STOP EXPLAINING! HE KNOWS WHAT HE’S DOING TO YOU!

[@Goldenheart2911]

See the value within yourself and remove these men that are trying to stall or burn you out. You deserve so much better than being someone's lay away plan.💛

[@lafsolot0962]

Exactly! I just broke up w someone that was dimming my light.

[@katarinadelogu7010]

Exactly exactly spot on soooo trueeee.. 💔😭😭😭💔😪🐍🤮👽🥶🐍👹🆘🚩🚩🚩

[@Goldenheart2911]

@@lafsolot0962 You reach a point when you say what I'm doing here. It's hard to walk away, but you deserve so much better. Take time to heal and watch how your light will continue to shine brighter each day.💛

[@lafsolot0962]

@@Goldenheart2911 Yes! I feel like myself again!

[@Goldenheart2911]

@@lafsolot0962 That's great.🎉 Keep moving forward. God Bless💛

[@courtneyscirocco8472]

Omg this is exactly what my ex would say. He’d say I was always unhappy when in reality I was just expressing my feelings in a kind way.

[@Egh0127]

Me too. He's always saying I complain 24/7 and that I am never happy and I tell him I'm just telling u my feelings how u make me feel

[@taniaroberts7567]

“Everything is always about you right? Everything day you trippin and complaining about something about this dam relationship or something I’m doing wrong, you stay saying how you feel you doing too much” smh o because I’m letting you know the bs you doing that hurts me I’m doing too much I’m trippin

[@adzmisa2385]

I feel you. Im in the same boat 😢. I was just pointing out something and he said Im too insecure.

[@jrubidoobidoo]

Yep. It’s mind boggling… And then, if you’re really compassionate and trying to do the right thing, you might tap down even faster to please him.

[@star450star]

🛑✝️🔥🔥🔥🆕🆓HE DID NOT GET IT. DIFFERENT LEVELS N I DO NOT BELONG WITH HIM.

[@saturnianitch8384]

“Communication requires a valid effort to comprehend” Thank you for this one!!!

[@kamarie_]

“Youre always whining” when all i want to do is talk out our problems after a fight instead of acting like nothing happened

[@ogtvkc]

on point. Number changed, blocked on social media.He wanted to burn me out but he stalled me out. I’m out. 🙏🏽 thank you God ❤️

[@marcycane1793]

Same on 10 sis! 🙏🏽 very thankful unto God ❤️

[@moonbysa]

Well done! I am out too. Much love to you 💛

[@Goldenheart2911]

Take time to heal and watch how life gets so much better once you remove the toxicity.💛

[@ogtvkc]

thanks yall, means more than you know:)

[@veronicalittlevideos]

I’ve heard all of what ur saying. He’s making me feel like I’m totally crazy

[@ericabelcher8760]

Their gaslighting & mental manipulation is on 100 these days! Gotta stay as far away from ppl like that! They will literally drain you! Smh

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Stop wondering if you are good enough for them. If they don’t value you, they are not for you. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@NiceScissors84]

Doesn't matter what I say to him. In fact if I'm really making a good point that's when he really purposely stops listening. I am never taking him back.

[@WesWessey]

who else needed to hear how we WASTIN the best yearz of our livez? are u serious? THANK YOU for conformation.

[@mamajo8587]

My goodness....this is soo accurate. Actions speak so much louder than words!!!

[@tashamac4405]

He says be patient I coming to see you just be patient then I snap what's really going on Mr jaxn

[@lanapalij4014]

Always!❤

[@ineedavaykation4016]

I don't play baseball; it's not 3 strikes you out. Identify the problem, have 1 dialogue on a solution, if it happens a second time he meant that with his whole chest both times, and I activate my fallback so hard he thinks I'm deceased. We teach people how to treat us by what we allow to continue by not demonstrating how much more we're in love with ourselves.

[@satyamyogaderby]

We are not teachers! We want an evolved person! One who grows and wants to develop!

[@satyamyogaderby]

I will say it once! No changed behaviour or effort then you’re not important to them! When we love someone their feelings are important! Xx respect yourself ❤

[@leelee9823]

I..its draining when it happens .

[@jessipanda]

The comparison between begging someone to appreciate you vs how many times that someone would need to be told where to go pick up 1 mil is perfect.

[@LaLaFox251]

That's draining, I have no patience for all that foolishness, those type of men are very immature, wasting my time, I am too old!

[@Lneiaradd]

I’ve never felt a stronger “this message is for YOU!!” moment. Thank you for this one!

[@lanapalij4014]

Same here! Loved everything he said! Sometimes I’d laugh out loud !

[@midnightblue117]

“The million dollar” analogy was spot on!!!!! I seriously thank you for that!

