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[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Catch previous videos from our boat building series here: Ep 1: Trimaran reveal: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sIPZfHSZpMeMfM0 Ep 2: Interior work begins: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bpy9c5iImZh-iM0 Ep 3: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m56WdIh7e9Ccj5o

[@BricksofHappiness]

❤❤

[@oursunkisseddays]

Great video guys, had some tears. The hard and busy times will always come no matter how blessed you are in life. You are amazing parents and humans doing incredible things! Hope you get some more down time and time to enjoy your Bali home. 💛

[@barbraallbritton4222]

Huge hugs and hope you know what amazing parents you both are❤

[@jodyroper5105]

Shipping delays and shortages are not from Covid but from draconian government lockdowns.

[@johnmikel5934]

In all honesty, I quit watching Rubie Rose and Project Atticus as they were into boat builds and repairs for a long time. Somewhat staged as it appeared. It was too much like watching paint dry... Nice to see you are trying to stabilize the environment for the family. Stay away from the boat build toxins. Not good for health long term.

[@westoneverett7803]

There's a big difference between constantly complaining, just out of habit/mindset, and having a purposeful talk about things that are challenging and difficult or stressful. Personally, I think the world would be better off with more of this kind of real honesty, especially in regard to content creators/influencers/etc. where, often, things seem much more idyllic than they really are. No need to apologize! It's a good reality check for everyone.

[@PicklesLeKat]

All of this!!! Not all videos are perfect. Not all of life is staged. Nothing in life “goes to plan”, but that’s what makes it interesting! Don’t apologize and enjoy the rollercoaster!

[@alexandramorkin400]

Hang in there…..it’s a journey❤

[@teresakarlson4377]

Totally agree! We’ve been following you two since the beginning, and are amazed at what you’ve accomplished! Your videos are fantastic, and you are always your authentic selves. We can’t imagine having all of the things that you have on your plates! 🙂

[@rogerbrownart]

Well said ! l enjoy watching videos that depict not just the ups, but also the downs.I am not intrested in watching videos that are overly sugar coated.

[@HooliganFromTrinidad]

Preach, you have said it all 🙌😌

[@randyfulkerson1730]

Hi guys, I have watched all your videos from the beginning. I have been on hospice care for years, your channel and other sailers have given me wonderful entertainment, that I don't get from regular tv and movies. I have never added a comment before, I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your videos, they have taken me from my bed and allow me to travel the world with you.

[@lydiaajohnson]

Big hugs to you.

[@zolia.8981]

Hello! Sounds like you’re a very strong person in every way. I’m wishing you peace, comfort and healing. God is with you🌻 Big, soft hug to you❤️

[@sailingyoumeandjosapea6770]

Hay mate thinking of you wishing you the best

[@rebeccarendle3706]

Guys don't worry about Lenny.. he is coming out of the toddler phase and going into kindergarten kid age. He has to play up, he is trying to "cut away from the apron strings" and be more independent and find out who he is. He also needs kids to play with.. now you have the house, hopefully he can go regularly to a kindergarten where they have routines and he has other kids to interact with and learn social behaviour with. We love your channel and will still enjoy following your journey.

[@plien2184]

Yep, completely normal phase. Very hard to deal with

[@dianahampton8768]

Totally, it’s the child’s job to separate from us. If they don’t then something is wrong. They are hardwired to begin the process as soon as they are able. This process takes about 18 years give or take a few. How we navigate the process together is what makes a difference. A really good child psychologist once said: are the prisoners that try to escape the jail particularly bad prisoners or is it the nature of prisoners to try to escape? It is the nature of children to begin the separation process even when they are young. They’re not misbehaving when they’re learning to be autonomous and making some mistakes in the process.

[@abracadabra463]

Honestly I love these "homey" videos where you guys just live day to day and have a chat with us.

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

I’m glad you love this chill homey style video. You might see a few more soon lol 😅

[@LaraLinx]

I think these "weird, messy" videos are some of my favorites. It really is important for everyone watching to realize we're all weird people from the internet. And that's okay. Extra thumbs-up for speaking about Mental Health and self-care! 💜

[@blitzdesigner3141]

@@SailingLaVagabonde despite being a "homey style" video, the production quality is always spot on and full of small little details that let me as a professional in the entertainment industry let me get a big smile (like the out of focus fx with the hovering text 🙂 A m a z i n g

[@susanolsen9352]

You may not feel this way, but THIS is one of your best episodes to date .... from authentic admissions to directly addressing us, updates on the children and the boat, all of it --- so REAL yet with touches of cool cinematic pool shots reminiscent of your filming style. Stay true, be you, we are not going anywhere!

[@unclemichel6328]

Love the underwater pool clip! Swim lenni swim! Try backstroke and butterfly 🦋

[@unclemichel6328]

Lenny, try and swim like a frog 🐸 😅 Frogger style!

