I feel ya about the weapon situation.. I was dating a beauty in Manila who was staying with me in my condo, when one day i walked out of the shower and was staring at a large butcher knife. She had discovered the code to open my phone and hacked into it while i was in the shower and saw some old messages from other women, and went ballistic. She even stole my passport and other items and hid them from me. I alerted the the condo security and they helped me retrieve my passport from her., and when she went to visit her daughter, i packed my bag and left for the airport, never to return,, She was able to stay rent free in my condo for 2 months, as i had prepaid my lease. I now have a much better situation in Cebu, LOL.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I have a similar story of an absolutely crazy Filipina and she was the one seeing other people. I'm just glad to be free of it. Man, there's great dating here with phenomenal women but there's also super crazy dating out here too.
@truthhurtsalways4u5 ай бұрын
I just saw a filipina woman who was selling live on fb his ex hubby belongings for dirt cheap prices. Ex found another girl. He left ex wifey dozens of almost unused designer clothes, expensive gadgets etc
@KennyInSubic5 ай бұрын
🙄
@CodgersCorner5 ай бұрын
She didnt hack your phone. She watched you to see how you accessed your phone.
@thetelauria64705 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChrisshe was a freeloader. Lesson learned. Never let anyone move in with you on the 1st date. Thats a total red flag. And I suggest try dating someone who has a career or is somehow making a living.
@caspi885 ай бұрын
I think it’s interesting a lot of guys struggle in Manila. I never had any problems still don’t. I think it’s just a lot of guys have no game. Walk up to a girl, talk repeat guaranteed you will get dates. I go to Cebu every few months etc. find it way better in Manila.
@thebeachoflife5 ай бұрын
IME Manila girls are status seekers and that’s what you are to them. Cebuland is different in that status isn’t the main course, so to speak…it’s on the Menu but not on the front page.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I admit I have zero game which is why I prefer online. I know several guys who've been here for months and haven't dated once. It's a different dynamic in the city for sure
@KennyInSubic5 ай бұрын
💯
@kathiemathias2125 ай бұрын
City girls tend not to prefer foreigners as this entails a lot of juggling cultures. Being very financially independent, these women have more choices and more career focus and always not wanting to be tied down and having a family.
@thebeachoflife5 ай бұрын
I don’t know where my original comment went…but in my experience Manila woman are interested in status, Cebu not so much
@mitchbromwell95545 ай бұрын
Everything in due time. 😉 Just Relax and Enjoy the Special Moments in the Philippines 🇵🇭 When you least expect it, you will find someone or they will find you for life's adventures. 👍🏼
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
So true!
@BillyTimes-dw7vs5 ай бұрын
The main problem is that alot Filipino women got the memo that their desired and foreign man are thirsty. What I did was got situated first settled down found my way around. Appreciated the culture then started dating. Never put the horse before carriage this is why alot of men are failing stop being so thirsty for a women they will come In due time.
@cdub19555 ай бұрын
wise advice...
@Lawrencerice5 ай бұрын
Need to give yourself time to reset from the scarcity to the abundance mindset. Never forget as a rich foriegner you are the prize.😊
@BillyTimes-dw7vs5 ай бұрын
@Lawrencerice facts man well said I be in Phillipines in April I told 4 women I will meet them at pacific locations they haven't faked yet they know I'm a cool guy but show no signs of being thirsty.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Right on brother
@Buildsolarhomes5 ай бұрын
Besides the memo they got, too many Expats are fishing at the same watering hole. The best places to meet people are off the radar. There are over 2,000 inhabited islands in the Philippines and for some reason many Expats frequent Manila, Cebu, Angeles, and Dumaguete ....aka.....Dramaguete. The only place that I want to see a westerner (and I am from the USA) is the airport..............that's it. No problem meeting the ladies if U avoid western saturated places.
@Eric-qm5xw5 ай бұрын
Great delivery ..you’ll generally find your level with dating. Guys simply need to make the most of their attributes, it’s easy to find Filipina…finding the right one..that’s harder.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Good stuff Eric
@larryc66765 ай бұрын
Come on man. You can't make a statement like dates with weapons being pulled and not elaborate LOL the viewing audience wants to know LOL
@wahoowahoo23415 ай бұрын
Were is the part he said weapon being pulled ?? Are you high on drugs ? Or are you hearibg things ? Hearing Voices ? Seek Help.....
@krakerjak35 ай бұрын
@@wahoowahoo2341 Yes he did mention weapons being pulled on bad dates
@homerfantastic5 ай бұрын
@@wahoowahoo2341 7:14 will give you the answer. I know it was at the end of the vid maybe you passed out before you got that far.
@mrq84025 ай бұрын
Rewind to 7:13 - 7:16. It's there.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I did date a girl who pulled out a knife and then a pair of scissors. I'm glad to be free.
@gorioecho97895 ай бұрын
if your in Cebu, look-up the Palm Grass hotel (well out of your bubbles and in the middle of small tier colleges) - great way to meet girls not used to being around foreigners - keep in mind they're a younger set though (probably average around 20)
@wahoowahoo23415 ай бұрын
Thats scary They can be deported if charged with child abuse.. if theyre not careful....
