Itchy Down There? HOW TO STOP GENITAL ITCH *Dermatologist*

[@catsway161]

Thanks to everyone sharing information, especially the good doctor. I also have this problem and frankly I am so upset that women have to dig around for any information on vulva itching. Plus many doctors, especially men, just push medication. Here is some info that I have found that has helped me so much. Water and your hand is the best way to wash down there, no chemicals at all, not even from a wash cloth. I wash my bras (I get a rash under my breast) underwear, pj bottoms and bath towel with Ivory infant detergent (non scented). I throw in 1/4 cup of baking soda, wash it on the heavy duty cycle for an extra rinse. No fabric softener or dryer sheets. I air dry bras and the rest goes into the dryer with dryer balls to help combat static. Make sure your underwear is not tight. I have a portable bidet that I use regularly to keep clean (just water). Pat dry the vulva area only. I air dry after showers. I also soak in the tub with baking soda if needed. Especially be clean before bed. Sleeping is a big healing time so make the best of it. I have used zinc oxide but it is hard to get off when the skin underneath is sore. Mostly this all works but occasionally, I use Canesten cream or 0.5% hydrocortisone cream. Between all this, I am comfortable. Best of luck. Sorry for the novel.

[@terryberg3906]

I remember my Mother talking to me about this when she went through Menopause. Her doctor said that women don't feel comfortable talking about this and was grateful that my Mom discussed this issue . So then my Mom felt that it was her mission to talk to her 3 daughters! I just love how my Mom always wanted to keep her daughters informed !

[@DrDrayzday]

👍🏼👍🏼

[@whitneybrown4067]

Greetings Terry Berg hope u r well n Happy Tuesday😀👍💜….

[@terryberg3906]

@@whitneybrown4067 Thank you! I am doing very well. I hope the same for you! So nice to have this time to break away and talk to other women 😀

[@TheBeautySpectator]

I’m already telling my 2 daughters they’re both in their thirties. I hope they remember my advise.

[@wynxamatina]

i wish my mom was like thatt, she hasn't once mentioned it

[@SarahKotri]

Thank you for this video! I am 51 and for the past 2 years have been experiencing this. My nurse at the dermatologist I see suggested I talk to him about it. He didn’t say half the things you mentioned but some. He indicated this was a sign I would be out of perimenopause soon, that my body was almost going through puberty in reverse. I am also experiencing itch under my breasts and have difficulty finding a bra without elastic which makes the itch worse. I did recently find a brand of underwear called Huha which is great in case any of your audience wants to look into the brand. Again thank you for normalizing this. I didn’t know it was common but did know it was a lesser known perimenopause symptom

[@nise5281]

Menopausal vaginal atrophy is BEYOND itch it is knife fissures and skin abrasion just from wearing underwear! Ladies when you hit 50 do your research on ALL menopause symptoms these symptoms go far beyond just the irritating painful itch that occur at 60. Vaginal narrowing, UTI's, yeast infections from out of nowhere. I haven't had a UTI or yeast infection in 20 years because I take very good care of myself, but that has no bearing on the misery that befalls you. BE YOUR OWN ADVOCATE I went to 4 GYN's in my Doc's office got no help and at 60 am dealing w/this! Dr.Dray is a godsend for addressing women's physical issues!!

[@truetigress8401]

Thank you for telling us this. I'll be more pro-active about researching menopause. My doctor won't diagnose me til I stop having periods for a whole year but I haven't made a full year yet. I know it should happen soon. My mother is not a helpful guide because she had to have a hysterectomy early and didn't have to go through menopause. I've got two girls and I keep them well informed about my changes so they can both calculate when they will experience their change and other issues that may arise that are part genetic.

[@aefatazizi9427]

In addition can happen to breastfeeding mamas with hormone imbalances!

[@sweetpeamcgillicuddy9044]

Omg same! I never knew this would happen. I find if I use balm it helps..

[@sabinaflapperina1300]

This sounds like what my best friend was describing. Have you found anything to help? I'm scared to get this... She's miserable.

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

This is me in a nutshell at 54! So irritating!

[@francesb6758]

Thank you so much for this video. We all need to talk about a subject that's actually quite common. When I called my gynecologist about this problem, I was determined not to be embarrassed and came right out with "I need to see Dr X about intense itching on the vulva." There, I said it, matter-of-fact with no coyness. So they didn't need to ask me more when I got there. The doctor had a heads up, and I acted totally cool about it -- like we talk about these things all the time. (I deserved an Oscar for my performance.) But it worked to get over that initial embarrassment.

[@marca6190]

Ive been itching there for a year andno doctor has even cared to address the cause. Finally hit the cause. Dye in underwear . i also use FF ALL and rinse with white distilled vinegar and again with water. Vinrgar gets out residual detergent and softens clothes. When drying the smell of vinegar disappears completely. Thank God for you angel dermatologist! Just tons of ❤! Thanku 4ever!!

[@SarahCunningham71]

Thanks for the reminder to not be embarrassed about talking to your doctor. It's really easy to feel shy about it, but just hearing your reminder is giving me the confidence to make sure I really talk to my doctor at my next appointment. It's hard, but the feeling of having checked in with my doctor about something is such a relief, it's worth it the stress of broaching the uncomfortable subjects. Your videos make me a better, more proactive and receptive patient, I think. Thank you!

[@rika8484]

I love to see creators tackling important under-covered topics like this. Thank you!

[@ShanGooFan]

I struggled with this issue for over 20 years. The thing that FINALLY helped me was switching to fragrance free laundry detergent and vinegar as a softener. It finally hit me that if my face is sensitive to fragrance than it could be the same down there. What a relief to be free from itching!

[@mamijojo6446]

What brand u use for ditergent

[@ShanGooFan]

@@mamijojo6446 Arm & Hammer free or All free. Whichever one is at Costco. It’s free of fragrance and dyes.

