Japanese Wife's Instruction Manual | 妻のトリセツ

[@Meshida]

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[@hristopenev5954]

Manchmal kann ich nicht klar denken wegen diese finanzielle Erpressung und mit 0€.Ich habe noch nicht bar Geld und diese italienische Familie hat Verbindung mit Deutsche Regierung und deswegen ich habe kein Geld. Mit Geld ist möglich, aber ich möchte nicht sagen was für leben ist my Life.

[@davidlee7174]

It is called the bait & switch tactic she used on men. Girlfriend stage. When she bait him by saying and acting like a traditional & submissive women. After wedding. Then she switch and her true colors come out.

[@slevingaius]

Remembering the words from Meshida Senpai... From long ago... When she's a girlfriend... She's a Charmander When she's a wife... She's a Charmeleon When she's a mother... She's a Charizard 💀💀💀

[@zcnaipowered7407]

Meshida should have been a rapper cause he has bars

[@smti1985]

Why are there so many books and applications about how to summon these demons and not how to bann them? If you try to bann them, they come back as revengeful spirits and haunt you. In their final ghost form they become silent, and just stare at you angry, so scary.

[@wtfsaurus1650]

I have so many friends married to Japanese women, and this is sadly very true 😆 thankfully it hasn't happened to me, yet 😅

[@Meshida]

Arigatoooo!!!!

[@theGENIUSofART-understood]

heard exactly the same

[@carlosa7598]

Chores depends on culture. My father is from Mexico and even when i was 7yrs old we all did chores to help my grandma and grandpa. We were always raised like this. When we got older me and my siblings used to clean up the house and cook dinner while our parents were still at work. By the time they got home, dinner is ready. The problem here in Japan is that my father-in-law doesn't do much chores and everytime my mother-in-law sees me cleaning up, helping with laundry 🧺 or even taking out the trash 🗑️ she tells my father-in-law and later starts to kinda have an argument. Makes me sad in a way, however im not changing my ways how we grew up. Thanks to my parents. Hello from Saga, Japan 🗾🇯🇵

[@pAuL-nb2ud]

I’m married to a half Japanese woman / I always have the LAST WORD in this relationship , “Whatever you wish my love…” ❤

[@shatti_mafia]

😂😂😂 #HALF

[@garryferrington811]

The gag about showing the same empathy to the wife as to the boss really cracked me up!

[@toddarmstrong1909]

Thanks!

[@Meshida]

Arigato!!!

[@JohnWhite-Sensei]

That was a great explanation of people's different mental states. Towards the end, I got depressed when I realized we single people have to do the work of both husbands and wives ourselves.

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

Yes, but female cleanliness standards are through the roof, when in reality extremely cleanliness only makes sense when there are toddlers running around. A man needs to spend 10 minutes cleaning a day. A woman perhaps 30 to 120 minutes. So, by getting married, a man's potential workload generally goes up, because now he suddenly needs to vacuum even unused rooms in a large house up to several times per week. 10 min a day on average for a man is no exaggeration, and perhaps at most 1 hour if we include cooking simple and efficient meals, running the laundry machine, etc. Males have basically created technology to eliminate most housecleaning in the modern age, and women try to fill their time and satisfy their excessive sense of hygiene. I understand that women may have different standards according to their instincts mainly, but vacuum cleaning every day is insane. Of course, if we're talking a family of 4, then perhaps vacuuming twice a week starts making sense, but as a single man even once per week is nearly overkill.

[@JohnWhite-Sensei]

@@fjorddenierbear4832 But cooking for one produces just as much mess as cooking for two. Furthermore, long hair from a woman blocking the drains. She won't pick it out, it's the guy's job. They can't wash the dishes because of "sensitive skin". They can't take out the rubbish because it's raining and it's too heavy. Clothes that should be it a wardrobe are all over the bed. Etc just more work for men.

[@redemissarium]

@@fjorddenierbear4832 Man are better organizing and play the long term, man spend 50 minutes cleaning will make the house as clean as woman spend 120 minutes

[@devon6039]

The descriptions of how to win this "game" are the definition of, "Mission Failed Successfully" 🤣Keep em' coming! 👍

[@ncode03]

Thanks! Hilarious

[@Meshida]

Arigatooo!

[@acmelbourne]

They say women make great archeologists because of their natural ability to bring up the past.

[@chardonnay5767]

It's almost a disservice to call this an instruction manual for only Japanese wives. It sounds like great universal advice no matter where in the world you are.

