THE EXCEPTION: Rules of Modern Dating & Understanding Women "It's Complicated"

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[@fndmntl5341]

When a woman says "men are toxic" it actually says a lot more about that woman than it does all men.

[@saygoodnighttothebadguy]

Yup especially when she says all her previous romantic relationships with men, he was the toxic one. Always a red flag 🚩 to me.

[@Re69.]

200 iq comment

[@The-DAWG957]

It means she's prone too terrible choices and only look at those disgusting men.

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

Lol.

[@MrTchupam]

Facts

[@micahcjames]

So happy that I was able to be a part of this. Thank you for being one of the best journalists/content creators out there! 💯

[@mikeyy425]

You were my favorite, very sensible and intelligent, with a beautiful smile

[@jamesbeam5373]

You made a lot of sense. Good to see there are clear thinkers out there.

[@realjcoop182]

Nice to see a sensible young blk woman 😎

[@finaldelostiemposministrie7517]

@@realjcoop182 and you couldn´t keep the race out of this, a sensible, intelligent young woman, period.

[@saygoodnighttothebadguy]

You were one of the realest ones in the video. #salute

[@TheReallyBadChannel]

Common sense: makes your day easier. Wisdom: makes your life easier. Facts: can't be argued or disproved. Feelings: Are relative to the one experiencing them. Astrology: Removes accountability

[@maybeimnotwokeenough775]

Amen

[@smokewulf]

Not really. It depends on the era regarding 'facts'. For instance, once it was believed that the the sun revolved around the Earth. It was accepted as fact, but it was never true. Facts are mutable, changing. Truth is immutable, unchanging.

[@TheReallyBadChannel]

@@smokewulf You just want attention.

[@smokewulf]

@@TheReallyBadChannel No, numb nuts. I was explaining the difference between facts and truth. But I get it, it was too hard for you to understand. Carry on.

[@TrkJustin]

@@smokewulf its a fact untill its disproved

[@latt.qcd9221]

5:41 "I had a biology teacher that said we laugh at jokes because we're uncomfortable" *_Laughs at her own joke_*

[@kyleflournoy7730]

The laughter from jokes is usually born out of an uncomfortable truth, but that uncomfortable truth can be different based on the perspective of the receiver. The discourse around the movie blazing saddles is a great example Dumb racist people think the movie is funny because the uncomfortable truth is just a bunch of negative poc stereotypes People with awareness and media literacy understand that it's funny because the uncomfortable truth is how stupid those negative stereotypes and hour common the people who believe in them really are

[@W93h3753mwesley]

@@kyleflournoy7730 so when SLN has a skit about a racist white hilly billy from the south. Which laugh is yours about? 😂

[@redman6790]

The beautiful Black sister was so genuine & logical. 🙏🏾

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

Hm.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Word

[@markuhler2664]

No lie

[@Remember-Death]

Right. At first glance, based on her look, I just knew she was going to be a feminist. But she proved me wrong... my generalization was incorrect. 😉

[@tikifreaky5204]

@@Remember-Deathimagine all the other generalizations you have been making about people 🤔

[@jonathanmunoz9272]

Facts= objective truths Feelings= subjective truths

[@russellfield5010]

Feelings are not founded in truth.

[@Dreweybaby]

But 99.9999% of vvomen would disagree wit u tho 😂💀😂

[@jonathanmunoz9272]

@@russellfield5010 yes correct i agree 100% when i say subjective truth i refer the the person own truth/ belief not a truth seeded from reality

[@russellfield5010]

@@jonathanmunoz9272 I understand.

[@russellfield5010]

@@Dreweybaby That's because women listen to feminist doctrine instead of reading the bible. As the world turns away from the teachings of the bible, society becomes more chaotic. God's word is clear as day. ....... Ephesians 5:22-24 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.

[@ComposedSage75]

Feelings are unreliable when it comes to truth. Gathering all the facts and evidence will always take precedence over feelings.