[@rebeccabogrette2562]

Yep, I use a cup of white vinegar in every load of laundry, it's a great rinse, much, much better than using fabric softener!

[@monaonassis6346]

I’ve been curious about the vinegar use as a softener. I’m slowly trying to eliminate as many chemicals as possible from my home and life. Does vinegar leave an odor? Does it REALLY soften clothes?

[@ShanGooFan]

@@monaonassis6346 It leaves no odor at all. My clothes do feel soft enough so that I don’t miss my Downy. I do miss the Downy smell but it’s worth it to not obsessively itch anymore.

[@debbiehaynes8295]

I love all of her suggestions and have followed most of them. My derm suggested I try zinc oxide and wow, what relief that has given me. I've used it for about five years, once or twice a day. Just a very thin coat on the outside vulva only, is so soothing. I buy a large jar Rugby brand from Amazon and it's about $10 and lasts for many months.

[@kittygonzalez2827]

I’m a Retired OB/GYN RN...I have recently had a couple bouts of a contact dermatitis in and on the vulvar region and I finall have realized that the cause is the small paanty liners specifically for urinary Leakage. It became so irritated that I developed very painful cysts. All of this finally began to resolve after a round of a potent antibiotic. I hadn’t realized the actual cause at that point, but my skin overall is going thru major changes.. I’ve actually begun to acquire cysts c acne on my face, and I don’t understand why.vbi had a total TVH at 37 ...I’m now 65. I’ve never taken hormone replacement..due to the migraines which is the original reason for my TVH in the first place. They were severely affecting my life in every way possible, and the pain was unrelenting! The hysterectomy worked ! Now I’m suffering skin problems like I am 14! I’m embarrassed to go to the store because of mt complexion ...and hardly a week goes by where I’m able to go without hesbvy makeup. But worse than that, the urinary leakage along with a pH change is causing extreme itching and irritation. I am washing underwear in baking soda, and doing my best to wear loose fitting clothing. Talc made it much worse, and the only comfort is ice packs and sitz baths with baking soda. I’m in a hot California climate all summer and cold in the winter. I never had hot flashes or ant signs of estrogen depletion, but his skin situation is annoying!

[@eleanorclark225]

Helpful

[@karenhartman7115]

I am 80 and I agree with your theory on panty liners

[@jenjencannon3224]

Yeaaah! Dr Dray, thank you so much for educating women on this issue. I lived with undiagnosed lichen sclerosis for TEN years because I lacked skill and assertiveness in talking about this with doctors. I kept getting diagnosed with yeast but it never helped... and I knew it wasn't yeast... but I didn't know what it was and I was unable to assertively tell them it wasn't being addressed. The real diagnosis only came after I had developed a stage 1 vulvar cancer. Not fun. I know that's a bit beyond the scope here... but women need to hear these words and have their sexual health normalized... preferably BEFORE terrible outcomes take place. Thank you for this work... it's important.

[@margaretroten281]

Thanks for sharing. I was diagnosed with Lichen Sclerosis last year.

[@patriciamueller2498]

I have been through the same thing, stage 1 perineal cancer from lichen sclerosis untreated. That was 9 years ago I have to use a cream for the rest of my life to prevent it coming back. I was 65 when diagnosed.

[@kathleenkaufman6007]

LIchen Sclerosis here also, yes, I have to use an ointment, betmethasone, for the rest of my life as well.

[@DeliciaTrini]

PRP ( platelet rich plasma) therapy and stem cell therapy works. Especially the stem cell therapy which is 100% effective. Neither therapies are covered by insurance.

[@tinagilbertson5765]

I was diagnosed with lichen sclerosis last year. Nothing seems to help....any ideas please 🙏

[@suegiesige8320]

Menopause was my "itch" trigger many years ago, and I was miserable enough to go to my gynecologist for one last visit to address this. Thank you for all your advice!

[@donnawashburn1638]

I’m 57 and have been dealing with vaginal itching for years out of desperation I used diaper rash cream and it actually helps a lot !

[@pegas2001]

diaper rash cream is the only thing that helps me

[@lorirankin5581]

Aquaphor is what I use

[@latinaforever4892]

Balmex it’s the best 🙌

[@cheesecake4648]

the thing is... why do we have this? these creams, including vaseline, don't cure anything.

[@punkynoodle9370]

You need to find the cause. Mine was gluten. The minute I stopped eating it, I was done with the itching

[@damdamfino]

I’ve brought this up to my GYNO 2 times. First year, she admitted I had a cut and broken skin from my itching, told me to use coconut oil. Came back a year later, told her the itching was still a really big problem and the coconut oil didn’t really do anything. She shrugged and told me to try anti-itch cream. I said “that’s okay to use *inside* the v@gina??” And she cocked her head like she didn’t understand my itching was actually more interior than exterior and just said yes. That was before the pandemic and I haven’t been back since but honestly it hasn’t gotten better. So even bringing it up to a GYNO of all people didn’t help.

[@portofthoughts4477]

Definitely go to a different gyno! I had one gyno office tell me that drenching my panties every day all day was something I should "just get used to" ... Went to a different gyno, got forwarded to a pelvic floor therapist and boom, no more of that! Some doctors don't know jack squat!

[@cheesecake4648]

that was better that being told you have aids as it happened to me. i mean, at the end of the matter: THEY DON'T KNOW!! That's why so many of us are here scouting the interent for answers.

[@damdamfino]

@@cheesecake4648 that’s awful that happened to you. But it reminded me - ALSO they’re always so quick to blame herpes!! Itching in the genital region? Alarms bells go off and they search for herpes! Makes you feel so shameful and judged. And then if it’s not herpes, they just shrug their shoulders and forget about it entirely!! They don’t even try to figure out what else it might be!!