[@edo5407]

Hmmm been married for over 15 years with a Vietnamese woman and all these same laws apply… god knows how I’ve survived this long…

[@Tmidiman]

This information is gold! Thank you!

[@billashby7858]

When I was working for a Japanese company I remember boss, who was Japanese, calling his wife and chewing her out because the lunch she had made him was not up to his standards, I thought to myself, i would never talk to my wife like that, I would be afraid she would kill me while I was sleeping!

[@VB1Koach]

I was in Japan back in the 80's and your scenario is what I learned about Japanese husbands. I was out with my Japanese girlfriend having dinner. A Japanese husband comes into the resturant and lets the door close on his wife a few paces behind him. I made a comment to my girlfriend about that being rude. She said that it's ok for him to do that. I was like WTF! She said he's the boss. To this day I never got over that situation. I do understand that American culture is different. Especially when you are raised 'Southern'. Women are suppose to be treated with great respect because they are the backbone of our society/community. Meaning raising children and keeping the household in order. Now many women are working like in Japan. They have that on top of running the household. Maybe one day the Japanese men culture will change, but I don't think anytime soon.

[@billashby7858]

@@VB1Koach One of my Japanese bosses had an American girlfriend here in the States and even introduced me to her.

[@ayanokoji888]

Manual is informative🎉

[@MostlyBuicks]

They use this tactic when they are WRONG or do something WRONG to turn the tables and say it is YOUR fault. Their feelings are more important than reality. And they will never take responsibility for being or doing wrong. "I think of a man and take away reason and accountability." I will NOT play there games. I would rather do without them.

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

Some suggest women's inability to admit fault is due to some weird survival instinct they retain from ancient times. Basically the idea that they are not as physically strong as men, and women are wired to fear ostracization more than men, so they will use every tool to avoid taking blame. It would be better if women were to act more like men with regards to logic, playing fair and admitting fault when in the wrong, but asking them to change is like asking a butterfly to turn into a submarine. To use another metaphor, we might as well give a mantis shrimp a gardening implement and demand it prune the roses in the garden. On a serious note, it's really bewildering that men spend decade upon decade trying to understand women, when in fact this could all have been basically taught in school or handed down to us by our parents. I'm not going to argue against gender equality, but the notion that men and women are socially and psychologically identical is very, very destructive as far as men trying to get a handle on how women work. It is part of female nature to manipulate men, and "men are always wrong" and building some kind of file on your 'past evil' seems a big part of it. I don't accept or enjoy it at all - I find it utterly inacceptable. But if I had been trained to accept female nature as a child, then OK, I probably would have dealt with it without seeing woman as lacking in integrity. As men in this day and age, we are taught that men and women are essentialy the same with a few biological differences, but then we get increasingly confused when communication fundamentally breaks down. I'm sure a lot of marital conflicts could be avoided if men truly understood women, but personally I suspect that some things we are taught about female nature is merely a female trick to make us aquiescence to their nature. I really don't know anymore which female actions and words constitute their real feelings and which constitute manipulation strategies. I do agree with the video's point about women desiring expressions of empathy due to their emotional nature (they are moreso than men hardwired for caring for small children), but I get the feeling that's only the tip of the iceberg of female eccentricity. Living with a woman is like living with a space alien, so I prefer to stay alone. If I cannot understand how she works, her intentions, motivations and goals -- that makes me feel at unease.

[@armorbearer9702]

Thank you Meshida. I believe what you said about the types of communication women and men use is the most important part(5:47). Because heart communication does not come naturally for men, they are probably going to need to make an effort to be sympathetic. After working a 10 hour workday, men are gonna struggle to remember to be sympathetic at home.

[@mugen7600]

If meshida post a new video you know its a good day love from malaysia meshida san

[@VB1Koach]

Just watched the three married videos in a row. I am very amused in the way MeshidaSan delivers the information. I understand being a 'gajin' we have different culture, especially being 'Kokojin' (African American). My wife must have read the Japanese Wife's Instruction Manual!!! She's always mad at me for whatever and remembers everything from our relationship. Now, do she remembers the good things I've done? Ei!!! Why do they (my wife & Japanese married women) only remember the questionable things? 'わからない'!!!

[@schnuffelhase1968]

2 simple rules: number 1 = waifu is always right number 2 = if she's not right (certainly impossible), use rule number 1 😜

[@andrewnims8175]

All on point.

