Jase & Missy’s Wedding Night Didn’t Go So Well & Phil & Miss Kay’s Romantic Bedtime Habit | Ep 630

[@thetruth4716]

I married an unbeliever, and one day out of the blue, she walked out the door and left me with 3 kids and all of our responsibility and she’s never looked back, really changed my life and did a number on my children. We survived the storm, but she kept the chaos going for years to come, as she became an alcoholic and drug addict, and did unmentionable things that were impossible to hide from my kids. Make sure you know who you’re entering into life with, before you find yourself cleaning up messes and sheltering your kids from complete insanity. Jesus has seen me through and my kids have learned many valuable, yet sad lessons over the last 20 years, but they are all fine, other than the fact that they don’t have a mom, which has left deep scars.

[@mdcollins3806]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@dgreen3135]

Praying for you brother

[@jeffblalock4630]

Sending prayers your way my friend

[@michaels.1365]

You showed your a true Loving Dad and a good Christian man. God bless ya 🙏

[@tiachandler5350]

The sad truth is she was probably already on drugs and that's why she left and decided that the drugs were more important my daddy done that to us drugs and alcohol heart breaking ....but thankfully I got to forgive my daddy and have a relationship with him snd get really close to him for about 10 years before he passed and when he passed away I lost a huge piece of me cause he became my bestfriend it broke my heart so bad and it's been 13 years we'll in August it will be he passed away August 4th and his bday was August 7th he was only 54 he was so happy to making it to 55 he would have been the longest living man in his family he got three days close and passed away which hurt me even more we were just talking about it on th third on the phone its so crazy ..

[@jayham1970]

Years ago when I was going to church at a particular congregation, there was an older lady in the church who was my go-to for adult talks about life, about courting, about marriage, and about sexual relations. She was about 80+/-, and as a Godly woman she could talk and give advice on all of it…without embarrassment, blushing, or a stutter. When that woman passed away in 2003, I felt like I had lost a best friend, advisor, and confidant. Occasionally, I still go to her grave just to visit and have a talk. I don’t believe she is in that grave, but the talks still help me out when I am puzzling life and my marriage.

[@akanalu9873]

I come from such a broken family. My parents didn’t raise me, lots of physical and mental abuse, I was never hugged and kissed growing up, I had no authority figure. BUT because of that I’ve always told GOD that he’s my daddy. The Robertson family gives me hope. You guys have always been somewhat a part of my life ever since duck dynasty days. Thank you and I love you guys

[@dipstick5869]

Sure wish that I could have a re- do on a few past decisions when I was younger. The Consequences are real folks!🙏🙂

[@kevinunger433]

Agreed , me too

[@angiebryan7155]

You and me both!

[@katherinehurt5238]

AMEN! But thank God that he knows our mistakes before we do!

[@brendabanks2540]

I feel like I live and work in the lions den everyday, as a High School Teacher in Southern California. This is where I have been called to and I firmly believe in grow where you are planted but I have begun to start my day grading High School work while listening to this KZbin channel. I can't effectively express my gratitude for peace and comfort it brings. I need the joy, laughter and Gods good word to help me stay encouraged while in the midst of the war that our society has allowed to become both in education and in California!!!!!

[@lisasnider9143]

Teaching in public school is not an easy gig, I teach in Missouri and I've been grading our lesson planning while listening also.

[@jayniekinser7259]

Yes. Glad you are staying put and being a light.

[@tag1752]

Yeah it’s tough enough to be a teacher in the first place but to have to deal with California schools far left ideology is rough. Yeah it is nice to have Gods good word. Certainly helps. The podcast is great all around. It grounds you even more and reminds what true goodness and love is. God Bless You. The world would be so much better if people would really take the Ten Commandments to heart

[@suzielou6670]

God loves his children. You keep doing what you're doing and you're gonna save lives. Those kids need God and you may be the only Godly person in their lives

[@conniepeters3579]

Thank you for having the wives on, it's been lovely. They are your beautiful counterparts! Bless you all!

[@101half7]

Lisa's laugh is contagious! I absolutely love this family...

[@raquel71]

Agreed! Lisa's laugh is absolutely contagious! 😃

[@rebekahsummers4953]

What an awesome word from Missy about reevaluating the beauty standards you’re portraying in front of your daughters and sons ♥️

[@jayniekinser7029]

Missy is my favorite! I enjoy every one of these people, and Lisa but Missy and I are a lot alike. Well, Missy is what I aspire to be like. No disrespect for everyone else.

[@dawnlawson3682]

I love this, Everyone together.. This should be a monthly podcast with the family. SUCH INSPIRATION !!

