Jackie Phamotse's Bare spills the dirt on transactional sex

[@sinethembadosini956]

I am so grateful at how I'm truly not obsessed with what every one is obsessed about: The weaves, money, cars etc. It makes me feel special and unique that I don't like what everybody likes, It feels good too not going with the crowds, I wish many young girls could just know that feeling.

[@user-mq3ts7lr9l]

You a church girl.

[@vuyogqola]

Same here

[@palesatalks6629]

😂😂

[@corbettalchemist6210]

Marry Me.

[@evasisimogang4980]

Same to me Sis I'm not into wigs and material things but our Sisters has to listen.

[@pumziletracywilbon7963]

Of all the content I've sifted through today, this is about the only post I'm grateful to have spent a good portion of my time watching. Thank you, Jackie, for your story and your courage. I'll be getting your book this week.

[@londiwelanga6714]

What a brave and beautiful soul. Jackie you are saving lives with ever word you speak!!! Siyabonga sisi, May your ancestors form a wall of strength and protection around you.

[@jayak8217]

Jackie, you're my people's girl. I try to stay away from things that are negative, but if I see your book in the book store, I will buy it just to support you for your bravery.

[@urshiharris9025]

For all the people saying she should “name & shame”, surely you people understand that her life will be in grave danger seeing that they are politicians and business men. Besides that, she has invited the Hawks publicly to come and talk to her. She is a woman with integrity and self respect and has a pair of balls to write this book in the first place, although it has been published as fiction. I applaud and admire her for stepping up.

[@lucyhangula9459]

Well said sis🙌❤️

[@urshiharris9025]

@@lucyhangula9459 🙌🏼

[@acceptinglife6491]

your honesty is so appreciated, these conversations are tough but they need to be had👏

[@yingisanimaimela889]

Her book is so amazing I have learned a lot from that book and it helps me to be alert and careful and respect people's dad

[@arthursibande8669]

This is the reason why GBV and human trafficking won't be solved in SA, cos the people who are involved in this are the ones who are supposed to solve it..

[@paulholsey2754]

I’m an older American man and I applaud her for just pointing out the wrongs that are going on. Because all of us world wide is trying to protect our youth, our future from this material world of manipulation selling your flesh and soul

[@ksway8471]

This woman is brave and blessed, see most people wouldn't have lived to even make such an interview

[@tshenomotlhankana8695]

Thank you for this interview.

[@jellybaby7953]

Tsheno Motlhankana you're cute

[@prudencesimnikiwejacobs1759]

thank you for mentioning the fact that we all need to know ourselves in terms of spirituality, identity and passions amongst other aspects of livelihood before being in a relationship with anyone

[@heywearenotthesame2720]

Only seeing this 2 years later and wow im hook💔 so many things are making sense now

[@olwethunhube1938]

For me too you know!

[@LethoHali]

Same!

[@rizwanawarasally9517]

even me!

[@davidmabatle-makoala337]

Yu shud be a motivational speaker at school and on TV just like these false prophets. Well-done Lady keep telling.

[@GraceAya]

I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)

[@AyaSeka]

I just read the book in 2 weaks ago , and I applause Phomotse for writing such insightful book.

[@uplift56]

Wow, this is a leading lady, to stand out and bold for awareness 🕵🏾‍♂️!

[@mlulekideandladla]

Damn, as guy who wants to be a father one day. I'm really scared for my kids.

[@tsepisoramosela1210]

I know what you mean. I am not sure if I even want some anymore.

[@nigelarcani]

Me I'm leaning towards not having kids, with the way the world is progressing feels like a cruel thing to do

[@sandilevamdlalose5579]

Most of the women who fall for this are girls without a father figure in their lives and not getting love and financial support when they are brought up. They are easily attracted to these men since they have never experienced the love of a father and a support from a male figure

[@kekem6517]

My woman you truly brave...true inspiration ♡♡

[@geraldinegowar3776]

Yes angel..this is the time for us girls to love ourselves more so that we able to stand live and speak our truth..blessings indeed..stay blessed in love and light

[@zezetumcenge2914]

This is such an eye opening book. Thank you sisi

[@Lulu-pj5ln]

Well done girl some body has to speak out and education othes.

[@ericmalatji5459]

thank you Jackie, for telling females to get their own....go patela go pusha le mavuso a lapisa, le ma 2000 bawa batla, FMPM must fall, its draining.

[@deethomas6699]

I doubt this will ever end,as long we still have lazy young South Africans,then all these dirty deeds will continue.

[@pargeantntshalintshali4507]

Great awereness Jackie. Thank you. Can the law act seriously on this. We've spoken many times. The law needs to do something . And girl may we listen hlee.

[@deethomas6699]

Pargeant Ntshalintshali 🎯💯

[@2melo194]

People are hungry. Its not just being lazy

[@nonto_]

400 000 unemployed graduates, highest youth unemployment in the world girls seeking out sugar daddies is because of poverty not greed, the greedy ones are the sugar daddies who lure poor young women

[@mantumasibe9455]

It's not laziness it's more spiritual

[@zikhonangobo5944]

This book opened my eyes😱... it's disgusting how men in power use women's body as their playing tools

[@servicosdetraducao3862]

And gays. Speak of everyone. We are all human

[@kholofelomakhafola2692]

Worth a read... love it

[@love.yolani]

We support you, may God protect you

[@siphoshekwa3309]

Wow! May God bless you and keep you.

