Fine Dining Etiquette: A Five Course Meal And How To Master Table Manners | Jamila Musayeva

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@faithinjesus7817]

@JamilaMusayeva I know your video is 11 months ago BUT what does etiquette say about someone who is left handed or even ambidextrous. I drink with my left hand and my son does as well. We are right hand dominate but it feels weird to drink with my right hand. Are there exceptions to etiquette for left hand dominate or ambidextrous people?

[@oxiong90]

One time a large group of my friends went to a fancy restaurant and the waiter didnt come take their order for a whole hour. They were discussing this aloud when a kind fellow customer informed them that they should try closing their menu. As soon as they all did, the waiter came to take their order.

[@Coleaubo]

Good lord. 😂 the waiter might have guessed the issue and at least came and asked if they had questions about the menu.

[@beautifullycomplex1888]

⁠😂😂😂

[@enoasangansi5103]

😮😮😂

[@clockwatch5222]

Closing a menu and ordering would be hard for someone with short-term memory problems.

[@LamorePerApollo]

Omg as a former waitress I can already imagine how the waiter felt while waiting for your orders 🤣🤣🤣

[@khwxbeeda]

As someone who is trying to be the best version of herself, I’m so glad I have you to teach deportment and manners. You’re the most helpful etiquette teacher I’ve come across, thank you so much for the effort you put into your videos, your followers and I appreciate it very much. I would love to watch the wine pairing and choices videos if you do make it. Thank you Jamila! Love and respect from India

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you!

[@antoinette4729]

My husband was fortunate to inherit 19c china, crystal, and silverware. When we have dinner parties, elderly friends know the bone marrow spoon, the fish knife, butter knife, and various spoons, etc. it is such a joy to "dine" at one's own home with linen table cloth and napkins and candle light. Such times are diminishing but why? These experiences are very special, romantic, and induce good conversation! People quaff, gobble up, eat fast, and do not dine. Dining is an experience itself! We can advance and enjoy modernity AND retain vintage styles! Thank you for educating us on etiquette!

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

Amen! Thats so true.

[@BungusMundungus]

I'm one of those people who always rewatch the dining etiquette video! So this is like an early Christmas present for me, thanks Jamila 😄

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Happy holidays!

[@victoriamunamwape1532]

Me too

[@sf1915]

Witches nails

[@sf1915]

This video is all wrong. This woman has no clue what etiquette is. Please go and re-educate yourself.

[@sf1915]

Kitchen manners!!

[@niharikasaxena6926]

Lady I’m so thankful for your etiquette videos. They’ve helped me become my best version! I rewatch them and learn. Loads of love and blessings to you💕

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@happiness504]

I’m in my 50’s and trying to better myself and I so appreciate this video thank you

[@platin2812]

As a girl living in an South east asia country, I find this video interesting and informative even though in my country we simply use a pair of chopsticks and a spoon. You're lovely and the way you deliver your message is graceful. Thank you.

[@blackswan4301]

OMG! Thank you! We were never taught this in our culture! I always struggle when i travel abroad. Thank you so much for this valuable content.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad it was helpful!

[@gb2556]

Just came across this video today. I am glad I was raised with manners however, watching you is an inspiration for my day to day as nowadays we don't see etiquette being emphasize that much. Please bring us more of your elegant style and keep inspiring the world. Congratulations on your channel.

[@romanslav827]

You strike me as someone with authentic class that's not just for show. I was actually expecting you to be a lot more pretentious, but I was totally wrong, and I stayed for a lot more of the video than I was expecting. Keep it up!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you ☺️

[@CrimsonTheOriginal]

The first video has been incredibly valuable to me in improving my manners. Thank you for making this video. I will be watching it over and over.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad it was helpful!

[@vanessavasquez1099]

Your make up is outrageously slaying

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you !

[@hajer8940]

I learned how to be etiquette and now time to go restaurant 😂

[@jayashreemuskaan2241]

Learned a lot while literally got water in my mouth.. Jokes apart, when it comes to etiquette I can blindly follow Jamila. Thank you for such an amazing session. ❤😇

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Xeno_clea]

Excellent! It's really helpful & we need more people like you to make aware of the things what should & shouldn't be done in a public space!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@suchi_277]

Hi Jamila, thank you always for these dining videos and please consider making a video around sandwiches especially the ones with a lot of stuffing in them.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Noted!