[@iakikhongsngi3715]

in doreamon also nobita's mother are strict but jian 's mothers are more strict those two mother are strict even nobita's father sometimes he scared of her

[@JasmineBliss]

I have japanese friends and they seldom communicate directly esp emotions. I've to do many guesswork( as a non japanese)so not sure if that is same for intimate relationships. All couples need to work on effective heart to heart communication for harmonious relationships! Garbage sorting in Japan is already complicated so Ganbatte!

[@NatalieYOT]

It's quite simple, if she's angry with you, you've most probably done something to upset her or didn't do something she expected you to do. That something was most probably something you said you woud do, or something you promised you wouldn't do any more. You probably forgot about what you said or promised because when you said it you didn't mean it, you only said it to get out of an argument.

[@hekutoru_2131]

Ah yes, the "she is always right" argument.

[@Soily9]

Casual sexism is always pleasant.

[@Niels_Oestergaard]

Thanks to Meshida for another good video. The point about men wanting to solve problems while women want empathy instead seems to be universal. It is treated in a famous video on the Tube called "It's not about the nail".

[@VB1Koach]

Your response reminds me of, 'Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars'. We, men and women are a breed apart. Just saying!

[@joshuatall8134]

Meshida-san, you are a fucking genius! Arigato-gozaimasu!!!!!

[@Meshida]

Arigato!

[@hangeishot7919]

Japanese Comedian Meshida. To all Japanese husbands, thank you for your service.

[@Aven-Sharma1991]

She’s a house Yakuza, don’t ever mess with the mob boss 🤌🏻

[@ridhobaihaqi144]

"How to: be a husband of japanese woman for dummies" 😂😂

[@effexon]

Meshida didnt give answer how to balance between work boss and wife boss... if fail one of those, life collapses. This is excellent ABC video for home life.

[@massvt3821]

Surprisingly helpful..without too much sarcasm. I'm shocked 😮

[@JoeCamarillo]

Ever coming to Shizuoka?

[@michaelsoftelbows]

Your English is getting much better, by the way

[@ed-cookie-Cook]

One day, while my wife was out with a friend, I painted her Chihuahua's claws with bright coloured nail-polish. She got so angry and gave me two days to remove the polish because of the upcoming visit to the vets. It didn't come off completely so I had to go alone. When the vet asked, i told her simply that my wife did it. The nail polish was not dangerous except for my demonic wife. Eventually used brown nail polish to sort the problem and she didn't notice the difference. 😂😅

[@tsukikosora]

I m used to think if I can marry cute Japanese women ,my life is going to be completed. Was I totally wrong?

[@iMorphTV]

[08:52] LOLOLOLOLOLOL! I did not see that coming! [09:05] OMG, toooooooo real! The contradiction! 😆

[@rojioyama248]

さすが！ばっちりな話だよ。思うのは, ハフ日本人、ハフラチナはパーフェクト。性格バランスは素晴らしいです。

[@cryptowitcher]

Trying to win an argument with a wife is like trying to teach a cat to fetch, no matter how hard you try, you'll just end up chasing your tail in circles🤣

[@arizel06]

No solo stand-up comedy show in Osaka? おいでよー

[@Meshida]

If you know a good place in Osaka, let me know!

[@SadatClowers]

When I hear demon wife I think of noh theatre and the demon wives

[@flaviusjustinianus]

Now I want to become a japanes boss so I can have a team who has to listen and laugh about my boring stories after work 😂. Maybe Meshida San can teach us how to become a boss in Japan and what benefits and drawbacks that entails for westerners

[@berryhomchas]

The most important words a man should know are the ones a woman never tells him.

[@gwillis01]

hello Meshida

[@WANDERER0070]

Making wife happy is simple,,dont ever argue just hand over the cash 😂

[@LeonardS-ol8ip]

Outstandingly funny! Thank you :)

[@tee_ef_em]

Fantastic video, man! Spot on.

[@tywanjacob2910]

Hey, does this book comes in English Translation? I have a Japanese Girlfriend, but this book could come in handy in due time.

[@Soily9]

Buy the book in Japanese, and make her read it and translate it for you ! :D

[@Zanth123]

Meshida Men minds when communicating have a box of so many words .when that box is empty they are done with talking for a while. Not because they don't want to ,the can't think of anything . and it takes time for it to fill back up.