[@egbomsfamily3229]

Keep on going girl, expose the evildoers. The Lord is by your side

[@joycerichards2288]

May God keep you and guide you Jackie......we need young women like you.... Luv you dear.

[@mbuyavedlamini3068]

I wish all our sisters can listen to this.

[@mickowkomani9247]

By a powerful man rich, rich men are dirt I'm happy i ran away for my son and my life

[@PM-xd6nv]

Hectic stuff bro💔💔... I wish to read all her books 😭😭

[@keneilwemohlabane1288]

May the ALMIGHTY GOD DISPATCH ANGELS TO ENCAMP AROUND YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY TO ENSURE THAT NO WEAPON PLOTTED AGAINST YOU EVER PROSPER, UNTIL IT'S YOUR TIME TO BE CALLED HOME JACKIE. I PRAY THAT YOU CAN WILLINGLY ACCEPT JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR PERSONAL SAVIOUR, I'M NOT TALKING CHURCH, BUT I'M TALKING A PERSONAL SAVIOUR, HEALER, PROTECTOR AND RESTORER IN ALL AREAS OF YOUR LIFE. GOD LOVES YOU SWEETHEART🙏❤️👏

[@yandisamngonyama5266]

Me too soon i will be releasing my own book called " loving never gave me a home " we are a sad generation that post happy emojis i agree with Jackie we don't like the truth

[@artofscripture5320]

interesting topic very interested

[@yandisamngonyama5266]

@@artofscripture5320 yes that's what i wanted from the first place for people to find my book very attractive and interesting to them

[@utubehelps2267]

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[@Ladyle4ever]

Wooow... what a beautiful title "loving never gave me a home"

[@annewanjiru1194]

How can I get the book...Am from Kenya

[@sylviasibeko4644]

Brave girl god bless u and keep u safe. Xx

[@mickowkomani9247]

I'm still reading this book it was hard reading the parts where she got raped killed me cause i relate aswell

[@ColaBling]

This is exactly why l keep some of my interviews with A list videos up on my channel. Allowing younger women to realise that entertainment industry and rich materials are all hype. People in these circles have not much decency nor manners. To know family life and friendships with others with morals and genuine love is the best riches to have.

[@kgaokgao595]

I'm gonna get the book my sista

[@thembitabata3079]

Jackie uyayaz nguban osnika lento😌 yes gurl

[@bulalingcayicibi3062]

Damn!!! Your comment is underrated and deserves more likes.😂😂😂

[@joandebeurges3216]

Wow this is so brave but so so necessary as the abuse is shocking for young innocent girls. They need to be protection. So sad

[@morongwatshabalala8087]

I READ THIS BOOK ITS SO CRAZY AND HORRIBLE WHAT THESE GIRLS GO THROUGH AND DO. THIS BOOK SHOWS ALL SIDES OF THE STORY

[@skywalker7778]

Morongwa Tshabalala Agree, but its still a choice. Many women dont go this route..

[@sinethembamguni8273]

Morongwa Tshabalala i read the book.i think if she really wanted to shame and is totally concerned about this issue then she should have gone the name and shame route.there are no names ,shes using unbrella terms.even poor amd low class people do the rituals,spoil the girls at the level thwy can afford.this ia not a neq angle for me.i dont see the solution in her story.she has got tje benefits of doing that and now shes turning against it.shea got money now,she has a book now.isnt it the reason girls go after money for material things....i think she must give solutions.

[@morongwatshabalala8087]

i get what you are saying

[@morongwatshabalala8087]

true

[@carylsfaithchats359]

After naming and shaming then she should go pick a coffin and tombstone. And start planning for her own funeral don't you think? What she wrote is very helpful. Naming the people that she knows will actually make people avoid those particular people not knowing there are still others out there who she doesn't know of. What women need to take from this stories is stay away from married men. Politicians and blessors and the problem is solved.

[@siamisangsia6840]

Bought this book yesterday on take a lot.. I bet I'm gonna finish it within a week

[@tebogobaldwin5456]

I would like a copy of this book

[@weightlossjourneywithretha7156]

I understand the male shaming,but ladies sometimes we are too gullible. We expose ourselves to such.... Let's work on making money for ourselves. Try stay away from this costly lifestyle.

[@LadyNoRa_scorpio]

On MacG you said that you were introduced by house mate / friend to this lifestyle 🤔

[@mpupintoane7090]

Wow!! This is the world we are living in. I am scared as a woman and as a mother.

[@servicosdetraducao3862]

Don't be scared. Just live carefully

[@karabo_t07]

But Jackie is just intelligent ....and smart

[@katlegomhlauli8423]

“They auction themselves” yoh 😭

[@ThePerfectdisciple]

Sometimes it's good to keep life simple. Sad world in many places.

[@lloydmpofu4359]

The Interviewer Looks like Sonti Mogongwa from Skeem Saam.