[@nisamskreuzer5891]

I think you should see another doctor.

[@nestakruger408]

Vaseline.vaseline. good for baby. Down there.even as a face cre

[@EricaWentz]

THANK YOU for starting a conversation about this taboo topic that impacts half of the population! I admire and respect your data-drive , no-nonsense work

[@FatimaLawal-mx5ij]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤❤..

[@TastefulGlatt]

*MR OBALAR* ON KZbin CURED ME TOTALLY ❤..

[@pasta_girl]

As soon as you said “some of them a lot scarier” I started to cry 😞 because unfortunately that is my situation currently. I am getting seen by a doctor, and I have a follow up procedure to see where I’m at after another bad Pap smear. Hopefully all is well this time. Thank you for talking about this Dr Dray ❤

[@rebeccabogrette2562]

Sending blessings and positive thoughts your way. : )

[@pasta_girl]

@@rebeccabogrette2562 thank you so much 😊

[@Lilah1754]

Sending you good thoughts and prayers. Best to you.

[@sic2mystomach]

Prayers to you.🙏🙏

[@pasta_girl]

@@sic2mystomach thank you!!

[@meggieprice]

Our Dr. Dray leave no issue uncovered! 💜💜💜

[@DrDrayzday]

Thanks for watching

[@RK-su4hs]

This girl has wit…luv it 😂😂

[@carolcaruso6641]

Agree with another post menopausal poster who mentioned estrogen cream. A miracle for me. Too weak to go systemic, it transformed that local area! Less urinary frequency better sex life. A win.

[@pamhauer1000]

I think it is very important to teach women about lichen sclerosus. Many of the symptoms you mention are the same.

[@paigejones4317]

I got this somehow during my pregnancy, and it lasted for 3 years.😢😢😢😢😢 I used to cry, is all I'm going to say.

[@TheEagleslover]

Happy Monday Dr. Dray. Fantastic way to bring the new year in by broaching a sensitive subject that is still hard for women to discuss. Thanks as always for keep us well informed. Have a great day.

[@DrDrayzday]

thanks for watching

[@RK-su4hs]

@@DrDrayzday you have come a long way in your teaching in a short time The word doctor comes from Latin word docere. Meaning. I teach

[@anniewhitmore7627]

Here, here!

[@amillioninprizes4915]

Thanks for covering this issue--people might not initially think of it as a dermatological issue, but it is. I myself have been dealing with it in the past year, including going through unnecessary yeast infection treatment. One potential cause that you didn't cover here is that your own vaginal discharge may be irritating externally due to its low pH--after finally going to see my gyno about it, she identified it as the potential culprit in my case. Cleansing the area with sensitive baby wipes (NOT "feminine hygiene" wipes) seems to have helped.

[@shiprasingh8385]

Thanks for bringing this up. I ve seen gynae initially when i came down with fungal infection followed by dermatologist who identified it as puritus vulvae...was put on fungal medicine and antihistamine for a month...but nothing worked. Still struggling with it though the intensity of itch has reduced...but some days it's terrible.

[@carylhalfwassen8555]

@@shiprasingh8385 I bathed in tub with baking soda added to the bath water when I was pregnant because I had severe irritation. I don’t know why but it helped me tremendously. Maybe it will help you?

[@girlwithathought2940]

I think this is what’s happening to me. No yeast, yet anywhere my discharge leaves residue on the outside, it’s itch central. Tired of putting anti-itch crème down there, really want to find a permanent solution

[@pappyone6062]

Thanks Dr. dray for talking about this. Ladies as a retired gynecologist I urge you to talk to your gynecologist if you are suffering from this. Do not be embarrassed! It’s normal conversation for us! I would always ask my post menopausal ladies about this topic because it is so common and treatment is available. Being menopausal now myself makes me so happy that I didn’t ignore it all those years before I knew what it felt like. Keep these great videos of what some consider unusual topics coming and Happy new year!

[@sharont3406]

Do you use the treatments Dr. Dray spoke about?

[@cheesecake4648]

one gynecologist told me i had aids. that was aggressive and obscene. sadly, i didn't ask others... still to this day, i don't believe they would help, like, it is a waste of time.

[@donnadornbusch6738]

Thank you for discussing this topic - I see my gynecologist next week . I’m experiencing the itching . I’ve been cognizant of everything you discussed - yes, we have to hear more of these topics. That’s why we’re counting on you!

[@punkynoodle9370]

Stop eating gluten. Thats what finally cured this for me after decades!

[@alyshal417]

Thank you for going there! You are just awesome. Have a fantastic Tuesday! 💙💙

[@DrDrayzday]

Thanks for watching

[@SylviaDavis-e5u]

Dr. Dray, you are the most knowledgeable and informative dermatologists source on the internet, hands down. Thank you doesn’t cover my praise for you but thank you, anyway. It’s encouraging to know there is, at least, one Doctor who knows what she’s talking about. I wish you were within my area.

[@wilmavanderpal7570]

With me it started about 16 months ago. Last month i got told by the doctor that i have Lichen sclerose. I have to use a strong hormonal cream and have to let it check every 6 months because it can become cancer. I never heard of it before. It is very important that women talk about this.

[@jamilgotcher365]

Thank you for this comment, I don't think many women are aware of that condition.

[@hilaryjulius9507]

I use vaseline and castor oil..also wash underparts in basin with clean lukewarm water with no soap or other cleaning products..also no toiletpaper except when really necessary...wash uderparts each time after using the toilet God bless you and you too doctor.... ........ ................. ......... .... . an lukewarm water

[@rhondamullins6192]

Thank you for making this video! It was needed!

[@subseti]

This is the best doctor description and advice for atopic dermatitis or any skin condition I have ever heard! I have been dealing with this for decades. This advice great for the whole body.

