The Difference Between A Toxic Person & A Good Person With Toxic Traits

[@hirschiegirl]

A toxic person is also someone who knows better and does the harmful act anyway for selfish gain

[@homie-wankenobi6965]

Well said. That's most black women in a nutshell.

[@mishi144]

Yeah 😢

[@patriciaearley4177]

Horrible trait

[@darrengordon-hill]

Like... women? Repeating mistakes while they're blaming everyone else involved?

[@christinewarren8134]

Narcissistic personality disorder

[@angelfoster9044]

Toxic is when they can't leave you alone, but can't do right by you either

[@angelfoster9044]

@X҈W҈i҈n҈n҈e҈ X҈ you left this comment for what???

[@heyya4395]

I agree

[@livinlifewithla7142]

Tf smh say it for them dumbasses in the back to !

[@cocococo628]

Damn you put it so accurately.

[@habibaali5443]

Laaawwwdddd i hear you.

[@DreamingInTechnicolor]

*Toxicity is contagious - if you don’t like who you are when you’re around that person, you shouldn’t be with them!*

[@amberlane1960]

True

[@arnelabih1845]

I agree.

[@aquarius4life]

👏👏👏👏👏👏💯Facts

[@deedeemoore6096]

Bingo and there it is !! I agree wholeheartedly !!

[@tetobronia1128]

👌👌👌👌👌

[@falcodaindustries5068]

I’ll add to what he said ... do not cast pearls before swine. Sometimes all you can do is walk away, don’t bother with an explanation.

[@anointedstilettos]

@Jack K Closure is not something someone can give you. You give yourself closure by healing and becoming better so you don't pick a person like that again.

[@falcodaindustries5068]

Jack K with enough self-respect you have to learn to close that door. They will only understand things from their view point. You wouldn’t ask a child to understand physics, trying to get closure from someone who doesn’t value you or what you bring to the table (when you know you are consistently in the right) is asking them to think beyond what they are capable of. The best thing to do is walk away.

[@falcodaindustries5068]

Jack K I know it’s hard. But we are capable of so much more we don’t give ourselves credit.

[@Denise-wj4yy]

Bible quote... powerful one..💯

[@angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404]

Falcoda Industries yesss I was just saying this today👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LateshaRenee]

We literally all have toxic traits! When I stop clinging on to victimhood, I realized I had some work to do on myself. Everybody blames and labels each other, but we literally all have issues. Big or small.

[@angelawilmes-devine6028]

Thanks for the words of wisdom!

[@carmenbarrow1841]

However toxic people make my the choice to be evil meaning there are very aware of their actions. People with a few toxic traits aren't usually aware of their actions or when confronted won't be as closed minded and will be willing to make changes.

[@phoenixrising8007]

The difference is accountability versus blame

[@Ani-sw8vz]

Yes! Im on this journey rn!☺️

[@AshantiRashad]

I recognize that my behavior pushes people away instead of inviting, I’m going to pray and go to therapy for my unsolved problems.

[@isabelaguzei8745]

Many blessings to You🙏

[@MrAllysonn]

Amazing!!!

[@oceanenriqueplariza7393]

I'm with you Ashanti. Nothing wrong with putting ourselves back together and fully heal.

[@zirpa1]

Good for you! That's the first step

[@AshantiRashad]

Isabela Guzei thank you

[@Keana43]

Your wisdom is getting stronger and stronger.🔥

[@apriljoixrush]

Hit the nail on the head .. we are transitioning into a new year let’s take time to reflect on this and eliminate toxic energy for the sake of our well being and progress ..wishing everyone a happy new year 💕

[@you3iman]

Happy holidays

[@markietwitty4295]

You couldn't have type that any better I been telling myself whomever it may be whether it's family or people you come across no be toxic energy 2020 round me

[@apriljoixrush]

Markie Twitty 💕

[@apriljoixrush]

jonesman30 MR JONES29 you too thanks hun

[@you3iman]

@@apriljoixrushalways welcome

[@Dtella55]

Truth work in progress...narcissists are toxic... 💯 If people are accountable in relationships and communicate and check themselves on an inner level there will be less work in progress...

[@lakeenyam]

Right unfortunately it will never work with a narcissist, who can’t reflect on themselves and take accountability.

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

Absolutely right!!

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

Lakeenya Mcduffie right wasted of energy. You will be drained. Been there just left a narcissist .

[@lizbethbrady8308]

So correct.