[@randybaumery5090]

You sound like a man! 😉

[@PedanticFoot]

*unless you're a modern woman 🤫

[@randybaumery5090]

@@PedanticFoot modern woman goes like this:" I don't need a man! By the way, where's my Chad?"

[@peterparker2981]

This takes the cake for me!

[@Otto-Just]

Maybe. Feelings should not be discounted. In the context of these videos, or these types of questions,, feelings are inferior. But in the context of knowing the truth of 'who you are', feelings are superior.

[@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687]

I want to be on this show one day. I love thought-provoking questions. Here's to "It's Complicated" growing to 1 million they deserve.

[@saygoodnighttothebadguy]

So would I. Would be cool to be able to think on the spot while giving answers. Hopefully if I go to Vegas, I'm able to see him and contribute to this awesome channel.

[@bluebehir]

so tempted to go to Vegas (massively expensive international flight) just to try and be on his show

[@damefame8921]

Same

[@tonymaurice4157]

Women control the dating game it's all rigged against men!

[@dapo3538]

Honestly I think I’d be biased since I already watch his content 😅

[@TypeZero31]

I don’t understand how this channel has only 295K subscribers. The way he asks questions followed up by more questions according to the interviewees answer are ALWAYS precise and on point. Also, it’s exposing how most ordinary people view men/women in society and the contradiction people believe in.

[@theworldisimmense]

Because of algorithm and also is a new channel, came out 1-2 years ago.

[@sabincioflec8413]

It's gone from 100k to 300k in a few months

[@reioonuru8519]

Because youtube's algorythm doesn't like this kind of discussions. Why do you think they banned people who speaks about these topics?.😅

[@noobcitiey2442]

it'll probably blow up in a few months

[@reitum.9950]

Common Sense isn't as common as we think. It's Complicated. RIP KS

[@just1morething]

You asked a question in a previous video that I really hope you bring up more - Why should men fight for a country that says they're not needed and they are trash?

[@saygoodnighttothebadguy]

Wow yes that would be interesting to see people's answers

[@treacherousjslither6920]

No country says that lol

[@boost800]

@@treacherousjslither6920 western countries do, they treat boys like defective girls in school

[@pancakerepairman]

why don't men in the US military refuse to fight in order to teach man-hating feminists a lesson? because you can't pick and choose who you protect in a military conflict. if you want to protect your own way of life and those you care about you have to fight for the whole country.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

@@boost800 I wasn't treated like that in school.

[@F_C...]

A lot of people respond with what they wish to be true rather than what is true. Generalizing isn't inherently bad, it's simply pattern recognition, it's what makes us human, it is our most valuable ability, it has allowed us to adapt and survive from primitive times all the way to modern times. But we have been beaten over the head since childhood "DISCRIMINATION BAD" that everyone associates the idea of generalization, judgment, discrimination with stereotyping, bigotry etc. Yet people recognize patterns and make judgements every moment of every day.

[@pendragon4208]

So true, for some they see discrimination and generalization as the same when there are clear lines, and for good reason. If we were to singularly identify each person on whatever metric or parameter, it would never get done; thus generalization comes in. It can be wrong, which people need to understand, but it’s not a grand probability, so taking that into account can lessen when people think is ‘discrimination’ when we recognize certain patterns and behaviors and the likelihood of them. There’s a reason for birds of a feather flock together or if the shoe fits, wear it. If we were to be in a perfect world, it would be different, but here are, and we have to start acknowledging the positive and negatives.

[@Xizziano]

Generalizations are based on statistics which are based on patterns.

[@MrColdwilliam]

​@@Xizziano there are literally formulas in statistics that allow you to make the data say whatever you want. That's why looking at raw data and determining what's happening is important. Example: it was considered that raip was a male only problem against women until you looked at the raw data and found that it was like that because up until 2012 the crime was defined as "carnal knowledge of a woman against her will", meaning men couldn't be victims. When that changed the data shows that the numbers evened out (1.267M women v 1.260M men) with 73-75% of men calling women their perpetrators. Statistics are a geenrally poor way to base all thinking, especially without looking at the data itself. How it's collected, how words are defined, who is counted v excluded...