[@erinluijkx6788]

I'm gonna chime in with my two cents.You're doing great. Remember this boat build is a temporary thing. this too shall pass. You'll be moved in before you know it and it will be home. In the meantime, I would have a good heart to heart with Lenny and reassure him verbally that no matter where we go or stay or travel to, that you will always be there to love him, protect him and keep him safe. It's easy to say "he knows that" but verbally confirming that is huge. Also, as others have said, he is exactly at the right age to start testing you and figuring out who he his, what this world is all about. He is loved (Darwin too, but his needs are different at this age), and we can see that in these videos. You're very busy and this too shall pass. Don't forget to take time for yourselves too. You cannot give when your cup is empty. I've learned over the years and I currently have a great relationship with my 3 kids( almost 24, 22, 20) and they tell me the things that scared them growing up. Things I could have done better, and also where I excelled. Youre doing a great job. Don't be hard on yourselves and there is nothing wrong with complaining! we need to verbalize shit sometimes to sort it in our brains.Keep just being you. Love you guys. sorry for writing a book. :P

[@lesliemyrick4755]

This is so true. The feels are there, the words are what we all need. Reassurance that it's all good. I love watching the boys grow. My two- who looked so much like Lenny and Darwin- are grown now and have their own. My Darwin fell on aa lava same age, same cut, he still has the scar. Stay present. Your doing fine.

[@Debbie56]

This is very excellent advice. Lenny has had a lot to deal with at 4 yrs. Old and he needs some security and reassurance

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Thanks for your book 🙌 Elayna xx

[@unclemichel6328]

@Sailing La Vagabonde book? Ok 👍 I'll do it. (Yes I know I'm kind of weird (internet) stalking you two the past 8 yrs... what! Holy cow is right. Tell your man, from me, he needs to work out! Like the song, "I work out!"

[@Sub.zero.111]

@@unclemichel6328 huh?

[@nuha3898]

I honestly love how Riley and Elena always take the time to give us a reality check. It's so easy to look at their lifestyle from pictures and videos and think about how lucky they are, which they are, but often we forget how much hard work and adjusting it takes to live like them.

[@nickwells1588]

Riley is objectively lucky, because he is with a 10

[@f33rcetv34]

@@nickwells1588 theyre both 10s really

[@TheCudaHunter]

Someone long ago told me two things when our son was born. 1. It never gets easier but it always gets better. 2. 6 months of equilibrium where your child seems "perfect" and then 6 months of disequilibrium. Peace to you all. You add so much value to 1.82 million subscribers lives.

[@ClaudiadeFries]

I've also heard this one: Parenting, is the hardest job you'll ever love🥰

[@garydupont1164]

I appreciate the life updates and it makes you both real people! Nothing to apologize for. 😊 I’m interested in the boat build, but I would rather see a video like this than watch another boat build video where nothing is happening or no progress is being made. Take care and keep doing what you’re doing. 😊

[@rahla53]

And you are a guy, what to speak about us ladies, :>)

[@mitchkatz4918]

I was wondering that if you guys were there working on the boat- do you get a discount for doing work or is it less so in that you will take longer than the professionals making your efforts though fun knowing you helped win this particular room? Your children will go through phases as you both had. the timing may be altered by the environment you are raising your kids as you were not raised on a boat. Is Lenny toilet trained? (its often a pre-requisite for starting school.) This topic of perfect life while on film, I recall this mentioned on am earlier video. It's not expected that you have a Perfect life. Though there are many folks who have witnessed your sailing, and are doing so themselves. I think a poll is needed to see how life changing your videos are. Enjoying your life journey- but i really look forwards to you sailing again. And maybe workout videos as Riley's arms are looking beefy, Elana your continuing to run I suspect in that your abdominals still look ripped/defined. Has your diets changed as you now have greater variety of foods available, and you are not limited by whats caught fishing.

[@roamingtheblue]

So refreshing hearing you guys be vulnerable and talk about the struggles you’re going through. You two are absolute powerhouses, keep spreading your amazing energy 💙

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Thanks guys, keep on roaming!! 🌻

[@juleejensen]

its a views tactic. nothing more.

[@sunshinecr1]

You’re certainly NOT complainers you two! It’s called real life and you’re both brave and beautiful for authentically sharing your journey. This will most assuredly help someone else who may be navigating life’s ups and downs. Keep on, keeping on! Sending heaps of love to you both and the boys as well of course 🙏💖

[@wolvesborn8046]

Remind Lenny, whenever the four of you are together, it's home. That said, routine can make things easier with setting rules, rewards, and consequences... and eventually behavior. As exciting as it was to see the new boat, I think you guys made the right move. This episode was fantastic. And chicks dig scars. It's always a blessing when little ones walk away from injury that easily!