[@myaindaco4444]

I love the inner elegance that comes out of you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@rosyneo160]

Good vid i always enjoy watching ur videos very calming and usefull, beautiful content from beautiful classy lady. I wanted to mention 37:37 here that if u r a muslim its only okay to eat the food with ur right hand and not the left so most of us use the american way even if its less classy or requires lots of movements or we just precut everything in the plate keep the knife in our left hand to collect the food on the fork then continue the same way

[@poisonedchalice]

I have a Christmas meal coming up with work colleagues - this will be very helpful. Thank you x

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad it was helpful!

[@noragaal3055]

I can't wait for this content. Thank you !!!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Hope you enjoy!

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

Smooches Jamila 💋..... I am an etiquette girl myself and I must tell you I have learned so much and I am going to watch this again. Anything good bears repetition..... Brilliant!!!! 💋

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

I do have a question.... I noticed that you mainly eat with your fork facing down . I am American and I've never seen that before. Is it because it is a more elegant way to eat or is that a European style?

[@rebeccaedmonds6104]

I just wanted to thank you very much. I really appreciate what you have taught me... I love the table manners etiquettee teachings and I hope that it will come in handy in my simple life. I think you are a wonderful person and thank you for all your help. It has help me in so many ways. A remembrance of my ancestors.

[@ilariamasullo3353]

Absolutely love this type of videos, please keep them coming!

[@rebecarebeca2613]

Waiting for the video about the different kind of glasses, how to hold, how to pair wines etc :)

[@wvniez]

I love you and your content Jamila! It has helped me become more elegant which i always wanted to be i will continue to watch your videos to become even more elegant💗💓💞✨🌸🌷

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much!!

[@roykg7374]

Hai Jamila! Thanks for explaining table etiquettes in detail in a rather gentle way. Keep going 🎉

[@myriamolortegui2441]

Best table etiquette video I have ever seen. Many thanks, Jamila!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! You are welcome 🙏🏻

[@FictionFunPub]

Thank you Jamila. There was so much wonderful information in your video. It was presented with such grace and beauty.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Happy to hear it ☺️

[@iuliag.2078]

This comes at such a perfect time as I have a dinner to attend tomorrow. Thank you for all of these tips!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Hope you enjoy!

[@denisemarino3021]

From the USA. This wwas a really excellent presentation. You were very detailed. Very worthwhile to watch and learn. Thank you.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad it was helpful!

[@tehreemaisha2694]

Amazing video. You are the only person I watch to learn etiquettes. I really like the way you talk and your whole personality. ❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you! 🤗

[@theresatrevethan7254]

Please do a wine pairing video as well as dessert wines and etiquette

[@sexyfox1101]

Jamila is awesome. I love her videos and have learned a lot. Thank you, Jamila.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad you like them!

[@jericoleman2364]

Your presence is soothing. I enjoy your content. Thank you

[@sanyuktapatil7377]

First of all your videos are amazing and really helpful . And I have a request that you also make videos about eastern dinning etiquettes as well , because as an Indian I have seen many non- Indians trying Indian food and most of the times while eating Indian food one have to use their hands , so many people don't know how to eat it properly and they ends up eating it in the most improper way possible for example using both the hands , which is not acceptable ( for some exceptions) . So please if you could make a video about it .

[@zulem779]

Jamila this etiquette videos are the best! You are so elegant and eloquent! Thanks for this information ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much!!

[@Believeinyourself-fz1ox]

Great video! Thanks a lot, Jamila. I feel, I am becoming a better social person because of your content 🙏

[@mahwernaqvi9042]

One of the splendid video I ever watched dinning ettiquate. I'm your greatful with lot of love and respect❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much 😀

[@MFB1111]

Hello Jamila! I've been a dedicated viewer of your content for over two years, and I truly adore your work. Thank you sincerely for generously sharing your thoughts and knowledge online. Your content has become a valuable reference, significantly raising the bar for my own behavior and how I let people into my life. I find myself in a much better, happier place now compared to 2-3 years ago, and your success has undoubtedly played a part in that journey. :) Last year, I enrolled in your online course. I love how it gets straight to the point, is beautifully shot, and I'm eagerly looking forward to more courses on your website in the future. it's a bit embarrassing to admit but there is one thing I still do wrong and I just don't know how to fix it. Certain foods, like groats, rice, and finely chopped vegetables, are very challenging when trying to follow the correct fork-holding technique. I wonder if I simply need more practice, if the meals could be served more conveniently, or if a different approach is needed for these types of foods. It just all falls down from my fork. I often see people eating these kinds of food using forks like spoons, and I give up and do the same thing. Since now I am aware it's poor manners/ incorrect, I always feel embarrassed even if I am home alone and no one can see me. It would be incredibly helpful if you could create another video specifically addressing how to eat these and other challenging foods correctly. Your content is invaluable to me, and I can never get enough of it. Thank you once again for your inspiring work! Marianna

[@mrose4]

You just have to use your knife to press cooked grains against your fork. Easy peasy! :)

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Indeed ☺️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

More will come ❤️ Thank you for your kind words about my Western Formal Dining Etiquette course 🙏🏻

[@MFB1111]

​@@mrose4 Thanks a lot, that makes 100% sense and I am happy I asked. I'll just practice more :) 🤍

[@fatyong9561]

Thank you Jamila for this highly helpful video. Let me notice that you looked beautiful at this session

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you too!

