2 new foreigners in the Philippines / Invisible to Rockstar...

[@MichaelVizyak]

" I feel alive again" That says it all.

[@CarefreeChris]

So true. Good stuff. Thanks for watching and commenting. Highlighting that portion of the video is a big takeaway. Thank you

[@eddieBoxer]

I feel dead now.

[@CarefreeChris]

@@eddieBoxerHope you’re good there brother. I hear you btw. You able to come out even for a vacation?

[@naldsarmas8584]

Hi Chris , The main reason why folks enjoy your channel and other channels , in my opinion, is because we enjoy watching happy people, genuinely happy people 😂

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate that.

[@thecalendarninja]

I met my wife in Tarlac, Philippines 🇵🇭 best decision I ever made she's the only woman I ever met who truly loves and cares for me unconditionally.😊

[@CarefreeChris]

The Philippines is probably the best country to find a life long mate if that’s what you’re interested in finding.

[@andreseriliano1761]

I just wanted to wish every people in the world, who found a new place to start their lives, to have a happily ever after. You guys should consider yourselves lucky, not all have the option to escape the toxic world they're in.

[@CarefreeChris]

So true. I’m truly honored to be here. Hope you’re good there

[@eduardochavacano]

Then dont go look for a purpose. Enjoy being a rock star to the naive and sexuslly repressed so life will be as planned.

[@johnconstantinelegaspi2790]

These vloggers and expats are doing more than our own tourism department.

[@CarefreeChris]

lol nice

[@MakaiIELTS]

it takes millions of pesos to put an advertisement on TV..they can do it online but they just let the foreign youtubers do it.. still a good thing

[@bornonjuly7052]

Well the foreigners experiences of good attitudes,manners and characters of the locals, our superb hospitality, we values the family and respect to the elderlies are the one that matters and make us Filipino stand out!

[@CarefreeChris]

It’s an amazing culture and I’m so honored to be here

[@johnconstantinelegaspi2790]

@@bornonjuly7052 it's just so happen that we have shit govt officials, this country should be on par with Japan or South Korea if we are talking about progress if we have a better govt officials

[@cryptotrader2779]

Wow, I'm so jealous. I really hope I experience this one day soon. I'm in Europe and it seems to be crumbling fast. People have all but lost their minds, so PH looks super chill in comparison. Exactly my kind of vibe.

[@CarefreeChris]

It’s incredible here for sure:)

[@DigitalChannel]

If works in your society pressure you to earn and earn and earn for you to live. And if you have permanent pension even a little amount, you will satisfy to life here in Philippines.

[@eduardochavacano]

There are CCTV cameras in every corner now. So perhaps the Europeans can all come here and transplant Scandinavian culture or French.

[@SwisstedChef2018]

it is

[@ryanjones7543]

Do you really trade crypto

[@VikingNomad99]

I think you convinced me on the Philippines. Vlogging will be more of a hobby for me but the amount of exposure you can get compared to Thailand is obvious. Double the population and majority English speaking. The genuine nature of the people is a huge factor also. I think I mentioned want to get back into scuba as well and Tubbataha is one of the best dive spots in the world.

[@PaulKurzberg-xj3mn]

PH is waaaaay better than TH.

[@CarefreeChris]

If you’re considering Thailand, another vlogger i watch Roaming Hogan I think his channel name is and he did a great video on comparing Thailand / Philippines. I think it’s spot on except when it comes to dating part. I don’t think he goes into much there. Anyway, thanks for watching my video. Really appreciate it

[@VikingNomad99]

@@CarefreeChris Hadn't heard of him yet, will definitely check him out. Thanks!

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. He’s a good kid. 30 something and traveling the world. Documenting his experience. Good times.

[@Eric-qm5xw]

@@VikingNomad99 lol have you been to Thailand …lol go north ..they don’ t speak English …rural Thais don’t speak English.

[@vicdillon6278]

I particularly enjoyed this one, most especially your conversation on how prevalent the English language is here and how fluent most Filipinos are in English, plus the overall western or American influence present in our culture. My take is this -- We're really not Asians, I think we're Latin-American hybrids! 😄

[@CarefreeChris]

I love this. It really is the perfect mix. Really great

[@johnconstantinelegaspi2790]

We are actually like that, there's a stand up comedian that actually mentioned that. Because we have been colonized by Spanish and Americans for almost 400 years combined.

[@moondustgirl2132]

@@johnconstantinelegaspi2790 It's Jo Koy. He said we're the Mexicans of Asia. Lol. Jo Koy is a Fil-Am btw.

[@johnconstantinelegaspi2790]

@@moondustgirl2132 no not him, there's another one but the term is something asian latinos and not mexicans, I remember Jo Koy said that Asian Mexican thing

[@vicdillon6278]

@@moondustgirl2132 Jokoy huh...I've seen a few of his videos but was not aware he said this, that's pretty cool!

