80% of all divorce is initiated by women, just the facts.
@hou9428 ай бұрын
@@MannyMannyG Instead of spending so much time watching cats take a sh*t, try jumping on a treadmill. She doesn't 'have to' share anything and why would she give details, it's no one's business.
@wanabetruckerdave37768 ай бұрын
I call BS
@BOOPTUBERR8 ай бұрын
lolz i was thinking the same@@wanabetruckerdave3776
@Voltis-57 ай бұрын
Well....one is a still coming out as a child one is an adult. I can see why it wouldn't work.
@Jimbo-v3m3 ай бұрын
and the "child" is now in Roxas.
@KevinN-q3r2 ай бұрын
With a much better quality lady. @@Jimbo-v3m
@tnorth70908 ай бұрын
i knew my wife for 10 days and we married in manila, marriage before vlogs, been married for 38yrs, 3 boys, 5 grand children
@JJ382558 ай бұрын
Wow, you rolled the dice and landed a good number, lol. doesn;t always end up that way getting married that fast when you don't know someone yet
@tastymustard62347 ай бұрын
Pure luck.. congrats
@-MakeItGood-5 ай бұрын
Before internet poison.
@blockaderunner4 ай бұрын
me too brother, 14 days, thanks for the example of real commitment
@nuttyforyou75094 ай бұрын
Congratulations you have left a legacy and an example for your heritage to follow ,working not just quitting .
@MALNTV8 ай бұрын
I heard a lot about “me” in this video.
@Ligmaballsies7 ай бұрын
It is her video, so I guess its her perspective since the other guy already did his video. Wont it be counter intuitive to repeat someone else's perspective?
@ginostrings6 ай бұрын
As it should be.
@RJT804 ай бұрын
This is exactly why Western men go to the Philippines in the first place. She talked herself into a divorce like so many Western women do. Quite possibly had some coaching from single friends. So tired of seeing this BS. I wouldn't marry a Western woman at this point if you paid me. They've been gassed up for decades. They haven't been empowered they've been brainwashed and many will end up alone.
@TJ-hy7gd3 ай бұрын
@@ginostrings symp
@ginostrings3 ай бұрын
@@TJ-hy7gd amazing
@dominiquehall-deal80128 ай бұрын
I can tell Mike truly loved you. It seems like you wanted this to happen. You used him to grow financially and once you reached your goals you left. Don’t sit there and say you both grew apart I don’t think so, I can tell he didn’t want this to happen and he loved you truly.
@laughjunkie32904 ай бұрын
at the end of the day, she still a gold digging 3rd World Asian
@ginag174 ай бұрын
You shouldn’t judge when you don’t know all the facts.
@davewordsworth12513 ай бұрын
@@ginag17 Get back in the kitchen
@markdsm-51572 ай бұрын
@@ginag17 that's all fine and good but they both made the divorce and why they divorced public. As soon as they did that they opened themselves up to criticism. Her rationale sounds disingenuous and mostly excuses for her own selfishness. So take your fortune cookie proverb and shove it.
@LawrencezoАй бұрын
@@ginag17 No just by her actions. Speaks Pok Pok.
@-whackd8 ай бұрын
Why would someone get married and think that marriage ends if you "grow apart"? I thought getting a marriage meant that you are going to agree to work on coming back together if you drift apart. lol
@kevingonzalez36738 ай бұрын
He is a simp
@daddypoker238 ай бұрын
@@smacktard6051 Most women in the west think like Bianca. As a man why get married? just have fun with these girls for 6 months and move on.
@cwayzums8 ай бұрын
They are at different phases in life. She wants to pursue something different (modeling and cosplays) and he wants to keep traveling and vlogging. They see a lot of opportunities for themselves in the Philippines, but they can’t achieve their goals at the same time if they stay together. Marriage is about compromise, whether we support our spouse in achieving their dreams while we wait a few years try achieving ours or you both go for it and the marriage doesn’t work out, which is what they decided to do. She’s much younger than he is too which is why their interests didn’t seem to work together. I had a feeling this would happen. Anyway, we wish them well.
@kevingonzalez36738 ай бұрын
@@cwayzums she is not mature yet hope Mike finds a nice mature 20ish Filipina
@tastymustard62348 ай бұрын
@cwayzums dude, you can pursue your interests without being divorced. This girl makes a mockery of marriage typical of Western women. The only reason for divorce is negligence or abuse from the spouse otherwise you're supposed to work on any issues.
@costaricasbestguide99066 ай бұрын
It is a great opportunity for Mike to find a really good non-western traditional woman in the Philippines. He seems like a really great catch and a nice man all-around and it is good that you set him free so he can find just that!
@cindy__778 ай бұрын
If you are going to move forward in your life This how it should be ● no phone call ● no asking him when have trouble with your vlog ● you cannot ask Mike to fix aomething broken ● When your stuck somewhere call a girlfried or something ●When you dont have any money for rent,groceries,etc..etc.. call your parents instead ●this is what i call growing apart .Just a thought not a sermon
@augustdewin68857 ай бұрын
Strange growing apart , why have a wedding , if not sure to love or like the person you living with. Life is never easy,you have to work all the time and all days on a relationship. I think social media have big part's in relationships. Better stop social media than a relationship.
