Dining Etiquette: how to master the basic table manners

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@trish8104]

This is really beautiful. I'm gonna practice this at McDonald's

[@Kachamorich21]

This cracked me up😂😂

[@andysilver9642]

Hahaha... try eating your burger with a fork and knife next time 😂😂

[@emillyhss4501]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@carmelladurand6532]

Screaming 😭😂😂😂😂

[@romaguarda8119]

Ha ha ha 🤣🤣🤣

[@momna0093]

Tomorrow is my exam but here I'm learning etiquettes of dining. Guys it's been an year since I commented this and today was also my exams but here I'm replying you guys.

[@amethystx5554]

holy shit same

[@deejhone5795]

this is me

[@fatimafarzam4861]

OMG same here😂😂😂

[@cs7364]

Me too 😂😂 wtf are we people!

[@momna0093]

@@cs7364 We are Pro level careless people. 😂😂✌

[@DonovanDaniels]

This is everything my grandparents wanted me to be 😂

[@florencesepisompo5483]

😂 😂 😂 I can imagine the pressure

[@TsarOfRuss]

😂😂😂😂 i was raised with normal table manners like "Close your mouth while chewing, and don't talk while chewing" When i moved out and started living with friends, i realised how POSH i was, we werent even remotely rich or close to being rich! my friends don't have any manners at all

[@matthines4748]

It’s funny how that works. My mom comes from an upper middle class - almost aristocratic - background, and I remember the table manners and general etiquette she constantly instilled in me. To this day, I hate eating anywhere but the table. But, its allowed me to be somewhat comfortable in fine dining situations, and in business lunches.

[@Red_Dusk]

Yoo🥴🥴

[@captainobvious8037]

A bag holder/chair.

[@KH-xi9td]

My mother was the queen on etiquette. It resonates with me as of today. Manners are very important. How one dresses tell a lot about that person. There's a time and a place for jeans. It should not be worn in an opera concert as I saw it in Florida (Bocelli's concert) Thanks. It was refreshing. I wish people would adhere to good manners or improve their manners.

[@NajLahsen]

Completely agree with you, dressing well and appropriate is a must (teachings of my mother also) I get so repelled when I go to a fine dining restaurant and see people looking like they're going to the park! Also was at the theater for a ballet performance and most ppl without any proper etiquette, behaving inappropriately and dressed like they were going to Walmart!

[@mariahmariah.]

I’m inspired.

[@handlenot030]

@@NajLahsen And that's why they're losing money. If you want people to appreciate the arts, care more about the art and not the audience.

[@ashadowintime7305]

​@@NajLahsen they were having fun and you were miserable judging people from your high horse. life is too short for these fancy rules, live in the moment and screw whatever people think of you.

[@timbrown7039]

@@handlenot030perfectly fine with losing the blue jean crowd 👌. Im sure theres a cardi B concert thats more suited for their taste in music”art”

[@LowkeyBone8]

she's different level of living. Can you do a video on Arguing etiquette, it'd be so aggressively polite.

[@NothingToSeeHere836]

Wait what, I know there's a 99% chance that you're joking but I would actually love to see that. The things I would do to argue like Elizabeth Bennett and Mr Darcy in that rain scene

[@LowkeyBone8]

@@NothingToSeeHere836 on the contrary Mimi, I wasn’t joking!

[@NothingToSeeHere836]

@@LowkeyBone8 Good to know. If you ever happen to find a tutorial on Arguing Etiquette, please do let me know!

[@anweshakonwar3956]

LoL 😂

[@laylay222slayah5]

Omg😂😭

[@saminathapaliya1111]

Finally ready to accept the queen's invitation.

[@Anonymoususer6541]

😂

[@s.shanmugam4693]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thatwinninggirl942]

Lol!

[@jemimanaik2774]

👍

[@Zxouf873]

The smartest reply

[@eliceiam_]

This comment section is the funniest section in for a while , you gotta love humans 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@alphaberryxo]

I totally agree. lmao

[@iamawesome196]

true

[@mk-ki4ls]

All the aliens are here

[@cherryblossom7442]

same XD it makes my day

[@Steban0001]

@@mk-ki4ls Not aliens omg lmfao

[@vyrithv]

I was eating with my grandparents and my grandma suddenly turns to me and whispers ”put the paper towel on your lap, you’re not a kid anymore”. After that experience I decided to research etiquette haha

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Grandmas know best ☺️

[@HarryPotter-gw6ee]

I'm going to practice with my dog. She is my guest of honor.

