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[@3rdGenAmerFilipina]

Yes, I’m good here in Missouri, as well as can be doing the day to day grind! So I’ve been following you for a while now and you are a terrific person and I’ve enjoyed watching your travels and day to day life. I’m a third generation Filipino American. Can you tell me, or have you met many American couples that have moved there? Don’t hear much on the perspective of America women living there. Just a thought to maybe talk to a couple? Lol. All the best to you Chris! Keep your Love alive because you will find that one person that is perfect for you and love is great!

[@CarefreeChris]

I don’t meet many foreigner couple but see them every now and then. I also get the occasional female viewer asking about life here as a single woman. I don’t know that prospective but would imagine it’s not bad provided you have the right mindset. Independent, easy going, friendly…

[@CraigKerwood]

Hi Chris, I just turned 61 and my wife left me a year ago and just started entertaining the idea of moving abroad. I have time to take my time to research. I will be on a budget that sounds like would work and I'm already disillusioned with dating American women. Thanks for your helpful videos. I will keep watching.

[@CarefreeChris]

I think the Philippines is a great option for us Western Men. Especially if we're looking for a long-term partner.

[@gregdixon5848]

Finally a good explanation on how the apps work. Thanks Chris.

[@CarefreeChris]

Glad it was helpful!

[@JohnKanuck]

About Bumble - yes, I would use it in North America, but given that many Filipinas are shy and don't want to make the first move, how does that work? The purpose of Bumble is to let women take the lead, but most Filipinas want the man to lead.

[@CarefreeChris]

They will electronically

[@3rdGenAmerFilipina]

So happy to hear you are dating again, you deserve someone more your type and who will care for and love you!

[@CarefreeChris]

Awe. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Hope you’re good there too:)

[@Mikeycambovideos]

It’s so easy to get phone numbers in person at the local food market or just walking around, then you can avoid the fake app profiles or at least the filtered pics. Saves lots of time. You’ll be on a date that night. It’s beyond easy.

[@CarefreeChris]

I hear ya. I’m just horrible at appropriating women. Live is the US has scarred me 🤪

[@rl8571]

I work in healthcare where 80 percent of my co workers are women. They show me their profiles during breaks to get a males input.. my response is always flattering but those filters need to be banned,

[@passportbrolife]

🤣 basically the low hanging fruits...bars, food market, sari sari store women

[@mikepedersen0897]

Here's a suggestion.....get a dog...😀

[@CarefreeChris]

lol i haven't given up yet Mike.

[@mikepedersen0897]

@@CarefreeChris 🤣

[@mikepedersen0897]

@@CarefreeChris 🤣

[@HexFlex-ss9rm]

He’s right Chris, dogs attract girls . Like that shirt 👕 attracts flies 🎉😂😂😂😂

[@CarefreeChris]

You guys are a riot. Ok, I’m in a pet store now 🤪

[@koufax174]

Great service you provide Chris. Thank you for your efforts. Look forward to your other videos on dating. So refreshing compared to other not actively dating or have dated long ago. Best wishes 🙏🏼

[@CarefreeChris]

Much appreciated!

[@mustainefriedman966]

Good decision to date a Filipina or future partner because they are conservative, serious about relationship, they take care of you. For example, cook for you when you get home from work, household chores, and Kids. Majority of Filipinas do that but not saying all.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah, I’m really enjoying the culture here

[@evabonje2202]

Oooh i love their avocado cream pie😋😊

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes, it’s super lami:)

[@stephano8668]

Bro.. you make great videos!

[@CarefreeChris]

I appreciate that!

[@Lazy-A-L33]

Good information, but I am not looking for an LDR. But I need the information later.