@bishdizzle678 ай бұрын
A marriage has to be together and selfless.
@bf29408 ай бұрын
Im not happy... the Title story of 80% of men's life. Why couldn't he keep this channel that he put so much into.... Michael is a gentleman. 😊
@megantaylormichaels8 ай бұрын
New to channel. I picked up on the fact that their was zero affection from you to him. Not like other couples on KZbin. From my perspective it appears you are the one pushing this. Not a negative comment, just an objective observation. The grass is not greener. Make sure you are doing the right thing. Time is moving.
@leapdrive8 ай бұрын
She seems like she wants to be the main character of her own show. When you’re married, you’re still two separate persons despite being “one in body.” How can marriage work? By allowing your man to take the lead, and be submissive to one’s husband. That’s how it was from the old patriarchs of the Old Testament, and it’s still the same in our own time. She has the modern feminist view, and can end up being a cat-caring person the rest or her life. Her value in the eyes of men starts falling fast at thirty, while men’s value in the eyes of women keeps going up beyond forty or fifty and even older. He has a major advantage, only she doesn’t know it. Regrets will be too late!
@williamriley26448 ай бұрын
How about NOT being submissive to anyone? If it is in one’s interest to follow the tenets of a religion, then one should do so. I would suggest that Bianca has no obligation to do the same. The “old” testament stretches back back a few thousand years. Homo sapiens stretches back >200,000 years and other Hominids 2.0 million or so - all with the same characteristic. Females reproduce, and we males are generally good for providing genetic diversity. If just up to us, our species would have been lost long ago. Yet we are supposed to be dominant over females? Methinks that has more to do with preference and a bit of bullying than with biology and logic. Most of the rationale (men are smarter, men are more logical, etc.) has been debunked long ago.
@pokerbarloahavia8 ай бұрын
only true thing in the comments section I would never marry a westernized feminist female@@leapdrive
@samquinn64278 ай бұрын
I doubt she will end up being that: "40 year old woman living alone with her cat."@@leapdrive
@leapdrive8 ай бұрын
@@samquinn6427 , how can you be so sure? By being a divorced woman, she has already lost 90% of her value in the Philippines. Perhaps in Canada, her value lost would be less, but less value nevertheless.
@cbsguy63638 ай бұрын
Seems like “She” grew apart . Women initiate 80% of the divorces…
@nuttyforyou75094 ай бұрын
If college educated its 90%
@altonarm8 ай бұрын
Both partners have to keep working on a LIFETIME commitment. You don't give up on people you commit to for no solid reason it shows a lack of character.
@marks45538 ай бұрын
it just shows there relationship is shallow
@edwinarcilla59128 ай бұрын
Immature
@rose11398 ай бұрын
I totally agree.
@Ligmaballsies7 ай бұрын
How old was Michael and Bianca when they got married?
@plexmex6627 ай бұрын
Marriage is the longtime promise and commitment to take care for the needs of another person for the rest of your life, as only to think for yourself. Each partner has agreed to work on and maintain this relationship for a lifetime. Unfortunately, we have forgotten how to work on a relationship. For this reason, marriage should be very carefully considered and a person's character carefully evaluated before deciding to take this crucial step. In my opinion, there shouldn't be an exit out of marrage. Why would you want that? You have made a binding commitment. Just like when you give birth to a child, you are making promise to care for this child and to be there for it for the rest of your life. There is no way to dodge the responsibility away from you.
@ExtraGuac0078 ай бұрын
Yada yada yada, I'm a bag of chips and I can do better. Well, good luck and don't let the door hit you where the Lord split you.
@techshortpants4 ай бұрын
Ironic, not simping here but why would you mention the Lord here? Can you tell me in your bible where your Lord Jesus took a big rock and joined the fray in stoning a woman? And yes i said your because your Lord seems to be a different one from the one that is portrayed to be forgiving to sinners and all humans.
@DLeske2 ай бұрын
AS*HOLE!!! first thing comes to mind. PU*K 2nd. and CREE*P 3rd. I am sure this was not easy for her with 137,000 subscribers.
@FrankSouza-ss7cz8 ай бұрын
Modern woman, guys this is a prime example. When they use terms like " we grew apart" " we need to start our new lives" . How about you tell us the truth, it was you that decided to end the relationship. Well its a blessing in disguise for him. You will have men in your life , but they will be be there not because they want a wife. This will be the last i will watch of your channel.
@mellingensander8 ай бұрын
Jesus I feel so sorry for him...but if nothing else, you gave him a life lesson...
@American_Mike8 ай бұрын
Right, just another case of a guy building up a woman only to get dumped when she gets better opportunities off the back of his hard work.
@daryn28268 ай бұрын
Well it's not like they both don't come from Western society and culturally they both were raised from Canada so I wouldn't take this situation the same as finding an actual Filipina who was raised in the Philippines and the culture has more emphasis on working through hardships in marriage and Western culture just pushes how easy divorce is as an option. As a Western brought up culture it's not shocking at all as it's super rare to see a foreigner getting divorced from an actual Filipina born and raised here that isn't looking only for money because there are many here lol. Like she explained she "grew" into a different place and found herself and that's exactly a Western outlook on why divorce is so high.....it's totally fine to search and find new things and grow as an individual but in my eyes if you can't grow with the person you choose to marry ( should be a forever decision) then it's actually an excuse to either try new men/woman or the life you want to live is in a class of society your partner is not apart of.
