It's okay to not be okay - itsjudyslife

[@kevinsule3576]

I think that its also important especially now to reinforce self-compassion (not self pity there's a difference) to get through this very testing times. Also, coming up with a Self-care plan, reflect, and cultivate happiness.

[@monselajara926]

Kevin Sule 100000%

[@vstizzle23279]

Kevin Sule beautifully said

[@adriannehall5462]

Judy I know exactly how you feel. I'm a mother of 5 with 3 of school age still at home plus I work full-time.... I work for a trucking company and oh my goodness there are some days where I literally have to just stop be by myself and cry, just get it all out. We are most definitely living in some trying times right now. I'm praying for you all.....

[@heatherblevins3754]

Very well said. ❤️❤️

[@jenkha]

Kevin Sule thank you so much for this! I really needed this

[@grayceee3]

Nothing more reassuring than your husband being there for you as you cry it out and he says it’ll all be ok. My husband pulled me out of my postpartum depression which took a while. He’s always been there trying to understand and asking if he couldn’t understand why I felt the way I felt. He’s my strong foundation. Hang in there mama. You gotta vent it out.

[@Itwasalladream1987]

That's amazing that he supported you through that! So many aren't so lucky. Mostly due to lack of education in this area and Men not seeking out information. Big ups to him!

[@jasmineaurora3144]

My husband is more of the macho type. He doesn't like crying and just doesn't like negative situations overall. But when I had a miscarriage, his whole demeanor changed and was willing to sit there and hold me while I cried. Even if we didn't speak, he just held me and it helped tremendously. So while he's still the man who doesn't like crying, I know that when I truly need him, he will be there.

[@grayceee3]

Winnie the Pooh my husband is the same. Very manly man. But when I broke down, he was there. Proud of good men in this world.

[@jasmineaurora3144]

@@grayceee3 we're both very lucky women! 🥰 Best wishes to you. I hope you and your family keep safe ♥️

[@lynvitto2141]

I literally grabbed a tissue when Judy started crying. 😭Sending love to everyone especially to you Judy! ❤️

[@navtimebabez]

Lyn Vitto me too! She def triggered how I’ve been feeling 💕

[@sandywong7213]

Same here😢

[@sydneyshipley5348]

Lyn Vitto same 😭😭😭

[@andytinkerbell123]

If the mountain seems too big today then climb a hill instead if the morning brings you sadness it’s ok to stay in bed If the day ahead weighs heavy and your plans feel like a curse there’s no shame in rearranging don’t make yourself feel worse If a shower stings like needles and a bath feels like you’ll drown if you haven’t washed your hair for days don’t throw away your crown A day is not a lifetime a rest is not defeat don’t think of it as failure just a quiet, kind retreat It’s ok to take a moment from an anxious, fractured mind the world will not stop turning while you get realigned The mountain will still be there when you want to try again you can climb it in your own time just love yourself til then

[@djdannie9557]

AEM Bell I love this so much thank u

[@Luckiechick100]

Thank you for this! I have tears in my eyes ❤️

[@ZeeArtsy]

AEM Bell beautiful

[@chaidreamy9865]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Dina8485]

Thank you so much for sharing this.

[@pineappleANDkiwi]

Your therapy session with Benji was so relatable. When I vent to my husband, I tell him that I don't need him to give me answers, that I just need him to listen to me vent and cry lol. Love you Judy! We're in this together!

[@Yellowasky]

Kayla Su’esu’e hell ya, best therapy in the world.

[@CailebAva2011]

I just want to give Judy a hug ! Bc I feel her so much it’s a struggle but she’s right it’s okay to not be okay, and omg benji he’s so amazing the way he talks to her !!

[@ArinaKysh]

Naomi F Benji is honestly such ana amazing and supporting husband. ❤️

[@calideej1236]

I really need a Benji!!🥳

[@ManicMeeks]

The way Benji was watching Judy to make sure she was okay even while crying. He was aware of BOTH of their emotions and use their conversation to rationalization....explain, express and uplift their spirits. ITS BEAU-TI-FOE!

