It’s True, Black Woman Face Discrimination on Dating Apps: Here’s What They Say

[@naeemabdulayad3861]

Why would I get something that wears a blonde weave when I can go get the real thing.

[@Falcon2609]

Exactly

[@abdirahman292]

😂

[@patescortez88]

💯

[@derwinmitchell9947]

BINGO!😂

[@IbriyGad]

🎯💯

[@calilavello4979]

Fall of the strong & Independent woman

[@bojaiden5175]

To be honest, most men don't want a loud mouth, brash, repeat every feminist claptrap woman. Placing their profiles at the bottom is a sound business decision.

[@commonsense3921]

But Black men still flooding them with DM’s

[@MsDesiree39]

@@commonsense3921 they say they're too dusty though...lol...

[@Eljefe5948]

@@commonsense3921thirsty ninjas. The high tier dudes aren’t even looking at them. They invisible just like incels

[@musiclover5023]

😂😂😂😂

[@s.h.holmes785]

@@commonsense3921 The only BM who want BW in numbers are dusties. Manosphere BM can't cope with that fact because it applies to most of them.

[@blackkrakken349]

Why would Hinge waste time and millions of lines of code on a group that's the LEAST dated, LEAST desired, LEAST married and MOST divorced? That's like launching a multi million dollar ad campaign for "Spam Canned Meat".

[@dorannelson9161]

[@timmartin638]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@bojaiden5175]

True

[@Jomgg]

It’s funny cus these sisters are the most pickiest ones . Blck girls are cutthroat on dating apps it’s brutal !

[@Bravefit]

💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯

[@Tesmoofficial-ps6nl]

It’s simple. If most men search for white Latina and Asian women, the algorithm is going to cater to that demographic. The website is simply there to sell the product. If men are not checking for a particular product (black women), it’s not the website fault.

[@Falcon2609]

Facts

[@vincenttorre4066]

I'm Latino and when ive used a dating app I only put Latinas as a preference and write my profile in Spanish. I dont want an americanized Latina that doesnt speak Spanish. They can be just as bad as any other american females.

[@rizzlo1]

Also the apps help the the least picked women. I prefer Latina and white some Asian. The apps notably Hinge will force feed you a bunch of black women at once and I swipe X to get pass them. It's all algorithm.

[@yessir8805]

White women date black men when they date out.

[@lebrandodouglass4923]

BW can change their attitudes as fast as they change the settings on the app.

[@madslasher18]

Agreed

[@alfjones6377]

Barz

[@fbarod3909]

They have one problem...after decades of traitorous behavior who would believe them?

[@KelAda44]

They could, but the Keisha would come out eventually

[@alonzorobinson2134]

Boop

[@MojoeHart]

So again men are blamed for bw not getting chosen even after changing the profile

[@TheRawledawg]

Its always our fault, never theirs.

[@GoodStoryGames]

With Hinge you can choose exactly what type of race of women you want. People are not choosing black women... period.

[@SherrickDuncan]

It's there own fault. People don't want to date them because of their own worldviews, behaviors and lifestyle choices.

[@jasonBGI]

They've worked HARD for these results and this reputation.

[@commonsense3921]

But Black men still flooding them with messages so obviously they don’t have to change for black men.

[@Travelvision2020]

@@commonsense3921u mean pookies and blk males

[@Netro-ui3fs]

Exactly I a

[@clitlickah]

@@commonsense3921 The irony is they want non black men in droves to choose them ( especially white men ).

[@Datruthslanger]

Seriously I don't even go into grocery lines if a black woman is at the register.

[@OG364U]

True. Been on that program since 2015.

[@Falcon2609]

​@@OG364U😅

[@mbproject22]

lol same

[@vincenttorre4066]

Especially a fast food drive thru, you can hear the attitude thru the speaker box. I just drive off.

[@jxsilicon9]

Yea, I pretty much just do self-checkout. A few years ago the last one had hell of an attitude,smacking lips,etc when I was swiping my credit card. This one youtuber talked about he went to rent a car and she was talking about they didn't have cars. He ended up having to find a white sales rep that ended up getting the commission. And when he got the car, he tried to ask how her how to bring down the top. And she went on a rant about how he should know these things or some nonsense. What is wrong with them?

