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@ismaelrojas52918 ай бұрын
It is not good for man to be alone, but all good things comes to them who wait, just like Jackie husband said, God already knows your needs and in his perfect timing he will bring you a gift for a spouse, but we must patiently wait and keep focus in fulfilling God’s will for each of us, we don’t need another person to be fulfilled case in point, Elijah John the Baptist and Paul the apostle as example, stay positive according to God’s will what’s to happen will definitely happen
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Love this!!!!
@llllllllllllll3338 ай бұрын
Praise the lord 🙏 Amen 🙏
@suniljoseph58888 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_so you say he pursued YOU,ALREADY I SAW RED FLAGS,(I am waiting for the man and he was waiting for the women, you also have to pursue back finally, I don't like tested, I will give u enough drama😅😂) ok so both have been to casual , ok like slaves of God, WHO PUT COSTLY PURFUME ON JESUS FEET & LATER AFTER DEATH WAS THE FIRST TO HEAR HIM, SO YOU HAVE TO PUT TOTAL LIFE TO SOCIETY SINCE YOU WERE CASUAL IN UR PAST, ELSE YOU LIERS ARE STILL SAME INSIDE, JUST HYPOCRITES UNDER INFATUATION FOR A HONEYMOON PERIOD, also church pursued god and god pursued Israel, keep that clear , BUT SINCE ISRAEL WAS A HARLOT IN PAST, SHE SLAVED HER WHOLE LIFE TO HIS SERVICE , PERIOD, you want explanation come to wapp, don't waste my time both-00919995574558 😅😂
@Ann-lv5dg8 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_I wonder how shy guy would get married since woman isn’t talking to him first
@JESUSGreatrThan_all_LsThnJESUS8 ай бұрын
@@Ann-lv5dg The man has to be brave and seek God and the woman.
@boazadventures8 ай бұрын
I see a lot of players on the internet telling the young men how to be a player, but no one is showing the beauty of a real marriage. I appreciate these kind of video's a lot.👩❤️👨
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Boaz ! Pray you find your Ruth !
@boazadventures8 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_:) I will, when I'm heald
@_8miko85 ай бұрын
I was in a 9 year relationship and 5 of them I was married. We did not put God in the center of our relationship. After we divorced I wanted to blame God, however He showed me His Love and allowed me back into His arms. I went through a roller coaster of emotions and making the wrong decisions. Finally, after falling down so many times. I stood up and called to JESUS to save me. To this day I'm still single yet very joyful by obeying GOD ❤
@glorias.29308 ай бұрын
She is so open, honest and humble! Strong woman right there!
@Mr-pn2eh8 ай бұрын
Early in my walk with God until now as a man I kept pursuing women hoping to find the one. It caused great stress and insanity. I have since learned to wait upon the Lord and now I'm no longer concerned with when I will meet the right partner (if it's even in the Lord's better plan that I'm even to get married in the first place). There's more important matters at hand such as studying scripture.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Amen !!! Yes focusing on the Lord is the most delightful thing :) the rest will come!
@sarahvantine79058 ай бұрын
You two are truly a match made in heaven! Your heartbeat for Jesus is the same! 🥰
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Thank you Sarah! Yes, it is glory to God :) ❤❤❤
@sisD8 ай бұрын
Great words of wisdom. I’m approaching 40 years of marriage to a man I believe God placed in my path. Bumpy roads, arguments, but pure love and devotion for us. ♥️🕊️
@GEORGIOARCADE8 ай бұрын
This is one of those "oooh" kinda videos 😃🙏🏼. Where you finally get why God wants you to pursue him first instead of man or woman. I think women can pursue in terms of showing interest but the guy has also do the same and asking her out and courting her like a gentleman. It can't work if it's not a balance of the attraction. I loved hearing your husband thoughts on who he was before he met you. I see a big future and ministry with you two. Keep up the great work and God bless you 💫
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely brother :) thank you!!!
@Itsaaronadams8178 ай бұрын
Thank you both for this video. I recently started serving in my church again after being pretty absent for almost 1 year after my father passed away. I came back with the mindset of “I’m going to faithfully serve the Lord here, sacrifice my time to serve when I’m needed, focus on loving God & others, and growing stronger in my relationship with Christ and becoming a better, more godly man. I do want to get married eventually and I’ve honestly been feeling very lonely lately(not alone, but lonely). And the devil has been trying to use that to distract me, this video was a MUCH NEEDED encourage and answered prayer of peace from the Lord! So again I just wanna say thank you to the both of you, and wish you guys a long and happy marriage! 🙏🏾✝️🤍
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
I pray the Lord bless you with the right woman at the RIGHT TIME! It is hard to wait… but the Lord always makes it worth the wait!!!!
