It's Wedding Shaming O'Clock - COMPILATION

It's Wedding Shaming O'Clock - COMPILATION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel, we’ve got something extra special - a COMPILATION of my best videos and most iconic moments! 🎉 Get ready to laugh, cringe, and roll your eyes with me as we revisit some of the funniest reactions, savage clapbacks, and all the juicy drama. If you're a fan of entitled people, petty revenge, wedding fails, or just love a good roast - you're in the right place!
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[@suship1667]

As an Asian women familiar with arranged marriages, learning about a surprise wedding where even the bride didn’t know but her entire family did has me absolutely floored. Like, woah, you all really managed to outdo our drama. Even we let the bride know she is getting married eventually 😂😂

[@ThoughtfulPotato]

As an Indian, I feel this!!

[@dhanakbhat3626]

Lol 😂😂 As an Asian(Indian) wedding is not a surprise for us but how the groom/bride turns out to be is definitely a surprise 😂

[@Crypt0c_unt]

LMAOOO THIS SENT ME like I’m watching on my TV and I had to grab my phone just to comment lol like yall over here like ”well sh!t we at the very least still let her know she’s gonna get married before the wedding like damn” 😂😭😭😭😂😁👀💁🏼‍♀️ commented from a southern American (from Arkansas, moved to Las Vegas, NV)

[@deanna_8764]

Lmao the, EVENTUALLY. 😂😂😂😂

[@Jsawyer1974]

Arranged marriage 😳 run

[@nadiayakan9264]

I have heard of surprise weddings for the guests, like the Bride & Groom invited everyone to an engagement party but it was actually a surprise wedding. BUT a surprise wedding when one partner has NO IDEA is BEYOND DELULU. They weren’t even engaged first off, and then to throw it back at her to blame her is CRAY CRAY

[@CeeCee1999]

My father was a double amputee and in a wheelchair before he passed away. There was never a question of who would've walked me down the aisle. If the venue could not have accommodated his needs, I would not have gotten married there. If need be, I would've rolled HIM down the aisle in my wedding dress! I'm sad that he never got the opportunity, but whenever I do get married, he will be a part of it, no matter what. I'm glad OP came to her senses. I hope she never questions it again.

[@burntmarvmallow141]

I understand you honoring YOUR Dad at YOUR wedding. But why do you need to honor your Dad at SOMEONE ELSES wedding? Unless the person had a significant meaning to the bride or groom it should have nothing to do with the wedding.

[@jasperolsen6723]

​@burntmarvmallow141 the parent comment is about the wheelchair story halfway through "AITA for not wanting my dad to walk me down the aisle in a wheelchair", nothing about someone else's wedding.

[@CeeCee1999]

@@burntmarvmallow141 I wasn't referring to that story. That girl wanted to wear purple at someone else's wedding to honor her mother. Either you didn't watch the whole video or you didn't read my whole comment.

[@CeeCee1999]

@@jasperolsen6723 Thank you! I didn't think that my comment could have gotten the story I was referring to confused with another but I guess I was wrong.

[@jasperolsen6723]

@CeeCee1999 your comment was very clear, I'm not sure what happened. Maybe the other commenter replied to yours before they had gotten to that point in the video.

[@LoneGooseFromMagentaPlains]

To the girl who didn’t want her dad to walk her down the aisle because he was in a wheelchair, be grateful he’s even alive. I lost my dad earlier this month and am devastated my dad won’t be there to walk me down the aisle. We had a rocky relationship and am sad he’s not longer around for us to fix that. Be glad your dad is still alive.

[@BuckyBigs]

So sorry for your loss, I hope you and your family are okay, you’re amazing and I hope you can get through this difficult time gorgeous ❤

[@porkchop0420]

A wedding isn’t like a birthday party, it can’t be a surprise.

[@Mama_Bear524]

Yes!!!

[@MariaBareiss]

Yes, because birthday parties don't involve legal contracts!

[@teacupmagick7030]

Not unless it's agreed upon beforehand by the couple together - like surprising family and friends that you're getting married at a party that the couple pre-planned together.

[@justme-rz1kx]

As mother of the groom, I got his brides approval of my dress for the rehearsal dinner and the wedding. There was no way I was going to upset her on their big day. Guess what happened; we're friends now, and I get to be a huge part of their little families' daily lives.❤

[@arbonneladyTN]

She is a blessed young lady!!! I had the Monster-in-law…. But it taught me how to be… a great Mother-in-love!! Two of our 4 kids are married. Both kids married really good people! They call me the mother-in-love, they are my daughter-in-love & son-in-love. They know I’m there if they need me, I won’t interfere with their marriage, I don’t listen to their bad mouth/ gossip etc about each other. We have been blessed with our first grandbaby in June, and I know our daughter-in-love trusts that I will do what she requested of me in taking care that sweet baby girl. They are really good loving parents too. You my dear are blessed too!

[@shawnycoffman]

It's amazing what a little kindness and consideration will do, right? Good for you!

[@MrsMuppet]

Oh my god. I’ve been married for a decade and just realised why my MIL kept showing me dress options for our wedding and asking what I thought! I thought she was just looking forward to getting dressed up 😅

[@timefoolery]

Good for you! I’d never try to make someone else’s day about me. I had my wedding the way I wanted it, so why should I try to run someone else’s show??