@LADETROIT8 ай бұрын
@@American_Mike💯
@Tmidiman8 ай бұрын
This will flow like all the others. Watch what happens next.
@Sahrokh8 ай бұрын
@@daryn2826 @mellingensander and @americanmike1957 did not say anything about Filipinas nor about being raised anywhere. They just said what every man should know about every woman on the planet: she'll *TAKE* from you and, if she finds someone better (in her opinion), she'll viciously dump you. AKA hypergamy. No nationality or anything involved. It's just in women nature. The sooner men learn it the better.
@antosusnja53678 ай бұрын
wat a cop out. it disturbing when i hear married couples say "we grew apart" when you take the oath of marriage its all about growing a life together and compromising. there's way too much selfishness in Western culture
@MrBroccoliGuy8 ай бұрын
People do grow apart. It happens. Those that recognize it and make changes to be happy are bigger people than the ones that hold on to an archaic doctrine that makes them miserable.
@-whackd8 ай бұрын
Imagine agreeing to get married and thinking that ends if you "grow apart." Why even agree to a marriage in the first place? Haha. Of course you should know you will grow apart in advance.
@robocop5818 ай бұрын
As opposed to adultery or legal separation in the Philippines? 😜
@beepbeeblebrox39728 ай бұрын
i think its different when there is no kids involved
@tastymustard62348 ай бұрын
@@MrBroccoliGuy Growing apart takes years. Years longer than they have been married. This is simply her dropping him because she has no use for him anymore. A change of mind. 😆 Oh well it's all out there for public consumption and any decent man wouldn't waste his time committing to that.
@williamgehring22918 ай бұрын
You "Weren't growing separately" You weren't growing up. Watching your other videos, it is so obvious that you were taking more than giving in the relationship.
@YoungTowser8 ай бұрын
Of course its for the viewers to judge, that's how interaction works. It's going to be incredibly difficult to sustain living anywhere on 1 video a fortnight that gets 6.5k views anyway. Can see things unravelling pretty quick once the house lease expires.@@limtseho3540
@blazerk.71898 ай бұрын
Everyones allowed an opinion on publicity...hound vlogs.@@limtseho3540
@kevinRip816 ай бұрын
@@limtseho3540actually you’re wrong. When people want to put their entire lives online, then they will be judged. If you don’t want that to happen, don’t make your entire life public🤷🏻♂️
@KevinN-q3r2 ай бұрын
That's pretty much the norm in western relationships.
@ShawnsLifeInThePhilippines8 ай бұрын
A marriage is supposed to be for better or for worst. The oath you took. Everybody has flaws. This is going to be a lifecycle. Good luck...
@rbrtguardiola5 ай бұрын
You broke his heart. He still looks broken even sounds that way. He is just being polite letting you off the hook.
@jimmorrison38787 ай бұрын
Nothing says "I like a private life, I'm shy, and I don't like to put my life out there for everyone to see" like having a KZbin channel.😂😂😂 This sh*t cracks me up every time I hear it. Couldn't be more of a Western statement if you tried..🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
@yaimavol4 ай бұрын
Narcissists can be shy too
@hurleywilson72468 ай бұрын
Mike was bordering on tears describing the break up. Good for you that it is much easier.
@gabrielsaad27858 ай бұрын
They say when a couple break up it’s always easier on the female .
@denniszenanywhere8 ай бұрын
Hard to tell. Some people are transparent, others put on a front to hide their pain.
@Ligmaballsies7 ай бұрын
Got to ask tho, why was Michael so quick to post that he's going to be single? Bianca might not show that much emotions as she took a lot of time off to process things. What they show on the screen isnt always what they feel.
@ginostrings6 ай бұрын
@@gabrielsaad2785Nope
@stevenundzid47656 ай бұрын
@@denniszenanywhere BS
@henrikovratd98458 ай бұрын
So you evolved and grew in life with Michael getting you to that level of independence and then you dumped him because you were strong enough. Typical woman.
@joerex26126 ай бұрын
you don't know what's happening in their private life, don't speculate.
@Psycho-Nomics6 ай бұрын
Ah, applying a stereotype to a relationship you know nothing about... You must be an intellectual.
@henrikovratd98456 ай бұрын
@@Psycho-Nomics maybe you didn't watch her video it's all about me me me when you put your life on social media it's open for assumptions and speculation. Can't take the heat don't put it out there for the world to see.
@amazonseller-yf8vv6 ай бұрын
@@joerex2612 it's pretty obvious what's happening, and the fact that she keeps saying they just grew appart is woman code for men i just decide to dump him and don't want to have to take responsibility for my choices.
@Robin-xt7yo5 ай бұрын
OP being misogynistic.
@Dr.gobshite8 ай бұрын
I think we all saw this coming....