[@MichaelElam2]

They are FOREVER going play the victim lol

[@mindelo23]

Everyone just gotta ignore them at this point.

[@funartcreations2190]

Lol 😂 people love just throwing all black women in one category 😂 it must make people feel good to know racism exists … it makes people feel nice that black women are pushed to the bottom like they are the same … not all white men are pedos right? So why are black women treated the same? They are different shades too…

[@chuckellis2466]

90s were the peak for black women, like they were the baddest in the world back then... the fall off is sad

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

You're right, because I clearly remember allegedly having quite a few side pieces back in lovely 90s. Ah, good times.

[@sczr1186]

Thugs became the trophy men for black women starting in that decade. And we are witnessing the dominoe effect of those bad decisions.

[@yessir8805]

Early 2000s. Black women set the trends with Beyonce, Riri, Megan Good, etc. White women damn near dominated the 90s

[@Azrael3176]

​@@yessir8805hell naw Michael jackson dominated and he's black 🤣

[@primeva7579]

Baddest in the world in the 90s is a stretch. Maybe in media. If that's what you're saying I'll give you that. With regular people, idk about that

[@tomlund9860]

There’s been an explosion of black guys with white girls couples in my town

[@Netro-ui3fs]

As a black man non black women just treat me better and just have more in common.

[@VictorVonnDoom]

Same in my town. Never had a problem getting Beckys here but there's been an explosion of black guys with white girls here lately.

[@enigmatic8280]

In 2024 most black woman won't look a black man's way if he's not a thug. So I don't blame them.

[@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew]

Latinas especially

[@D4SH19]

@@VictorVonnDoom As a black woman I love that for yall. Yes!! Wean out the melanin! I pray the children of those couples continue to procreate with whytes only.

[@mrdacusthenavigator4989]

So, Sprinkle, Sprinkle doesn't translate too well on the dating apps. Who knew?

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

Ive tried to date black women. They are difficult at best 😅. So even on the sugar sites I filter them out. Occaisionally i will find an early 20s pretty one i would approach. But thats it!

[@yessir8805]

Yea bw 18-22 I'll give some of them the benefit of doubt.

[@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew]

@@yessir8805thee older taught the younger how to be ego driven and mean, therefore men are going to look for Latinas white women, Asian women even foreign black women

[@owesperez104]

If i'm gonna date a Black Girl she must first and foremost sport her natural hair; Those are getting rarer and harder to find as time goes on. you could say they are rarer than rubies.

[@vincenttorre4066]

Afro-Latinas in Latin America are very different than USA; AA/BF's.

[@dathip]

yep! Colleague of mine stop dating a bw because of the use of weave and unnatural hair.

[@eileenakinyi4100]

😂😂😂😂

[@greg617ma]

Sklar, You have me dying over here. Hahaha I am about to renew my Colombian Visa for 3 more years. I can't wait to live there full time. I'm so done with living in the U.S. I go to Colombia every 7-8 weeks and I have set myself up to live there forever. I plan on visiting Brazil, Panama, Thailand, Philippines etc and spending a month at a time in each one. I have been to the Philippines and Panama several times. Those places are fun too. No more bad attitudes, sense of entitlement you know the rest. Best of luck Boss.

[@dirtylittledoe]

Hey im going there when i get remote job but any tips, did you get a tax consultant and or lawyer?

[@bobd7871]

Let Black Women tell it Everybody LOVES them, even the Dating Websites Algorithms saying Otherwise 😂

[@KnownUnknown711]

They really be mad when they can’t get that Brad

[@darnellpierre-canel9723]

😂😂😂

[@jayclarke777]

💯

[@philipbell5448]

They(bw) dont even like light-skinned brothas. They just want Brads validation

[@TheRawledawg]

Thats what it is. Brad, Chad, and Edgerton Poindexter the 3rd isn't checking for them

[@getsugaallen6612]

Exactly

[@brownbuter]

the app isn't discriminating..chad Jose and Lee are actively not seeking black women and put it on their preference...they prefer non-blacks... it's like a man seeking only females but transgender is complaining..

