This is a Bad Idea, But...

[@jeniferhood4141]

I think we need to remember that Joe Biden isn't old. He's Mid-century modern.

[@akatobi2002]

lmfao omgggg

[@marlynnek6449]

Nicely played. He may be old, but he's not crazy.

[@MichaelMoriarty-HNL]

I live in Palm Springs resonate with me.

[@sallieannwestbrook9769]

Yes!!! This is spot on.

[@SL-sd3sg]

81 is the new 61

[@michele1491]

No on the purse hijacking’s by significant others. After I no longer needed to carry a diaper bag I refused to tote anyone else’s shit in my bag. Just “no”.

[@cemanuelhead]

Exactly. He can use his pockets.

[@cemanuelhead]

Exactly. He can use his pockets.

[@rachele8380]

yes! i just say damn that sucks for you. should have left it at home

[@covfefe95]

This is literally why they have more pockets in men’s clothes. But as a guy I carry small backpacks, but would be down to carry a small purse around would be easier

[@robertyates6076]

“Your call is important to us. We are currently experiencing high caller volume. Let’s collect some information about the reason for your call so we can route it to the appropriate representative.” The listener goes thru all the robot prompts and responses and much later actually get to a human representative. The human representative has NONE of the information the listener has just put into their automated system. Every. Single. Time. 24/7! 🤬🤬🤬

[@kconway2263]

I’m hesitant to give bad scores on surveys because I don’t want it to count against the reps who have no control over how annoying the system as a whole is.

[@ambriaashley3383]

But they have separate sections for that on most surveys, right? Like: 1) how would you rate this representative? 5 ⭐️. 2) how would you rate the speed or ease of service? 0 ⭐️ lol.

[@Lina_unchained]

​@@ambriaashley3383Also they often have a space for notes so in the notes I put "so and so was wonderful and helped me as effectively as the system would allow. So and so was helpful, kind, attentive and lovely. The company and system are the problem."

[@margaritadankova5061]

I'm an advanced English learner, and I'm so happy to have found your podcast because it's such a vocabulary treasure trove! I'm listening to it with a notebook in my hands. Not even speaking about your charisma, you have it for days! I'm really enjoying the episode. I've already listened to it twice!

[@sydfishbish]

I’m loving “How have we not discussed this??” when y’all have most DEFINITELY already discussed this 😩💖

[@paulettedamato5681]

I recently raged in an on-line survey. Spent 10 minutes writing my discontent. When I got to the end, it booted me out. 🤬🤬🤬

[@joeb4142]

The winter of your discontent.

[@grimlicentia]

These surveys are only used to discipline employees, they don't care if you don't like the company policies

[@lizzyschenk8878]

I hate that!!!!

[@davidmacleod9313]

No wonder people “go postal”. Lol

[@ambriaashley3383]

They did it on purpose 😡 never use their services again, if you can help it lol

[@jenm6977]

“My motherhood and my womanhood are two different journeys” YES amazing ❤

[@awilkins5827]

“Narrating the torture..”I LOVE IT!!!!😂

[@hopes4113]

Love you both! When George asks me if I have room for his keys, I say no. If he wants me to take his phone and cough drops too I say ok but in 3 mins I hand him my purse saying “ You have to carry this now it is too heavy for me!” I make it as miserable as possible !

[@vickiweatherby3261]

Hahaha, great idea! I'm def trying this tactic.

[@kaylacason993]

I just don’t think anyone would be surprised if he had a purse honestly

[@22Circes]

Oof! I've had it with the whole purse thing. He's got cargo pockets.

[@breezymary]

Josh is way too boujee for cargo pants 😂

[@skybaby444]

I hate surveys. They always ask the wrong questions.

[@arthurcoomes2942]

I have a small men's LV bag. Everyone makes fun of it, UNTIL we are going somewhere and I have four people who want to store their stuff in my bag.

[@SL-sd3sg]

😂

[@din6675]

Kayleigh girl you need to explain to Pumps what "circlejerk" is.

[@rehakos]

Pumps is officially benjamin buttoning 😍

[@1BSDjunkie]

Josh should get his own purse! In some circles, it’s called a ‘murse’! 😊 A little murse would be a mursette!

[@vickiweatherby3261]

It's a satchel! Lol

[@jakechartrand7308]

Indiana Jones carries one 😂 😜. If you know you know

[@indeterminatevegetable2475]

I can see Josh with a fancy leather fanny pack 🤣

[@chloechristian67]

My husband became a fanny pack guy and I haven’t had to carry a purse in ages! Josh def needs a Gucci fanny asap

[@rickiechristine]

The purse story reminds me of soft boundaries. I found by Setting solid boundaries and standing firm can solve a lot of these issues.

