What Happens When a WOMAN Pursues A MAN…. 👨🏃‍♀️🤷‍♀️😳

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Jackie VanTine

Jackie VanTine

8 ай бұрын

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@ismaelrojas5291
@ismaelrojas5291 8 ай бұрын
It is not good for man to be alone, but all good things comes to them who wait, just like Jackie husband said, God already knows your needs and in his perfect timing he will bring you a gift for a spouse, but we must patiently wait and keep focus in fulfilling God’s will for each of us, we don’t need another person to be fulfilled case in point, Elijah John the Baptist and Paul the apostle as example, stay positive according to God’s will what’s to happen will definitely happen
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Love this!!!!
@llllllllllllll333
@llllllllllllll333 8 ай бұрын
Praise the lord 🙏 Amen 🙏
@suniljoseph5888
@suniljoseph5888 8 ай бұрын
​@@jackieVanTine_so you say he pursued YOU,ALREADY I SAW RED FLAGS,(I am waiting for the man and he was waiting for the women, you also have to pursue back finally, I don't like tested, I will give u enough drama😅😂) ok so both have been to casual , ok like slaves of God, WHO PUT COSTLY PURFUME ON JESUS FEET & LATER AFTER DEATH WAS THE FIRST TO HEAR HIM, SO YOU HAVE TO PUT TOTAL LIFE TO SOCIETY SINCE YOU WERE CASUAL IN UR PAST, ELSE YOU LIERS ARE STILL SAME INSIDE, JUST HYPOCRITES UNDER INFATUATION FOR A HONEYMOON PERIOD, also church pursued god and god pursued Israel, keep that clear , BUT SINCE ISRAEL WAS A HARLOT IN PAST, SHE SLAVED HER WHOLE LIFE TO HIS SERVICE , PERIOD, you want explanation come to wapp, don't waste my time both-00919995574558 😅😂
@Ann-lv5dg
@Ann-lv5dg 8 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_I wonder how shy guy would get married since woman isn’t talking to him first
@JESUSGreatrThan_all_LsThnJESUS
@JESUSGreatrThan_all_LsThnJESUS 8 ай бұрын
​@@Ann-lv5dg The man has to be brave and seek God and the woman.
@boazadventures
@boazadventures 8 ай бұрын
I see a lot of players on the internet telling the young men how to be a player, but no one is showing the beauty of a real marriage. I appreciate these kind of video's a lot.👩‍❤️‍👨
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Boaz ! Pray you find your Ruth !
@boazadventures
@boazadventures 8 ай бұрын
​@@jackieVanTine_:) I will, when I'm heald
@_8miko8
@_8miko8 5 ай бұрын
I was in a 9 year relationship and 5 of them I was married. We did not put God in the center of our relationship. After we divorced I wanted to blame God, however He showed me His Love and allowed me back into His arms. I went through a roller coaster of emotions and making the wrong decisions. Finally, after falling down so many times. I stood up and called to JESUS to save me. To this day I'm still single yet very joyful by obeying GOD ❤
@glorias.2930
@glorias.2930 8 ай бұрын
She is so open, honest and humble! Strong woman right there!
@Mr-pn2eh
@Mr-pn2eh 8 ай бұрын
Early in my walk with God until now as a man I kept pursuing women hoping to find the one. It caused great stress and insanity. I have since learned to wait upon the Lord and now I'm no longer concerned with when I will meet the right partner (if it's even in the Lord's better plan that I'm even to get married in the first place). There's more important matters at hand such as studying scripture.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Amen !!! Yes focusing on the Lord is the most delightful thing :) the rest will come!
@sarahvantine7905
@sarahvantine7905 8 ай бұрын
You two are truly a match made in heaven! Your heartbeat for Jesus is the same! 🥰
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Thank you Sarah! Yes, it is glory to God :) ❤❤❤
@sisD
@sisD 8 ай бұрын
Great words of wisdom. I’m approaching 40 years of marriage to a man I believe God placed in my path. Bumpy roads, arguments, but pure love and devotion for us. ♥️🕊️
@GEORGIOARCADE
@GEORGIOARCADE 8 ай бұрын
This is one of those "oooh" kinda videos 😃🙏🏼. Where you finally get why God wants you to pursue him first instead of man or woman. I think women can pursue in terms of showing interest but the guy has also do the same and asking her out and courting her like a gentleman. It can't work if it's not a balance of the attraction. I loved hearing your husband thoughts on who he was before he met you. I see a big future and ministry with you two. Keep up the great work and God bless you 💫
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely brother :) thank you!!!
@Itsaaronadams817
@Itsaaronadams817 8 ай бұрын
Thank you both for this video. I recently started serving in my church again after being pretty absent for almost 1 year after my father passed away. I came back with the mindset of “I’m going to faithfully serve the Lord here, sacrifice my time to serve when I’m needed, focus on loving God & others, and growing stronger in my relationship with Christ and becoming a better, more godly man. I do want to get married eventually and I’ve honestly been feeling very lonely lately(not alone, but lonely). And the devil has been trying to use that to distract me, this video was a MUCH NEEDED encourage and answered prayer of peace from the Lord! So again I just wanna say thank you to the both of you, and wish you guys a long and happy marriage! 🙏🏾✝️🤍
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
I pray the Lord bless you with the right woman at the RIGHT TIME! It is hard to wait… but the Lord always makes it worth the wait!!!!