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Interesting. Thanks for the tips!
@HexFlex-ss9rm5 ай бұрын
Great job big C , beautiful location and some solid tips . It’s a shame how the USA has so many men scared to death of speaking to women. You always know your one nut job away from , visiting H.R. , being fired , getting demoted , her making a huge scene, facing legal charges , etc. ……… can’t wait to escape 🎉
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
So glad I’m here despite some dating issues
@pauls35855 ай бұрын
I gather from this video that you and Jo are not together anymore (I must have missed that video). Good luck for the future. I will be in the Philippines in 1 week for a holiday and to meet a woman I am chatting to online.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
We broke up several months ago as it really wasn't a good fit from the get go
@JohnP-in-NC5 ай бұрын
Good video Chris, however “weapons being pulled out”. 😮 Please elaborate on that statement, that should be a major concern or 🚩. ??? Thank you!
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Loca and I hate it. Loca Loca Loca 🤪
@jcgolf1595 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris ..did you know LOCA is plural of locus? huh! vierd
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol jeff
@alfredopampanga9356Ай бұрын
@@jcgolf159loco , Spanish for crazy
@spincube57345 ай бұрын
How about some story vids highlighting specific about good date experiences & bad date experiences?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
yeah great idea. thank you
@BeerBikes5 ай бұрын
thanks Chris for sharing your experiences, being transparent, and giving out great tips. looking sharp man!, Bruce Willis in da house!
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
My pleasure:)
@pyrojguy25275 ай бұрын
I think you nailed it, Chris. I'd describe province dating as more like dating in high school. It may take more than a couple.dates to even get a kiss or.a hug, and there is the very real possibility of a brother/sister/aunt/uncle coming along as a chaperone on the first few dates.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It’s a different dating dynamic but all in all it’s actually quite enjoyable :-)
@koufax1745 ай бұрын
I’ve never used dating apps in the Phil’s and don’t have problem getting dates wherever, BGC, Cebu, Duma, CDO, Baguio, etc. I am just authentic, friendly and low key. I talk to any Filipina I’m interested in. This is not the west.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah great advice. Simple, direct and honest. Good stuff
@koufax1745 ай бұрын
Chris I want to say I love your Channel and your openness, honesty, and integrity. Inspiring. Congratulations 🎉
@gallaxian5 ай бұрын
What's your go-to conversation opener?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Man, really appreciate this comment. Thank you
@koufax1745 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChrisYou’re awesome. You help so many with your efforts 🙏🏼
@streetratgarage5 ай бұрын
Out of all the suggestions you made about how to find a date. I think the community service project would be the best. You would be out there amongst the people building a relationship first. It seems like the attraction would happen more organically. I am not a fan of dating sites myself. So many horror stories about scammers and women out there just looking to get their hands on your money. If I had to suggest something. It would be simply to take a walk down the street. Not in the cities but just outside or maybe in a smaller town. The last time I was there walking down the street it seemed like everybody wanted to say hi and ask questions.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah, right on man
@willsmith392 ай бұрын
Depends what you want. If you want someone uneducated (which I know a lot of guys do) who hasn't been on an escalator let alone a plane then a province girl is the way to go definitely. But bear in mind that once the initial lust phase wears off, and it will no matter how hot you think she is at first sight, then the fact you'll be having zero conversation/ conversation the way you would with a 5 year old might actually get old after a while. And also if she's from the province you're going to be the extended family's meal ticket for life so you need to be cool with that. Personally I went for girls that had uni degrees and good jobs. Of course I am 32 and in shape not 72 and on borrowed time so again it all depends.
@CarefreeChris2 ай бұрын
Yep. All personal preference. Football vs hockey. Coke vs Sprit. Beautiful world we live in
@hellocyrax5 ай бұрын
Best fillipinas are in the jungles 🔎
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Let’s go man:)
@oceanearth22435 ай бұрын
This is true Mahalo David and Chris
@mitchbromwell95545 ай бұрын
@DavidBond99, Jungle Women deep in the Philippines Province seem to be old fashioned. ✔️
@CaliforniaBear6195 ай бұрын
@@JohnnyLawrence293 😂
@caspi885 ай бұрын
Where have you been bro?
@danielkoerner63865 ай бұрын
How about meeting women at a gym? Or church? Maybe someone you see often, who works at your favorite restaurant or store?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes! Exactly! Better more organic encounters
@thinkfreeordiestupid5 ай бұрын
Ignore the haters Chris. Love your positivity and downright genuine communication. Somehow the Internet brings out the worst in people🙏
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I'm good Bobby. I'm having fun in the Philippines
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Thanks though man. Appreciate the positive vibe brother.