[@cagohupu98]

I’m so proud of Miya she was so scared at first ,but now look at her she looks so confidence riding her bike she’s to cute 😭 i have those awful days to ate judy i can only pray for better days😔

[@dacutestdimples]

And her bike is ADORABLE!!!!!!! So bright and colorful 🥰 confidence matching the bike 👌🏾

[@randomperson-cw7hs]

Well done Miya. You know what Judy, I have a younger half-sister who went into speech therapy back in pre-school, 1st grade?. She told me before that she used to be quiet in the classroom because her classmates teased her when she talks. She's now a licensed Geologist/Environmental Planner. Pls. Judy don't be hard on yourself.....

[@agnesaharisova7988]

How can Judy be so beautiful even when she's crying?😘😘

[@clarissaazure6235]

Agnesa Harisová Right?! I look a hot mess when I cry.

[@agnesaharisova7988]

Clarissa Eldridge Same here😂

[@MsLillieG]

Agnesa Harisová right? I can’t even talk

[@mdas7012]

I look like im about to sneeze when I cry! Lol

[@intiswarmwongera7352]

trueee

[@hadahsajcolon]

Benji is such an incredible husband love the way he supports you when you’re feeling low

[@MarieEliseVlogs]

I was crying with you Judy and I love that Benji is so supportive. Keeping your family in my prayers! xx

[@chellemarie3788]

Prefect t-shirt Benji is wearing. Saying HOPE. While u guys are talking alone in ur makeup rm.🙏💪♥️

[@ArinaKysh]

Chelle Marie yes! I noticed that too!

[@hugotktv6269]

everyone needed to hear this... "its ok not to be ok" everyone's going through some toughest times..

[@Rachel-qd5ei]

Hugot ktv truly 😔

[@VannidaVlogs]

The way Benji was looking and talking to Judy when she was breaking down 😍 Thankyou all for being strong and being the absolute best role models

[@ThanhMaiOFFICIAL]

It’s definitely ok to express your emotions and not be ok for awhile. After that it’s important to think of all the blessings and carry on 🙌💯

[@m12280110]

The speech Benji made on "what can I control" is so right. The talk between you and Benji made me emotional.

[@TerryElisabeth]

I've memorized this verse and whenever I feel anxious, I recite it: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." ~Philippians 4:6‭-‬7

[@lexus007lmlm]

Terry Elisabeth Organizing & Finances Amen

[@Leomom18]

Amen

[@Parsonsbae]

💗💗💗 AMEN

[@alejandraserranoorosco723]

I remember going on bike rides with my dad growing up. He passed away 2 years ago, till this day it is my favorite memory of him.

[@mschari1484]

Alejandra Serrano Saloma I agree

[@ashleyleopoldo9985]

To anyone feeling helpless just wanted to say the bigger the storm the more beautiful the rainbow and that God doesn't give us more than we can handle. If you saw the size of the blessing coming you would understand the magnitude of the battle you are fighting. ❤️

[@tosinadekunle3631]

The shots of Benji riding along with the girls warms my heart 💖

[@DarleneAlyssa]

Benji wearing the HOPE shirt during the heart to heart convo ❤️

[@YaymeeT62]

Benji - women and men are different in how they deal with stress. Heck every person deals work it differently. Judy feels her responsibility to protect herself while pregnant as a primordial instinct. And her need to express herself when she is stressed is how most women feel.... If you listen and hold her and validate her feelings with a simple "I understand" and "I'm here for you" you'll give her what she needs to get past this. I get irritated when men try to "listen" by instructing women. We don't need instruction. We just need to feel like we're loved through our worries. 🥰

[@pigsnum1]

I honestly don't think he was "mansplaining" here... Seems that Judy and Benji have had this conversation before, and that Benji was giving us insight of how he copes. From what Judy said, he's very good at listening to her vent and helps her get thru the tough times... Everyone doesn't want or need to be cuddled or coddled when stressing... That's THEIR particular Love language.

[@rish19d66]

@@pigsnum1 you got it so right!!!

[@abbikunce6040]

It makes me so relieved to see that y’all feel the same way that we do!! Love from our family to yours!!!