[@DoumanAsh]

Finally I know how to handle wife Even though I'm never getting married but still!

[@CC-6454]

Who will hit a Jackpot that a husband (Colonial Marines) have to face a Xenomorph wife Japanese Wife evolved into Xenomorph (Alien Movie) 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[@zcnaipowered7407]

Women are time traveler's of memory, will put this on a shirt someday.

[@RS-do2yd]

I had a Japanese ex and she treated me exactly like this….everything was amazing until suddenly one day she flipped. it made me go crazy with worry, stress, and confusion because I loved her so much. It was like all of a sudden she became a different person and had a complete flip….

[@anahata8870]

Who does not love the eye expressions:-)

[@crintraian]

Will Meshida get his sushi roll possessed by a demon?😂

[@QueensWino]

I've stopped the video at 7:26, Meshida-san! I suspect some of the dialogue you are using comes from prior experience with one or more women, haha! Not to joke at your expense, mind you...okay, now to the rest of the video!😂

[@galamotshaku]

I wish this wasn't so accurate

[@MeanBeanDanRod420]

Omg! This applies to all sorts of chicks. 😂➡️💀

[@ilvpowerrangers]

I was already ahead of the game before this. I now know the reason why God had my mom be who I was around more then my dad. He wanted me ready for my girlfriend/wife when the time came. But like I tell you in other comments your girl is out there and you'll find her.

[@effexon]

how can avoid simp trap? just following demon's commands like robot only makes demon stronger; somehow need to put boundaries when it goes too far. I guess leaving house is one option but not silver bullet for all cases(that memory thing then comes to haunt eventually).

[@MostlyBuicks]

The trick is to organize the chores. You do not wash ALL the clothes at once. You wash a load every day. You can clean ONE room today, another tomorrow. Or you could only dust and clean tables and counter tops today, and floors tomorrow. You can only clean bathrooms and wash towels and sheets today, and clean kitchen tomorrow. You clean up AS you are cooking, clean as you go. Men are MUCH better at organizing. They do not create work for themselves.

[@paul6925]

House Yakuza lol

[@Aven-Sharma1991]

Meshida-Ji, women regardless of race are timid around alpha males, the ones who don’t apologise to them, if you’re just carefree and don’t care about them too much then they won’t be able to dominate you. When they start becoming annoying then just leave them and go out and they won’t have the fuel to engage in an argument, that’s what they do,

[@VB1Koach]

So while watching 5 Reason Not To Marry Japanese Women, I thought of what I do with my wife back in the day. It's exactly what you stated. Walk out and go have a drink, take to ride, or go see a friend. Sure she will get mad at the man leaving, but he doesn't have to deal with it. Eventually she'll understand that the noise, that what I call it, don't help. Talk to me like you are talking to your friend or boss. Use your phone voice instead of your 'Godzilla' one! hahahahahahaahaaahahaha

[@Aven-Sharma1991]

@@VB1Koach: If you don’t care about these women then they won’t have that power over you and will learn quickly that their antics won’t work. We would love to respect them and look after them and spoil them rotten but only if she’s a good girl, we aren’t monsters however they ruin it for themselves with the nagging, criticism and the stress. Just let them know ONCE that you won’t deal with that nonsense and act alpha, then they’ll respect you and behave

[@johnstaxx6224]

well it totally explains a lot. domo for the post

[@Pewtah]

Those behaviours are also true in Germany.

[@effexon]

I have a question for meshida: can comedian work in Minato to earn better living? Id guess rich people love private comedy shows. Some even love public roastings by comedians.

[@Meshida]

Unfortuantely, I'm perfoming in Japanglish ....

[@SanSan-lb9iv]

What if you met a Japanese divorcee, will they transfer their ex-husbands’ terabytes of data to you?? Asking for a friend😂

[@vinipcplayer]

YES...that is why young and virgin are the best...they dont carry trauma from past relationships

[@sumanakarmakar6855]

Hey Meshida, wat kind of wives are ideal for you 🤓

[@BruhMan_5]

This has applied to ever women I've ever met

[@flamea56]

I've experienced many times and having to be empathic will only work for so long. Unfortunately, man will be blamed at some point. Sometimes you would hope they would recognize the small changes but that's never the case. Thanks for the video 👏

[@effexon]

yea respect part is needed... that may be very tricky. As we know from west, only doing by this manual is no automatic respect... it may just raise bar to require more. So other manual is needed to keep "spark" in relationship.