[@PurpleYoda77]

And there ya go...I realized that, did ALL of that and now I'm happily single😎

[@Godschild921]

Same here...it's a fresh breakup for me but I know deep down inside I deserve better and I will get better

[@PurpleYoda77]

@@Godschild921 yes, give yourself time and be kind to yourself in the process.

[@Godschild921]

@@PurpleYoda77 thank you...I will do ❤️

[@Lala89856]

@@Godschild921 Congratulations! It is a blessing to be be at peace and a fresh start.

[@Lala89856]

Very proud of you. We all deserve better.

[@veronicalittlevideos]

Thank u! This is the best thing I’ve heard in a while I really needed this for validation

[@marting9554]

I always smile and be nice to everyone and men always take it the wrong way !!

[@latashahumphrey769]

I am so tired of being sick I'm still going to my second job today but this has literally took a toll on me.

[@deannawatson4953]

For 25 years He has been slowly getting me down. There is no affection or compliments. We separated and I took him back. We are there again but I am scared I haven't done everything I can to save this but when you're only getting breadcrumbs.I am starving for affection and just to matter to him

[@Sheshe661972]

@@mariuxicadena982 you got that right! Life is way too short. To do someone like that is demonic.

[@joannanoelle83]

The million dollars analogy is so spot on 🎯 This video was excellent. Thank you!

[@indianelson4054]

If they can understand and listen as far as doing his job correctly then he is very well capable of listening and respecting you and your needs too. You can hold a full conversation with everyone else about everything else but can't talk to the one person that you claim to love then you're not deserving of her. Thats not acceptable period. At that point whats the point? Breaking things down to his understanding and making sure that he does is key. If you do all of that and he does not change then its because he just don't want to.

[@pjsandcocoa]

I don't think he was smart enough to burn me out. I'm just there and literally went from wanting him back so he can see my worth....to just walking away and validating my own worth.

[@positivevibes1306]

Oh my god. I’ve had enough of men who take my friendliness as a come on. I have decided to start to wear a 💍 I’m fed up of it especially with clients. It puts me in very uncomfortable positions that I don’t want to be in. I’ve had enough!!!

[@leannekakko1133]

Omg I've done the very same thing ..I wear a ring to get less bothered ..I resignate & feel the very same thing with exactly every thing you've expressed here 🙌

[@Mr93sharpei]

I too keep rings on my ring finger ...to avoid unwanted attention....

[@Godschild921]

Wow...came at the right time in my life...thank you

[@4allu568]

That’s a fact!

[@kimberlycouture2373]

Your videos are incredible... You hold an amazing amount of knowledge. These videos are life right now for me.

[@julesa2894]

I.... They try to come onto me AGGRESSIVELY. It's FRIGHTENING!!!

[@iloveapplepie2317]

Yeah he said ... you're always talking about your feelings . I ask about where he thinks the relationship is ... he said he doesn't know. I am checking out.

[@keirmiller7198]

Exactly 💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 💯 Truth , He speaking 🗣️ nothin but facts

[@tracyannpatterson8928]

Spot on. Just leave and don't go not ever.

[@AngelicaMartinTravel]

saving me from overtrying...god bless!!

[@onyinyeuche2339]

Happy to hear this...I have complained about how am not getting what I should get ,I send thesis and lengthy messages and he ignores me after reading that atimes I wonder if he read them when I know he did and then he tells me the more I tell him what he's not doing the more he won't be moved to do them...am exhausted ,tired and done but when I have moved on he calls and wants to hook up and next thing he's trying to pull my trousers to have sex... happily I have withheld sex from him because I have so much doubts about him ,he dosent make me happy in the way I desire and so many other things that aren't proper

[@christinebellevie4775]

So true. Thank you for your help and your support Mister Jackson!

[@lifeandwhatnot]

Loving Derricks energy in this one. You tell em Derrick!!

[@marcycane1793]

I for being gaslight and I for intentionally have RBF, avoiding kindness to men cause they be preying!

[@user-iq3ob5dd7r]

Yes you're right! I have avoided any eye contact!

[@starlight13081]

I hope he does love correctly in the next relationship. Even though their demons are still with them, there is still love in their heart that's worth loving. I hope this last decade has shown him how to love properly for the next. Everything happens for a reason. Bad relationships can help you understand and make you better for the next one. I know mine did. 🙏

[@rabbitheart24]

A lightbulb just went off. Thanks, I love your content!!

[@sharifatamim8232]

Blocked and changed my number. I feel relieved.

[@donnafrenchick1637]

Crazy exactly what I am going through right now and the few videos I’ve watched already have described me and him to a “T”, on point. Now I know I’m not tripping and what is happening is really happening and it’s him and not me. Thank you

[@Bella_Taw]

Yup! Do NOT make eye contact. Some men are sooooo lame.