[@FranKenny-p6i]

Same here! My lovely daughter in law was kindness itself when I bought a pink and black dress and jacket as mother of the groom. She had chosen a pink dress to wear herself and assured me that my choice was fine. I put the outfit into my wardrobe and bought a different dress! It was their day and not mine. We have a close friendship and am an important part of their lives. I love them all unreservedly. I think it’s called respectful and grown up behaviour.❤

[@ChinchillaQueen]

There was a solution to the purple issue. Wear jewelry with purple. Simple. Mom is honored. Bride and grooms wishes are honored

[@kweenz109]

You can't reason with a crazy person though. Doesn't matter what the bride suggested, she would have disrespected her regardless.

[@SybilKirk-r9y]

This is what I was thinking ask to wear a brooch or something with purple in it.

[@AliceNsWonderland]

I'd have suggested she change into the purple dress after photos & ceremony

[@glittermama]

That's exactly what I thought.

[@crimsonfirelily]

I thought that, also. Or even another piece of jewelry or something. ✌️

[@judeisthatdude]

IM GETTING MARRIED TOMORROW!! Thank you Charlotte for making me laugh and helping me bear my own wedding drama 😂❤🥹🥰

[@Lunashadow-qn3ms]

Congratulations

[@christinagowan8116]

Congratulations

[@aerisvulkan2538]

Congratulations✨

[@mihaelaandronache5492]

Congratulations 🎉

[@KCohere33]

Ooh congrats and good luck! Maybe you’ll be in a compilation of beautiful weddings 😊

[@TiRising]

My dad surprised his current wife with a wedding. It was very sweet. A small ceremony in Mexico that he hid behind a vacation. Had my aunts take her to get her nails and hair done under the disguise of them getting all dolled up for dinner... and then they brought her to the beach and wowza. Honestly didn't think my dad was romantic at all but it was super adorable. The marriage doesn't transfer to Canada where we live so they still get to get married here more traditionally too

[@jacklow9611]

Why wouldn't it transfer to Canada, as long as it's a legal marriage?

[@shelleyg1836]

@@jacklow9611 because canada has laws regarding marriages outside of the country. u have to redo the wedding in canada to make it legal with a marriage license from here not the country of wedding.

[@TheIndigo1child]

Nah, that's not sweet at all. I would be pissed at everyone involved. It almost feels like a peer pressure into marriage. Well if I arrange it all behind her back and trick her to the alter she will be much more likely to go through with the marriage. Kinda like public proposals. Plenty of women say yes in the moment out of social pressure not to ruin the "surprise". Tricking someone to their own wedding will never be sweet in my opinion.

[@ResidentMilf]

​@@TheIndigo1childThat's your personal opinion, there are people out there who would love a surprise wedding. As long as you know your SO well enough to know if they would like that, and you have discussed marriage beforehand and know they're generally on board (both with marriage and with marrying YOU), it's not inherently manipulative. Plus, just because someone threw you a surprise wedding doesn't mean you're obligated to marry them. In your case specifically, that would be grounds for a breakup because your potential partner doesn't know you well enough to know you wouldn't like that, and if marriage had been discussed beforehand (s)he would know that. No sane person would judge you for that.

[@Just_a_girl_in_the_world]

@@TheIndigo1childdepends, this comment poster didn't mention whether they were already engaged or not. Also everyone is different. Some people love to be in control some people are more easy going. I for one wouldn't mind. My hubby has great taste and he knows me so i would be fine. The fact this man in this comment made sure she had her hair makeup and nails done was great.

[@emilysmith7788]

No way on god's earth I'd treat my father like that! The thought of it makes me cry!

[@bbnerdz]

How did NO ONE say maybe a SURPRISE WEDDING is NOT a good idea?

[@CreditR01]

Mark's family are probably all as delulu as he is.

[@PastryChick]

My uncle surprised my aunt with a wedding a couple of years ago. The difference with that one was that: 1) they were already engaged 2) it was at their engagement party, and after giving a heartfelt speech about how he couldn’t wait for her to be his wife, he asked her if she would like to get married right then and there 3) he made sure to have everything and everyone that he knew she would love there 4) they discussed wedding plans before and she said she didn’t really care what kind of wedding they had as long as it ended with them being husband and wife.

[@Farsight453]

2 words ... open bar

[@mikeydoodle143]

This OP wants control.😂 i saw a celebrity surprise wedding so i am biased and pro surprise wedding if you know you are inlove with each other.😂😂😂

[@bafflingbookish]

I have seen a surprise wedding go well but it was with a couple that had been previously engaged and they had already FULLY planned the wedding, but it was canceled due to covid. The bride was so upset, but accepted it, and the groom planned a surprise, close-circle wedding where they had the ceremony in a park and then an extremely small 'reception' at a friend's house, incorporating several things they'd originally planned. They were masked and distanced where appropriate since it was still the height of the pandemic, and they streamed it to friends and family that couldn't come. It was lovely. That being said, AWFUL idea in 99% of cases. It only worked because the couple knew each other's wishes to the T and they'd already planned a wedding previously.