[@mariatheresadcrafty4672]

The handshake you mentioned is we call it “Mano “ a sign of respect to our elders,uncles,aunties. And you are right about getting up and giving the seats to elder people. I have never seen that kind of attitudes of younger generations in the US, especially that they are all busy looking with their cellphones. I remember when I was young, all grandkids have responsibility to visit grandma and help her with household chores during weekends, and spend summer days with her too.

[@oldschoolliferhere]

Yea me too, we respected our Grandparents or we got it from them or ours. Not any more here in the US, they all show up when the Grandparents pass for hand out. That happened to my neighbor where you never saw the Grand kids except Christmas and when they were not home for the kids to use the pool and yea to ran sack the house after the passing for all they could take that they did not deserve! It made me sick to my stomach!!

[@teresitamatienzo4863]

Born there in the PH, since 1978 here in England and so happy all of you Americans love our country...you are most wellcome!

[@gregdixon5848]

Good conversation. You hear the same things over and over in vlogs but its nice to get the feedback from two credible guys who are new on the scene. Dan is smart about taking his time before committing to living in Phil just as you were to jump Chris. Everyone is different.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. He’s in a great spot and has done his homework

[@LOU1NY]

I live in NY but I’m going back to PH next year just to feel grounded & normal again.

[@CarefreeChris]

I hear ya. Hope you make it back here soon. Take care there

[@Jazz-tv7jr]

"Mano Po" is an endearing Filipino gesture of respect that we give to elders, and a way of accepting a blessing from them, we Filipino's do it specially to elder asking for blessing everytime we back to home from school, churches and travel.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. Really beautiful

[@mhail7874]

It's obvious how influenced Filipinos are by Western culture. Almost like it's their second nature. But, not to a point where they adopt their behavior and attitude. The culture of respect is still ingrained in them, and thank goodness for that 🙏

[@CarefreeChris]

I agree. A perfect balance and really kept the good things regarding the Western culture but not the bad. So honored to be here. Thanks for watching and commenting

[@wildbill7081]

until driving a vehicle

[@rbebeabucay9356]

Religion plays a major role in the Philippine culture. That’s where Philippines and USA differs.

[@Jazz-tv7jr]

Because Filipinos are happy people and they value the importance of shame or being ashamed to do something bad or something that can make others feel bad, they are not used to people who shows irritability and anger in public. They also don’t like to be embarrassed in front of a lot of people. They are very sensitive. Once you are talking to the Filipinos and you get angry with them, you have to hold your temper and talk or show your anger to them in private. They can understand if you will be angry because they committed mistakes and it will be easy for them to accept and adjust, just don’t embarrass them in front of other people because most of them will never forget that even when they get old. Also Filipino's has a low self-esteem and Filipino's don't like debating specially with family's hate confrontation.

[@bert-bb3cm]

Philippines will continue to thrive to become the number one destination for foreigners to visit. Filipinos are the most friendliest, hospitable, generous people on earth. All is invited to see, feel, experience the beautiful beaches, mountains and fiestas that each town celebrates. Thank you guys for the informative videos you have. Thanks Chris!

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you for watching and commenting. I really appreciate it

[@sallyfromcali9190]

Thank you for the nice compliments and observation on the loyal, devoted heart of a Filipina 🥰 Q: Most expats are SWM , have you seen female expats coming over ? If so, it would be great to get her perspective on the challenges and benefits of making the move. I’ve been considering a move, but am just in the exploration stage if it would even be possible .. thank you for your great conversational , happy go lucky manner. Stay safe and happy travels. 🌺

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah Sally. There’s a lot of talk on that topic. In my live stream someone asked about that exact topic and we went over it briefly. I’m not sure exactly where that conversation took place in my live but check it out if you like. I do think this is a great destination for any race or gender. You would want to keep your senses up like there in the West but I do believe its a great destination for everyone. I would say come check it out. Start with either Cebu City, BGC Manila or Davao City. Spend a couple of weeks and check it out. I think Cebu City is the best place to start and maybe Davao City which I believe was voted safest city in SE Asia.

[@williamtheadventurer8048]

My wife spent 20years in the US, with me. Now we reside in here in the Philippines. We built our dream home. Our son is in a private school, life is so much better here.

[@jaymarquis1913]

I’m really digging the channel my friend your hitting the same timeline of where I see myself and I’m enjoying the journey with you see you in December!

[@CarefreeChris]

Nice Jay. Ping me a couple months out. Would love to catch up when you’re here. I can potentially fly out to the Manila area too. Hope all is good there brother.