@steelcitytv8 ай бұрын
I knew it was coming today he was making a video doing his laundry outside lol I be dam if I'm doing that while married
@isreeramotar38688 ай бұрын
I know exactly what she is going through. My relationship just ended on January 20th 2024, after 10 years, a few million Pesos, a house and a 9 year old daughter. all because I'm busy working in America, for a secure future. My Filipina moved a guy into our condo, lied to me for a whole year, just to give me the biggest shock, when I landed in the Philippines recently. Stay safe.
@smccarthymccarthy8 ай бұрын
@@isreeramotar3868 wow, just wow! Very sorry to hear this.
@isreeramotar38688 ай бұрын
@@smccarthymccarthy😭😭😭😭I’m only human, just can’t understand how someone can be so cruel and cold…
@tryscience8 ай бұрын
@@isreeramotar3868 I am very sorry to hear of such a betrayal. If you bought the condo yourself, especially before she moved in, perhaps you can keep it. I wish you the best and that you find a more loyal partner once you have time to heal from this shock.
@josephlumba18178 ай бұрын
I think he’s too good for you. Michael is the man.
@bre81648 ай бұрын
I can understand your feelings. I felt the same. My husband and I “grew apart”, it felt like all the feelings were gone. I had zero desire to get back together, we separated and lived separately for a year but because we have a child, we agreed we should atleast do weekly counseling. We are now back together and honestly happier than we’ve ever been. I never thought it possible but it happened. Slowly but surely. We had neglected the relationship and hardly communicated. So it broke down. But we built it back better and we’ve learned how to avoid another break down. Now I regret that we ever separated during that year. I know you two don’t have children but you did make a vow. I would strongly encourage you to at the bare minimum give counseling a try. Really be open with it and give it enough time to see if it works. If for no other reason then to avoid any possible future regret. Sending love to you both 🖤
@gg_Javier8 ай бұрын
@bre8164 = It's a TERRIBLE idea to use children to patch up a troubled marriage. 👀 Better choose another option, plzzz ...
@bre81648 ай бұрын
@@gg_Javier huh? We already had a child. Hes 11. Lol When all hope was lost between us, we decided we atleast owed it to our son to try marriage counseling to see if we could resolve our issues before just getting a divorce. And we did work it out and are very happy. When we couldn’t find the motivation for each other, we got motivated to atleast try for him and it worked. There was no abuse, cheating, toxic environment, etc. we just felt like we fell out of love, and were roommates basically, which seems to be the same situation with them. Marriage is hard. Counseling can work. I just don’t know if we would’ve tried it without our son but I wanted to hopefully give her encouragement to try. That’s all.
@ianwong4118 ай бұрын
Mike giving this main channel is so noble. It makes sense now why this channel had far more subs than Mike's, which appear to be the new channel. Even you separated, he still know how to take care of you. Nice.
@kevingonzalez36738 ай бұрын
Mike is a white knight
@Richierich20258 ай бұрын
Yes props to Mike
@tastymustard62348 ай бұрын
Noble? Dude is laughing, he starts a new channel and his vids are already getting a lot more views without the higher subscriber account. Starting a fresh channel is a display of confidence.
@synchronicityaswang96008 ай бұрын
We all know Mike is the hero maybe her next cosplay should be Cruella De Vil
@prettyghee3578 ай бұрын
its Mike who made this channel grow, and made famous, you admitted it you were just behind in all these things he does all the work.... so lucky you girl he is so generous he gave it to you and start his own I mean chose to use the lower subscriber channel ..... reward is near to him,
@rauldempaire53308 ай бұрын
You could not say it better.... Weird and awkward!... Best of luck to you both ...hope you are not making a mistake ....
@xdtrobowen38818 ай бұрын
Michael is doing great. he's a professional level news reporter/travel blogger anchorman all that stuff guy. Kumander Daot and Michael should meet in person and discuss his future.
@Tmidiman8 ай бұрын
Yeah, he’ll be fine, watch what happens when bounces back.
@Ligmaballsies7 ай бұрын
He'll be fine. He was old when he picked up Bianca, he'll find another young lady to groom.
@joevlawrence57848 ай бұрын
I had been watching your blogs and love you both. I am sad to hear your separations. Think about it very carefully before you get divorce before you realize later that you made a mistake and is to late. Many years ago, it happened to me with my first love, my soulmate and because of pride was too late to get back together. A wise soul once quipped sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. God bless!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@DestinationJapan958 ай бұрын
Simp
@layneewilson8 ай бұрын
As I was telling Michael, I am saddened to hear you two are throwing in the towel on your marriage. I have also watched Michael's video with his side of the story. Marriage is tough even on a good day. There are the good, the bad, and the difficult times. All Relationships take work, but both of you have to want to make it work. Michael seems devastated over this decision. You two make a great couple. Since you are Canadian, staying separated for a year in the Philippines will be tough. I hope you have both carefully weighed all the pros and cons of your relationship. I would try a minimum of 3 months of marital counseling first. I was always given good advice that no amount of success will compensate for failure in the home. I hope you and Michael will try to work through it first. I wish you both the best.
@Livinginthephils658 ай бұрын
Many times, distrust is the factor in a divorce. 95% or so. Adultery is one of them. We don't know.