[@angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404]

Dtella55 exactly

[@heatherlaurenvil866]

Every man I've ever been with defilects and tries to turn the tables on me when I confront them with something they are doing I do not like and it drives me absolutely crazy. At this point if I detect those things I'm ready to turn around and walk away. I don't have time for it

[@chauntill]

I understand exactly what you mean! The flipping of the script and deflection drives me freaking insane!

[@amymorale1379]

Heather do not except a MALE mediocrity. There is a difference between a MALE -vs- MAN. Do NOT "go-with-the-flow" immediately STOP it, back off. I had to implement this and still in the works. I'm dealing with a persistent MALE fool.

[@Nekole1]

I been in similar situations. I just stopped dealing with them. Men like that will constantly make you feel as if your the crazy one. I just cut all ties with them.

[@homie-wankenobi6965]

🤔 How would you feel if he confronted you over things he didn't like?

[@darrengordon-hill]

"EVERY man I'VE ever been with" How many were there?? 🤢 And through all this... you STILL can't see YOU are the "common denominator" and thus, this is YOUR fault?? Who forced you to date those men? What are you looking for... better yet, WHY are you looking? Cos YOU CLEARLY SUCK at picking me (and yes, "good men" are in fact avoiding you like the plague you are). You sound absolutely repulsive; bossy, argumentative, controlling - pure emotion You KNOW you NEED a MAN... but YOUR EGO craves "little boys" for YOU to CONTROL - JUST LIKE MOMMA! Women CAN ONLY love males as "their own children" - which is why they let those males live under their roof, feed him or buy him clothes/sneakers. You point out job vacancies in the paper or arrange job interviews for those males - LIKW YOU'RE THEIR MOMMA. Then... YOU HAVE THE AUDACITY to complain they're weak/have no backbone/make no decisions/don't hold themselves accountable. Women tell males they don't need men. So why would males damaged enough to actually listen to what women say aspire to be something WOMEN (say) THEY NEITHER WANT NOR NEED??

[@pockahantiss]

You can't change a person...... But you CAN change the company you keep!,😏😉

[@AuthenticallyFonze]

OMG I'VE JUST GOT OUT OF A toxic relationship with a manipulating narcissist thanks to these type of videos.. Thanks to Derrick period.. I've gotten through a lot with most of his videos that I've watched 😢🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@MiiPhiMuah]

Hang in there☺good things are coming your way for sure! I can relate with u.

[@AuthenticallyFonze]

@@MiiPhiMuah Thanks so much love same to you 💕

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

Me too.... I bless the day I came across his videos on narcissistic personality, it saved my sanity and for sure opened my eyes, otherwise I would have killed myself wondering what I did wrong 😑 If you ask me, narcissists belong in jail

[@iigoldfemaleii6791]

The Diary Of Fonze girl me too and honestly i feel great!

[@candicedice8605]

@@thesocialintrovertchronicles they release them on purpose after their in to continue the good work they do

[@booklover2.0G]

This sounds harsh but if someone is bein negative or makin me feel negative I’m out period. Busy focusing on bettering myself and tryin to figure out life don’t need anyone makin it any harder. Glad Derrick brought this up! 💪

[@angeliaimeanttoloveyouharr8404]

Serena Niederkorn yessss to all what u said👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@lilnapoleon6046]

"Toxic" is behavior that is destructive to relationships and is unchecked. "Accountability" is only taken into consideration when you speak up in a way that builds that toxic person up and not make their frame of mind worse. Speak love into those who hurt you. Toxicity takes a back seat when you lead by example. It changes everything. Godspeed. Good stuff Jaxn ♡

[@kimberlyleahs]

Derrick I have been a subscriber for years. Today is the day. The abuse emotional, psychologiclly, physically is done. Im a full time student and working and he has made me feel "not human and deserving of health insurance". I felt the lowest of low and I am SEEING THE LIGHT! Thank you I needed this so much today! Bless you.

[@nicoolpeg7821]

100% accurate! When I caught my husband cheating, he could not blame me fast enough. He listed all of the things wrong with me to justify his reason for cheating. 🤬🤬🤬 🇨🇦

[@dogblues4829]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

[@cristinarivera5707]

I remember when I caught my ex cheating. Found text messages to the mistress talking about how unsatisfying our sex life was. Meanwhile, this conversation was never had with me and I don’t recall my ex ever not looking forward very enthusiastically might I add, to our intimate encounters. So I’m not sure when exactly this unfulfilling sex life was happening!🙄

[@rachelsweets]

So sorry

[@nicoolpeg7821]

Beautiful he is!!

