Jacque Fresco - Conflict Resolution - Nov. 13, 2010

A portion of Jacque Fresco's lecture with suggestions to diminish argument and conflict between people. From forthcoming Jacque Fresco Lectures 2010-2011 DVD's, Series 3.
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[@Quantumtalesxx]

These little things Jacque say are the things that have huge impact on how i want to live my life.

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

@moety2 i think its a process level that jacque gives; some suggestions and examples may only apply in certain situations. Like the "application of relativity" is what's important, and to what degree your nervous system can take on a lot of antagonism that can arise when you challenge someone's set.. I always try to remind myself everyone's right where they're coming from -which can help lessen argument.

[@Sin526]

Fresco-san is my unofficial sensei, I intend to carry his ideas forward and develop them further with my own mind and experiences as best I can. That is my life goal.

[@VINTIJ]

I hope you didn't give up on this noble goal. I've been thinking the same. Maybe we can work together...

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

@feefuup OK i will try today, thanks for reminder

[@BrentNally]

Great video! Thanks for uploading!

[@JoJo86ck]

Thanks to technology for keeping Jacque Fresco's visdom alive. I'm new to his philosphy but can say that it speeks louder then words to me. It's sad that there isn't enough people who understand and support his vision, or maybe not yet...

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

Thanks for sharing. The faqs provide a lot of information about The Venus Project as well 🙂 www.thevenusproject.com/faqs/ (Peter Tvp Volunteer)

[@paddyjock1972]

This is good practical advice ☺️👍👍

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

Thanks, like share and subscribe 🙂 (Peter tvp volunteer)

[@lukeabout]

Fantastic! This was a REALLY good video! Thank you for posting this important work!

[@singleplayermoments]

I have to remember some of this advice to tell the kids at school tommorrow. Thanks!

[@vermario5083]

this is exactly what my dad did to me all my life. i was and am really annoyed by it but i couldnt pin point what was going on. now i see. mr fresco thanks always.

[@offside5742]

what exactly did he do?

[@7jerryv7]

This is extremely good advice. Values that exist at one point in time are a function of a person's life experience. Values in adults take decades to formulate. One conversation will rarely change a person's mind even if their values are wrong and self-destructive. We should model values and not tell people that their values are incorrect.

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

@magepower3 i will try to post an audio Q&A with jac's response to yours and other questions, check the twitter "frescotweets" the next few days.

[@Wise101]

Behave sincerely and act like you are listening (or if you can get away with it: simply ignore them), but then go do whatever you want to do. I have the same problem and this works well for me.

[@dschnell]

I'm looking forward to Lecture Series 3 this lecture is exactly what I've been seeking for a while now. Thank you for the wonderful series!

[@TheMuskokaman]

Good old Jacque! He reminds of another older man I know same age too! The resemblance even in appearance and speech is uncanny! Great wisdom thanks for sharing!

[@countyingula]

I am enjoying this.

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

Great, there is a lot more free content available on the channel and website 👍🏼 (Peter tvp volunteer)

[@offside5742]

too

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

@greenwatermelon it depends on too many things; what are the conditions, how is the relationship, your needs, their needs....etc?

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

@LiamSwordsz did you get the reply that roxanne sent you, we did get jacque to speak on voice recorder for you, let us know if you didn't get that, thx

[@DahSlayah]

I'd love to see more lectures

[@moety2]

@JollSSteR That would be the ideal, optimistic response from a person with an open mind.

[@CatalinPopescuyy67328217ruyd]

@thevenusprojectmedia Thank you :)

[@Amniamnyz]

Thank you Jacque.

[@TheVenusProjectGlobal]

check the FAQ on tvp website

[@erasmusso]

@orikzzz 11 minutes are not enough to explain everything about conflicts. I'm studying management at university and I had a 30 hour course on conflict management, so if you want to know more about this topic I suggest you and anyone else who's interested in it to take a course or read a book. Since I finished this course I haven't been fighting (in the sense of arguing, not with fists) with others any more :)

[@SerpaJavier]

My advice to Jacque Fresco it's to stop using "Do you know what i mean?" as a punch line beacause infers ignorance in the other and arrogance and contemp from him. Everythiing else is educational and inspirer.

[@LiamSwordsz]

I need to speak to you guys. SOON!!!! I have a transition plan that WILL/ HAS to work. You've got it ass backwards at the moment it seems. Thanks for the upload Joel, hope you're all doing well.

[@6XstringXsamurai]

a lot of what he's saying reminds me of "Feel, Felt, Found" It's a sales technique used to overcome objections without using them as part of the statement so they can't get offended. it goes like this: "I understand you FEEL about that. Many others have FELT the same way, but after they tried our product they FOUND that...." It's clever stuff and it does work. I use it on my wife and kids all the time haha.