@Davirdcarrol8 ай бұрын
We really dnt know they will not tell us the real reason I asure you its not whatt it seems only they know for sure why they are not together hope they do tell is the reason one day because what they saying is the reason is hogwash I got a divorced from my wife it was for her cheating so only time will tell I hope they get help I really love both of their vedioes
@TinmanII18 ай бұрын
I hope that one day you and Michael find your way back to each other, you guys are good together.
@Richierich20258 ай бұрын
Wow, this is a tragedy. Such an amazing couple. What I’ve learned from this I’m 45 years old. I guess I’m gonna stick with Filipinos close to my age.🙌🏻
@user-lj6gk4lv9s8 ай бұрын
I'm gonna stick to those 1/3 my age.
@sniper_pro4978 ай бұрын
Yeah that's a smart idea even Filipinos in their 50's want money
@DestinationJapan958 ай бұрын
Amazing couple? Obviously not if they’re divorcing over “drifting apart”
@kevinRip816 ай бұрын
I don’t think it’s her age. She’s been westernized so it doesn’t count 😂
@dwkeleher17138 ай бұрын
Best wishes to you and your future. And as an introvert myself I can see your struggling, but stay strong. Just be yourself, be weird and awkward. Just keep moving forward at your pace.
@DiegoGarcia-gz9zz8 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to Make It Happen. A lot of opportunities opened and each one has their own interests and goals. No one can just forever be a supportive girlfriend or boyfriend. It's better to part ways so each one can grow.
@エドキーラ8 ай бұрын
still will support you as you are. hope you will enjoy your exploration. enjoy your journey be as you are.
@leliebaxton26718 ай бұрын
as long as you both are happy , wishing you both the best and i will keep following 😘
@paulsandford33458 ай бұрын
I cant believe that you can make enough money to live, even in the Philippines, by just doing a few videos a month!
@tryscience8 ай бұрын
Dear Bianca, I'm going to take the proper amount of time to write this. So when you have a block of time, here we go... I know it's tough for you, but you did the right thing by telling us. Making a vlog about it is difficult, because it brings the reality home. As a much older gentleman, formerly an introvert, what you are going through is understandable; I can relate. Because you are much younger, who you are, changes quickly. this is normal. So even if your husband was "THE" perfect man for you in the past, everyone changes over time. It is not for me to say if splitting was the right call. Over time, I expect you will have an enhanced appreciation for what you had. This is also normal and part of the learning process. Understanding and accepting this will help you in the future, when you are in a committed relationship. Know, and accept that drift in your future relationship, and you can choose to be happy together, regardless. Regarding your personal life moving forward, know that you can choose to keep some things private, as you like. Where you draw that line, is up to you. I recognize your ex as an honorable gentleman; he did the honorable thing to give you the huge subscriber base, no doubt to help you prosper towards your goals and to help meet your needs. Please honor his gift and secure your future, by helping your channel thrive. Much like a plant, it requires care and feeding to be fruitful. Learn to differentiate between the trolls, and your loyal fan base who will give you constructive criticism and suggestions for you to consider, to improve. You can even ask trusted subscribers for suggestions on what they liked or didn't like, or how to do better. You don't have to accept every suggestion, but it would be wise to do a reality check to consider if they are right. For example, comments regarding camera shake in the last video. Over time you can learn technical things that will help you as well, like camera settings for different situations. Don't worry too much about it. It will come with time. Different perspectives can show you your blind spots, and this is very valuable if you want to be able to create great vlogs with ease. and, it WILL get easier. There are ways you can build your confidence and reach a high standard of excellence. Here are a couple examples. - don't say you are bad at this. Instead, understand you are progressing and will get better over time, as you have already noted in this video. Here is one way to accelerate the process. - For informational videos that aren't recording live events, such as this one, use this process. 1. Write down a list of super short bullet points that address everything you want to communicate. 2. Arrange those bullet points in a logical manner, that flows well. 3. Turn each bullet point into prose (English, like as you would speak it). Revise as needed to be clear or better quality. 4. Do a test run, speak all the items in the rearranged order. 5. Tweak if necessary. 6. Record, edit, release. From memory is best. Be sure to express your personality as well, who you are is what people appreciate. Believe in yourself.
@humminbird69908 ай бұрын
Very good advice. She need this. You point it out well.
@wintersojourn93568 ай бұрын
Yes I second hummingbird, well said.
@GSR9026 ай бұрын
Bianca… I understand you are an introvert and have difficulty expressing emotions socially. But, I know one thing, it’s very difficult to find that right person and what you and Michael have is one in a million of souls matching. Just don’t regret going for your passions in life, while leaving your marriage behind. I was young once, but I knew, I wanted my husband beside me always during my struggles and goals. (My husband and I, have been together for 15 years, since I was 17 1/2) Which became our struggles and goals, you kind of have to think about marriage as one person, and not two bodies. That’s how we connect, spiritually, emotionally and physically. “ I put him before myself, and he puts me before himself.” Just please rethink all of these emotions. God placed you guys together for a reason, look for signs of the universe to give you understanding. Don’t back down just because silly emotions took over; think deep within yourselves and hearts. ❤ be strong about it, I know you have it in you to dig deep into yourself. You don’t want another guy, who will only be in a relationship with you for themselves.