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Men pursuing women in the Bible: Jacob pursued Rachel and worked for her for years… Boaz pursued Ruth… Abraham sent a servant to get a wife for Isaac.
@ZionPDJ
@ZionPDJ 8 ай бұрын
🧐 Did Boaz pursue Ruth? I think 🤔 Ruth pursued Boaz.
@BlVCK_ANGEL94
@BlVCK_ANGEL94 8 ай бұрын
That’s was a different time. Eve came to Adam. NOT Adam came to eve. You said it yourself. I thought we were all EQUAL. Right?
@BlVCK_ANGEL94
@BlVCK_ANGEL94 8 ай бұрын
Also, let me remind you. You said on your comment that Jacob pursued Rachel. The woman that was ALWAYS meant for Jacob was always Leah. The mother descendant of the Messiah. Leah approached Jacob. That’s how he ended up with Reuben, Simon, Judah and etc.. Also Tamar disguise herself as a prostitute to Judah to accomplish the Levite law. Judah didn’t want Tamar. He kept giving her to his sons. Tamar pursued Judah. Now is different we live in society that women want to be independent and see men as sexual predators. That’s why many men decided not to approach and pursue women.
@randomCHELdad
@randomCHELdad 3 ай бұрын
@BlVCK_ANGEL94 Adam spoke directly to the Father Himself asked for one, the Father planted Eve.
@zephaniahnoahmusic
@zephaniahnoahmusic 3 ай бұрын
Didn't Ruth pursue Boaz?
@y.h857
@y.h857 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I'm a 31 year old single female virgin. I have never had a relationship before in my life, so this was interesting for me to hear about how dating and relationships work when you're a Christian. I only became a believer at around february this year, so I still have a lot to learn. Thank you for taking the time and energy to make these video's about dating and how it's viewed from a woman's and man's perspective.😊 I'm really happy that I became a follower of Christ, because now I know that I don't have to be ashamed of still being a virgin at my age haha. I will patiently wait for the Lord to lead me to the right person to share the rest of my life with.😊 God Bless the ministry of you guys!🙏 I'm supporting you and sending you greetings from the Netherlands! 😄🙏
@jamiecurran3544
@jamiecurran3544 8 ай бұрын
Sometimes I wish I was also still a virgin, I do however consider myself a born again virgin as I've been celibate for so long now!😂🙏
@y.h857
@y.h857 8 ай бұрын
@jamiecurran3544 That's a good thing too! 👍 When you come to Christ and walk in the Spirit, the fleshy body doesn't matter anymore. It will perish at some point anyway. The inner man will be renewed every day, so that is what we should be focusing on. It truly is a blessing to have the Lord Jezus in our lives.❤️🙏
@RealTonly
@RealTonly 8 ай бұрын
Without the Lord Jesus we are nothing family. Love y’all and there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin idc what anybody says. Consider it a blessing we are being saved from bondage every day on this path of following Christ
@alextrezvy6889
@alextrezvy6889 7 ай бұрын
"I know that I don't have to be ashamed of still being a virgin" // There is (despite of propaganda, discrimination and warfare) still about a billion of muslims, who had never considered being virging as a shame.
@azazel673
@azazel673 Ай бұрын
Wow a virgin at 31? Where would I be able find a woman such as yourself? 😅 most girls I know are already sleeping around and high body counts at 18 years old. Its hard to find a decent woman as a man with values, and more so a woman that’s still a virgin. Kudos to you
@GodIsWithinHer.
@GodIsWithinHer. 24 күн бұрын
Thank you guys so much. Thank you thank you thank you thank you! Jackie, I am healing from a traumatizing breakup with my counterfeit and becoming a better christian woman because of you.
@thesciencekid3546
@thesciencekid3546 8 ай бұрын
Such a calming vibe from these 2. Thank you so much for this!
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! :)
@yhang2999
@yhang2999 8 ай бұрын
I hope you write a book about relationships and a godly pursuing. God bless you both 🙏🙏🙏
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
One day we will for sure as we gain more experience!!! 🙏
@xojassylove4023
@xojassylove4023 8 ай бұрын
I love how he invited you to the group Bible study 💗💗 You want to be treated like a queen (princess) treat him like. King (prince)🎉
@CarportCarl
@CarportCarl 8 ай бұрын
As a 60+ Christian American male I think you need to define "pursue" and "indicating if a woman is interested" in a man and making a subtle hint about it.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Yes, that will be one of our upcoming videos!!!!