[@elizabeththomas8746]

I agree with marriage. Don't get married if not equally yoked. I wished I had better roll models to teach me that. 39 years married, I struggle every day with that mistake. Now I totally understand why people, after 40 years they divorce from that kind of struggle. Prayers needed. Y'all are so blessed. I Love your podcast. Thank you.

[@Jayyy667]

That means don't play in the mud

[@cowboyhat1601]

I'm praying for you. Fix your eyes on Jesus, invest in your relationship with God. Set your expectations in line with what the heart of God is, in other words, if Christ expects for you to be peaceful in his arms then you can expect the same thing and not be disappointed. Leave the heart changing of your husband up to Yeshua.

[@FarfallaSiciliana427]

I think a lot of people would if they could change the narrative. I married young. Not sure it was for the right reasons but when my husband cheated I couldn't get passed it - I tried for many years and held that anger and grudge for many many more. All I keep hearing myself say is I wish I came to Yeshua sooner so I could have found that God fearing man and my life would have been so very different. I thought I did find that man about 4 yrs ago, turns out it got exhausted for him to pretend he wasn't a narcissist so when his true colours shined they were blinding - I tried to stay but it was unbearable- now I feel life has passed me by and I will never be able to make those memories and raise that family and share generations of stories with grandchildren and it makes me very sad. I pray for us all. That those in a God made marriage stay respectful, full of life and love and those that are not stay strong, compassionate and patient unless abuse is involved then at that point ask the Almighty to be your strength to save yourself. Good bless you all. Love 😊these podcasts !!!!

[@tammymcknight7289]

🙏🙏

[@elizabeththomas8746]

@@cowboyhat1601 All the above has exhausted my strength. Thank you for your kind input and praying for me.

[@karlaelia4275]

Missy - that’s true period. You can’t go into a marriage thinking you’re going to change something about the person you marry. They are who they are and you got into marriage “as is”. So, definitely being equally yoked , especially spiritually is a good thing going into a marriage.

[@Iamthathillbilly]

I agree with what Al said about short engagements, my wife and I got married a month after getting engaged, in a little white church, it wasnt a big show, just a simple wedding, in front of our families and God. And I see where Missy is coming from, marriage is such a blessing if you've got a good partner. I could live a thousand lifetimes and I'd seek her out every time.

[@debbieoneal3744]

Jesus , grateful for Jesus's wisdom, salvation, advice, thank you all for voicing these things!

[@jeanniehuskins6218]

My mom said the same thing Lisa said. Don't even date a non believer. Good advice. I didn't think so when I was younger however.

[@susanwest8239]

I ❤️ love these people.

[@allenols3175]

I'm 72, I relate with Phill/Jace, love ur family adventures,

[@ggrace1133]

My husband and I were virgins too. I didn’t think anyone did that any more, so good for you! But I have to say our wedding night was absolutely beautiful. We’d talked beforehand several times of what our expectations and hopes were for our wedding night which was enlightening because we saw things a bit differently. Like I wanted slow and savory, and he wanted fast and furious. So we decided we’d try my way first and then his next. But it ended up being a combination as the pent up waiting sort of took over. We were just crazy about exploring each other and loved losing control. It was a great beginning that got better and better the more we learned together. We both thought this gift from God was the best thing he could give to a couple. I will say that one thing that really impacted our physical intimacy was each of us wanting to please the other more than ourselves. Such giving is very fulfilling because the more you give, the more comes back to you. Learn to love each other even when you begin learning how flawed you both are…be humble and forgiving, and be willing to do better. Jesus wants us to follow him and keep trying to be more and more like him, so keep striving to improve the little things we do that are hurtful or disappointing. That’s true, deep love. It honors God and honors the marriage to keep improving ourselves. And give each other grace. We all mess up and need grace toward ourselves and for our spouse. (Please note: in no way am I referring to abusive behaviors, whether verbal, physical, mental, or emotional.)

[@jayniekinser7029]

Uh…..this is not the place for a romance novel but you do seem to have that particular talent. The first sentence was steaming enough for me. That’s as far as I read.

[@raquel71]

God's timing is perfect! I needed to see this podcast and hear the message. For the record, I have been married for almost 30 years (my first marriage; my husband's second, and marriage is not always easy. There are definitely ups and downs, and Ms. Kay's grandmother was so very wise when she said you have to fight for your marriage. Thank you so very much for sharing this message.