[@TheRawledawg]

Yes, dating apps are all about catering to what people want. The least desired are the least picked. Not the apps fault.

[@Aggie4life77]

They will go out with those dudes and then say they’re corny🤦🏽‍♂️

[@joehoward9905]

I always knew after the " Passport Brothers Movement" sisters were done. They can " Me 2 " all they want. The cat is out the bag.

[@yessir8805]

BM its the other way around. I noticed since we separated, you see who winning and who not.

[@timmartin638]

The longer I watch this video I'm sensing some form of sarcasm

[@garyblade2332]

You think? Lol

[@Eljefe5948]

😂 They realizing they invincible to other top tier men. We’ve told y’all nobody is a 10. But they be getting mad about reality

[@jayclarke777]

They're upset huwhyte men aren't choosing them.

[@TheRawledawg]

Exactly what it is.

[@clitlickah]

💯they don’t care about black men flooding their inbox, they want that from Chad,Jose and Wong.

[@themr4560]

It's not all about the way a woman looks in a picture. Most often the profile disqualifies them. Especially with the men who care more about quality and aren't randomly swiping.

[@mostravels]

How is a girl unable to get likes on an app 😂😂😂 that’s crazy

[@enigmatic8280]

Likes from 10/10 Chadrone is what she means. Not us average joes.

[@Noblesix06]

@@enigmatic8280💯💯

[@patdoit9103]

Skylar getting in shape

[@HE360]

Dating apps discriminate against men too; especially if one is under 6 FT. But, anyway, it discriminates against men in general. Women on there choose certain types of men and not others. And those women may talk to multiple guys. So yes, avoid dating apps. Don't compete! Dating apps are only going to mess you up psychologically and have you chasing a dream that might not be there. Go traveling instead!

[@theobnoxiousguy3425]

That's not the point.

[@777YOUniverse]

Exactly! 💯

[@theobnoxiousguy3425]

Crying victim may have worked with government handouts or at the workplace for black women but not when it comes to dating and they are will find out the hard way.

[@D4SH19]

You mean your fellow whyte women? They are the biggest users of government assistance and benefit more from workplace policies.

[@bitcoins4489]

Most men of substance have bw filtered out on their Hinge settings including myself. It’s not the algorithm.

[@DarkHorse08]

Male black Network Systems Engineer and Cybersecurity Professional here. As a black man becomes more successful, he attracts more races of women. His standards also increase (not irrational standards; just a woman with more feminine qualities). I will say that most black women also possess masculine qualities. I personally would choose a feminine woman with no masculine qualities over any other woman on this planet but, that is far few in between. I will say that I am dating a successful black woman now who has a doctorate degree who was masculine when I met her. I decided to give her a chance but I did tell her and warn her about her masculinity. We did couples therapy just to have a space to talk with a mediator. After all said and done, I’ve seen a huge change in her. We’ve been together for nearly 2 years. We live together and have a household income of over $200,000 per year. The point I’m trying to make is that when black women start listening to high value men, they get and keep those high value men.

[@swmthomas5066]

LOL. A 'high value man' is one who is intelligent, thinks for himself, does not simply regurgitate what he hears and would never make an asinine comment such as "most black women possess masculine qualities" when he himself does not know most black women. Your job title, degree and income level do not make you 'high value'.

[@B1ack_Manta]

That's strange... I don't see why because the B-Dubb is rated E for everyone and sponsored by EA games because they challenge everything.

[@madslasher18]

TROLLING LEVEL 9000

[@mohammedidrees3890]

When he told his 'assistant' to start a GoFundMe 🤣🤣

[@pokemercenary6511]

Just plain unwanted.