[@andrewbrann6231]

I've been both places and I stayed with the widow lady that I'm friends with in Northern Thailand far away from tourist areas. There was no foreigners anywhere around. I will say the Philippines treat you like a rock star in comparison even though Thai people are very nice. I actually enjoy Thailand way more and it was way cleaner and everything operated way better than the Philippines. The only thing I can say that the Philippines is better at is language and the Visa situation

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. I’m interested in learning more about Thailand and the people. Looks incredible. Thanks for watching and commenting. Really appreciate it. Take care there

[@PurpleHaze4me]

There are a lot of intangibles that Philippines is better at than just "language and visa" which are nothing more than mere conveniences. And not all places in the country are dirty or poorly operated. Obviously, you don't know much about the Philipppines.

[@wildbill7081]

@@PurpleHaze4me Actualy he is correct I have lived in both country's, here in the Philippines for 33 years and lived in Thailand 3 years and been there on visits 5 times since the early 70's and Thailand as a total country is cleaner even Bangkok is clean but you cannot say that about Manila and other places. Yes there are some clean places where the locals take pride and care of their surroundings, usually more in the provinces. There are good and bad about both countries like all countries I think that is what Tango was saying, and I like your youtube name Purple Haze

[@edmhie1]

Filipino culture is a positive culture, that's why they don't like negative people because it's a toxic culture. Secret of being sucessful here as an expat is to learn how to be patience.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Have to chill, relax and smile:)

[@BeerBikes]

Great conversation guys! Cheers! I've said that to my friends before you wanna feel like a Rockstar go the PI. As you here in the US it's the daily grind and also, i barely know my neighbors here rarely we talk nobody wants to engage. Thanks again for the vid looking forward for more. Not skipping any ads, least i can do for your hard work. Peace!🤘

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you brother. Hope all is good there. Really appreciate your support

[@ruizdelgadodemolina7996]

Guys, you must have met the wrong ladies. Good Filipinas, you meet them at the office, or from friends or friends of friends or social gatherings such as weddings, bdays or wakes. The aforementioned women are educated and their family members are in the work force, meaning, the family will never or if by chance of crisis, ask financial support from you. What ladies you had mentioned are those types whereby they live in the slums and their only hope to move vertically is to marry foreigners. I am a Filipina and it's not fair being stereotyped as one who live thru " free-lunch". So much so, " that asking for financial support from in-laws" which is seldom the case. Honestly, I recommend, you befriend a priest and probably, he will recommend the best partners for you, maybe a lawyer, a teacher or doctor. Know your worth and do not go for less than you deserve. Go for someone who you can comfortably communicate with, someone who is articulate, who can express their thoughts, in that way, you will be able to live very enjoyably in the Philippines.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. I agree. I haven't met anyone here in Cebu City yet. I'm not really into the pickup scene. I'm actually considering trying online dating.

[@ReymundoLlupar]

Agree that pilipinos are more devoted spouse than transactional one because may be we are christians....

[@allencoffland1685]

speaking of fillipinas standing by their men, there was an aussie dude who severeal years ago had a channel in thailand talking mostly about dating and women. he praised his girlfriend at the time as an example of one of the 'good ones'.. fast forward a few years and he blew his knee out and couldn't find a good doctor to get it fixed.........eventually the girlfriend was too embarrassed to be seen walking with a crippled old farang and dumped him. he left for the fillipines where he found a new squeeze and quickly transitioned to making videos about the great qualities of fillipinas 😂 and he even found a competent doctor to correctly diagnose his knee problem!

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m so honored to be here in the Philippines

[@Jazz-tv7jr]

I don't know that Filipino's like flirting 😅😅 But maybe yes some my japanese husband thoughts I'm flirting him bfre but I'm just care I mean it was natural for Filipinos to be charm.😅

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. I’m actually discovering that this may really be a nervous reaction and nothing to do with actual so called flirting.

[@jamesgilbert2181]

l live in cabuyao laguna i dont give my wife a allowance at all she needs something just gets it i dont understand the allowance thing she has her own money and she has mine what is mine is hers lol and no one in her family ever ask for any thing and its not because there middle class there not

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. Not all will want or even need that kind of thing. No question

[@boogeyman5136]

philippines will always have a special spot in the heart, most of the foreigners who visited here.... and taken something loving/funny/good memories to remember when they went back home.... ☺️

[@johnclark7973]

Well I enjoyed that BS session immensely. 👏 You are a very relaxed, easy going and easy to talk to dude. Fun is the word that comes to mind. My ears and spirits perked up when your friend said that in the Philippines he now feels like he is a 19/20 year old kid again! 😳🤯👍 I'm 51, I'll have a serving of that, please! 😂

[@CarefreeChris]

Lol was fun. Thanks for watching:)

[@johnconstantinelegaspi2790]

I married my wife in our 30s and she was still a virgin

[@bornonjuly7052]

The 2 of you kind of expats having a good character and positive attitudes are the type of foreigners our country needs. You are correct Chris Filipinos doesn't care about the age gap so long as the relationships is bind with sincerity, love, caring for each other and you need also to understand the culture of being family oriented including the relatives. If you support your wife and established a good relationships with relatives you will live like a king. Your wife and relatives will took care of you until your dying moments and will find ways to serve you.