[@jennynguyen6742]

I've been having so much anxiety/depression lately from having to stay home from this quarantine when I'm so used to going to work or going out with friends to distract myself. Just feeling so unmotivated with everything, but after hearing Benji's talk with you, it made me feel so much better, it's like I needed to hear that!! So thank you!! I love you guys!! I hope you're feeling better Judy!

[@irsayson]

Can you please do a “Who’s most likely” with the twins again😭😭😭

[@aidachavez8017]

Isabel Ayson yes 🙌🏻

[@ArinaKysh]

Isabel Ayson yesssss. That would be so fun! 😍

[@blessymargarettevictorillo7610]

YAAAAS WAITING FOR THIS

[@procrastimania]

I love how you are both there to lift each other up and just be able to express your thoughts and feelings without judgement.

[@nekopii]

Benjie and Judy is such a great dynamic. You can really tell that they both keep each other grounded and at the same time be each other's rock. ☺️

[@Cristhyavi]

Wow this was literally me and my husband just 2 hours ago. Me crying while we were just talking about all this. We have SO much to be grateful for and yet, it’s a very sad time. It can be very overwhelming & emotionally draining/exhausting. I also just had a baby a couple months ago so i feel like my hormones don’t help in this time either. It’s ok though, we’ll still get through this! 💗

[@pma1019]

It’s wonderful that Benji is so communicative about feelings. I applaud you, Benji! Many men are not raised to be so good at this. And, Judy, thank you for filming this for us to see. I feel less alone in my sadness about all this because of it. Thank you!

[@dreadreaundrea]

I love being home but sometimes I get sad and frustrated. I think what helps me is going outside and soaking up the sun. Baking also lifts my mood.

[@MeteoricMarlin]

It’s definitely extra difficult for you because you’re pregnant. Being quarantined is difficult enough without adding the extra hormones. It’s ok to feel overwhelmed, that’s a healthy response to your situation as long as you process it in positive productive ways. Eventually things will go back to normal.

[@gabydoss2027]

MeteoricMarlin I am currently 26 weeks pregnant with my first baby my little miracle boy. It has been a roller coaster for sure I never imagined my pregnancy going like this:/ I have to miss out on all the things that I had dreamed of:/ But I truly just think that after 2 miscarriages god blessed me with this baby and as long as he is healthy and safe that’s all that should matter! I remind myself that everyday because all the other things are materialistic, still sad but life is more important.

[@mendingheart]

Judy, thank you so much for being so vulnerable and open with us! This is why I love your channel and your family! 🦋 Sending you, Benji and the kids lots of love during this difficult time ❤️

[@kialivue]

Okay. I cried with Judy. And then when Benji moved his chair to be closer to Judy while she talked through her emotions 😭 😭 Everything Benji said was true. I had a mental breakdown about 3 weeks ago and then I completely changed my mindset and I’m feeling better. We’ve got this Judy! You all are doing a wonderful job.

[@TheMusicalgirl6]

It is absolutely okay to feel downtrodden despite our blessings. These are trying times, for all of us, it is only natural to feel down. Take your time Judy. You deserve it. Take your time, take a breath, it will be okay. Thank you for not hiding these parts of your lives from us, it gives a sense of comfort knowing that even seas away people are facing the same emotions. We will get through this.

[@PREdison]

Judy please know that your tears running made alot of our tears run too. You are not alone. We are all going through something. The struggle of staying indoors, homeschooling kids, being pregnant, being a wife, having the house clean, laundry done, it is alot. Thanks, who knew I needed a good cry too. Continue doing what you and Benji are always doing..... being you.

[@deepika.g.r.9372]

“My hair does look pretty darn good” 😂😂 Judy is a mood..And benji, the best hype man ever!!

[@zestrus11]

Aww Judy, hope you know how much joy and comfort your families vlogs have brought to me for years. Hope you know how special and appreciated you are.

[@irenebriviesca1626]

Think about it this way everyone is going through this to everyone has their way of dealing with what going on my way is reading his word the Bible Psalms 91: 1-16 .