[@michaelggraham]

In my old guy thoughts….”chill.” Lenny is fine. All boys at that age go through phases. Has nothing to do with your parenting or things you’re doing. My only advice, going through life, keep him busy, be involved, and love him. Those 3 things are key. We enjoy the videos and hope you keep going. Yes, it is all hard work. But nothing is earned or gained by being lazy or expecting it to be given to you (entitlement). Love you guys. You’re fun.

[@niewissen9912]

Well said. You are 100% correct

[@johnnydfred]

Another old guy: this. Rock on.

[@lambert.mardenebadenhorst712]

Very true mate

[@michelecarroll8168]

Well put Mike. We all go through these kind of times in our life..❤

[@thesofakillers]

I disagree, growing up moving all the time was horrible.

[@GreenShortzDIY]

As a KZbinr myself I’ve come to understand that being real is important. So, letting us see these difficult facets of your life is just a blessing. Showing viewers the reality of the challenges you’re facing reminds us that you’re normal people like us (or abnormal people like us. Lol). You’re also demonstrating the act of perseverance, which is a relevant choice we all need to make. Most importantly, you’ve given priority to the well being of your boys. Thank you for taking us on the journey. Life is worth the grind. 😊❤

[@retiredoldguy706]

Not all your followers are young and impressionable some of us are 74 and building ourself up after not eating good and dropping our supplements last year. I’m on the mend, never ate so much good food, done with that “ o I have loose weight “ white and red cells and platelets are way more important. Love you guys we are all going to be OK♥️👍❤️

[@patrickjames1080]

Good medicine Retired Oldguy - go adventure!

[@rahla53]

I am 70, old lady here-:>)

[@sigmachi5803]

....and some of us are 76 & 79 respectively! Alan & Jeanne Cecil M/V SIGMACHI

[@coleengoodell7523]

Darwin looks so adorable with his big boy haircut. So glad that he's OK after his accident and that Lenny has decided that having a brother is actually quite fun. Kudos to you both for recognizing what the boys need at this stage of development and why Lenny was acting out. Thank you for always keeping it real. Stay safe and God bless.

[@janellemiller277]

No, YOU are real- that's why you're so popular. You are a dose of fresh air & so appreciated!

[@cpbird_lover9143]

I think you both are absolutely amazing. Juggling two young babies, while taking control on a huge boat, traveling across the ocean. I don’t believe anyone in my town can do what you have accomplished. It’s exactly what people want to view on KZbin. Cheers!

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Thanks so much for your kind words 🧡🧡🥲

[@formhubfar]

3:40, you have to understand things from Lenny's perspective, he has no continuity in his life, I am the son of a former soldier and all my life we travelled from country to country never really connecting with anything, Lenny also feed's off your emotions and if you guy's are not balanced he will feel it, I mean your going through quite the transition right now and Lenny picks up on everything including your worries and fears, so be careful of what you say around him as you may not realise it but he is constantly listening.

[@kimberleysmith1539]

Ask Lenny what's going on for him?

[@Dessydd]

I've been on here before Lenny was even a twinkle in the eye and it's so refreshing to see the candid and open dialogue you have with not only yourselves, but with us, the audience. This is what makes La Vagabond such an intriguing and entertaining broadcast to those who either struggle to travel or have other responsibilities. You really do so much adventure, even more so that you have children now it seems. You take up the challenge to discover new places you haven't felt and see different cultures. Epic. You are ambassadors of the sea!

[@Luckytrowel12]

You shouldn't feel guilty about any of it, those boys are getting so much love from you it's plain to see that you're absolutely doing the right thing. I don't know exactly what it is that makes me watch your videos as I've absolutely no interest in sailing the ocean but please don't stop making them and please don't stop being you.

[@marcbarash6045]

Making video's is your business and very important to the survival of your family and raising children who need some sense of home/permanence is your most important responsibility. It's all wickedly difficult and overwhelming. Just hang in there!!! Make your children your number 1 priority and you will get through everything else. I have been watching your material for several years. You have what it takes to make and I know you will. Your not complaining, your sharing! Big difference.

[@stanpustylnik]

Riley and Elayna will figure it out. Millions of "normal people" waste their life at work, exhausted too much to give love to their children. Knight-Riley, Princess-Elayna, Lenny, Darwin live together and experience life adventures we can only imagine. Loving your super interesting videos!!!😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@MrBeachbuddy]

Of course we don’t mind Elayna’s underwater montages and Riley’s fishing sketches, but having you sit and just chat to us about where your heads are currently makes us all family. You reach places no other Sailing channels can touch- because you’re honest and genuine.

[@AlexaJanell]

Love that you prioritized your kids needs❤ looking forward to continue to follow along :)

[@daniwalker1268]

Maybe you two are too restless and your kids are expressing this to you - relax, sit still; you're just moving too quickly for your kids. Stability is necessary....

