It’s Not Easy To Be A Man - Thierry Henry

[@eplv3432]

Gotta respect Thierry. Not only he was an incredible athlete and magnificent footballer. He's also a class act.

[@NoaVanSnick]

He's a rat, he only cares about his image

[@harithdanial141]

Also charismatic. No wonder he able to tricked a generation to support arsenal

[@babasemka]

No respect for cheaters

[@Gokai_]

For me, what he was trying to say is: We as men in this world, we have it difficult because we are always valued by what we can bring to society, in his case it's his career as a football player. It's a weird feeling when you are defined solely by performance, especially when you cannot offer it anymore. You don't feel human. But you feel human when you are seen as who you are, a human with all your flaws and edges. And men especially want to feel needed. So when his closes are crying becaue he is leaving, that's when he felt needed and loved. That's what we strive for at the end. Your achievements and performance will eventually be forgotten, someone will be better than you, and you will get worse and worse as you get older. What is left is just you alone and this part hopefully will be remembered.

[@PeterPan-wb3ow]

Most people are forgotten when they die, only famous people are remembered, no one knows the name of those who died building the pyramids only the Pharaoh whom it was built for is remembered.

[@Gokai_]

@@PeterPan-wb3ow again it's the career and performance view. Do we know the richest person from the 1910s? Yeah you can google it, but I don't mean this kind of 'remembering'. I envision that your grandchildren still think of you even after death and might tell tales of your life and your personality to their childs and so on. We don't need to think that big, it is not worth it. Be remembered by the one closest to you and maybe the one closest to them.

[@joneslive586]

Human BEING, not a human DOING

[@MichaelChuksEdeogu]

​@@PeterPan-wb3owthis one touched me

[@Commentator488]

And women don’t want to be remembered for who they are? 😂 That is universal human thing

[@curtischarles5299]

People dont realize that family is the most important thing in life, that brings true happiness . They chase money because society tells them so..

[@RevealedFilms]

Try being broke with a family and let me know how you get on 😂

[@curtischarles5299]

@@RevealedFilms I'm a 47yrs old . I know what I'm saying . I dont argue with kids .

[@amisco333]

@@RevealedFilms Money helps, but being present with your family and kids is way more valuable.

[@balleraddict]

To give a more universal phrasing of that statement. People who love you unconditionally for who you are are the most important thing in life. Some people are lucky that it's their parents, relatives and kids.

[@MatheusRodrigues-tp9kd]

How tf you gonna provide for a family with no money? Having family adds to the stress

[@daveedbinne4116]

God, this Thierry... is too sincere! such a great person ❤️

[@hah-vj7hc]

Do you know who he is?

[@minhucle3936]

@@hah-vj7hcwhat do you mean?🤨

[@hah-vj7hc]

I mean to ask if he knows who Thierry is. Sorry I worded it so complicated. @@minhucle3936

[@lawrencebolt3540]

It wasn't his mother or his girlfriend, it was his children that loved his sincerely. All men need to remember this. Engrave it on your hearts.

[@SA-ey6nt]

Except his mother gave him his life and then another woman gave him those children

[@lawrencebolt3540]

@@SA-ey6nt no, the creator of the heavens gave him his life, and the creator of the heavens gave him his children. His mother and wife were the vehicles the creator used. Let's get it right.

[@sextusfurius8473]

@@lawrencebolt3540 Dude, why do you hate this guy's mother and girlfriend so much? Show a little humanity please.

[@SA-ey6nt]

@@lawrencebolt3540 😂 No, his mother birthed him, the woman birthed his children. That's for sure. What you're talking about is kumbaya

[@azqswx90]

It gave me chills I pray to experience that someday And I pray for every man to experience that as well

[@AF-vm6xx]

Don’t look for pity here. This story is about him. Not about you.

[@UsmiechnietaPolska-bc5ij]

​@@AF-vm6xx wow, we can't even pray for each other now?

[@AF-vm6xx]

@@UsmiechnietaPolska-bc5ij no. Religion is for losers.

[@youngerudit2524]

People might not know this but his dad raised him more like a football player than like a son since very early. He has this story that became a meme about how his team won a match 6-0 scored and he scored all 6 goals and on the way home his dad told him about every mistakes he made on the pitch. I’ve seen an interview of him on KZbin live around World Cup 2018, and he was extremely proud of his son and defended him on everything but again, now that i think about it, it always went back to Thierry the footballer.