[@TaylorArocho]

Irene Briviesca 🙏❤️

[@Noonecares3203]

❤️

[@Babyberto10]

Amen !!! that has been my source of strength during this time turning to the lord for strength. Everything that is happening God already knows the outcome and he is in control .

[@lexylovesgod3989]

Amen God will always be there for his people

[@Shrez97]

Benji and the girls riding their bikes was so wholesome! Made me smile :)

[@CozyCorysCorner]

I have depression myself and it started while I was going through my divorce. I have moments wither I take my medication or not and it’s a struggle for me. As a mom myself it’s hard cause I get into this funk of needing to be alone and don’t want to be around people but then literally I have to look at at myself in the mirror and have to tell myself “No. First and foremost your mom. You have two kids who depend on you, you can do this”. Sometimes I have to say it to myself a couple time till I’m good. I am also stoked because of they phase one starting I get to start my externs at a Pediatric office and it couldn’t have made my day/ last 2 months better.

[@maddybaby989]

As a nurse working during this pandemic it’s hard not to be in a funk. Thank you Benji. I truly needed to hear that today. Happy Nurse’s week to all my fellow nurses!

[@piperbrock4206]

been loving your vlogs during quarantine! i love how you don’t hide the downside of being stuck in your home all day and show us the ‘real’ stuff. Love you ❤️❤️

[@R0SE1012]

Judy you have such a kind heart. Thank you for vlogging and brightening up our days, even when you’re being honest and letting yourself feel sad emotions. That’s really important to do. I’m American but I live in Spain by myself and am really feeling the toll of this isolation and being away from friends and family. You and your family definitely make me smile every time I watch one of your videos 💕

[@RubberDuckie7711]

You’re a wonderful mother Judy, I hope one day when I’m blessed with my little ones I’m half the mother you are! You are hands down the best, you and Benji are wonderful parents. ❤️

[@WMMKPD848]

This is why I love Judy! She’s not scared to show real life issues we all go through.

[@Noonecares3203]

I’m feeling the same way today. I m self employed and have a small business. Ive been unemployed since march 7th and have yet to get any unemployment. The whole state of the world right now is making me so sad and I’m fighting depression. Peace, Blessings and prayers to all who are dealing with the same thing. ❤️

[@miacharajovero4594]

Thank you for being real. I have been suffering from depression and anxiety and now dealing with panic attacks. Watching your videos makes me happy and I forget things. THANK YOU! You guys have no idea how much you are helping me. Your kids brighten up my day and I cant wait to meet the new baby on the way!

[@ahappyheart5400]

Had to pause an old vlog to watch THIS vlog lol 😂 hope everyone is staying safe and healthy out there!! 💕

[@Asiafe]

A Happy Heart same!! I’m watching their vlogs when they were in Hawaii back in 2015 !

[@ahappyheart5400]

Asia Fe oh wow you’re way ahead of me then lol I’m watching the vlog were Benji and Judy go to New York in 2015 lo

[@ArinaKysh]

A Happy Heart girl, saaaame! ❤️

[@kaelayoung7892]

Definitely got teary eyed watching this! Me and my husband have weekly talks about how we’re both feeling, and let me tell you venting to him helps! Having someone HELPS not to keep your emotions bottled up! Listening to one another and giving advice is one of our favorite moments with each other! We will all get through this❤️

[@syaryna]

relationship goals right there❤️ benji and judy are so inspirational to me

[@angelango7429]

even when she is crying with half her head of her hair still up in clips, Judy is genuinely so beautiful. This family is what I have always aspired to be in my future. I have followed you both since Julianna was a teeny baby, and even then I was probably 10-12 years old myself. Growth is a beautiful thing to see and I love seeing you guys be vulnerable and open. It makes me feel like I am not alone in a time that I need it most. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart.

[@yessy9502]

Kiera knows dipping the fries in bbq sauce is the best combo ever 😋😋

[@HaleyLennon25]

I'm having one of those days today. Brings me comfort I am not alone in how much I worry/how bad my anxiety gets from worrying. I hope to work on letting some of that worry go. Thank you for being so open and talking about it - it's hard. Sending love to you and your family!