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m truly honored to be here

[@libcam70]

Yup! But u guys should not go to my country and get with too young girls just because you can. There is a name for that!

[@CarefreeChris]

I hear ya.

[@Jazz-tv7jr]

Filipino's is Easily contented- They tend to say “Ok na ‘to”, or “Bahala na si Batman” meaning whatever it is, then its fine. Only few people has short or long term goals. Lack of innovation drive compared to other Asian countries.

[@iglehart14]

I stayed in Thailand for nine months and my experience was totally different. I have a lot fun there. I never date it with my wallet. Thailand women will cook , clean, buy you thing and take care of you. I think you was just hang out at the wrong place. So I guess when in the Philippines I will get treated like a rockstar. Let see😊

[@CarefreeChris]

I need to check out Thailand. I’ve never been and know very little of the culture

[@armandgallanosa]

We're a Christian country.. big difference for an Asian culture

[@chattcedric6321]

As a Pilipino I do really appreciate your conversations. It truly gives the true picture of Philippines as you experience it. It also give a good perspective for Foreigners contemplating on coming to our humble country, be it for a visit, tour or staycation. Keep up the good works Guys. Be safe and Godspeed!!!

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you so much and I’m very honored to be here

[@chattcedric6321]

@@CarefreeChris Likewise am honored you chose to live here in my humble country. BTW, while you're in the Philippines never pass a chance to taste our Famous Mango (ripe ones). Its Awarded by the Guinness Book Of World Records as the Best, Delicious and the Sweetest Mangoes in the World. It's more fun in the Philippines!!! Enjoy and stay safe.

[@macvillegas4025]

I enjoyed watching the two of you sharing opinions and hearing different stories and perspective. I hope you will guys enjoy the Philippines more. try to visit beautiful places and spots. I have watched your boracay trip few weeks ago. travel more please. every cities and provinces have different vibes. ❤

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. I’m thinking about where next. It’s time to take a quick trip to somewhere:) Thanks for watching and really appreciate it

[@macvillegas4025]

@@CarefreeChris try el nido or coron Palawan. I think you are in Cebu, try kawasan falls and do canyoneering.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. All on my radar. I’m thinking about CDO. The timing is good where i don’t have my bike yet and a place i wont take my bike to

[@MakaiIELTS]

yeah it's true..we don't wanna get upset and stress here. We avoid stress here because we prefer to be happy than to feel bad.

[@RS-oy7uh]

Really enjoyed this video. Just subscribed ✓

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it

[@Gurkha9]

The respect to the elderly "special hand shake" you mentioned is known as amin in Bisaya or mano (po) in Tagalog

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. I love how the culture here respects and nurtures the elderly

[@rhobx]

​@@CarefreeChris Also a misconception in one of your videos, this isn't just for the old people only. Even if you're in your 20s, your niece and nephews will do the same gesture to greet you as well.

[@mrq8402]

Love the engaging dialogue with like-minded guest. More of this type of content.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Interviews are fun for everyone. Good stuff. Thanks for watching and commenting :)

[@richiemochi]

How many filipinas are nurses and caregivers across the world? There is too many of them and it shows they can care for people especially if you turned old just have to find the right one.

[@CarefreeChris]

Exactly. Step into any hospital in the West and you’ll more than likely find at least one Filipina nurse

[@PhilippinesFarmLife]

To make your experience in the Philippines go SUPER FANTASTIC take the time and a few dollars and learn the LANGUAGE. The respect you will earn is tremendous that you actually care enough to learn thw language is HUGE! PLUS, you are going to prevent numerous problems for yourself from those who might try to take advantage of your kindness. RED FLAG WARNING. The 19 year old FLIRTS are *rofessionals* Think about it, you are invisible and can't get a date in the USA, WHY are you suddenly a *ROCKSTAR* here? Hence, LEARN THE LANGUAGE!

[@CarefreeChris]

So important to learn some words

[@nevetzedek1702]

We’re happy to have you in the Philippines 🇵🇭 🏝️ enjoy 👍

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you so much. I’m so honored to be here

[@karenbrecio1649]

Basically Filipiinos are shy..Filipinas are sometimes unaware that they are flirting lol...😊👍❗ Or maybe foreigners think they are flirting when they are just being friendly ❤ Life in the Philippines especially in the provinces is less complicated compared to Western countrues..my opinion. Good conversations too. 😊

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Agree totally. I’m seeing it’s not so much an opening to date (flirt) or even expressing an interest, but a shyness response. Thanks for this comment as it allowed me to see it further.