[@CarefreeChris]

Agree and good call. Use this for when you get here

[@JohnKgeo]

Hey Chris. Yeah socials are cool but sometimes may occur the opposite of what are created for.The province are great but lot jealous and as the song says: "Finished with my woman 'cause She couldn't help me with my mind" It depends where you are looking for. There are 🗑️, 🍺, 🌲, 🏠 places. Definitely you need a woman that she can follow you and not enchain you to her world. This is the difficult part. Mostly for you are over 32 not so westernized, mature enough to understand and follow your lifestyle. Is it needed to get married?

[@CarefreeChris]

We’ll see how this next year goes with dating. I’m taking it slow:)

[@JohnKgeo]

@@CarefreeChris Definitely needs time. Consider that, in first 6-12 months, you are dating a representative of her and not real her. Especially if you are looking for a woman to live the rest or creating new family. Take your time then. Excellent content Sir

[@theSilvioRoesler]

Thanks for posting! Great insight information

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you

[@brian_atc]

Dang it Chris! You've got me reconsidering my plans bro! Cebu seems to have a really modern atmosphere with excellent amenities. I was thinking of going a bit more rural, but that might not have the conveniences that I enjoy doing daily. Looks like I'll have to branch out to get a better idea of where I'll truly feel comfortable living. Appreciate the variety of info you show on your vlogs.

[@CarefreeChris]

I'm big fan of Cebu City. I also liked the Metro Manila area too. What I like more about Cebu City though is easy access to more of the Philippines via ferry with my motorcycle.

[@markymark7631]

Cebu is the middle ground mate....further south less cosmopolitan it gets....try cebu first its easier to navigate

[@kmilton1593]

Good subject matter, Chris, but we would have loved to see you video yourself going over to the Honey behind you (sitting at the counter) and see your surprise introduction! In fact why don't you do say ten surprise cold-call meetings in a video?

[@CarefreeChris]

lol right. I have absolutely no game which is why I needs apps 🤪

[@darkroast66]

I haven’t seen all of your videos, but what happened to the beautiful young lady you were dating? You seemed liked a great match.

[@Mr-Clark]

I don't think he disclosed what happened. From what I recalled is that she didn't have long term plans, I could be wrong. Probably monkey branching in the jungle of hypergamy.

[@CarefreeChris]

We ended things back in December for various reasons

[@davidssunstar]

The dating there is great...

[@CarefreeChris]

It's supercalifragilisticexpialidocious

[@beaulong]

Fb dating doesn't give me the option to look for filipinas in the phillipines. Am i doing something wrong? Or do i need to be in the phillipines?

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah exactly. It’s based on your location so you’ll need to be here

[@CYBERDROID224]

CHILLYPOP DROIDZ! NEWYORK SHEEEESH SHEEEESH! BECAUSE OF STRANGE MANDELA EFFECT PHENOMENOM MY FAVORITE FIVE MEMBER VILLAGE PEOPLE ARE NOW 6 MEMBERS EVERSINCE THEY STARTED! SHEEEESH! SHEEEESH! SHEEEESH!

[@CarefreeChris]

Saturday. What a day. Rocking all week for you

[@Matt-b5i]

I dont think im ugly but going on tinder made me second guess that even in cebu no likes/matches exept from pinay lunch ladies 😂

[@CarefreeChris]

It’s a different dating dynamic for sure now. Better than the west but not like from what I’m hearing it was pre pandemic

[@jcmost9469]

Simple date without amount of money just Simple tips 😅 you can see the woman how she dress and accept some pinay will make piss off when you date in just ordinary place while other side of women high luxury life 😅

[@CarefreeChris]

Agree. Just simple life

[@Matthew-gz4oh]

Best video I have seen on this topic. I was there for 6 months dating and the location mismatch I never got resolved on FB. Thanks for going over it.

[@CarefreeChris]

Glad it helped!