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Men pursuing women in the Bible: Jacob pursued Rachel and worked for her for years… Boaz pursued Ruth… Abraham sent a servant to get a wife for Isaac.
@ZionPDJ8 ай бұрын
🧐 Did Boaz pursue Ruth? I think 🤔 Ruth pursued Boaz.
@BlVCK_ANGEL948 ай бұрын
That’s was a different time. Eve came to Adam. NOT Adam came to eve. You said it yourself. I thought we were all EQUAL. Right?
@BlVCK_ANGEL948 ай бұрын
Also, let me remind you. You said on your comment that Jacob pursued Rachel. The woman that was ALWAYS meant for Jacob was always Leah. The mother descendant of the Messiah. Leah approached Jacob. That’s how he ended up with Reuben, Simon, Judah and etc.. Also Tamar disguise herself as a prostitute to Judah to accomplish the Levite law. Judah didn’t want Tamar. He kept giving her to his sons. Tamar pursued Judah. Now is different we live in society that women want to be independent and see men as sexual predators. That’s why many men decided not to approach and pursue women.
@randomCHELdad3 ай бұрын
@BlVCK_ANGEL94 Adam spoke directly to the Father Himself asked for one, the Father planted Eve.
@zephaniahnoahmusic3 ай бұрын
Didn't Ruth pursue Boaz?
@y.h8578 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm a 31 year old single female virgin. I have never had a relationship before in my life, so this was interesting for me to hear about how dating and relationships work when you're a Christian. I only became a believer at around february this year, so I still have a lot to learn. Thank you for taking the time and energy to make these video's about dating and how it's viewed from a woman's and man's perspective.😊 I'm really happy that I became a follower of Christ, because now I know that I don't have to be ashamed of still being a virgin at my age haha. I will patiently wait for the Lord to lead me to the right person to share the rest of my life with.😊 God Bless the ministry of you guys!🙏 I'm supporting you and sending you greetings from the Netherlands! 😄🙏
@jamiecurran35448 ай бұрын
Sometimes I wish I was also still a virgin, I do however consider myself a born again virgin as I've been celibate for so long now!😂🙏
@y.h8578 ай бұрын
@jamiecurran3544 That's a good thing too! 👍 When you come to Christ and walk in the Spirit, the fleshy body doesn't matter anymore. It will perish at some point anyway. The inner man will be renewed every day, so that is what we should be focusing on. It truly is a blessing to have the Lord Jezus in our lives.❤️🙏
@RealTonly8 ай бұрын
Without the Lord Jesus we are nothing family. Love y’all and there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin idc what anybody says. Consider it a blessing we are being saved from bondage every day on this path of following Christ
@alextrezvy68897 ай бұрын
"I know that I don't have to be ashamed of still being a virgin" // There is (despite of propaganda, discrimination and warfare) still about a billion of muslims, who had never considered being virging as a shame.
@azazel673Ай бұрын
Wow a virgin at 31? Where would I be able find a woman such as yourself? 😅 most girls I know are already sleeping around and high body counts at 18 years old. Its hard to find a decent woman as a man with values, and more so a woman that’s still a virgin. Kudos to you
@GodIsWithinHer.24 күн бұрын
Thank you guys so much. Thank you thank you thank you thank you! Jackie, I am healing from a traumatizing breakup with my counterfeit and becoming a better christian woman because of you.
@thesciencekid35468 ай бұрын
Such a calming vibe from these 2. Thank you so much for this!
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! :)
@yhang29998 ай бұрын
I hope you write a book about relationships and a godly pursuing. God bless you both 🙏🙏🙏
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
One day we will for sure as we gain more experience!!! 🙏
@xojassylove40238 ай бұрын
I love how he invited you to the group Bible study 💗💗 You want to be treated like a queen (princess) treat him like. King (prince)🎉
@CarportCarl8 ай бұрын
As a 60+ Christian American male I think you need to define "pursue" and "indicating if a woman is interested" in a man and making a subtle hint about it.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Yes, that will be one of our upcoming videos!!!!
