Men really can be with you and not even like you. Scary.
@KairoK10 ай бұрын
You missed the part that the wife also was with him out of convenience
@toschajeffries883310 ай бұрын
Both was looking for something
@Inquisitor202410 ай бұрын
Men r disgusting 🤢
@blackout951910 ай бұрын
Yes. It is called using people
@takingitonedayatatime785110 ай бұрын
@@blackout9519it's called "trying to paint a perfect picture" so people won't judge you
@KapQueen10 ай бұрын
A pastor saying he doesn't believe ppl can change....get out of the pulpit ASAP
@avasd5910 ай бұрын
Crazy right! Smh
@avasd5910 ай бұрын
He definitely needs to get out of ministry though
@shenise129410 ай бұрын
My thoughts too. He doesn't even believe in the power he supposedly preaches about. Hurts my soul.
@b.schannell74710 ай бұрын
My same response... Crazy
@KapQueen10 ай бұрын
@@shenise1294 what has this man been up there doing this entire time
@lebobarbie359310 ай бұрын
5 mins in i feel like pastor is 🌈
@KairoK10 ай бұрын
Likely. I also think he's been watching illegal things
@tokyostephens126410 ай бұрын
OMG me to and I wish he would just be honest because you can tell he's not telling the real truth and that's that you like Men
@tonyausten216810 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@APOTlove10 ай бұрын
Definitely viewing some illegal shyt because why can’t you say what it is
@jessicajay614210 ай бұрын
I was waiting on him to say it!!
@zingimazongs27410 ай бұрын
He ALMOST CAME OUT.... that longest look he gave auntie Iyanla was telling
@loveserenity323010 ай бұрын
Almost!
@lisamareepritchard637510 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same & he feels so ashamed
@debrastevenson70910 ай бұрын
@@lisamareepritchard6375 That's why he said to his wife he married her because "he wanted to feel NORMAL"! That was his confession right there that he is into men not necessarily women!
@josiegeah503110 ай бұрын
Like he said too much at risk to tell the truth.. but I’m sure he did of camera
@perpetualannan57389 ай бұрын
@@lisamareepritchard6375same😢
@ramonahamm629210 ай бұрын
Pastor is definitely in the DL
@meghanmisaliar10 ай бұрын
@@tinajackson6875same
@meghanmisaliar10 ай бұрын
Or he could just be a soft talker
@meek231210 ай бұрын
@@meghanmisaliar no. It's all in the verbiage and tone. He uses the words "people" and "friends" which are a dead giveaway. He chooses those words very carefully versus using pronoun that of a woman... "she, her" or referring to them as women or terms for women specifically...vwey evasive when speaking around Thai entire situation. Then his emotions regarding the entire situation... His demeanor toward his wife. He interacts with her like a good buddy. No spark, no interest. Yea, his eye may turn for a drop dead gorgeous woman but for how long & because he's actually attracted or he knows he *supposed* to be. You can tell that he's a good manipulator, the soft speach is purposeful. It's meant to disarm. He's very calculated.
@meghanmisaliar10 ай бұрын
@meek2312 you're reading way too much into it. You have no proof.
@helena363110 ай бұрын
Most church pastors are especially youth pastors haven’t met one that wasn’t gay
@DoctorJoanieTool10 ай бұрын
God I miss this show so badly. She was soooooo good at this. I think he was promiscuous with men and Iyanla needs him to be honest with her, with his wife and w himself.
@lovely256810 ай бұрын
I myself believe the same as well
@taytriggs906510 ай бұрын
I think the wife knows it was men. I think she saw something for herself or he didn’t admit it but didn’t deny it either. I think it is a bigger slap in the face for others to know.
@DoctorJoanieTool10 ай бұрын
@@tinajackson6875 exactly…. I was just left feeling like the true story still was left unsaid. And until everything is out on table and spoken about out loud and in honesty .. there will be no healing and as they posted at the end of the episode …. The divorce will drag on and on and there won’t be a conclusion. That woman won’t be free to get therapy and move on to find a true relationship with someone who desires and respects her in all ways. And the husband will continue with his double life and his lies and his shame and guilt all just to protect this false picture of who he thinks he is supposed to be. I think Iyanla can only push people as far as they are willing to go. But it’s a real shame because they almost got to honest truth but I feel stopped short. And perhaps they did uncover everything with Iyanla but then decided they couldn’t/wouldn’t go public with it and declined to allow the whole truth to be part of the show … maybe trying to protect his pastoral position. Which is why the church is so messed up because there are all these people on power living double lives while preaching what is ‘moral’ to others and everyone knows it’s all a big sham.