[@twoeagledrones]

It’s really amazing, and a tribute to you both, that you continually find new ways to make your channel entertaining and fresh. No wonder you’re #1! Love it!

[@jimdiamond8246]

How dare you complain when your multi billionaires on KZbin 🤣🤣🤣.if everyone out in crazy internet land doesn't understand that nearly all KZbin channels are a business,then they need to give themselves an uppercut.for me it's about how far you two can push the envelope on what your doing with your channel. Both of you have shown if you get up off your arse and give life a go you can achieve just about anything in life .cheers guys keep kicking the can down the road 👍.

[@inthehouse1960]

You two are on the cutting edge of a whole new entertainment experience. You're creating it as you go, and it will be what you make it. And I appreciate that you keep it real. Traditional entertainment involves actors telling a story and advertisers selling it. Some entertainers get confused about their own lives and the life they chose to expose to the masses. But most of them still get to go home at the end of the day. KZbin is a whole different animal. You're telling your real-life story and we are paying for access to it. If you had told me 20 years ago that this would be a thing, I would have said, "you're mad". And yet here you are, making it real. I hope everyone watching realizes that you have a life and it is not any of our business what goes on when the camera is turned off. What you choose to share is up to you, and this involves a whole new way of defining boundaries, identity, and personal integrity. Please take good care of yourselves. Put the camera down and be who you are, be with your kids, and be in your life...throw us a bone once in a while, and then get on with your life. And thank you for the honor of letting us have a little glimpse into what it takes to be an adventurer. It's compelling and inspiring. But it's ok to close the curtains at the end of the day. Peace out.

[@lauradowell1829]

So well said!!!!!

[@lydiaajohnson]

I appreciate your taking time to acknowledge us viewers. It means a lot. I want to say that you two have grown so much and have become very enjoyable yourselves. Between parenthood and opening your lives to others’ cultures, you are becoming wise and caring people. It makes me feel a bit sentimental saying this because there was a time several years ago when I stopped watching for awhile. It was pre-children, and you were younger and less aware of the value of “others”. Looking at you both now gives me joy. Thank you for sharing your honest love for what you’re doing out there, your love and enjoyment of life, your respect for people everywhere, and determination to be REAL-all the time. It could have gone differently. You chose the high road. Love your children, and the way you love them. I enjoy how unafraid you are to be yourselves in front if so many. Cheers to you from middle America.

[@joeberkofly]

We know your life isn't perfect. We just enjoy watching your adventures, your zest for life and your lovely little family. Don't worry, be happy. Your son is definitely going through a phase, just address it "gently" and then move on to the next phase. (Lol, its just the life of parents and children.)

[@isabellegorczyca3488]

Okay here is the thing about better help that people don’t know better help just has random people and these “therapists” literally talks about them self or is doing other things like cooking bacon or grocery shopping. Love this channel just warning people.

[@markgreene7930]

A reality show that gets real. I like it! Always a fun watch. You continue to amaze me as young parents with all you do. Your boys are amazingly resilient. Bravo!

[@gracelever4687]

I've never commented here before but followed your journey for years and want to tell you... Anyone who is a decent human absolutely has NO ISSUE with you guys "complaining"... it broke my heart see you apologise. You're real and it's so refreshing. You're never "complaining" you're just being honest and it's what we all need more of 🙂 You're running a million miles an hour so it's ok to have moments of blah! Bless you and the fam for this season of rest

[@stingb6983]

You can have a blessed and lovely life while still having hardships and stress! Don’t apologize for it! Family first! You guys are awesome! ❤

[@mcjohnston2]

Of the many talents your family possesses, being able to walk the fine line of producing content that is sensational and seductive whilst remaining authentic and real is one of my favorite aspects of your channel. It’s what keeps me coming back to watch year after year. Appreciate your thoughtfulness and the extra effort you put into everything you do. It seems like the life you have truly couldn’t have happened to better people.

[@kellyandthehorses2877]

I don't hear any complaints in this. I hear two people who have created their own destiny in a very intentional way, sharing the struggles that can occur when a person/people do this. Those of us also walking this path of creation and self determination appreciate your story. :)

[@travelswithmytribe]

As a military family, who is constantly on the move between houses and countries, Lenny’s behaviour is entirely normal. I hope it serves some comfort to know that it’s temporary, they soon find their feet and they become the most adaptable people who can make friends anywhere.

[@cliffstevenson5773]

Watching Lenny swim underwater was so affecting. He is amazing. Oh, also...just get through this bit. The videos continue to be compelling - you have to understand that we like the characters in this drama and are always on their side. Nomadic life has its issues - but so does being stuck in a school full of bullies, just for example. Lenny has you and his brother and when you go back to sea, he will have that and the big sky, not to be despised. Perhaps he needs peers to socialize with, but the lessons he learns from random mates will not necessarily be ones you would wish. Maybe he could pick up some Balinese.