[@terricombs]

I love these wedding compilations leading up to her and Mike's big day!

[@OfPeaceMind]

A compilation posted 10 minutes ago when I’m about to start cleaning??? The potato queen has truly blessed me today 😍 Update: went too hard on cleaning and my vacuum broke 🥲

[@shenitawhatley2132]

I know right?!? I immediately got motivated to get up and move when I saw she had posted!

[@16melissaa]

Lol! Yes 🙌🏽

[@LizDizzyOfficial]

Literallyyyy 😂🎉❤

[@adrianlong2498]

Right I had my headphones in shampooing my carpet

[@Amaryllis-4U]

Go hard or go home! (To a clean one at that 😁)

[@XenusMama]

Had a co worker (f40) whose mother died after 2 or 3 looooong illnesses including breast cancer and leukemia. When her mother died she was inconsolable…. For years . Her big thing was that “ my mommy promised she’d never die” after 2 years of her crying about her mother’s broken promise…. We started getting a bit less supportive.. it was a large dr’s office / surgical center we couldn’t continue to pass on our work to console her. . She was a drinker .. wouldn’t go to rehab , wouldn’t go to a grief counselor…. But she’d do the blubber /cry every single day about how Her mother was never supposed to die . It was terrible for everyone . Unfortunately she died about 5 years after her mother did … I don’t know if it was a broken heart ( they had an oddly convoluted relationship … the mother acted like the bride at the daughters wedding , she was dressed like the maid of honor in pics … no idea if she was .) But we all hoped she was finally at peace.

[@dluvscupcakes]

That’s incredibly sad … for so many reasons 😢 I understand the desire to promise your child that you’ll never die or leave them, but I feel that does more harm than good, because you cannot keep that promise. The daughter sounded almost like she was stuck in younger developmental stage. Heartbreaking all around 💔

[@moniqueengleman873]

My mother passed 10 days after my father, from broken heart syndrome

[@CreditR01]

I remember the Anna story. I feel bad for her losing her mom but putting her grief at the forefront of her friend's wedding is selfish. Then she made it worse by showing up and making an absolute fool of herself. I hope OP doesn't talk to her anymore.

[@erikarussell1142]

I hope Anna got the grief counseling she clearly needs and deserves.

[@binxbear103111]

Honestly just let her wear the damn dress. Losing someone is hard. It was part of her grieving. The bride is selfish

[@CassetticonTune]

​@binxbear103111 I'm sure the bride would have if Anna was a guest and not a bridesmaid. Anna could've easily stepped down too if the color of her dress was that important.

[@sanzas4834]

Anna was being weird and disrespectful. She could wear purple every dam day but 1 day for her friend whose supported her is selfish.

[@SybilKirk-r9y]

​@sanzas4834 she wasn't being wried she was grieving. The bride should have asked her to step down when she saw the signs she's at as much fault as poor Anna is if you ask me. She saw her friend was going through something and didn't step in and say alright way don't you just step down for this one. That way Anna could have worn her purple dress and no one would have said anything. But yet Bride ignored the signs and kept her in the wedding.

[@ifynwamma]

I can never understand why people think that a wedding is a great place for reuniting estranged family. Bride contract: Why would anyone agree to that supid contract? @charlotte, I agree that wedding planning is stressful, but it is the stress you CHOSE, and it is not an excuse to be an AH.

[@jgw5491]

A "contract" is a legal agreement two parties sign so both parties get something out of it. Like for instance, you sign a contract to pay a certain amount for certain specific work like putting in a patio. What do the bridesmaids get out of such an agreement?

[@suburbanmama0062]

​@@jgw5491 They get the honor of being in the wedding. I don't understand it, but that seems to be the thought process.

[@jgw5491]

@@suburbanmama0062 It's a mystery. 🤔

[@neomicampbell6182]

The best part about planning our own wedding is one day telling the story and light up like a Christmas tree. That feeling is priceless ❤❤❤❤

[@MrsWellner]

I've been married almost 14 years and I still reminisce.

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

If the fiance thought she would lime having no say whatsoever in.planning her own wedding, he doesn't really know her!!

[@arbonneladyTN]

And remembering all the crazy stories before/during/after the wedding itself!! Oh we have some super funny stories!!! Still married after 44 years!❤️ (Wow we sound old😂but we aren’t 😉)

[@heidiullrich966]

These wedding videos never get old! Listening to or reading about the wild things some people do is my not so secret guilty pleasure. 🤣

[@Eddysig]

"her body was so fat, she ruined EVERYTHING" will always be one of my favorite Charlotte bridezilla impressions lmao so funny and accurate how those ppl sound

[@jamiedahlstrom752]

It's funny, yes, but it is also very sad that this is what our society has become .

[@fiyrewalker]

My wife and I went to the justice of the peace. We had Walmart chicken and rolls with store bought potato salad and sparkling cider for a makeshift reception. We have been married 26 years and couldn't be more happy that I married this woman. She is quite seriously my better half. We are one.

[@MariaBareiss]

Been married over 30 years, and I'm here to say that the MARRIAGE is the really important part! Congrats to you and yours!

