It’s Two Against The World Ft. Humna Raza | 017 | TBT

[@saroashali2409]

Duuuude you guys need to address these issues way more. I think this generation needs this kind of guidance because everyone is scared from marriage (including myself lmao) when it's one of the simplest most beautiful things in life.

[@harismahmood3906]

Conversations around gender are so toxic and one-sided. not this one though. You were able to present the perspective of both genders and that too in such a curteous and constructive way that it clears the air and shows the way forward.

[@sakura142]

well said. i think both genders are pit against each other in usual conversations

[@BigBrother4Life]

She has such a nice thinking; the guy is lucky to have her.

[@anamzahra2191]

Man is sitting in front of her ❤️

[@mrforeverspeed]

They are both lucky to have eachother. They are both unique

[@shahbazkhan-pv1co]

Bhai yeh wohi larki hai jis nai Ali zafar pai jhootay allegations lagai thay harassment kai. Aur yeh relationship pai kya khak samjhai ge .

[@noor14-5]

@@shahbazkhan-pv1co seriously when?

[@shahbazkhan-pv1co]

@@noor14-5 you can find it online, honestly way back in 2016-17 i use to love these two and i only took mesha's alligation seriously once she supported her..

[@shahanaj6227]

i didn't know she is your wife till i got to the end 😂....MashaAllah you guys are doing amazing work...brilliant episode 🔥

[@SannanTheTraveller]

lol

[@mustafaaa772]

I too didn't know that until a couple of days ago when I discovered some of their videos on a random channel about their marriage 😂

[@danisharshadofficial]

سارے سسپنس کی ایسی کی تیسی کرنے کا شکریہ

[@mustafaaa772]

@@danisharshadofficial 😂😂

[@XTRRYUK]

@@mustafaaa772 I am not sure but I think the channel where u watch the video about marriage of muzamil and humna is on humna’s channel

[@Oops_64]

Worth watching this 53 mins podcast. Every adult out there who's married or is going to get married must watch this and learn how they can have a balanced life with their partners.. Keep it up guys

[@ahmmok6914]

exactly my thoughts

[@sirkhanksa]

half way through i realized its your wife.. frankly you two have given us another perspective of looking at this emotional side of marriage.. kudos! you guys are awesome.. bless you..!!

[@JunaidSalehHayat]

Islam gives solution to all our social issues; it provides the best family model.

[@fdkjgshfjdhsfhjsdfmn]

I feel like there is so much interference of societal norms and families in a couple's marriage. I believe if we let the couple figure out these conversations regarding equality in the union, finances and everything. Humna is right when she said mostly men in our society don't know how to work as a spouse in a marriage after wedding.

[@asmanawaz7731]

One of the best talk on relationship of nowadays. Our youth needs these talks to get guidance and open their horizons🤗❤

[@uliyafatima5599]

Thankyou so much for bringing these points. Our society needs to understand that if a man wants to quit his job and spend time with his family dont blame him. It is his right. And yes equal partnership is very important in marriage life. Both husband and wife needs to support each other.

[@_labradorite3168]

When you said " 20 saal k bad agar koi puchta k ye bara ghar or ye bari gaari kis ki badolat ai ha ?"that hit me soo hard. Loved every bit of this podcast.

[@Shahjiglobal]

this girl's thoughts are very mature. she seems to have an ability to see things with a real perception. it is very helpfull in practical life.

[@maheenfatima5206]

The guy seems intellectual and mature. His voice is too good ❤️

[@awaistunio2]

I am about get married in 3 months and this podcast is the most needed thing we both was looking for and you have done it in the best way possible, Kudos to both of you :)

[@aghasbsb]

Kept me hooked. Refreshing to hear how candidly you both spoke about this complex topic. Suggestion: Muzamil please shuffle between the suit and casual wear.