[@HelloMedicAnkit]

😂😂😂

[@riiamukhim4116]

🤣🤣🤣

[@user-ly4ut6xh7q]

Lol

[@angelfromheaven123]

Sad dog

[@r7maroma389]

She deserve it 😂😂♥

[@elizamartinez4184]

The napkin thing explains why people throw their napkin onto the table at the end of arguments in shows

[@FINDINGMYPASSION]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lovely-fc2wv]

that’s what i was thinking about😂😂😂

[@yena8439]

Yea it's like a mic drop

[@importantnazriya9136]

Hi

[@thewormloop6885]

Exactly what I was thinking about 😂

[@ashmitatamang]

Watching this because one day i believe i will be invited to a dinner in A BIIIGGGG CAASSSTLEEE . 😆😆

[@duarda8199]

Best comment lol

[@anonaka131]

It's not like I want to be princess or something

[@indepthana]

JUST IN CASE YOU KNOW

[@richauntie316]

That's faith baby,I also watch and learn for future reference because I don't wana embarrass myself

[@annnnxh]

@@anonaka131 totally 🙄

[@surija9925]

At times like this, I am thankful for my father for being a little more strict about our Dining Etiquette. Thank you for this helpful video.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@usmanifaizusmani]

I m failed to comment

[@christinawatkinsyoutube]

Perfect timing, I didn’t know what to do during lockdown 2. Now I know how to eat properly at my table alone in my room

[@JamilaMusayeva]

😊

[@swantiuppal8956]

🥴😛😂✌

[@shrutiagrawal7124]

She is so sweet. She doesn't even understand that people are roasting her.xD

[@RockstahRolln]

😂😆😂

[@wonholover1507]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

[@itisdidi]

watching this while laying down on my bed and eating a bag of chips

[@lunamall8332]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 hot Cheetos

[@JamilaMusayeva]

We are all human. I do that too 😊

[@danimari8478]

I'm laying down too :( now I want chips hahaha

[@KyleighFran]

I've got cookie dough hahaha

[@mariamadam-noor140]

Hhhh

[@QuickClips_69]

I followed this on my dinning table with my parents. With one slap I was back to normal.

[@mulandicecilia1532]

😂😂😂

[@Nobody-xb3kv]

😂

[@Nobody-xb3kv]

That cracked me up so bad

[@samtasiwach8800]

😂😂😂😂

[@AnkitaChauhan-sd5fk]

😂😂

[@eve_______]

The hardest part about this is expecting the establishment to be able to keep up with your manners, but realistically this will only be applicable in certain circles that already know quite well about all the etiquette and are expected to act accordingly.

[@handlenot030]

You're not acting appropriately if you expect an establishment to change its ways to accommodate pretention. There's a time and a place and that clearly wasn't it.

[@gmlviper]

Me: eating like a pig. YT: Here, learn peasant.

[@kamelbessaid2222]

lol

[@zzzgarage2704]

lmaoooooo

[@sorenaide1570]

ouch

[@fedora2489]

Lol 😂😂😂

[@chikafujiwara1495]

You got me dude 😂

[@Mikinoarisu]

She’s the definition of classy elegant woman and love her voice so much omg

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Anonymoususer6541]

@@JamilaMusayeva yes,ur voice is soo,sweet & elegant,it soothe my mind and soul too😊

[@aa666aa]

​Thank you @@JamilaMusayeva for educating people on proper manners. Also, you could have pointed out that in many places to signal the waiting staff with anything else than a look or nod is considered rude (you managed to make raising your finger look quite classy, tho).

[@shoyusufsiddiqov3329]

@@JamilaMusayeva Hi, aren't you Uzbek ?!

[@lostinreality3808]

@@shoyusufsiddiqov3329 she's azerbaijani

[@user-cd1ld2yw7s]

I'm obsessed... I mean, I don't do anything she's teaching but it's so interesting that people like this exist in the world.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@kumaryogesh5829]

@jamila i don't think he is complementing you.

[@stephlon6757]

@@kumaryogesh5829 🤣🤣

[@eluby]

I am sure that she is ... well, just a regular person, actually, who has knowledge of very niche type of information/skills. And those who are interested, will find her and learn what they need to, OR just be entertained by the content. 😊

[@maryamal-hassan1866]

This made me feel like i never wanna go out and eat food in public . Glade were in lockdown 😂😂

[@terrymasseyterry1520]

I have worked in fine dining for many years and have served very important people. All the things you teach are the same thing I taught other servers for years. You are doing an excellent job.

[@Shortvideostik]

I’m going to watch this everyday for it to get stuck in my head.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

☺️

[@girlhappy6442]

Me too haha 😂

[@sakshikamble4575]

I do it every month

[@princessaria5009]

@@JamilaMusayeva I have a question, when you started to be a lady? I am Aria and now I have 15 years old and my mother learn me how to be a lady, she herself is very elegant and stylish and she wants me to be like her and I want to be like her because I would like to be a lady. When I had 14 years old, she learned me how to eat in elegant way and how to behave. Now I have 15 years old and today she painted my nails. My nails are pink now and they are so beautiful. I love them. Tomorrow she will learn me how to walk in high heels and play piano and I can't wait. I would love to walk in high heels. Anyway thank you for your tips. Aria is my real name if you would like to know, my mother gave me name Aria because in her opinion Aria is wonderful and elegance name, I agree with her. Aria sounds beautiful and when you started to learn how to be a lady?

[@sirizihindula]

🤣

[@tate_0137]

Rules: 1. Don't slouch 2. Don't press your back to the chair 3. Don't place your elbows on the table when eating 4. Hold your hands on your laps 5. Don't place your bag on the floor Dining table: 1. Napkin on your lap, dap your lips. Place your napkin on the chair when you go to toilet/on the table when you leave the restaurant 2. Right- glass, left-butter knife 3. Champagne glass: hold the stamp, not touching the bottom 4. Wetwide glass: hold the stamp 5. Send a thank you messages/flowers

[@marielyortiz510]

Bless

[@lubrinoleticia]

💐thank you

[@spannajupiter]

2 depends on fallowing french or american french is wrists on table American in lap. English is also wrists

[@OZELLESDIRME-QANUN]

GOOD

[@eatopia_foodblog5163]

That’s Red wine & White Wine glass.

