Tone of Voice Impacts on Children

How Tone of Voice Impacts children in negative and positive ways. In this video I show you a role play of nice tone vs harsh tone of voice and why it is important top change our tones to mold behavior.
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[@foreverlove425]

Your amazing jady A.. Keep it going..your changing lives every day..and that is a blessing..

[@hephzibahlincy2506]

Thank you so much sister Jady. I have learnt a lot from you.. God bless you Lincy, from India

[@favourikonoma2500]

Thank you so much Jady for this video. I am the type that uses harsh tone of voice thank for putting up this video am really learning a lot from you . Shalom

[@ellehayes5939]

Such a timely video, especially with all the fear and stress society as the world seems to be going made! Thank you as always❤

[@lynettemiranda2345]

Can't wait for those great nuggets Jady A! Thank you again for your tremendous support for us parents to thrive in these challenging times!

[@KlassyKris]

Needed this. I’m sad that I lose my temper at times. Will pray on this and work on being better. My kids deserve it 💙

[@earthtosabs7950]

Thank you for this video! I needed it - I need to use my sweet voice more. Also, I love the quote "Treat others the way you want to be treated". 👍🏼

[@paige-95]

We all get there. I’m guilty of it sometimes too.

[@sherriwilcox6916]

Ditto. I’m praying and working on it as well. 🙏🏼

[@ambreenmahmoodkhan6570]

I loose my temper with my kids. They are so naughty and I get tired dealing with them alone.

[@RadiantInHim]

Same

[@dianaangue5537]

Thank you jady, I knew my tone of voice was harsh but actually seeing it gives it a new meaning. Today I break the harsh tone from me in the name of Jesus I declare I'm free and use the sweet tone I desperately want to use 🙏.

[@GardenMinistry.]

Amen! Looking at all the comments it's clear to see this is a struggle for us all. Everyday we need to resolve to be kinder with the help of the Lord, and we will! 🙏🏽❤️

[@Hyasbountifulgarden]

I have the same problem too i laughed with the intro because that was me teaching my child and i hate myself afterward, so hard for me to have a sweet tone all the time gets frustrating but i never give up praying hopefully someday i can fight this battle to myself..

[@Yeshuaislife-v9k]

It's so weird, I just finished maths with my daughter and I stressed her with my voice today. And this came..., God is definitely talking to me. I BETTER CHANGE

[@dorothyshelton]

Thank you for this eye opening video. While watching the first scenario, I saw a lot of myself in it. I home school my kids and I must admit I use a strong tone sometimes. This video has helped me to be more mindful about my tone of voice and also the reinforcements I use. Thank you for being a light

[@T2018-r4e]

This has been on my heart lately because The Lord has shown me that I'm harsh in my tone towards my children. I have tears in my eyes because this has been me, and I'm so saddened but thankful that The Lord is showing me his grace and I have to make sure I extend it to my children. Thank you for this very timely reminder! You are such an encouragement Jady!

[@diving.deep.]

I feel the same way 🥺 We got this ! Let’s not forget that , they’re learning at their own pace , but so are we .

[@tajveerkudhail4360]

Omg! The harsh scenario shown in this video totally depicts me with my kids, by everything i meant even the dialogues, the gestures,the tone, everything! Plead guilty 🤚. I always triec to keep my calm and work on myself but ended up repeating the same mistake over again. However, I will now practice to be consistent. I just love Jady's level of patience and understanding ❤ and i wish i will be like u someday. Hats off to a mother like u. Thanx for this video ❤

[@noorazeem408]

Same here sister... I always promise myself but end up being rude again :(

[@tajveerkudhail4360]

@eterno femenino thank u for the supplement tip. I feel much better now as I know Im trying my best and Im actually improving day by day. U said it right that patience comes with practice and i must say a lottttt of practice..

[@katianahilaire4818]

Thank you for this video! I realize my tone of voice is reflecting how my toddler is acting at home and at school. This is a wake up call for me to change and be a better example for my kids!

[@imelda4jesus]

Thank you my sister God richly bless you. ALMIGHTY JEHOVA has used you to transform my otherwise very impatient and bad tone while teaching my son. God bless you forever

[@bubusboulevardtv]

Everything you said here is 💯. Thank you for this reminder. Stress, the fear of them being defiant and our screens cause these harsh tones as you’ve pointed out. We hope to catch ourselves when we drift off the gentle tone. Thanks Jady.❤️

[@jaammdKKblogers]

Yeah it is

[@jedsonjadiel]

Jady, I can not thank you enough! I struggle with this everyday, and I have been praying about it. Your channel changed my life! I have been a subscriber of you channel for 5 years, and this channel is so much more than educational content … but about a life style!