[@karenbrecio1649]

@@CarefreeChris Exclusive dating happens when the couple is officially in a relationship (bf/gf) but in the big cities you can encounter a few liberated men and women. Have a nice day. 👍

[@rickgoad-w9s]

Hello Chris, it’s Rick again commenting on your channel. I think it’s awesome. Maybe you could help me understand the difference of dating a Filipina girl before I get there or be open for when I arrive just your thoughts. I am looking for something serious. Just sharing with you thank you Chan is great thank you and your buddies definitely have very happy life there. I look so forward to when I arrive.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Really incredible relationship opportunities here. I’m excited for you to get here and for sure look me up.

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

And English is widely spoken in the PI.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah exactly. So easy to communicate not only to travel around but also key in your relationships where highly effective communication skills are required

[@Jgilbertd]

Living the life guys! 😊Happy to see you guys having fun in life again!

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes! Thank you!

[@Scamander1417]

From the land of the uptight to the land of smiles! Glad you could get out of the toxic world we lived in.

[@CarefreeChris]

So crazy there isn’t it. Hope you’re surviving it.

[@pinkskiestoday]

New subscriber here :). What an interesting conversation. More, please. Question: Have you ever noticed/felt any animosity from local men? Is there ever a sense that you're 'stealing' "their" women? Thanks.

[@CarefreeChris]

I have not. Everyone, both men and women are equally friendly.

[@CarefreeChris]

Great question

[@kilay2004]

Everytime I watched your vlogs I enjoyed it the discussion are very interesting. And I would agree Chris Philippines has lots of island. Infact even myself a Filipino didn't get a chance to tour around my own country 😉I would say Cebu compare to neighboring countries speaks better English. BPO industry is a big help too been in call center for 5 years now. Thanks Chris for your vlogs stay safe and enjoy.

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you for watching. Really appreciate it

[@listerine414]

How's the air pollution in the IT park area ? It's still in greater Cebu area ...so air pollution must be a problem. Even if don't notice ...please advise

[@CarefreeChris]

Coming from Denver where the air quality was dangerous at times and noticeable, the air quality here hasn't been a factor. Not once have I thought there was a problem. I looked online just now and Cebu City doesn't appear to have air quality issues.

[@tonywalton1052]

Older men younger women is really the underlying dynamic. Few females retire in the Philippines. Why is that?

[@CarefreeChris]

I think there’s a shift happening. I’m getting more and more inquiries from women looking to retire here as well

[@user-nl9me3er7w]

i'm pretty sure he went to Patya. I wonder if he went to Cheing Mai? I was leaning towards thailand but now I'm curious about Philli.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. He was in Pattaya but loving the Philippines now.

[@BradGrayable]

The elderly thing blew me away. The first time I visited to see/meet my Filipina... she stopped to help this elderly woman across the street and I almost fell over. I couldn't believe it! I'm just about to turn 38. I'm planning to retire early there but I have a few more years of work left I need to do here in America. The plan is to bring her here for a few years just to see/experience America and then we'll head to the Philippines for good. I fell in love with the place immediately. The only thing that shocked me was crossing the street. I'm not sure if I'll ever be able to get used to playing Frogger with my life. 🤣

[@CarefreeChris]

Lol right. It’s a skill for sure. Crosswalks are helpful and walking with others until you get the hang of it. Big thing is looking for scooters coming in between cars. We’re not use to that as westerns.

[@gloriabort8422]

Don’t marry someone very young. There are enough educated, Catholic reared , loving faithful women in the Philippines with good family background. You just have to meet the right persons and in good places !

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Totally agree. Have to choose wisely:)

[@Grateful1118]

careful with the women not all are the same.. lol.. a friend hooked up with one and she cleaned him up financially.. LOL

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. Have to be really careful

[@luckybo3864]

lol your exaggerating 80’w/ 19’genuine NOPE . i been to phillpines 2 times 6 months. yes 19 might like one of you guys but not 80 years old. she would be with him for the money/ 4M set up ( 4m phillpines saying ) btw im happy grey shirt is happy and positive but lol laughing like a 15 year old giggling boy . YES I FEEL PHILLPINES HAS A “ innocence “ A VIBE THAT IS GREAT. but also many are naive and i dont say it negative or to put them down its simply they are not “worldly” don’t understand many things about our world or and life and especially business many phillpinos have so many misconceptions about americans but overall the “ overall innocence “ and majority genuine intentions out weighs most negatives and us a good men can help develop our pinays to become more aware and therefore more successful in life sorry even many pinays are overall “ good Hearted “ if you go poor and literally can’t pay anything anymore 99% will leave you

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Good stuff here in this comment. Thanks for watching and commenting. Really appreciate it

[@CaryLeech]

Your editing needs some work. Good content, just super choppy.

[@CarefreeChris]

Is this video in particular? I try to cut out pauses longer than a couple of seconds to keep the content shorter and flowing. Which parts in particular are you referring to (time stamps)? Just so i can get a better idea. Thank you for you input. I’m still very much learning

[@unr3sponsive]

Hope you fellas don't date 20 year olds here. That's a big no no. And age gap is just ridiculous, it may backfire and cause you trouble. Still, hope you find peace and love here.