[@ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod]

As long as both people are happy on that day, no matter where or how much is spent, then you come out on top. But, if one isn't happy, back to the drawing board.

[@fiyrewalker]

@ChildOfTheOneTrueAlmightyGod I have only tried the marriage thing once, but I have a theory based on all these stories and such. Figuring out what is and isn't acceptable is the simplest issue a marriage has. If you can't figure that out and compromise? Then this particular couple probably won't work out long term anyway. My explanation? If there is something one wants bad enough to risk the marriage? It better be big and values and morals related. If the partner is willing to risk the marriage to say no? The same is true for them, except that means that they have very strong clashing values or morals. If it sparks up at the wedding, it will come up again, and if it is about the kid or family, it will be a stronger fight. See that it was found before marriage and start healing and move on now.

[@crazybiogeek]

Like Charlotte said, there's a difference between a frugal wedding between two people whose goal is to be happy together and a trashy wedding between people who aren't meant to be married in the first place. (And probably a third category of people who have a trashy wedding but are dysfunctional enough together that they end up sticking together. Like the Simpsons. lol)

[@deliafun3315]

Omg..the purple with under the sea...lol...Ursula? I mean gaston now ursula?

[@caljones]

🤣

[@aerisvulkan2538]

I guess she kinda was going with the theme lol

[@XenusMama]

Ursula was my 1st thought…..

[@MariaBareiss]

😂😂😂

[@griffinberger]

Great Gaston song!

[@erikarussell1142]

As an autistic person, absolutely not. I do not expect people to “ step on eggshells “ around me. And actually seems pretty hurtful for someone to say. Especially when people with disabilities do not want you to act different or treat them any different. If any of my friends or family ever said anything like this to me, I’d make their lives 100% easier by removing myself from their lives. The last thing anyone wants, is to feel like they are “too much” for anyone. No one wants to be an obligation or a burden.

[@Kellyannbucchere]

Don’t think it has anything to do with having autism, I can’t think of anyone who would be happy with a surprise wedding.

[@XAutumnXFlowerX]

I've literally been broken up with after 2 years because he decided I was "too much" to care for. I believe his words were "I can't even take care of a dog how do you expect me to care for you"... he got rid of that dog in a week and still stayed for a year.... it took him a year to come to that conclusion. Also has a kid now... sure that's easier than a dog 😂 such a waste of time please break up with me sooner

[@erikarussell1142]

@@Kellyannbucchere no. Absolutely not. Lol

[@erikarussell1142]

@@XAutumnXFlowerX like you’re an animal. Perfect. Lol well it sounds like you dodged a bullet train.

[@gailbalongue661]

When my late husband proposed, we discussed wedding dates. He wanted May 7th. I asked why May 7th. He told me, "Pearl Harbor Day." I reminded him that Pearl Harbor Day was December 7th. He replied, "Yeah, I know, but if I forget an anniversary, there's going to be war." I miss that man.❤❤❤

[@MrsWellner]

Love that for you, bestie.

[@wandRng]

Aw, that the sweetest, yall are adorable, rest in peace, Sir.

[@arbonneladyTN]

So cute! When we married we picked the 15th… it was a Holy day (Catholic)…. And his Navy Payday😂 44 years this Aug!

[@Branwhin]

I met my (now ex, but friend nonetheless) husband on the Ides of March - March 15. It is a pleasant day for me.

[@debbysouthworth5606]

That was totally hysterical male logic. I love that for you.❤❤

[@LeeLooDallas1313]

These videos keep me going in CA, where my neighborhood is safe, but houses around me are burned down. 💯 Last week I fell & broke a couple bones in my orbital area, as well as my arm. It’s been a crazy month. Thank You, Charlotte!! “Doing the Lord’s Work” 😉, by helping me cope with entertainment. Blessed Be! ❤

[@erikarussell1142]

I’m Praying for Everyone Including you bestie. Get better. I’m praying everyone is safe, has great insurance, and nothing of value (including pets children and people) were lost. Ca is my home state. It breaks My absolute heart that it’s burning.

[@user-qo3jh9mn1t]

Happy you're okay. I live in the northern California fire zone. Thank goodness you didn't have to evacuate with all you have going on.

[@s.v.2796]

I'm so sorry. I have friends and relatives who lost homes or were in neighborhoods where they had to be evacuated. It's terrifying. And then you fell ... 😢❤❤ Best wishes towards the future.

[@lifewuzonceezr]

😮oh my sending strength

[@arbonneladyTN]

Prayers for healing coming to you🙏🏼

[@amandahill7540]

No no no no, I would hate a surprise wedding. A wedding should never be a surprise on the couple getting married

[@jaykaptain6602]

Last i checked, weddings is about the groom and the bride, i would have walked away if my boyfriend surprised me with a wedding

[@fiyrewalker]

About the purple dress. People holding the mourning person accountable to the social norms of a wedding actually help her cope with the loss of her mom. Single-minded clinging to symbols of her mom is not healthy. Sure a small symbol is to be expected and totally acceptable, such as a bracelet or necklace. Even the shoes. But to attempt to make symbol so large as the dress that stands out more than the wedding dress at a wedding is several steps too far. It is like she is trying to make another person's wedding about her mom. Or worse, herself with her lost mom as an excuse to do it. Holding he accountable and making her stick to social norms is absolutely acceptable, and I would say it is necessary for her mental health.