@trulyworkfromhome676710 ай бұрын
Yeah, I feel the same way. That is what I was feeling in my spirit, he needs to be up front
@Black_and_Green10 ай бұрын
Agree
@Roryloves.9 ай бұрын
Iyanla Asked her "with another Woman" and she responded "I don't know"....... She knows, and has ALWAYS known, that he is attracted to men. She kept quiet and dismissed it because she too is hiding her own secret. She sympathizes with him, which is why she stayed with him... Iyanla didn't stay long because she saw right through him. She knew that he is not going to tell the real reason and they both wasted her time.
@dahliaherrod43019 ай бұрын
Hmm... Now there's a thought. I figured it out about him, but didn't consider maybe she's gay too. I can see it
@danielawharton36798 ай бұрын
Definitely so
@MJ315798 ай бұрын
If he truly is gay. Experiencing molestation as a child and then the brother blaming it on "how he is" is truely painful and probably the reason he can't be honest with himself.
@maatxeats7 ай бұрын
@@MJ31579bingo
@audacityhour31046 ай бұрын
Idk bout waist of time ... not all communication is fully verbal ... dude gay n he just didn’t verbally say... at the end of the day ... they all got something vital out it and tied the cored they finally cut
@Naksi2479 ай бұрын
Why do i feel that everyone including Iyanla knows what his real 'secret' is but they dont want to say it out loud
@pheoliasmith43259 ай бұрын
Because he needs to own it and speak his own truth.
@CamilleNYC409 ай бұрын
@@pheoliasmith4325yup!
@CamilleNYC409 ай бұрын
Because it's not Iyanla’s place or his wife's to “out” him, but trust me, they know.
@blakbuttaflyz8 ай бұрын
Purrrr is all imma say!!!!.. Moms gotta pray heal &Self love ..God rewards to her is aTrue Love
@subekennedy95548 ай бұрын
Because thats for him to say, not anyone else
@willamenalos946110 ай бұрын
As much as my heart breaks for his childhood trauma it doesn't give him a hall pass to lie, decieve and cheat on her for all those years. That's not love.
@debrastevenson70910 ай бұрын
But his wife was too afraid to walk away which enabled him to continue living the lie. He was not only cheating but was/is on the downlow and too afraid to speak that to his sons who are collateral damage from their broken parents. I pray they all continue with counseling to heal, especially the younger son. It looked as if a part of his soul disappeared because of the profound hurt. My heart breaks for everyone in this family as I can somewhat relate. The only difference is I left when my husband was unfaithful and abusive because I wanted my son to not have to witness the dangerous dysfunction of living in a household full of demons. His father went on to marry someone else and had two more kids along with the one his second wife already had. His kids have suffered and ask my son why he's different from them and he tells them because my mother left and was willing to be a single parent struggling and sacrificing for him than to remain in an unhealthy marriage. Now his father wants him to reach out to his two kids and help them because he still has not become the father needed to pour into their lives. He does what he can to provide them with wise counsel, but their father checked out a long time ago. His father was never there for him and instead of "doing the work" on himself he would rather delegate that to our son. It's so very unfortunate and sad because he had so many gifts that God gave him, and he has squandered them all for nought. Now he is ill from a stroke and unable to do for himself and now his kids and wife now treat him very unkind!
@mlm191610 ай бұрын
Kharma
@MimiB19748 ай бұрын
It didn’t seem like he was excusing it… it’s an explanation… that a LOT of people who may be going through this right now need to hear
@audacityhour31046 ай бұрын
That’s apart of trauma , isn’t it? .. he’s been living his entire life scared to face himself, her presence wasn’t going to break his fear.. I mean bringing 1 child in the world didn’t break his fear, nor the 2nd
@mariangreenwood74810 ай бұрын
God bless Jennifer and give her the strength to love herself first
@keneilwetsieane10 ай бұрын
We really need to love ourselves first. In fact, they way you love yourself will teach others how to love you.
@TheMomentsShow10 ай бұрын
"I haven't heard the love story yet" oop 🙃
@kaiseystoddart52399 ай бұрын
lol bc I was waiting for it too😭🌚
@reginadavis74999 ай бұрын
And it never came, I'm still waiting
@bigheadbarbie36409 ай бұрын
When he said he slept with another person instead of another woman I knew why it was so hard for him to tell the truth I hope they’re both feeling better and free.
@cusescholar35824 ай бұрын
I caught that, too.
@ronnawatson72410 ай бұрын
30 days after marriage he cheats. My mouth fell open after hearing that
@helena363110 ай бұрын
Some folks cheat within 48-72 hours
@tanganyikarichardson558810 ай бұрын
@@helena3631 At the wedding
@specialkay43299 ай бұрын
A man who married a childhood friend told me he first cheated on their honeymoon. The fkn first night they married.
@specialkay43299 ай бұрын
How is it that we can see it. But wifey cannot. Or can she?