[@katherinehurt5238]

Mrs. Kay is so precious 💕

[@BoHowH]

I'm 32 years old now I lost my virginity as a teenager and I've been through some really bad experiences. I have now met my soulmate we would love to get married he's so kind and we both think about and talk about what Jesus would want us to do in regards to marriage and raising a family. Thank you for sharing your story. I don't regret the experiences that I've had it taught me a lot is shaped the person that I am today but I'll be a liar to say that I wouldn't do things different knowing what I know now. Sometimes I reflect back I wish I would have met my soulmate years ago. He is a man of God and that's exactly what I needed in my life and continue to need. Him and I watch you reruns all the time and we talked about how we would do things the way your family does things. I truly believe that when my daddy passed away God sent me my soulmate. Honestly my soulmate could hold me over a bridge and I would trust him. When he says he loves me I believe him and I've never had that before.

[@kimglover6968]

It's hard to believe that Alan and Lisa have a 17 year old grandchild. I love the podcast and I love it when Mrs Kay is on.

[@sandybarrett4997]

Loved having the ladies on for the last 2 podcasts. So nice getting to meet Jill.

[@gregercarter1]

Truely blessed by this session! Authentic, with honest open hearts! Missed you Zach, and first time hearing Jill - appreciate her sharing!

[@walkingtrails7776]

Please pray for my marriage. Over 20 years ..and its a complete daily struggle. I've prayed..we've prayed ..no details BUT I'd rather be by myself than continue this ..staying for the kids is not a good idea..it just doesn't work that way. PLEASE pray for us and the direction the Lord would have this marriage go. Thank you brother and sisters . 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@laurawatson7182]

Jesus loves you and so do I

[@cathieharris1127]

I have to tell you, Jase and Missy; you have beautiful voices together. I have the Christmas CD you Robertsons made and I can't bring it to mind now, but it was a song you two sang alone. I play it every year. I became a believer after we got married but my husband never did. So of course I lost my faith for a long time. But now I am putting my truth back in spite of being alone in it with friends and relationships. So I agree 100% with your topic.

[@iMiik]

you, Robertsons are one strong family unit. 🙏🏼

[@pattilynch587]

Awesome podcast. Very good input from the ladies. I like when you have the ladies on. They bring so much to the table. I believe that if you are authentic in your looks, the better off you are mentally and physically. I took have a friend who has had work, did not make her happier! I do plan to color my hair until I exit stage left!!

[@SWEETSAVORYWORDS]

I colored my hair a couple of times when I was young before I began to have silver hair. My hair at 70 is growing past my shoulders. It looks like silver threads. My sister just 5 years younger has grey hair. She has always colored her hair and straightened her hair. She finally decided to go natural. But she keeps it short and still straightens it. I have always resisted anyone who said, you should color your hair. I love the hair God has given me. I feel extremely blessed.

[@karlaelia4275]

Y’all are awesome!!!

[@christinasloan4004]

I really wish the wives were on every episode! I truly enjoy it!!.

[@megcortes5936]

God blesses us again and again. Love when the wives join! What a treat. Thank you all family 🤍🕊️🤍

[@jackiedumke5525]

Love this group of folks! Real deal!!

[@Draftingalife]

😂you got your dream wedding! How fun. A wedding with movie flavor. Those wedding movies always come with hilarious incidents involved!

[@JoyNoelle.]

LOOOOVED THIS!! I felt like I was having a get together with my friends!! Great conversations. Love and cherish you ALL ❤️

[@freshcut6952]

Thank you guys for sharing I get so much from y’all podcast

[@shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657]

Awe, so sweet to hear about Mr. Phil and Miss Kay holding hands

[@kathymclain2632]

I so enjoyed the spouses being there and contributing. God bless!

[@tonyyelverton92]

I’ve been watching the program almost since the very beginning. I have to say that this is one of the best programs ever.

[@KimByers]

So loved this segment and shared with my teen boys. And so nice to meet Zach’s wife. The husband and wife dynamic is such a great listen. 💕

[@annetteheck9913]

Great podcast. Thanks for being unashamed.

[@staceylicious74]

📢📢📢~~Jill...you are Everything!!!! 😁😁😁Your voice is very unique!! You sound so sweet and articulate!!! Like you've been doing this a long time... you're a natural in my opinion!!!! 💖💖💖~~I just Love love Triple Love every time the ladies are on!!! 🤔🤔🤔~~ Perhaps in addition to The Duck Call Room...(being the 'brother podcast' like Al says)....Unashamed could have a 'sister podcast'?????🥰🥰🥰

[@jdneely9939]

I've been married 25 yrs with four kids 24, 23, 22, 20 so evidently I've been doin it right. We have more fun now as a couple in our late forties then we did in our mid twenties.