[@farhalmaqsood8369]

At this point, i don't even know if i'm breathing PROPERLY !!

[@exoscalmfan191]

most likely you’re not

[@jessig9970]

@@exoscalmfan191 🤣🤣🤣

[@maevelovesjack]

I know I’m not, I have some bellyaches because of that when I run

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

You are not. Now stand outside in the snow and think about what you've done, peasant.

[@liza7722]

😂😂😂

[@enchanting_elizabeth]

My parents never taught me this. I finally know the proper dinning etiquette

[@uyenduong2547]

Your voice sounds really elegant

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Uyên Dương thank you 🙏🏻

[@JamilaMusayeva]

@Bilal Al Rashid no, I am from Azerbaijan 🇦🇿

[@TsarOfRuss]

So relaxing! im about to watch her "Tea Etiquette" now.. just incase i've been drinking tea the wrong way all my life 😋

[@kaustubhsingh9023]

@@TsarOfRuss 🤣🤣

[@AnaMaria888]

Beautiful woman with nice voice,elegant 100%

[@marisol8332]

My first grade teacher taught us good table manners. We had to wait for everyone to be served before eating during class parties. We were in an under resourced school but everyone from her class learned good table manners and how to read proficiently. When I transferred schools the following year, my new teacher thought I came from a private school (her students were still sounding out words). Thank you Mrs. Castillo.

[@Im1BossyChick]

💖💕💖

[@mscorashairstudio455]

Love it😊❤

[@PeacePlease.]

I can just imagine how pleased Mrs. Castillo would be to read this. I pray she gets to see this, because it will make her heart sing. I remember doing what your Mrs. Castillo did many years ago with some of my kids at lunchtime. We often ate in class as a special treat when they got all their work done, & I would teach & check their table manners then. It's wonderful that you remembered - God Bless You, Marisol - ✌!!

[@cutie.woohoo_0x0]

I really love the idea of children learning manners in school ❤

[@matildaronzy2951]

That's interesting! I wish we'd have that kind of a teacher 😢

[@madhurima6206]

Imagine the pressure on her boyfriend on their date.

[@ananthim7358]

I cant even imagine 😂

[@S.sugar799]

*sweats profoundly *

[@toughsoftieyogi]

She would probably date someone who was raised with this type of etiquette.

[@mehnazrahman1016]

She is already married and have babies 😍

[@ranimdas1]

😂😂

[@cherryig2893]

I'm part of the younger generation, and I appreciate these videos so much! I've always been fascinated by etiquette that schools don't teach so being able to learn them is an absolute miracle to me

[@phylis3917]

Great if you meet the upper crust. Never know.

[@cherryig2893]

@@phylis3917 so true

[@KaminoanKomedy]

Yes!! Idk what it is about it, but I love etiquette! And after learning more about it and why it's used, I really wished that people would use it more

[@jiminsjam1074]

Step 1: get invited to a posh restaurant.

[@sakshi_mishra07]

😄lol

[@foddieepatola7214]

🤣

[@marcusaurelius5837]

Why not practice good etiquette at mcDo's?

[@medusa29897]

That portion of food. I'll need 8 portions to fill my tummy

[@sas-xn7bw]

I was just about to say that:v

[@hooby7045]

Can somebody tell me why this is being recommended, I haven't been to a restaurant in 10 months. And besides the only table manner I have right now is to not spill food on my bed while eating Edit: I was going to say thank you for all these likes, but I realized I made a funny statement, I deserve those likes, let me enjoy my self I've had a bad day today

[@isebi7592]

😀😀😀

[@ananthim7358]

Probably that comes under bed manners😂

[@danyf.1442]

Relatable😂

[@hooby7045]

@@ananthim7358 lol :)

[@hooby7045]

specifically "Ramen"

[@johnkoenig8739]

I take it that licking the plate when you’ve finished is out of the question?

[@arturbies]

There was a joke about some countess, which, to offend the guests, gave her plate to the dog for licking after the dinner, saying "this way, we save on washing up dishes before next meal".

[@85-subhadrapanda80]

Or licking ur fingers to appreciate the aftertaste

[@evettekelly3575]

🤣😂🤣

[@ttephi3667]

Burping too?

[@Poppy_pop]

😂 😂 😂

[@NEET-br1bl]

Thank you Jamila for making our lives beautiful by sharing these helpful etiquette lessons with us.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome

[@tasmin5596]

World's ending and KZbin be like.. "Relax, watch some table etiquette" 😂

[@icyglam1895]

Right? Lol

[@Martel4]

It is?

[@chirag9754]

XD

[@AkiRa22084]

"The varus" is really useful for programmers.