[@user-go2xi7zq5q]

And he should be grateful to his Dad then, because he got to live a 1-in-a-million type of life experience.

[@joncoish]

@@user-go2xi7zq5qyeah he did, but his childhood may still have been fucked up. That sort of thing, so he scores 6 goals in a game and his dad still goes on about mistakes, can really fuck up your brain as a kid. Sometimes you need to be given positive reinforcement not just criticism all the time.

[@tofuteh2348]

​@@user-go2xi7zq5qhe literally said he was suicidal. What's the point of being one of the best in the world if you end up dead and not being able to enjoy the fruits of your labour and being there for those you love like he is now?

[@Laszlo5897]

​@@user-go2xi7zq5qfor every Henry, there's a thousand others who end up resenting their dad. we all remember the coach's son on our team no? Always under pressure, crying even though he was the captain...

[@NeoKurow]

This is exactly why is a living legend. Beckham had also something similar with his father who always made him practice the free kicks. That is why both were that good. The fathers.

[@thebesttheworst2277]

As a former Gooner, I worshipped this man once upon a time and wow, the power in that line of "little me was finally fed with love that day". Just goes to show that the adoration of millions can't fill the hole of a lack of love as a child.

[@jadonlawrence4909]

Such needs are only met from specific people. With the fans it's based on your performance not who you are as a person. He even said (talking about his family) "they love Thierry, not Thierry Henry". He was talking about being loved for who he is as a person and not the footballer

[@amdave76]

Men are only valued for what they can provide, except when your kids are little. When ur kids are little they likely genuinely love you. Besides that it’s the cold harsh truth of the world.

[@coprilettodelnapoli5466]

They like you because you provide attentions and play times.

[@AstolfoBestWaifu1]

Not really, at least for most people, they will be loved by their parents, if nothing less, by their mother. If you are more lucky, you will also have loving grandparents or other family members. From there on its luck and social skills, nothing more, nothing less.

[@fali6723]

Not african men then 😂😂😂…. We are the mothers, providers everything

[@LLAWREN]

that beginning statistic is horrifying and we need to speak more openly about mental health issues otherwise things will never change 😥😥

[@MusicWorkflowAcademy]

Yes. That’s why this channel is here we are big advocates for mental health and positivity. We are also a music school so you channel your emotions into something positive 👍❤️

[@LLAWREN]

​@@MusicWorkflowAcademythat's exactly what I want to do with my music as well❤😊

[@glidinggolovinn]

yeah we need to address how evil women are which isolates male loneliness and all round depravity. the world isn't ready for this

[@10Cnote]

Problem is fellas that it's our fault because we're "toxic" remember. No matter what, the blame of everything will be placed on us because the loudest women who don't care don't know when to just Shut Up.

[@LLAWREN]

@@10Cnote I understand your point, but with that attitude it's def not gonna change. Not all women or men are the same and indifferent to your feelings. And yeah I've had some really bad experiences in the past as well, but that doesn't mean that I can't open up to the people that are important to me

[@UsmiechnietaPolska-bc5ij]

What an amazing feeling to see my childhood idol and my favourite player ever to speak about men's issues. Thank you Titi, God bless you

[@desertx8444]

You are so right…😔 my daughter is saving me everyday! Thank god I have a good wife and family. To see even rich and famous ppl go through the same or similar struggles is kinda reassuring not that I’m happy that they are having a hard time but just the taught that I’m not alone is very much needed😔… Thank u for sharing

[@bubaba8938]

You can imagine when a guy who has a family, pretty rich and mostly healthy yet still faces hardships. Then how hard is it for someone his age who has none of these.

[@bubaba8938]

@nkmensah Yes that's the stereotypical thought " If he didn't work for it it's his fault" While that might be true for most people it doesn't apply to everyone. Certain health issues where doctors can do very little may stop you from reaching your goals. Your second thought will probably be , David Goggins runned 80 miles on broken legs how can you not do it. Well again I'm giving you an answer in advance ,even Goggins wouldn't be able to run If he was bound to a wheelchair. Being a hard worker is one thing but having things in your way that you cannot control or do much about is another

[@bubaba8938]

@nkmensah I'm really not trying to debunk your point just so that I can be right. And frankly I don't understand why discussions oftenly end up like that instead of trying to find a middle ground. All I'm saying is that there's oftenly a lot more than just go get your dreams, while at the same time persistence and striving to achieve something in life is the only way cause money , status, physical condition won't fall from the sky. So I agree with you totally, yet we got to know that sometimes people have certain limitations that can hardly be overcome by sheer will.