[@saadiaziakhawaja]

The way you're organizing podcasts and putting them up is too advanced for Pakistan, by that I mean this is too good and too perfect for the people who are used to tiktok culture and cringy memes, that's why your views are not reaching that much, all I want to say is keep going, you have always been ahead of time! and you deserve all the recognition in the World:)

[@e-quranlearning8575]

The way she replied every question that's really amazing...

[@F-Khan491]

You are absolutely right guys. My wife is a housewife by choice, she is very happy about it, and the way she is raising our daughters , i am very proud of her too ... so it boils down finally to what the couple wants, expects, gets, and do for each other ...

[@F-Khan491]

@Amandeep Wahi the problem is men think that if a woman is housewife, she's a liability than asset... Ye to ghar per rehti hai, kam wam nahi karti ... infact being a housewife is a full time job.

[@afifanasir4564]

First and foremost, The whole content was so amazing and thought provoking. Secondly the tone was soft, step by step construction conversation beyond any negativity, the pauses and the way of addressing each and every question was just so perfect. Lots of love for guys. 💕 Keep up the good work. 🙏

[@anayakhan7819]

Was talking to my fiance about this yesterday only and came across your podcast. Loved every bit of it. Helped me make him understand that it's okay for a man to take a break from what society thinks is solely his job - a woman surely can be the sole bread winner of the house if circumstances allow. There's nothing feminine about sitting back at home taking some time off and spending the time with your kids if that's what a guy wants. Marriage truly is a partnership! Amazing amazing insight.

[@zeeshanahmad1126]

Toxic masculinity and power dynamics are the two things you define brilliantly than anyone could. I wish every couple could have the mentality and maturity like you both. ❤️ Stay blessed!

[@mahrukhbilal2075]

this is what we really need to listen, need to understand. There should be equality and understanding in relationship. Great topic. this is much needed talk

[@salesforcequrat]

Absolutely loved it!!! Sensible. relatable, non-preachy, and everything nice. Bring Humna on the podcast MOREEE!! 🙏🙌💛

[@muhammadabubakr7430]

One of the most amazing conversation on a very important issue these days. More power to you both!

[@hafsahssn]

Literally changed my whole perspective of marriage and the husband wife relationship..luv you guys💕

[@asifkareem9111]

that was amazing man this is what our young gen needs to understand about a relationship or marriage instead of either dramatizing things or being narrow minded , there should be more stuff like this.

[@noor14-5]

Yes but if the guy is mummy daddy type he would be total opposite

[@numrah.khan.]

Both husband and wife's effort for the relationship keep it strong. Both should understand each other's position.

[@mariumkhalid986]

This was such a great episode, would love to see more conversations like these which have some sort of origin that helps us today. It's the idea of coexistence of perception and you both can reflect on how you perceive today's world in different layers of life. Enjoyed every layer of this conversation.

[@sawairanaqvi8059]

The quality of your convo is >>> my instrest developed when I heard that Humna went to a dental school as I myself heading towards it. May Allah bless you both ❤

[@anoshaumer7530]

i just love the content you out there, i wasnt a person to sit and listen to someone talk for an hour but this seems like a conversation over a cup of coffee that i have with you guys where i just want to listen and explore what your thinking is. ❤️

[@AhmedRaza-vd8jt]

Really soothing hearing positivity of you both. These are the characteristics we as a nation needs to adopt in order to raise a morally and ethically rich nation. Hatts off.

[@fatimamalik6050]

Just finished hearing this podcast while completing my assignment and I absolutely love it. The conversation was so thoughtful. Seems like humna just speak my heart out by giving a voice to my thoughts. I am really looking forward for more podcasts like these and would definitely recommend my friends to hear this one especially. This podcast should needed to be hear by both the genders and both the generations. More power to you guys

[@numaniqbal2261]

Yes i do get different perspective here, thanks again

[@mahnoorjaved6535]

really mature conversation, you both should do more podcasts. Also I am a female viewer!