[@serahythera5826]

This funny though🤣I laughed like....wait😄

[@shrutimalabhagabati8123]

Me, an Indian, who eat with their hands and lick their fingers after finishing, watching this 🙂

[@ss059]

As an Indian, our food is finger licking good so I don't care I'll wipe out the entire plate😂

[@shrutisinha1384]

beautiful name u have ❤️

[@arikween9207]

@@shrutisinha1384 lol thats literally same as your name tho😂😂

[@ruchideole2925]

Shru Ti. I relate as an indian🤣🤣

[@gitmaze6630]

True. LOL, She said good etiquettes will make others feel at ease. I would be stressed rather than at ease

[@agbafaty4155]

oh my god when i see this , i realise that i 'm a monster when i start eating lol

[@JamilaMusayeva]

No, I am sure you are not. But there is always a path for improvement 😊

[@taranchase3347]

@@JamilaMusayeva to i

[@lynselfernandez8041]

Same😂😂

[@jotjot1565]

😂😂😂

[@camilafilosafia333]

😹😹😹

[@ZenzeraBellaAnna]

I’m so delighted that I learned these by taking an etiquette class in high school. It has served me so well in my profession. But I didn’t know about the thank you note to the host the next day. I quite like that idea. It’s very courteous and respectful. I’m going to try it. 🤗

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I am happy to hear that!

[@RocckeFella]

here I am eating 10 french fries at a time.

[@debolinasahaxii-a2roll-996]

Same

[@hayanpark5257]

Im eating nuggets

[@amythenook7994]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mafumafuisakitty3498]

I could relate to this on another level of relating👁👄👁

[@claravela3330]

That's good.

[@faryalsyed309]

watching just in case i am asked to become a princess who knows omg thank u for the likes

[@sevenkombuchas1244]

Lmao

[@arni81]

😄😄😄😄 this remind me of transmigration in Korean manhwas

[@ilomilo5301]

😂😂

[@michellewayne8331]

HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA

[@arohachanuwu9504]

@@arni81 OMG YES HAHA

[@139harshavardhinikesarwani7]

She : using 10 items to eat 1 meal Me: uses 1 plate to put my cake, chips, dinosaurs and my whole life 😂😂😂

[@yasminmuzaffar926]

lol.. i was think the same

[@rishusmom6908]

Huh hah!! Me too

[@amuamulya2618]

😂😂😂😂

[@drfate9110]

Me using the same plate for breakfast, lunch, dinner for 3 days without washing

[@taetaemin2372]

😂😂😂

[@BrinnTDSowo]

my prom is tommorow and they said dining etiquette will be strictly observed thank you so much

[@ABDULSALSALANI]

WHY AM I WATCHING THIS?

[@timothy6966]

Same reason as me. For the hot girl.

[@et5895]

Because... Attractive

[@yuki-rf6hl]

U and me both

[@rheapradhan1714]

Haha

[@bt3755]

good manners!!

[@user-uz1sp1xg5x]

i really love the outfit but the way she carry herself makes it so much more beautiful

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@legacylo7895]

"To show your partner that you're not holding any weapon under the table" Hahaha! I'm out.

[@regt6681]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@WhatEver-yj5rg]

You never know when your guest of honour turns into a murderer 😔😂

[@ursulashabalala]

😂😂😂😂🔥🔥

[@jaimeduncan6167]

In Arizona it still make sense, apparently 🤣

[@brontewcat]

I think in some parts of the world that should still be required etiquette.

[@aura_studio_]

The way we eat differs greatly because we are Indian. Most of the time, we eat with our hands or a spoon. The video has really given me a profound understanding of fundamental table manners. Thankyou for making this video

[@bive4167]

Same with us Nepalis. I saw a British girl eating bhaat (rice) with a fork and almost had a stoke lol Things you eat with hands, you can't with cutlery. It just doesn't feel right. And since it is our culture, it won't be considered lack of manners either. But slurping loudly, chewing with an open mouth and dirtying your entire hand is very gross.

[@frantschou2369]

These aren’t “fundamental table manners” these are “advanced table manners for posh snobs”. As long as you’re using knife and fork, not making a mess, not chewing with an open mouth etc. you’ll be fine 95% of the time.

[@pasttimer27]

You know there are etiquettes for eating with hand as well. How only tips of fingers should touch the food and not the entire finger, not to let the food touch the palms in most cases.

[@AWB777]

Eating with ones hands or rather fingers can be an uplifting experience when done properly which, incidentally in a world of fast foods, applies to almost everyone.

[@ManahilSajid-fe7lq]

OK but your voice is so calming ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🙏🏻

[@uzbekistanuzbekistan5918]

@@JamilaMusayeva Oʻzbekmisiz? Are u Uzbek?

[@farheenkar2917]

@@uzbekistanuzbekistan5918 no azerbaijani

[@iknowexactlywhoyouare8701]

"oKaY bUt"

[@princessjd24]

Honestly....I got tempted to read comments in the first few minutes and I couldn't stop🤣🤣🤣🤣... my stomach was almost aching!

[@bellebeauty4379]

Dinning etiquette: 1- don't use phone 2- appreciate the effort of cook 3- thank god for giving you such wonderful meal 4- and always share it with animals and homeless. That's all you need ☺

[@monjarinafsheen9867]

❤️ So true

[@brontewcat]

Not sure about sharing with animals during the meal. This has led to a very mournful looking dog sitting next to the table looking pleadingly at one.