[@DavidRodriguez-hx5zp]

“Men generally don’t believe in Bullsh**” , there you have it folks 😆

[@jasonsherwood7539]

My favorite line of the video lol

[@dapo3538]

😂😂👏🏾👏🏾

[@Waryfuls]

Best part of the video.

[@145boneman]

We do, its just different kind of bullshit.

[@bokchoiman]

@@145boneman Like what?

[@grimsdungeonofcomics]

Whoever that one guy is, he needs his own show. All of his responses are incredibly animated. I'd watch that.

[@AnthonyArmour]

I enjoyed him as well. We have to find the mystery man.

[@ak-jxrdy-7]

Absolutely, very charismatic and engaging. Helps that he's an extremely logical thinker.

[@TyBrezzy11]

i said he should be in a movie or sum

[@romzen]

@@ak-jxrdy-7 Also he is clearly intelligent and educated. I love how he verbatim recited a long question.

[@jinijason4326]

He was going hard

[@SaltStorm007]

ALMOST AT 300k🍾🎊Congratulations....even though you deserve to have M’s of subs! If everyone that used your clips..also gave you credit you’d be over a Million....NTM that fact that YT suppresses content like this💯Thank you for everything you do, It’s Complicated...your questions are THE BEST and hit home every single time! Hope you, your family and everyone else watching...ALL have a WONDERFULLY FANTASTIC weekend💯🙏

[@mokeshe_robbi6828]

".... a dentist with rotten teeth....", followed by a facial expression of utmost disgust, is the most hilarious of the bunch. She literally felt the emotion and the test in her mouth. 😅🤣😂😂🤣😅

[@Autonomous1969]

But he/she may have rotten teeth because they don't trust any other dentist to be as good as him/her.

[@Mirrodin82]

That black woman with sunglasses is so logical and reasonable, huge respect for her

[@trentzee8549]

The woman with sunglasses is so intelligent. Wow

[@MarkYeeDaMajor]

"I can do complicated just fine, its the easy stuff I have trouble with" The truth in that is so strong!

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Q: "how can you tell the difference between what you feel and what you know" A: "follow your gut" 😅😢😅🙄😅🤔😅😢

[@rakandinho1051]

that cracked me up

[@nisuperman]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@killaswing1000]

Bruh lmao

[@heedmywarning2792]

14:00 Sometimes, like the 'Mandella Effect' we will take in information and distort it in time. When I was younger I wrote in a journal. Years later I stopped, and decades later I found the journal. I recalled most of the stuff I wrote about, but there were certain facts that I recalled differently than the way I wrote them down AT THE TIME IT HAPPENED. That was a very scary realization.

[@iyfan2961]

Reminds me of the fruit of the loom Mandela effect, that out of all of them I know to be true. See as a kid one of my chores was to fold the laundry and having brothers who all had whitey tighties I had to look at the tags to see who got which size I remember the cornucopia behind the fruit.

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

Hm. You people have a really poor memnotic skills.

[@grinningchicken]

My step brother “remembered” my father abusing him. It wasn’t my father it was another male relative of his from before my father met his mother.

[@PaulSmith-nb6md]

Shazaam was a real movie I dont care what anyone says

[@lancehughes8331]

That megaphone guy just talking to talk 🤣

[@ibizawavey8630]

How's this channel not a million? how's this even possible?

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Shadowbanning

[@N1XHL]

People don’t like the truth.

[@Saberdud]

The truth is like medicine, it doesn't taste good

[@Chordonblue]

This video should more than explain that. Look at the ladies who reject truth over feelings, bad decisions over good. I'll give you a hint: They don't know, and THEY DON'T WANT TO KNOW. People only come to these kinds of channels because they have an interest in what other people think. Most people? They simply don't think, they can't step outside themselves and consider their actions in a wider world - and although I've seen this with modern women mostly, there are PLENTY of delusional men out there as well.