@cheeseburger44018 ай бұрын
You guys have encouraged me to wait and trust God, and Jackie you surely have inspired me, as a 19-year-old girl, to first fall in love with God and just trust Him in the process
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Hey sis! So glad I could encourage you. Learn from my mistakes!! That’s why I make these videos :)
@04zachy_chapy157 ай бұрын
All these are great points. I do have mixed feelings but that’s just because of where I am with my other half. It’s funny, my fiancé pursued me in the beginning, and we were so blessed to not face many obstacles until I got to where I was more confident and mentally healthy and could actually pursue her. I told her many times, “I can’t be what God says a provider and a man is right now, so I understand if you wish to leave.” Newsflash: she refused to leave, and one time she even told me “Then I’ll provide for you, until you can flip the script.” And I was dumbfounded. But she stuck to that promise. And a month and a half into our relationship, God had built me up and gave me the tools I needed, and now it’s not just me providing for her or me pursuing her, it’s both of us doing it together for one another. And I will love that woman until that day my flesh passes. I just last week, asked her to be my wife💍. Obviously she said yes, and we’re looking forward to a beautiful and glorious Christ-centered marriage and life together! 🙏❤️✝️ #thankyouJesus
@billlewis87112 күн бұрын
Great sharing you guys, a lot of insightful wisdom for singles. This should have 100K views!
@jimgoose91468 ай бұрын
So happy for you two. Doing it right
@yorosandrine28443 ай бұрын
Thank you - I appreciate your ministry to me/ us. God bless you both!🙏
@user-yf2zx1vp3u4 ай бұрын
You two are Amazing. Thanks for the wise words
@priscilladevi97058 ай бұрын
Thank You for being transparent. Very interesting message. Such a awesome couple ❤🙏💙
@Magic8181008 ай бұрын
This is Mario I'm about to share a true story. It's about a mother and a child. As the mother was giving birth. Everything was fine until that moment. When I call everybody in the hospital running I knew something was wrong. They saved the baby. But now it was the hard truth to hear. The baby could not see. As the months went by the baby can no longer swallow normally. Now they had to make a whole in the stomach. Now the baby had to be fed through a tool in stomach. When's the baby was 6 years old. People thought it was a few months old baby. When I told the people how old the baby was. They were like a shot son even cry and I have to tell the truth. The complication of the birth did a lot of damage to the baby. The baby didn't grow..--- old God my heart is breaking within me. In the hospital how to 360 plus days my little boys spend 200 something days in the hospital And let me tell you something I pray I fast, I Proclaim it I decree it I did everything all these ridiculous movement of the faith movement tells you to do. In the hospital you have to feed the miracle the doctor said the Charlie's leaving number. Old God give me strength. As we saw the numbers go down when it got down to zero everybody saw this something happened in that room we don't know what it was but it feels like something covered that everybody saw this but we can explain it what we saw the nurse all this one of the doctors saw this. Headed that moment you should see the way the child was smiling it's like he had nothing he looked all around us and he smiled before my little boy left us. 😰 And to finish it no we lose the mother with cancer. I don't know why I wanted to give this story and please don't feel for me. The Favor and the Grace God is upon my life. So you want to know what pain. I been place in that position. And I have sec God why you have no idea how much many times during the night my tears just dropped into my eye. Whatever have a partner again in my life I don't know Now I'm going to show you why when I write to you I placed 💙 Ángel. For those who were thinking something else. That blue Hearts standings my service to my country remember last time I told your I come from a military family. I used to call my little boy Superman Angel. So when you see me put this in your page. Remember, it's all about my little Superman angel. And my service to my country the United States Navy. Anyway my prayers go out to both of you and anyone would reading it yet in the midst of all this you have no idea how my life was devastating aitor I will Donald Trump Dead. Many times I end up in the hospital because of the stress is affecting my heart. On God came when I least expected it I'm not telling you that I'm Healed completely you don't get here from this. Those memories are always there but I can tell you one thing it has made me the man that I am today. The man that God wants me to be Blessed you all fir listening-- 💙 Ángel
@Jodi_Crypto_Leader223 ай бұрын
This was such a great video and help. Thank you guys. You both are awsome and so wise.
@marvinwenger50358 ай бұрын
Great video guys!! Good to see your husband on one of your videos! I agree 100% with this!! It’s always bad when the role is flipped. I can attest as well
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@lumpyspacecadet15 күн бұрын
Jackie is a beautiful, god fearing woman!
@CalledUntoHoliness3 ай бұрын
This is great. Thank you for the sound advice. I particularly liked what the brother said concerning God knowing your likes and not having to work a trick. God knows what we need. Great video both of you.
@jayduncomb96528 ай бұрын
Thank you. God bless you guys.
@nickletterman7712 ай бұрын
You know that speaks such volumes.
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Preach it girl!
@barnapapp23008 ай бұрын
This video gave me hope. Thank you :)
@S4MU3L-8 ай бұрын
My man looks fresh btw 🔥. Good message for a lot of people!