[@marcoprolo7318]

I am a society cross expert. Since I was a kid I always navigated various classes and nationalities. I quickly noticed that table manners were different everywhere and there was a lot of bullshit behind it sometimes. The only rules are don't stuff you face, don't drink and eat in the same mouth, don't make strange noises, don't invade space on the table. Hold your cutlery in an elegant way. Be smiley, don't speak politics or religions. That's it.

[@CarbonInstinct0]

I feel like I have been eating like a cave man after watching this.

[@ericagiramata6518]

Same hahaha

[@nadyc.lassk.4426]

Omg 😁😄

[@HelloMedicAnkit]

😂😂😀

[@kaviyasridhar9703]

😂😂😂😂

[@nupurmukherjee3258]

same hahahaha

[@zunairaaminarussell5670]

The way you talk and everything is just perfect

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks a lot! 🙏🏻

[@livevolove524]

@@JamilaMusayeva hope you are doing well ..are you in azerbaijan ?

[@samchoi3304]

I’ve been living like a beast

[@dummak6022]

🤣girl of my dreams

[@carolinacerqueira847]

😂😂😂

[@Sidera17]

I am so glad I found this channel. I never learned any of this when young and have suffered from a slight coordination disability, so as I re-learn coordination of activities I'm going to learn the proper etiquette way. It's never too late to learn!

[@Pres4Bevz]

I love this. Could you please do a series on how to host a breakfast, brunch, lunch, tea, dinner. The correct etiquette. The way the table should be set. How to Ask guests about allergies and preferences. How to be a good hostess

[@nooneknows8150]

Yesss

[@AdrianaBarron1]

Yeeeeeeeeeeesss a million times!

[@creamy6680]

Yessssssss

[@anja-beveneberle3472]

how about you use your own brain and just think of how you would like to be hosted and then do it that way? why let someone else tell you what is "right" or "wrong"?

[@AdrianaBarron1]

@@anja-beveneberle3472 It's not even about what's "right or wrong", it's just seeking advice from someone with more experience. What's wrong with that? What's wrong with asking questions and learning?

[@FahimaHaque]

This is THE MOST USEFUL etiquette video I’ve been across! Thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Fahima Haque thank you Fahima ☺️

[@ArcticFirepixy]

for real @fahima this is so useful

[@gemspiritmessages2754]

Absolutely, all class and no pretentiousness 👏👏👌

[@JamilaMusayeva]

@@gemspiritmessages2754 thank you!

[@cfdby4784]

@@JamilaMusayeva Can i ask if you're a libra? You're so perfect omg 😍

[@mygirljoey]

This was actually taught in my high school home economics class. We also had a class that prepared us for job interviews, resume writing, proper attire for interviews. I guess the world no longer deem these classes valuable to the society.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

It is still very important albeit forgotten by the younger generation with adherent of social media. It is time to bring it back to fashion :)

[@ayeshaibrahim2024]

There are lots of ppl who still lack manners.

[@huskysc7415]

Excellent way to share good manners. Thanks! I lived in Europe, and I found their ways quite sophisticated compared to our routine ways here in America.

[@JuMiMi86]

Damn shame. Bring home ec' back!

[@misssparkle6421]

A whole year late, but I'd say having proper etiquette does set you apart from crowd. Even though younger people nowadays don't know that's it's an etiquette, it still leaves behind a very good impression. What's wonderful about having them is that over time we wouldn't even have to actively try to do it, we'd be natural at it and only notice how far we've come when someone points it out. It still makes a person appear high class.

[@melanieturquoise1111]

Oh my goodness what a glorious find you are! I cannot wait to watch all of your work! It's dawned on me recently that I feel uncomfortable at restaurants and I don't know how to sit and relax, how to eat without making a fool of myself. Thank you for such a beautiful channel.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome aboard! 😉

[@parbatitamang9443]

Why does everything related to her looks elegant. Including those flowers, glasses plates windows and all.🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🧐🧐

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@parbatitamang9443]

😆😆😆welcome. ( First time got a reply from a KZbinr 😅😅😅)

[@meganslonesings]

Femininity❤️

[@beulahsamuel8961]

So insanely perfect

[@aidquliyeva7888]

THANKS TO ALL WHO SHARED IN THE GROUP.

[@aneesahperween2513]

her ex realising “oh thats where I went wrong”

[@mohamadkabalan2047]

Hahahaha I laughed so hard

[@effiemuriama3466]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lyateddyo1535]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@divyadivya3446]

Underrated comment 😁

[@janyykc1335]

😂

[@xijean4727]

Im so thankful for my friends' grandmother who at age 9 taught us dinning etiquette & Tea party etiquette. This knowledge helps a lot when you want to make a nice impression.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely 😉

[@danielz.8447]

Thats ASMR level of teaching, don't really need to know all that but it's a treat to listen to and relax

[@fahds2583]

as a kid, this is everything i thought the grownup world would be like....