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m not sure if it’s really a big no no here. Especially in comparison to the west. With that said I’m not even dating my own age lol

[@shaneross64]

I'm 58, very athletic, and decent looking... I'm excited about getting a 30 year old girlfriend/wife... love this video thank you. I have a union crane operating career in Northern California and I plan on working short projects with 6 to 7 days a week and flying to the Phillipines the other 8 months. Do you think that would work out?

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah man. 8 months here sounds great. You'll love it. Come do a test trip.

[@BloodyCrossTV]

You're safe in the Philippines as long as you don't steal someone's wife. hahahhaa

[@CarefreeChris]

Lol so true

[@RaymondLacsaVlogs]

we have the best DIVING SPOTS here in the Phillippines the most diverse in marine species.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yea. Can’t wait to explore

[@TruthTeller-e7h]

Chris, I think you do well in interviews, both asking and answering questions, so please don't rule it out for the future. Not saying that it needs to happen all the time, but you have a good blend of thoughtful questioning mixed in with your own personal experiences - heck, I am just glad you aren't talking about peoples bananas like a lot of these vloggers do. You also bring a nice amount of levity, which is welcome - it doesn't need to be too serious and you keep it light and airy. Just get rid of the restless leg syndrome and you are off to the races! You're welcome :P

[@CarefreeChris]

Love it. Tyvm:)

[@trulyblessed5236]

Of course there are Karens, road rage, people giving fist or middle finger in the Philippines. But generally Filipinos are enduring and patient and friendlier. But my worry is that if there will be so much foreigners in the Philippines, Filipinos may get their attitude and culture because Filipinos are very welcoming and accepting, so Filipinos may become like foreigners as they already adopted their attitude and culture someday. And someday Filipino culture may be gone 😢 I hope Filipinos will stay Filipinos and don't copy the culture and attitude of foreigners, Amen! And you foreigners should not exploit and abuse Filipinos, respect them and understand them too. Don't act like you are a boss or higher. Filipinos are generally nice ❤❤❤

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m so honored to be here and hopefully doing my part to show folks how to be here

[@donaldtutor7784]

Who’s this friend? Please tell him to make his own blogs too.. he will make it big too like you I vouch, as good looking as you… encourage him

[@CarefreeChris]

Dan would make an incredible KZbin channel. His dating escapades are unimaginable.lol

[@leahazucenas6133]

You Guys are Amazing 😉 I’m happy that you guys love ❤️ our Country Thank You 🙏

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you for having us. So happy to be here

[@maeletuana2965]

Yah thats true all the document here are written in English.We seldom use tagalog in contract or any document.

[@CarefreeChris]

It’s so incredible that the documents are all in English

[@mikec8057]

You really don't have a clue. What's going on in the Philippines? you've been there about a year. But that goes with any place.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Loving it here:)

[@leftyinhesperia1662]

My Uncle married a 35 year old when he was 65. They were happily married 20 years until he died. Most of the Americans married to filapina I have known, work out. Usually if they break up its because the young woman wants a baby and the senior man does not and being in usa she is like rockstar, so they run off with another man that will give them that baby. Other then that breakups usually happen because the man is abusive. American men are not use to how submissive filapinas are or at least they used to be. They cant handle the power and abuse it.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. Great girls here. So incredible

[@supingpilario3783]

have a happy and safe stay, big welcome and 1 sub from me here in the Philippines

[@CarefreeChris]

Thank you so much. Really appreciate it

[@EdVonBoeckman]

Can you rent a condo/apt for 2 months in Cebu City? I want to come for a visit to see if I can make it a permanent home. Just like the person you’re interviewing.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. Well, I would do Airbnb for the month to month stuff

[@harrylately1]

a lil bit of a bubble...oh please any other part of cebu is 100% not like IT /Business park area lol

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. It’s bubblicious.

[@dannynicart2389]

Historically, the Philippines was a former colony of the United States, and that is the reason why Filipinos tend to be close to it. Education is just one of the American legacies imparted to Filipinos.

[@BearInThePhillipines]

U.S BLOOD has soaked the dirt to free the phillipine people from barbaric savage Japan occupation. I dont remember the colony part

[@christophertubig8267]

We had the educational system before spanish came. We have our own language and alphabets, math, political system, and we learn other languages so we can trade goods to foreigners. When spaniards came they built universities and they are the oldest universities in asia.

[@CherRamos08]

I am Pinay who born and raised in the Philippines but I lives in California. I have not visited my mother land yet for many years now but I soon will. You are very blessed to have settled and enjoyed living in the Philippines. We are very loving people. Cebu is beautiful; my mom's family are from there. Interesting video and thank you for promoting the Philippines.