@cheeseburger4401
@cheeseburger4401 8 ай бұрын
You guys have encouraged me to wait and trust God, and Jackie you surely have inspired me, as a 19-year-old girl, to first fall in love with God and just trust Him in the process
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Hey sis! So glad I could encourage you. Learn from my mistakes!! That’s why I make these videos :)
@04zachy_chapy15
@04zachy_chapy15 7 ай бұрын
All these are great points. I do have mixed feelings but that’s just because of where I am with my other half. It’s funny, my fiancé pursued me in the beginning, and we were so blessed to not face many obstacles until I got to where I was more confident and mentally healthy and could actually pursue her. I told her many times, “I can’t be what God says a provider and a man is right now, so I understand if you wish to leave.” Newsflash: she refused to leave, and one time she even told me “Then I’ll provide for you, until you can flip the script.” And I was dumbfounded. But she stuck to that promise. And a month and a half into our relationship, God had built me up and gave me the tools I needed, and now it’s not just me providing for her or me pursuing her, it’s both of us doing it together for one another. And I will love that woman until that day my flesh passes. I just last week, asked her to be my wife💍. Obviously she said yes, and we’re looking forward to a beautiful and glorious Christ-centered marriage and life together! 🙏❤️✝️ #thankyouJesus
@billlewis8711
@billlewis8711 2 күн бұрын
Great sharing you guys, a lot of insightful wisdom for singles. This should have 100K views!
@jimgoose9146
@jimgoose9146 8 ай бұрын
So happy for you two. Doing it right
@yorosandrine2844
@yorosandrine2844 3 ай бұрын
Thank you - I appreciate your ministry to me/ us. God bless you both!🙏
@user-yf2zx1vp3u
@user-yf2zx1vp3u 4 ай бұрын
You two are Amazing. Thanks for the wise words
@priscilladevi9705
@priscilladevi9705 8 ай бұрын
Thank You for being transparent. Very interesting message. Such a awesome couple ❤🙏💙
@Magic818100
@Magic818100 8 ай бұрын
This is Mario I'm about to share a true story. It's about a mother and a child. As the mother was giving birth. Everything was fine until that moment. When I call everybody in the hospital running I knew something was wrong. They saved the baby. But now it was the hard truth to hear. The baby could not see. As the months went by the baby can no longer swallow normally. Now they had to make a whole in the stomach. Now the baby had to be fed through a tool in stomach. When's the baby was 6 years old. People thought it was a few months old baby. When I told the people how old the baby was. They were like a shot son even cry and I have to tell the truth. The complication of the birth did a lot of damage to the baby. The baby didn't grow..--- old God my heart is breaking within me. In the hospital how to 360 plus days my little boys spend 200 something days in the hospital And let me tell you something I pray I fast, I Proclaim it I decree it I did everything all these ridiculous movement of the faith movement tells you to do. In the hospital you have to feed the miracle the doctor said the Charlie's leaving number. Old God give me strength. As we saw the numbers go down when it got down to zero everybody saw this something happened in that room we don't know what it was but it feels like something covered that everybody saw this but we can explain it what we saw the nurse all this one of the doctors saw this. Headed that moment you should see the way the child was smiling it's like he had nothing he looked all around us and he smiled before my little boy left us. 😰 And to finish it no we lose the mother with cancer. I don't know why I wanted to give this story and please don't feel for me. The Favor and the Grace God is upon my life. So you want to know what pain. I been place in that position. And I have sec God why you have no idea how much many times during the night my tears just dropped into my eye. Whatever have a partner again in my life I don't know Now I'm going to show you why when I write to you I placed 💙 Ángel. For those who were thinking something else. That blue Hearts standings my service to my country remember last time I told your I come from a military family. I used to call my little boy Superman Angel. So when you see me put this in your page. Remember, it's all about my little Superman angel. And my service to my country the United States Navy. Anyway my prayers go out to both of you and anyone would reading it yet in the midst of all this you have no idea how my life was devastating aitor I will Donald Trump Dead. Many times I end up in the hospital because of the stress is affecting my heart. On God came when I least expected it I'm not telling you that I'm Healed completely you don't get here from this. Those memories are always there but I can tell you one thing it has made me the man that I am today. The man that God wants me to be Blessed you all fir listening-- 💙 Ángel
@Jodi_Crypto_Leader22
@Jodi_Crypto_Leader22 3 ай бұрын
This was such a great video and help. Thank you guys. You both are awsome and so wise.
@marvinwenger5035
@marvinwenger5035 8 ай бұрын
Great video guys!! Good to see your husband on one of your videos! I agree 100% with this!! It’s always bad when the role is flipped. I can attest as well
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@lumpyspacecadet
@lumpyspacecadet 15 күн бұрын
Jackie is a beautiful, god fearing woman!
@CalledUntoHoliness
@CalledUntoHoliness 3 ай бұрын
This is great. Thank you for the sound advice. I particularly liked what the brother said concerning God knowing your likes and not having to work a trick. God knows what we need. Great video both of you.
@jayduncomb9652
@jayduncomb9652 8 ай бұрын
Thank you. God bless you guys.
@nickletterman771
@nickletterman771 2 ай бұрын
You know that speaks such volumes.
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Preach it girl!
@barnapapp2300
@barnapapp2300 8 ай бұрын
This video gave me hope. Thank you :)
@S4MU3L-
@S4MU3L- 8 ай бұрын
My man looks fresh btw 🔥. Good message for a lot of people!