[@rainbowbabyluvida4441]

Beautiful to see the wives absolutely beautiful love love love love it

[@jasonknight6390]

Great podcast!! Thanks for being so transparent, it’s so helpful! I love what Jill shared and called “the cheap fruit of affirmation” … wow, that was a Spirit filled phrase.

[@thegoodonez84]

Thank you Robertson family for taking the time out of your day to teach us the good news in computer land.

[@shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657]

So great to see the wives on and everyone talking about the humorous stories about their marriages. Real people, not religious

[@deirdregray432]

Excellent advice Lisa!!! My boys are going to middle school next year and although its too early to date, they will be exposed to alot of kids dating. I've been thinking alot about talks I need to have soon with my boys and I love what you said about how the devil will try to set them up for failure.

[@elainescott7365]

Amen, I love this podcast. All young people need to hear the honeymoon story, I love it. Thank you for sharing, I'm definitely going to have my boys listen to this.

[@sherricharles8149]

I absolutely agree! Beautiful story before God and His Blessings for waiting until yall were married before God!

[@heavenbound358]

Very interesting and engaging conversation.

[@carlibasson2410]

Thank you guys for just being unashamed and real!!! ❤❤❤

[@jillkinnear6378]

Thank you all for keeping it real , you share the highs and lows. God bless you all , I’ve always been a fan

[@joycemiraglia280]

Hello Robertson Family...I love hearing your wedding stories. Personally I think young people today treat marriage like going steady. That you just break it off no big deal. I was on FB a while back and a topic came up "things that are out of date today" that's not exactly the wording but its close and 1 of the things mentioned was marriage !! that you could just live together... How sad we have fallen...

[@micheleskeggs2173]

Thank you. My husband passed 3 yrs. ago and one of the things I miss most is every night in bed he'd grab my hand and kiss it. I was blessed with the son of a Pastor who loved God and loved family. When my husband became ill I knew how he touched so many lives by the love his brotherhood of Firefighters showed him. God is good all the time.

[@jackg4226]

I really loved this and was so very encouraged ❤ Thank you all

[@lynnlloyd7344]

I love these podcast, they are always a blessing to me. Thank you for doing these.

[@sharonscain7673]

So enjoyed this podcast! So much truth! Our God is amazing and your honesty speaks volumes to women!

[@gracebright1388]

I really love the whole-family-together show. Awesome! We need more!!!

[@pt8019]

Wow, what a great episode! Thank you for sharing in honesty. Your realism is so appreciated and much needed.

[@jdneely9939]

Granddaddy always told my sisters in your life time your beauty will fade but your character will endlessly stay

[@jayniekinser7029]

Beauty is fleeting. These ladies are all beautiful though.

[@beekay1249]

Love having the 3 couples❣️

[@sherrywilliams409]

Thanks to your family for these podcasts bc it really helps me with that grief. You inspire me to want to be better in my walk and relationship with Christ. For that I am thankful to each of you. Just to have something that is real is so refreshing in this day and time. We certainly won’t get it from tv! When you have the love of Christ in your heart and you have the love of your soulmate, you are able to see each other through rose colored glasses and not care what others think of your beauty. But now without him I feel less pretty. I don’t have confidence any longer. I no longer want to wear makeup. So if there is a Christian man who can wear rose colored glasses when he looks at me, that’s the one I MIGHT be interested in.

[@louiseoberdier7870]

This has been a great study!!!!

[@shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657]

Yes, Jase. I love the authenticy on the podcast

[@jodimartinez8952]

Loved this thank you all so much and thank you Jesus for this family and their Godly wisdom and real life sharing on here! They are real

[@sharonscain7673]

Amen Lisa! I tell this to my granddaughter!

[@BB.halo_heir]

I CANNOT wait to see this movie !!!! ♡♡♡♡♡

[@homeatserenitysprings2120]

We love Jill. She needs to be on more often.

[@shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657]

WOW! 😅Jase is being so honest and real about Missy after they got married. I never heard a Christian man speaking like this.😮 11:39

[@debbiecarleton2101]

You guys look so young in love

[@katherinehurt5238]

Who is the woman talking at 6:27? Thanks

[@michellescarborough16]

This was a nice conversation because there was a balance with the men and the women. These sort of topics are necessary because engaged christian couples should discuss what they think m ,arriage should be all about. Instead, a lot of couples focus on the day of the wedding and all the preparations before it. They need to prepare for marriage, so it has a lasting chance. Good work shop Al and Lisa have going.