[@SuperMctank]

2 people did not understand this video

[@Arthurboy777]

I was very wrong in my way of talking to people. thank you

[@lurkern]

keep putting them up, this is awesome and so very helpful :)

[@erasmusso]

I'm reading a very interesting book: "Emotions Revealed" by Paul Ekman, it explains how, why, what happens and what to do when you or someone else feels a specific emotion, especially anger. If you ask me, they should teach this stuff at school.

[@blackpanther6389]

This is a good vid and somethin I need to work on heavily. Because I've been that antagonist that Jacque was talking about. The problem is, if all people want to do is engage in a "verbal pasttime" as he put it, then I'm not interested in talking and from the trends that I see today. People are wholly blind how do you introduce new things to the majority of the people? Also subtitles please lol?

[@singleplayermoments]

I wander if this would be appropriate to show the kids at school.

[@feefuup]

Plese if you can put the CC translation in the videos, like before, it would be really helpful .. i don't know inglish that well (im from argentina).. and only listening I lose a lot of things.. I would greatly appreciate, thanks

[@CatalinPopescuyy67328217ruyd]

I have a question for Jacque related to this video: what do you do to escape conflict when the people you live with try to teach you something you know better than them and they won'l leave you alone or listen to reason?How do you escape it when you tell them and prove to them that you know your stuff better then they do and they still insist that their way is better.Because the only resolve I found was to ignore them but I'm still angry and frustrated inside and want to kick their ass..

[@lllCockroachlll]

This is probably off-topic, but I wonder what would you do with people with mental diseases, which would pose a threat to other people if not untreated or left alone. Some of them, if too dangerous, need force to take them to the respective psychiatric clinic. This would be a situation in which communication or conflict resolution couldn't be applied. Unless I'm wrong.

[@LiamSwordsz]

@thevenusprojectmedia was that sent by email? Or...

[@razalin]

Could someone from The Venus Project, please give me some info if there is a Global Activism Team for New Zealand? I've e-mailed you's about it, a few weeks ago but still no reply. Thanks.

[@orikzzz]

@RebelManCam really i didnt get what u said:D but i understood that it would be nice to advice the video:)

[@Anonymous247n]

I am in a conflict with my brother because i think his current girlfriend will only bring him sadness in the long run - he doesn't believe it, inexperienced as he is. The whole family and his friends have to pay the cost of this relationship. Maybe he even knows it won't work out but continues to stay in this relationship, and we all need to pay the price of it. What could we do to resolve this conflict? I know it's insignificant but personal relationships are a great source of conflicts.

[@greenwatermelon]

what if other people want to give unwanted advice to me, say my parents (I'm in my 20s), what should I do??

[@thegreatdandino118]

This is why next time I join a gym I'm gonna pretend I don't speak English.

[@keshamo8717]

If you are interested in being challenged to create your own examples based on the lessons he has given, I will be hosting a Zoom meeting on these subjects in approximately 10 minutes.

[@moety2]

I think Jacque is correct but if the people never ask, "what do you think about my values", how are you suppose to introduce them into something that is better. I mean there has to be a time where you have to introduce them to something else. It's like letting a person think 2+2=5 because they never asked you what do you think about my math. You don't just let them be do you? Maybe it would be better to learn theirs then share yours instead of just letting them be.

[@violentpimple]

i would love to know what is Jacque Fresco diet. People his age usually dont speak and think clearly as him. So far every person in my family thats above the age of 65 seem to be losing it :(

[@johnyboy6405]

@thevenusprojectmedia i'm sorry, where is the "frescotweets". Thanks.

[@Beef1188]

Hehe Fresco is 70 years older than me and he looks healthier than me!

[@orikzzz]

I want to advice this video to some people... What do you think?

[@jackbauer348]

We should start reading the books that Jacque recommended us: Tyranny of words, Mind in the making, Science and Sanity, Manhood of Humanity, etc. I read 8 chapters from Science and Sanity, but the problem is that it is very difficult to understand what Alfred Korzybski said in that book.

[@kabbo0]

please translate the video, a greeting.

[@BreKrach1]

i think jaquce looks healthier in this video

[@PinkProgram]

@azraelthegreat02 all food is organic... if it wasn't you wouldn't be able to digest it ^_^

[@FrostyDelights]

Enlightening and insightful ツ Thank you

[@TheRealJohnRamos3]

@violentpimple Well I know he advocates organic foods so there is a start. ;p

[@screenflicker1]

I don't think he's the best in avoiding conflicts himself

[@creyag981]

What made you arrive at that conclusion?

[@КонстантинСамочернов]

It is possible I am wrong but I think people like that do such things in certain motives.When they teach you smth they don't wanna help you, they want false superior feeling on you. This is kind of pleasure for them. Often it is connected to their psycological problems. I guess the best way to do is to tell them w is really going on. Unemotional and solid. I hope this can help to your situation This guy describe very clearly "/watch?v=nKNyFSLJy6o I think my skype: minidollar_ P.S. sry 4 bad Eng

[@Hyunckel]

AI

[@SpiritLadyArtist]

There should be training drills to practice this and not the Scientology one's that do try to teach this but can fail.