[@elvyfoster7455]

Actor Terry Crews recognized that it was unfair to expect his wife to carry his stuff, and started carrying his own.

[@joeyfarrell188]

Pumps, I’m clapping at home with you! Love what you are discussing on this show - thank you!!!!

[@craiggallagher5874]

I have carried a man purse for 30 plus years - don't let josh put shit in your purse Jennifer - Pumps you loo k divine

[@lizzyschenk8878]

“Nut cut” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ginnysauer4301]

My favorite quote: Stop the glorification of busy.

[@1BSDjunkie]

0:35 - LOVE Jennifer’s reaction to Pump’s initial ‘Had It’! Must have rewound and listened to it three times! Lol 😂 Almost want it to become my text message notification! Heh heh 🤣

[@cesarbugarini499]

8:05 gentleman already do got an array of carrying pouches

[@d.haskins3840]

I l9ve Tamron, she was wonderful when she worked in Chicago

[@doctork1708]

There are purses for all…hip or waist bags.😅

[@jaygatz4335]

Re Josh: get him a smart man-purse, which would be large enough to hold some of Jennifer's stuff (including a stack of "I've Had It" cards, exclusively devoted to Josh).

[@davidmacleod9313]

2:32 How about when you’re on the phone to the government to fill out a request and it just goes on and on and then you get a message saying that “Your session has timed out”?!!!!!!!!! Fk!!!!!

[@hotlikesauce]

“just say no to crack” LMAOOOOOO

[@discowolf25]

6:16 yeah that’s the nicotine talking. It’ll revert a grown man into a 16 year old. I’ve been there 😭😂💯✌️

[@jacobjward]

Kiley I love your hair so much!! I usually just listen to the show so I’m not sure how long you’ve had it styled like this, but it looks SO good on you!! ❤️❤️

[@hopes4113]

Just one more comment… for 40 plus years as a RN… all nurses from my era would never get a physician to write a needed order for a patient without making the physician think it was his idea. Things are finally changing now because NP’s writing orders too.

[@WilliamEricStone]

Yes, the tricks that nurses play! We are also really good at stealing shit!

[@tamyraa88]

Love yall for having Tam on, she’s one of my absolute favorite interviewers. And I kinda live for the way all 3 of the southern accents were accenting 😂

[@triciadrammeh4536]

I agree so hard about the purses. Especially when we go somewhere where we’re going to be walking around and I’ve deliberately downsized so I’m lightening my load. Then my husband wants me to stuff his phone, keys, wallet, water bottle, etc into my purse. Now the purse is bulging and my shoulder hurts. He, of course, is free as a bird. I’ve had it!!!

[@becplayz]

I didn’t realise you were on Facebook. I just read some of the comments. People on Facebook are unhinged 😂😂😂

[@sarahbleckman5199]

One time on a dating site a guy said that he couldn't date me because of my pet bird. I don't have a bird nor have I ever had a bird.

[@deanie2477]

😂 In my relationships I'm definitely the wife. Everyone wants me to put things in my backpack. And people pretending to be busy is called making.. WORK NOISE!

[@peterdebruyn5260]

Love the podcast I listen to all your content. I’m from Canada but watch your bullshit politics with great interest and feel sorry for “sane” Americans that have to endure your situation. Y’all are welcome to move to Canada! Keep up the good work girls

[@susansalvucci4281]

Thanks for being a good northern neighbor. You have no idea just how painful life is here. We and our friends are making our exit plan if the orange criminal is elected. Canada may not be far enough away.

[@lindamardis6755]

I love being thought of as similar to Pumps. Great complement.However, referring to my African Grey parrot by the moniker, “CRACKPOT”, I find highly insulting. The poor bird’s grandfather was literally snatched from a tree in Africa as part of an illegal bird smuggling operation, and stowed away on ship to U.S. without even a sip of water.. Many of these parrots died during the voyage. These African Greys have been through enough!

[@jeniferhood4141]

IHI with similar issue... my partner asking me to carry her luggage in airport while she's carrying her purse.

[@mareesimonis7656]

Having watched most of your back catalogue of IHIPs I think Tamron’s ‘I’ve Had It’s’ were the best!! ‘Busy’ is the new humble brag .. YES to that. ‘I hear you’ is super annoying response. She’s great. So are you 2. Xx

[@gzucc]

Get him a fanny pack. I bought one in Berlin a few years ago and it's genius. Wear it around your waist or across your chest or just over your shoulder. Changed my life.