@Tony999920008 ай бұрын
I have been married to a wonderful woman from the Philippines for 20 years and she is everything I could want in a woman and we will be together for life. You were born in the west and have a western mentality. Western women file for divorce 80% of the time, and that fact is why over 60% of men have left the dating market altogether. They would rather remain single than risk divorce and devastation both spiritually and economically. You seemed to get more and more big headed by all the attention you received there and I saw your attitude go down steadily with time because of it. Michael is a good man that really loved you. You seem to think the grass is greener and want to play the field but this is how things will play out. You will find men to sleep with you but will never commit to a long term relationship. This is especially true of western men who would never want to deal with your western mentality when there are millions of sweet traditional Pilipinas to choose from. Michael on the other hand is a reasonably good looking tall foreigner with blue eyes and will have women resembling models going after him and are lining up as we speak to gladly take your place. It won't be long you will see how happy he is with his new girlfriend (a total knockout mind you) who will be a loyal, loving girlfriend, and eventually his wife for life. You will get to play the field for a while but life flies by then you'll hit the wall and realize no one is going to commit to you when there are younger, prettier, and loving women to choose from that won't leave you because they want to explore themselves. I think there is a quote from Don Henley's New York Minute that says it all: "You find somebody to love in this world, you better hang on tooth and nail", truer words never spoken......
@daysoff4ever6 ай бұрын
EXCELLENTT!!!
@PatrickIrelandsentienti3 ай бұрын
Married my Filipina wife in Canada twelve years ago, we have two beautiful daughters and our adventures continue. We are moving back to Canada this year with our two children.
@marissacannon34168 ай бұрын
You did great, Bianca! People appreciate authenticity and raw vlogs. God Bless you both and continue evolving and enjoying life 🙏 ❤️
@frankpantaleon66828 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear, Bianca. Good luck in your new journey.
@optimega8 ай бұрын
Good theraphy,talk and let it out and once its all over,walk away and be happy for each other,a new day beckons ahead.
@RickyOlano7 ай бұрын
Glad to see that you are both continuing the vlogging life. Couple's lives do change and grow apart more than people realize. It is mentally healthier to become stronger through your life's experiences both together and apart. Live your life as you, whatever that means to you. You Do You and everyone else will do what they do.
@ShawnBowens8 ай бұрын
This is a great example of why divorce is far too easy in the west. "We grew apart", suddenly means more than a life long commitment and vow. From the sound of it there was no infidelity, no domestic abuse, no verbal abuse. Sorry Bianca, it sounds like you got bored, had an itch, and decided you dont need a man and are chasing the girlboss pipedream. That's gonna sting one day when you look back at what was thrown away. Im sure there were issues, thats part of being a married adult. So is working through those things with that so called partner. Im sure ill get hate for telling it like i see it, but honestly you need to hear it.
@pollybean9008 ай бұрын
I can’t agree more, you said everything I would also like to say…well done you. My own opinion in a marriage it takes two to tango. I’m a mum, a grandma and have been married to the same man my husband for nearly forty years prior to that we lived together for five years before we wed. Everything isn’t perfect as we go through there were hurdles but because we love each other we’re still together to this day. Communicate and be honest, bring out everything you feel inside you and try to solve your problems calmly. I think communication is very important in a relationship let your partner know how you feel and jealousy don’t get you nowhere. Good luck to all your endeavours.
@tryscience8 ай бұрын
@@pollybean900I agree with you. My parents are still married, over 60 years and counting and I've seen the challenges that life throws at them and how they handled it together, how they treated each other with love and respect.
@LiveDogsMMAАй бұрын
Got a little attention. Got a little motivation. Got a little money of your own and left the man . ain't that like a woman
@horsdecombat0078 ай бұрын
It’s very obvious he still adores you too bad you can’t return that affection
@philmcleod1118 ай бұрын
She's a self centered girl, if she wasn't center stage she would pout, She thinks she is a super model, She didn't bring anything to the table.
@PropagandaFacts7 ай бұрын
You guys won't remain friends. I'm 50, and know for facts you devastated him. (I watched his take) He can barely talk...damn he's got strength. He'll be fine because you act like a spoiled little girl and slowed him down.
@TimmyLeMatty-d2x8 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear you guys are splitting up. Its good to see you both are able to respect each other during this tough time. Wish you both all the best and god bless.
@JaneHill-o9j8 ай бұрын
It seem like you got married really young. Michael explained also what happened between the both of you. It makes sense that Covid and the lockdown made both of you closer together. Now that everything returned back to normal both of you seem to having nothing in commo and have different goals. The age gap may also attributed to the split as well. Hope for the best and life will treat both of you well.😊
@LADETROIT8 ай бұрын
She was growing separately. He was already grown 😮. He married Davina and she turned into Bianca. Great no children involved. modern women dont want follow a mans lead. That will eventually be their downfall.
@Regular_Guyph8 ай бұрын
What does the TPL stand for?
@jamescrabill73458 ай бұрын
Bianca I understand its is very hard to explain your private life as far as Myself I don't talk about my life either. I wish you the very best on your new adventure.
