thus actively encourages women (assuming there is one in the equation, since they let sodomites unionize) to break said contact for their benefits at the expense of turning the man into a slave.

[@ibubezi7685]

Wrong - it's a contract between THREE parties - two of them conspiring against the man.

[@darbyohara]

Men do not gain any tangible benefits to being married when compared to a live in long term GF.

[@Anchor-Supreme]

Feel bad for him, honestly.

[@joeswanson733]

well we're all adults and he made his choices.

[@Blackraptor1234]

Why? Nothing to feel sorry about. The dude absolutely was trash talking any man who was warning about marriage. He has to learn the hard way. He made his choices and deserves what he gets. Would say the same about any woman who made shitty decisions.

[@Siranoxz]

Sure, but he never felt sad for the other guys going through the ringer and now it happens to him.

[@icymarcos5485]

He probably did something bad to cause the divorce

[@LembeckIsStaying]

Dude is a bp who shits on redpill, he deserves it.

[@spatulamahn]

Went through divorce as well. It amazes me that this legal contract is the only one where one party can break it and the other is punished. Divorce laws should definitely be changed!

[@TheOzStu]

One party can break it and the other is punished...as long as it's the woman that breaks it. The real rule here is......men get punished, always.

[@Notme-tq4xs]

Men made this laws. Why ?

[@blazingsandwich1234]

@@Notme-tq4xs Simps. That's how.

[@johnsczpanski2731]

It's not even legal. When someone normally breaks a contract, it's the contract breaker that suffers the consequences. This marriage contract is unconstitutional and violates all contract law that ever existed.

[@ImYourHuckleberry205]

@@Notme-tq4xs EVIL weak men, men you want to punch in the face with a sharp spike.

[@robbentodd6824]

I have a friend who retired recently. His wife kicked him out of the house he bought. I told him a failed marriage isn’t a failure, it’s liberation. Be liberated men!

[@jdek88]

Glad I learned about the harsh realities of relationships before I fell into the trap of marriage

[@manager4409]

can learn the cheap way in highschool and then channels like this. Or can learn like stephen is now.

[@encryptedwolf7623]

SAME HERE

[@klopcodez]

Especially people in church putting them on a pedestal never again and thinking they can’t do that there pure oh boy what the f was I thinking

[@LastbutNotFirst]

my old best friends dad used to brag about how he set most of his money in an off shore account when he started to make money. once his kids hit 18. he was out cheating and ready to divorce. he planned it for over 10 years on how to escape and keep his money.

[@Ghost101]

@@klopcodez I thought the same too. I met her during my time in high school. This was also a religious school. The word religious don't mean anymore unless you're walking it for yourself which is becoming rare these days.

[@clemjoke7609]

Bet she told him she felt like she missed out and needs to find herself.

[@Jayyy667]

Find herself in a gang banger

[@emilfrederiksen.1622]

She wants to get rammed through and secure a huge check meanwhile she needs excitement.

[@Mr1998Brandonify]

Wouldn’t be surprised

[@EightFrancs]

It was her long term game plan. She married to get rich in divorce.

[@AvyScottandFlower]

It's honestly BAFFLING to me, how men keep getting married, at this point..

[@manager4409]

many of these christian right wing guys are delusional.

[@treznorNSFW]

honestly baffling. i try to shout at young men not to get married. but they dont listen. lul.

[@Ddog785]

it is sad, earlier in life you have this thought of this is what god would want, and you put in all this effort, ,,,,,,,just to be crapped on and the reality is marriage does not benefit a man in any way. It is just a huge risk assessment...not at all what i thought it would be...very sad

[@CrackHeadDaddy]

So should the human race go extinct if we stop procreating?

[@georgemcfly3482]

Most people are really stupid

[@jeffincanada5060]

"It's a female judge, you never know." That says it all.

[@David4321-u6r]

No marriage No cohabitation No dating Seems to be like the only peaceful way for men to live in modern society!