@thelittlebeanbeanbean566
@thelittlebeanbeanbean566 5 ай бұрын
i saved this so i can watch it again and again as a reminder - really eye opening - thank you!!
@gumdrop4869
@gumdrop4869 8 ай бұрын
her reactions when her husband is talking is sooo funny i love them! haha
@thelittlebeanbeanbean566
@thelittlebeanbeanbean566 5 ай бұрын
love this thank you!!!!
@jarredv89
@jarredv89 3 ай бұрын
I have pursued in the past and done all these things you mention. Each time it has only got me burned, society has told me that doing these things is being a simp. So I stopped pursuing
@jarredv89
@jarredv89 3 ай бұрын
God bless you both
@AndreaMoscoso-ny8oq
@AndreaMoscoso-ny8oq 2 ай бұрын
Keep coming to the Lord wholeheartedly and ask Him to please guide you and help you and help you have peace and calm in waiting and trusting in His timing. He knows what is best for each of His children at the right time. He knows us more than we will ever know ourselves. I am waiting on the Lord for anything that He wants from me but the last couple of years He has helped me to feel and know that I truly am loved by Him and that there is no one that will nor can love me more than He loves me. He loves us more than anyone else can. I only want God and my relationship with Him I want Him to be first and who I love first and most of all wholeheartedly. He is who can fill and satisfy our heart soul and life. And I want Him to be who is the greatest and true love of my life as God my God my Lord and Savior, my Father my friend and as my all. Before hand I eventually knew I didn't need anyone but now I really know I don't but only truly need Him. The only one who we have all been truly longing for all along is God Himself. If He has someone for me someday at the right time for both of us and in the right timing of our walk with the Lord and we both love God and truly put Him first in our heart our life and soul and decisions and it is Him who we are both wholeheartedly submitted to and love Him first foremost and most of all with "all of our heart, mind and soul." He wants all to come wholeheartedly to Him and be saved and not be seperated and distanced from Him because of sin and the posture and positioning of our hearts that is away from Him. He knows who will believe and believe in what He did on the cross for all who will come to Him wholeheartedly and repent and ask Him for forgiveness and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please be their Lord and Savior and wholeheartedly will be saved by Him and reconciled back to Him through Christ ("As the Word was with God and is God from before everything including the heavens were created" He is "The Way, The Truth and The Life, no one comes to the Father if not through Him first") (What divided the entrances and the veil that covered the entrance to the prescence of the most Holy of Holies was torn and those coverings were called "The Way, The Truth and The Life" and He knows who will not come to Him wholeheartedly and out of their heart posture and positioning will choose to not come to Him wholeheartedly and live dead in their sin and choose to die seperated from Him for all of eternity and He will not force anyone to be with Him nor to want to be with Him but even then knowing what they will choose He is still behind God to them and gives them the chance to repent turn from their ways and come to Him wholeheartedly. Although He does and did indeed know us and loved us since before He created everything, He wants us all to repent (have a change of mind and turn from our ways) and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please forgive us for our sins and ask Him to please be our Lord and Savior and to please come into our heart and life and be saved by Him. We then recieve His Holy Spirit who then dwells within us and we are born again in spirit and made a new creature in Him and are officially called His children. We are reconciled back to Him and are covered and clothed through His righteousness of when Christ paid the wages of all of our sins and iniquities and transgressions all of our sins and sinful thoughts (we were all born into sin and our hearts are scheeming wickedness) and but through His righteousness for all who come to Him wholeheartedly are redeemed and reconciled back to Him through His redeeming and everlasting loving arms for all of eternity. No one is good only He is for He is truly Holy and truly true love and just and it is He who knows all things. For all who come to Him wholeheartedly and are saved by Him we are only deemed as righteous because of what Christ did on the cross for us who come to Him wholeheartedly and when He sees us it is His righteousness that He sees that covers and clothes us. When we are saved and reconciled to Him and now in union with Him He sees us as who He says we are in Him and as who He knows we will be in Him. He who started something good a good work in us will bring it to completion and it is He who helps us change and works in our hearts and helps us be more and love more like Him and helps us love Him more too though we have to be willing. It is through His strength power and love, grace and mercy. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us according to His will". He has "a good plan a plan to bring us a hope and a future and not of harm". He wants us to know Him know Him and He wants to know us He wants us to have a wholehearted relationship with Him and doesn't want us to be lukewarm with Him. He wants to grow and prosper us in our relationship with Him. Respectfully and all He is the only one who I will have in my heart as and call my King. He wants to heal, guide and truly lead us and wants us to truly trust entrust and rely in Him for He knows best. Our ways are not His ways our understanding is not His understanding His ways are higher than ours and He knows and wants what is best for us as He knows everything and He knows and sees the future of all things and knows and sees all the intentions in people's hearts. We cannot rely in our own understanding ideas, thoughts, desires, and decisions but must instead rely and lean on and trust in His understanding will and strength and not in our own strength, will and understanding. We don't have to walk and do life as if we are alone when we were never meant to and we don't have to when we can walk wholeheartedly with the Lord and He wants us to walk hand in hand with Him as well. He wants us even more than we often want Him as proof of all that He promised and made way in the Old and New Covenant (Old and New Testament) and provided and made the way as He promised on the cross for so that all who will come to Him wholeheartedly can be fully for good be reconciled back to Him as He said "It is Finished" and not be separated and dead in sin as they are alive on earth and then in the afterlife for all of eternity (which is the 2nd death) and can instead be with Him for all of eternity. Love does submit. He wants to be the one who we have as and put wholeheartedly first in our heart, thoughts, days, life and decisions. With or without a partner truly it is so special that He is your first and true love and that you do all of your life with Him loving and getting to know Him most of all. He is who has to be the one to lead each person throughout one's time of singleness and throughout one's relationship and marriage and has to be the head of each of them so that He will be the head of both of them in their marriage. It is Christ who truly has to be the head of the house and who leads both of them and who leads the man and guides the man the priest of the house to lead. For truly if both love, put first and are wholeheartedly surrendered and submitted their heart and life to God then it is God who leads their home and Christ who will be the head of both of them and of the man as they are submitted to each other and most importantly are submitted wholeheartedly first to God. The man being submitted to God and open heartedly loving Him and putting Him first He will be submitted to God's love and loving Him first and submits to His guidance will ways and good plan that He has for Him to lead and guide the house in relationship with Him. "And we know that all things work for good for those that love God, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28. He can help us love all others with love that comes from Him. He is who we have been longing and yearning for all of our life and He and His heart and being reconciled back to Him by coming to Him wholeheartedly and being saved and redeemed by Him knowing Him and loving and being loved by Him is the best blessing we could ever ask for and have. And truly what a Father and friend and true true love we have with Him. He is the truest most realest one we can ever have in our life and love and be loved by. God bless you your fam and all who will read our comments.
@thedisciple7430
@thedisciple7430 Ай бұрын
​@@jarredv89wutt?
@thedisciple7430
@thedisciple7430 Ай бұрын
Exactly. U chase women and try to build a meaningful relationship and they cheat. Let them pursue. I'm done
@janetanna8542
@janetanna8542 8 ай бұрын
Loved this video!!!! ❤❤❤ Thank you Jackie for your guidance! ❤️ May Jesus's hand be on your marriage always 🌸
@davidwalorski5755
@davidwalorski5755 8 ай бұрын
Praise God.....great teaching!!!
@LanceandJackieVanTine
@LanceandJackieVanTine 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, David!
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Gotta pursue the date with food! Flowers, details,etc. Good advice!
@wsp995
@wsp995 8 ай бұрын
god didn't create Adam and Steve he created Adam and eve.
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Purposely waiting! The cart before the horse! Love u both!
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
This is awesome!
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
We must work for it!
@lawrencegantos7767
@lawrencegantos7767 8 ай бұрын
Agreed, only one Jackie, praise God for bringing you together. God blessed you. Together God's Blessings are Surrounding you.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Aww thank you! Amen!!
@patrickthomas850
@patrickthomas850 8 ай бұрын
Amen!! God fit the 2 of you perfectly together at just the right time!! May He continue to bless you both together as you continue to pursue Jesus together and serve Him together!! Lord Jesus make their marriage strong on Your foundation and what You have joined together- let NO ONE come between!!! In Your Mighty Name Lord Jesus, Amen!!!
@pitapita3559
@pitapita3559 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@jhonnymascarenhas5063
@jhonnymascarenhas5063 3 ай бұрын
so so nice to see you guys together
@wandarios5440
@wandarios5440 8 ай бұрын
Couldn’t have stated this more clearly. Waiting on the Lord (Psalms 46:10) is the success in the fulfillment of the ideal partner God has readied for us. He has our best interest in mind and will provide the BEST for us. It’s up to us to be ready and whole to recognize and embrace God’s blessing when it knocks at our heart’s door. God bless you both as you journey together in your walk with Christ! 😊🙏🕊
@theblissfulbeliever
@theblissfulbeliever 8 ай бұрын
I recently met a woman who lets me fully embody my masculinity. She lets me lead. And this is so healthy for me and her. I agree that a woman shouldn’t pursue men. I love this video Jackie! You and your husband are an inspiration to me. Keep going. Keep making this content it’s super helpful and effective. God Bless 🙏🏻
@patrickthomas850
@patrickthomas850 8 ай бұрын
Amen!!
@patrickthomas850
@patrickthomas850 8 ай бұрын
That’s awesome!!!!
@theblissfulbeliever
@theblissfulbeliever 8 ай бұрын
@@patrickthomas850 thanks 🙏🏻 😊
@alyssamayle4088
@alyssamayle4088 7 ай бұрын
Hey, I also have a KZbin channel if you want to see more Christian videos
@thedisciple7430
@thedisciple7430 Ай бұрын
Women are acting so independent right now and if u approach them, they label you a creep. So how exactly do u want men to approach them?