[@tazarookm1118]

I just cried . I said this yesterday and was so harsh. Thank you for opening my eyes .

[@tianalo6512]

You posted this at the perfect time 🙌🏾 This is something I’ve been working on for weeks. My parents always had the harsh tone at all times and when I started homeschooling this year I noticed if I got frustrated I would do the same. I started consciously stopping myself and looking inside myself to look at the root of this trigger and learning to stop reacting that way. God is good and is giving me the patience more and more everyday to be a fully gentle parent. You’re awesome!

[@PinkyAnn44]

I needed to see this! I’m about to wake my children for the day now. Thank you 😊

[@p3teytran]

Oh man this is my biggest issue. Thank you for sharing

[@JSCDR]

Thank you Lord for conviction. Thank you Jady. I needed to see this reminder.

[@aheartysliceofmommylife4949]

You are so so right. I’m embarrassed that I have raised my voice so much. Thank you for all your videos.

[@HomemakerOnAnAcre]

Jady this made me tear up. I have followed you for a long time and love how you challenge me to do the Hard things,well! Thank you.

[@memyselfmariah35]

This really spoke to me. I have been praying recently for help in being slower to anger and for help in raising my children so they know they are loved ❤️ this video came at the perfect time. I have been so much more conscious of my tone with my son thank you for these videos

[@fawazkhan7475]

Very true ! Such an amazing video...though most of us know this but putting it into practice is so much important. Thanks for the beautiful reminder.

[@nanos7395]

Couldn’t agree more with you! I actually ended up crying after seeing what a difference it makes. I will for sure be implementing your advice from now on. Thank you so much!!

[@nokwazindzimandze2732]

I agree 100% with Jady. Thank you for this awakening. Before I started homeschooling in 2019, I was blessed to attend a workshop for homeschooling Moms in my area. What an eye opening. One of the Speakers, said - do not start homeschooling if your have unbalanced emotions and cannot control your temper. She said even if you can, on days when you are not well emotionally, rather not homeschool that day.

[@iliganoasmith5879]

Wow, I’m the hard person, I’m hard on my grandkids! Thank you for this roll play cause I didn’t see myself this way! Thank you soo much for open my eyes! God Bless you! 🙏🏼🕊️

[@aprilh5186]

Jady, this video was eye opening. I have said every single thing you did in scenario #1. I was raised by a "yeller" and so I am very aware of keeping my composure enough to not yell. By watching this video I now see that speaking in a harsh tone can do just as much damage as yelling. Thank you so much for bringing this to light and I am now trying to keep both yelling and speaking in a harsh tone out of my parenting.

[@23leoncita]

Thank you for this video, watching this video made me realize that Im doing something bad and that every day you can learn something new and as parents the learning never ends❤️

[@simplyfunctional6451]

Thank you for encouraging and sharing wisdom for other mommas! I was raised in a home that used harsh town disappoint and would shame you for making mistakes. I knew I wanted to be better but for lack of knowledge of what was better I would fall into the same style of parenting as I was raised it. Many thanks to you for opening my eyes to general parenting based off of a good foundation on relationship! I’m so grateful for your beautiful spirit!

[@arbee8245]

This couldn't have come at a better time. I am guilty of the first example and I know it is because of how I was raised. Since I've recently acknowledged it, I want to work hard before it becomes habitual. Thank you for creating this video. I'll be sure to share it with other parents.

[@Hyasbountifulgarden]

Thank you for this video. I want to remind this myself, the relationship is more important over the result. Thank you Jady!

[@hadia23384]

I'm the harsh voice majority of the time. please share more of this content. I honestly struggle with this. Do you have any parenting book recommendations that I could read to help me as well?

[@isaactogola7620]

@Jameela HD here some great books that you can consider. They have been written by doctors/PhDs and researchers in the fields 1) The Whole-Brain Child 2) No-Drama Discipline 3) Predictive Parenting (what to say when you talk to your kids) 4) Helping Children succeed by Paul Tough 5) The school years (the emotional and social development of children) by Dr. Spock 6) How children succeed (Grit, curiosity and the hidden power of character) by Paul Tough 7) The Montessori Toddler (A parent's guide to raising a curious and responsible human being)

[@Mahagony1985]

Thank you for being honest I too have this struggle and I don't want to be like that, I have to be better for myself and my family.