[@mishkaatnoor6226]

Well isn't she your wife 😂I smiled a lot when you guys acted all aloof in start 😂😂😂

[@farahazizsawal7959]

This PODCAST is So AMAZING; KUdos To The Couple- You guys Are Really Defining A Much Needed Narrative!!!

[@TBTGO]

Thanks for listening

[@sahilwashington7888]

I remember in our neighborhood there was a girl she wasn't wealthy from her father's background and her father was just a keeper of Church So when she got married she was totally dependent on her husband ... And when she went there her husband was also not enough wealthy to fulfill the needs of his family ... I remember that she used to ask for clothes from Other there old clothes and She wore them on big occasions ... And her father gave her the Dowery of atleast 4 5 lakhs at that time 10 to 12 years ago .... If he would've gave her the cash instead of the Dowery she wouldve had the money to buy herself new clothes not daily basis but on big occasions so Dowery is just a waste of expenses and has no use

[@Mayajee101]

Boy, this is the kind of education,mindset and progressive approach we need. Bravo.

[@sayitall944]

Thank you dear children, I'm a boomer and really trying hard to understand your generation; my children ( I've three: two sons one daughter) and listening to all young people is so very helpful. Do talk more about emotional and social skills, issues and problems, because financial and job related issues are discussed quite often.

[@bestofluckareeba4305]

🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@abdullahdilawar3355]

such a beautiful couple Mashallah, talking so sensibility about such sensitive topic. may you both grow, MORE POWER! ❤️

[@anza6470]

This topic was the need of the time because of all the feminism, misogyny and degradation of family structure. I am glad that u people talked about and put forward such a balanced conversation that our society is totally trying to avoid. I like your approach of talking about the confusion and conflicts the common man is facing and not have a fight or heated argument about the extremists. More power to you and Humna.

[@aamnahere6250]

I appreciate that you've brought this subject. It's extremely important to talk about it but I have a few things to say. Just my humble opinion. We live in a society where women even in middle class households are forced into marriages. They are told they must strut in front of larke ki maa and who'ever selects her is going to be her future. That is extremely toxic. Women are not decoration pieces. I know many educated middle aged women in my own family who casually say that independent women are besharam and behaya and criticize their peers who refuse to be the stereotypical saas. Unless we remodel our society into equality where both men and women are responsible for making this decision, we'll continue hearing about abuse and forced marriages. Women should be allowed to choose their partners without being told that they're 'besharam' or it's against our 'culture.' No it is not. This will only change when women are no longer seen as property of men who belong to fathers until they decide whom they want to transfer them to. Men cannot understand the pain that it causes to be seen as property. They think women are free here. We're educating our daughters so they're free right? Wrong. Women only become free when they are not forced into making the most important decisions of their lives. It should be ideal for a man and women to decide for themselves that they want to spend the rest of their lives together. Instead of mocking love marriages, we must encourage them. Women should not demand from men that they want a certain amount of money monthly. If they want that money, they can get a job. Men shouldn't forbid their wives from working if that's what they want for themselves. There are very few men in Pakistan who allow their wives to take leadership roles and stand by their side in support. Most just say "my wife is a proud housewife" when that is not even a taboo in this society. Housewives aren't being discriminated against. Working women are. They're referred to as sleazy and characterless. Men have to stop being part of friend groups that actively mock and shame women. We all think how can a single person stop workplace harassment? But we can. By refusing to befriend and thereby, encouraging such people. Similarly, stand up for your brothers who have been excessively burdened by their own parents and families to earn an exorbitant amount of money. That pressure is crushing and we need to be more empathetic. Let people choose their own partners and their own destinies. If in the 21st century we're still treating kids as our property and think that's our 'culture' then we must change that aspect of our toxic culture. Culture is made of people, it's an ever evolving phenomenon.

[@jahanzebali589]

MUCH NEEDED CONVERSATIONS GUYS! I COMMAND THE ALGORITHM TO PUSH IT!