[@BeerBikes]

Whatever happened to your friend in the province, the sari sari gal that you also took to the zoo.😊 peace man! You got this, you're Bruce Willis! 🤘

[@CarefreeChris]

lol so epic

[@uncobazz3848]

Hey Chris, I've started following your channel recently and like your style. Apologies firstly as my question is unrelated to your dating strategy post. Have you or any of your expat mates in Cebu had any experience with cashing out crypto like USDT/USDC/BTC to local physical US dollars or Pesos? My Filipina misses and I are making plans to set up a base in Cebu City later next year and I'm just starting my research on this and many other topics Good luck with your dating Cheers

[@CarefreeChris]

I do know a guy named David who pays his rent with crypto. I personally don’t have any cryptocurrency. I think Reeky might dabble in that also. And thanks for watching and following channel :-)

[@KevinVenturePhilippines]

Really good info, thank you!

[@CarefreeChris]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@atwitinthephilippines9370]

Feek like this is maybe only worth it uf yiu attend ti stay somewhere 3 months +

[@CarefreeChris]

For sure

[@johnmycroft3065]

nothing better than in person

[@CarefreeChris]

I'm digging the Facebook dating app but hear ya

[@enzopastore5811]

Chris l was told that if your good looking women will flock to you just walking around the Philippines.no need for dating apps.😊😊😊

[@CarefreeChris]

I think that’s a pretty big misconception. It’s somewhat true in the province areas but not case in larger more metropolitan areas like Cebu City and Manila. They’re so use to foreigners in those areas

[@thebeachoflife]

You killed the thumbnail, this should perform well for you Chris.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you. Really like it too.

[@Dj-Solarjazz]

In the Philippines you don't need a dating app. Just go out on the street. That's enough

[@CarefreeChris]

So true, especially if you’re in areas where there are few foreigners

[@thefilipinagem]

Nice strategies hehe. I have videos on similar subjects

[@CarefreeChris]

Keep working hard girl as you have great videos. Amping:)

[@thefilipinagem]

@@CarefreeChris Thank you so much! 😀

[@oceanearth2243]

No tinder?

[@CarefreeChris]

I haven’t tried it. With Bumble and Facebook i have more than i know what to do with

[@HexFlex-ss9rm]

Big C , you’ll do better if you don’t wear a shirt covered in fleas …😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 love ya brother

[@CarefreeChris]

lol thanks Hex. Hope you’re great there:)

[@yojlisor8227]

Hi!sir.sorry to intrude in your channel comment box.but i saw your profile on a dating apps.that you haven't mentioned. Is that you?but i unsubscribe it already. God bless.

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m out there in the dating apps:)

[@yojlisor8227]

@@CarefreeChris better to be single and enjoy life in good ways..hehehe.thank for your time on responding. More power and God bless your yt channel.

[@MikesAdventurez]

Chris this was a good video! keep up the good work but I think one of those screenshots was a ladyboy!

[@CarefreeChris]

lol i know right

[@Endoplazmik-retikulum]

Hello Chris. Is it easy to get laid in Philippines at the first date?

[@CarefreeChris]

Depends really. If you’re paying for it, yes. If it’s a good girl probably not the first week

[@Blue.aka.Sharky]

I'm just looking for a maid that is easy on the eyes

[@CarefreeChris]

i hear ya

[@krishyyfan5153]

🤣Expat Vloggers Say Western Bro are Rock Stars in the philippines... Women come to you... and then ends up with a Dating App... 🤣

[@CarefreeChris]

I think the Rockstar avenue is a little misleading. We’re sought after for sure but I meet a lot of guys who actually struggle meeting women, myself included. I find these dating apps a great resource for me to date and not worry about trying to pickup or offend the wrong Filipina.

[@krishyyfan5153]

@@CarefreeChris you are not sought after... even the interracial marriage statistics is low.... you are probably getting the leftovers of filipio men....🤣

[@Mr-Clark]

I'm normally against those apps since women online are usually like fast food menu. Meaning the pictures show a thick, fresh and hearty sandwich. When you get your plate, it's a flat, stale and unappetizing sandwich. lol Two good things about apps tho: 1. If she lets you play with her phone and poke around, she's likely not hiding anything. 2. You can create an alternate profile or have a buddy of yours seek her. If she bites, you know you gotta dump her. If you have long term goals.