[@adamrocks19]

It doesn’t comply with…”THE MESSAGE!” -Critical Drinker

[@NowaboMusic]

15:12 this dude just roasted the interviewer lol

[@osinachiakara9279]

Yeah, I'm surprised nobody else in the comments got on these

[@gustavocba1]

Black girl with a great smile is the best. Common sense right there.

[@psycho-mantis8316]

The guy that repeats the question every time seems super chill but I would only be able to be around him in small doses lol.

[@rikkertteuge]

Generalisation is okay, because they make life easier and faster. but you have to keep your mind open because generalisations are not always true.

[@ianvandermey9815]

Im the VIllian of my story, working towards a redemption arc.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

That's a good line

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

Jbp?

[@robertshepherd7524]

😈😈😈

[@bryantnoussi2206]

Meruem sama

[@gibranhader1702]

Mr. Megaphone is working so hard to say something impactfull, but it just won't get out😂

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

😂 its true

[@jlive8428]

facts🤣🤣🤣

[@ZackRaso]

best interviewees yet. finally a majority of people u interviewed are logical. i have hope again for the world!

[@ahdeper]

I figured that was why he added "The Exception" onto the thumbnail ;)

[@xitsxphoex6633]

You should walk the strip with him and see how much bullshit you have to seed through to even find a logical individual.

[@Reofenja]

Patterns imply that there is consistency and predictability, which in this age of individualism where so many people are trying to be unique through sheer existence, it crushes those delusions.

[@ITlifts]

I'm a simple man; I see IC upload, I upvote.

[@NicoSavage]

That shia labeouf archetype was energetic

[@ContentRants]

the guy in the maroon holding the microphone is the definition of "a long story short" that never ends .....

[@brandonfonseca4284]

Yo that transition at 11:19 was dope. Love that

[@mushroomanjcc1954]

I thought he was going to edit between their perspectives. Hopefully next time

[@ralphjean2731]

@15:20 I died lmao this man issa menace how he calmly roasted the homie. I would have edited this out. If my teeth looks like...turn the camera around, if my teeth looks like yours of course I'll take your advice and start brushing and flossing lmao. I cant stop laughing.

[@dernkross9095]

7:55 A very generously asked question. He did say .. "why do ... people" .. when we all know, "people" mean .. women.

[@theAzeo]

7:16 That Question stunned the girl to the right of the screen lmao

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Her face! 😲 lol

[@RangerOfTheEast00]

I swear the comments the dude made in the end truly hit home. As this year has not been the easiest in terms of the struggles as once I did feel that i am truly stuck with no way out. However, I believe there is a better possibility of making my life different and after months of hard work, I have begun to make genuine progress.

[@brayanmedina5526]

What an amazing video, thank you.

[@JAG214]

Most Women will go with feelings over facts which hurts a lot of Women at some point in their life

[@Rjs520]

The ending speech was actually quite emotional, you could definitely see he was talking from personal experience. Seems a smart man wish him the best

[@luciang9547]

7:21 when you realize you're gonna be on tv/yt

[@2020_Visi0n]

The irony of that guy with the megaphone being the last person who needs one

[@ajp1282]

A1 content. Dude w the megaphone is a born talker 😲📣

[@SaltStorm007]

Love this channel and its content 💯

[@KH9th]

The 🐐 is back with another classic.

[@ericguner]

Feelings change. Facts NEVER change. Feelings ARE inconsistent. Facts ARE consistent.

[@bluebehir]

Common Sense: The word common has multiple meanings. Everyone assumes it means "occurring very often", but it actually means (in this case) "shared by a group of people", in this case a community or a society. Common sense is NOT everywhere, because it is everybody's responsibility to SHARE it. "Don't touch that, it's hot". "Don't dive into shallow water". All of this stuff is taught to each and every person. The problem is most people are only out for themselves nowadays, so ... "common sense isn't"

[@Rishi-tf1ip]

'Is generalizing always wrong?' 'Yes' The answer yes is a generalization of generalizing...i.e. in general, generalizing is wrong

[@smithsmith1956]

I'm using this next time I have to deal with a female. I bet her brain will melt right out her ears.