@specialkay43299 ай бұрын
Men dont use us for cover. Srop putting us in danger. If you are not into women. Go getchu a dude. We CAN REPLACE YOU. AND WULL.
@daynamiller2408 ай бұрын
He’s beyond selfish. To request her friendship after telling her the last 20 years was a lie is insane he’s looking for absolution not real forgiveness
@joemorgan63610 ай бұрын
Iyanla is so good at her work
@keneilwetsieane10 ай бұрын
Very good 👍 👏 👌
@PinkClouds38357 ай бұрын
God, @work through her
@hungrycarrot561410 ай бұрын
i felt her rage when they had that conversation. men really do not take marriage or anything seriously. they will waste your life until you have nothing left & end it with “just friends” it was definitely more information that he was holding back.
@meghanmisaliar10 ай бұрын
Not all men
@hungrycarrot561410 ай бұрын
@@meghanmisaliar did i ask? oh okay. & plus did i say all men or do you have a hard time reading? i said “men” not “all men” lets be smart :)
@meghanmisaliar10 ай бұрын
@hungrycarrot5614 you dont have to ask. Welcome to social media!
@hungrycarrot561410 ай бұрын
@@meghanmisaliar and like i said, next time read before you talk & speak. you need to be welcomed into some comprehension skills, js. good day luv!
@MiSSPiNk74710 ай бұрын
Say that louder... No need to defend the truth... It's not ALL.... It's MOST....📍📌‼️@hungrycarrot5614
@GoddessPower77710 ай бұрын
he’s tried to fight against his sexuality with all these women and tbh i think he’s been with men. he’s cruel. he knew he never wanted her and chose to hurt her. I don’t fell bad for him.
@Imthatjackie080810 ай бұрын
I agree. Broken people love to see other innocent people feel crushing pain. He enjoyed leading her on and making her believe he could change and return home. He enjoyed building her up to let her down. And NO, he can't blame that behavior on being molested. He intentionally and deliberately did her dirty...... knowing she just wanted to be loved. That is EVIL.
@meek231210 ай бұрын
@jacquelinespalding3767 that's the part! He likes her in this position, feeds his ego
@Slimsupremacy10 ай бұрын
ON POINT 🎯‼️
@Catiababy-tb5nq10 ай бұрын
I think those women were men.....
@catnbird9 ай бұрын
He is a coward. He is hiding who he really is by playing the victim and hiding behind his family to do it. He is a vicious predator.
@OdachiRain10 ай бұрын
i get that he has his problems but at the end of the day hes lied to this woman, wasted her time and energy just because hes scared
@dawnlee86610 ай бұрын
The only thing good that came from their marriage are their son’s 🙏🏾
@b.schannell74710 ай бұрын
She's his beard
@GhislaineMutombo9 ай бұрын
Also used her body for kids she could have had with a husband that was into her.
@thabsmkhize24819 ай бұрын
Yeah I really feel that he is still being selfish, using her as a shield for his misdeeds and who he really is. Like at the end they wrote he asked her to put her wedding rings back on etc etc like why is he sending these mixed messages as if they’re a normal couple when they’re clearly not?
@Joan-r6w8 ай бұрын
He's an imposter...cruel, selfish and he should be let off the hook just like that. LIAR😢😢
@GG_6010 ай бұрын
Much went unsaid
@chinadoll58639 ай бұрын
The homosexuality or the sexual desire for children
@suebridgett15208 ай бұрын
It was the unsaid that said a lot, I was wondering how he ended up in ministry? Bc if you know the word, what kind of power did you have to execute it and help others. His priorities were wrong. Jen didn't want to come out of her nest. He was her stability and functioning in dysfunction.
@saucyfaces10 ай бұрын
Lack of sexual discipline and selfishness will ALWAYS break up a family.
@variousJnames10 ай бұрын
Unhealed trauma almost always manifests itself as lack of sexual discipline and selfishness. And yes, it does usually break or cause great strife in a family FOR GENERATIONS.
@saucyfaces10 ай бұрын
@@variousJnames Agreed
@fisf.21488 ай бұрын
Exactly! As soon as I know a man has an appetite for sleeping with everyone who wants him I cut off everything with him
@afunlivelylife10 ай бұрын
He is only trying to keep her around to continue to toy with her. What a selfish man. I hope she divorced him and moved on with her life.
@sawolaja659 ай бұрын
Sadly she didn't. They both continue in this crazy charade!
@libertyviatruth15609 ай бұрын
^^^ *This* brought me to the comments!!!!!
@_adrian_sean8 ай бұрын
@@sawolaja65😮😮 staaahhhhppp. He CLEARLY don't want her!
@uniquemosdef8 ай бұрын
@@sawolaja65no way! After all of this?!