[@SandraHernandez-eo7hv]

When Judy cries I cry 🥺 she’s such a great person I’m so lucky to be subscribe 😭

[@ciaramaechua4895]

I’m just crying how supportive Benji is with Judy. In EVERYTHING. I need a partner like that in my life..

[@MomDateWithSashaJay]

Girl I cried with you! And same. Doing my makeup and hair and taking my time and listening to music and really enjoying it is my therapeutic time. I have a 2 year old and my hubby is still working but it’s hard right now and I feel so guilty for wanting alone time but I realized for my own mental health and happiness I need that time. We all need that time. Benji gave great advice. Never feel guilty mamas or dads, take that moment to yourself. 💜

[@RemHanKidsShow]

Am in love with this family.

[@thungo4863]

Benji is a great listening and giving advice. For me I alway feel like Judy every once in awhile. I alway want to cry because I been dealing with depression for 5 years already but have someone there to listen who love and support. This time right now is the best way to refresh and reflect. Judy don’t be hard on yourself. Wish you the best luck.

[@kyla20]

Awe Judy I wish I could give you a hug! 😭😭😭 Sending love 💗

[@aceclaudinef.alfonso3120]

I have been watching your vlogs for a couple of years already. This vlog of yours particularly struck me. Its just so timely for me personally. Thank you for sharing your life with us, for sharing your happiness, achievements, inspiration, and even your frustrations and disappointments in life when it hits you. Its so real. Thank you for lifting my/our spirit up especially in this time. You have been an inspiration. Praying for your family always.

[@jessikam4137]

My husband lost his job Over Covid, permanently, and we have two small kids....... times are so hard right now for everyone

[@DaisyDays]

Jessika Mizzi it sure is. I hope nothing but the best for your family 😃 -Daisydaystv channel

[@pcpchoden]

Everything will be great my dear friend. Have faith 🙏🏻

[@kkkkkkkkkk955]

Hope it will be over soon. Spend this quality time with your family and be grateful that we are not sick. Keep it up! Your kids will remember how strong you guys are!

[@michellekelly1368]

Sending you positive vibes Jessika

[@jessikam4137]

DaisyDays TV thank you! That means a lot

[@missotaku7471]

I love how Benji is so sweet and reassuring. He always compliments and uplifts Judi. Judi and Benji are just the nicest.

[@slaynachan1992]

12:56 when you say "You're coming" but actually you keep doing what you're doing lol

[@ezekielvlogs5499]

I like how Benji just talks about serious things and at the same time comfort Judy. 😘 You really are my model family.

[@giselle-ko9ng]

going through something atm, felt good to hear benjis advice.

[@RoseAustinCooks]

I just wanna give you a big hug, Judy! And, yes, it’s ok not to be ok. The best feeling is having a husband who you can totally open up to and validate your feelings, and then reassure you that you have everything that matters. Thank for continuing to share your vlogs. They definitely bring some joy and normalcy in our family’s daily routine.

[@BangTapuyao]

I feel every bit of what you feel Judy.

[@jazelmarie]

Those biking montage with Benji and the kids are priceless.

[@lyannekue6061]

The bike rides with Benji is just so precious!!!

[@Coleworld85]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing that scene! It’s helping others more than you know! 💗

[@takethesewingsandfly]

When Judy cries, I cry 😭

[@annarose6164]

Judy you and your family are such a blessing in my own life! I’ve been watching your channels since I was 15, and I’m 22 now. You and your family are such a shining light in this world and especially right now. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing the realness of life with all of us. Even hearing that we aren’t alone in our feelings helps. Sending love to you and your family! ❤️

[@paoaotobs]

I find it reassuring to see Judy get emotional. On a personal level, it’s been v difficult and I’ve broken down a few times. But also, I think it’s important we don’t normalize mass death. We are at 70k+ deaths in the US alone. We should hold space for that to feel and not try and suppress those feelings of loss. Yes, be productive when u can and only if it does make u feel better. These are not normal times and we should all show empathy.