[@iwakuralain1459]

Same

[@bellatrix9256]

dude same

[@aliveuser3293]

But now its only you commenting in videos 😂

[@o_neill66]

Yeah... so disappointed

[@NoOne-rg1og]

it is typically used by the upper class at formal dinner gatherings as these forms of eating etiquettes show you have class and have manners. i had to attend one of these "formal" like events for a huge family gathering in the past. half of the people there were wealthy, while the other half (myself included) were in the middle to middle upper class level. needless to say, it was quite intriguing to watch 3 different class structures. one being wealthy and having these subtle etiquettes that give a person "class" as well as their oozing aura of presence that is almost palpable. second being wealthy but lacking in these forms of etiquettes. basically having money but lacking in class. they dont have that much of a presence as the ones who carry themselves with that aura of godlike and class. you can probably mistake them for just being upper middle class. and finally, the common folks who lack in both money and knowledge of these social rules and manners but try their best to adapt and fit in to their surroundings so that they dont stand out in a negative way.

[@jonesie8377]

I really enjoyed this video, thank you. People may not realize how much of an impression proper etiquette can make at a formal work diner or charity event. It shows a level of refinement most people do not have.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@datshitcray]

If that's the case, then who are you showing it to?

[@datshitcray]

@Isabel reed but according to Jonesie these people do not have the necessary level of refinement so they wouldnt recognize it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@datshitcray]

@Isabel reed just being present in a situation doesn't mean you learn from it. You need to be conscious of what is happening in the first place. You are the perfect example. You have witnessed my sarcastic comment about the idiocy of the original comment, yet you still don't understand the essence of the humor.

[@datshitcray]

@Isabel reed Sure. I did like the video. I was just light-heartedly mocking the original comment of this thread

[@LuLu6214]

I grew up learning this from my grandmother, it's a nice refresher, also great to inform me about the glasses...since my family never consumed wine or Champaign, that was always left out of my grandmother's etiquette lessons.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks Grandma for teaching from early on ☺️

[@fun3000able]

and also, "no elbow on the table", "both hands on the table at any time', "don't speak with food in your mouth","don't make noise with your utensils in your plate', "don't make noise with your mouth when eating or drinking", "don"t cross over someone else"s plate", "fork and knife shall be in your hands at all times for starter and main dish". This is simple education and good manners.

[@fatimaibrahim1185]

Appreciate her voice... sooo calm n sweet!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@katiela7021]

I love learning proper social skills through videos like the one you have here. I will definitely apply these skills for dates, dinner parties that come alongside professional business meetings, and other events. I really want to make a good impression on others and succeed in life! Thank you so much for making this video!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@Arstudook]

@@messyhessy6318 bullshit

[@MARIADaSilva-dw9cs]

@@JamilaMusayeva I met my gf at a beautiful bistro. At the end when we asked for the bill, the owner came over and said: this is my pleasure. You reminded me for much of my mother. Your table manners are impeccable. She's in Russia and I miss her so much. This was the nicest thing anyone has ever done. We left a 40% tip to our waitress. She was fenomenal.

[@bayernmunchen6762]

and every country is different go to asia and it is very different than the EU

[@perasima6533]

These are not social skills, most of people don't know or use this stuff. This is mostly for rich people who are dinning at some high-end restaurants. I'm sad you feel like you need to do this in order to impress people. Good social skills would be helping an old lady in the elevator, holding a door for someone, feeding a stray cat in front of your building... Acts of kindness come in all shapes and sizes. Do that and god will love you much more than for simply holding a fork in the "right" way.

[@nafnaf0]

Manners and etiquette are very important. As she says good etiquette makes you and everyone around you more comfortable

[@nikamikano3512]

I am really thankful to my dad for teaching me all this when I was little. Now, thanks to that and years of experience, I don't need to think much about it as it has become my second nature.

[@Gaburierairuze]

Same It's nice watching videos like this though to refresh my memory since I don't dine out or with many people often

[@fairybirdhasmeteorwings929]

asks for bag holder at McDonalds*

[@ragh9014]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@clairmoon06]

lmaoo XD

[@ajohonly3721]

Or don’t go to McDonald’s lol 😂

[@ragh9014]

@@ajohonly3721 or don't reply to comments lol

[@imthespritehobialwaysasksfor]

@@ragh9014 😂😂😂😂😂

[@preshmadhakal5752]

So basically do everything that makes you uncomfortable

[@annegachanja3468]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Tlani_k]

Pretty much 😂😂😂. It made me appreciate my simple life lol

[@AnchelJakhar]

So true😂

[@komal146]

It doesn't seem that difficult once you get into a habit

[@nondumiso2957]

🤣🤣😅😅

[@vafaibragimova6035]

I bumped into Your channel accidentally and was pleasantly surprised. The presentation of the information is extremely interesting and the content is really useful! ❤

[@J...L]

"it's time for the bill..... you can do so by having eye contact with the waiter" me: stares at waiter waiter: *Scared for their life* ma'am would you like a 100% discount?

[@82882]

@ JL.. 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@beyond_akshii]

Lol

[@rayatra6572]

waiter walking around trying to catch some staires :D

[@georgethompson606]

Haha!!!

[@Purple_haired_cleric]

*stares at the waiter and blink in a specific rhythm while staring

[@letiziagallinari222]

My dad (born in 1928) was a big advocate of dining etiquette….i am so grateful that he taught me this skill!!!!