@Daizy102310234 ай бұрын
@@sawolaja65TO THIS DAY?!?!
@toschajeffries883310 ай бұрын
I like what iylana stated sometimes 2 ppl are brought together to make beautiful sons. That's so true God dnt make no mistakes.
@avasd5910 ай бұрын
That doesn't make sense to me at allll
@tanganyikarichardson558810 ай бұрын
@@avasd59agree
@ursulajoseph90149 ай бұрын
The oldest one jaw actual flex when he lookec at his father talk and seeing his mother crying. The youngest one is going to need help later on. Jennifer should take time to enjoy her life and cut contact with him.
@vanessagrayman219410 ай бұрын
Be normal, u know what that means.
@teehee8310 ай бұрын
The symbolism of her placing his removed ring on a chain around her neck speaks volumes.
@angelstarfelix2910 ай бұрын
Oohh girll
@phatphlat10 ай бұрын
@@angelstarfelix29 She don't even know! I think we all know what his secret is even a blind person can hear it.
@loveserenity323010 ай бұрын
It did smh!
@josettebassett373410 ай бұрын
It's strange that when he first met her he asked her would she love him if he was overweight, now he let it all hang loose.
@josettebassett373410 ай бұрын
If he sits on that family dog by mistake, it's all over Jack.
@BrittanyHunter-f6w10 ай бұрын
The boys love their mother, and the father will have to answer to them for mistreating her once they grow to understand what’s really occurred…
@carlawilliams5-26-279 ай бұрын
This comment is truth and the realest.... cause at the end of the day the two sons will have to stand up and grow into men and not mirror their father.. that's the challenge..
@partyppl79049 ай бұрын
adults see this as both need to be held accountable...his energy gave he didn't want her and she chose to stay for 20 yrs just like he did....
@Gorgeouschi_10 ай бұрын
He was joking about his proposal…and confesses 30 years later
@demim.92039 ай бұрын
I was shook at that part
@baddietammy9 ай бұрын
And then decided to have kids with her? Hes crazy for that!
@MJ-vt4nb9 ай бұрын
Not a funny joke
@vanessashimoni65489 ай бұрын
It’s mind boggling.
@ShellyMcleod-tk7xb9 ай бұрын
Tf
@dollskull8610 ай бұрын
Iyanla is like FREE therapy 😍🥰💚
@Love1010P8 ай бұрын
It is for me 😂😂😂
@madenee26127 ай бұрын
I promise this show on Yt has truly helped me evaluate myself.
@kabelo_m2 ай бұрын
@@madenee2612 listen, SAME!
@LilyRoberts56110 ай бұрын
He’s a manipulator through and through. Told Iyanla what she wanted to hear then manipulated his wife into the same exact situation. Living apart, he doesn’t wear a ring, she has hers, not divorced. Scary guy.
@kofi4447 ай бұрын
I don’t even think the “corn” he watches is legal!! It could be gay “corn” and he’s a evil person
@MrBlackNupe10 ай бұрын
Even in his confession he’s still playing the pulpit role.
@NapturallyPecanBrown10 ай бұрын
🎯
@lakuisharoberts77089 ай бұрын
He is still not saying the whole truth. He is sleeping with men and we all know it
@isras67029 ай бұрын
Ok, so a few of us noticed
@DwaneDe10 ай бұрын
Don't be shy. Keep uploading more episodes.
@whitneydavis35009 ай бұрын
Please😊😅 lol
@mangoyacho5 ай бұрын
@DwaneDe thats so funny🤣🤣🤣
@arogers-zh3nl10 ай бұрын
I want to tell the bank that ten years ago I lied about wanting a house. I don't wanna pay the mortgage anymore...like they care..
@abigailzulu150010 ай бұрын
Hahahahaha if you succeed, let me know,they need to come this Mercedes Benz car back.
@Amen050710 ай бұрын
😂🙈🙈🙈
@maboremotebejane173910 ай бұрын
😂🤣
@kamariaspeaks10 ай бұрын
Tell the US Dept of Education they can come get these loans, and Experian can have this credit score. Bring me my 25 year old score back!
@arogers-zh3nl10 ай бұрын
@@kamariaspeaks haha...well, that's how this husband sounds. I guess he can go and apologize to his kids and tell them I never meant to marry 20 years ago and I'm sorry I had you ...
@dawnlee86610 ай бұрын
I feel so sorry for her. Living a lie for 20 years😖😢🙏🏾
@georgiatenantadvocategroup282210 ай бұрын
What a total waste of 20 years.
@fitnessfocused10 ай бұрын
She has her children snd she loves them. For her, that’s probably not a waste.
@mlm191610 ай бұрын
But the tragedy continues. 🤷🏽
@queenadventures425810 ай бұрын
She is still living a lie. My heart breaks for her. He has already told her that he does not want her as a wife, yet she does not have the strength to love her herself enough.