[@CarefreeChris]

I'm so happy and honored to be here. I hope you make it back home someday

[@brucepeterleinwand]

tremendous video chris,,,, hope you do it more often, you interview great,,, get one of the Filipinas youtubers to interview,, and watch the subscribers rocket !!!!!!

[@CarefreeChris]

There are several local Filipinas here I’m trying to interview but to no avail. I’ll keep asking:)

[@market1019]

Your analysis is quite remarkable and spot on. I sense you both like being there. 🏝

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Love being here.

[@ethiehetherington5086]

Filipinos embrace the English language (than the Spanish) in memory of the very first American teachers who taught our forefathers how to read and write when the U.S. bought and colonized the Philippines. The relationship between the U.S. and the Philippines is so deep and Filipinos loyalty to the big brother is beyond measure.

[@CarefreeChris]

It’s so incredible being here and feeling instantly like I’m home

[@ethiehetherington5086]

@@Artko333 The Brits came too, but they didn't last when fought with the Americans.

[@semi5alpha]

Uncle Sam made Spanish look bad like kinda old trend in the 50s. So us Fils laugh at Juan, Agapito, Antonio.. Fil names are now John, Xander, Zoey, Kyle, etc. Mine is Ronald after Reagan..

[@ethiehetherington5086]

@@semi5alpha Hahahaha I never heard of that.

[@BearInThePhillipines]

Never ever forget the amount of Americans who died fighting the Japanese in phillipines. There is a giant cemetery of 17,000 young Americans soldiers who died and bled fighting with brave Filipinos against savage Japanese

[@BasicBeachCommunity1]

Big connection to America, remittances and nurses, etc.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. It's a culture we can adjust to easily

[@hellocyrax]

We gota hang out

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks man. I’m down. Just let me know what works for you.

[@BingDH]

All Americans guys you need to be careful you money even your wife or girlfriend is younger then you or older you you need to carefull your money and be alert your gf or your family's you girl to as mo ey mo ey to your wife ang girlfriends

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. It’s pretty easy to spot someone who’s trying to take your money.

[@rbaker3557]

Is Dan still in the Philippines? I hope he’s still enjoying his time there.

[@CarefreeChris]

He is and he's settling in nicely.

[@maeletuana2965]

In the Philippines age doesn't matter.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. I’m leaning that

[@byun3256]

There's no official customary of dowry in the Philippines. It's always your decision of whether you give her an allowance and help her family. You can always refuse those things as it is not your obligation. No once going to be mad at you, but if they did you know they are in for something. If you're going in for a serious relationship, then a little bit of help to them will definitely bring you closer to the family.

[@CarefreeChris]

Agree. If you’re in a position to help the family, it’s only going to strengthen that bond between you, your spouse and the family. It’s something to discuss openly and a foreign concept to most westerners

[@byun3256]

@@CarefreeChris It is. The "You need to help her family as well" has become somewhat of a stereotype for foreigners which is just a big misconception. It may be somewhat true before but today most of the women here have college degrees and can work while taking care of the kids and the house. What can be true is her family or rather her parents may live with you will be the most common. The reasons are Taking care of the parents and elderly is THE CUSTOM here. 2nd is while both you and your wife is at work, they can be the one taking care of the children. But then again it can be decided not to. Depends on what personality of families you're trying to get around with. Hook up culture is little non. Most of them are foreigners themselves looking for that kind of life here. Its fine as long as you don't get into trouble.

[@nolove857]

I totally disagree with this. The family has to learn how to stand on their own 2 feet. They have brothers and sisters old enough to work and or go to school. They are old enough to earn. So why would "YOU" put yourself in a predicament to take care of GROWN FOLKS? That's crazy!!!! If you wouldn't do it in the states with your own family then why would you do it here in the Philippines? I don't support any of my wife's family. I don't give them anything. I did before and all they did was come back for more. I'll be damned if I'm gonna take care of some grown ass man or woman. Sorry can't do it. I wouldn't even do it with my own family in the states. So if I were any of you please think. Think real hard if you are goin to take care of grown people who are CAPABLE of taking care of themselves. Some will take advantage of you and they will say you're the "bad guy". I don't care what they call me. No one gave me anything I had to go out and get it. I worked hard for mine. And they can too.....I'm just sayin.

[@nolove857]

@@byun3256 I disagree this is not a misconception. This is the TRUTH here in the Philippines.

[@doc2log]

The Philippines is definitely not perfect but you guys say it yourself, it is a very positive place even with the numerous natural disasters occurring. I just hope you guys will develop the same patience as the Filipinos. TBH, the English, especially in the provinces has deteriorated a lot but Filipinos strive hard to learn it. Safe travels!

[@CarefreeChris]

It's been great so far. Tons to learn but all in all it's been great

[@martinbakunawa1240]

There are some freaks out there with road rage so be careful still

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. Right now just getting around with vhires and cabs

[@semi5alpha]

Phils is Christian and US territory.. We know Beatles Eagles, LedZep albums. We debate Hotel Cali vs Stairway as greatest song ever. Kids debate between Bruno Mars v Ed Sheeran in details. The same with Tupac, Eminem or Drake.. Try that on other countries..