@tomhunter26235 ай бұрын
Thanks Chris good information good content. I am looking for to videos of your trip with Chad. Stay safe
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Thanks Tom. Really appreciate it. We're both super excited too. Should be heading out tomorrow:)
@larryharry72215 ай бұрын
Sometimes it's better to rent.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol
@bretmoleta18605 ай бұрын
Big Chris… it was a pleasure meeting you yesterday! You are a very nice welcoming person. Thank you for inviting me to sit down and speak with you and your friends.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Any time brother. Hope you make it back here soon.
@gwapogreg58375 ай бұрын
I'm married now but I once had 3 hours at Ayalla at the same time.Not planned.Its strange you can try really hard and not get a date for 2 days but then some days you could have 6 dates It's more fun in the Philippines
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol.
@Busy_as_a_Bea5 ай бұрын
I guess taking time to get to know the person and never rush into a relationship or living together. There are a lot of independent Filipinas out there who are also looking for someone to be in a long-term relationship. For me, online dating apps are a good way of meeting other people.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
So true. Hey girl. Did I meet you in Makati?
@Busy_as_a_Bea5 ай бұрын
LOL, no. I'm in Iloilo City.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
You look like someone I met in Makati. No worries. Really appreciate your comments both on the video and the live the other week. Hope all is great there where you are:)
@Busy_as_a_Bea5 ай бұрын
No worries! Thank you as well. Frank and Fel of the Philippines mentioned you on their channel. That's how I got on here.
@r2kin2phils5 ай бұрын
It takes time to know someone specially if looking for long term relationship. Rush relationship tends to end quickly. Speaking as Filipino myself, if a Filipina specially a province girl agrees to leave in quickly with a man you just met .. its a red flag.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Really appreciate your insight. Thank you.
@kevingarris1985 ай бұрын
Shouldn't the disinterest of those with at least a modicum of economic stability; tell you something about the supposed interest of those who are poor?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
They're very interested Kevin. What they're not interested in is being approached.
@kevingarris1985 ай бұрын
From watching other vloggers, I thought that particular mall you referenced tended to attract more of an upscale and financially successful woman, less likely to regard a relationship with a foreigner as "life changing" @@CarefreeChris
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
No you're right but I don't want to say it's only poor women who are interested in us as that's just not at all accurate. There is something there though that you're pointing to that is true that I didn't really touch on which is with middle to upper class Filipinas you have to get by a potential social stigma with dating a foreigner. I intended on talking more about it but forgot. I do feel online dating is the best access to these types of women or by introduction. The girl i'm seeing now is middle class and is very very interested but also nervous about being in public because she'll be judged as a gold digger. I'll go more into this in another video and I see how I went another direction in this video.
@kevingarris1985 ай бұрын
Understood, I'll stay tuned. @@CarefreeChris
@Eric-qm5xw5 ай бұрын
I would not introduce another girl until your really sure as the Filipina ..like all women are sensitive especially if things go south.
@damncars26185 ай бұрын
A good Filipina dates to determine whether to marry. If you're dating around, you're a Chickboy. Go to Angeles or Thailand. 65/24 here. We met 4 years ago online and are inseparable. Btw, I got all my hair.
@Bluesky864685 ай бұрын
Bet it’s a comb over🤣
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I'm digging it here in the Philippines. Grats on your hair and your girl. Both a big accomplishment for sure. Hope you're good there
@damncars26185 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris I'm considering being a hair transplant donor because the Barber uses thinning shears. Sana all.
@ShikokuFoodForest5 ай бұрын
Hi Chris. David here in southern Shikoku, Japan. I’ve been hearing recently dating in the Philippines has been changing a lot even within the past 5+ years particularly in locations more popular with expats. As you said, Filipinas are getting approached regularly now by foreigners, so my impression is they are becoming much more selective and perhaps disinterested in some cases. I’ve been hearing it’s not as easy now to meet Filipinas like it was. Dating in the countryside here in the Japan countryside is very tough from my experience. Most single women tend to leave for the big cities after university. The ones that remain tend to marry very young and start families. I mainly meet married women with children. I’m over 50 and single women here are predominantly High School girls or women in their early 20s. Too young for me to consider seriously. In fact, I never meet a single woman here in their mid-late 30s, 40s or 50s. I often meet grandmothers walking their dogs while I’m out walking... lol.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It's still good here David but requires a couple of adjustments. One, if you're in an area which you see a lot of foreigners it's not a good place so just go 15 min down the road. Two, in those areas where there are a lot of foreigners try online. Check out this video where i go into what i feel are great apps for dating here in the Philippines kzbin.info/www/bejne/ganQiX6jbM2sgaMsi=-PK-Z7ElKlOtJd52
@GUITARTIME20245 ай бұрын
Chris , what I noticed in earlier videos is a loss of understanding that YOURE the prize (without saying it, of course). You had a Grateful Gus "Im not worthy" vibe with that ex that just doesnt do you any favors. NEVER tell a woman youre lucky to have her. You can be a polite guy who says Thank You and such without lowering your stock value in her eyes. Also, I think you had to put in work over time to "win" her? Dont do that. If a woman isnt on board in the first month of hanging out, move on.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I’ve learned so much in the past year. Between KZbin, dating, living in a foreign country and just about myself. I’m not the same person I was even in December. Morphing and shaping into something new all the time now. At heart I’m still a loving man who wants to help people and see them smile. Here’s to the rest of the year. Thanks for your comment as well as intently watching my videos. Hope you’re good there
@alfredopampanga9356Ай бұрын
Yes, indeed I wanted a gf to feel special and I said “ You’re terrific”. A look came over her face which was so calculating and cold it shocked me
@davidssunstar5 ай бұрын
Great video and youre exactly right. Lapu Lapu or or Mandaue..online is the best
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Totally agree!
