It’s Ok to be Single

Hey friends! This a rant/ chat that I posted on tiktok and I feel like it kind of fits in the discussion we’ve been having on my channel. I would love to hear your thoughts 💭
#single #healingjourney #datingadvice

[@him37404]

All that shit Is a scam. Your happiness is your responsibility… not the person your with..

[@KB23237]

The ultimate goal for me is peace and I have that! I enjoy my own company but also enjoy being around others. Once you have true peace and happiness alone, you’ll know when the right man comes into your life because he’ll add to it. If that person never comes, you won’t be disappointed because peace is the ultimate goal and you have that on your own.

[@TtThebest1]

I v been single since 2018 and i v been fine . Never been happier. I v really gotten to know myself. I have so many interests that i v gotten to explore. Travelled with friends and family without having to always worry about travelling with my man. And because i v learnt to be happy and single i v also learnt how not to settle not crusty men is gona be acceptable to me because of a fear of being single. And i always tell them single doesnt mean desperate. Stay single get to know yourself and you ll always get to know what you really want from a man and be able to wait for the one who is worth your time. Cause lets face it time is precious and the time you waste on men you know dont cut it is a waste. You wont get it back so rather use it on urself and other relationships that may not be romantic but a still fulfilling with friends, your family, kids

[@bookieaustin2244]

thank you so much

[@Nuzw9iq]

No truer words!!!! Thank you for sharing!!!

[@Lady_Luv]

Yes!!!!! Thank you for sharing this valuable information. The love we seek we already possess. We just need to learn to give it to ourselves instead of giving it to people who don’t value or appreciate it ❤

[@gjoraya]

Thank you. I needed to hear this today. I've held on to my heartache an entire month with no contact.

[@Amanijwells]

You got this ❤️

[@naturallybecoming831]

Yeah I’ve always been single and it definitely made me feel inferior and have social anxiety and so much more. It kind of destroyed my self worth. And like you said I end up chasing any type of connection or struggle to even connect on Plutonic levels. I’ve definitely been learning to define what happiness is and a different purpose of relationships and love. I did feel doomed but this helped me see I don’t have to anymore

[@Amanijwells]

I’m glad this helped ❤️ It’s a journey but defining that happiness, love and protection will only help us to be better off in the long run. Sending you love and support!

[@soulfullyroyalnita4446]

🤗🙌🏾 well said darling!!!

[@ladyofspa]

It's a must and is awesome!

[@shatarabrown4656]

Very excellent video. The self-preservation! I learned this many moons ago. And I have peace.

[@Amanijwells]

It’s such a blessing!

[@TtThebest1]

Being single has brought me so much peace as well its unmatched

[@auemmjee]

I met a suitable man last year at 41.....after 11 years of abstaining from dating altogether.

[@Amanijwells]

I’m happy for you ❤️