[@DrDrayzday]

Thanks for watching

[@miroperinich2495]

@@DrDrayzday I see women have a problem with itching. I wonder if it's the same for men. I noticed that it itches even more when scratching.

[@gurudra]

I just want to let anyone who's reading this, and going through a tough time know that it's going to be okay. You'll get through it! 🙏

[@shakiyagotdreams2299]

One spammer, spammed a comment on another spammer 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DrDrayzday]

Thanks for watching

[@jackiemarsh2470]

🙏🕊🙏

[@readthebook55]

I asked my gynecologist, and she recommended Replens. I was lucky that it solved my problem, going on 20 years.

[@divinemessenger2030]

This makes sense. I upped my workout routine and I typically wear leggings and sweat heavily. My vulvar skin has been so dry and itchy lately. Thanks Dr. Dray!

[@terryberg3906]

I remember my Mother talking to me about this since her doctor said that women don't feel comfortable talking about it when she went through Menopause. So she felt that it was her mission to talk to her 3 daughters! I just love how my Mom always wanted to keep her daughters informed !

[@DrDrayzday]

👍🏼👍🏼

[@jaywellington6504]

@@DrDrayzday genital/vulva itch/skin tag removal ...dermatologist or gyn?

[@igigirising6150]

I use the baby diaper rash ointment for skin rash , dermatitis etc. This stops the itch immediately and heals the skin.

[@muminabegum7466]

Yes I remember having an allergic reaction to a hair removal cream when I was 17 and then get taken to the doctors the next day by my big sister due to the amount of pain I was in. It so embarrassing for me to expose myself for the doctor to see and to be told that I had a nasty rash and that area including my groin area became very red and swollen. I then got given some antibiotics and cream and my sister took me to Body Care to get me a sensitive skin hair cream as a result of this. I’m still feeling very traumatised by it even though It happened nearly eleven years ago, especially coz of how I was crying in pain. Ever since then, I try to be careful what I use down there and avoid harmful products. Thanks for this video 👍🏿

[@FatimaLawal-mx5ij]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤❤..

[@tammygarrett9261]

They stopped putting white cotton liners in underware which is crazy. Manufacturers should understand how important it is. Hard to find them.

[@Marieee180]

I deal with a lot of irritation down there too, itching and also skin fissures which are extremely painful (feels like shards of glass being rubbed !!). I use Eucerin eczema relief cream after I shower and it seems to have helped. Also changing my underwear twice a day instead of once, I think my own discharge is a culprit in my case

[@marciwhitman3513]

I have a condition called vulvodynia and that requires me to rinse after urinating because if I don't it's going to cause a tremendous amount of irritation burning and itching. Even so I still get itching after I rinse so I'm not really sure what's going on down there except for dryness. I use something that's probably not conventional but it's soothing to me. I apply little bit of my body lotion down there and that contains menthol. It helps to soothe the area and to cool it down and it doesn't sting or burn. I use Gold Bond extra strength medicated body lotion. I put a tiny bit in between my hands and I rub it in and then I rub it down there and it feels really good. At night I use premarin to help keep the area healthy because if I don't able tend to dry out and my skin will tear and that's extremely painful. I recently went through two really bad tears around my clitoris area and that was extremely painful but the premarin helped to clear it right up and to heal the tears. I only put on a tiny bit and I rubbed it over the area where the tears were and it helped it to heal and it only took about a week and a half. Sometimes towards the bottom of my vulva area I get eczema and I use a very low dose steroid cream that helps to clear anything up that would happen down there. I recently had a very red raised rash in that area and I applied the low dose steroid cream everyday for about a week and a half and it helped to clear everything up and now everything's nice and smooth down there. My advice to anyone having a problem like this is to check in with your GYN first and if he or she is not going to answer you you can ask your pharmacist what you can apply down there safely and make sure that you only use a small amount and that you look at that area closely with a magnifying mirror and a flashlight to make sure that there's nothing really serious going on that you would have to see a doctor for.

[@violetviolet888]

Marci Whitman, that's a lot of products you are using that may be making you feel better temporarily but it needs to be completely heeled. Try petrolatum.

[@marciwhitman3513]

@@violetviolet888 the area is completely healed. I don't put Vaseline in that area because that causes me irritation. Vaseline does not moisturize. Vaseline is a barrier to keep moisture out. So if you're using vaseline as a moisturizer then you're not moisturizing at all.

[@houseofbows]

If it happens after u urinate it may be your tissue. Try an organic kind

[@marciwhitman3513]

@@houseofbows I don't use regular toilet paper because it's too irritating. I use tissues that contain lotion. It is very common when you have vulvodynia for your skin to be irritated from urine. Its the skin that is extra sensitive that can't tolerate the urine. And its also important not to wipe, but to pat dry gently. Some toilet paper is a harsh texture and some are prone to a lot of lint. Those are also irritants.

[@KimberlyB0611]

Sorry you contend with this issue. Have you tried using a bidet and then pat dry? If not, they are relatively inexpensive and easily installed on any toilet.

[@lcat9b549]

I had what I thought was a monthly yeast infection, that seemed to come right bf my periods. I was getting a pap exam and happened to mention it and she looked closely and saw that my skin in that area was dry and cracked! Vaseline really helped. Now I know I need to watch for dry skin after ovulation (bf my period) and treat it with a barrier cream

[@mellievg]

I’m having the same since a few months! Every month again around ovulation…

[@shobhabhutra8450]

Can please you tell me, what do you do for the dryness and also are you seeing a gynecologist frequently??

[@chriscaffey5685]

You are awesome. Thank you for using the trust you have built on your channel to cover a topic most people don't want to ask their doctor about.