@WatchCaliforniaExpat5 ай бұрын
Great advice and thoughts Chris
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Thank you:)
@zealman795 ай бұрын
I dated an 18 yr old pinay in malaysia when i was 33. Family was working there, she was a niece or who knows. turn up to a 'party' once where i met the aunty, and an 'uncle' was there. He did not like me at all. Apparently wanted to get into a rumble and though he was shorter than me he was quite stocky, plus being a westerner in a foreigne country, it felt a bit off. I left that party real quick and continued to date her as long as i could lol it didn't work out in the end
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah, the dating dynamic here is pretty good
@aimhighpinay5 ай бұрын
Not my experience. I have had women approach me at the mall in Manila and give me their phone number. I've had Starbucks baristas write their number on my cup. I have 30-40 matches currently on Tinder with no lack of women who want to date, meet up.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It’s a different dating environment for me since I’ve moved to online apps
@rickb7225Ай бұрын
Getting approached in the mall , isn't a red flag? Lol
@jarlathquinn57225 ай бұрын
I was wondering what had caused the changes in you - you have split from your girlfriend? I thought Jo was a keeper. I must have missed your video on this, but I could see changes in the way you were presenting your videos. I will keep watching for now. Just be mindful you don't fall into a shallow place of thinking as your content might suffer!
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It's an everyday vlog really so it'll change as I do. Jo and I split up nearly 6 months ago. We were a bad fit from the get go really. Take care there
@jarlathquinn57225 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChrisAwww Sorry to hear that Chris, genuinely I am. I hope you find true love on your journey. I WILL keep watching. Take care dude.
@bigmikessenioradventures5 ай бұрын
One should not focus on dating. Learn to enjoy being alone and focusing on self. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Reminds me of a line from my favorite book, The Yellow River written by IP Freely.
@KATHERINE-so5di5 ай бұрын
Just enjoy the Philippines! Like most expat vloggers do 🙂.. Hope to see another Iloilo vlog👍
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
You're so sweet Katherine. Hope you're great there and I hope to make it back to Iloilo someday.
@KATHERINE-so5di5 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris Bruce Willis is always welcome to Iloilo City😂✌️
@fredherman52345 ай бұрын
I am glad you discover you've been lied to by your fellow vloggers...
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It’s certainly not the experience most people talk about
@VaporEG5 ай бұрын
You can't just drop that on us so casually, then change the subject...what's the story???
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol I’ve had to epic failures in the dating world here for sure.
@VaporEG5 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChrisChris, your vagueness is deafening.
@fredricksonted39205 ай бұрын
super dig the experience vids of food and places. really appreciate the local tag along.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed! Thanks for watching
@philrose77165 ай бұрын
Hey Chris I see you got it up! (Your subscribers)
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol right. I feel like I lost 117 lbs
@Nomad-XA5 ай бұрын
I’m only into fun, what apps should I use to find who*es? If you only interested in fun, where should u get an apartment in the Philippines?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I would say if you’re only in the fun Tinder is probably your best bet. As far as what cities, I think you’d be fine in Manila, Angeles City or maybe Cebu City
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Manila just is so massive that it’s probably the best bet with the dating apps there.
@John_Smith7775 ай бұрын
…and the other shoe has dropped. Exactly why I would never put my personal life on KZbin no matter what the circumstances. Yikes.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It's takes a certain type to do a KZbin channel for sure. Like the dating, I've enjoyed it for the most part and have learned a ton about myself along the way:)
@mike-ulove2travel5 ай бұрын
Good info Chris thanks for sharing. I hope to connect with you someday when I touchdown in Cebu.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Sounds good!
@adventureneverstops5 ай бұрын
There are no set rules for "dating"...whatever that means. Everything in life is relative and subjective. Sure, you may find down-to-earth real females in rural areas but on the other hand, you'd have a better chance hooking up with sophisticated well-to-do independent real women in an urban setting. That is true everywhere else and not only in PH. It really depends on your preference and style. Nothing is written in stone. To say otherwise is just preaching BS. A friend always quips that whenever he feels the urge, he just rents instead of getting stuck with owning one indefinitely. It could be just a jest on his part but such pragmatism makes a lot of sense. I think that "actively" looking for and being dead set on having a "relationship" per se is akin to looking for trouble. But that's just me. Is the "dates and weapons being pulled out" statement a euphemism for foreplay? 😁 BTW, very noticeable video noise on this one.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Really great comment and appreciate your insights.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I’m not sure what that was actually. Hopefully it was just something I did in the video edit and not my actual microphones. Let me know if you hear that going forward. I really appreciate it.