[@raquellofstedt9713]

Agreed. The bridesmaid sounds as if she needs therapy with a focus on how to move further. She has gotten stuck, poor woman.

[@YokosAnimeReactions]

Thank you so much for making this compilation. I've been trying to remember which video had the Gaston reference and I couldn't remember it to save my life. So now I get to watch it again and sing along with the craziness. Now if only I could find the video where she was reading twitter stuff and the Avengers popped up as brands on twitter.

[@sylviahartman3760]

Re. the purple bridesmaid dress I was just a guest at my niece’s wedding….absolutely nothing more than a gofer for my favorite family member. I asked about colors and sent a photo of the dress I chose to her to make sure it was appropriate and not too “fancy” because I was afraid it might be. It’s all about the bride’s vision, quit being extra about someone else’s wedding! When in doubt send a pic and honor what the bride wants. (Within sanity of course lol) My niece was so happy I took the time. Her mom and other aunt who never speak to her didn’t and look ridiculous in the pics, best party of my life!!! ROTFLMFAO!!!

[@Joanie-cu7wr]

My sister's wedding we had purple bridesmaids dresses.

[@yarnovah]

⁠@@Joanie-cu7wr So, if a bridesmaid wanted to wear aqua or coral (sea themed colors wanted by the bride in the story) instead of the purple wanted by your sister, would that have been acceptable? The issue wasn’t the color. Purple is a fine color for a bridesmaid if it’s the bride’s choice, or if the bride approved.

[@rhea8640]

I've been watching you for years, my favorite is how you put your face on all the images 😂❤ here's to many more years🎉

[@fiyrewalker]

My wife hates being the center of attention. She likes surprises that are not public. She hates to be excluded from big decisions. In this scenario? She would loudly and publicly say, "Excuse me, everyone. Excuse me." As if this was all part of the deal. Adding, "If William knew me well enough to marry me? He would have known that this was a very bad idea. Thank you all for coming and showing your support. You are welcome to stay for whatever he has planned, but I will not be and must retreat. You all enjoy, and I will see those in my family when I can. Goodnight." She would then promptly leave in a very swift and efficient manner. Then again, her family and friends would have made it clear to me, too, that this is a bad idea. Just saying.

[@caljones]

I agree with your wife lol

[@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145]

hahahaha and from what I gather, you would have listened to their advice!

[@lizlovessushi]

I stepped down from a wedding party after my mom passed away, when my first born was 4 months old, because it was too much for me to prioritize my friend while grieving and managing being a mom for the first time without MY mom. It ruined our friendship. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I'll never agree to be a braidsmaid again.

[@AMouseDani]

I’m sorry it ruined your friendship. You were grieving and a newly first time mom. You get a pass. A better friend would have been understanding and supportive. I hope you’re doing well now. ❤

[@arbonneladyTN]

I’m so sorry. Very sad that she was not a true friend. I was married about 10 months when my mother died. I didn’t have any kids yet, I still could not have been in a wedding during that time. My true friend who was getting married never expected me to be in her wedding 3 months later. A true friend would be by your side to this day.

[@dluvscupcakes]

I hope you understand now that a true friend would not have let that ruin your friendship. My heart goes out to you for the loss of your mother and for any hurt you may feel at the end of the friendship 🫶🏾

[@colleenosullivan857]

The fiancés heart was in the right place. He family obviously encouraged this and didn’t think about op. They were the selfish ones. I think Gaston showed very bad judgement but knew she wanted to get married but was clueless about how important planning a wedding is to most brides

[@krab1791]

On the “Gaining weight”: My sister was pregnant when we went dress shopping except she didnt tell anyone. So of course when her dress came in it didnt fit. If she had told me at the time we ordered the dress, we could have ordered a larger dress. It caused a major scramble to figure out how to get her dress altered (we needed additional fabric to add panels). So while I didnt put it in a contract, I think it is reasonable to expect that you will be notified of a large amount of weight gain after the bridesmaid dresses are ordered.

[@Joolzxox]

An unexpected pregnancy after shopping is one thing but to order the dress when she already knew is crazy, it would have been so simple to order a dress that would accommodate the bump and saved all that hassle

[@yorurei4047]

I don't think its the siblings that want to come but the mom wants them there

[@mikerhodes8454]

I had a friend whose MIL threw her a surprise wedding when she got back from her honeymoon because her MIL didn't approve of the venue and style of the original wedding and thought it should have been a large ceremony in a church (my friend is not religious in any way). She and her husband both walked out of the ceremony once they realized what it was, got in their car, and left.

[@MissMonicaJ]

What kind of lunatic MIL does that? Yikes!

[@fiyrewalker]

The only person the bride must compromise with on her wedding day is her groom. Most of the time he just wants her to get what she wants.

[@G_Blatt]

The surprise marriage story: 1. Not a romantic gesture but a control move. 2. Why did her family go along with this?