[@ziyadtariq2418]

I am actually surprised and amazed to listen after listening this whole podcast. A young couple from Pakistan sharing their matured thoughts about this important aspect of life, you don't see very often on Social or Mainstream Media

[@mominasheikh5087]

Such a nice conversation, people need to understand these things.

[@TAtalal]

It`s going to be 3 against the world soon , Congrats guys :)

[@fashionvella730]

I love the way Muzammil is using Data Analytics and Algorithmic terms in the conversation.

[@arwaijaz7053]

53 mins DEFINITELY NOT WASTED. Great food for thought please make more with humna❤

[@Asfand901]

Every couple should openly have meaningful conversations like these. Wonderful addition to the aresnal Muzamil, well done!

[@JawadImtiaz]

I found this conversation has resonated with me in such a positive way, that it has solidified and structured my thoughts about what it means to be a partner.

[@nimrasaif5622]

Such an intelligent conversation on relationships! Enlightening and inspiring🙌🏼

[@zaraan.]

The best thing i heard in this conversation is (girls have to figure out their path - to make themselves stable then to jump to the relationships) ✨

[@naziakanwal6644]

Such a mature conversation. I so wanted to heard this.

[@mahnoorzafar2562]

Your podcast can literally change one's thoughts about these topics. You both are so so so much thoughtful MASHA ALLAH

[@wajeehamujeeb127]

This is the first time that i have seen a mature approach to a healthy relationship in our society. You are doing great work. Keep it up.

[@hafsafarooq7234]

Both of you have such a nice perspective Masha'Allah 💜 Sab se best part tha jab ap dono ne apne experience share kiye ke kab kab ham ne aik dusry ko apne passion ko pursue karnay ke liye support kiya...and money doesn't define one's status. Out of all your podcasts i have ever listened, this one is my favorite. Keep it up.❤️

[@uroojusmani5697]

This was such an excellent conversation. Wish this was more attainable reality for most women here -which unfortunately it isn't but regardless great conversation.

[@FATAEDUCATIONALINFORMATION]

Always admired this man. His speaking skills, the way he discuss things. The positive ways. I am from Waziristan, I am final year Chemical engineer but I love to be in media, acting n dramas but things are hard😑😑😑

[@maheengul6702]

Loved every aspect of this podcast. I'm glad that minds like you guys exist in our society. Kudos to you both.

[@ayeshakanwal2239]

They are so maturely discussing every aspect of how society has evolved over time and they have explained in the best way how stereotypical gender roles have been created and grown

[@nfk971]

Really obsessed with Humna and Muzammil. Thank u guys for upto the mark Pakistani content. Stay blessed

[@ahmmok6914]

Such a mature conversation, you both are so understanding and look great together. Our society needs to see such great videos and understand such cruicial and beautiful relationship a marriage has to offer. Stay Blessed and Happy together.

[@mahiramajid897]

Firstly, congratulations on finding like minded partners among the both of you. Aisa buhat kum hota hai. These are literally my way of thinking and I thought I am the odd one out but it was otherwise. Thankyou so much for this! So I can share this instead of trying to figure out proper wordings to explain my thoughts! Wonderfully explained. Not a fan of podcast but wow this kept me listening. MashaAllah Allah paak ap dono ki joori (partnership) humesha salamat rakhay. And YES MORE LIKE THESE PLEASE!

[@aestheticslover6416]

You are way ahead of your time. Kudos to you for doing this podcast.

[@sanatariqkhan]

Amazing podcast!

[@TBTGO]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@muhammadsiddiqui2244]

@@TBTGO I am glad to see my first ever seen reply from Muzammil Hassan.

[@azfar400]

Waooo most controversial and difficult questions and genuine isssues with behtreen art of interview , muzamil hassan jyeen !

[@XTRRYUK]

@@muhammadsiddiqui2244 THE FIRST PERSON THAT WE SEE MUZAMIL TO REPLY IS A GIRL NOW HUMNA WILL BE SO ANGRY 😂

[@muhammadsiddiqui2244]

@@XTRRYUK No issues, She also have a podcast, you know...."equal partners"....