@TJ-hy7gd6 ай бұрын
you are literally everything men should avoid, enjoy living life until you hit the wall and end up alone.
@danitzm8 ай бұрын
This break up video is just like Michael’s both are as clear as mud on why the marriage is ending.
@cfewLW748 ай бұрын
on the one hand I always thought he could be her father, on the other hand I feel sorry for this guy, even leaving the channel to her...
@aboveitall96008 ай бұрын
This was one of the most genuine videos and I appreciate the honesty. You didn’t have to make this, nor did Michael on his channel. I wish you the best. I hope you find your path.
@edwinarcilla59128 ай бұрын
Good thing children are not involved. They are the ones who suffers the most in these situations. Thank God
@Delta9228 ай бұрын
You must relax, be yourself and move on with confidence 😊
@rubend4132 ай бұрын
Thank u. U r brave. I respect u more. God bless u. More great things coming your way. I'm just a fan from Guam
@DW-op7ly6 ай бұрын
Too much temptation for men in the Philippines
@canadianlynx30688 ай бұрын
Ahh the pitfalls of a May - December relationship. Happy to hear you are finding your way, good luck with the future - I am sure many great things are waiting for you. Enjoy your journey - try not be be hard on yourself. Good luck to you both, wishing you both the best.
@Beau007us7 ай бұрын
Sad to hear that you and Michael separated! I follow both of you and wish you both tons of Happiness and Success in the years ahead!!
@Truulovemotorsports8 ай бұрын
Team Mike.
@Truulovemotorsports8 ай бұрын
You going to end up a single unhappy old lady with no babies. You let satan take you. Props to you for doing Mike a favor letting him go so he can have a real woman with values and everything he deserves
@enaescasa11978 ай бұрын
You have the right though to keep things private but I so admire your courage for being so open and sincere. So saddened about the break-up. I still hope that divorce doesn't have to be your final answer and that you two will be able to find each other again in a better light. Don't worry about being weird and awkward, it is sweet and original! We like you that way. Such kind people you and Mike are. We will miss seeing you together but we will keep watching both your vlogs. All the best to the two of you!
@J-Tyson5588 ай бұрын
Change is part of life, whether it's relationships, jobs, lifestyle. I'm glad you and Michael came to an understanding that it's best to move on as your relationship was gradually drifting away. The best part is that you are both handling it extremely well and are still very good friends and hopefully continue to do so. Life is a journey, and changes are a part of it. Stay positive and embrace them. Best of luck to both of you! 🙏
@RNPH217 ай бұрын
Im sad- hope u guys can still fix this..
@tonymccreath45408 ай бұрын
As a fellow Canadian, I am familiar with divorce laws in Canada. After 23 years of marriage and moving to another country, we separated also. We were advised after we both left Canada, we could not divorce in Canada. I have learned that the Dominican Republic has divorce for International Couples when of mutual consent. CHEAP TOO. Upon filing all correctly it can finish 30 to 40 days often. One of the two in the marriage has to appear in front of the judge quickly.
@Jaguar21218 ай бұрын
As someone who is awakening and getting into spirituality, it's good to love yourself first so that loving other people on different levels won't be hard.
@edwardvelez78618 ай бұрын
She Does have right. It's up to her decision if she wants to talk about her life
@ricksarazin13797 ай бұрын
“I take this Man/Woman to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, forsaking all others, till death us do part." Crazy how often we say these words and they mean nothing to us. Not taking sides here, I mean all of us in the world who has ever married.
@tuataka75428 ай бұрын
May life be good for both of yous life is a journey of many destinations there is no right or wrong just new experiences welcome to the real life of living a dream thank you both for sharing your journey of life .. Life is to live and explore our inner self to the fullest through happy, sad,and the opportunities that follow sadness is only a moment in time to be human and to reflect that we will always keep learning new experiences may you both enjoy the separate pathways and peace will always be with yous Thankyou both for sharing the awesome moments in your travels in the Philippines peace be with you both as yous continue into lifes new experiences
@buffalokay7 ай бұрын
Do you know how much you’ve grown over these past few years, Bianca? For you to have the confidence to stand up for yourself and consider what you want? I am really proud of you. Wishing you and Michael all the best!
@supernewsdnbhd32608 ай бұрын
Both you have different stories for divorce, but both of you are good to see together as usual as earlier. Look good, understanding and better do not accuse each others for any reason. Both of you have to understand their own mistakes then there is not a problem to get divorce. Hope for the best and think twice please both of you before separating each others. Separating is easy but living with love is difficult, so you both have to think better for both your life.
@tak2ulata8 ай бұрын
Mike gave up the channel because he’s interesting and he knew he was going to be able to build it up. There is no reason to watch this girls channel lol
@StefanRichey4 ай бұрын
Can I ask how long it took to get legal separation in the court?. You know if you haven't got that yet you could report your husband for adultery as it's against the law untill you have court order of legal separation.
@1lolofred8 ай бұрын
We will continu to support Michael and you Bianca to the fullest. Just stay friends and enjoy.