[@CarefreeChris]

I'll go into it more but I feel dating apps are a great option for larger areas or socially awkward folks like myself who struggle asking women out. #2 is something I've heard a couple of people suggest.

[@djsweetdaddy3215]

Great video, looks like you’re killing it there!

[@CarefreeChris]

Have a good time for sure:)

[@RealGaryGibson]

Nice shirt Chris!

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks Gary. Hope you're good there.

[@michaeltoia9095]

Hey dude how many give you my honest opinion like you're giving your honest opinion your choices of dating apps suck now it doesn't mean I don't like you I'm just telling you your choices of dating apps suck

[@CarefreeChris]

lol. Which ones do you like?

[@michaeltoia9095]

@@CarefreeChris Thanks for asking bro The only one that I like would be Christian Filipina number one For sure and for certain I would have to say it's the number one in my opinion. Thanks for asking I'm glad we can get along

[@CarefreeChris]

I tried it and didn’t like it. It’s also extremely expensive. For me there are just better options out there providing better services and are free.

[@rogue2791]

Thank you for these dating app insights Chris.

[@CarefreeChris]

My pleasure!

[@CYBERDROID224]

B.L.A.D E.TROOPERS 2125 NEWYORK SHEEESH! SHEEESH! SIAM SIAM BLU NICKNAME OF CEBU IS VERY CHILLYPOP NOW! SHEEESH SHEEESH! SHEEESH!

[@CarefreeChris]

The professor and Maryanne

[@DirtyPaulMcGill]

How many girlfriends have you had since you arrived in the Philippines . I only want to know how many women you have had where you were not stuck in the friend zone player

[@CarefreeChris]

Girlfriends? 3 now. Slept with? More than 3

[@DirtyPaulMcGill]

@@CarefreeChris im calling bull

[@CarefreeChris]

Tell Bull I say hello

[@DirtyPaulMcGill]

@@CarefreeChris wow clever!! The High School girls will love how clever you are 🌈

[@cliffmoxon8573]

good luck my friend

[@CarefreeChris]

You too

[@jocelynconcha7751]

Great insights thanks

[@CarefreeChris]

Glad it was helpful!

[@Walter-pd6ue]

Turn up the sound❤

[@CarefreeChris]

Will do

[@Kimonha]

Nice shirt. Did you get that at Uniqlo?

[@CarefreeChris]

I did not. I brought some Charlie Harper shirts with me from the US. 🤪

[@passportbrolife]

🤣WEstern bro is becoming irrelevant now... the Vast majority of Filipinas want a Filipino man or a Korean man... 🤣

[@CarefreeChris]

Not sure about the vast majority of Filipinas but an interesting point of view.

[@passportbrolife]

@@CarefreeChris yes it's vast majority... you can check the interracial marriage stats... I can easily go to any mall and see a filipina holding hands with Asian men... it's captain obvious you know...

[@CarefreeChris]

Then who am I and the rest of the foreigners dating if we’re not dating Filipinas? lol I’m not saying your experience is inaccurate, but it’s not what I’m experiencing nor what other’s are reporting either. Sounds more like wishful thinking honestly than based on anything in reality

[@passportbrolife]

@@CarefreeChris your personal experience does not mean it is true for the vast majority... That's the whole point why we have Statistics and survey... There were about 8 million foreigner visitors in 2019, and only 15k end up with interracial marriage🤣....that number does not look good at all...

[@jakartaman3365]

@@passportbrolife I'd say with that ignorant, hateful comment, YOU'RE the one that's fast becoming irrelevant. Don't kid yourself. There's still plenty of attractive, independent asian women who prefer us Western guys with our much bigger di**s! As compared to the local 3-4" variety. It turns out that size really DOES matter. Maybe you should try one on ( in ? ) for size sometime. It would certainly help to get rid of your anger and frustration.