@thelittlebeanbeanbean5665 ай бұрын
i saved this so i can watch it again and again as a reminder - really eye opening - thank you!!
@gumdrop48698 ай бұрын
her reactions when her husband is talking is sooo funny i love them! haha
@thelittlebeanbeanbean5665 ай бұрын
love this thank you!!!!
@jarredv893 ай бұрын
I have pursued in the past and done all these things you mention. Each time it has only got me burned, society has told me that doing these things is being a simp. So I stopped pursuing
@jarredv893 ай бұрын
God bless you both
@AndreaMoscoso-ny8oq2 ай бұрын
Keep coming to the Lord wholeheartedly and ask Him to please guide you and help you and help you have peace and calm in waiting and trusting in His timing. He knows what is best for each of His children at the right time. He knows us more than we will ever know ourselves. I am waiting on the Lord for anything that He wants from me but the last couple of years He has helped me to feel and know that I truly am loved by Him and that there is no one that will nor can love me more than He loves me. He loves us more than anyone else can. I only want God and my relationship with Him I want Him to be first and who I love first and most of all wholeheartedly. He is who can fill and satisfy our heart soul and life. And I want Him to be who is the greatest and true love of my life as God my God my Lord and Savior, my Father my friend and as my all. Before hand I eventually knew I didn't need anyone but now I really know I don't but only truly need Him. The only one who we have all been truly longing for all along is God Himself. If He has someone for me someday at the right time for both of us and in the right timing of our walk with the Lord and we both love God and truly put Him first in our heart our life and soul and decisions and it is Him who we are both wholeheartedly submitted to and love Him first foremost and most of all with "all of our heart, mind and soul." He wants all to come wholeheartedly to Him and be saved and not be seperated and distanced from Him because of sin and the posture and positioning of our hearts that is away from Him. He knows who will believe and believe in what He did on the cross for all who will come to Him wholeheartedly and repent and ask Him for forgiveness and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please be their Lord and Savior and wholeheartedly will be saved by Him and reconciled back to Him through Christ ("As the Word was with God and is God from before everything including the heavens were created" He is "The Way, The Truth and The Life, no one comes to the Father if not through Him first") (What divided the entrances and the veil that covered the entrance to the prescence of the most Holy of Holies was torn and those coverings were called "The Way, The Truth and The Life" and He knows who will not come to Him wholeheartedly and out of their heart posture and positioning will choose to not come to Him wholeheartedly and live dead in their sin and choose to die seperated from Him for all of eternity and He will not force anyone to be with Him nor to want to be with Him but even then knowing what they will choose He is still behind God to them and gives them the chance to repent turn from their ways and come to Him wholeheartedly. Although He does and did indeed know us and loved us since before He created everything, He wants us all to repent (have a change of mind and turn from our ways) and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please forgive us for our sins and ask Him to please be our Lord and Savior and to please come into our heart and life and be saved by Him. We then recieve His Holy Spirit who then dwells within us and we are born again in spirit and made a new creature in Him and are officially called His children. We are reconciled back to Him and are covered and clothed through His righteousness of when Christ paid the wages of all of our sins and iniquities and transgressions all of our sins and sinful thoughts (we were all born into sin and our hearts are scheeming wickedness) and but through His righteousness for all who come to Him wholeheartedly are redeemed and reconciled back to Him through His redeeming and everlasting loving arms for all of eternity. No one is good only He is for He is truly Holy and truly true love and just and it is He who knows all things. For all who come to Him wholeheartedly and are saved by Him we are only deemed as righteous because of what Christ did on the cross for us who come to Him wholeheartedly and when He sees us it is His righteousness that He sees that covers and clothes us. When we are saved and reconciled to Him and now in union with Him He sees us as who He says we are in Him and as who He knows we will be in Him. He who started something good a good work in us will bring it to completion and it is He who helps us change and works in our hearts and helps us be more and love more like Him and helps us love Him more too though we have to be willing. It is through His strength power and love, grace and mercy. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us according to His will". He has "a good plan a plan to bring us a hope and a future and not of harm". He wants us to know Him know Him and He wants to know us He wants us to have a wholehearted relationship with Him and doesn't want us to be lukewarm with Him. He wants to grow and prosper us in our relationship with Him. Respectfully and all He is the only one who I will have in my heart as and call my King. He wants to heal, guide and truly lead us and wants us to truly trust entrust and rely in Him for He knows best. Our ways are not His ways our understanding is not His understanding His ways are higher than ours and He knows and wants what is best for us as He knows everything and He knows and sees the future of all things and knows and sees all the intentions in people's hearts. We cannot rely in our own understanding ideas, thoughts, desires, and decisions but must instead rely and lean on and trust in His understanding will and strength and not in our own strength, will and understanding. We don't have to walk and do life as if we are alone when we were never meant to and we don't have to when we can walk wholeheartedly with the Lord and He wants us to walk hand in hand with Him as well. He wants us even more than we often want Him as proof of all that He promised and made way in the Old and New Covenant (Old and New Testament) and provided and made the way as He promised on the cross for so that all who will come to Him wholeheartedly can be fully for good be reconciled back to Him as He said "It is Finished" and not be separated and dead in sin as they are alive on earth and then in the afterlife for all of eternity (which is the 2nd death) and can instead be with Him for all of eternity. Love does submit. He wants to be the one who we have as and put wholeheartedly first in our heart, thoughts, days, life and decisions. With or without a partner truly it is so special that He is your first and true love and that you do all of your life with Him loving and getting to know Him most of all. He is who has to be the one to lead each person throughout one's time of singleness and throughout one's relationship and marriage and has to be the head of each of them so that He will be the head of both of them in their marriage. It is Christ who truly has to be the head of the house and who leads both of them and who leads the man and guides the man the priest of the house to lead. For truly if both love, put first and are wholeheartedly surrendered and submitted their heart and life to God then it is God who leads their home and Christ who will be the head of both of them and of the man as they are submitted to each other and most importantly are submitted wholeheartedly first to God. The man being submitted to God and open heartedly loving Him and putting Him first He will be submitted to God's love and loving Him first and submits to His guidance will ways and good plan that He has for Him to lead and guide the house in relationship with Him. "And we know that all things work for good for those that love God, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28. He can help us love all others with love that comes from Him. He is who we have been longing and yearning for all of our life and He and His heart and being reconciled back to Him by coming to Him wholeheartedly and being saved and redeemed by Him knowing Him and loving and being loved by Him is the best blessing we could ever ask for and have. And truly what a Father and friend and true true love we have with Him. He is the truest most realest one we can ever have in our life and love and be loved by. God bless you your fam and all who will read our comments.
@thedisciple7430Ай бұрын
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@thedisciple7430Ай бұрын
Exactly. U chase women and try to build a meaningful relationship and they cheat. Let them pursue. I'm done
@janetanna85428 ай бұрын
Loved this video!!!! ❤❤❤ Thank you Jackie for your guidance! ❤️ May Jesus's hand be on your marriage always 🌸
@davidwalorski57558 ай бұрын
Praise God.....great teaching!!!
@LanceandJackieVanTine8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, David!
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Gotta pursue the date with food! Flowers, details,etc. Good advice!
@wsp9958 ай бұрын
god didn't create Adam and Steve he created Adam and eve.
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Purposely waiting! The cart before the horse! Love u both!
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
This is awesome!
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
We must work for it!
@lawrencegantos77678 ай бұрын
Agreed, only one Jackie, praise God for bringing you together. God blessed you. Together God's Blessings are Surrounding you.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Aww thank you! Amen!!
@patrickthomas8508 ай бұрын
Amen!! God fit the 2 of you perfectly together at just the right time!! May He continue to bless you both together as you continue to pursue Jesus together and serve Him together!! Lord Jesus make their marriage strong on Your foundation and what You have joined together- let NO ONE come between!!! In Your Mighty Name Lord Jesus, Amen!!!
@pitapita35598 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@jhonnymascarenhas50633 ай бұрын
so so nice to see you guys together
@wandarios54408 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have stated this more clearly. Waiting on the Lord (Psalms 46:10) is the success in the fulfillment of the ideal partner God has readied for us. He has our best interest in mind and will provide the BEST for us. It’s up to us to be ready and whole to recognize and embrace God’s blessing when it knocks at our heart’s door. God bless you both as you journey together in your walk with Christ! 😊🙏🕊
@theblissfulbeliever8 ай бұрын
I recently met a woman who lets me fully embody my masculinity. She lets me lead. And this is so healthy for me and her. I agree that a woman shouldn’t pursue men. I love this video Jackie! You and your husband are an inspiration to me. Keep going. Keep making this content it’s super helpful and effective. God Bless 🙏🏻
@patrickthomas8508 ай бұрын
Amen!!
@patrickthomas8508 ай бұрын
That’s awesome!!!!
@theblissfulbeliever8 ай бұрын
@@patrickthomas850 thanks 🙏🏻 😊
@alyssamayle40887 ай бұрын
Hey, I also have a KZbin channel if you want to see more Christian videos
@thedisciple7430Ай бұрын
Women are acting so independent right now and if u approach them, they label you a creep. So how exactly do u want men to approach them?