[@Emoji-ATTrailangel]

I love y’all❣️❤️🥰 Your are surely Lights and Ambassadors of God’s Truth and y’all’s honesty, at such a time as this: darkness, broken, chaotic, confused, perverted, divided, and hate-filled time, and so much more. Thank you for your unity in Christ, in His message of hope for the world, and unity of love for each other❣️❣️❣️❤️🥰 Y’all are so refreshing to watch and hear, you’ll just never know . . . Keep shinin, y’all❣️

[@patroitparody9451]

Ty for this podcast! I shared it & I will share it with my grandchildren!

[@MissyWallace]

Lots of wise words here .

[@angiebryan7155]

I'm almost 50 years old and never married. I was not living right by any means when I was younger and was smart enough to know that I wasn't dating men that would make good husbands. Now that I've given my life to Christ, I would like to find someone. Prayers toward that endeavor are appreciated. Love the show. Love your family.

[@rossturner3397]

To the folks looking for the "best they ever had". If it's the only person you've been with, then it will be the best you've ever had. Song of Solomon 4:16 "Awake, O north wind, and come, O south wind! Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow. Let my beloved come to his garden, and eat its choicest fruits."

[@aprilraymond-smiedy6055]

Soooooo Very Sweet...

[@belindamanis3431]

Missy is correct. I married young to someone who wasn’t putting God first. I thought I could change him. There was many painful years and a close call on divorce but he was baptized in ‘99. I always advise in dating a believer.

[@tional5266]

Truth about what jaces wife said about the evil one using a spouse to get to you! So much battling!

[@MissyWallace]

I'm really enjoying following your podcast ! You Robertson men sure have a bunch of smart, intelligent, Christian women in your family!

[@momofboys7756]

The movie was great. We need a sequel. Praise the Lord. He is good all the time.

[@beverlycurry4370]

I love the family coming together💖💖

[@connieparker8896]

Everyone has a testimony, we are all broken, Thanks for the Grace of God we can be saved thru our Lord Jesus Christ, Amen

[@annesweeney5552]

I sooo ENJOYED this

[@reginapustelak5420]

I’m just finding y’all. I loved this discussion. Is there somewhere I can watch the overtime part of the show?

[@heatherpatterson9246]

I’m in a huge battle with addiction, self love, and just living life by the Lord…I pray every day for a way out. I pray every day that I’ll stop drinking and a lot of days that my life will end. But, I wasn’t always like this. I know Christ and I know I was meant for more than this. This pod cast touches me in a lot of ways. I’m trying Lord, I really am. I just ask for prayers that I be delivered and live the life I was meant to live. Please pray for me. It’s hard to be this vulnerable

[@rockyxxxyyy]

Long time sobriety here. Lean on your faith and take it one day at a time. Get into a detox program and let the process work. AA is a great place to help you. Just focus on each day. And remember as soon as you let it go everyday after you're moving upwards. You got a prayer coming from me! God bless!

[@Mzpenelopepitstop]

Love all the episodes but especially this one. 💕

[@maryjanedowns4040]

This sounds like a good one 👍hahaha I can't stop laughing I'm sorry but I understand very well

[@patroitparody9451]

Beauty should come from the heart

[@mayrabarrientos3856]

Wow ❤what Jill said about as we get older and invest in our soul and be more beautiful as woman ! I will be telling my daughter that

[@IamAngelHart]

Papa Phil your movie comes out on my birthday. I'm gonna spend my birthday watching you

[@peppernc429]

I haven’t laughed this hard in a long time! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@stephaniecline7648]

I was either ignorant or fooled into dating and marrying someone who I thought was a believer. If you're convicted to break up before marrying, seek wise, godly counsel if needed, but be obedient to the Lord. I can't express the amount of grief I could have avoided if I'd been obedient when dating.

[@michaels.1365]

We found the only time Jase didn't have ducks on his mind looking down her dress that was funny 😄 lol God bless yall all🙏

[@zebrastripes875]

The picture of jase when hes young on thumbnail looks like john luke.

[@beverlycurry4370]

Praise the Lord Phil you are better🙌🙌

[@dorislacaze8475]

Awesome podcast!

[@richardhenry6794]

Jase doing the old dip cup move love you guys

[@patriciacain8988]

This is sooooo good! Say it louder!🦆

[@ourkentuckyvalleylife2333]

This should become it's own podcast of some sort. Really good stuff. God bless 🙏

[@Leckstrum]

Completely agree.

[@charlesbachorski7682]

😊😅😮😢❤