@dawnlee86610 ай бұрын
@@queenadventures4258 what do u mean? Are they still living together as a married couple? I know the husband said he wanted to be friends.
@KairoK10 ай бұрын
I'm not buying it. No man breaks down like that over JUST "Corn". What TYPE of corn was it? Was it legal? Plus, there's also the elephant in the room that he may not just be into women, especially in light of what happened to him as a child
@j.g.371910 ай бұрын
I completely agree. This man has done awful things. He spoke of hatred when speaking on his past trauma and he is very evasive. Idk his vibe is so dark to me he's crying but his eyes are not sad.
@johnrondeau922210 ай бұрын
Oh so I'm not the only one
@KairoK10 ай бұрын
Right?! In the beginning, he said there was no bounds to what he would watch, that's what made me think. The way he was saying his life would be over...like, sir, Over basic 'corn' 🧐 and you're so right. It all felt manipulative to me. Bless his wife and kids for real.@@j.g.3719
@akusika139310 ай бұрын
Maybe it has to do with children. God help us all.
@meek231210 ай бұрын
@@j.g.3719right, there are tears but his eyes are empty
@queenedmab918410 ай бұрын
When a man takes off his wedding ring, that means that the marriage is officially over. Don't hold on to a sinking ship. She was in denial the whole time,scared of the unknown. I hope she recovers for those 20yrs of lies.
@LadyJpraise2024unbound5 ай бұрын
Like we all do
@Knizzle2810 ай бұрын
Iyanla let him off the hook Big time.
@helena363110 ай бұрын
He didn’t want to talk about his sexuality on national tv and that’s okay
@JayE4259 ай бұрын
Not the purpose of her job to make him disclose his sexuality to the world if that's it.
@Knizzle289 ай бұрын
@@JayE425 so explain why she tried to do it?
@JayE4259 ай бұрын
@Knizzle28 I think it can be assumed she was, and none of us would ever know. However, she was holding him accountable for owning why she was there and stating the problem.
@Knizzle289 ай бұрын
@@JayE425 which is her purpose and she let him off the hook lol. Compared to how hard she went on people the last couple seasons of her show.
@Ugonegetit10 ай бұрын
He Was Playing Crazy! Iyanla Knew The Truth When She Said " You Don't Have To Lose Your Dignity, You Just Have To Tell The Truth! The Truth Will Set You Free"!
@SIMPSJF8 ай бұрын
Some rainbow 🌈 is in her too
@adhd87510 ай бұрын
Men were truly cooked from hell, 20 wasted yrs , she could have been happy elsewhere 😮 life ain't fair
@Imthatjackie080810 ай бұрын
20 years is a lot of time. Yes, I hear you!!!!!! I think Iyanla helped her to see that she played a big part in that 20 year Lie. Jennifer made excuses for 1+1 equalling 13. But, now Jennifer can take authentic control over her life. Tough lessons like this help us to gain DEEP wisdom and discernment. And Truth!
@mlw91959 ай бұрын
Ay yo 😂😂 that’s soo funny I’ve never heard that term before
@sawolaja659 ай бұрын
She said yes! And chose to stay even when her own intuition was screaming at her to get out! She bears some responsibility for those twenty wasted years!
@CocoNoir20208 ай бұрын
No she couldn’t. Something in her is severely broken to stay as long as she did so unhappy. But I get what you’re saying
@angelique840578 ай бұрын
Cooked from where ??😂😂😂
@antoniapalmore749410 ай бұрын
He married her to cover up a lot of lies😢
@johnrondeau922210 ай бұрын
He admitted much of it was a lie but not all of it. He wanted to be normal
@meghanmisaliar10 ай бұрын
I think he's gey
@singularityjackson9 ай бұрын
That’s crazy 😢
@Beatrix_Ditto9 ай бұрын
I reeeaaally believe that he is attempting to cover up his sexuality.
@Marstoinfinity9 ай бұрын
@@Beatrix_Ditto yea this is sick and becoming a pastor too
@TheMomentsShow10 ай бұрын
The truth is in his eyebrows.... cause they laid!
@ivaobryant10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@Catiababy-tb5nq10 ай бұрын
Omg ..... I just this minute said the same thing..... are u a cancerian like me????
@helena363110 ай бұрын
Chile lol
@daphney86049 ай бұрын
😂
@derekwilliams61889 ай бұрын
Lol I see what ur tryna get at but his so are his son's eyebrows so I'm sure that's just how he looks. But you still right though. Lol
@Fitbody_bysarah10 ай бұрын
His weight of what he’s holding in speaks volumes
@leratoolifant198810 ай бұрын
I thought so too.Its sad. I actually feel sad on both of them.