[@lighteninggazelle816]

I love that we can all be honest with each other 😭😭 this is such a wonderful group of ladies I love you all so much. (I’m sure lots of men on here too, you as well!!) it takes a village you guys ❤️❤️❤️

[@hadia23384]

@@isaactogola7620 Thank you for the recommendations.

[@hadia23384]

@@Mahagony1985 I find that I resemble a lot of the parenting styles I received when I was a child. And now struggle to control my bursts of anger. I believe self care is also important and getting enough sleep. We can definitely do this with lots of practice and break that parenting cycle.

[@lisaglesil8672]

This is such a good video! I think as busy moms, we sometimes forget about the importance of our voices to our kids. Thanks, Jady, for reminding us.

[@dowhatyoulove3216]

This is totally true. Whenever i see parents shouting and screaming at their kids, these are the kids that dont listen to anything.

[@elisez478]

Thank you for this reminder. I always try to remember how I used to feel as a child so I don’t make the same mistakes my parents made when raising me. I try to use the sweet low voice all the time, but sometimes I catch myself using the harsh tone. When this happens I apologize to my child and explain that I’m not frustrated with her. It’s good to get these reminders though. We wouldn’t talk to a friend, neighbor, or coworker in harsh tones, so why would we talk to a child like this. It’s never acceptable to be mean to a child. We have to guide and love and be the unfailing support our children need to thrive. Thanks Jady 💜

[@SassyLadyG2G]

Thank you!!!! I’m going to start practicing these techniques immediately. God bless you and your family💞

[@stayatthefeetofjesus2456]

Right on Jady!! Thank you ❤️ the truth will set us free.👌

[@louwrenciaspinola1776]

I'm literally in tears right now, upset with myself that I sound harsh with my 3 year old ( mainly meal times and home school times) Thank you so much that you showed an image of looking from the OUTSIDE IN. This video will change my life forever!! Thanks once again with all your previous videos and your teaching materials. You are the reason that my 3 year old reads level 4 books and knows everything from your folders.

[@tanroj3252]

I'm a mother of a three year old. And guilty as charge.. neve comment but see your three year old is reading!!! Grat Job mom! That must be acknowledged

[@louwrenciaspinola1776]

@@tanroj3252 thank you, it’s been with great perseverance. Not been easy but finally we have achieved that level.

[@tanroj3252]

That's amazing great knowledgeable parent in my eyes I would say And would take any tips😉

[@learningpeace9788]

Yes! Thank you for this! This also translates into how they speak to themselves throughout life, as they grow up as well!

[@morganleroyer2251]

Thank you so much for this today! I found myself becoming the harsh mom, who always had a hard voice. I had allowed the stress of life to mold me as a mother and forgot how much I loved and valued the relationship with my children. For the past little over a month I have been trying to get back to being the gentle sweet mom. So today I found myself giving in to the stress for just a moment, then while I was making dinner I turned on your video, and was reminded why I am trying to break this habit of harshness and remain in the lord's peace and show that through my tone of voice.

[@ericcawith2cs11]

Honestly watching the first scenario, I was very convicted. I need to work on this. Thank you for listening to the Lord and being a light. Your girls did wonderful helping you to share your message.

[@sizzling3460]

u really have well mannered kids , Please make a video of all the manners rules or how to get kids listen to Parents

[@evitaevita98]

The harsh tone parent was my mom spot on and even worse at times. Sadly, I also saw myself in the video as well. I want to change because it definitely hurt my relationship with my mom who I lost over five years ago. Lord help us to change for the better!

[@marita3536]

I was very sweet with my daughter when she vas s child , today she s studying at Nova University Florida , thank God for my patient each night after school 😅 each day , each moment , our children deserve our love and dedication , not is easy bu we can do it !