[@CarefreeChris]

Lol for sure. The culture here lines up and makes the transition easier no question

[@novak4594]

How do we buy a motorbike in the PP ?

[@CarefreeChris]

Video coming

[@ExtraGuac007]

I guess they haven't seen Rose and the Campbell Vlogs.

[@CarefreeChris]

I haven't actually. Since i moved here i don't watch nearly as much content about the Philippines as i did when i was in the states. Either way, thanks for watching and commenting.

[@iancabrera7716]

age ain't a thing here in the philippines baby!

[@CarefreeChris]

For sure. No problem here with dating any age as long as they’re above 18. Folks here just don’t think anything about it really

[@bj5083]

Hey Chris, nice conversation between you two. I just stumbled onto your channel and will be looking forward to more videos. 👍

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks man. Really appreciate it

[@titodongplaylist2076]

Nice conversation guys about the Philippines...New subs here...

[@CarefreeChris]

Thanks man. Really appreciate it

[@MarkCams]

Once you live here.. There's overall peace here and relax your mind.

[@CarefreeChris]

I’m starting to feel the stress of the West wash away

[@MarkCams]

​​​​@@CarefreeChris They're taking pictures, they think your Vin diesel..😅😅😅😅. In positive way, of course.

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah for sure. It’s been great connecting with people here:)

[@sinem7917]

You guys are spitting facts. I love it.

[@CarefreeChris]

Dan's a riot. So glad to be here

[@RaymondLacsaVlogs]

FACT: Philippines could have been one of US colonies/state... only that US Govt after WW2 gave us independence

[@CarefreeChris]

Such a great place to be full of lovely people

[@rbebeabucay9356]

I read somewhere that it was President Quezon who insisted the independence of the Philippines.

[@RaymondLacsaVlogs]

Philippines rarely have HOME FOR THE ELDERLY here... we take care of our parents / grandmothers to death because we believe that it's a shame or disgrace if we don't take care or forsake our own family.... as written in the bible

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. One of the reasons why I moved here.

[@RaymondLacsaVlogs]

@@CarefreeChris because we believe that it's a shame or disgrace if we don't take care or forsake our own family.... as written in the bible

[@Leonard369C]

The underlying difference in these behaviors is wealth and opportunity. In the US wealth, an opportunity is widely available for women, so the chance of having a 20 or 30 year flirt with you is slim to none, in Thailand there’s more wealth and opportunity than in the Philippines, so they can be more selective and upfront about their intentions, the situation in the Philippines is Moore Dire, and therefore they can not afford to be choosy. Not as romantic as the male ego would like for it to be but it’s that way all over the world even in the US a wealthy old man can have a 20 or 30 year old. .

[@CarefreeChris]

Honestly I'm just happy that they're willing:)

[@Leonard369C]

@@CarefreeChris i’m with you brother, truth be told that’s all that really matters 😊

[@SwisstedChef2018]

To go PH lady vs Thai is a very smart decision

[@CarefreeChris]

Yeah. I think so too.

[@kimonharamis7812]

Dang! He retired at 50?

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Couple of youngsters we are out here lol

[@bellalagare-es4cy]

Good morning Chris.just like talk show.nice!😊 have a great day to both of you.amping.😊

[@CarefreeChris]

Yes. Good morning Bella. Hope you’re good there. Amping:)

[@bellalagare-es4cy]

@@CarefreeChris Yes!thanks Chris 😊

[@bingthelionqueen]

Cebu is cool. Manila is another different country, it's everything that you have first described - angry, aggressive, traffic-crazy people. 😂 Do holler (if you like) if you come by and visit Manila. But yeah, do have a lovely time in Cebu.

[@CarefreeChris]

If it wasn’t for KZbin and the incredible people like yourself who live there, I would probably never visit. I’m just not a big city guy, but catching up with some friends there that I have and the new ones I’m making, I see a trip to Manila at some point.

[@CarefreeChris]

If it wasn’t for KZbin and the incredible people like yourself who live there, I would probably never visit. I’m just not a big city guy, but catching up with some friends there that I have and the new ones I’m making, I see a trip to Manila at some point.

[@peteh6063]

Hi Chris, great conversation between the both of you. Yes I’ve watched KZbin info On the Philippines last couple of years .Took an early retirement at 55..10 years now.Itching for a month-long visit in September. An old dog but not a porch dog I truly hope I find my Shangri-La.🇨🇦😎

[@CarefreeChris]

Love that… Old dog but not porch dog. Hope you get out here soon

[@mytextstories]

The best months to come here are November to February where the weather isnt scorching hot and most places in Ph are so festive and lively.