[@cheesecake4648]

one gynecologist told me i might have AIDS because of my itching. That was an awful ignorance and abuse she did to me. To this day, DECADES, i still have it. I try to do a labiaplasty, but myidiot plastic surgeon went super easy and didn't cut so much ("your case was so severe, i could just cur half") and i still have this problem. I had fantasies for years to just cut the labia minora and that's it!!! What i'm trying to say is: i think this is a problem with my labia minora protruding! Tampons are a no no!! they have preservatives, chemicals, and leave residue. I use the menstrual cup and changed my life!

[@triplixity]

Bought some new wet wipes because they were on sale, and omg what a mistake that was! Threw them out and after a few days of Cereve Healing Ointment, I was thankfully back to normal. I'm convinced that ointment can heal everything!

[@Lilah1754]

Huggies Natural Care wipes are good & they are accepted by the National Eczema Association. Glad the Cerave Ointment worked for you though.

[@Nightchime3236]

I have become sensitized to essential oils (fragrance) in the shampoo and conditioner I was using. It also could be the preservatives and other chemicals they add to so many of our personal products. The worst of the symptoms was the atopic dermatitis around the vulva and anal areas. It was also on my inner thighs. My face, neck and shoulders had some patches too.. It was so intense, my skin turned purple and it was incredibly bumpy, painful and itchy... it absolutely burned. I saw a couple of doctors. The hormone cream they prescribed for the low estrogen and subsequent vaginal atrophy was not effective for the bigger picture. My skin barrier is compromised. Your videos saved the quality of life I was so quickly loosing. I am deeply grateful. I am going to go to a dermatologist to follow up, of course, but my skin is almost healed. I watched so many great videos and followed your suggestions to the letter. Rash gone, burning gone, itching gone, dry, flaky skin is resolving. You are the best Dr. Dray. Don't give up friends! Go and tell your doctor what is happening. As Dr. Dray said in this video "they want to help you".

[@sharotej]

Thanks so much for this. It's hard to talk about these issues, but there are a lot of helpful, open-minded docs out there. Be honest and let them help you.

[@janslagboom9348]

I don't know why this video suddenly popped up in my KZbin, as I don't follow this person or had ever heard of her. However, I find it incredible that in the chapter "What causes genital itching", there was no mention of vulval cancer that almost always begins with itching. I had suffered from itching for quite a few years, and had tried many things from the simple such as changing toilet paper, detergents etc, to steroid creams. Eventually my GP said it was time for a referral to a Gynaecologist. As a result of that, I had a biopsies, and was found to have a condition called Extra Mammary Pagets Disease. Because it is such a rare condition, there is much debate as to whether it is a cancer, or a pre-cancerous condition. Either way, treatment is brutal. I had a bi-lateral vulvectomy in October 2020, and I still haven't fully recovered. That is just one type of vulval cancer. There are many others, while still rare, aren't quite so rare as EMPD. But unfortunately they are never spoken about, and even most GP's don't have any experience of them. They can strike at any age. Just this week I was heart-broken because a beautiful young woman that I had connected with through a Facebook support group, only 23 years old, had succumbed to her vulval cancer and had passed away. We had our surgeries done by the same wonderful Gynae Oncologist, and this poor young thing had been through so much in her treatment - multiple horrific surgeries, radiotherapy, chemotherapy, but nothing worked for her. I don't mean to be alarmist, but please, if you have continuing itching after trying the usual things to alleviate it, go to your doctor, sooner rather than later and insist on a referral to a Gynecologist and request a biopsy. Don't wait for years, like most who are eventually diagnosed with these awful cancers. I can only hope that one day, the stigma about what is happening "down there" goes away, and we are encouraged to self-examine our vulvas just as much as we are our breasts. Unfortunately, many women don't even know the names of their genital body parts, and find it hard to talk about.

[@gab1888]

I have been dealing with itch on the upper regions, it would worsen when wearing leggings. I started using water based lubricant as a moisturizer there ,after a week there is no itch. I think that the type of underwear may also play a role, since leggings would worsen the itch, I stopped wearing the shiny satinated underwear too.

[@normajeanplusone9772]

I’m 56 and going thru menopause. I’ve noticed I start itching when I have sugar, like a soda or sweet tea. Needles to say I try to limit sugar now days but it’s so hard.

[@marylawman8603]

I admire your ability to tackle sensitive subjects with such professionalism and grace. Your the best, Dr Dray! Happy Tuesday!! Hope you have a restful evening. 💝

[@jackiemarsh2470]

Hi Mary!! I Hope Your Day Went Perfect!! Have a Lovely and Relaxing Evening Sweet Friend!!.... Sweet Dreams!! God Bless You Always!!

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[@marylawman8603]

Thank you, Jackie. My day was busy but it went well. 💞

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[@laurengd]

I’m back in school for nursing and now that I’m taking anatomy and physiology I have found a new love for your videos!!! Which I didn’t think was possible bc I already loved them! 😅 I love hearing you speak about the body and actually understanding what you’re talking about! You said “vulvar epithelium” and i immediately was like OMG I know what that means!! Love it 😂

[@Jenekks]

It's strange that I've been experiencing this for a few days, never having mentioned it to a soul, and all of a sudden, this video pops up in my screen. A similar thing happened on Amazon, not having to do with this particular subject matter, but something was in my mind to look into, and it appeared on my Amazon page. Anyway, this video I happened upon will hopefully help resolve it for me.

[@latoyakellie2964]

I've noticed this for the past couple of months. I get super itchy down there after my period ends. I tried using just water and a few of those feminine washes. But, what's been working for me right now is the Johnson's Baby Bar soap. Try it!