[@mirandas6505]

I just can’t thank you enough for posting this at the right time. I’m just sitting here crying because I definitely use a harsh voice at times when I’m super stressed. It’s so hard being a stay home mommy but I’m definitely going to take your advice. Thanks again! Love all your videos. 🥰

[@lynettemiranda2345]

I agree 👍💯! You're not alone, we're here to support other mom like us and thanks to Jady A to keep reminding us to apply the LAWS and PRINCIPLES that governs our behaviors to treat others like the way we wanted to be treated 💕. You Got This!!! Wish you all the best in your journey in the world of parenting. It also strengthen your faith and unleash unlimited possibilities in yourself and your children ❣️

[@lynettemiranda2345]

I'm both! I'm working on that Jady A! You're a Phenomenal woman 👠 who has great values and Godly principles that you applied and demonstrate every day for yourself and your family! You have beautiful and wonderful children which such great values instilled in them by your wonderful Grace. Thank you for inspiring us and to applied these LAWS and PRINCIPLES in our daily lives to create a healthy world 🌎. Love you and your work and your beautiful family 💖💖. You guys stay safe 🙏

[@chifundokandani9795]

Thank you for the reminder to be more of a gentle parent. Your page is a blessing for many of us parents. God bless you and your family x

[@nn5410]

You are a gift, Jady, thank you. I'm the sweet-toned mom who can be harsh sometimes. My eldest is now 16 and has always been a challenging child. I have noticed that my frustration and stress regarding him will sometimes transfer unintentionally to my younger children. I've been working on being more mindful of my tone with everyone and this is such a great reminder and at a very needed time.

[@dinanova81]

Gosh, this was so helpful Jade! Husband and I struggle with our kids and lose our patience. And yes, our wicked devices get in the way! We’re going to work on this together by praying and asking the Holy Spirit for guidance and strength to do better. Thank you so much. God bless you and your family!

[@agee0508]

This is heartbreaking and eye opening. I see myself in the harsh tone. Even my kids said that sounds like me

[@mae8859]

My voice is harsh definitely a wake up call i am constantly stressed. I don’t know how to change it’s become a habit. It’s crazy I feel like this video was made specifically for me.Thank you for this.

[@jessicae1492]

Thank you for this video. This is my greatest struggle that I’ve faced that I have not been able to conquer yet. Thankfully I’ve had great improvement but when stressed or tired it comes out. Today has been that day and this video popped up on my feed at the perfect time. Thank you. I’ve seen my oldest talk to her toddler sisters in a hateful manner lately and it’s shame I feel when I realize that must be me reflecting in her. I appreciate the other moms commenting their struggle. In helps me to not feel so alone and ashamed.

[@denniard777]

You don't have idea how I appreciate this video! I'm currently struggling with yhis because I tend to be like that and I really don't want to break my relationship with my children while I am homeschooling them. God bless you!

[@theguerrerofamily9699]

I love your channel and you at this moment. Your channel has shown me a level of motherhood I never witnessed. It helps greatly.

[@kiarataylor8380]

Wow thank you so much for this video. This is something that I'm constantly praying about. I'm excited about the boundaries series too! I joined the bloom sisters earlier this week 😊

[@arlenemolina5711]

Just wanna say thank you for this video. I just started homeschooling two weeks ago and it can be stressful sometimes. I've caught myself being the harsh toned mom several times. Seeing it from the outside, in this video, has really put things in perspective once again. Thank you very much. May God keep blessing you with lots of wisdom 🙏🏼

[@hellenyilma7479]

Jady you are the best. I wish all parents all over the world saw this video. May God bless you!

[@ellesmith2551]

I started a project center in relationships and the information provided here is totally aligned with my findings. And just a little spill to help those who have difficulties in maintaining composure, when you speak or address your child think about the way you would speak to your boss. The only difference in this situation is the foundation between you and your kids is based I love, and between you and your boss is your fear of losing your job. Always remember lot of horrible things are done with good intentions and in the name of love. Let's raise our consciousness and be the best version of ourselves when dealing with other human being.

[@GardenMinistry.]

Jady when you said "treat your children the way you'd want to be treated if you were sitting in that chair," that was so eye opening! It's so easy to let ourselves get frustrated when we homeschool, but it's not worth the harshness, which will undoubtedly scar them, and tarnish the relationship.

[@mistlazum]

A lot of truth! Thank you so much for the reminder and awareness 🥰 in my case it’s the stress… I have a new born and I noticed that I’ve been more stressed lately. Intentionality is crucial. Thank you again! Bendiciones :)

[@indiesuperneogenesis]

This was so necessary for me, I remembered my upbringing and how my parents shouted at me when I didn't understand or grasp information. I realize now that they did not have the tools but I now do and can empower myself to be better and to guide my child with a gentle loving hand. Thank you!!

[@ariadnalopez6428]

Oh gosh I love you! Thank you so much for sharing this video. I think you just changed my life!!!!! You really have a way to speak and teach.