@heyitsmyTeeTa9 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly after I saw that picture of them from back in the day.
@identity_renewal8 ай бұрын
Forgive me, but I just let out a heinous laugh.
@Nynytheovareader10 ай бұрын
11 minutes in and I know the 🍵 no shade
@CallmeQuayZ10 ай бұрын
Most of us do
@Nynytheovareader10 ай бұрын
@@CallmeQuayZ 🤣🤣🤣
@jermainethomas157010 ай бұрын
11 seconds
@tanganyikarichardson558810 ай бұрын
@@CallmeQuayZfacts 😂
@roxanne90169 ай бұрын
bigggg facts 😂
@mariaelenagarcia-f2j10 ай бұрын
What a coward he is
@rachelbee-p6i9 ай бұрын
He wants to remain Pastor and will lose his job if he comes out. Sad
@juliemullen3652 ай бұрын
Well she hasn’t left
@deewood512710 ай бұрын
Jennifer is so beautiful , loving and kind I hope she realized it and loved herself the way she deserved to be love.
@SparklyDogs210 ай бұрын
David wants Jennifer to continue to be his beard. Jennifer wants to cling to her fairy tale belief that she is still in a marriage. Sorry Iyanla, nothing changed with the two of them.
@D-Will2k10 ай бұрын
😂😂
@shawshank60159 ай бұрын
You right. I reckon once he tells her his actually 🌈 that's when her brain will click.
@aidenosvonderbilt26259 ай бұрын
They are Enables for each other
@Jeanjackettty10 ай бұрын
HES LYING = My intuition. He's talking in circles.
@jazzlee847610 ай бұрын
My intuition is going off too. My spirit says this men has an agenda since day one. I don’t think he ever wanted to love this woman.
@katorriamorgan45789 ай бұрын
Yea there was no resolution in this case because he’s still lying.
@nursedavis565310 ай бұрын
He looks like exactly what everyone thinks. So someone did that to his brother, and his brother did it to him. Sad
@danadane549710 ай бұрын
If he moved out we’re done ✔️ sleep with and be with whom ever. I would never beg a man for nothing.
@4reel33210 ай бұрын
Iyanla is such a beautiful soul. I can't imagine running head long into the worst storms of life and quieting them with great love and care. ❤
@voguefemme058 ай бұрын
When they talked face to face and he told her he didnt want to be married, if you ever been in a situation where you felt RAGE you will understand her whole aura. Her silence is so loud with rage.
@marieechante441210 ай бұрын
This is the type of love that took Wendy Williams out. But they both have to be accountable. She knew that man didn’t want her.
@vb59310 ай бұрын
Whew that's a word. This is the kind of love that actually hates you
@MJ-vt4nb9 ай бұрын
Once she realized it and accepted it, that's the moment when she gave him the rings back.I understand. Once I get it through my head that a man doesn't want me, that's it. But 20 years later, whew. I'm sure that was very difficult.
@justineh68997 ай бұрын
Could you imagine your husband telling you the proposal was a practical joke and he didn't mean to get married after 20 YEARS OF MARRIAGE AND TWO KIDS?!?!? This man is the king of "waste my time". He is lucky she didn't slap the hell out of him.
@angelam181710 ай бұрын
She still trying to hold on to him and her marriage.🤔 Should have been divorced him and find her happiness .
@sheenasimmons8410 ай бұрын
I love her name, beautiful just like her love. You can tell she really wants to help people heal.
@tmanchu10 ай бұрын
Iyanla Vanzant the world needs you! Prophetess! Healer! The world needs you!
@haylleywest148710 ай бұрын
Trama bonds has to be one of the worst things a person could go threw especially when you realize you’ve helped in doing so but your to hurt and scared to even address it 😢 give her guidance
@Scoutbq1l10 ай бұрын
The younger brother made me cry so hard. This is so heartbreaking
@butterflyroho64709 ай бұрын
I had forgotten how riveting these true life stories were. I think the demise of this show came when they started to bring on more reality tv “stars”. I think many were there for another “moment” and the paycheck.
@travelgodess10 ай бұрын
I miss Iyanla and her show soooo much. I would loveee to have her back on TV ❤
@QueensFirst10 ай бұрын
Honey EVERYONE knows when to let go. They just don’t.
@Zahrainnit7 ай бұрын
I respect that iyanla wanted to encourage him to be honest rather than “out” him I love that she seeks to see people whole, prepared and with their dignity in tact makes for something truly transformational. I miss her but she has earned her beach lilo and cocktails for life!
@XSLS7310 ай бұрын
I am watching this and he keeps saying that other person? Something tells me by his reference that it ma be a man.