[@truly3743]

I’m glad u mentioned the part about using the inside of the napkin because I also hate the idea of putting my napkin on the chair that hundreds of butts have sat on. The pants or dress I’m wearing for that dinner is much cleaner than all those butts!! Thank you for the reminder

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@mansoor3159]

Can't wait for 1 Million Subscribers and Jamila this video is really really so so helpful to me🥺💖💫

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@lifestyleblog4314]

So grateful for your videos. Would also love to see the video on wine pairing that you mentioned. Thanks for your constant commitment to delivering these informative etiquette videos.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Will do! Thank you 🙏🏻

[@foconnor2794]

This one is even better than the first one ¡ thanks¡

[@Meowlvys]

Jamila, thank you so much for this video.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@Carmen0777]

Thank you for making this video Jamila and for explaining everything. I love learning proper social skills through videos like the one you have here. I will definitely apply these skills for dates, dinner parties that come alongside professional business meetings, and other events. I learned a lot from you and I appreciate you and for what all you do. Kind regards, Carmen.

[@NoirLune8]

it's always such a pleasure to watch your videos. Thank you so much! A bit sad for the videographer though haha, I hope they ate something delicious as well c:

[@doitdiaries3797]

Thank you for a wonderful video ❤️ I love that I see non round plates. I have always been labeled as messy plate eater, meaning my plate is a mess when I'm eating 😆 I have reduced movement in my plate (I don't drag food to other places in my plate, I collect food where it is placed in my plate ☺️) and it worked for me ☺️❤

[@mulukensand5370]

Thank you beautiful lady for the etiquette tips. God bless you!

[@luisalomavatu3514]

Thank you very much for your video. Interesting to learn and know more about the appropriate manners for Dining Etiquette.

[@enfisya]

beautiful energy and helpful tips. thank you ✨

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@maryanncaridad1382]

Wow I learned many things like the creamy soup and the difference of liquid soup how to scoop it, and how to lean on when you put the food inside your mouth and also the handkerchief 😊 . Thank you so much Jamila ❤

[@reneecrotty6910]

Yes please Jamila! I have been looking for a great wine video as I dont drink often, and sometimes feel confused about wine and types of wine and which wine goes with what foods! Thank you so much! ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Noted!

[@Daimethys]

I reaaly like the way you teach in the videos. Thank you, you help a lot =)

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@UmamaNazirRamay]

Thank you soooo much Jamila, you've helped really alot. A nice thing about your videos is they're planned, and good for beginners. It covers all essentials. So perfect for practice. Again Thank you ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're so welcome!

[@lalisarivera2893]

I love your Videos Jamila! They are so helpful, especially since my family never really cared deeply about etiquette. I would love to see a dedicated Video for wine and how to hold glasses properly. Again, thank you so much for educating me. Happy holidays to you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@auroras.2015]

Lovely video. I am learning so much from you. ❤ And please do a video on wine etiquette. Thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks! Noted ☺️

[@christophwagner8659]

She just HAS it ☁️💜☁️☁️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

❤️

[@prtz2498]

I would love to see a video about holding and choosing wines and wine glasses❤

[@ellielondor5740]

You look so beautiful and sophisticated! Also I like the background🟩

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much!

[@StephanieOghale-j9n]

Thank you very much for this video. It is very informative.

[@virtuemoir215]

Thank you Jamila! ❤ Please, make a video about how to hold the different glasses🙏🙏🙏

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Noted ☺️

[@mutisiab]

I loved your detailed explanation! Thank you for your time! 🍽

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@Vrilliance]

Hi! In America, there's a restaurant called OutBack Steakhouse. It always makes me laugh (inside) that I do not get a salad fork for my salad. Instead, I get 2 main course forks. Thank you for these videos. I am also a new subscriber to your Patreon movie club. I love it.