@adventureneverstops5 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris"Video noise"...not audio.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Might not have been the best of light@@adventureneverstops
@DManGrandАй бұрын
Took me 8 years to find a wife here.... dont rush it...
@CarefreeChrisАй бұрын
Yes! Exactly brother
@gobfranklin67594 ай бұрын
Great topic, thanks!
@CarefreeChris4 ай бұрын
No worries!
@Bluesky864685 ай бұрын
Great info Chris,much appreciated as always🙌 Unfortunately the usual comments from guys that don't get out the house often🤣 Keep up the good work buddy
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
No worries and thank you:)
@Downsdddgh5 ай бұрын
Keep in mind it is no accident foreign men are in the Philippines chasing the young ladies. The sly Filipino higher ups have gotten out the word pretty young girl's are to be had. Just be you. You are wanted, cherished, and needed in the island's. Money makes the world go round. It is what it is.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I hear ya
@KennyInSubic5 ай бұрын
Bring your "A" game and you will find what you seek.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Be the best version of you and it'll happen. My thoughts exactly
@zibomacadangdang1085 ай бұрын
I joined a dating app for Philippines. Its mostly single moms looking for someone to help raise their kids after a failed relationship. The other half are scammers looking to score on a sugar daddy. Nothing wrong with that I guess bec sometimes some overcome the prejudices and obstacles and make it work. I'm trying on line bec the girls are available and looking for guys to date compared to looking desperate and trying to hit on waitresses and sales ladies who probably have boyfriends already. I zeroed in on a college girl that i'm 3x her senior. I haven't met her yet. I plan to see her next year and see what happens. In the end, its about being a good match. Looks are the first thing we go for, but if they really have bad trait or personalities then its not a good outcome. It may not work out for me but its ok. Just keep moving on to the next until you get it right. What else is there?
Thanks for video big bro. I may try those other 3 dating apps you used. The one I used was Pinalove. I'm not having a hard time talking to the ladies but filtering out the scam gold diggers and train wreck daddy hunters is most of the work. The one I settled on is pretty young and I think I'm older than her mom so no idea what's going to happen.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Pinalove is another one folks like too. @@zibomacadangdang108
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Good luck :)@@zibomacadangdang108
@edmhie15 ай бұрын
Players meet Players.............because they knew you are Player too.
@JustComplyGeorgeFloyd5 ай бұрын
Dude is not a player , corny as hell
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Player of the game of life and still trying to figure it all out. Good times.
@JustComplyGeorgeFloyd5 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChristhe game is the game
@MoshiraMitano5 ай бұрын
These “ how to videos“ about dating in Philippines are getting overdone and old. No offence but there’s got to be more opportunity for new content. 😊
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It's a different dynamic here that's actually not accurately portrayed. Just check the comments in this video of guys referring to how easy it is.
@RONALD......5 ай бұрын
100% of the Filipina women online are the ones that date foreigners and 99.9% of the Filipinas that are not online "do not" date foreigners.. 👍🏾🇺🇲🇵🇭
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
not so sure about that
@brian_atc5 ай бұрын
Whoa, Wait?! "Weapons being pulled out"? Great overview on the dating scene, getting out of your bubble, etc.., but what happened with the weapons bro? Lol
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Security came up and was able to get the weapon away fortunately.
@MrTravolta245 ай бұрын
Weapons? wowch.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Right. Not the best of times for sure
@user-er9rb8rg2i5 ай бұрын
Only thing I know about a motor I was crossing the street at JY mall an got hit by one, I was down for the count for a few weeks,
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
No fun
@insomniacfirehorse64255 ай бұрын
Dont hurry in dating, know them first, you might get a bad one. You need ro move to other place, if foreign guys already in that place, thats not a good place anymore. Cebu, Dumaguete are not the place anymore.Baguio city is the cold area, Tagaytay is a nice are, Bulacan, pangasinan, Ilocos, try Luzon North and South. I dont understand why foreigners flocking in Visayas island.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Slow down and enjoy. Great advice for sure
@rolandmueller72185 ай бұрын
I think it’s better to meet a woman online as long as you are wise to scamming and dishonesty. Especially if you are not living in the Philippines and you only go to to the Philippines for short trips. Just my opinion. The girls in the big city are more picky than in the province. But, there is a lot more gossip in the province because Foreigners stick out like a sore thumb in the province. Pros and cons each type of location. A Filipina that has had foreigner boyfriends may have been turned into monster by being spoiled too much.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yep. All good points
@blink1885 ай бұрын
Go to province ladys there are way to good and not toxic .btw im the province
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I’m loving the province experience so far. Everyone has been extremely welcoming
@Lazy-A-L335 ай бұрын
Chris, I hope that I never have a weapon pulled on me during a date.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I hear ya. Wasn’t a fun event for sure
@leg4145 ай бұрын
The key words i have heard from my Filipina friends is "creepy" foreigners coming on to them, and most just dress shabbily, and come like a "two-week" tourist, not someone as a stable expat, or wants to "invest" in staying there. I really had no troubles, and most are very friendly, even baring language barriers, since some just speak Tagalog, and some very poor English. I could say more....Peace
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yep. Creepy guys approaching locals isn't going so well and I'm seeing it too. One of the points in this video as well as other videos it to try to let guys know stop coming to the mall to pick up women as well as just be a good dude.