[@Free-j3t]

Im homeless with $50 to my name i really couldn't give a shit about how great anyone else's life is. Cant wait until you guys get on the water again. Not just to see you showcase your sailing skills but to see your mature self aware parenting skills, which im sure isn't perfect all the time.

[@anthonyjarvis9472]

youve inspired so many people, we love ya and we'll support you all the way. Keep being you, thats what we are really here for :)

[@jimmycricket7385]

Whenever I felt bad about my parenting skills, I just used to imagine getting my kids to fight each other, then I realised how much worse my parenting could be if I made the effort. : )

[@deborahmccoy5619]

I don't hear complaints, just authenticity. You guys definitely don’t shy away from a challenge. It's not always fun, and certain moments can feel unbearable. Hence, these disclosure videos. I like them.

[@margueriteodell2522]

You two are doing a wonderful job of parenting. You have always placed your boys first and that is an amazing thing! Just remember that kids all go through stages and Lenny is the age of my oldest granddaughter and she has those moments too at times. It's natural. Also the boys were very used to having you both with them 24/7 when you're on your boat. Best wishes for the finish of your boat and you being able to get on the water again.

[@ComputerGeekOnTwoWheels]

Love all your content Elayna and Riley today and throughout the many years. Your videos have evolved and matured with all your awkwardness but this only shows how human you are. Thanks always, love you.

[@voyagevirage]

I always appreciate honesty on socials, it’s becoming quite rare these days. You guys seem to have really shifted gears to become more entrepreneurial, for your own reasons and no doubt as a response to opportunities that have come your way. I just wonder how this will impact the channel moving forward. You’ve admitted that you can’t really concentrate on the videos lately, so I’m curious as to if making videos is going to become more of a communications strategy moving forward to promote everything else you’re doing, or if the adventures that we all love to follow will continue on the new boat?

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Oh other than the fact we might have to miss a few videos in Feb, nothing will change. We adventure FIRST make videos SECOND and tackle our side projects THIRD. Sailing and adventure is what makes us the most happy and it’s the life we want to have for our kids. Forever cruisers ✌️and forever documenting the voyage. We struggle every now and then to balance it all and this is really just a rough patch.. with the new boat build delays etc. I have a feeling once we launch the boat, everything will be back to normal 🤞 let’s see lol. 🥴🥴 - Elayna

[@theaniccaway]

@@SailingLaVagabonde Thanks for the reply and the honesty. We often go back into your old videos to re-live those early adventures. We look forward to the new ones. I really advocate for creators to rally together to push KZbin to stop treating YT content creation as part of the gig economy. I'd rather you guys go off the radar for a month or two and then come back with the content you really love to create that reflects your number one value: adventure, rather than feeling you have to keep putting videos out to keep the algorithm and audiences happy. We need a YT creators union or something. Maternity and paternity leave, annual leave, sick leave. And audiences need to be OK with creators taking a month or two off! Good luck and can't wait to see the adventures you embark on in the new vessel. xx

[@kalayne6713]

Thanks for being you two.Life is incredibly difficult for me and my family currently.My daughter,43,homeless with her teenage son,is seriously ill,(cancers).Watching her suffering,being present day by day in an old motel room,hearing her cry in her sleep from pain,trying to support her son, without support myself is a living hell.You two take me away, just for a little while from my reality to another and for that, I am eternally grateful.I see places I will never see, experience adventures that will never happen, hear stories,smile at those beautiful boys of yours and be present in a different moment than what I have to be.Blessings and thanks from another Reilly's mum, Sapphire Coast, Australia.

[@the_mum]

My heart goes out to you and your family. One day at a time sounds patronizing, but really, life is just one day at a time.

[@sarahmc8309]

So sorry to hear about the news of your daughter . I hope you have support network you can talk with at these very hard trying times !

[@kalayne6713]

@@the_mum Thank you, that's so true...one day at a time is how we are getting through, and gratitude for small miracles.

[@kalayne6713]

@@sarahmc8309 Thank you, I have a phone counselling service I try to use weekly. But we dont have much support, trying to get more.There's no text book for most of life's issues. Divine intervention needed.

[@CuriousHumbleMarie]

I'm so sorry for your suffering and pain. Your poor daughter! Also, I feel bad for your homeless grandson who has to endure watching his mother be sick. I pray that things get better for your daughter and that this horrible time for you all will soon be over. May all of you come through this on the other side with the wisdom, compassion, strength, love and light in your hearts to carry on to better times. Meanwhile, I agree that watching Riley and Elayna and their beautiful children gives some of us a welcome break from our worries...may they always be so blessed. Marie from Northern California, USA. 💙🙏💙

[@ianrichardson9200]

With 1.82 subscribers you have to be doing something right! Ian from good old Stralia!