[@goldiemontesano7237]

Thank you for another outstanding message Jade. I really appreciate the way you address the health benefits

[@tblanks2012]

This has changed my life for the better! Although I do not have my own children yet, I have many nieces and nephews that I can practice these important habits on while also teaching them thank you so much!

[@magen2271]

Thank you for this reminder. We now have a 4 week old baby girl added to our family. With the lack of sleep and as adjustment for us all I have sadly fallen into the snappy and mean voice with our six year old. Before this it was her and I and I have been blessed to be home with the her all these years. Our bond was amazing. This has taken a hit to our relationship and her behavior and she is definitely a mirror of my off behavior. I watched this video this morning and have been kind and gentle voiced for the day. Thank you Jady. It has created the best environment for my daughter, myself, my husband and our new baby girl. Thank you for bringing this to my attention.

[@ilariandre_]

I needed this video. I use a calm and soft tone of voice most of the time. But when I get frustrated/ill/tired I definitely lose my patience and I use a harsh approach..

[@RNpolanco]

I Soooo NEEDED this thank you so much sometimes we see others doing it but don’t realize that we ourselves do that too. This was so helpful to me and many of my family member. God bless you and keep doing what you are doing.

[@tomochinatokyo]

Amen! More blessings my dear sister!

[@yaadstylehomeschooling]

Thank you so much for this video. The relationship is more important than the results! Starting a new journey.

[@pravikoma2026]

Hi Jady, every single word you said is so true. I used harsh tone on my 4 year boy most of the times. After watched your this video i promised my self ill be change my self from today onwards. Thank you soo much!! your videos helped me to teach my kid at home.

[@sukirtishelley3966]

I am so sad tonight. In the stress and pull of the daily life I didn’t even realise how mean I was being to my daughter until I saw your video. Thank you for holding a mirror. I really need to work on this.

[@ONEBLESSEDHOME]

This video was God sent! Thank you

[@Teriandjacobworld]

You are the only Creator on KZbin that helps me with my son, he's having a lot of problems with spelling and sounding out letters, I'll be honest I actually forgot myself 🙆 The school is on me like flies on garbage. He's in first grade but last year was pretty easy, this year forget it and he's going to be eight in June, I think the school is going to hold him back 😢

[@cfmajid]

I found you a few years ago and have been following you. I think you are amazing apsaloutly my favourite person on the internet right now. Much love to you and family 💜

[@otherworldlyseeker9570]

I know my voice comes off harsh…. I hate it but I recognize it want to stop. I feel like I need more help. I guess I need to submerge myself in hearing what a healthy tone sounds like

[@mamajo5867]

Thank you so much for this wonderful lesson and reminder. You said it all in a very easy to understand way. I’m now trying to get out of the phone addiction related overwhelm. I realize now that I’ve been using my phone as an excuse to “avoid the kids stressing me out” but I’m really just being lazy with my own parenting and wanting to get easy dopamine hits from social media than from the progress of working patiently with my children. Realizing this makes me realize I have some character flaws and it’s really left me grossed out with my own behavior because I call out other parents when they are being selfish or lazy when I still do that myself. It’s only caused me and the kids stress. So I’m logging off for today, thank you 🙏

[@ceraroper4800]

Wow! This was so good! Thank you for your positive encouragement, truly! Truth is hard to speak but you speak it well in love to others on your channel with tough topics. Thank you, I am always encouraged that I can change my home's environment and that it is never too late. The role-playing was a great addition. It really helps to shed light on what we don't see in our stressful moments. The girls did well! Please thank them for being apart of the role play.

[@JadyA]

Thank you so much!

[@brittanyalexandrea8114]

I really needed this. It really breaks my heart knowing that I do this. I remember my mom was this way with me and we’ve had a difficult relationship. My number one goal for this upcoming year is changing my tone, practicing more patience and making school more light hearted and fun for them. ❤️

[@Camperlauren]

I waited to watch this bc I know you would be talking about me. I've been using a harsh voice recently bc I've been so upset for things that have nothing to do with my child. My husband and I will be working on this. Thanks for bringing this to light!

