🔴It's Just Pretend❗The Narcissist Moved On and Forgot You | Narcissism | NPD

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The narcissist leaves. There’s the silent treatment. There’s that significant discard, and all you seek are answers, yet none are provided. However, one important point to understand is that the narcissist has not truly moved on. Even though they have left and may be involved with new supply, they are still not free from the past. In this discussion, I will delve deeper into this topic.
In today’s video, I will explore why the narcissist has not genuinely moved on from you. You might believe they have moved on because they are now with someone else. In fact, they may have even been involved with that new person before they discarded you. However, this does not mean they have emotionally moved on. I will clarify this point further in the video.
There is a significant factor that prevents narcissists from forming healthy attachments to others. This same factor also hinders them from detaching from previous relationships in a healthy manner. This phenomenon is known as an attachment disorder. An attachment disorder affects how narcissists engage in interpersonal relationships, making these connections particularly challenging for them. Due to their inability to form deep and meaningful attachments, narcissists can easily shift their attention and affection to multiple individuals simultaneously. This behavior is not limited to romantic partners; it extends to friends and even family members. For instance, a narcissist may have a favorite person to whom they devote all their energy and focus at a given time, while neglecting others who may still be kept in the background.
The dynamics of their relationships are quite fascinating. When a narcissist chooses to invest their energy in one person, they often maintain the interest of others as well. This is possible because they do not form genuine attachments, even if it appears otherwise. It may seem like they have deep connections with many people, and you might be surprised by how many individuals seem captivated by them. However, the truth is that there is little depth to these relationships. The intense feelings you may observe come from the narcissist's concentrated energy and focus on that one person.
"Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel."
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Liars and cheaters.

[@sandraclark6529]

This is most definitely TRUE 💯

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Absolutely, liars and cheaters can cause so much pain and confusion. It's important to recognize these behaviors and prioritize our own well-being. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

[@babesadams2991]

I blocked her. I got no closure. Hoover. It's painful but I think it's for the best. My heart and soul weren't appreciated. And she's all for superficial and you're right they are self centered. She discarded me, cuz she thinks of money and her own security but didn't talk how are we gonna resolve pretty human problems together. It's like she's with me but not with me.. 💔 I hope to find a better lover and loyal and faithful that she promises me but do the opposite.

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I'm really sorry to hear what you’ve been through. It’s painful when someone we care about prioritizes superficial things over genuine connection. It sounds like you made a tough but wise choice for your well-being. Wishing you all the best in finding a partner who truly appreciates you and values a real, supportive relationship!

[@pierrechaquin5058]

You will automatically find someone better. No doubts. Unless you are ok with being lied, exploited, cheated on and you being accused of the responsibility of all of this, don’t waste your time.

[@demigaines5644]

THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH FOR SHARING THIS I NEEDED THIS I LEARNED QUITE A LOT FROM THIS I SPENT WASTED 9 YRS OF MY LIFE CHASING THE NARCISSITIS ACCEPTANCE HE DESTROYED MY LIFE MY SELF ESTEEM AND SELF WORTH.I WOULD GET MONTHS AND YRS OF THE SILENT TREATMENT ALMOST CAUSING MY NERVOUS BREAKDOWN.AFTER BEING HORRIBLY DISCARDED IM SEEING IT ALL KNOW .EVERYTHING WITH A NARC IS ALL ABOUT DESTROYING INNOCENT PPL EVERYTHING TO THEM IS A JOKE NARCISSITIC ABUSE IS BRUTAL..BEYOND CRUEL.

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I’m so sorry to hear about your experience, but I'm glad you found the video helpful. It takes a lot of strength to recognize what you've been through, and your journey toward healing is important. Remember, you deserve love and respect, and it’s never too late to rebuild your self-esteem. Stay strong!

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[@ladyvirgo013]

I'm sorry you experienced this,it's very cruel.

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@@ladyvirgo013 Thank You 🙏

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Remove your energy and run disappear ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

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Absolutely! Protecting your energy is so important, and sometimes the best choice is to distance yourself for your own well-being. Thank you for the encouragement! ❤️

[@scottgrygiel1377]

That seems to be the best solution. Any kind of attention, even negative attention can keep the cycle going. The goal should be to end the cycle and radio silence is the best solution I have found.

[@user-gp1pq5up6i]

She got me good 😮 but the Last time she was Sneaking out of my door while I was sleeping , She forgot Her Favorite Toy , Her PHONE 😂 with ALL her Contacts Clients 😂😂 and She is Not going to get it back 😅😂

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That’s quite the story! It sounds like you’ve found a bit of humor in a difficult situation, which is great for healing. Sometimes those little moments can be the best reminders of why we need to move on. Thanks for sharing! 😂

[@rogerpitchenese9471]

My first.16 years out the window..

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I'm really sorry to hear that you feel that way. It’s tough to reflect on those experiences, but recognizing them is the first step toward healing and moving forward.

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

I survived the X. I am now stronger than ever.❤

[@ladyvirgo013]

Some Narcissist were over validated by their Mommy, The Golden Boy who could do no wrong. Regardless, he definitely had to present a Persona & still does

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You make a great point! Many narcissists do have complex backgrounds that contribute to their behavior, including over-validation. It’s fascinating how those early experiences shape their need to maintain a certain persona. Thank you for sharing your insights!

[@claudpirros1321]

What an awesome video the best ever ever in my search for information thank you

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Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad you found the video helpful. Your support means a lot, and I'm here to share more information and insights whenever you need it!

[@katherinedownover7927]

I had to get a restraining order

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I'm really sorry to hear that you had to take such a serious step. It’s important to prioritize your safety and well-being. Thank you for sharing your experience, and I hope you find peace and healing moving forward.

[@ruthchukwu9083]

Hello,I'm at the discard phase 😂😂😂.

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Hello! I’m sorry to hear you’re going through that phase, but your sense of humor is great to see! It’s a tough situation, and I hope you find strength and clarity as you move forward. Thank you for sharing!

[@user-ee5om8wy7u]

Attachemnt disorder means moneky branching and rebounding, right?

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Attachment disorders can sometimes lead to behaviors like monkey branching and rebounding, as individuals may struggle with forming secure connections and fear of abandonment. It’s important to understand these patterns to foster healthier relationships. Thanks for bringing this up!

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1st one here ✋🏻

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Thank you for watching! ❤️👍

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💙

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Thank you for watching and your support! 💙

[@almartin9465]

I'm unfortunately 😂

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I'm sorry to hear that! It can be really tough dealing with a narcissist. Remember, you're not alone, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being.

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👏👏👏🙏🙏

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Thank you for the support! I appreciate you taking the time to engage with the content! 🙏😊