[@Singh_singh-w7b]

आपके डैड तो 200 साल जिंदा रहे होंगे ? और आप 250 साल रहोगे ? 😂😂 अबे अंग्रेज़ों की नाजायज औलादो 😂😂 हाथ से खाने और बैठ कर जमीन पर आराम से खाने मे का दिक्कत है बे ?

[@e0b1ff]

At the start I was thinking.. "how the hell is she so skinny" And then I saw the food.

[@SitiFatimah0304]

@pancakestac but when u r in this kind of restaurants ... it probably become 70$ 😂😂

[@HelloMedicAnkit]

😂😂😂

[@rabah1132]

Hahahahaa

[@alphaberryxo]

OMG. Comment of the year!

[@yoshungoddess]

😂😂😂

[@larabardot6836]

Thank you for making this educational video, I have a lunch interview in a fancy restaurant in a few days and this makes me feel more confident about my dining manners!

[@MARIADaSilva-dw9cs]

Good luck with the new job!!

[@larabardot6836]

@@MARIADaSilva-dw9csI’m just now seeing your comment, thank you so much! It went really well and I am currently waiting on them to send me the official job offer 😁

[@amandaspaintinglessons9908]

I followed the advice on pretending there was a kitten behind me in my chair today at brunch. It helped me sit up straight! Thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad to hear it!

[@qasirranax550]

That smile... only motivates me to learn English kzbin.info/www/bejne/rKnTc32Nf6hoiZY

[@nikko2761]

One of my cats actually does like to do this anyway. Very helpful video. Thank you.

[@thesparks00]

Aww, don't sit on the kitten! 😆

[@zulaikhamaruuf5909]

I would go ahead and save this video for the part in my future, where i marry my wealthy Arab prince... whom i would meet on Tinder.😊

[@Mohtellawi]

Hhhhhhhhhhhh what is that?

[@zulaikhamaruuf5909]

@@Mohtellawi ..err.. a joke😁

[@Mohtellawi]

@@zulaikhamaruuf5909 hhhhhhh okay 😂

[@zulaikhamaruuf5909]

@@Mohtellawi 💃💃OMG! Are you the Arab prince i am bound to meet in a comment section on KZbin??

[@Mohtellawi]

@@zulaikhamaruuf5909 Hhhh yeah I think I fulfil the prophecy

[@velhotytto1]

I’m about to go out to a fancy restaurant to celebrate my new boyfriend’s birthday in front of all of his friends. I’m seeing some of them for the first time so I really want to leave a good impression. It’s also my first time going out without my family of closest friends, in front of whom it wouldn’t be terrible to do some mistakes. Your video definitely gives me more confidence in my capability to not embarrass myself, so thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Happy to hear that☺️

[@zeynepbasak5283]

How did it go

[@48addict68]

how was it?

[@tg1577]

Did u ask for a bag holder ??

[@dalaibrahim]

how was ittt

[@motherisntmurderpodcast]

Thank you so much for this beautiful video on dining etiquette. Before now, I've always felt timid about being invited to parties or fine dining. After watching your video, I feel confident and enthusiastic. Thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@AaBb-rh6js]

What if I’m fat and there’s no space between the back of the chair and the table?

[@anasimic1109]

Then you must never eat again.

[@peaceamongworlds2256]

@@anasimic1109 why would u say sth like that...

[@anasimic1109]

@@peaceamongworlds2256 Um I'm obviously being sarcastic and joking? 😶

[@rezi9754]

@@anasimic1109 ppl got eating disorders so saying that might not be the right thing even if you are joking about it

[@cfdby4784]

@@anasimic1109 LMAO thanks hun

[@Abbydoobiedoo]

Me at Taco Bell “dO yOu HaVe A bAg HoLdEr?”

[@JESUSSavesWAKEUP]

😂👌

[@annnnxh]

😭✋🏽

[@Egehan-yd9kl]

PLEASE-

[@Tiffany-ov2jf]

😂

[@thesupernova2603]

Hahahaaa

[@unnatik2444]

She's so like a princess...so elegant and classy lady. Meanwhile me: well ⊙﹏⊙!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you ☺️

[@3mtech]

Princesses pretend they are Jamila

[@dianariverjackson5123]

Coming from an italian family with academics and sportsmen followed by antique dealers, I was raised with all sorts of etiquette. This brings me so much childhood nostalgia watching this video.

[@bumblebee2001]

This fuels my perfectionism

[@JamilaMusayeva]

☺️

[@doxklk2222]

Same disease here🎩

[@spontaneousjane]

Just one more way I can irritate everyone around me with my perfectionism.

[@za9978]

Me at MacDonald's: "do you have a bag holder?"