@jackgoodings
@jackgoodings 5 ай бұрын
Thank you
@anandpeter6223
@anandpeter6223 Ай бұрын
God bless you both
@Abbymarie11
@Abbymarie11 8 ай бұрын
So - so good! Thank you! I’ll continue to wait for the man Jesus sends to me! 🙏🏼♥️
@SEERZ.
@SEERZ. 7 ай бұрын
You can bet ima mount dat thang Jackie
@zapszapper9105
@zapszapper9105 4 ай бұрын
Bless you both, On fire couples, are so powerful and effective for the kingdom of God. Cover each other every day.
@PaulPavloPablo
@PaulPavloPablo 8 ай бұрын
It would be great if you can make weekly sermons. Maybe every Sunday. Because I haven't found a church that i like here in Seattle. There are a lot of woke people and fakes here. You seem like a genuine person and a true Christian so I'd love to hear a weekly bible sermon and teaching from you and your husband.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion!! We will definitely take it to heart and that is our plan :) blessings to you brother!
@ismaelrojas5291
@ismaelrojas5291 8 ай бұрын
I pray that the Lord leads you to a bible base Holy Spirit seal church, Paul said, don’t do like others do, who have stop attending church, so stay focus and ceased not in praying for a spiritual home where God can display his gifts upon you, don’t allow yourself to get entrap with internet ministries that isn’t Gods will for anyone, so keep the faith and keep being guided by God’s Holy Spirit 👋😊🙏
@dapperlizard289
@dapperlizard289 3 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@justustrurainboe6304
@justustrurainboe6304 8 ай бұрын
Amen in Jesus name. You guys did a good job and it's right on God Kairos and providential timing !
@LanceandJackieVanTine
@LanceandJackieVanTine 8 ай бұрын
God's timing, Amen!
@justustrurainboe6304
@justustrurainboe6304 8 ай бұрын
@@LanceandJackieVanTine phew, if u only knew how specific. I think I must watch this again. It's going on in my life. But I only want God timing, boundaries, dreams, protection, and His will& I pray it on Earth as in Heaven in Jesus' name thanks God amen
@paulpasquale2212
@paulpasquale2212 8 ай бұрын
Excellent video, Jackie and Lance (edited). Thank you for sharing your thoughts on Godly relationships and marriage.
@doulos737
@doulos737 8 ай бұрын
I believe his name is Lance, not Kyle...🤔👍
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
His names Lance hahah but thanks so much Paul!
@paulpasquale2212
@paulpasquale2212 8 ай бұрын
@jackiestout_ so sorry Jackie. I always enjoy listening to your videos both before and after marriage. Congratulations 🎊 to the both of you.God bless 🙌 🙏.
@paulpasquale2212
@paulpasquale2212 8 ай бұрын
@doulos737 Yes ,I made the correction (see edit).
@doulos737
@doulos737 8 ай бұрын
@@paulpasquale2212 Fantastic, Paul!...👍👌🙂
@assasinsjeff
@assasinsjeff 8 ай бұрын
Aw man you found an amazing husband. I someday wish to find a wife who is equally yolked as me. Here’s to hoping and praying
@donwrasse6841
@donwrasse6841 Ай бұрын
Also listen to me on this always forgive each other ..when you need to there is one thing think about what I say. Forgivin people don't break up. And do not seperate but spend time in prayer list Satan temp you . 1st Corinthians 7...
@MartinCervenak-xt7oe
@MartinCervenak-xt7oe 8 ай бұрын
Amen
@lorainyunus7998
@lorainyunus7998 8 ай бұрын
SISTER JACKIE!!! ❤ LOVED THIS VIDEO SO MUCH 😍😍😍 YOURS AND BROTHER LANCE'S STORY IS SO CAPTIVATING AND MOTIVATING THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING😁🙌🙌🙌 LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU BOTH🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 LOVE YOU SIS JACKIE MY INSPIRATION 🩷😊 THANK YOU JESUS 🙏🙏🙏❤️ THIS VIDEO IS TRULY A BLESSING FOR ME☺️
@boazadventures
@boazadventures 8 ай бұрын
Your caps lock is on.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Thank you my gorgeous sister :) we love and are praying for you!! 🤍😊
@bullishx.r.p.blacc23merriw53
@bullishx.r.p.blacc23merriw53 4 ай бұрын
My bad I didn't know you was married. Thank yall 😊
@rodriguez7198
@rodriguez7198 8 ай бұрын
Sister Jackie I love your lip color here, what lipstick are you using here🤗💕
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
I am using Nyx Matt lipstick! Thank you :)
@heavyhaul8621
@heavyhaul8621 Ай бұрын
You both are so lucky. ❤
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
The pursue. First dating and consistency! Awesome!
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Whats your husbands name? He is awesome!
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 2 ай бұрын
Lance VanTine !
@PRESIDENT_RAY
@PRESIDENT_RAY 8 ай бұрын
222 Claimed and recognized by the special one Under the Trinity
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Vibes!