@helena363110 ай бұрын
It’s men that’s why he’s not stating the gender that’s the elephant in the room
@KathleenClark-m7i10 ай бұрын
Fear paralyzes people. Fear begets anger, begets guilt,begets fear, begets anger, begets guilt, over and over again. Geez! 20 years of this because of a joke?
@kokodabarber587110 ай бұрын
Saaaaadddd!!!!
@seniorpz196910 ай бұрын
"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness". James 5:16
@janice6488 ай бұрын
Yes IF we confess our sins
@TanyaHarris-d8w7 ай бұрын
The correct scripture is actually in 1 John
@ashleymatthews25910 ай бұрын
They should remain close friends/coparents but they need to divorce. She deserves to find someone who will love her and be as devoted to her as she was to him for 20 years!
@jackychela463810 ай бұрын
Keep them coming 🙏🙏 thankyou OWN network watching from Kenya 🇰🇪 and learning a lot.. much appreciated
@gloriabitutu87769 ай бұрын
Hello am Kenyan too
@DetroitPratt10 ай бұрын
I know a couple in this exact process right now today. Raising a family that he doesn't want, working his way up through the church.
@mekosmotivationalmessages5 ай бұрын
So do I
@rhondamatthew24129 ай бұрын
This lady deserves so much more ,this us aweful
@t-babyyupressed290610 ай бұрын
Their Sons Are Really Handsome Young Men So The Union Of Their Marriage Wasn’t All For Nothing
@Driven_by_l.o.v.e10 ай бұрын
But imagine how broken they must be, so a young lady is going to see the outer beauty and be totally unaware of what’s on the inside. Not saying they are terrible people, but people who grow up in broken homes tend to have toxic unhealthy relationships. Because hurt people, hurt people! I know! I grew up in a toxic environment.
@toschajeffries883310 ай бұрын
Right
@Pjsixty602 ай бұрын
So if the sons were unattractive, would it have been just a big ole waste of time?
@t-babyyupressed29062 ай бұрын
@@Pjsixty60 😂
@luvthslf799 ай бұрын
Every time I watch episodes like this one,no one ever mentions diseases, and it being unsafe.
@LadyJpraise2024unbound5 ай бұрын
Great point, and disturbing
@shoequeenn0110 ай бұрын
AHH this was sad She felt she was abandoned as a child, then he basically lied to her and abandoned her all over again. Just wow😢
@BrookeKnits10 ай бұрын
I hope she was able to come back from this bc being lied to for 20 years about the same thing as your core wound is a doozy.
@Rosalind11110 ай бұрын
That big queen, he is trying to blame her!
@helena363110 ай бұрын
Lol he outside bottoming and voguing and wants a wife waiting for him when he gets home
@bb14258 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 not big queen
@kentthomason62858 ай бұрын
Lol
@ShavonneSeven5 ай бұрын
Lmfao 😂😂
@BohemianRhapsody3244 ай бұрын
Big ole' Queen 😂
@keneilwetsieane10 ай бұрын
Our thinking can be hazardous to our healing 🤔✍🧎
@royaltii_10 ай бұрын
Even though he could not confess his truth to his wife, I commend him for not perpetuating abuse on to his sons as some stories horribly turn out. I pray they all continue to get the healing they need to thrive and love self and one another.
@ntwadumela177710 ай бұрын
Right
@donnabrown47339 ай бұрын
Amen. ❤
@fitnessfocused10 ай бұрын
She is a kind and beautiful woman, I hope she finds her new cake.
@FreedomofSpeech8659 ай бұрын
What a slap in the face, Who ask someone to get married as a joke?
@lovinjahqueen10 ай бұрын
Seem like the husband and wife both done dipped and dabbled in the rainbow 🌈
@helena363110 ай бұрын
The wife gives butch they both might be into their respective genders
@sdavis24369 ай бұрын
facts ! the wife seems …a tiny bit masculine in my opinion
@GigiLovesLola9 ай бұрын
yes
@keiarapayne32066 ай бұрын
The way I just hollered 😂
@BreeziDeezi5 ай бұрын
Chile 😂
@EssenceofCoils10 ай бұрын
Ummm... I'm 10 minutes in and wondering why they are having these conversations in front of their children 😒?
@tracysimon79728 ай бұрын
Same
@kelleemyers1208 ай бұрын
Same omg lol
@itsme3k10 ай бұрын
If he's gay just say that. My goodness.
@nqobilezondi43149 ай бұрын
Exactly like Gawd Damn it!! Just say it and go get yourself some bussy
@kimishamadison40059 ай бұрын
I don’t know you but I felt that “my goodness.” 😂😂
@momisahoe18498 ай бұрын
@@nqobilezondi4314screamingggg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@dion634010 ай бұрын
IS IT ME? OR IS HE SLEEPING WITH MEN?