[@DavidHaney1]

Awkward On Film ??? No way, Id say just normal with 2 million subscribers who love the show !!!

[@louisekotze9740]

Oh please, stop saying your sorry for complaining. You are moving house, across continents, keeping the family together, running multiple businesses AND still find time to make videos and being awesome. That's HUGE and you are allowed to acknowledge the stress. Keep going and keep being awesome parents!

[@calidoc516]

We'll always be here for you guys. Watching your story unfold is enjoyable and humbling which is why we all come back week after week.

[@ceanngra290]

Wow... unbelievable. Stopped watching quite some time ago, pre covid, and honestly... I don't miss your content one bit for everything this video is and more. This is just a first world winge session, do you hear what your saying? You spent time wingeing about the fact your wingeing. You have everything you could possibly need and more... infact, you have the luxury to enter a different country, rent fancy accommodation, re-lease that accommodation... while your building your own yacht! wtf. Very sad.

[@tomdowd6728]

Ok… loved this video. Not only and update to most of what’s going on, but just seeing you guys work out together how to be there for your kids and your own mental health. Also, it’s comes across that your two are really partnering and staying in sync and in love as a couple. Definitely make time for your togetherness. Thanks for another really watchable video. It doesn’t always have to be new places and adventures. We tune in for you guys.

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

🙏🙏🙏 thanks Tom

[@janstrobach8623]

How many stadiums would it take to accept 1.8 2,000,000 subscribers now come on Riley answer that!!

[@AussieBit451]

I think we’re just as lucky to have YOU guys here 🖤 so inspiring, and incredibly genuine. Cheers guys xx

[@desg7293]

Get back on the Water X THE WORLD IS STILL SPINNINING, she's your rock.. but allrocks need a home,

[@sheilanixon1940]

What I love about the both of you is how real and honest you always are. I have only been watching you guys for a year or so and during that time you have truly inspired and motivated to me to get it together and shoot for the moon in creating the life of my dreams. Life gets stressful for everyone at times, especially with lots of the changes that take place in getting us from point A to B, just breathe and on the days it gets overwhelming just trust that in the end everything always works out the way it is supposed to. Lenny is a great kid, he is going to be just fine...he has 2 amazing parents who are willing to sacrifice their own needs for his and that says a million times how amazing you both are!!! Love you guys!!!

[@an67481]

I love that you guys look for alternative ways to live fulfilled, engaged and connected to Nature. However, I see you've been bitten by the woke culture bug.... you guys need community, constancy, home, identifying with your place and streets, culture, relying on some people and place. Enough thinking that your wellbeing can be at the distance of a "therapist" call, pushing your kids through instability, nothing they can own and rely on except their parents... that is a state of trauma... even if very fun wild, it still is traumatic because they never know where they will wake up and to what culture/rythm. I'm sharing insight. Not judgement. Time to figure that certain traditional things humans have been doing them because they are necessary. Family, place, commitment, faith, tradition, culture. And, have those in common with your spouse, as goals, as a common perception of life

[@Scallopmoon]

Both my kids went through this phase. Lots of grumpies, talking back. Hang in there guys! It’s hard when kids don’t have stability. Now that you’re in Bali after a while he’ll get back into feeling better I’m sure ❤

[@askiff1415]

So true

[@blackwellsmith5674]

Hmmm you really shouldn’t complain. Time for a gratitude. If you don’t want to film don’t.

[@hollosphere]

I rarely comment though I follow your adventures closely. You are my vicarious sailing fix since I moved away from the ocean to the mountains! This is the kind of video I like best, really. Honest, the real stuff. The polished vids are great, too, I just love hearing about what it's really like for you guys. Warmest wishes from cold and stormy California!

[@AlfaRomeo156SWGTA]

Again Elayna, I have this insight that you and Lenny got infected by these tick-bites. a Borrelia infection is no joke. Lenny had a very clear symptom which is loss of balance. Lyme disease is often missed because the symptoms are so broad and slowly progressing. Just take some time to do a medical check-up.

[@HoneyBunster]

Hey guys! Just in case you get to see this message among the hundreds of other support messages: Please don't apologize for being overwhelmed. Yes, it's good to keep a perspective of how amazing it is that you get to do all this, but let's be honest, it is exhausting. I don't know how you've managed not to properly crash yet. I love travel, moving countries, sailing and constantly planning but right now I need to nest and chill for a while. And I don't even have kids!!! You don't seem to allow yourselves this luxury...Honestly, feel free to vent when needed so that we know you are human after all. Much love.

[@extremelydave]

Yup, you're real people with real issues. You're not perfect nor is your life, but you're getting a life trip few of us ever could. Stay real and don't hide behind the camera, let us see our "friends" as whole people, not just someone playing in front of a camera. You guys rock.