[@mohammedidrees3890]

When he told his 'assistant' to start a GoFundMe 🤣🤣

[@musiclover5023]

American Black women yes, African, No , theyre not discriminated against😮

[@shawnmiller2182]

The Shade room performed a thorough InZestigation so this is credible 😂

[@thenaughtyamericanexpat]

😲Uh-oh, not an *inZESTigation* ! 🤣

[@donhud3868]

Like the "brick lady," investigation

[@techntravel2015]

I wouldn't call it through. The story was average at zest.

[@TheRawledawg]

InZestigative reporting.

[@techntravel2015]

That's the zest comment I read so far 😂

[@willspoon1207]

Somebody get Dr. Umar.

[@greenbeans8710]

To be honest, this is very dangerous for them black women to be doing this. If a man expects a certain color woman or race to show up for a date and he gets the exact opposite, it could make a situation hostile. This is like saying, “I am looking for a woman, someone who was genetically born as a woman, and what you get is someone who has taken all the hormone therapy to look like a woman, but when she finally gets naked, what you see down there is the same body part as your own own.” And now that a video is floating around about this, other women make start doing this in mass, which causes a trend of distrust on dating apps., which was already there just not as prevalent as this would make it. These women do not think.

[@aeyosavage449]

EthniTicity is crazy lol

[@WorldwidePhil]

Lol

[@4thletta]

Let's keep it 💯 These women are trying to date out & those men don't want them.

[@Theohybrid]

If the best men are not checking for certain women then they should connect the dots.

[@Theohybrid]

When people use "trauma" as a reason for how they're acting, thats enough to make distance. Trauma is no joke and shouldn't be entertained.

[@VictorVonnDoom]

So billionaire Brad isn't checking for them? 🤔

[@jeffreyabbey9592]

I tried to hold in my laughter but couldnt make it...

[@Xanatos_Clutch]

If anything, dating app algorithms are prejudice against BM, especially with how racist programmers in Silicon Valley are, where a lot of these dating apps are based in. And yet BM still find a way. Imagine how BM would do on a decentralized and non-racist dating app.

[@TDOTSE1]

Exactly this is why I don't use them. No one can account for unconscious biasness

[@hjackson.92]

It's actually rigged against 80-90% of all men. It's as close to misandry as it can get without openly advertising it. AI can easily be trained to spot the Chads and Tyrones in profile pictures and promote that stuff to the top.

[@therelationshipmessenger-u6838]

We can’t be angry with apps that reject the cheap culture expressions (twirking, wigs, fake lashes and nails, overweight, loud and rambunctious behaviour with multiple babies fathers)? Sorry, but look at the videos of what is portrayed and ask why would you want that? It’s not color, it’s behaviour.

[@Eljefe5948]

The walls are closing in 😂 we’ve told them over and over. I guess they gonna learn the hard way, and it’s gonna hurt even worse. Reality hits very hard. Start by getting a mirror 🫵 and humble yourself sis

[@marcuswilliams1540]

I noticed that with pof, in mempis tennessee. They kept showing me white women and that's not my type. After about 30 scrolls, I finally seen a black woman. It's better to download a black dating app

[@swirvfly]

9:57 ethneticity 😭

[@eii8794]

He’s always good for at least one long laugh. Dude cracks me up

[@DorianGates]

How did he get away with saying it like that being in the military for so long lmao

[@kennethsmith1897]

😂😂😂

[@eii8794]

@@DorianGates Dorian, he may pre-gamed and had a buzz before going live ha!!!

[@KingsKeep]

Your intro rant on the apps and the BW not having a fair shot had me 😂😂😂

[@johnpirate9501]

"Im justin Carter and im investigating" 😂

[@yessir8805]

Skyer did 20 years in the military, air force police officer and handsome young man and yet black women don't want him😅😅😅😅😅😅 mad at us for getting our passports??????

[@jayclarke777]

They don't want us, and they don't want us to be wanted. Or wanting outside of our race.

[@MsDesiree39]

i sw a very cute black military scientist talking to a young bw on a date channel n YT yet she didnt pick him cause she said she wanted a thug type, well non bw will take him

[@TheRawledawg]

@@MsDesiree39 A man thats disciplined wont put up with their BS, that's why MW will always pick a thug.