[@mohammedmoheen8819]

Well, I think one should try to understand Japanese wives. I believe that Japanese people love their husbands more than people from other countries. When she loves you more, she wants you to work less. So it's okay, but in bed, they see you like a hero.

[@_rymak_2044]

Want an easy guide for women in general ? Just be the yes man... Outcome: You'll live...

[@JD-vx8gr]

Thanks for the "comedy". As it has been often said, comedy is Truth or reality in disguise. When you really think about what he said, he is 150 per centt correct!

[@AndroidTheLeader]

Only one rule for sensible men: Don't get married. Peace.

[@warrenbooth2103]

Any man who says he understands women will tell lies about everything else as well.

[@Pericalypsis]

I think demons only arise when there is an attraction mismatch. This probably happens in a majority of relationships due to an inherent asymmetry in male and female desire. I would rather be a strange ojisan than live with a demon.

[@27jyp]

Dude, the irony is that men think they have logic when they have no logic. Of course the wives will flip.

[@GHO784]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😊

[@theGENIUSofART-understood]

Taming of the Shrew.

[@MostlyBuicks]

Running the washing machine, and baking in the oven, and meanwhile changing diapers is NOT multitasking. There is no such thing as multitasking. You may have several things going at the same time, but you have to tend to each one independently, although intermittently in rotation. Because of woman's "feelings" I live alone. I do EVERYTHING. Never needed help in the first place.

[@Miko36110]

結婚したら参考になります

[@gowhereulike]

If Husband say I ❤ you to wife every day, then she won't become demon. 😂😅

[@th3mmch]

ありがとうございますW W W

[@chrispeng5502]

Salute to all the real men who treat their wives like queens and make them happy.

[@hekutoru_2131]

Pathetic

[@redemissarium]

now now when woman angry just use exhausting tactics, create as many quarrel and dispute as possible so she is angry like 10 times a day everyday for a month so finally she run out reason and energy to angry and being warm and nice again 😁 DISCLAIMER: it might end up she leave you forever and she will do some ominous story spreading about you 🤐

[@uminchu59]

The garbage segment is uncanny. In my house there are several more steps to the processing, and it grosses me out how she spends so much time with her hands in the garbage.

[@Bibleinformationandhelp]

Thank you. There is some good information in this video. Like: 1. Even if your woman is speaking nonsense or nonfactual things, still listen to it as if it is true. Don't argue with her about the non factual information she is spewing out. Very interesting.

[@waltEeee]

😶‍🌫️🤐🤯 .... Funny Bible of love book vs love book... Hmmm

[@tapuchan200]

Sounds just like my wife 😅

[@Jr-qo4ls]

It’s funny because it’s true.

[@menhera2]

俺は男と思っていたが今わからなくなった😢

[@kitsura]

1 small book is not enough to understand a women, there should be a 五輪書 written about this subject instead.

[@Sin606]

You can't have everything, but I guess that's the hardest part. The trash separation in the US is much more simple.

[@jimmymac4559]

In short, don’t be yourself around your Japanese wife.

[@Keskelis]

Bringing up how women tend to do more child care without bringing up how men do more work outside the home to SUPPORT THEIR FAMILY WITH MONEY TO SURVIVE. I think one is more important than the other. Don't bring up where they work the same amount of time, because that's a drastic outlier.

[@briancrosby152]

If only the chore part was true, yes help as much as possible. If you do a half assed job you never hear the end of it. I learned from experience & the migraine isn't worth it! 😢😢😢

[@Rollermonkey1]

I want to show my okusan your videos, but I am worried that she will turn into a demon. Should I show her your video, Meshida Sempai?

[@paulofrota3958]

Children should not get married.

[@jmartelli6874]

Put up an angry Japanese housewife against an angry Italian housewife...and it's going to be a LONG fight 😅

[@CerridwenAwel]

Or maybe not.. italians won't think twice to burn everything to the ground. In fact that's the obvious choice, no need to think. Japanese women are too tied up to allow themselves to go all out like an italian one. But, they're way more rancorous...

[@Sannypowa]

Nagging is terminal, this means a angry nagging wife can never change, there is no cure for nagging wife disorder, the only option a man has is the divorce.

[@senoritaangeles]

Sooo doing the basic Like Clinging Cooking And doing and chores in the house... I mean is common sense ....

[@4G12]

To be fair, most of this is common sense, but common sense seems to be getting less and less common. 🤔