[@homie-wankenobi6965]

Any man will cheat if you not handling your business.

[@sarahkizer5316]

Yes, we all have some toxic traits, but when you work on changing them like you said, " We can improve friendships and relationships." When a person decides not to change their toxic behavior, that's when we need to get out of the friendship or relationship. Thank you for this video, its a helpful reminder.

[@lawyer_uncut]

Thank you for explaining the critical difference between toxic people and toxic behavior in such a clear, simple way. You hit the nail on the head!

[@frfrongnocap5537]

Being toxic means being unhappy. We reflect our unhappiness onto the others. Me myself, I maybe toxic if I am sleepy and hungry, jealous or feel something is not just. It gets better what you understand the planet doesnt not go round you. And others really do not care much about what you feel and what you ate for breakfast. More important is to find the right connection with any person, at least my life taught me this. Sometimes you just need to ignore toxicity.

[@Trucrownsupintnl]

💯 dealing with this, in my family. How sad it is to try to have a heart to heart and the other person plays victim role and deflects by lashing out harmful speech against you. I can't even express my feelings on a matter. It is dangerous levels of toxicity in my family. Thanks Derrick for sharing this is a keeper!

[@krhervey441]

The best behavior is a change one and until then the toxic energy the individual can keep it to themselves. I refuse to waste time with anyone who is not focus on growth.

[@cashaakridge]

Everything you said was 💯💯💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Love yourself enough to walk away from anything Toxic!!!!!

[@bre_s9164]

Yass Derrick! Another example could be how you make videos for us women and the MAD MEN stay saying you never hold women ACCOUNTABLE. ACCOUNTABILITY! Your videos are aimed at women but could be used for men as well. Instead of taking ACCOUNTABILITY they attack and try to deflect. Exactly what you said in the video. Lol love it!!!. ❤

[@larkford4460]

Well I’ve never seen a video where I can apply practically methods to bettering myself as a man... yet every video is identifying the flaws in men and ridiculing us while making excuses for why women are justified with y’all bs... who’s teaching the men, who’s “empowering men”, where’s the black man magic, none of that bs you’ll see because it’s all about “belittle men so women will support and pay for my vacations”

[@bre_s9164]

@@larkford4460 You may be one of the men Im talking about. If Derrick isn't giving you your dose of "black man magic" then you do have a choice to go elsewhere..... and i do recall him saying in some of his videos the topic applicable to BOTH sexes. Don't listen with your mouth, listen with your ears!

[@bubblesactivated]

“Ain’t shit vibranium” lmboo but you telling it like it is..I’m replaying the video again sir lol

[@gracechan3039]

A good person with toxic traits feels genuine remorse for their actions. They're just so dysfunctional that the toxic actions are the only way they know how to defend themselves. Like a panicked person who is drowning can submerge their rescuer.

[@budgetrebelgoals]

Sometimes a person will never ever ever be accountable for their part in what happens. I can always hold myself accountable. Deflect. yes sir!! So true!! Preach!!

[@curli-lettey4319]

Ain't shit vibranium. I love it. I'm gonna utilize this word every and anytime its needed. I stay far away from a coworker because I've seen samples of narcissism and now that I'm no longer around her, she is exposing her toxicity.

[@aaronjohn6586]

Your insights and ability to articulate are just awesome. Direct, to the point, no esoteric bs, life experience just spoken from the heart!

[@shiol_lee]

They are very good at crafting a narrative that completely favors them. I once dated a toxic man, who refused to be held accountable for his actions (abused me, emotionally, physically and mentally) and ive attempted suicide a number of times just to get out of the pain he' causing me. When he learned about my attempts, he got mad, he said everyone will blame him of my death. He doesnt even care about the fact why i ended up there with all the suffering. That asshole.

[@emilyk.5664]

I agree! Although I think it's okay to give a reason for why you may behave a certain way sometimes. You're not necessarily excusing your behavior, it might just be one way to help others understand why you react a certain way to things, and that you're self aware enough to realize it. But acknowledging it, and taking responsibility, is where the accountability comes in. A lot of people have trouble with that! Love your vids & appreciate your content! ❤️

[@itreciastrachan1111]

A man being toxic and don't take responsibility 4 their bullshit needs 2 be treated like a quarter back on a defense. Cut him off. Same 4 a good guy with toxic behavior who feel like they don't have 2 change. The ones who wanna change and proves it is well working with. Ladies need 2 see and know the difference. That's all. Peace ✌😘

[@amymorale1379]

Toxic behavior is also lazy and justifying the laziness and not applying your self to continue to work, learn, and improve. Only doing the bare minimum and liking that.