@gallaxian5 ай бұрын
Do you feel that Chris, in this video, is dressed shabbily or nicely for the purposes of approaching Filipinas? Any suggestions as to how to avoid coming across as a creep?
@alfredopampanga9356Ай бұрын
Weapons pulled out? Tell us more
@CarefreeChrisАй бұрын
I know right. It'll run the spectrum here.
@TheBinko15 ай бұрын
Wow brought back memories with your weapons quote.😬 My first Filipina in Canada after about 2 years together actually pulled a kitchen knife out on me after losing her temper over some truth talk.. OMG shocked the hell out of me but I was able to wrestle the knife away before any damage was done. That night I left her since I worried my throat would get cut while sleeping. 🗡 Once the trust is gone its over.. 😤
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Crazy right
@ionutmititelu20832 ай бұрын
😂@TheBinko1 " some truth talk" I guess was an argument about her family.
@catsupchutney5 ай бұрын
Weapons being pulled out? Do tell!
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah. The scariest dating experience in my life honestly. Just glad to be free of it
@Paul-McB5 ай бұрын
Take up Yoga, join a gym, Zumba, or salsa dance. You will see a completely different class of women, and benifits of getting in shape.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah, I’m actually in the gym and meet a lot of folks there
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I’m actually not in the hunt, but just enjoying life
@user-er9rb8rg2i5 ай бұрын
thats just my way Chris every man has they're on way
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
True
@brucepeterleinwand5 ай бұрын
What happened to Jo?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
We broke up several months ago
@rickb7225Ай бұрын
I love reading in the comments from guys saying how easy it is to get dates. Most expats I've talked to in Manila and Cebu during six visits, they leading with their wallets, even if they don't realise they are. Thanks Chris for your honesty.
@CarefreeChrisАй бұрын
I think a lot has changed over the past couple of years and folks just haven’t been around for the new norm
@Chad-wk6fk5 ай бұрын
The Crocodile dundee look is the issue
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. I love my new shirt! Sec I'll get a link for ya
@fal7178Ай бұрын
Good video
@CarefreeChrisАй бұрын
Thank you
@LiberalPatriot245 ай бұрын
Expand on the dates where weapons were pulled out next vid please. Thanks for video
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah, honestly, I wish I could talk more about it, but I can’t. It’s just not appropriate.
@Lriws-72655 ай бұрын
@@Qiu18 saw that too, looks immature to me
@markc72745 ай бұрын
Weapons being pulled out??? Dam that is interesting
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It was spooky and judging by some of the other comments not entirely uncommon.
@user-er9rb8rg2i5 ай бұрын
The best way to pick up a Filipino tape you ATM card to your forehead, very hard to get a girl at IT Park most have a high paying job,
@JJ382555 ай бұрын
True they do have high paying job compared to other Filipinos but some of them might realize they're $500 bucks a month is still small salary compared to an expat making 5 grand a month 😂
@user-er9rb8rg2i5 ай бұрын
I wish I made 5k a month, Girls at IT;ark makes about $700 a month that what a girl told me, I do like Manila,
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol crazy
@rose11395 ай бұрын
Guys, look no farther😊😊😊
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Rose? Is that you?:)
@dddtrump5 ай бұрын
It was easy for me to meet Filipinas in person at the malls, but online was 10x better. Why? Because you can filter by AGE and education and can filter out all the single moms or whatever preference you want to avoid in life. I would avoid trying to date multiples because Filipinas are extremely jealous and most are only wanting to date 1 guy and expecting you to be looking for serious relationship and only dating them.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Online in the bigger cities with the right apps is the way to go.
@ntech15075 ай бұрын
You and Joh are no longer together. What happened if you do not mind answer. Sorry been busy with things havent got to watch your channel much
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah. We broke up months ago. It just wasn’t a good fit for either one of us really so we ended it
@ntech15075 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris oh I am surprised you both seem so happy together well. Good luck in your future relationships
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
@@ntech1507 if you were around us, it wouldn’t really be a surprise. It really wasn’t a good fit for either one of us and know we’re both so much better off
@ntech15075 ай бұрын
@CarefreeChris okay I see I thought you both were a good fit. Based on the your KZbin lives I was watching and your vidoes. In person it's different. I would suggest if you so get someone else go for a younger woman like 22 and up. Unless you find a dime that in her 30s
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
@@ntech1507 for sure. Right now I’m focusing more on my creativity and not so much on relationships. If one comes along, great. If not, no worries. I’m not so much on the hunt.