[@Bennylebea]

Lmao! So u jst here to check out the women wena Zulu boy

[@sindiswamnyanda8216]

Politicians and Pstrs.... I know for sure

[@nigelarcani]

I want the book, hope i find it in Zim

[@sbonisonkambule4259]

this young ladies sleep with this blessers and after that they go to sleep with their young boyfriends. this so painfully because innocent young mans are infected

[@kimkardashian6149]

How does not putting your own sexual safety first equate to innocence?

[@ZzZukairo]

She said man also do it it's not just women

[@masilelaluckyg]

I thought you were going answer to Berry Roux

[@nomvuseleloluthuli7525]

I pray for the Lord's protection over your life Jackie

[@leratosharon103]

I read da book😪😨I’m aware of everything

[@leratomacatsha2138]

Very smart woman

[@stanchauke7332]

Thanks for your advice.But i don't think they will listen to you.Women they love money is their nature you wont change them.

[@kamogelokola8835]

thank you so much Jackie

[@OMagadla]

lol low throwing subs at Linda "PR companies, communications companies, latest cars and international trips" i mean

[@raemashao2200]

olwethu magadla thought so too😉

[@paulholsey2754]

Also there is no need to name people, it’s about saving people

[@funimax4236]

"......Girls like playing dumb....."

[@lukhanyisotena4481]

Weird how you keep saying that these girls are lured into th I lifestyle kodwa bayaziyela.

[@twananombiza836]

I read the book too good

[@IAm-gv1wi]

Wow! This was very insightful. Where can I get the book?

[@nomhlepokwana8536]

Asavela Kakaza Protea book store

[@MsDimakatso]

Exclusive bookstore

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[@floweryvanilla1064]

Who is here from Twitter? 😂😂

[@joshua_valoi8236]

So she is one of them, i heard she has the oroblem of womb.she said it herself on instagram

[@Aline6I]

My goodness..

[@sanelenxele1079]

I'd take anything I read from her book with a pinch of salt.

[@vincentmothapa2421]

M Bison why?

[@sanelenxele1079]

+Vincent Mothapa do you really think she didn't exaggerate anything or even got 'creative'? it all sounds like fiction to me.

[@raemashao2200]

M Bison Reality can be stranger than fiction

[@vincentmothapa2421]

M Bison maybe she did, maybe she didn't. Do you have a reason to doubt her stories?

[@sinethembamguni8273]

M Bison i do not doubt her story but she should have gone full force name and shame.so its not effective persay.we need.solutions.and.who doesnt want material wealth really?shes got the material wealth now but the girls are still poor can we have more of solutions and less narations

[@luyolomify]

I’m sure she meant “prevalent” not “frivolent”. Great story nonetheless.

[@thembitabata3079]

Cartoon Master ummmm thanks Captain English

[@phopcorn5114]

Cartoon Master I was wondering if that's what I heard lol

[@stormybillie]

You do know that English is not her first language so I don't know what you were trying to do.

[@dwangui76]

You mean this has been here for 2 years already?

[@talesoleatsekatane6267]

Lol the snake stories got you here😂😂

[@mrp.8577]

Always playing the victim when the ca$h runs dry

[@niwartlhomola3794]

Mr Tru so true. She says she comes from a military family yet she feels she needs to date someone for money. !!!

[@sinethembamguni8273]

i totaly agree

[@isabelglobe3009]

Please read the book first before judging

[@mpoirafolatsane2102]

This comment is so disgusting. I worry about people like you. Pathetic

[@tsholofelomatshidiso]

Read the book before you comment. Talk to someone who has been trapped in that life and ask how it came about before judging. You'll understand that in life not everything is black and white.

[@nkululekomagududlela2680]

your girls please stop love money because et the and of the day all of u i going to die for loving money

[@virginiadavila397]

cook

[@saraswachingchadra9354]

😂😂😂

[@kwandabhengu245]

🤣🤣

[@davidsmith-gz9hf]

why judging cos lewena u were part of it

[@stormybillie]

Who's judging? She's educating these girls based on her experience. Stop your crap.

[@GODISLOVE-b4q]

She is telling the stories to make people be careful you are calling it judging bc you are a problem.

[@thandodlamini982]

I just hate this woman for wanting to be rich at the expense of other people's life .if we die we die don't try and be mother TERESA .Find something you can do with your life Phelps you can't tell us all what to do and what's not to Do.If you read too much read but don't be a disgusting person .Our lives are different we come from different situations.IT would be better if you were taking kids to Varsity like Bonang instead of Talking a whole lots of nonsese.it just shows that you have no money now you want fame is a bad way.Our parents do earn us about shut n stuff but the world we live is so dirty to try and clean it with your books n words.Enjoy your fame while it last baby.

[@sparkle257]

She is writing about her personal story and experiences. If you dont like her than please stop following her. You have not walked a mile in her shoes. So please.

[@GraceAya]

I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)

[@nkululekomagududlela2680]

your girls please stop love money because et the and of the day all of u i going to die for loving money

[@GraceAya]

I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)

[@GraceAya]

I love this woman! Thank you Jackie for bring such insight and light to us :)