[@MarokoJin]

Suffering is the same, it has nothing to do with money. Money comes in handy for food,shelter,clothing, healthcare (especially in places where there's no universal AND decent health coverage) and some entertainment. No more no less. People are deluded by saying that being rich will help. No. It won't, you'll feel happy for a short time before your demons will crawl back to the surface. Every. Single.Time.

[@kuhen25]

Chelsea fan here since 1995, Henry is a special player and many people who knew him also said he's a special human being.

[@yzma6142]

Wow this made me cry

[@Chrysaetos11]

Often these days it is said men need to talk and take women as an example, do it like them, but that's a modern feminist trope. While talking about issues is fine it is good to realize we are also fundamentally different. What men need most is simply direction and purpose and a sense that what they work on has practical results.

[@glidinggolovinn]

or most of the suicides are down to the fact females don't actually value most men so in turn it creates isolation and loneliness. females only bother to befriend men that they see as a superior or at least an equal, while they extract all the values first to sus out if he even is valuable. the issue starts with female nature and men cannot truly ever overcome this by being happy

[@Steve-ss4fl]

Absolutely correct, what works for a woman doesn't for a man. No amount of talking about something ever gets the physical done.

[@nostalgicbliss5547]

That's why building a family is big for the male psyche. You view it as a worthy investment. Seeing your kids grow and become productive members of society makes all the sacrifices worthwhile.

[@Chrysaetos11]

@@nostalgicbliss5547 Perhaps, if it's what you want and you have a nice woman.

[@leeroy1986]

The word is: "meaning", men need meaning. For most guys, that's found through career and the family. Women aren't always the same, but society says to them they should be.

[@jadonlawrence4909]

Family is everything. You gotta be with your family.

[@jamesrodriguez9210]

Not only a true baller, also a veritable speaker ⚽

[@stevehughes240]

That's a beautiful story. I do need to point out though, that his choice was a little easier than the loveless dad's whose bags were packed for a miner's contract in Africa, which he agreed to to put bread on the table for the little blessings he has to leave behind.

[@igeniusyounot6187]

imagine if thiery henry, one of the biggest footballer ever, says he never got recognition or love as a man... now ask urself how does the average men feel, if a world footballer feels like that?

[@producedbyfieri]

as a united fan...i admire the hell out of this man

[@AF-vm6xx]

As a plasterer, i do too..

[@martinomontalvo2519]

Yea I feel that , I feel us man we only come to the world to provide but also man , need to feel appreciated and loved once in a while

[@edayigodwin2646]

You are my football ⚽️ mentor respect.

[@a.etarverdi9214]

“On hearing this, Jesus said to them, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”„ ‭‭Mark‬ ‭2‬:‭17‬ ‭

[@Soltain6]

Un grand homme notre Tyty

[@alejandroaguilar132]

Powerful shit

[@Randomentertainment7526]

Agree 100%

[@bharasiva96]

"They love Thiery not Thiery Henry". Beautiful.

[@paudiepower1407]

We forgive you now for the handball from Ireland

[@melihunlu1410]

The other day a guy said hi to me from the same class and I felt that I f exist for the first time since years. That was a great feeling.

[@AF-vm6xx]

What a great man he is.

[@Luiz_VB]

Thanks for this video man

[@EdV978]

Beautiful video

[@a.m.4154]

Man, this touched me unexpectedly.

[@Finlan_32]

This hit hard

[@yank4621]

Feminism play a big role is in the suffering of the current man. Only the wise will understand..

[@coolyoutubename16]

No it doesn't. You are incredibly stupid and narcissistic

[@TC8787-yq7og]

Older generations would laugh at us, the way we bitch and moan and constantly get emasculated by screeching women online. Absolutely embarrassing, we brought this on ourselves. A man’s job is to be strong and dependable. Women don’t want men who cry on podcasts.