[@franameri6590]

Thank you for discussing this topic which can be quite embarrassing, indeed. I am menopausal, and this happened to me not long ago. The itching was awful and it was so embarrassing. I applied pure petrolatum for a week or two, and it cleared up, thankfully. Thank you so much, Dr.Dray. Happy New Year! 💗

[@DrDrayzday]

Thanks for watching

[@marizzy63]

Happy New Year fran ! hope all is well xoxoxoxo

[@whitneybrown4067]

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@@marizzy63 Happy and Healthy New Year!! 🥂😍💖

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@@whitneybrown4067 Happy Tuesday 😊 🎶🥂

[@Ontiktoknow]

Yes thank you I’ve been itchy down there and try taking Showers and cleaning down there And it helps for me

[@FatimaLawal-mx5ij]

Thanks so much *MR OBALAR* on KZbin for curing me from Herpes, keep saving lives.❤❤..

[@KittyKat101MT3]

I haven’t even watched the video yet but I’m so excited because this has been such a bad issue for me. THANK YOU

[@sandrapeters4845]

Dr Dray, when I saw this topic I hoped that you would talk about Lichen Sclerose. A lot of woman with this condition walk around without knowing it for years because they think it's one of the topics you did discus here. If noticed in time it can prevent so much problems and even cancer.. Please give this topic some atention. 🙏

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[@patriciamueller2498]

I believe it to be the cause of my perineal cancer. It was removed 9 years ago successfully, the prevention treatment is a corticosteroid cream as per my gynaecologist to be used daily for the rest of ones life. Lichen Sclerose is a dangerous thing to ignore and I was in the right age group where these things seem to happen. I had never heard of it until I went to my doctor because I had a small lump down there and so much itching in the region.

[@thrillcker68]

Me too I have LS now I have an ulcer from the itch.

[@sandrapeters4845]

@@thrillcker68 do you have the corticosteroide cream? I have LS since I was 16 and thought it was a very rare condition. Last year I found this amazing group in the Netherlands with other people with LS. It's a very fast growing group and a lot of woman have stories about walking around for years before finding out. Even a lot of doctors misdiagnose or don't think about LS. It's not only woman but man can have it too. I really hope that dr. Dray will talk about it.

[@deborahdufel1664]

Though Lichen Sclerosis is supposedly a rare condition, women need to know about it and if necessary demand a biopsy. So it can be properly treated before one needs surgery.

[@floweri4579]

Very informative video. So important to see a doctor over vaginal issues and never assume what is going on. I assumed I had a nasty yeast infection. Turned out, I somehow caught a staph infection in my vaginal canal. Omg, it's like a yeast infection on steroids! It was awful. After the meds I did start to get a yeast infection. Doctor gave me a med that took care of that quickly, thank goodness. Thankfully it seems to be cleared up now but it took months to recover from.

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[@wendy8561]

Wow I need more information it's like on the crease of my leg and where I had my C-section on my stomach I don't know what it is

[@ashleyssoutherncharm]

Thank you so much for this video! I’m 40 and started having perimenopausal symptoms at 35. It wasn’t until this past year that all my symptoms began to add up and we figured out it is to perimenopause. I’ve had severe itching, painful intercourse with my husband and tearing. I am using replense and it does help. But I didn’t know I could use Vaseline. Which I keep that in my house now because you mentioned it was good for sensitive lips. I’ve also started waking up with sever dry eye, which I never had prior. Thanks again for the info, women should discuss perimenopause and menopause more openly.

[@maevependragon]

I'm in the same boat and lately I feel like digging my skin off.

[@ashleyssoutherncharm]

@@maevependragon yes girl! Still itchy too!!!!🙄

[@KyleCross-og5lt]

I appreciate your excellent care. Thank you so much Dr Ikpoko on KZbin. Thank you for everything you do for your patients. Your compassion has not gone unnoticed. You are a remarkable physician.

[@bspeakman5102]

Excellent video.I hope some of the shy ladies r watching this & now will tell there doctors if they have itch or other female problems. Nice job great topic I’m sure you’ve helped alot of us me included 👍🏾

[@DrDrayzday]

thanks for watching

[@MariaDaroczy-pe9dk]

More education regarding genital it hing is needed especially regarding autoimmune diseases. For those with chronic lichen sclerosis, prescriptions for Clobetasol and Nystatin are not helpful. It is similar to having some candy. There really needs to be more education and RESEARCH. Telling someone that they have an autoimmune disease is a slap in the face. Please continue to educate and search for an effective cure / help for chronic genital itching whatever it's cause may be. Thank you.

[@DeliciaTrini]

Check out dr. Nathan Newman dermatologist in Beverly Hills California who has treated over 200 LS patients with stem PRP therapy and there is 100% improvement in his patients with most going into complete remission. Check out his website, KZbin channel and yelp. Also his former patient Audra Adams has a KZbin channel discussing her experience with dr. Newman she is in complete remission. There is hope!

[@josephinerodriguez6332]

Thanks for a very informative video. I’m so glad you addressed this very sensitive topic!

[@smbarone2000]

I have interstitial cystitis and would have irritation because of the soap I used. Then I switched to Basis soap after learning about it on IC message boards. Oh, my goodness! It's excellent.

[@nancy9478]

Toilet paper can cause irritation, trying different brands can be helpful. I had itchy parts, and stinging when urinating but no infections. The urologist prescribed esttogen cream, but I am trying replens first. One dose and I already fere better. Menpause does weird things! Another thought, what your partner uses can irritate your intimate parts. Latex condoms are another huge allergen.

[@grezasmar1362]

Can you do more videos on this topic? I’ve seen multiple specialists with no improvement for 3 years and I’m really worn down and at a loss. The information is great and I’d love if you could dive into it a bit more

[@violetviolet888]

Grez Asmar, look into "Functional Medicine" ie: The Institute for Functional Medicine

[@db-gb5xi]

She has a video called, skin changes that happen down there. I'd also check ob/gyn or urologist channels.