[@nightporter2023]

Automated customer service is terrible, as a person with stuttering! I've had it!

[@DaveCM]

I wanted to leave a bad survey for a similar experience once. The problem with the survey was that it revolved around the human that helped me. She was wonderful and very professional. I couldn't gig her for all of the frustration I had before I finally got to her. And I have never asked my wife to carry anything for me. I don't even understand that one.

[@tessadunfee5509]

I’ve FUCKING HAD IT with the hijacking of my purse. Women have purses because we have so much shit. If a man needs to take along all of his shit, carry a purse.

[@deborahstinnett5182]

I've also had it with the virtual chat

[@steellady1164]

Every time I see this one commercial for auto insurance where a man says how the low cost is easy on his "pocketbook". What man uses the word pocketbook to describe his wallet? I only hear old ladies call it that. MEN, PLEASE DON'T CALL YOUR WALLET A POCKETBOOK!! If you do, you must turn in your man card!!!

[@ElliottsLuxury]

As a professional authentic purse salesman in Oklahoma I advocate for men to be able to carry a bag here without being looked like you’re a ghost. I’d love to be a guest on the show 🫠🫠

[@tdsollog]

I’m gluten intolerant. Sadly, my taste buds love it, but it hates me. Diagnosed almost 20 years ago.

[@larrywayne6254]

I’ve watched y’all’s Bravo show before, and Jenny’s Mother reminds me of Jessica Lange! Beautiful Lady!

[@donnamccaffrey4364]

And the man wallet is five inches thick with every plastic card that was ever invented. Mine carries his library card from 3rd grade!

[@gimlitheguineapig]

I made my husband get his own purse. So much less irritation. I would add that couples should have their own blanket in the bed, because the last thing I need is waking up freezing. My kids can share the blanket with me though. 😂

[@H3H3HUMOR01]

You know its so funny, cause i say "this *might* be a bad idea, but..." for just a liiiitle bit of deniability 😅 Tamron's first 'had it' of the excuses was so relatable! Some people just blirt out excuses so quickly, its like theyre not even listening to me! Anyways thanks so much for another banger pod!

[@PamelaHaley]

Why don’t we just have more pockets? People for pockets!! Purses are for snatchers.

[@mega_milotic]

Robot customer service just makes me inevitably meaner to the real person when I finally get them, I can’t imagine every person I need to help already being in a bad mood

[@lindacanham1835]

The purse issue is real. I hate that too. I say no, as we call it, the short answer! Get Josh a man purse. Jennifer, pack a small brown bag inside your cute purse and when Josh asks you to carry his stuff, hand him the bag.

[@fluffysharkdatazz9460]

I as a man have always had a purse. A stylish animal one. My girlfriend doesn’t, and I got her one, and she still stuffs my purse with her shit. Like girl I got you one for a reason.

[@smills7303]

That’s what cargo pants are for… carry your own sh&t….

[@snarkyandsane]

That bird’s name would be Crackhead if it were up to me. 😊

[@TheJustineCredible]

RE: Man purses. No! They're Purses! Bacl before women were allowed to own property or even have credit in our own names, only men were even allowed to carry purses! So, let's call them what they are: Purses!

[@mixedmama]

Omg...the purse thing is REAL!

[@freespirithippie6857]

I stopped caring purses so I don't have to carry other people's stuff. Instead, I wear men's pants that have big pockets. Nobody hits on me I love it

[@sarabirnbaum1585]

I have found myself more than once screaming like a lunatic Put a Person on the phone! PERSON! HUMAN BEING! I NEED TO SPEAK TO A PERSON! Before crying and and hanging up.

[@gin_mill23]

Jennifer, do what I did. Buy him a nice crossbody/fanny pack. Then tell him you are no longer his pack mule.

[@mybirdsofparadise]

36:14 yes to birds!!!

[@margaretglaser6227]

yes the robot and horrible service Here in france you have to pay for customer service

[@lanalake819]

Gucci, Dior, and Vuitton all have really beautiful Men's/unisex cross body bags and belt bags. I thought they were all already quite popular though? I would've thought Josh would be all over that.

[@appelblossom4311]

Aloha again from Hawaii. How are y’all? I agree I cannot stand being on hold with robots it makes me so frustrated and then after 40 minutes being on the phone with a robot and then being disconnected starting all over again! I start screaming into the phone which is pointless ! I also complement a person who answers within 5 to 10 minutes, and who are kind not rude. I say thank you it’s so much nicer to talk to a human rather than incompetent robot as y’all said.!