[@dathip]

​@MsDesiree39 A SCIENTIST wanted a thug type.... my goodness we have the WORST set of women. You think they be the introverted cerebral type. My goodness😢

[@MsDesiree39]

@@dathip yep, exactly.

[@alter3go411]

Can't say I feel sorry for them😊

[@Grayslakegunner]

Lol yes they also discriminate against me because where's my 9s and 10s?

[@timmartin638]

Skyler is getting endorsed by Oprah

[@patescortez88]

Go where you are celebrated not tolerated

[@dbzgtful]

MT, I see what you doing man you are outsmart in the algorithm. You have me rolling the whole video. Keep it up, man.😂😂😂

[@SkylarDeRouen]

I appreciate that

[@FiveMCity]

Can't speak on behalf of all black men, hell men in general, dating apps don't work for us. Unless you're a Chad/Tyrone, you're out of luck buddy.

[@vincenttorre4066]

Check out "LatinAmericanCupid" lots of Afro-Latinas.

[@HotColdAir-vv5bm]

Dating apps are trash. I was on one. I used my gym pictures and church pictures. They kept matching me with overweight Black women or Black women in their 50s. Waste of money.

[@Netro-ui3fs]

White guy's to

[@mrexception2therule410]

Can’t force people to like you.

[@rizzlo1]

Also in their ethnicity they'll put black/latina or native...so the pop up in the algorithm

[@yarawshalamqara6509]

Absolutely 💯.... There no bueno

[@vincenttorre4066]

Exactamente

[@MichaelElam2]

lmao bro said rebuke them

[@kennethsmith1897]

😂😂😂🎉

[@them12biggates26]

The Most hated black men are the chosen ones... but to know a chosen one you have to raise your vibration 😂😂................. mhmmm

[@JohnThorpe-gr5ur]

That's right all praise to the most high 🕎

[@TENNSUMITSUMA]

13:00 🤦🏿‍♂️Did you not hear the part where she said she matched?! She changed it to white, hid the ethnicity, and kept the pictures (so one and all could clearly see she was black)! For there to be a match, both people have to click like on each other! If she's matching with these men that weren't seeing her before... ‼️ Can you figure it out, or do you need me to spell out the last 1%?! 🤡

[@KelAda44]

LMAO!!! I actually thought you were serious the first minute, LMAO!!!!

[@Atem_S.]

That is sad... The bottom tier mad that they are not selected... What do you want us to say?

[@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew]

Be nicer smile, pleasant, welcoming, greet a man when he speaks to you, appreciate the little things, stop being argumentative. It’s so simple it can save them from loneliness and CAT lady journey. Beauty fades Ana coochie becomes used an abused. However a supportive nurturing woman will always win when she gives her time to the man who cares respects her an himself the great architect who made him in the worst for his family blood sweat tears

[@mate8183]

They'll change their race on the app but won't emulate the behaviors of the women who are out performing them. Makes perfect sense. They don't want to "earn" anything.

[@ApolloLeRoux]

Skylar is hilarious for real 😂😂😂😂

[@muckmuckthageneral2691]

You a fool homie...lol

[@bernardshaw8895]

It isn't systemic. What it is is that other races of women know how to value a respect black men. Regardless of their financial status.

[@FlowerPow-tz1cn]

I find it very interesting how we BLACK men and women think it’s so bad for a non-black person ( Recently Ryan Garcia) to say he HATES black people ( which it is) and expect him/them to apologize, but when black men by the thousands are boldly expressing verbally and by their actions that they HATE black women, no one flinches. If black people know how it feels to be hated by the world, How in the HECK do you think BLACK women feel to know and be told by black men daily that they HATE us!!! Make that make sense because it doesn’t!!! No group of people will stop hating us until we stop hating ourselves and stand by one another. STRONG!!!!