@jackgoodings5 ай бұрын
Thank you
@anandpeter6223Ай бұрын
God bless you both
@Abbymarie118 ай бұрын
So - so good! Thank you! I’ll continue to wait for the man Jesus sends to me! 🙏🏼♥️
@SEERZ.7 ай бұрын
You can bet ima mount dat thang Jackie
@zapszapper91054 ай бұрын
Bless you both, On fire couples, are so powerful and effective for the kingdom of God. Cover each other every day.
@PaulPavloPablo8 ай бұрын
It would be great if you can make weekly sermons. Maybe every Sunday. Because I haven't found a church that i like here in Seattle. There are a lot of woke people and fakes here. You seem like a genuine person and a true Christian so I'd love to hear a weekly bible sermon and teaching from you and your husband.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion!! We will definitely take it to heart and that is our plan :) blessings to you brother!
@ismaelrojas52918 ай бұрын
I pray that the Lord leads you to a bible base Holy Spirit seal church, Paul said, don’t do like others do, who have stop attending church, so stay focus and ceased not in praying for a spiritual home where God can display his gifts upon you, don’t allow yourself to get entrap with internet ministries that isn’t Gods will for anyone, so keep the faith and keep being guided by God’s Holy Spirit 👋😊🙏
@dapperlizard2893 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@justustrurainboe63048 ай бұрын
Amen in Jesus name. You guys did a good job and it's right on God Kairos and providential timing !
@LanceandJackieVanTine8 ай бұрын
God's timing, Amen!
@justustrurainboe63048 ай бұрын
@@LanceandJackieVanTine phew, if u only knew how specific. I think I must watch this again. It's going on in my life. But I only want God timing, boundaries, dreams, protection, and His will& I pray it on Earth as in Heaven in Jesus' name thanks God amen
@paulpasquale22128 ай бұрын
Excellent video, Jackie and Lance (edited). Thank you for sharing your thoughts on Godly relationships and marriage.
@doulos7378 ай бұрын
I believe his name is Lance, not Kyle...🤔👍
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
His names Lance hahah but thanks so much Paul!
@paulpasquale22128 ай бұрын
@jackiestout_ so sorry Jackie. I always enjoy listening to your videos both before and after marriage. Congratulations 🎊 to the both of you.God bless 🙌 🙏.
@paulpasquale22128 ай бұрын
@doulos737 Yes ,I made the correction (see edit).
@doulos7378 ай бұрын
@@paulpasquale2212 Fantastic, Paul!...👍👌🙂
@assasinsjeff8 ай бұрын
Aw man you found an amazing husband. I someday wish to find a wife who is equally yolked as me. Here’s to hoping and praying
@donwrasse6841Ай бұрын
Also listen to me on this always forgive each other ..when you need to there is one thing think about what I say. Forgivin people don't break up. And do not seperate but spend time in prayer list Satan temp you . 1st Corinthians 7...
@MartinCervenak-xt7oe8 ай бұрын
Amen
@lorainyunus79988 ай бұрын
SISTER JACKIE!!! ❤ LOVED THIS VIDEO SO MUCH 😍😍😍 YOURS AND BROTHER LANCE'S STORY IS SO CAPTIVATING AND MOTIVATING THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING😁🙌🙌🙌 LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU BOTH🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 LOVE YOU SIS JACKIE MY INSPIRATION 🩷😊 THANK YOU JESUS 🙏🙏🙏❤️ THIS VIDEO IS TRULY A BLESSING FOR ME☺️
@boazadventures8 ай бұрын
Your caps lock is on.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Thank you my gorgeous sister :) we love and are praying for you!! 🤍😊
@bullishx.r.p.blacc23merriw534 ай бұрын
My bad I didn't know you was married. Thank yall 😊
@rodriguez71988 ай бұрын
Sister Jackie I love your lip color here, what lipstick are you using here🤗💕
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
I am using Nyx Matt lipstick! Thank you :)
@heavyhaul8621Ай бұрын
You both are so lucky. ❤
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
The pursue. First dating and consistency! Awesome!
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Whats your husbands name? He is awesome!
@jackieVanTine_2 ай бұрын
Lance VanTine !
@PRESIDENT_RAY8 ай бұрын
222 Claimed and recognized by the special one Under the Trinity
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Vibes!
@hilariovargas86828 ай бұрын
JACKIE you have a great husband - I am glad GOD blessed you with this man
@crocodilestantv7348 ай бұрын
✝️💯”YES‼️” In Jesus Name Amen and Amen ‼️💯✝️
@AndresPrez8 ай бұрын
-"THEY were not living a Christian life" -" I had s3x outside of marriage.." So you were the same.......