[@Megasunami]

Yes. It's all too much, first world problems. I've watched your videos for a long, long time, and being a person from 3rd world, I do not relate to it, at all. You call me grumpy, but you do not have a sad or difficult life, however much you want to portray for views.

[@petesheppard1709]

Life is a balance of the cool and the crap...I think you keep a good balance. Roll with it, and don't stress about the balance. You get it right!

[@chornet7]

I love traveling the world with you. I wish to ask one important question. With ALL due respect, when are you two going to get married? Love you guys.

[@hrrh]

Both of you are absolute legends and let me just go and ride along do wonderful things but a real shout out tdo both of your parents :) grandparents and all the people who raised you in witty love and love of learning in your hearts And mines again Elena and Captain you both please send much love to your parents. I've lived a bit vicariously through you and my son has as well be blessed keep it up :)

[@scottfitzgerald5659]

I think this is one of the most important videos you have done, just by showing us that it's not all 'glitz and glamour.' Thank you for doing that. Your boys will be fine, simply because you love them. And what a perfect sponsor for the video, too. Well done, both of you, and keep up the good work.

[@DarylJames.]

The video the internet needs more of. Honestly, keep doing what you are doing! You're both genuine great people.

[@Jdamnitok]

I’m trying to find the video where you too meet the night club story.

[@this-is-slammin-549]

Thanks! I hope Baby Darwin is feeling better, it cracked my heart to see him on IG story. He looked so listless.

[@yurkoon]

What happened to this channel? You went from a nice calming sailing channel to the Kardashians on the sea. Or…rather not on the sea. Not being mean here, being honest with real feedback. Happy monetization on ground and on seas.

[@readen3265]

Cheers fellas, Glad to support you guys.

[@gianniskritikos695]

Everyone has a life and know that is full of problems so we are looking for fairytails to dream with, this is why you have to show the nice moments of your lifestyle. If someone think that your lifes has not a problems he has to rethink life. Lenny is a part of an experiment following his parents lifestyle. I have 2 kids. Home is their safety zone. Most important a best friend to share their home, toys and mystics of their imagination.

[@QuyenNHokom]

Great parents! Sudden changes in child's behavior is something you definitely investigate and prioritize your attention. Will you guys be exploring Vietnam and Bali? That would be interesting!

[@John-Nada]

Yeah, it could be dietary related, like excessive glucose metabolism causing anxiety and tantrums when his blood sugar crashes. Try more protein and saturated fats, for example eggs & bacon for breakfast and hamburger for dinner. Never snack on simple carbs.

[@TedKidd]

More real video. Much more interesting. Often the imperfection of places as part of their beauty

[@wyd]

I know this will probably get lost in the sea of comments but that's life. I really enjoy the community that has built up around SLV. Feels like one huge family. Stay true to yourselves and keep inspiring people around the world to chase their dreams🤙❤

[@lindatheriault3499]

Life is real life and we know that not all is perfect whatever you filmed and shareTake care and hello from Victoria British Columbia Canada I am a teacher and patience with Lenni

[@lailaurbina8479]

this is the realest, truest, most heartfelt, and relatable video on the internet. You people who are not afraid to show the reality are just awesome and the impact you have on the world and on the lives of those around, those watching is just incredible. You guys truly are changing the world a video at a time, a project at a time. Stay real, stay strong!! mucho amor.

[@leighcouper4594]

Then guys go back to how it was when you started. When you were on the single hull it seemed more of an adventure, now it seems more commercialised.

[@DawnalynForrest]

The “interruptions” are fun to see~it authenticates your videos. I absolutely love watching your Lenny and Darwin. They are delightful. Life is perfectly imperfect. That keeps things interesting.

[@johntatum1951]

Hope Lenny will like your new boat home. I'm sure he will.

[@directorstu]

Really appreciate your integrity again on this. As a parent and a teacher I see the impact of comparing our own lives against unreal and unreasonable expectation. You recognise your privilege but are honest about the stressed and challenges. Hard to get right and a risk for you. You nailed it.

[@cherylandcarsonadventures2871]

I never sail before but you guys take me their love it your kids is the best cant Waite to see you new boat at sea love you guys keep up the good work be safe Cheryl and Carson adventures youtubers

[@RonIsHarrysLover]

Your life does seem hard, in the sense that you both put an incredible amount of work into it. That’s why we watch you guys :) cause we get to see the fruits of your labor!

[@jessicaideson2592]

I have to comment about the 4yr old behaviour! My daughter is also 4 as are most of her friends and the behaviour is identical across them all. Challenging is the nicest way to describe it. ******* horrible is our standard! It’s hard, it’s normal, and you’re doing great by just acknowledging it and trying to be aware of how you react to it. It’s just a phase (I mutter to myself as I rock in the corner).