[@mauricehugos97]

Super Amazing Etiquette Pretty Jamila

[@Teresia-mx4hk]

I've learned a lot. thank you very much. no wonder the waiters kept coming around asking if I am okay. I would get annoyed. I prolly was miscommunicating... hehe

[@baharbehfar2055]

Thank You Jamila ❤ That was an amazing detail-packed video, thanks for sharing the knowledge 🪴

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're so welcome!

[@RoyaEzadi-t2o]

Thank you so much,this video was really useful for me

[@jessicajoyce5035]

This is a précious vidéo !!!!! thank you

[@AnkitaSharma1111.]

Jamila, you are breathtakingly gorgeous 🧿 Thanks for amazing content ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much! ☺️

[@ThelmaLandman]

I enjoy your videos so much! They are so helpful, thank you.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I'm so glad!

[@sarinar.s.6735]

Thank you so much! I'm going to multiple events and Christmas/ New Year's parties. This video was a great Christmas gift for me that would be very helpful like your every other video ❤ I wish you a great start into the new year!🎉❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad it was helpful! ❤️

[@vivianakendall4161]

Thank you very much for this wonderful video with all the details! I was waiting for this one for a long time ❤

[@bodybalancer]

What about dessert wines like Port? I have a fondness for it & drink it occasionally 🍷

[@EvaSokhatckaia]

Thank you vey much for your generous knowledges. Could you please tell how to keep the wrist during the dining, we always arguing with my friend, she said the wrist must be lift and never touch the table and in another source I heard the wrist should be in the table.

[@michellecefalu7728]

beautifully done!!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@annaradzajewska1806]

Thank you so much Jamila for your videos! ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@Dr.KiraWorld]

Very nice 😊ยอดเยี่ยมมากค่ะ

[@desireenunez7824]

Please do a separate video for the wine glasses, thank you! ❤

[@tiziay]

Yes, please...would love to view a wine video. Thank you.

[@amber2398]

Thank you for posting this video! What do you do if you can’t eat a particular dish? For instance, if you are allergic to something or don’t eat something for religious purposes, how do you let the host or hostess know about that? Alternatively, if you simply don’t eat something and it isn’t for allergy or religious purposes, how would you address that?

[@KeithVakoc-no7eg]

Why wouldn’t you put the bread humus on the bread plate instead of the main course plate?

[@BeyondClaire]

Thank you Jamila! I would love to see wine pairings! Love from Texas🥰

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Noted!

[@airenerogers5240]

Just starting..❤❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🙏🏻

[@ShivangiNaithani]

Wonderfully crafted video !!❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@homiekeen23]

17:55 would we pick up the napkin/cutlery and put it down on the table before asking for a replacement?

[@skxii6662]

I am a left handed person but I naturally eat with the fork in my left hand and the knife in my right hand. Are there any other Europeans here in the comment section who are left handed and picked it subconsciously up?

[@lilyanagdychynska1735]

DIVA of manners!

[@clementinekc6062]

I love all your videos thank you so much for your content I am so interested about deportment courses and how to upgrade myself

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🙏🏻

[@GraceChai-bg5no]

I need to wach tis a lot THINK you!! 🎉

[@Vainu]

Thank you very much for the video, always so nice and instructive. I still have a question: where should we keep our handbag? I never know where to put it.

[@3618499]

😃 FANTASTIC!…. Unfortunately, especially Here in The USA, Etiquette and Polite Manners have become as rare as Good Credit. Both of the basics were far more customary until the end of the ‘ Baby Boomer ‘ era and traditional family gatherings occurred around dining room tables.. Nowadays, witnessing Others eating in public is like watching a Viking feast.

[@SexAndMe]

😂😂😂

[@bahadreyigun9644]

I learned a lot from the video. I'm going to McDonald's now.

[@postcardsfromluna]

Haha, I can't stop laughing, you're so funny. 😐

[@dolcedresses5940]

Excellent instruction and a lovely presentation.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Many thanks!

[@mas34135]

I would love to see a video about how to properly hold wine glasses, and what wine pairs well with what food ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Noted

[@breadhunter]

Thanks! Shared with our audience.

[@neeharmarjan6268]

Yes, yes, another video on only glasses please 🙋‍♀️

[@biorastorm7002]

PLEASE TEACH US HOW TO CHEW ELEGANTLY!

[@breakergirl47]

Chew slowly 😂

[@biorastorm7002]

@@breakergirl47 I do! But it doesn't look elegant loll

[@shaaaairuuu]

Take a small bite, use your tongue and lips to take the food in your mouth and don't let the teeth click against the utensils. Chew well in a normal pace and swallow. Smaller bites help a lot!

[@RumiRose12]

Quite enlightening and thorough! Thank you ❤