[@CubanMelanin]

6:21 not me singing along 😭 LOUDLY 🤣

[@alisong2328]

If I ever saw a bridesmaid contract like that I would take a red marker and write Ha Ha Ha across it, take a photo of it, and send it back to the bride. 👰🏻‍♀️😂

[@caljones]

And then I’d probably never see the bride again lol

[@XenusMama]

How about sending a contract to the bride with your expectations as bridesmaid ? To avoid the bridezilla component … lol. Can you imagine that particular bride’s reaction !??

[@Jacoe413]

26:57 100% HUGELY. Your dad can't help that he was injured. He's been through hell. Your complaining makes you seem extremely cold and vain.

[@alisonredmiles6372]

Fun fact for the last one: white wedding dresses were popularized by Queen Victoria. In the mid-late 1800s. Before then you just wore your nicest dress to your wedding, and if you were wealthy and could have one made for your wedding, it was in whatever color you preferred. The idea of “purity” being associated with a white wedding dress is in direct correlation to the severe separation of gender roles and the puritan nature of them as they developed out of the nuclear family era of the mid 20th century.

[@jacklow9611]

A bride wearing white to say she's pure began long before the mid 20th Century. It just became a bit more entrenched at that time.

[@MrsWellner]

​@@jacklow96111800s is 100 years before the 20th century. You're just repeating what she all ready said.

[@jamiedahlstrom752]

I find it funny that you say this because my wedding dress literally came from DEB, and it was actually considered a prom dress. My daughter's dress came from David's Bridal, she was 7 years old and had a nicer dress than me LOL. However. we did at least, have matching tiaras

[@MomOfThree_333]

She's planning a wedding of course she doing long videos of old video she is BUSY!!! LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE 😍

[@aerisvulkan2538]

Charlotte, you probably wont see this but as someone who has been around "less than formidable people" for a while, these videos have helped me realize what I want and need in a partner and that I dont have to put up with stuff I dont need to. Potato Queen or bust✨

[@terraora4157]

Nothing like a cup of tea and Charlotte in the morning yay!!!

[@jowilliams2323]

Wear the purple to your own wedding! Purple is my favorite color, and if I ever get married again, my theme color will be purple w/silver.

[@suvashree100]

Same.. 😂😂😂 purple 💜💜💜

[@Crypt0c_unt]

25:15 the fact you guys included the clip of Charlotte getting the gavel in this compilation lmao just made me lol like dang y’all making sure SURE we know this shit old as hell😂

[@griffinberger]

The song was particularly well done! Not an everyday thing, but I loved this one!

[@TheKnelson77]

New fear unlocked: surprise wedding 😳 Who are these family members/friends who went along with it??? My parents would never! They dropped the ball 💯

[@angel10691]

For half my life I always saw this one lady at all our family get togethers. When my wedding came around, I only wanted people that I was very close to and trusted; people who knew me and loved me well. Well, my tía (aunt) told her she’d get her an invite to my wedding. My mom (who was giving out the invites) explained to my tía, “If it were my wedding, I’d give her one but it’s not. It’s my daughter’s wedding and she only wants people she’s close to and have supported her.” My tía had to take back what she said to the lady. Now that lady doesn’t like my mom! My mom doesn’t care lol. The funny thing is, in all the years that I’ve seen her at our extended family’s parties, I’ve never known her affiliation to us. I don’t know her name or even what her voice sounds like. I’ve never had a conversation with her or ever remember being introduced to her. She has never approached me. Weird.

[@XenusMama]

Omg!! This is Great!! Thank you Potato Queen!! And her potato consort.

[@susiesunshine43]

Ahahaha, I loved the Gaston song the comment section created and I love when you sing😂😂❤❤

[@gl15col]

A "surprise wedding" is a power play, like proposing to someone in a really public way with people looking on. That's a way to force you to do what he wants with pressure from other people. Not good, make it clear why you didn't like it. If he won't admit it was a mistake and let you take things at your own pace RUN don't walk. That list was not something a friend would write for friends who are helping her celebrate her day. It's something a corporation would write for temporary employees. No way, Jose. Enjoy your big day with everyone but me, nutcase.

[@sandrahollinshead8713]

I wouldn’t want a surprise wedding. Half the excitement is doing the planning.

[@lenasamzelius5530]

I doubt that the mother of "Color Purple Anna" would feel honored by her daughter's behavior... it probably doesn't matter how much the mom loved purple, she still wouldn't want her daughter to stand out like a sore thumb at her friend's wedding. Poor Anna needs help with her grieving.

[@hazeljakoby6959]

As someone who lost her dad to MS and is now engaged, I watched his condition deteriorate for years until he was no longer with us and I would give ANYTHING for him to even be in a wheelchair while we walked down the aisle together. That story brought tears to my eyes, she should be more appreciative of what she has.

[@wandRng]

😂"The purplest purple that ever purpled", omg why am i dying over here from that statement 🤣Humans, man, we are something else🤪

[@SariaRose564]

Charlotte, you make my work days go by wonderfully!! And hello!!

[@CelesteCheramie]

I’m so happy you released a compilation today. The longer the better because it gives me something to listen to while I clean and finish up orders. Thanks, Charlotte!