[@maryamayub1168]

Great topic that we all need. 👍

[@ayeshashakeel4047]

This was a great one. We want a podcast on educational system of Pakistan especially university level and hype of certain universities like LUMS as compared to other many universities.

[@hafsakaleem3783]

Idk if this topic is discussed in any podcast or not, but if not, so you guys must discuss the issue of CASTE. I belong to the middle class family where usually middle class parents don't want to let their children marry if they are doing PASAND KI SHADI and belongs to DIFFERENT CASTE. This discrimination should end now. PASAND KI SHADI and DIFFERENT CASTE doesn't let your IZZAT down. Everyone is same. Parents then don't give right to the GIRL CHILD especially. Parents should understand k wo olad par haq rakhte hain lekin milkiyat nahi hoti. Larki ko daba kr us shaks se bandh dya jata ha jske sath usne dreams dekhe nahi they kabhi, wo apna burhapa non-fav bande k sath guzar rahi. And IT'S KABIRA GUNAH of parents do this. Recently started following you and podcasts are great. Talk on this issue too

[@ummeabdullah6865]

بہت اچھی بات چیت کی گئی ہے۔ ایسے موضوعات پر گفتگو کم لوگ کرتے ہیں۔

[@shutup5327]

One for "Friendships" too.

[@sidrahussain6408]

This is the kind of conversation i would love to have with my partner ❤️ Thanks for bringing this up!!

[@TBTGO]

Any time!

[@sanashappycorner5416]

If there is one podcast that I can hear repeatedly, it is This one. Absolutely love the whole conversation 💕💯

[@syedabdulrahman]

really loved it. this is my first time commenting on any youtube video but i couldn't resist to tell you how i liked it and how much it is beneficial for me and my partner to hear this conversation. thank you so much brother ❤ p.s I really loved this type of style and this conversation where i felt like my thoughts were being represented instead of those generalized view we all get to see. I really do wish and hope this style of conversation to get normalised where we get to see this general view rather than extreme cases.

[@farahshahab2045]

Loved hearing you both. Looking forward to listening to such intellectual conversations in future as well.

[@sanafatima7398]

Amazing podcast Allah pak ap dono ko hamesha ik sath khush rakhe u both deserved easch other n u earned this respect Best of luck

[@maryamzahid232]

I just stopped half way through your podcast to comment. You will be an amazing father. I just cried when she mentioned you want to take time off for your kids. This is so so important. I think i cried because i didn’t get this from my own father. Thankyou for talking about this. (This is my first ever comment on any channel)

[@Kireniimran]

excellent topic, well done you guys! Totally agree with the concepts. Lack of communication & competition truly damages relationships.

[@syedsohaib2285]

YES! Muzamil bhai want more episode like this..

[@Fatima-rs6bv]

i thought I'd just listen for 10 minutes but i physically cannot leave this!! you guys are amazing

[@nyrmilnanji5045]

This was so informative! Topics like these need t be discussed more. Thank you for being consistent. Really like all of your podcasts 😇

[@zillerahim1139]

I wish our generation makes more couples like these and then they raise a generation which will define us!!!! Kudos to both of you! Got so much of what to do and what not to do in a relationship. I hope and pray, that I find a life partner who has the same thinking and we grow together as a team. Not competitors. ✌️

[@ahmedarab9545]

Great conversation, would want Muzamil to give the guy's perspective and himself as an individual for all of the discussion (makes it more fruitful with both narratives/perspectives)

[@mahhrook]

I love you guys! Please never stop making these! Young generation needs answers !

[@Farhanparacha]

Don't know why but listening to this makes me feel that I'm old already 😪

[@salman8562]

same yar, adulthood seems too much work. I don't see myself doing that. I will graduate in 1.5 year but I still don't know what will happen? will I be a good successful person or not?