[@grezasmar1362]

thanks I’ll check those out! I’ve seen two ob/gyns actually and no improvement, one had me on a steroid cream which helped for a bit then lost effectiveness. I requested a referral for dermatologist. Urologist is what I’ll ask for next. I’ve even tried Chinese medicine and paid a naturopath. Everyone so far has downplayed the connection to the time of the month

[@sohoyankee66]

I’m a runner and am always sweaty especially down there. I wash immediately after and use Desitin and can still have itching. Sleeping without underwear helps.

[@cherbizzle]

I have been using coconut oil to wash myself instead of soap for years, it works as the perfect barrier instead of creams without making it feel yucky and moist. I have struggled for most of my life with itching from whatever I'm sensitive to and this has saved my life! Don't forget toilet paper irriates too, make sure you're dabbing pee and not wiping :-)

[@amandasayers]

I’m really glad you commented with this. Soap itches me so much “down there”. I’m going to try coconut oil now. Thanks for sharing that!

[@tgstatalo8742]

how do you use it to wash ?

[@cherbizzle]

@@tgstatalo8742 just with my hands and and handful of coconut oil :-) then rinse it out well

[@sarahjaye4117]

A friend put half raw honey and half coconut oil to wash

[@sarahjaye4117]

@@cherbizzleyou put inside? I hear it’s anti fungal I did once

[@esme011]

So happy to have found this content. What about fungal issues. I ended up using Lotramin creams and sprays that finally gave me some relief although I still have skin peeling. When I tried using Vagisil and Vaseline and Diaper Rash cream it seemed to REALLY exacerbate the itching and peeling. I’m only wearing my cotton underwear and stopped living in leggings and tight activewear. I switch out of my workout clothes as soon as I can after gym or exercise classes. I need to talk to my OBGYN. Thanks for addressing embarrassment of the discussion

[@wendy8561]

Yeah that's what I found fungal issues I'm 52 I have it in the creases of my legs near my groin area underneath my belly fold and it's coming up against my bra area and it has a smell I wish somebody could help me

[@blxcklab]

I use ginger juice as feminine wash. Diluted it with water...let the ginger water sit on skin/external vulva/skin surrounding vulva. Its good. Very effective

[@votteyeng2727]

Ginger is spicy doesn’t it hurt to put the juice down there?

[@cathyfield4765]

Recently had contact dermatitis from a panty liner. Figured out that the remedy would be soap only for cleansing and petrolatum as you recommend. Thanks for giving me the confirmation of my home remedy.

[@DmkdielTony]

but she says it's better not to use soap down there. Why do you still use soap? I only ask

[@cathyfield4765]

@@DmkdielTony soap for non - genital cleansing.

[@skr2824]

I'm going through this right now and the only thing that's helped me is aloe Vera gel, its cooling effect helps a lot. Doctor thought it was a yeast infection and prescribed proper meds but did not work. Other channels mentioned tetherworms or vulva cancer. I'm ready to try what others are suggesting and washing my clothes with baking soda and vinegar and getting rid of panty liners.

[@camellasong9758]

I don't think pads should be scented. If you feel like you need a covering scent, change the pad. Growing up, I was encouraged to change pad less often, to save money. Do not do this. Change pad as often as needed to stay clean.

[@powderandpaint14]

And consider switching to reusable pads or period underwear, as you will find they don't smell! The cause of the smell on disposable pads is the chemicals used in them.

[@21972012145525]

I don’t think that’s true. When mesntrual blood hits oxygen, it will smell. The blood itself doesn’t stink until it hits air.

[@glendawallace2083]

Castrol oil helps and relieves the itching.

[@qingdaogrrl]

YAY!!!! Thank you for bringing up these issues that we are taught to keep secret!

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[@deborahdufel1664]

Thank you Dr. Dray. Once I found you, I started to ask more focused questions. You saved my life with one of your videos on genital itch. Your videos are so lifesaving.

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[@SilverGirl-925]

The hard part is telling the receptionist about it when she asks, 'What do you want to be seen for', when you have something personal.

[@Lilah1754]

I always wondered why they do that. I can understand if it’s an emergency situation & need to be seen asap, but otherwise can you not just discuss it with your dr. when you are there for your appt.? I guess there is a reason, but mostly has to do with insurance.

[@jr-pr9lw]

Just don't state it to anyone except to the doctor directly to avoid any embarrassment. You won't get in trouble!

[@Lilah1754]

@@jr-pr9lw Good advise. As I said I always wondered why the receptionist needed to know reason for visit. Thnx

[@trixiegirlism]

@@Lilah1754 The receptionist is asking because a Dr. of any kind needs to know what they are seeing a patient for beforehand so they can be prepared for your appointment and not walk in blind or waste their time or yours gathering the necessary information they will need to help your situation.

[@Lilah1754]

@@trixiegirlism What you say makes sense, but in my experience, whenever I see my dr. ( regardless of their speciality) when he or she enters the exam room, they always ask me reason for my visit and to explain what my problem is. That has been my experience. I am sure it helps that they have a heads up about patients problem, but still think receptionist asking, has a lot to do with pts. insurance. Thnx

[@Lokisqueen22]

I'm 55 years old, and going through menopause. I've experienced contact allergic dermatitis, through the adhesive of band aids!

[@saimamalik7272]

Hi Dr dray!! Hope you and mother doing well take care of you and your mother . Can I use olive or jojoba oil as makeup remover

[@DrDrayzday]

May not rinse off easily without emulsifier, but yes

[@feylights166]

I hate wearing tampons. I much prefer reusable cotton pads (the idea of anything "up there" wigs me out). Less wasteful, and more comfortable for me. Great idea for petroleum!

[@db-gb5xi]

Other resources are ob/gyn or urologists. Some ob/gyn channels are Dr. Jennifer Lincoln, Mama Doctor Jones and Mary Claire Haver. Rena Malik MD is a urologist and talks about issues mainly male issues/proper hygiene.