@messianichebrewshawnkawcak15508 ай бұрын
How does a man pursue a woman in a feminist/me too culture? Femininity is priceless and beautiful but so rare. Nice to see your husband in a video. The women that pursued me went to fast.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Look for a godly woman! You’ll find one :)
@messianichebrewshawnkawcak15508 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ that’s one reason I would not pursue a lady that doesn’t have the conviction to wear long dresses and skirts as a lifestyle, and I believe strongly in headcovering being a physical symbol of spiritual protection like found in Numbers 5:18, psalm 140:7, Isaiah 47:2. Psalms 140:7 "O God the Lord, the strength of my salvation, You have covered my head in the day of battle. Isaiah 47:2 "Take the millstones and grind meal. Remove your veil, strip off the skirt, Uncover the leg, cross the rivers. Numbers 5:18 The priest shall then have the woman stand before the Lord and let the hair of the woman's head go loose, and place the grain offering of memorial in her hands, which is the grain offering of jealousy, and in the hand of the priest is to be the water of bitterness that brings a curse. I also believe in the sabbath, holy days, and clean meats, which most don’t.
@user-zm1nd8vs6s8 ай бұрын
Yes you are right GOD made in us attraction toward the other part female to male and male to female ,GOD said good ones will mary GOD one and you are a good one . and when it's come from GOD it's that is right. i saw also lance your books but i have not the occasion yet to read them , i will try to do in the nearby future . GOD protect you and protect everyone of us
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for that comment, it encouraged Lance and I ! God Bless you!!! 🙏
@MindHole988 ай бұрын
Jackie, greetings from London! I’ve been following your channel over the past year and you are truly blessed. You did make me laugh out loud though, when you mentioned how you expected flowers at the airport (from your now husband) and how this wasn’t “high maintenance”! 🤣🤣 I love you to bits, but most women wouldn’t be disappointed if a male acquaintance didn’t bring flowers to greet them at the airport. In fact, most women (rightly or wrongly) would think that was overkill. Second point, your comments about men you had previously courted who were not able to plan a simple dinner-date astounds me (and likely most of the men and women on here). In the nicest possible way, but what kind of man can’t plan a date? Most men of course can plan a date (and so much more) - so I would guess you simply met the minority who couldn’t. Furthermore, one could write a book on how women “don’t think” about what to do / say / how to behave when courting a man. It’s all too easy to blame and generalise that most men “don’t think” about such details as where to eat etc. Women need to take the lions share of the blame for this hesitancy in men today. Why? One: expectations of women today are positively stratospheric. Ladies need to calm down, take a breath and look at themselves in the mirror here. Nothing remotely wrong with having a set of minimum standards and expectations - but they must be realistic. Two: we are living in an ungodly world, where men are demonised for being gentlemen, for simply being masculine. Men are today, (metaphorically speaking) - walking around in straight-jackets for fear of being accused of sexual harassment or worse. Do you know a former colleague where I was formerly employed was fired for writing a romantic letter to a female employee? I read the letter and it was one of the sweetest things I’ve ever read, but this is not allowed in this day and age. Do you know on the London Underground (equivalent of the Subway in New York) - there are signs in the carriages encouraging women to call the police if someone is simply looking at them? Can you imagine being a man in such a constricting and hostile environment? Women have largely done this do themselves (I.e. the hesitancy of men today vis-a-vis women / courting etc.), through toxic feminism and the countless feminist so called movements that have arisen over the past 5-10 years. So whilst I 100% agree with your general sentiment that men should be the initiators and lead etc. women need to lower their unrealistic and unreasonable expectations (whilst maintaining minimum standards) and play their vital part in the courting process. Believe it or not, men are not mind readers (and never have been) - hence the sooner women open-up, stop being high maintenance and entitled, whilst as you put it to describe men, “think” about the situation and give men some subtle hints, marriage will continue to decline in the Western world. God bless you and your 🙏🙏husband
@jamiecurran35448 ай бұрын
As a single guy who's been in relationships in the past and is now to afraid to pursue a woman with fear of being demonised in some way, all because of the modern feminist/sexual harassment stuff constantly being pushed everywhere🙄, I feel I'm just going to have to be alone for the rest of time due to this😒, heck I'm scared to even make eye contact with females just incase they try calling me out in someway!😔, what a twisted cruel world we all have allowed it to become and its pushing everyone further apart and into isolation, especially after covid too!😥, I just pray people will start loving one another and coming closer together again for humanities sake!🤔🙏
@sujith97468 ай бұрын
Nice
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
No way!