[@latashahumphrey769]

Yep u right cause u don't want to b bothered

[@MichelleJessup-l4i]

Omg.....😮How True!!!! Every bit of this!

[@christielee1840]

Mind blowing 🤯 sigh the truth HURTS 💔

[@emonayee]

I needed to hear this yessss lawd

[@ambertaylor5790]

I think this just saved my life

[@valeriebyrd70]

Thanks so much for this awakening information 👍👍👍

[@dwilliams5700]

You slammed it Derrick‼️

[@Keana43]

It's the title for me cause your right %100🙏

[@kristinamosley4405]

I so needed to hear this

[@user-iq3ob5dd7r]

So true! Move On!

[@Lala123Oh]

Omg this is exactly my situation this is crazy how accurate this is.

[@WillNeNe]

Yes, very true, I will even dress down, just cuz I don’t want any and everybody coming to me.

[@mariz9157]

Amazing ! Excellent message !

[@lasonialamay6786]

"I"💥💥💥

[@paulettalove]

Babbbbbyyyy this is the ONE👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@jennifernelson4818]

Another Gem💎

[@quinbrown2095]

I...and this is facts!

[@KevsWifey4life]

💯 yes I'm constantly gettin the attention I want from him from everyone else other men n women absolutely 💯

[@theehardpill]

That million dollar analogy was 1,000% on point!

[@Lucila3101]

I made him know that i was there for him. Liked him, been sexy, talk about my Day. He Said he was travelling, even asked If It was ok. I was Fine. Then i found out he was out with other lady. I Felt so betrayed. Left and block his number. He never came back. I feel reject and bad, but was the best for me. Not a good feeling... 😞🥀

[@ramoniaedwards2963]

Leff if it nah wuk straight up ..men do for who they want to ..they know exactly what they are doing

[@22423x]

I’m 23 and been with my husband since 14 years old and been married 3 years and we have 3 amazing boys and it feels like he’s burning me out but wants me but it’s too confusing and I’m tired of feeling like I’m by myself 🥺

[@mssxpressive2100]

Wow..have that real conversation. Then make a decision that is best for your mental and physical well-being. Your children will be okay in a wholesome environment. Not a toxic one.

[@Jeanninecomeau]

This was on time.

[@freidam4212]

Wow. Thank you, Derrick. This hits deep.

[@maryamzizi13]

I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️

[@meloneeallen444]

Nope, it's rainy men now. I haven't told him because I don't want to hurt him, and.all that stresses me out. I wanted the person I thought he was, not who he is

[@tondalaynneedham2018]

That's my story. WELL USE TO BE!! I KNOW WHO'S I AM AND WHO I AM!

[@dawnlydia8329]

This is on point 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@drewdabrew4745]

On point for lost easy to manipulate women 💯

[@kurosawagin]

4:52 I so relate to this part I love it

[@powerhouseconversationswje5411]

I sometimes do this and try to look mean in purpose so that guys won't try to holla, especially to wrong guys.😢

[@sherlesscinema2024]

FACTS ❤️

[@browneyes9507]

Wow your knowledge is in depth/ old school soul- superb content all ur videos 💯

[@lindaVp23019]

I realized what was happening after the last “explanation.” I told him I’m done sounding like a broken, rhetorical record.

[@valeriebyrd70]

Yes I’ve heard his multiple excuses !!!

[@noneya11]

Love his logic 💕

[@grazyna5455]

Thank you. Eye -opening. I have just wasted 30 best years of my life.

[@kristabistaify]

i think this is the BEST vid

[@freethought1953]

FIRE🔥

[@galinaioffe2250]

and also some things have no need for explaing. like he should be able to think about how he would feel if what he is doing was done to him

[@camillaraymond8917]

I’ve heard all the examples you’ve given.

[@meloneeallen444]

Yes I gotta be done

[@shanicewiggins2093]

Needed this

[@lindagiles9883]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@cuniqueness]

Truly appreciated 🙏🏽

[@trishaschmidt9873]

Omg my relationship! 😢

[@chalissa5285]

Yes it's me he always complaining and toxic

[@JessicaCVasquez-hg6zt]

This what im feeling now im trying to discarddd😢

[@T-Kountretto]

Typical day, men always mistake my kindness for flirting.

[@Nowshepaints]

Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes…. I literally have no other words.

[@Kimp1975]

Wow, you're on point

[@tinarobinson4564]

He get jealous frfr I been there to many times

[@czeythiabailey5246]

Say it this is him lord thank you

[@Mr93sharpei]

Even during legal separation, I keep a ring on my ring finger so as to not be approached. ...

[@ljohns9702]

So true

[@prperfectionistable]

valient effort beloved