[@lostvayne9146]

absolute solution. Right in front of men's faces. But guess what. It removes the option. men don't like that now do they.

[@onward2727]

As soon as about 90-95% of men choose this life, the entire world will have no choice but to fix itself I know our dumb libido is a curse, but it’s ENTIRELY possible to conquer it. And that is what must be done. Find a good path in life, fitness, goals, career, hobbies. A man like this wins. Collect as many resources as possible and keep your intentions pure. Stay out of trouble and avoid drama We’ll come out as winners.

[@paulkeys175]

Gives credence to the edict: If you drive it, sail it, fly it or fuck it, rent it.

[@spiritfree5050]

no interaction

[@icymarcos5485]

I still date and encourage it because it’s fun but I don’t plan on marrying

[@latinboyyy305]

6 ft tall ✅ (actually 6'2) 6 figure income ✅ (actually 7 figs) 6 inches ✅ (I would hope so) 6 pack ✅ (@ one point) 600 horsepower ✅ (don't know, but I'm sure they have really good cars, w/ ex warranty) 6 months single ✅ (even better, high school sweethearts) Results: abysmal failure Question: What should average men do now? Answer: Nothing, keep watching better bachelor, and live in reality. 😂

[@emilfrederiksen.1622]

Average men at least don't have a lot of money to leach off Steven is rich marrying a broke jobless women she has a lot to leach off.

[@johnc.8298]

You can attempt to go into a relationship/marriage with "eyes wide open" but that doesn't help when every man's eyes are faulty with glaucoma whether he knows it or not.

[@VixxKong2]

Maybe not treat you pregnant wife like she's a servant that is responsible of treating your sick dog? Maybe not tell her to take a Uber because you don't want her to take the car, even when you're not using the car. Maybe not tell her you don't love her?

[@edschofield37]

I was on a coach tour in England in 2012 and at one our dinners together with fellow travelers I dined with two young ladies from Singapore. During dinner the conversation drifted to marriage and the two ladies asked me in their Singapore accent, "How long in Canada does a woman have to live together with a man before she can get half the house?" "One year and one day", was the answer, to which they both grinned gleefully at each other and said "oh, very good, very good."

[@blackpillfitness9136]

Wow, the shamelessness is unreal.

[@AdrienMelody]

And here I thought Singaporean women were based

[@kaczan3]

@@AdrienMelody The old advice: "they are all like that" rings true.

[@cbftoan01]

My ex wife is Japanese, don't think Asian women are any better, they aren't.

[@StarPlatinumV]

Here is a ringer! EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED... If you simply live together for a certain period of time, you can STILL get divorce graped.

[@erichmacho5741]

Yup, in Australia it happens. It's even happened with couples who don't live together! Defacto law sucks. Do not impregnate, co-habitate or marry.

[@StarPlatinumV]

@@erichmacho5741 Jeez!

[@brianchristenson6055]

I went through 2 criminal trials I was found not guilty and still lost everything in California. Marriage and children were the worst mistakes I ever made! I would have been a millionaire!!!!

[@daveunderwood6498]

Same here. I could have been a millionaire by the time I was 40. At no time was marriage worth it.

[@jeremystonell690]

The funny thing about all this is that the Shawshank Redemption is basically the story of like 50% of men now... woman cheats, man's life destroyed. It was supposed to be the rare situation and now it's so commonplace...

[@r.p.m4332]

Cue up CGA's "I'm NOT HAPPY! Boo Hoo Hoo!" Marriage has truly become the BIGGEST/WORST joke of ALL time.

[@encryptedwolf7623]

@ R.P.M. , my mind read your comment in your voice! 😂 You and Joker both, Keep up the great work!

[@rodmunch1931]

I remember being told as a kid growing up to watch out for those evangelical Christian’s they got the highest divorce rate of them all. It’s basically the feminist wing of Christianity I’d say.

[@rodmunch1931]

@@ibnkhaldoun4319 hell yea