@hilariovargas8682
@hilariovargas8682 8 ай бұрын
JACKIE you have a great husband - I am glad GOD blessed you with this man
@crocodilestantv734
@crocodilestantv734 8 ай бұрын
✝️💯”YES‼️” In Jesus Name Amen and Amen ‼️💯✝️
@AndresPrez
@AndresPrez 8 ай бұрын
-"THEY were not living a Christian life" -" I had s3x outside of marriage.." So you were the same.......
@messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550
@messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550 8 ай бұрын
How does a man pursue a woman in a feminist/me too culture? Femininity is priceless and beautiful but so rare. Nice to see your husband in a video. The women that pursued me went to fast.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Look for a godly woman! You’ll find one :)
@messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550
@messianichebrewshawnkawcak1550 8 ай бұрын
@@jackieVanTine_ that’s one reason I would not pursue a lady that doesn’t have the conviction to wear long dresses and skirts as a lifestyle, and I believe strongly in headcovering being a physical symbol of spiritual protection like found in Numbers 5:18, psalm 140:7, Isaiah 47:2. Psalms 140:7 "O God the Lord, the strength of my salvation, You have covered my head in the day of battle. Isaiah 47:2 "Take the millstones and grind meal. Remove your veil, strip off the skirt, Uncover the leg, cross the rivers. Numbers 5:18 The priest shall then have the woman stand before the Lord and let the hair of the woman's head go loose, and place the grain offering of memorial in her hands, which is the grain offering of jealousy, and in the hand of the priest is to be the water of bitterness that brings a curse. I also believe in the sabbath, holy days, and clean meats, which most don’t.
@user-zm1nd8vs6s
@user-zm1nd8vs6s 8 ай бұрын
Yes you are right GOD made in us attraction toward the other part female to male and male to female ,GOD said good ones will mary GOD one and you are a good one . and when it's come from GOD it's that is right. i saw also lance your books but i have not the occasion yet to read them , i will try to do in the nearby future . GOD protect you and protect everyone of us
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for that comment, it encouraged Lance and I ! God Bless you!!! 🙏
@MindHole98
@MindHole98 8 ай бұрын
Jackie, greetings from London! I’ve been following your channel over the past year and you are truly blessed. You did make me laugh out loud though, when you mentioned how you expected flowers at the airport (from your now husband) and how this wasn’t “high maintenance”! 🤣🤣 I love you to bits, but most women wouldn’t be disappointed if a male acquaintance didn’t bring flowers to greet them at the airport. In fact, most women (rightly or wrongly) would think that was overkill. Second point, your comments about men you had previously courted who were not able to plan a simple dinner-date astounds me (and likely most of the men and women on here). In the nicest possible way, but what kind of man can’t plan a date? Most men of course can plan a date (and so much more) - so I would guess you simply met the minority who couldn’t. Furthermore, one could write a book on how women “don’t think” about what to do / say / how to behave when courting a man. It’s all too easy to blame and generalise that most men “don’t think” about such details as where to eat etc. Women need to take the lions share of the blame for this hesitancy in men today. Why? One: expectations of women today are positively stratospheric. Ladies need to calm down, take a breath and look at themselves in the mirror here. Nothing remotely wrong with having a set of minimum standards and expectations - but they must be realistic. Two: we are living in an ungodly world, where men are demonised for being gentlemen, for simply being masculine. Men are today, (metaphorically speaking) - walking around in straight-jackets for fear of being accused of sexual harassment or worse. Do you know a former colleague where I was formerly employed was fired for writing a romantic letter to a female employee? I read the letter and it was one of the sweetest things I’ve ever read, but this is not allowed in this day and age. Do you know on the London Underground (equivalent of the Subway in New York) - there are signs in the carriages encouraging women to call the police if someone is simply looking at them? Can you imagine being a man in such a constricting and hostile environment? Women have largely done this do themselves (I.e. the hesitancy of men today vis-a-vis women / courting etc.), through toxic feminism and the countless feminist so called movements that have arisen over the past 5-10 years. So whilst I 100% agree with your general sentiment that men should be the initiators and lead etc. women need to lower their unrealistic and unreasonable expectations (whilst maintaining minimum standards) and play their vital part in the courting process. Believe it or not, men are not mind readers (and never have been) - hence the sooner women open-up, stop being high maintenance and entitled, whilst as you put it to describe men, “think” about the situation and give men some subtle hints, marriage will continue to decline in the Western world. God bless you and your 🙏🙏husband
@jamiecurran3544
@jamiecurran3544 8 ай бұрын
As a single guy who's been in relationships in the past and is now to afraid to pursue a woman with fear of being demonised in some way, all because of the modern feminist/sexual harassment stuff constantly being pushed everywhere🙄, I feel I'm just going to have to be alone for the rest of time due to this😒, heck I'm scared to even make eye contact with females just incase they try calling me out in someway!😔, what a twisted cruel world we all have allowed it to become and its pushing everyone further apart and into isolation, especially after covid too!😥, I just pray people will start loving one another and coming closer together again for humanities sake!🤔🙏
@sujith9746
@sujith9746 8 ай бұрын
Nice
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
No way!