[@themetalchronicles.9557]

The phrase "It's Complicated" should be the 5th face carved on Mount Rushmore.

[@peripheralparadox4218]

Whenever I doubt my intelligence I just watch this channel.

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

😅bruvvvvvv that is a low bar.

[@Casualboxingfan]

12:45 is hilarious. Some people are so scared of saying something wrong they would rather spew BS just to avoid answering a question. No one forced him to do the interview.

[@danmarley2926]

Great commentary and absolutely love the interesting responses from everyone who participated. Much love and respect It's Complicated ❤️💯

[@rontang8092]

This guy should have a talk show

[@xitsxphoex6633]

Hey Jon, another SOLID piece of work here my friend. Subject matter and interviews were on point. I know you probably shot countless hours of footage to pull the best of the best responses to your questions and I must say that you did a great job at putting this all together. Very effective. Keep doing what you're doing. Remember, I live here. If you ever need ANYTHING...let me know.

[@charlesrogers8420]

Outstanding series. Really enjoyed this episode. The guy at the end was insightful and at least hopeful.

[@Nikstar112]

I always look forward to watching these videos!

[@primelason]

“Let your desires be ruled by reason”

[@jamessawwheeler6837]

The guy with the megaphone 📣 is so emotional in a good and sincere way.

[@twerktwerk2593]

Wow. A full episode of rational people.

[@ericmckinley7985]

No its not the bimbo being interviewed indoors refuses to admit generalization is ok

[@Hittarn]

feelings are evil, logic and truth is love

[@charleshammel8541]

One of the most underrated channels I've seen: consistently varied

[@DDG-Downfall]

This channel needs 100mill subs. Thank you for asking the right questions, ppl need too see this 😅

[@SSTyphon]

Man always has his microphone no matter what city or state, big ups to the Winjammers Goat!!!

[@MegaphoneFranke]

It's honestly one of my most prized possessions - you'd be surprised how often it comes in handy!

[@evrenshistar5986]

at 9:13 "Is generalizing always wrong" and that's generalizing 'generalize' 😅

[@justinsavedra7633]

Common sense is wisdom that's learned from an early stage in life. I.E. looking both ways before you cross the street is common knowledge.

[@milan90ful]

I would also say also observing other people actions too can qualify.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

[@BlackHoleOfTime]

You have always had very well thought out questions but I feel your getting better and better at this. Keep it up.

[@untold.destinations5658]

Been waiting for this boy to drop 🤧

[@crow2swann5]

Another great video. Kudos brother! 👍

[@StopNdThink]

11:45 “These are very thought provoking questions!” They really aren’t. This is what happens when you run off feelings and refuse to put logical effort in understanding something like social dynamics.

[@CorporationSKY]

Bruh...I was just think that as I read this. Thought provoking is like What is consciousness? How do we quantify or qualify it? what happens when death invades our body? Are we 3D shadows in a 4D world that have higher dimesions that we regard as God's? So on and so on..

[@unfortunatepanda1827]

LETS GO BABY ANOTHER BANGER

[@curtisbrown-up5dw]

The Gentleman with the horn is a thinker for sure . 1 of best on this series ever .

[@fariszengi]

To describe something without generalizing it, it is important to avoid using sweeping statements that apply to a group of people or things as a whole. Instead, focus on specific characteristics, traits, or examples that are unique to the individual or thing being described. For example, instead of saying "all women are emotional," describe a specific woman who is emotional in a particular situation. Instead of saying "all Muslims are terrorists," describe a specific Muslim who is peaceful and compassionate. It is also important to be aware of one's own biases and assumptions when describing something, and to avoid letting those biases influence the way you describe it. Be open-minded and willing to consider different perspectives and experiences, and avoid making assumptions based on stereotypes or preconceived notions. Overall, to describe something without generalizing it, focus on specific examples and characteristics, be aware of your own biases, and avoid making sweeping statements that apply to a group as a whole.