[@jamiedahlstrom752]

Agreed, but I do hate the long wait.. LOL

[@Idfc-s4u]

Omg I love ur videos ur like the only thing I constantly watch

[@realCharlieBlue]

Can we talk about how GORGEOS Charlotte looks?? Girl you look flawless 🤌🏻

[@chillero3heftig712]

if anyone says "its different for guys" you cant afford to marry that person

[@GreenAirSheep]

That poor piglet. I hope the groom and best man got charged with animal abuse for that.

[@KimberlyYoung-t8y]

Yeah. No surprise wedding for me.

[@emmaboyle2751]

I love these videos Charlotte. The compilation videos are one of my favorites!

[@makylagranados2589]

Got called in today. 😢 At least the queen uploaded a long video to make it go by faster. Thank you, Charlotte!

[@thedollpheonix]

Love love love the compilations xxxxxxxxx, thank you Charlot and your editors

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

Haha…gotcha…4 minutes in. That’s a first for me…it is 4:00am here!! ☝️😂👍 Australia 🇦🇺

[@suzannebernert]

@@kathrynbillinghurst188 I hit 49 seconds..no idea how 😂😀❤️

[@bettinafullerton6452]

Another Aussie night owl here.

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

G’day there Suzanne and Bettina! 💕🤗💕 💐💐

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

@@suzannebernert Wowzerz!! 49 seconds!! 🎊 🤸🏻‍♀️🤗🤸🏻‍♀️😂🤸🏻‍♀️🧘🏼 Wooohooo 🥳

[@erikarussell1142]

Good morning petty potato!!! It’s afternoon here (almost to Canada USA)

[@tresatriesit]

No to the surprise wedding lol

[@bethchaosdragon7842]

I don't understand why the family didn't have anything to say about a surprise wedding - no one tried to slow him down?

[@sfsin3380]

No it wouldn't some that deep i weeds would not have agreed to anything but exactly what they want. If anything suggesting the comprise would have just fueled Anna's attempts to get Op to give in entirely.

[@robinhines7528]

If you're questioning seafood or best friend, smh she's not your best friend.

[@chrislawrence665]

I got married at the courthouse and I was so broke that I wore an old prom dress that was given to me for free. It was red. I was actually entertained, since my three children at the time also attended! What a story that day was. Maybe I will tell it sometime 😊

[@wandRng]

Ooo, im listening👀

[@chrislawrence665]

@wandRng Ok, here's the tea 🍵 We got married in Michigan in 2006. Our original date had to be pushed back a week because his dad passed away the day before we were to be married and we had to rush to Indiana to be there for his last few hours. Our certificate was only good for a short while, so we rescheduled it for the following week (they only did marriages one day a week). We ended up being late because I was trying to pick up my friend from work and she ended up working late (and not coming after all) so the only ones to go was my aunt, my 3 kids, and my friend's kid. When we got there, we were asked if we could let another couple go first, since she was in active labor and wanted to be married before the baby was born! When it was our turn, we realized that we only had one adult witness so we borrowed a lady from the previous wedding to witness as well. During the ceremony, I never once looked away from my husband-to-be as we said our vows and exchanged our rings but I could see out of the corner of my eye that my 3-year-old was doing laps around the judge. I didn't think anything of it but I did vaguely notice that he was speaking faster and faster. Afterwards, my aunt told me that my daughter was patting the poor man on his behind, when she was behind him, and patting his "front" whenever she was in front of him!! So, essentially, my toddler was s3sually mole$tin this poor judge!! 😂😂😂😂😂 All in all, it's a hilarious story I love to tell and we're still together 😊

[@chrislawrence665]

@wandRng well, I wrote out the story but I think it was removed!

[@natydemaria03]

love and support from Uruguay 🇺🇾

[@teresas.4541]

I hate surprises too, control issues don’t allow for that. Virgos are planners.

[@alisonscofield6653]

And, geez, it can be a NUISANCE!

[@oOArtistgirlOo]

For the first story, "He a little confused, but he got the spirit."

[@hijadewebber]

The dad one broke me, my dad is gone and I would do anything to have him walk me down the aisle

[@isabelaandzico]

Surprise 😮 Wedding? That’s nuts. I hate surprises and thinking about that poor woman having to grin/bare her teeth like a hyena to save face while staring daggers 🗡️ into her fiancé makes me physically recoil. 3:21

[@markeetachambray9798]

Congratulations

[@H-Bomb1990]

Petty potatos and spicy spuds unite!!! Mother has provided content!!!!

[@Myocisdeilah]

I guess a surprise wedding could work if like the bride picks out everything but it’s just like a time frame of a week, but she doesn’t know what day she’ll get married on that week

[@aerisvulkan2538]

That sounds pretty sweet actually

[@caljones]

Yeah, that doesn’t sound like a particularly terrible idea

[@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145]

Or if they have talked about marriages ,he had an idea of what she wanted and really managed to execute a wedding close to the one of her dreams. I think in that case she wouldn't have refused the idea.

[@MrsWellner]

It's fine IF the bride likes the idea. Sounds like he didn't even ask before making the decision.