@Magic8181008 ай бұрын
How you been Jackie this is Mario again. I'm about to share some things I don't want anybody to feel sorry for me. I'm going to post it in a little while because I know when I ride it it's going to put me in tears
@farrahfoster9458 ай бұрын
❤
@ryanjackson6458 ай бұрын
THEY DON'T N ITS SO TIREING FR FR
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Wow! You met on instagram!
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Plan a date!
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Ladies too! Mutual!
@jeremycarpenter5550Ай бұрын
Praying i find my ruth . Proverbs 31 wife. 1 timothy chaptet 3 man .
@glennvanzandt30118 ай бұрын
Looks like you caught him.
@aaronbonner70368 ай бұрын
Oh Christian PrinceSs Holy Spirit filled Jacky I can feel that my supreme self is with you : overwhelming peace as you speaks .
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Thanks brother Aaron!
@MarkJohnson-xm6hy23 күн бұрын
May I ask a question? What do you do if you have a calling to be single? Can you use the same idea of pursuit to apply towards the relationship with God (our Father) instead? I hope you two plus God are happy together and have a fruitful ministry. Prayers.
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
It is difficult! But, be detailed, and keep trying! Hunt, keep trying! God first! Masculine!
@MaciusSzwedАй бұрын
There is no such thing as random! Everything in the Universe happens for a REASON.
@jeffreypullis6962 ай бұрын
Details
@jvhamby5Ай бұрын
Women are supposed to pursue her man after he has pursued her. A woman that is on chase mode will love and support her man.
@mikimali-ny6om8 ай бұрын
20 not 18!
@keziahbazan78428 ай бұрын
I would prefer to be pursued. Before I became a Christain I was usually doing more for the guy and I don't want that anymore. Although I must say I guess there could be exceptions depending on a situation. For example Ruth and Boaz.
@myHeartforHisAlone238 ай бұрын
Woww this is completely God. Couldn’t have been anyone else but Him. I just magnify your name Jesus, bless this marriage and their lives. I just ended a relationship; I really thought they were for me and I was going to plan marriage, but in some way I sensed God tell me I was not ready. And though it is hard and it still is, to see a closed door for someone I cherished, I’m so thankful for it because I know He the plans he has for me, and I know it will only open the right doors he wills for my life.
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
Yes thank GOD for the closed doors sister! Because the one He will open NO MAN can shut. What God puts together (not man) NO ONE can separate!
@enriquebaena82224 ай бұрын
❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊 is that your husband? 🧐😏❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
@justintrudeau68558 ай бұрын
Doesn't end well... this i do know, and if your vid will load maybe I could learn more
@LanceandJackieVanTine8 ай бұрын
So true, Justin!
@rezphilosophy8 ай бұрын
male ribs contains many copies of the genetic information required to make a woman. However, it is interesting to note that if the first human were a woman, her rib would not contain enough information to make a man. This is because women do not have the y-chromosome.
@justustrurainboe63048 ай бұрын
I have chills bc I never thought about the whole gist of a man pursuing a woman& all of that& how it could hurt things if he isnt given the chance or the woman does it.. bc u know my whole life& I'm divorced I've never been the one much to pursue but have been pursued or it just happened but what ur saying I didn't even know and it's resonating with me! I didn't know! One woman I think and or thought to be my wife I pursued, we aren't together ATM but maybe it will work and she was actually Godly and it did work when I did pursue her! Wow what a revelation 🤍
@jackieVanTine_8 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful for you Justus! Pray for the Lords guidance and discernment moving forward with her and trust Him!
@justustrurainboe63048 ай бұрын
@jackiestout_ amen in Jesus name.. and I pray the same for everyone else I've had suddenly seemingly gotten in one way or another involved with and strength in Jesus name and it wouldn't have happened if other things wouldn't have taken place with Nicole, so o let others in, Yada Yada im just trying not to get hurt or worse at this point and I pray Your perfect will God in Jesus name, and for Nicole, Brittany, Hope, Shelley and every child of God amen and shalom peace and for all leaders and this ministry in Ur name amen
@7offman2 ай бұрын
The top video on the suggestion section is about "why men shouldn't presue women"
@user-ho9ry6sq3s8 ай бұрын
Nice look at dating. But what do you think, for example, of Isaac, Joseph, Boaz? Under no circumstances are these people chasing. But the woman was brought to the man. Jacob and David, for example, did pursue the woman. I think it is very important to hear God's voice in it. And especially his anointing on both the man and the woman. He can create so many unexpected wonderful encounters.