[@jortzambault]

Seeing the girls having fun and riding their bikes make me so happy! It has been an extremely hard week for me. Thank you so much for adding some joy to my day❤️

[@annmelendez1898]

Playing with my dog and Glamming up is my therapy. I have been so sad and hurt with what the Covid19 has done to everyone around the world.

[@kimbrooks9619]

I love people that are just open and totally honest about how they feel. It's so nice to know that everyone goes through difficult times and struggles. We need more of this, especially on social media.....more people that are willing to be vulnerable and admit that their lives aren't perfect and it's okay to feel sad sometimes. Just remember that the rain doesn't last forever. Joy comes in the morning! 🌷☀️

[@Noreen_Reynoso22]

Love the “cinematography” of the biking scene. The musical scoring was great too! Good job, _Director Benji!_ 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. 14:33 Suggestion: A five - second long shot would’ve completed this! 👍🏼❤️

[@skinsaver21]

Judy I literally just got done crying came to my bedroom laid on the bed opened up KZbin and saw your vlog with headline "it's okay not to be okay." This couldn't have come at a better time because I'm kicking myself in the ass for not understanding why im sad and wanna cry and it bring solace knowing other women are feeling this way during this time as well. Much love Travis Fam 💜

[@reshmap1328]

Seeing Kiera pour the milk and make her own cereal is so crazy! I remember when the girls were toddlers and you had to do it for them and they excitedly awaited their bowls of cereal! 😭😍💕

[@Chenasun]

That moment between you and Benji is one of the most healthy, valued conversation to have in a relationship. Although you didn’t share the entire conversation, it’s humbling and very sweet to watch that moment you had together. Ensuring each other’s worth during this time. Stay safe and positive❤️

[@ruthsalazar1502]

I advise you guys spend time with God right there where your at. When you let Jesus in your home he'll take your pain worries away. Always believe in him and be strong in him, and remember his in control. There's many people who are suffering and he's there waiting for humanity to turn to him and tell him this is outta my control God you take the wheel of this situation and come into my life and change it. But look for him and look for any minister who can guide you to God. God bless you!

[@nayelip2388]

Oh Judy! :( I've never wanted to virtually hug someone more in my life. I could litterly feel your pain and sadness through the screen. You're in my thoughts Judy. I hope you can find peace.💞 Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment. You are not alone💛

[@KristieBach]

What’s depressing is being black in this country. Where you can’t even go outside for a run without worrying about getting killed. #JusticeForAhmaud

[@ashleyr3658]

I think your completely right but whether intended or not your comment comes off as kind of rude and as if you're implying that others don't have a reason to be depressed (or talk about their depression) because they're circumstances aren't as bad as others.

[@Prayeveryday99.]

Ashley Ragsdale no it does not the point went over your head. Just stop it now. I’m not even going to comment back to this.

[@Prayeveryday99.]

I saw this comment and it touched me hard because I lost sleep over Ahmaud last night.. 🥺 #prayforamerica

[@ashleyr3658]

@@Prayeveryday99. The point didn't go over my head. I said I completely agree that it is depressing that black people can't even live their lives without being murdered but In my opinion it did come off as what I said. That doesn't mean it did to anyone or that it's true.

[@cieluphantomhive2405]

@Ashley Ragsdale - I think the saying "Just because the person next to you is in a full body cast, doesn't mean your broken arm doesn't hurt." Is a good one to remember right now in the world. Kristie is justified in having concerns and sadness, and did not lessen others feelings by not saying the struggles others are going through. Lets try to be compassionate and empathetic to all, no matter the reason for struggle. :)

[@srosiee]

Judy, I've been watching your videos since I was 15! I found ya'll randomly one night and never looked back. These vlogs have always and never ceased to bring a smile to my face even in my hardest times. Thank you for almost a decade of that. Stay strong!

[@annerozes7]

It's hard because you have a baby bear coming that you're trying to prepare and protect. Worry comes through love. Interesting the PDA shown, I wish Benji would shut up for a second and hug you. That may not be how you do things but more love. The Panda purse shirt is too cute! Be careful drying the Lularoe shirt.