[@floren879]

Hello 👋

[@CarefreeChris]

Hello 👋

[@agneskempis-cruz7981]

Thank you for sharing this😊...

[@CarefreeChris]

So nice of you

[@WalesFamily-z3j]

Friend zone Cris

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Lots of friends here in the Philippines:)

[@mitchbromwell9554]

Chris, 😁 Enjoy the Special Moments in the Philippines 🇵🇭 and Be Safe. 👍🏼 Someone will eventually find you,and at the same moment you will find them.✔️ Keeping You in my prayers. 🙏

[@CarefreeChris]

I'm in no rush. Thanks Mitch:)

[@jcgolf159]

37!? Why you showing us seniors? 💢🤣

[@CarefreeChris]

I had to change my date range actually for the screenshots :-)

[@jcgolf159]

@@CarefreeChris 😏

[@bj5083]

Hey Chris, nice video. So, the Facebook dating app, does it post your dating business on your page for all your friends to see?

[@CarefreeChris]

lol hey Benny. It does not. Nor does it recommend your family as potential dates 🤪

[@bj5083]

@CarefreeChris LOL, thanks Chris, I was worried about the family members 😆

[@tombkk1322]

@@bj5083I’m paranoid about everything online 😂. I need to get over that.

[@ezkempinkemp3467]

Thanks!

[@CarefreeChris]

You bet!

[@timlee5260]

Great insight.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you

[@timlee5260]

@@CarefreeChris I'm following your journey with great anticipation.

[@LA-zw6nl]

Brother, you look super happy!

[@CarefreeChris]

I am!:)

[@LA-zw6nl]

@@CarefreeChris happy for you! I’m going through a divorce and I have two young kids. Tough!

[@tomhunter2623]

Real good information. I had the issue with the location not sure what I did but working now. Just moved from Dumaguete to Roxas City. So just starting to find a partner (Women).

[@CarefreeChris]

Great to hear!

[@kevinacker9843]

Dramaggete too many foreigns

[@allen9129]

500 vloggewrs have covered this topic an trying to boost there views. HERE is a good Question? No one wants to mpve into the provence. because of so many issues. But this is the true decicion. So many people have madfe money off these vlogs. I suggest you get on a bike fore a month an go city to city an see what happens? If not, this topic has been covered. Really like your vids Chris. Everyone knows your trying to push up your subs. Havr a great day.

[@CarefreeChris]

What a great idea Allen. I think today I'll go buy a ticket to Leyte and ride all over Leyte and Mindanao:) Cheers.

[@terrycavender]

Great intel! I tried POF and Ok Cupid in the US, it was hit or miss, at about a 90% rate of miss. 🙄 That said, I did hook up some, but later on wish I hadn’t! 🤣 I tried Bumble here in Mexico without much success. I had no idea there was FB dating, so thanks for that. Really, really, really, important to me, can I spec that I'm looking for a chick that likes to ride??? If the Philippines is a hit for me, I'll probably sell my Himalayan and score another once I'm settled.

[@CarefreeChris]

Nice man. I’m hoping to score a Himalayan 450 myself this year

[@terrycavender]

@@CarefreeChris I know, you mentioned that before. I just hope the pricing for RE is similar to Thailand, my 350 Classic was under $4,000 USD.

[@anne2loving]

My opinion is, dating in person is better than online dating apps.

[@CarefreeChris]

So true

[@DestinationJapan95]

Don’t be low IQ, you use apps to connect with people and then meet up of course

[@larryharry7221]

Find em Fool em F... em Forget em

[@CarefreeChris]

Call me crazy but I haven't given up yet on the idea of marriage 🤪

[@caspi88]

@@CarefreeChrisdon’t be a clown like the guy above. I am an American living in Manila, finding a meaningful long term relationship is more fulfilling.

[@CarefreeChris]

@@caspi88 I haven’t given up on marriage yet and I don’t necessarily judge folks if they’re in a different space.