[@timmartin638]

And yes, I like to troll if you haven't noticed

[@MojoeHart]

Bm still getting found though

[@shawnmiller2182]

“Hello Im Tay-Queereon investigating where have all the good Black menzes gone 😮”! They gave all the actual straight black men on the dating market a 3 second interview though 😂

[@choco.es.unlimited]

Good video

[@Martin-dq5kx]

Dating apps often use a hidden "Elo system," similar to the rating system used in chess. This means that individuals who receive more right swipes (likes) are prioritized and shown to more users, while those who receive more left swipes (dislikes) are shown less frequently. The lower visibility of Black women on these platforms is not a deliberate action by the app creators. Instead, it arises organically because fewer users tend to swipe right on their profiles. As a result, their profiles are shown less often.

[@sandboxsports5802]

Love these sarcasm takes Skylar great reactions hahahaha keep it up

[@kombatpapi7738]

This sad but true

[@Theohybrid]

6:51 So, do they just want nicer-looking guys to look at?

[@MrSilverfish12]

Oh bro I gotta flame you for messing up "ethnicity" you must have said it 4 different ways 🤣 great video as always!

[@JBRICHH]

Love your sarcasm brother

[@svseaknsolotude3277]

Bro....🤣🤣 Skylar, you should be a dang actor, I was believing you for like 9 mins of this video!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA I was about to be like, hold up, what happened to Skylar??? HAHAHAHA

[@nathanielreed9507]

When they changed and lied did their matches go up

[@factz8131]

1Timothy 2 & 2Timothy 5 is your only hope ladies 😅

[@VictorVonnDoom]

You a fool mang 😆😆

[@PrimeJaguar]

Skylar DeRouen, I think your video here is giving much opportunity for racial bigots to spread their bigotry and wanton hate. I suggest you do not aid them in their folly. If not, you probably are just making this situation you seem to be trying to address, worse. And in my opinion, the whole situation seems to not be about Black women only, but about racism on a whole, being some non-Black ppl being very liberal in spreading somewhat covert hate speech on here.

[@derrickclark5510]

They’re being left behind like Kevin Samuels said. Karma has come to collect.

[@JUDALATION]

this is the funniest gaslighting of all time🤣

[@SMW-TRAVEL]

My man 1MT is next level trolling...!

[@BrotoshiStakamoto]

1MT thanks for breaking this news to the bros - the sisters hacked the algorithm. So when you're on Hinge looking for Beckys but you keep getting matched with Shawneqas, now you know - Hinge has been compromised.🧐😂

[@SkylarDeRouen]

Oh wow!

[@TwinTiger88]

😂😂When given a choice ,everyone is always going to choose what they feel is best for them . The feelings may not be mutual but we all like what we like. Most of us have limited options due to many factors . Dating apps work based on looks and infomation , so if you do not have what it takes to attract who you what thats all on you 😂😂

[@timmartin638]

Damn he got me. He was joking. I knew It he didn't sound like himself

[@tupactargaryen]

You speaking 💯 facts.

[@foxmoontp]

Is nobody gonna talk about how my brother is f*ckimg this word up eth nis sit tee... ethnicity 😂😂😂

[@charlenebobua2017]

So black Women should just take any Option that they get, they are Not allowed to have Itler ?

[@C3L3BRiTyxCapo]

The options that they want on the app don’t want them which is why they had to change their ethnicity. The app is not discriminatory, once again the type of men that they want do want them back.

[@michaeln3638]

1MT is hilarious 💀

[@DeonteSeay-jy1lz]

I am biracial with a black mother that I love and I just only find white women attractive.its just what I like on a physical level.

[@elmermontilla6371]

Same

[@elmermontilla6371]

Where u from?

[@NoRockinMansLand]

Bruh

[@josephmitchell-u3r]

I have never used them if brothers are looking for beautiful sisters Colom Cupid is full of sisters afro Colom Jamaicans women thats where i met my girl 15 years ago

[@BlackMarvel25]

What's crazy is that these men could easily put bw as their preference and have access to them if they wanted. But here you see that they're clearly not picking or interested in them. But yea. Racism. No black men ate crying racism over this though. Anybody notice that?