[@SReilly34]

Typical man thing to do to blame your problems on something else instead of looking inwards

[@TheGenius2004]

​@@coolyoutubename16 You described feminists

[@coolyoutubename16]

@@TheGenius2004 perhaps you should look up the definition of feminist

[@shodapad07]

Wow. Beautiful ❤

[@keithprice1950]

I turned my life around because of my kids being in my life. I was borderline alcoholic, no goal in life, in and out of jobs, bumming/backpacking around SE Asia, living on pennies teaching online, enough for beer and some shitty room to sleep in. But I was heading nowhere fast. Met my future wife, became a father to two sons, stopped drinking, started being more reliable, thinking about the future. Worked my ass off in a new job working ten hour days and within three months was told I was going to be promoted to management. Without my kids, without the love I have for them and the concern I have for their future I don't think I would have achieved anything meaningful in my life. You need something that you care about more than yourself in life, for me it's my sons.

[@OluMentum]

Beautiful

[@ChrisMALUKAI]

"..they see ME..as Thierry.." "..and I felt HUMAN.."

[@zuzu1524]

Money vs Family That’s one of the great forks in the road for men in life.

[@hieuthepunk]

I felt him.

[@kayra5763]

what a good articulation by titi

[@patricksweeney5405]

You gotta HAND it to him, he knows men admit when they cheat.

[@srzar]

Powerful.

[@Ahmed-og2jm]

Looking at comments section shows me how miserable and bitter a lot of Men are

[@flawlessvictory-04]

I love HENRY!!

[@ch42zyb0y]

At least he somehow got a girlfriend/wife... most men not. This life is so f'd up. No wonder we're all suicidal

[@itsrro]

Wow… That was deep.

[@sublimemcfalco6656]

This is deep🤔

[@otakuhunter4817]

things are getting worse. Men seek acknowledgement from their family .Meanwhile families are breaking left,right and centre

[@balramsharma2590]

"They love thierry...not "thierry henry"❤

[@MelMelx365]

Powerful

[@TheMelMan]

Oh man, you got the king on. I didn't even know he does podcasts. Where's the whole thing?

[@kirakira9906]

Once you're fed with love it's hard to let it go and sometimes it will go. Who knows why after the age of 45 the suicide rate lowers, maybe we just give up.

[@pablolloyd1450]

They love Thierry, not Thierry Henry. So I stayed. Damn

[@sulphuricacid16]

Imagine supporting your kids and encouraging them and then in a couple of years kids grow up and they say I wasn't supported or encouraged and I'm depressed..and the Parents hear it 😅 What would the parents feel like then

[@terencenordberg7482]

Hate Arsenal. Love Thierry.

[@georgiosvavliaras1066]

Love that dude for being a man and keeping it straight

[@guilhermesalesferreiradaco2934]

That's why we need the love of God

[@AliHussain-fz7pd]

Being raised by Old School fathers of the Caribbean or even other parts of the world certainly had its drawbacks. It’s a tough upbringing, and it’s easy to point at your lack, but in truth, those fathers were treated the same. They raised men, competent, dutiful, honourable men. The women of today with all this over emphasis on feelings will not raise dutiful, competent, men. They’ll raise little gays that shrivel at the sight of adversity. This man’s father never allowed for complacency or arrogance. More men need to be treated like they are nothing until they can actually demonstrate their utility. It’s a public service.

[@Yankee4ever2]

Turn to God, he will always be there

[@karimhussein3610]

👑 Titi

[@gordianknot6867]

“People so tired mutilated Either by love or no love” - bukowski

[@petrakis879]

And these things are said so wealthy..This is what you have to notice all you that you believe that more money is the solution to everything..

[@MyManUtd101]

Fuckin' hell mate. I thought he was David Goggins. 😂😂😂

[@habesha6883]

Women would’ve cried misogyny if they were dying at that percentage

[@hzskillz1721]

Now Thierry you know what the normal, average non famous guy goes through each day!

[@GoGetYourShinebox]

We’re getting soft, dwelling on our feelings, saying everything is hard

[@RealRonaldoR9]

So insightful and so mature. I mean, how can you make it through life without blaming people and avoiding growing up.

[@purplevincent4454]

​@RealRonaldoR9 but think about it. Back then people offed themselves less. It seems with more awareness to mental struggles the more people struggle. Almost as if introspection and looking inwards is a recipe for making you feel worse. Simply continuing without analyzing the feeling is the best way to not feel down. The more you think about feeling down the more you spiral. If you look out the window feeling sad it's better to look out the window as another day to do something without even acknowledging sadness.