[@karenazimi7088]

I've had it to with AUTOMATED HAHA ,SERVICE! I want a human being! You're so right!

[@SL-sd3sg]

You could try pressing zero. Sometimes works.

[@christinalloyd9566]

My boyfriend has his man bag. Great idea. He loves it. Christmas present tip of the day!

[@chazz911234]

I fucking love you two and I'll take the crackhead bird. 😊

[@beebaritter4952]

My significant other carries a purse shaped like a bat. He's a goth.

[@jojohisgrove3218]

lol I’m not a Sherpa!

[@joyrico5989]

Love you both💖✨️💖✨️

[@Chris-qg4zo]

I can't believe that I am spending my day off watching 2 women whining about purses! I need to get a life.😢

[@Sassysongstress]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂JOIN THE CLUB!'

[@oscarulloa-n1s]

Love Tamron :0)

[@zacharyminton73]

These ladies are good to my Lucy.

[@PatrickkSteele]

As a man, I support the purses for people movement

[@vickiweatherby3261]

12:06 I am shocked that Jen would tolerate all Josh's needs and wants. I think he's funny, kind and a very nice looking man but he is a titty baby. Hes a great dad too, i watched your show years ago and thought it was a hoot. No offense to Josh cause we all need more josh on the show, the three of you are comic gold. I also appreciate the josh stories!! Jen has the patience of a saint (hope i dont sound too bible thumpy saying that) 😉 with Josh. I love kylie, shes a great fit with you ladies.

[@TJ-cn3fe]

"murse = man purse" I am sure there's a high end brand out there that makes these

[@cesarbugarini499]

ALWAYS TAKE THE SURVEY 😈😈😈😈😈

[@nicholaspoiriergiroux4422]

Please come to Montreal. For a podcast, maybe but mostly to complain with you young ladies. ( yeah I said it, YOUNG ladies !!! )

[@kathylickenbrock2086]

If someone says to me “I think this is a bad idea, but…”. I am usually all in…. Not that in the end it wasn’t the best idea but hey it’s usually fun😂

[@steellio5526]

European men aren't shy about carrying man bags. Josh would love one

[@kconway2263]

It’s not a purse. It’s a satchel. Indiana Jones has one.

[@jakechartrand7308]

@@kconway2263so does Joy Behar 😂

[@steellio5526]

@@kconway2263 I'm in the Scotland. We call them bags here. Satchels are only for posh schools. 😀

[@jonimarsh9105]

It is very common in Europe to see men with all types of cross body bags. They sell them also at weekly markets. Secondly, most babies carry the MAN’S LAST NAME. THE MOTHER SHOULD ALWAYS CHOOSE EVERY OTHER NAMES. They carried that baby or babies for months through everything. GO MOMS!

[@kconway2263]

@@steellio5526It was a reference to one of the Hangover movies. You might need to be an American Millennial to know that.

[@smalltwngirl]

With my guy it is tissues. When we are out, he is always asking if I have tissues. Hey, you are the one with the allergies, carry your own tissues!

[@BoopsNstuff]

Tell your husband to bring his own satchel

[@danielquick3491]

Doesn't Prada make a fancy fannypack that Josh would wear? 😊

[@MichaelMoriarty-HNL]

I’d like to suggest a new answer for “Had It or Hit It:” HAT IT! (A little bit of both). You’re welcome.

[@altoeager2635]

Was about to say I’m with Kayleigh on no purse, but then she ruined it 😂

[@grannygooch706]

Good idea Everyone carries their own things the line of purses is called , Carry Your Own Shit . Unisex purse.

[@melindahall5062]

“Carry Your Own Shit”……..catchy name. That could be a “go”!

[@appelblossom4311]

My dad used to say to me this “ excuses, don’t pay the rent”!

[@brandonb7384]

At 14:50 is that pumps vape away from her on the table 😭

[@ReadMoreHistory-v9u]

I actually think Joe and Jill make a hot older couple. The shades, the ball cap, I like it Joe. You do you.

[@peytonbell2237]

Not Josh dipping, that would have been enough of a reason for me to divorce

[@jchborg90277]

I'm on Team Josh on this one.

[@miaa7097]

The baby name is funny lol

[@jancerny8109]

Phone bots are here to stay. After all, how often do humans who are native speakers of the same tongue mishear or misinterpret one another? Algorithms don’t have to be great to be cost-effective; they just have to almost as good as a wage slave-and that’s often a low bar to hop.

[@countrygirl432]

If you travel outside the United States, man bags are very common to see ie Europe,Japan, South Korea and China