@jermainethomas157010 ай бұрын
Of course
@vb59310 ай бұрын
Most definitely!!!
@thewrongshoes10 ай бұрын
It's definitely implied though I don't think he ever admitted it
@ElizaBeet312910 ай бұрын
When he said "I slept with another PERSON" I knew he was gay. No man talks like that, they would say there's another "woman"
@madenee26127 ай бұрын
He's sleeping with men.
@DANCINGequalsMYLIFE10 ай бұрын
“With another person” = with a man
@jellyfishbrained7 ай бұрын
Or a child.
@mekosmotivationalmessages5 ай бұрын
@@jellyfishbrainedI hope that’s not the case….
@TeresaCalladine5 ай бұрын
I agree. I think he sleeps with men
@Mimi-eb3sq10 ай бұрын
Pastor on DL and don’t wanna face the truth.
@laraoneal728410 ай бұрын
I hurt for these boys. These boys are such a beautiful spirits. I hope they can somehow heal & have the blessed lives they deserve. God bless the mom and their sons.
@PaulaScarlett-vc9cq10 ай бұрын
What type of heart these men have to bring there messy self and mess up women life without having no remorse at all
@Isis.Energy10 ай бұрын
We really need guest updates with all these reuploads smh 🤦🏿♀️
@_adrian_sean8 ай бұрын
Heard they still married
@sheilap985410 ай бұрын
He Broke Her Heart When He Admitted His TRUTH that He Never Wanted to Be Married, that Crushed 😭 Her!! They Have two Beautiful Sons!! I Hope they're Okay!!
@deliciaperry46849 ай бұрын
That man lying. Lmfao. He just never wanted to be married to a woman. That’s why he’s saying that
@eharris16099 ай бұрын
Jennifer clearly has martyr tendencies. Her husband has made it CRYSTAL CLEAR through his word and actions that he does not want to be with her. He wants the convenience and comfort of her.
@D-Will2k10 ай бұрын
This episode is an eye opener
@shannonmcdaniel35079 ай бұрын
Pastor is PRIDEFUL 🌈🌈
@TeresaCalladine5 ай бұрын
Yes , I think so.
@ravensnailrehab69209 ай бұрын
They intentionally say “people” when talking about him cheating. Ms. Iyanla said y'all not gonna have me up here lying 😂😭
@b.schannell74710 ай бұрын
"I Need for you to forgive me" is crazy
@smustipher9 ай бұрын
Exactly. How about "I did you wrong, and I hope you can forgive, not for me, but for yourself" .EDIT: "I was joking when I asked you to marry me". WOW.
@katorriamorgan45789 ай бұрын
No fr he never admitted to anything she didn’t already know. And she knew he was sweet well before they wrote iyalna
@Valerie-z3n10 ай бұрын
Iyanla Vanzant needs her OWN talk show ,She really know what to say too help so many other's, God Bless You Iyanla Vanzant🌹🙏❤
@dollskull8610 ай бұрын
She had one
@cynthialewis37859 ай бұрын
The saddest thing to me is that he's a false shepherd... he's lying to himself about so many things! He should have just gone to work in a store or an office instead of standing behind a pulpit lying to the congregation. His poor wife.... and children.... 😞
@TheRealCcE10 ай бұрын
Run away from the Narc
@SelfishPinoy1210 ай бұрын
I think he doesnt want to admit there was illegality with what hes holding. He keeps saying his life is gonna he over, and i dont think it was sexuality, i think it was an underage situation
@johnrondeau922210 ай бұрын
No it was a gay 😮 situation
@toschajeffries883310 ай бұрын
I believe he's speaking on his leadership as a Pastor
@bippityboppityboo2u10 ай бұрын
Underage boys, I was saying I hope that's not it in my mind smh😢
@lakeofalltrades10 ай бұрын
Yeah it is giving more to the story
@helena363110 ай бұрын
He keeps saying he cheated with a person most men say women he’s leaving it vague because it’s a man he’s not ready to come out the closet
@theadventuresoffatbarbie30219 ай бұрын
I hope she did not be-friend him, this level of manipulation and lies is unconscionable, even though she knew deep down, the fact he wants her to be his friend after he played her for over 20 years… The kids are grown, the door would be closed 💯
@lovinlife14489 ай бұрын
This story is powerful...Iyanla good job tackling this story to bring clarity from that stubborn husband of Jennifer that probably would've never tell her his real truth...this is deep Lord have mercy.
@queenavery74009 ай бұрын
He says it all by refusing to say it all If he was only cheating with women he could’ve and would’ve just said it. It’s either men or children period
@biddybop85159 ай бұрын
You’re thinking can be hazardous to your healing 🧡
@violetseeiso80259 ай бұрын
He said “ it’s too much at stake “heartbreaking!!!!!