[@jrr7031]

Potato guy. This is something that should be taught wide spread.

[@ismaelhall3990]

Keep growing this channel.

[@Fantastic4te]

I just want to say I love your videos and appreciate you helping the masses ask questions that we need to evaluate as a society. It's fair it's helpful, and informative. Thank you for creating these questions and conversations.

[@sweebos]

I thoroughly enjoyed this particular video. Thanks ✌️

[@Below-Zero.]

"Turn the camera on your teeth." 😳😬🤣

[@WtfReal]

LIKE THE VIDEO, HES ON THE WAY TO 500K LETS GOOOO SPREAD THE TRUTH

[@SwishBeats]

one of the best episodes for sure!

[@bwahl85]

i truly madly deeply, wish i run across you on my next trip to vegas, your line of questioning is top notch, and id love to need to answer your questions on the spot. Keep up the great work, love your channel

[@saygoodnighttothebadguy]

This channel is the bomb 💣 💯

[@siol7226]

The reactions from of the kid at 7:05 just made my day, I bet she wasn't ready for that 😂

[@wrmonahan30]

the dude with the intercom is extremely intelligent. I enjoyed hearing what he had to say.

[@sherwyn390]

He's back with gems

[@andrehill9180]

Another great vid hate that people steal your content and never post or link you.

[@iam_ALEXWHAT_]

@11:41 YES!!!!!!😂😂

[@andresrtidwell8933]

Thanks for all the great content 👍

[@taye_RA]

Buddy with the bullhorn has been up for a few days. 😂

[@preslim84]

megaphone guy was dying for this lol

[@wilee.coyote5298]

Your "Truth" is when you Think=Feel=Believe

[@mushroomanjcc1954]

Lol Charlie Day's cousin out here going crazy

[@pantsmarshall1]

This channel is criminally underrated. To that dude with the megaphone - I hope you get to reach your goal, your a good soul mate.

[@victorcode2075]

It's Complicated, I love your videos and I always think you must have some philosophical training/self education. Just an idea, but I would love to see a video by you about rhetoric and logic. Cheers, keep up the great work!

[@bronxishomenomatterwhereig3149]

Learn what not to do from those that messed up. Learn what to do from those that succeeded. If you only learn from those who succeeded? You ignore the risk, and will be unprepared for them If things don't go as planned. You only learn from those who failed? You may become so risk adverse. That you don't even try. But if you learn from both? You can take risk, and also take steps to minimize said risk.

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Big 🧠

[@TancWiht]

It all about calculated risk.

[@papichris4117]

new vid thank it takes to long for new ones love them do more often

[@lazyd.williams1555]

COMMENTING TO SUPPORT THE CHANNEL

[@ptolemeeselenion1542]

This was enjoyable.

[@ibrahim43406]

If it's within your means, you should travel to different countries and ask these types of questions. I think it would be interesting to see how different people from different countries respond to these questions.

[@iMAKEbeatsPEOPLE]

Once he does this…it will help American women stop their bs

[@rejectwokeness1314]

​@@iMAKEbeatsPEOPLEdude no. I'm in Asia and the women in my country are even dumber than these western women. At least there are some western women who thinks feminism is bad and Trump isn't a villain that mainstream painted him to be. In my country, ALL women are all in on feminism and the woke shit, thinks Trump is crazy because media said it, and believes in pseudo science like horoscopes and folk religion 😂

[@hookahman22]

If I am ever in Vegas I want to find you and be interviewed by you. You are the best I have seen at this. I have watched a few of your videos and definitely gonna watch more. GREAT VIDEO BRO!

[@gtgaza79]

I absolutely loved this video, the guy with the beard, the young lady with the glasses, and the Rasta dude with the purple hat came ready to debate! Very stimulating!