[@za9978]

@@realizedreams6183 me: sure go ahead call them. and turns out its my uncle LOL

[@elettrofans]

Lmaoooo

[@emmanuelgallegos6811]

Lmfaooo

[@DoctorLT007]

**Me learning table etiquettes** **Me at hotel : Bhaiya khichdi milegi ?**

[@blanktwh]

Imagine eating khichdi with fork and knife and the Whole restaurant staring at you. 👀😂

[@themihira1130]

😄😄

[@soniasinghbalouria1022]

Hahahahhaha fir usko haath se khaana

[@priyankasingh5975]

Who orders khichdi in a restaurant 😂

[@Ahri_k_da]

@@priyankasingh5975 😂😂 I'm thinking same

[@thecapone45]

11:32 yes I totally agree about the note thing!! When people invite me to their home for a dinner or wedding/baby shower, I like to give them a thank you note the next day or next time I see them. It always makes a good impression. 😅

[@nidiashalabi2036]

Actually, I know there are employers out there who will conduct “brunch” interviews and based on etiquette (as opposed to experience alone), they will hire (or not) their interviewee. It’s especially important when your job position will require you to dine with specific people who are in high positions regularly.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely!

[@allisonnegreiros8220]

I really doubt that in my country there are employers that may score their interviewers like that. But just in case, I think it could be a great impression for them.

[@caipirinha_king1632]

These are lessons that every responsible adult should have taught their children. Born in the 60’s, and basically to working poor parents, it was the norm to have been taught dining etiquette. It was used at church dinners, having meals at family and neighbors homes, and also when we went to above average restaurants where we had to dress semi formal.

[@me00088]

Yes it is true I hate seeing people in my young age laughing at that or saying things like "I dont need a men or "This is so stupid like,why? It is good to know.

[@sassyqueen9739]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@me00088 it’s true we don’t NEED men, how is that relevant to the conversation anyways? My parents taught me etiquette, and it does make people “respect” you more. Though I understand the “why” cause why?

[@me00088]

@@sassyqueen9739 It's true that when you have more manners you get a little more respect simply because manners are less and less taught to young people (From my point of view we need men. Without men, we women would not be here. Men are simply better at some things because their bodies are built differently than women's. Men are important in a way. Not to mention that everyone has a different opinion but that's mine.)

[@sassyqueen9739]

⁠​⁠@@me00088 Of course men are better then women in some ways and vise versa. Though I do not think anyone needs anyone. At least not these days... Oh, and have a good day😊

[@mypersonalfreedom]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/qYacaISuocZ1bNE

[@zephyrz0902]

The Aliens: Write that down! write that down!

[@ayeshamalik9902]

I laughed soooooo hard😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Ohhellnah-w9s]

Alien momma:Cmon boys take notes

[@faybeharry3330]

Lol

[@rosepaik531]

I'm the alien lol

[@noodlesdorkenson4674]

They’ll be the only well mannered ones. They’ll stand out anyway.

[@destructivegaming6330]

This is a very informative video but The most important thing to learn from the video is the style of her speaking, cool, calm, composed👍, which is rare to find in today's world.👍👍

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@pretty948]

She doesn't just eat her meals She *enjoys* them

[@aceimus5319]

Being Asian, I sometimes eat with my hands. Even among people who use hands to eat, we have etiquette, too. You can't use your left hand. Because most people use their right hand, you'll end up elbowing each other. But i can only use my left hand when eating. My right feels awkward. Only when im eating. Im not even a lefty. To some cultures, eating with hands is improper. I guess, I'm double double without manners😅

[@eminaroses7005]

Do as the Romans do! I’m European and my husband is Indian. Certain cultures or foods (even bread in Europe) is eaten by hand 👍

[@skylarchace6928]

Same. I'm Asian too and in my country, majority of us eat food with hand every day. Except when we're lazy & eating noodles, we'll use fork & spoon or chopstick. I hate ceramic, metal, porcelain and glass based plates and fork & spoons. Both makes really loud clunking noise when used together and I am amazed some people can actually be so quiet when eating using those blerghhh I'd stick with plastics and wood anytime

[@lychi7601]

You just need to observe the mannerisms of the people around you and base your etiquette on their culture. “When in Rome, do as the Romans do.”

[@Farrrdoos]

This is Western dining etiquette not dining etiquette for the whole world. In my eyes, their etiquette is haughty and filled with a "better than thou" vibe which separates people rather than bring people together which is the whole point of dining with others.

[@melonati3488]

I’ve never been in a situation where I needed this level of etiquette and maybe never will. Even at my wedding things weren’t this complicated.

[@battlelover666gaming2]

Honestly if I had go to such dinner, my anxiety would be on peak and I will forget everything 😂😂

[@yasminmuzaffar926]

exactly I wouldn't be able to enjoy the dinner, my full focus would be which utensil to use and where to place my hands, and the rest of the non sense.

[@svetlanavukolic8242]

This is why you have to practice to the level it becomes normal to you

[@NH-kq5qf]

"One bite at a time " most important lesson I got.😂😂

[@camillemartin193]

Me, alone with no money, watching this.

[@348frank348]

😂😂😂

[@Tiffany-ov2jf]

Same

[@terenceshaw766]

I was just mesmerized this whole time by this absolutely gorgeous woman😍😍😍. Didn't even really pay that much attention to what she was saying.

[@romee-elise]

There should be more video like this for young people on KZbin. I feel worried when my child watches prank videos and little child thinks it’s fun seeing the exaggerating actions. Luckily, she understands that acting is for effect of the video not in real life. I really love the positive influence from all your videos. Thank you very much.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for saying this! It means so much to me 🙏🏻