[@Farhanparacha]

@@salman8562 you will be, for sure. These feelings are always temporary.

[@Platyhelmenthis]

@@salman8562 let me tell you one thing success doesn’t matter the only thing that matters is hard work and happiness

[@Platyhelmenthis]

@@salman8562 happiness is the only thing that you need to live

[@numaniqbal2261]

Thanks for this podcast

[@candiesandcats2975]

The whole world needs to listen to this podcast tbh

[@AhsanAli-gg7tk]

great podcast, people afraid of talking about this publically

[@AhsanAli-gg7tk]

If I say anything from this podcast to my parent, first they will not understand, and if they do. they are gonna beat my a**.

[@uliyafatima5599]

I want my parents to listen to this conversation

[@Hashashin_420]

Send them the link bro

[@rameenali_]

Then make them watch it. Send it to them or just play it on the tv randomly jab wo bethay hon. Or just tell them ke I watched this video and I think you’ll like it. But please do:)

[@TheFirzoknadeem1]

If only more women were like Humna or her friends.

[@madihariaz6]

This is the most thoughtful conversation i have ever heard. This perspective should be prevailed. I pray and hope we change our mindsets.

[@mariyumamjad5251]

Loved the whole discussion. You guys spoke sense. Kudos !

[@anooptahir]

Muzamil and Humna the conversations you two have are so thoughtful and at the same time thought-provoking. I have listened to it twice and yes I would be looking forward to such more conversations from you two. We general awaam is so often times confused and get to listen too many horror stories that happen on the extreme side and quote them as examples before taking a step as a result we make mistakes living the intermediate life. We really need to listen to such general conversations to break the bubble of fantasy and idealistic lives. As you said during the podcast you wanted to take the conversation to the other side so please do an episode on that. I agree with you that men/boys these days want a partner who is equal to them, independent and can have conversations with but at the same time are confused as well. They know what they want but they give in to what their parents pick for them and as a result the marriages don't work out. Or they marry the one they chose but later it hits them marriage was not what they wanted. I would want you to have a discussion on how must men be educated as well before they tie the knot.

[@shoaibkahut]

My favorite couple from Islamabad. May *ALLAH* bless you more! Greetings from *China*. referring this podcast to young girls in my family. A lot to learn from it .

[@sanajafar3339]

These types of conversations are goals. Thank you so much for this.

[@TBTGO]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@TOWTRL]

Such a great session. Lovely listening to you guys. Such a strong, positive and a progressive couple MA. More power to you both and to the many with similar ideals and visions!

[@mrellahi]

Such a thought provoking episode. Yes we want more episodes with Humna. Looking forward to it. MayAllah bless you both

[@iqrafarooq618]

Best discussion ever on respective rights of men and women in marriage.👏👏

[@rayyanzeps3776]

First off i'll start with how good u both portrayed both the concepts of the society, relationships and things around it plus how politely you guys are giving a great message through this perfect piece of podcast, The thought behind the particular steriotype, its consequences plus on the other hand what is the right thing to do and what mentality do the couples (either they are married or are going to be ) should have . i hope people are very much inspired from your thoughts and how you can push yourself to betterment in relationships and other aspects of the society , atleast i am :) .Plus I hope to remember the things you pointed out to build a healthy relationship in all the aspects when i am getting tied into this beautiful knot. This is for all of your podcasts regarding building a healthy relationship , mentality growth ones and others, i hope you both carry this podcasts and both of your channels always, i love to see you guys happy and prospering (mashallah). you both are doing a great work ,keep it up Love you both Muzammil Hasan and Hamna Raza.

[@JunaidSalehHayat]

As Muslims, we are not "free", we are slaves of Allah, we follow his Command on all matters!

[@aminamanahil4738]

I love the way you guys approached this topic ... I think its really important for out generation to normalize talking about relationships and to figure out how partnership in a relationship works... Than you so much for this,i would love to hear more about the topic