[@TheHomeschoolClassroom]

This is a big one 😢 I am trying to break this mindset Thankyou for saying “ the journey is more important than the destination “ 🙌🏾💕🥰

[@roxannemcintosh9481]

I am so ashamed to say I was the harsh voice because I am changing how I talk to my kids, and the results is amazing . I used to feel like my heart would stop while taking to them,so I can really relate to this video. Thank you so very much for all your help. May the Lord continue to guide and protect you and your family . I am growing not there yet , but through God's grace, I will. Whenever I feel like my old self wants to take over, I remember your videos and talk to myself to just remain calm before responding.

[@GabyApple1]

This was a Word in due season for me! What a timely reminder, during a very frustrating time. It has made a great difference today, thank you soo much!

[@JenRiveraBell]

Wonderful video as always! Thank you so much for this incredible reminder. We all need to reset sometimes and get back to base.

[@galukya1]

Yes I loved this video, well received, I needed to hear and see this, God knows how to lead you to where you need to be I have been already making some clear positive changes on how I interact with my two amazing grandchildren I am raising, this is like the icing on the cake, will do and continue to do, and thank you. Hopefully that wasn't too much of a run on statement 🤣. I look forward to more of your installments. 🌟🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😭 (happy tears) 🤲🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽⚘. I had to come back in to say I think this is the best thing I've used my time to watch today 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤗🤗😘😘. You are amazing I want to be just like you when I grow up😊⚘

[@asinatetuibau3855]

😭😭Thank you. I'm guilty of the harsh tones. Thank you for enlightening me in your video on how to be a better Mother and Tutor. I really appreciate your videos and your shared experiences.

[@itohanstephen]

Thank you so much for this video Jady. This really opened my eyes. I usually speak with soft voice, but sometimes when I'm overwhelmed I use harsh tones. God help me to be more intentional. I love the message you ended the video with. "Treat people the way you would like to be treated". God bless you and your beautiful family in Jesus name. Amen! You are a wise woman

[@jenono]

This is extremely spot on 📍 an extremely accurate tip for marriage as well ❤️ thank you for eloquently expressing this 🙏🏽 my mother had a harsh voice and I feel the effects of it now in our relationship. I see it in my own relationship with my husband as well which I am trying to break as well. This was great thank you ☺️

[@regieleki7160]

Thank you so much and God bless your large heart for sharing.

[@IamKelly-anne]

Aw so good, thank you, I loved your video, everything you said was gold, I hope to live by these values as my little girl grows up!

[@melisamurray7379]

All I can say is THANK YOU!!!! I needed to hear this! ❤️

[@sisraye]

Never choose results over relationship. I love that. Very helpful powerful video once again ms jade thank you for this. I want to get there so bad that gentle soft sweet tone.

[@tsan.6208]

Omgoodness thank you Jady; I needed this!

[@specialmomclub2627]

Wow Jady you are amazing. Definitely an eye opener I love this

[@yakelindaniel9809]

You are so amazing! This world needs more people like you ❣ I am so happy you posted this video! Thank you so much for your videos

[@shrutisingh927]

You have got answers for all my questions. Thank you for reminding me the phrase - Treat kids the way you want to be treated. I also mostly talk in a soft voice but people tell me that talking softly all the time will make kids mentally weak. Also they would short saying that see our kids..we scold and beat them but they are still so cool..they don't cry for small things!

[@sonniloomis9464]

Thank you for this video, I am definitely the in between parent. When you did the first example I cried because I seen my reflection so clearly. This was eye opening. I will be watching this video every morning before school as a reminder.

[@hannawatts8368]

Definitely felt conviction. Needed that reminder.

[@gmiros2001]

Thank you sooo much for this video! I have so much to work on and I will always remind myself to treat my kids the way I would like to be treated. I always tell my kids this on treating others or to put themselves on other people's shoes but then here I am losing it with them and "tend" to forget to do so with them 🥺....great reminder. I will definitely work on this. Again, thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤❤❤

[@rikkib7636]

Thank you for the reminder and for sharing about your grandfather. I am more so patient but I do have my moments. God is definitely working patience in me. You inspire me to want to be better.

[@puspitapaul4914]

This video is very very relevant to me. My son who is 4.5 years old is overly active and doesn't listen to me for most of the time. He is gradually becoming more arrogant with everyone in the house. However at the same time my behaviour to him is also not in sweet tone because I can't keep my patience when he doesn't want to listen to me. With the result of the harsh behaviour well presented in your video, I realise that I need to be more patient from now and behave properly with him. Thank you Jady.

[@JadyA]

let the consequences do the yelling.

[@ktafam695]

This is such a blessing. Thank you for this reminder🥰

[@joshuajosiah4630]

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