@Chillin0075 ай бұрын
Nice video! Did you and your Filipina break up?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I'm not sure who you're talking about as I've dated several Filipinas now. I'm currently casually dating a couple of girls in the city. I'm happy to report no breakups recently though. Thanks for watching and hope you're good there:)
@Chillin0075 ай бұрын
I’m talking about Jo. She was lovely 🙂
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
@@Chillin007 yeah we broke up several months ago actually. It really wasn’t a good fit for either one of us.
@filipinalipstick5 ай бұрын
Hi chris , i saw you here ayala mall, I'm rhea from filipinalipstick
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. I'm there often. Please say hello next time you see me. I'm super approachable
@filipinalipstick5 ай бұрын
Yess @@CarefreeChris i will
@user-zy1oh8jk7j5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 Plastic attracts plastic 😂😂😂😂😂
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol yes
@jerrystanley68205 ай бұрын
Whens next meet and greet I'm in Cebu for a month staying near Ayala
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It might be a while as I just left Cebu city for I’m not sure how long. What you can do if you’re not already is reach out in the community group to see who wants to get together. There’s a group of really friendly guys there.
@jerrystanley68205 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris thanks man its ok trying to stay a while if all my stars line lol but 1 month for sure
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
@@jerrystanley6820 yeah reach out to the guys in the group man. I’m sure a couple of them would love to meet up for some coffee.
@derekwatson70375 ай бұрын
Just sellotape 1,000 peso bill to your forehead. It is not about game.
@Kevin-zz9nc5 ай бұрын
US it's Scotch tape...
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol
@jsully40645 ай бұрын
Weapons????...lol, obviously not a good date when weapons are being pulled out...lol...Thanks for sharing, Chris,...Jim
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Right. Was scary. Glad everyone ended up being safe in the end
@patrickmcintyre65075 ай бұрын
money
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol right
@paulruano19035 ай бұрын
"Smaller dating pool" in the province?. So what! Only 24hrs in each day. So surely can go explore to find enough good women to fill up the "quota"?;)
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I think it’s so much better out there in the Province. I don’t mind the smaller dating pool as I don’t date around.
@paulruano19035 ай бұрын
@CarefreeChris yes, i would almost define it as cities = for the lazy and desperate westerners. Why on earth do people fly half around the globe... to visit a city to try to find a wife/gf. If going to travrl that far, then should take that extra steps to actually go where the "gold is" = provinces. Cities is almost always much worse qualities. Regardless of country. A ph city girl may be much better than a us city girl. Byt its still a city gitl, with the HIGH odds of had plenty of x-bf, non-virgin, emotional baggage, more materialism, less traditional values, much higher chance of divorces/breakups, etc. So if going to fly half the world... then taking a few extra steps to meet the quality of quality is best:) It is all about %ridk vs reward. City girls will always be much higher risk than a province girl. (%risk assesment vs %reward). The worst of the worat would be a capitol city. Same rule applies globally. Capitols is almost always the worst. I guess can get a full card of worse... if goes into a brothel with bargirls in a capitol ;) Anyway, agree with you:) 3 million girls in a big city does not give any REAL advantage vs enough in provinces. Not enough hours to filter through all those city girls. Only disadvantage of the province girls... is that is more travel timr. So can only check through a few a week;) Are enough provinces to visit. So if 1 fail in 1 province, then most likely need to visit a different province instead. If give a good vibe of oneself in the village, then maybe some other cute girls there will "ask permission" from the initial girl if she can contact you;) So mostly just win-win i think. If i go to Philippines i would make a plan to systematicly visit provinces;) But my goal would be to find a good wife, a woman that i have good chemistry with. I have no problem communicating. But i will learn some Bisaya+ before i visit:) But unsure if i will use the Bisaya to communicate. OR keep it a secret, and thereby use the language-skill as a superpower to secretly listen to what they may talk about (when they think i do not understand;) Its very revealing and great way to filter out bad apples... when you have that secret superpower:)
@carletto_au5 ай бұрын
Weapons?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
It can be crazy out there
@HeyWattsUpCycling5 ай бұрын
were u a cop in usa?
@Lex-rt7vd5 ай бұрын
No, he was in the IT field.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah thanks Lex I was an IT guy in the legal industry for 20 years. Semi-retired last year to the Philippines
@Crey-yk5yy5 ай бұрын
Looks like they show up when least expected. Food stalls in front of church or hospitals; markets, wedding or b-day parties etc.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Happens
@NotilangPinoy5 ай бұрын
I love you sir
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
and I love you too:)
@jcgolf1595 ай бұрын
7:17 like avoiding chicks with sticks and weapons obviously 😎✌🏽 On a serious note, well thought out and presented topic dude. Now, you really have to start signing out with .. and I quote: YippeeKiyay MFers! or Mabuhay MFers!
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
lol jeff
@HumbleTravels5 ай бұрын
Are you going to be part of the exploitation videos that Chad Foster and Scotty Boy “regular guy” are making now in Leyte?