[@Good.Morning.Petty.Potatoes]

Good Morning Petty Potatoes! ❤ Where my Petty Potatoes at?

[@suzannebernert]

Hi first comment 👋

[@opinionatedbitch-]

Petty petty petty 😂

[@joeyparkhill8751]

Hi!!!

[@lesliemathes3723]

👋 here, I'm right here 😊. Hello friendly potato cousin, 🤪!

[@suzannebernert]

@joeyparkhill8751 hi

[@lbfaith]

8:48 we all get that grief comes in many forms. But there should still be a logical thinking path that will let you know your grief can’t cross over into someone else’s event. They’re still a boundary.

[@deepseermoo8439]

1:01:35-Charlotte, there's also the discovery process of wedding dress shopping. What i thought I wanted in a dress looked horrid on me. But with a little advice from my mom and the dress store folks, I found a style that looked amazing. She might have had a similar thing and he wasn't there to see it

[@dallasmayhem5291]

I looooooove this eyeshadow on you Charlotte!!

[@jewels964]

This compilation is gonna be fantastic 😂❤

[@karengale2324]

LOVE THE EYE LINER

[@lesliemathes3723]

Woooooo, i finally got in here early today baby!! Love all my petty potatoes and have a wonderful day y'all! Sending Love from your East Tennessee sister, 😘! ✨✌️✨🫶✨🙏✨

[@laurelschiller8753]

I’m surprised only 4 bridesmaids dropped out. I would have laughed in her face!!!

[@alishagruszie1246]

I would give anything to have my dad and the fact that the bride was upset because her dad was in a wheelchair blows my mind. She should treasure that he is alive and able to even be there. That broke my heart

[@Malenkia]

I don't understand some of these people, it boggles the mind and flabbers the gasts. We got married 27 years ago. People still talk about it 😂 It was a hell of a party. We bought bolts of fabric, thread and notions and a pattern for an easy and reusable sundress and gave them to the bridesmaids. All they had to do was make it/have someone make it (which we made sure wasn't an issue). My only request was that they wear comfortable shoes that were black. And that the flower girl's dress spun, cause that's how it should be. Groomsmen was nice, but not overly crazy because we didn't want them spending a ton on rental. We had the ceremony AND the wedding in the same place. We choose the ballroom because it was the one place we found that promised me our friend in a wheelchair would be taken care of - ramp to get in, bathroom accessible, able to park right up front, and the bartender even came out on occasion to ask if he needed anything. They decorated and had a beautiful arch and everything right there in the ballroom. We did our pics against the trees in the backround in the parking lot (you can't tell, it looks like a park). We worked in a charity booth at a ren faire every fall so there were a lot of festies there and we ended the night with a Drum Jam. It was a party and people are still shocked when I tell them the whole thing was $10k, including my dress, which was $900. 28 years still together, people still asking when we're gonna have redo, good memories and no one having drama - except my Ex that crashed it but the Italian and German sides made it clear he wasn't welcome 🤣 The most important thing to us was the people there and that they were comfortable and having fun with us. And that's how it should be.

[@lahomacastile8085]

I love wedding shaming o'clock!😂😂😂😂

[@christinadavid9139]

WHAT??🤣 His own Mom called him out and told him to wear red😂😂😂 Give her a good bottle of RED Wine🎉

[@jamiedahlstrom752]

I actually love that she called out her own son for being just as in pure as the bride. kudos to her

[@9C.S7]

We made the same face at the same time at 2:58 😂😂😂 like absolutelyyyyyyy not! No thank you. Id be freaking out like if we haven’t talked about even being engaged is crazy!

[@keziarosedh]

I didn't find my wedding planning stressful at all, because I kept it simple and it was amazing.

[@VforVendetta6669]

Heck ya 🥔🍠🥔🍠 Good morning!!! Perfect pairing with my coffee🖤🖤🖤

[@leonardsusskindswar7258]

My dad has incomplete quadriplegia after a rare incedent happened during his surgery. Thiis was also during the COVID lockdown, so during the 52 days he was the neuro ICU, i only got to see him three times. Thankfully, he's abble to walk and do most thngs, but has difficulty with his hands. I was on facetime witth him almost every day. The only funny part of this ordeal is that he hated hospital food so much that I was making daily food deliveries from restaurants up to his standart. The nurses thought it was hilarious. I have never, EVER been ashamed of him. On the contrary, I'm so proud of how far he's come. If anyone suggested someone else walk me down the aisle, they'd get a punch in the nose. What is wrong with people??

[@WhimsicalHelvetesfönster]

Yay!! All eyes on the Potato Queen!! (Get it?! 😂)

[@Lunashadow-qn3ms]

I'm betting op is not getting married and was dumped because her fiancee saw who she truly was . He probably thought "if i was in an accident and end up in a wheelchair she'll leave me" , I'm glad he left her. She probably has no one now because I wouldn't stay in contact after what she did

[@dark_serenity]

Toxic family combined with inconsiderate family really ruins everything.

[@janeyrevanescence12]

Seafood at Wedding: Why not have a family get together at a seafood restaurant separate from the reception? I have a friend who is deathly allergic to seafood and I wouldn't have something there that can kill her.