[@tensaantares]

On paper it could be considered a simple disagreement. I texted something to my ABSENT dad recently and was told to fuck off and die without a sister and father. People talk about mental health...but REALLY?! Do people ACTUALLY care or is it more that whole "virtue signaling"?

[@MusicWorkflowAcademy]

we love you here ❤️

[@Bruce-f4s]

It’s so easy to

[@MonkeyDIvan]

It's the patriarchy.

[@richardmendes6038]

TT 👍

[@Raddesigneng]

1 kid and he had a nanny, yeah life's tough.

[@JasonNathan-th6cq]

😮😢 😊

[@DroGodina]

Pendejos; always reluctant to love a guy until he leaves. Better start APPRECIATING people while they're right in front of you before you realize you're wrong for not doing that.

[@wonkygustav4457]

Men have it so hard?

[@kspades2530]

This happens because the world forbidden God. Any lack or trouble someone's going through a genuine faith in God, He will solve your issue. God has never forsaken me and my family because we fear God.

[@mosesnandi]

Is his dad still alive!?

[@erickf0xxx1]

He didnt even get 2 ballons de oros

[@L3ONARDO07]

Only 10 players have won it twice or more. Imagine defining somebody’s legacy based on some phony award from a French magazine. What are you 12?

[@Mopark25]

​@@L3ONARDO07Literally on a video of the guy saying how much it meant to him not to be seen as just a footballer. Can't make it up...

[@frankejk]

Balloon di Oreo

[@coolyoutubename16]

And you didn't even make it as a football player 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤡

[@alcipta4920]

whoops, looks like liberal life doesnt save westerners. come back to God y’all

[@1337score]

whatever.

[@GoncualoAlvez]

So what does this have to do with offing oneself, the S word

[@TheOutlierToday]

Men don't experience love and affection and feel like they have no place in the modern world which is why suicides are so high.

[@War-Zone349]

Do you think you would S yourself if you felt loved?

[@GoncualoAlvez]

@@War-Zone349 probably not, but im like Tate, under no circumstance would i ever off my self.

[@TheOutlierToday]

@GoncualoAlvez lol how did Tate get into the conversation? U may be fortunate enough to have atleast a tolerable life which is good. A lot of ppl have very difficult lives. But I guess you have to experience it to know.

[@GoncualoAlvez]

@@TheOutlierToday my life is hard, i have been through hard times, i have faced the thought of suicide at least 3 times in my life when i really screwed up and i overcame it, way before Tate became popular, 2019 to be precise, I am saying just like Tate says all the time " I would never kill myself" even if i do not have anyone who loves me i will still never kill myself l. NEVER. i am not weak minded

[@DigitalJuggernaut]

Thierry you were a horrible coach but a good human lol

[@testTestegal]

Heul doch! It´s unbelievable. This "man" has a family, made his hobby to a profession and owns millions of money. This shows how sick and dangerous this football business and football-religion is. His muslim faith seems not to heal and redeem him. Men, believe in God Jesus Christ and you will find rest and peace!

[@wewillrise3663]

Henry always have been dumb and had the wrong mentality. He is like Pogba. He let that "I'm black" mentality drag him down, and he became insufferable

[@mecanuktutorials6476]

Uhhh What???? He talked about immigrating to France and having to be seriously committed because of family pressure. Where did you get the race but?

[@wewillrise3663]

@@mecanuktutorials6476 from other interviews he did and by watching him talk in other events

[@enjinman]

Thé interviewer lives and breathes depression, it’s to the point he’s doing it for views this guy is a muppet .

[@MBison-vm6gq]

He's just said explained and broke it down in a way I've tried to but could never do. As a man thats all I want 🥹

[@patbenz4327]

The irony is that ...He wouldn't have family, if he wasn't Thierry Henry, the star. He wouldn't have the status he needed to attract his wife, so...

[@sebfox2194]

​@@patbenz4327 The vast majority of guys who have families are not big name stars. Therefore, it's not necessary to be a big name star in order to have a family.

[@patbenz4327]

@@sebfox2194 You have to be a "star" for the type of girl you're truly attracted to or settle for a woman you don't really like. I don't think Henry settled.

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

People dont realize that family is the most important thing in life, that brings true happiness . They chase money because society tells them so..

[@Commentator488]

That society is patriarchal society and capitalism, both made by men. But don’t worry, feminism got your back, we’re trying to change it.

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

why you thing feminisms got my back ?@@Commentator488