[@thirtywhackstdd]

Exactly! It's all developmentally normal. It's so frustrating seeing family vloggers who portray it as perfect and easy.

[@_theplantkiller]

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” You guys have made your own luck with perseverance, consistency and a lot of hard work. You deserve it 💕

[@onelonleyfarmer]

Kids need stability. Glad you saw it and did something about it

[@wolfwatcher64]

Welp....ya did it again. You made me cry. For the umpteenth time over the years. Once again, somehow I felt like you were taking directly to my heart through your camera. I'm just so happy for you guys and your success. I'm as proud of you as if you were my own. Just hang in there...2023 is going to be a wonderful year and I can't wait to see what you make of it. Love to you all.

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

We made you cry?? Aww wow. I hope they were happy tears. Thanks so much for being here 😊😊 sending the love back at you! Elayna

[@unclemichel6328]

Holy cow, you do reply, Elayna. Sorry for misspelling Lenny's name.

[@unclemichel6328]

@@SailingLaVagabonde focus on fitness!

[@unclemichel6328]

@@SailingLaVagabonde oh and "App" sounds amazing! 👌

[@Sub.zero.111]

This was great for my partner and I to watch especially around certain struggles you may have around your beautiful kids we have a 2 year old and about to have a new born and we moving in between new zealand and belguim as my panters from belguim and feel sometimes certain struggles of our own with moving and being more settled it's easy to get frustrated when we have lots going on and our kids are acting out or feel like it's to much and there's no real easy fix but for one getting some help through therapy and meditation is amazing I have just started for my own mental health and I advise everyone to do it at least meditation it's a great focusing tool for your brain to handle any situations!Anyway you guys are always a inspiration! love to watch any kind of videos you make helps me not miss nz so much 😄

[@__fraser]

You guys are pretty cool too…❤

[@unclemichel6328]

Weird 8 yrs, weird internet (people) life! 🤔 Yes, Lenni needs a real home, but more importantly needs love from both of you. Proper education will be the next most important life journey besides all the basic necessities. Let me suggest putting him into a swimming club! He needs interaction with his own kind, as grandpa would always say. Don't forget the bedtime stories, so important! Take care, cheers (Weird internet people. Ya you . 😄)

[@unclemichel6328]

That's if you even read these comments any more!

[@kevchard5214]

You guys are living the dream most of us only dream of. All of life is a challenge and having kids is no exception. All of us as kids went through the same fazes this is normal but the experiences your two boys are having now will stay with them for their entire lives as well as realizing the will and balls you two have shown over the years to continue this fairytale journey is epic. Those two boys have experienced the more of the world already than most adults and it makes them better and more rounded as the journey continues. Keep up the good work and thanks for allowing us to follow along.

[@nicokojima4214]

0:57 The cup was edited in SMOOTH AF!!!

[@rbnhood39]

It’s crazy to stop and think about how much your lives have changed from eight years ago. Somehow I came across you guys on your very first video and have been watching ever since. It’s amazing how this has blown up to what it is now. Who would’ve thunk it. 😎

[@karenrhoads8681]

Loved the swimming scene! And how you showed Lenny helping his brother with the milk carton, and his concern when Darwin was hurt. He will be his friend for life. I taught four year olds for 34 yrs. And parenting classes too. We called it the “ out of bounds” age but totally engaging and dear. As you know. Hope Darwin is healing ok and I wish you all well. Be nice. I’m 75! Lol

[@billthomas9036]

I'm 66 years old living on 10 acres in Idaho mountains USA. I've been watching you for several years and you are an inspiration to me. The last few years have been horrific for me personally. The covid lie has cost me my career, my retirement, personal relationships, friend's and family. You were a beacon of light for me. I've watched you grow and do things most of us just dream about. I can't imagine how proud your parents and family are of you. We don't know each other and yet I'm proud of what you've accomplished. Please remember, your children and your relationship are the most important things in your life. If there are any nay sayers out there, don't let them sway you from your dreams. Putting you and your family first is the right thing to do! I'll bet most if not all of your followers will agree. Keep doing what you are doing, remain grateful and humble. The boys will turn out amazing just like you both did!

[@SailingLaVagabonde]

Thanks for sharing and for your comment Bill, I’m so sorry to hear about your struggles over the last few years 💔💔 hang in there. And we will absolutely take your advice!! - Elayna xx

[@vickiluke5417]

@billthomas9036 Love your message to these gorgeous guys! I also wanted to reach out to you about the lies as I too lost a lot but when you know, you know ...I hope you are doing okay & hopefully all will be unveiled for all to see soon, Take Care Vic from Oz xx

[@wwomannc4834]

So glad you like us too. Been watching for us, soni feel like your family and I don’t see any awkwardness, just real conversations and laughs. That’s what I love most. You guys always make me smile. Lenny will adjust and good on you for being such great parents to recognize the kids needs too. All our love as always.