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Chad and I are traveling together now. I think Scott is around too and we might connect at some point
@James-ri2uo5 ай бұрын
Sorry, but that is comical 😂 if a person can find a date here within a couple days if not a couple hours there are some seriously wrong with the persons game. Best of luck from here on out.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Thanks man. Hope all is great for you there too
@ReadySetGo1135 ай бұрын
Oh man, dating failures. Thanks for expressing how it feels as it has never happened to me. LMAO (I wish)
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I know right. I tell myself the same thing. I’m having problem but they’re good problems:) Hope you’re good there
@ryangonzaga33705 ай бұрын
jo is already a good catch. why? i hope you wont regret it, your TOTGA
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
We were clearly not a good match. Pretty much for the getgo. Learned a ton though
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
She never asked for a cent. We were just not a good fit in other ways really. @@JohnnyLawrence293
@stevenlawrence57335 ай бұрын
I totally disagree with you having lived right where you are standing. You can't play down meeting a Filipina anywhere!!! Online dating apps or cold approach in public especially Ayala Mall business area or IT Park is all fair game.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I’m just no good at it. Online has been a game changer though.
@stevenlawrence57335 ай бұрын
@@CarefreeChris It's reported in America 6 out of 10 couples met online. Online is the way to go worldwide. I have hovered around Ayala Mall Business quite frequently and I never over stepped my boundaries or the boundaries of a woman in that atmosphere if per say the opportunity to be social presented itself to me. Online is easier.
@axev52965 ай бұрын
@@stevenlawrence5733 About the same amount of divorces of which 80% was initiated by women 😂 After two divorces and several situation ships I am now MGTOW and that's way better (also for my bank account ;-)
@ErinOBrien20005 ай бұрын
Good video Chris. Head to GenSan.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yeah man. I'll be there:)
@user-xw5uw2qu5g5 ай бұрын
Strolled in Ayala with my girlfriend and didn't actually See a ton of Foreigners there My advice to increase your chances is to avoid the Expat Hotspots like Cebu and Dumaguete There are some real Filipino Beauties in Mindinano and Leyte Davao that haven't seen a ton Of foreigners walking around Just take your time on the dating Sites and don't expect to hook Up with a 9 or 10 if you're in Your 50s or 60s Give yourself some time to Work on your game Don't Rush into anything quickly You will eventually find The one you are looking for
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Great advice
@truthhurtsalways4u5 ай бұрын
There are two Ayala Malls in Cebu. I went to both of them. One mainly locals. Other one with many expats!
@floren8795 ай бұрын
Buntag
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
Yes. Good morning
@craigfleming-dc7fw4 күн бұрын
I got inundated with chicks there
@CarefreeChris3 күн бұрын
It’s super easy to meet girls but I’m not looking for someone who’s the community bike
@craigfleming-dc7fw3 күн бұрын
@@CarefreeChris ok mate , good point all the best
@bureaucrazy12345 ай бұрын
unsubscribing due to shifting focus of your vlogs pandering to a specific unsavory demographic
@robertspencer60855 ай бұрын
Yup exactly why I don’t watch anymore, plenty of other vlogs to watch.😊
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
I understand. I do. It’s a lifestyle vlog and this is part of it. Wish you the best though. Hope all is great there
@dannystravelvlog5 ай бұрын
Hey Chris. You just keep doing you!! You are the most genuine guy on here! Having met you in person, I feel like you’re my brother from another mother. And I love you bro.!!
@columbus72755 ай бұрын
Not an airport here, no need to announce your departure.
@columbus72755 ай бұрын
@@robertspencer6085- thanks for taking the time to comment on a channel you don’t watch. 😂
@azhardav5 ай бұрын
Problem is, many people watching videos/KZbins like this, THINK that Cebu, Duma, Iloilo, BGC, and davao are good places to live, meet people and have fun, and some success can be had, however better places should be looked at. KZbinrs are FULL OF IT. 99% dont have game, nor ever will. Thats not to say you cant find "someone" in PI, but far and away one of the best places to meet girls from EVERY SINGLE PROVENCE in the PI is represented in ANGELES CITY. It has more expat history than any other place in PI- why is that important? It bings the right girls, not only to work in bars, restaurants and hotels but also their siblings. American culture- whether you want to believe it or run away from it- Pinay are in LOVE WITH AMERICA. No place in PI exudes American culture like Clark/Angeles.- this brings pinays from every Provence in PI. For example 1 girl might work in a bar, while she as 2 more that DONT. Clark is HUGE, has some of the biggest casinos and businesses in PI. Even having water 1 hour away, Angeles has more to offer than even places like Manila- in all the Philippines. For 30 years ive been all over the PI and never heard of any male having issues with finding any girl in Angeles.
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
True but the point isn't teach people game but inform them to go online or try more organic natural approaches vs gwapa ka...
@azhardav5 ай бұрын
get your point, but for me "game" means just being approachable, sincere, and genuine to where men can not be dorks, or pervs and carry on meaningful conversations and behavior.@@CarefreeChris
@azhardav5 ай бұрын
using the word "game" is a poor choice of words, on my part. @@CarefreeChris
@CarefreeChris5 ай бұрын
no worries brother. I think we're after the same thing which is saying the message of a more respectful foreigner for this country. They like us here. Let's not rune it.