[@lilinoeysmith4955]

I truly felt this conversation between you and Benji ❤️. Self care is so important, just as important as crying when your heart needs too. Take as many human moments as you need, regardless of its closing your eyes for 3 seconds, or bathroom break for 7 minutes. We need to take care of us, so we can take care of them. We love you Travis’s!

[@mehreenqureshi1620]

Come on benji give her a hug!! Judy's crying is so 😢

[@amandasandoval1050]

As someone who has clinical depression, my parents constantly remind me that it is okay to not be okay, and put my mental health first. My mom always texts me daily asking what’s one thing I did that made me happy that day. You got this Judy! 💛

[@amandeeezyd]

I remember when they were just learning to walk, now they know how to ride bikes!

[@ninile9214]

Literally balled my eyes out!!!! Benji giving advice is everything!! Even though my dad isnt in my life, I wish he gave those kinds of advice that Benji speaks whole heartly on! Thank you Benji for all the uplifting words and the encouraging motivation. You dont know who's life you have saved. I definitely needed to hear that. & Judy you are so loved and so appreciated, I hope you know what a beaming light you are to us young women!!❤

[@renanelsontuscano6217]

Was waiting for your vlog! Missed it for 2 days ❤️

[@baayybayyy]

im 23 and have been watching yall since i was 16...i love how real and raw you keep your videos, yall are an inspiration and im praying for yalls and the baby's health

[@FUNkinessWithBhavna]

Hii from india.. feeling the same maybe worse . Everyday a bad news. Deaths in family. Poor people dying of hunger

[@beachbaby-qu1cr]

FUNkiness With Bhavna praying for India 🙏🏻🙏🏻 my family is there. Trying to do what we can to support those who are hungry and in need.

[@madisone.1284]

Praying for you and your family! God loves you!

[@FUNkinessWithBhavna]

beachbaby3792 thankyou we need lot of prayers. The whole world does.. it seems to be a black hole !! This shall end soon!! Thankyouuu for your prayers ..

[@FUNkinessWithBhavna]

madison e. Thankyou this means a lot.. praying for the world . And those people who are suffering more !! Thankyouu .. i hope we all come out of it soon

[@kiarajofficial]

I literally FELT that talk that you and Benji had in your beauty room turned baby nursery! I have been crying on and off all day today because I am so sad with what’s going on in the world today. I hope that my videos can inspire at least ONE person 💕 I’ve always wanted to make a difference and feel that connecting with others outside of my immediate circle can evoke some sort of change!

[@malikah_zarah]

JUDITHHH- bReatHe I wanna cry with youuuuu :( let yourself out and rant to benji, you can tell his face is concerned. bReatHe, do ya self out AND GO CRAZY WITH WHUTNEY HUSTON💓

[@NyaaRina]

Your videos seriously make my days so much better! 💛🤟🏽 And sometimes you just need a good cry session, venting, and good food. And always remember, this too shall pass! 🖤

[@zestrus11]

I worry about Moms and even Dad's not having a life and friends outside of their kids and familly. It's so important for emotional and mental health to get out and have friends and hobbies that have nothing to do with your kids.

[@neuroticnorma]

Canadian imagine the people who don’t have no one at all ☹️

[@StefEnchanted]

I just started to cry when Judy started to cry. And my god Benji you are so precious, such an amazing husband and human talking to Judy and helping her get through her breakdown moment. You two are amazing and beautiful humans. Thank you for always being real and not being afraid to show it. We all will great through this. ❤ from the Netherlands

[@daisyj2614]

I can't understand what you guys saying but I felt sad too when she cried.

[@Garfield_cat393]

I can’t understand why too.

[@yellowXbrickXroad]

Judy, I have been having a really rough week, Im glad you guys are being open about your depression.. Me and my hubby of 8 years just split for the first time and our 5 year old is in the middle of it.. my hubby has been very depressed and down lately and the virus hasn't made it any easier for him and he just recently went back to work.. I hope he will take this time that he wants to himself to figure out what is bothering him.. I miss him so much and we used to be so open with each other.. you guys words of encouragement means alot to me at this time.. Thank you so much!