@globaldynamite2 ай бұрын
Look girl, I strongly believe that both of you shouldn't have separated because of disagreement in your marriage. Disagreement should not be a recipe for divorce. Deep disagreement in any relationship is necessary but it should bring married couples together not separation. I believe that if couples separate or divorced for disagreement either one person or both don't love each other
@bruceteel78 ай бұрын
I can see it's your idea for the split. I will unsubscribe. I hope everyone else moves to his channel, too.
@alexarmanto29866 ай бұрын
There were some videos where I saw he was scary....the split is inevitable They were eating and he accused her of taking his knife On another occassion, he didnt want her to talk, but these videos may have been deleted
@ReiSpitz6 ай бұрын
Burt wants his brows back.... I got my greencard, i got $$$ for nothing few bjs, now im empowered brave woman....Whats BEST FOR ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME ME...
@ChrisLloyd4188 ай бұрын
Stay strong and positive bianca! 🙏
@gorgousmom7 ай бұрын
You’re still young Bianca, it seems like you want to enjoy life being single and that’s very understandable! You dont awe anyone an explaination! Ignore the negative comments do what makes you happy life is short! There’s so much thing in store for you claim it and embrace it!🥰
@wanderlustasia8 ай бұрын
You’re not weird and awkward. You will kill it and look forward to future vlogs 😊
@rockout11808 ай бұрын
At least there’s no kids involved. So you both can move on with life and wish you the best.
@gordon.Jacko10558 ай бұрын
At the end of the day, it’s more fun in the Philippines 🤟
@Livinginthephils658 ай бұрын
Yes, same here. Moving to the Philippines, and living there can do wonders to a marriage of foreigners, in a negative way. Same with me. Young Filipina ladies being attracted to older men say everything.
@antoniohardaway69138 ай бұрын
Me and my wife will always support you. We wish you the best and we truly understand. Don’t be ashamed or ever regret your decisions. (Monterosa Subdivision)
@alveer24128 ай бұрын
stay strong, take it one day at a time its gonna be okay.
@johnstengel32058 ай бұрын
I Myself had Lived in Toronto Canada in 1969! I Returned to the USA and Divorced my Wife in The USA! Best-Wishes Hun! 🙏😇
@xiaobao47573 ай бұрын
Michael is a star. Good for him, making your dreams come true. Good luck!
@marcust.62688 ай бұрын
Thanks Bianca for setting the record straight and your response on the delay. I’ve been enjoying the vlog(s) for some time, so felt vested in understanding what happened to the extent you and Mike were comfortable sharing. I hope this video does good at protecting your image as a public figure, as well as help steer traffic to Mike’s new channel. Best wishes
@GSR9026 ай бұрын
I also, don’t care what these misogynists have to say. Don’t prey upon someone’s weaknesses by trolling. Be supportive or send a positive message to help them. You dingle berries!
@golmarpacas70308 ай бұрын
Go great lady! never worry about the future. life is exciting and great things await for you!
@michaelwilson97168 ай бұрын
Yes. Dont give up on vlogging your young smart and beautiful and have alot to give.take care of yourself find your new happiness
@BOOPTUBERR8 ай бұрын
Imagine if she was a guy..she would never make it! pretty girls almost always do well in KZbin! trust me I know!
@Beau007us7 ай бұрын
Nice video! You and Michael are amazing humans!! Neither of you needs to feel bad for things not working out. That's life!!! I'm happy that you both are doing well......That's all that matters to all of us as Subscribers.
@ExcapeTV8 ай бұрын
Good to know you guys don't have bad blood. That is good. You will get there and you will find your style and what works for you. Yes that is a big shoe to fill maintaining the channel, but you can do it! You will figure it out eventually whether you do it fast or slow, just don't burn out yourself with expectations coming from people who may not be really understanding what you are going through. 😇🙏
@kevingonzalez36738 ай бұрын
Sort of strange that she is carrying on her ex channel don't you think
@korypostma8 ай бұрын
People love truth and honesty, but don't focus on the audience. Do what you love to do and show the world the real you. No need to explain, good luck!
@antosusnja53678 ай бұрын
too much selfishness in western culture. In marriage its not always about you. Gotta work at it and grow a life together
@lballc91618 ай бұрын
So let me get this straight? She said they split up amicably. That Mike did not do anything wrong. He also gave her the channel he worked hard for (very gentleman of him). He treated her right. He is not abusive but actually very supportive of her. And yet she files for divorce because she wanted something more (a fantasy I guess lol, a perfect world that does not exist?) Not happy anymore, more like she got bored. Well lady, such is life! Life is tough, it is not always happy. But I guess it’s just all about her. I wonder how she’ll feel if Mike is the one who decided to divorce for the same reason???? Just curious!!! I hope our Filipinas who look up to her will not imitate this. It’s not a good example. Marriage is a commitment, it’s not something you just let go of because you got bored and felt unhappy.
@mamadali1128 ай бұрын
So much assumption and judgement based on very limited information. What do you actually know outside of what they're willing to share? Do you actually know what's going behind the scenes? These are two grown adults who have decided to go their separate ways, and that's that. F*ck off with your unwarranted nuggets of knowledge.
@daysoff4ever6 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT!!!
@Christine-ui5gg8 ай бұрын
Best wishes to you and your future. Be yourself. ❤🇵🇭🇺🇸