@Magic818100
@Magic818100 8 ай бұрын
How you been Jackie this is Mario again. I'm about to share some things I don't want anybody to feel sorry for me. I'm going to post it in a little while because I know when I ride it it's going to put me in tears
@farrahfoster945
@farrahfoster945 8 ай бұрын
@ryanjackson645
@ryanjackson645 8 ай бұрын
THEY DON'T N ITS SO TIREING FR FR
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Wow! You met on instagram!
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Plan a date!
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Ladies too! Mutual!
@jeremycarpenter5550
@jeremycarpenter5550 Ай бұрын
Praying i find my ruth . Proverbs 31 wife. 1 timothy chaptet 3 man .
@glennvanzandt3011
@glennvanzandt3011 8 ай бұрын
Looks like you caught him.
@aaronbonner7036
@aaronbonner7036 8 ай бұрын
Oh Christian PrinceSs Holy Spirit filled Jacky I can feel that my supreme self is with you : overwhelming peace as you speaks .
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Thanks brother Aaron!
@MarkJohnson-xm6hy
@MarkJohnson-xm6hy 23 күн бұрын
May I ask a question? What do you do if you have a calling to be single? Can you use the same idea of pursuit to apply towards the relationship with God (our Father) instead? I hope you two plus God are happy together and have a fruitful ministry. Prayers.
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
It is difficult! But, be detailed, and keep trying! Hunt, keep trying! God first! Masculine!
@MaciusSzwed
@MaciusSzwed Ай бұрын
There is no such thing as random! Everything in the Universe happens for a REASON.
@jeffreypullis696
@jeffreypullis696 2 ай бұрын
Details
@jvhamby5
@jvhamby5 Ай бұрын
Women are supposed to pursue her man after he has pursued her. A woman that is on chase mode will love and support her man.
@mikimali-ny6om
@mikimali-ny6om 8 ай бұрын
20 not 18!
@keziahbazan7842
@keziahbazan7842 8 ай бұрын
I would prefer to be pursued. Before I became a Christain I was usually doing more for the guy and I don't want that anymore. Although I must say I guess there could be exceptions depending on a situation. For example Ruth and Boaz.
@myHeartforHisAlone23
@myHeartforHisAlone23 8 ай бұрын
Woww this is completely God. Couldn’t have been anyone else but Him. I just magnify your name Jesus, bless this marriage and their lives. I just ended a relationship; I really thought they were for me and I was going to plan marriage, but in some way I sensed God tell me I was not ready. And though it is hard and it still is, to see a closed door for someone I cherished, I’m so thankful for it because I know He the plans he has for me, and I know it will only open the right doors he wills for my life.
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
Yes thank GOD for the closed doors sister! Because the one He will open NO MAN can shut. What God puts together (not man) NO ONE can separate!
@enriquebaena8222
@enriquebaena8222 4 ай бұрын
❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊 is that your husband? 🧐😏❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
@justintrudeau6855
@justintrudeau6855 8 ай бұрын
Doesn't end well... this i do know, and if your vid will load maybe I could learn more
@LanceandJackieVanTine
@LanceandJackieVanTine 8 ай бұрын
So true, Justin!
@rezphilosophy
@rezphilosophy 8 ай бұрын
male ribs contains many copies of the genetic information required to make a woman. However, it is interesting to note that if the first human were a woman, her rib would not contain enough information to make a man. This is because women do not have the y-chromosome.
@justustrurainboe6304
@justustrurainboe6304 8 ай бұрын
I have chills bc I never thought about the whole gist of a man pursuing a woman& all of that& how it could hurt things if he isnt given the chance or the woman does it.. bc u know my whole life& I'm divorced I've never been the one much to pursue but have been pursued or it just happened but what ur saying I didn't even know and it's resonating with me! I didn't know! One woman I think and or thought to be my wife I pursued, we aren't together ATM but maybe it will work and she was actually Godly and it did work when I did pursue her! Wow what a revelation 🤍
@jackieVanTine_
@jackieVanTine_ 8 ай бұрын
So glad it was helpful for you Justus! Pray for the Lords guidance and discernment moving forward with her and trust Him!
@justustrurainboe6304
@justustrurainboe6304 8 ай бұрын
@jackiestout_ amen in Jesus name.. and I pray the same for everyone else I've had suddenly seemingly gotten in one way or another involved with and strength in Jesus name and it wouldn't have happened if other things wouldn't have taken place with Nicole, so o let others in, Yada Yada im just trying not to get hurt or worse at this point and I pray Your perfect will God in Jesus name, and for Nicole, Brittany, Hope, Shelley and every child of God amen and shalom peace and for all leaders and this ministry in Ur name amen
@7offman
@7offman 2 ай бұрын
The top video on the suggestion section is about "why men shouldn't presue women"
@user-ho9ry6sq3s
@user-ho9ry6sq3s 8 ай бұрын
Nice look at dating. But what do you think, for example, of Isaac, Joseph, Boaz? Under no circumstances are these people chasing. But the woman was brought to the man. Jacob and David, for example, did pursue the woman. I think it is very important to hear God's voice in it. And especially his anointing on both the man and the woman. He can create so many unexpected wonderful encounters.
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