[@whitneybrown4067]

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[@marizzy63]

Happy Tuesday Friend !

[@db-gb5xi]

@@marizzy63 Happy Tuesday mary ann Gonzalez. Take care and have a great day.

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@@db-gb5xi Enjoy !

[@ameldaarceno7588]

I realized as I grow older there is an inch down there because of dryness ,atrophy ,hormonal decrease and D.M. Too much washing might remove normal bacterial flora which when irritated might cause infection in my case I apply moisturizer like petroleum jelly.and it works.

[@devidaughter7782]

I was feeling itchy and uncomfortable 'down there', but knew it wasn't a uti or yeast infection, so I decided to do a 90 min float in super concentrated epson salts. as soon as I got in the water my vulva BURNED! I thought salt, like sea water, might be healing, but the experience was quite uncomfortable!

[@niskamelchionne1942]

I hope you feeling better and I hope that this uncomfortableness goes away from you

[@devidaughter7782]

@@niskamelchionne1942 so nice of you! actually, it's still there- menopause drop in estrogen is making this really tough to clear up- so frustrating! thanks for asking...

[@ariesa9751]

One of the best things I've ever purchased was a bidet.

[@sara35ish]

I appreciate this video. Thank you so much. Its hard to discuss these things with a dermatologist but so important. Thank you for reminding us that dermatologists have seen everything and we shouldn't be embarrassed to show them things that could save our lives or allay our concerns.

[@mazzie9663]

You’re so smart, and so helpful and generous to help us all, thank you❤

[@ralphandleosmom9075]

Spermicide and other detergents always caused major problems for me. Yes, spermacide is detergent.

[@truetigress8401]

That makes sense. I know also that I was sensitive to oil based lubricants...so I switched to water-based and had a better experience over all. :)

[@wonderwoman4726]

Thank you Dr. Dray, I started having this issue a week ago for the first time. I can’t believe this video came up now. I believe my issue could be menopause related or possibly new shower products. I’m glad you mentioned to use just plain Vaseline. I was trying steroid creams and clotrimazole and cetaphil ointment. Thank you thank you 🙏

[@manhwa__07]

You can use coconut oil, it's good too, but pure coconut oil.

[@tisharaparag1161]

Omg I've been dealing with genital itch for years and I found that avoiding soaps and body washes and rinsing with cold water alone provides the most relief from itching and even reduces swelling from constant itching..

[@JenF-m5g]

Soaps with fragrance really bothered me then I switched to dove unscented baby wash. Problem solved😊

[@hairstylis]

Pls how do u stop it i have ich for years too i dont what i have to do im very teird to going hisptal

[@frescazzz7536]

I find it frustrating how uncommon cotton seems to be for underwear. Nowadays it’s mostly synthetic fabrics.

[@victoriaturner8912]

Dr. Dray, is Lichen sclerosus something that a dermatologist can treat? Thank you

[@gmsmolen]

Ive been suffering for over 2 years with "itch down there" my dr. really did nothing when I discussed with her so IU have been trying to cure on my own. This video was EXTREMELY informative. I learned what I now should change next and I will try that but if no luck I will seek medical treatment. But do I go to a Dermatologist or an Gynecologist? Which is more informed on genital itching?

[@ericawentz2734]

Thank you so much for sharing your expert advice on this important topic! Keep up the great work! ✌🏻❤️💪🏻

[@sassyknight8230]

I have tried EVERYTHING you said, including Advantan Fatty Ointment, Sigmacort, coconut oil, vaseline...I am always itchy/going through the itch/stinging cycle. Currently going off birth control after 8 years as I think it is the cause. Any advice? Thank you!

[@nostrasignoradelcarmelo]

Might be vulvodynia? I know that vulvar itch with no significant skin changes might be related to that condition!

[@sassyknight8230]

@@nostrasignoradelcarmelo Yeah I was diagnosed with that but I've tried everything (I'm currently on another birth control pill called Slinda) and the itching won't stop

[@JustSomeLady]

Always superb content. Thank you Dr. Dray. 👍🏾❤

[@Vannie6]

Diabetes… as soon as I controled my Blood sugar, the itching was gone

[@lynettedevries1824]

I have Diabetes and would love to be free from it but i love lollies. and chocolate.

[@jenniferwray3329]

I have lichen sclerosus. My GYN told me to ask my dermatologist to do the Biopsy since i was seeing her the next week. My Derm refused, said i wasn't the typical patient because im 40, and she didn't see anything abnormal. Went back to GYN to have biopsy. She was mad that my Derm wouldn't do it. Well, it came back positive. So now I've lost complete trust in her. She could have cost me years of vulvar deformity.

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[@victoriaturner8912]

That is horrible I am so sorry. I also have this condition

[@marizzy63]

Happy Tuesday ! Dr Dray and everyone . I so appreciate you Dr Dray . Talking about real issues . HAve a fabulous day . Love to mom and Tybee xoxoxoxo

[@DrDrayzday]

Thank you! You too!

[@whitneybrown4067]

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[@marylawman8603]

Happy Tuesday, Mary Ann! Hope your day was a great one! 💗

[@sonjaforrester9255]

I stopped washing that area with anything but water. But use a little dove fragrance free on the back side!

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[@alicemurphy8715]

Please do a video on lichen sclerosis

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[@tonyj4271]

thanks for the topic and happy Tuesday all xo

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Happy Tuesday

[@jackiemarsh2470]

Happy Tuesday Friend!! Enjoy Your Day and Week!!🖐☃️

[@marizzy63]

Happy Tuesday !

[@mariafentis]

Going through this now I also found diaper rash cream , and just wipe with witch hazel on occasion Thank you Dr Dray yes miserable stuff!