[@francinehines7765]

Mediocrity is toxicity?

[@PenamonPerks8]

All these folks need a name. Word of the Day - "FRENEMY" A person who combines the characteristics of a friend and really your enemy. Symptoms: Liar

[@RealTalkRelationshipTherapy]

Basically when you are a toxic person you won’t take accountability for your actions. You will deflect and try to manipulate the person to feel like it is their fault you’re being toxic. Smh

[@brandontrammel4581]

He is spitting straight facts. Everybody wanna be like what about him or her. Like my dad always says what were you doing I don't give a damn about them. We all need to grow and understand our own faults. Second if you know someone is bad person just let it go. Men and women this day and age are to worried about fighting with each other and what I can get me me me. They don't care about things affecting others till it happens to them. We all need to learn how to truly care and love for others.

[@fisherwomyn]

Thank you as always... voice of reason... men need to learn from you!!!

[@michelled.6001]

Totally spot on logic. No lies told in this video, great work!! 💯👏👏👏

[@jasminesuggs595]

“They toe hurt today” 🤣😭😂🤣

[@mistiwinter4755]

Your words are epic. Just seen your site a few days ago under pastor Blakes. You are fabulous, keep speaking positive life into people. Have an legendary year!

[@sassyone82]

Toxic people always find a way to turn things to themselves. If you share with them good news, they downplay it b/c they’re jealous. If you’re having a bad day, then their day was 10 times worse. They’re not uplifting and if they try to be, it comes off as insincere. This isn’t just applicable to men, but to also family and friends as well. You’ll notice that once you let the toxic person go or distance yourself from them, how much stress and negative energy is removed from your life. God gave us all the gift of discernment; it’s best we use it as much as possible to protect our own energy and retain peace of mind.

[@fefelove8465]

I think ur 100% dead on. Thankyou so much for confirming that im not crazy for leaving toxic people alone in every form and fashion.

[@LittleMsLibra8]

Number 3 is called PROJECTION! And you’re spot on!

[@joycehutson6477]

💣 You have given us TRUTH here Derrick. Thank you and may you continue to be a blessing to all. 🌠 🎆

[@7josette]

When my ex bf told me he was just talking as friends with his ex When i ask him ‘why did u delete the messages then?’.... he literally told me ‘stop thinking’. 🤬 tha fuck?!?! Aaaaand that’s why he’s now my ex 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@leticiacobarrubias9920]

It's AMAZING how he understands US women. Thank you. 🙏

[@rd4469]

You just spoke on a narcissistic person who doesn't fit every category in the DSM. Their toxic but nice when it suits them.

[@maibritton2882]

Amen. As soon as I start talking g about accountability with a date. . . At least I know where we both stand.

[@tiasinclair9741]

Straight forth truth this is , believe in accountability. Responsibility as well no justification or excuses or blame. , for wrong doing or playing the victim

[@lane89]

If a toxic person recognizes how their toxicity isn’t serving their highest good they’ll want to change. I don’t think just because your toxic you have to choose to stay that way you could make a conscious effort to improve. It’s really some thought that has to take place that makes you believe the way you are is not the way you have to be or the way your life is is not the way it has to be you can always change your mind for the better. Same for anyone, anyone worth keeping will understand that life is about getting the icky stuff off of you not becoming a swamp monster no one believes can change. You can the first rule of any change is admitting there is a problem can’t solve what you don’t see as a problem so toxic people need accountability it’s not one or the other.

[@lane89]

Muse Verdant who are you to say who will or won’t change for the better.

[@lane89]

Muse Verdant a lot of times we encounter people who won’t change for us because we assume we are the better. If you want someone to change for the better you have to be the better they need.

[@tiffanyjones3151]

Good advice .. I guess I’m working through my toxicity trying to remain a good Woman

[@RealSyn]

You are always on point. Happy New year, Derrick

[@evolvinglove7786]

This is a very powerful skill....most people, men and women are so guilty. If we all could just master this skilled level of communication, how powerful relationships would be. 🙏 2020 Vision.

[@Celisarei]

Thank you so much for this video! That really just hit home for me in a big way. Keep doing what you're doing.

[@cangelh101]

Toxic is probably the most overused word in 2019 because people are more aware of behaviors and actions rather than just sitting back and pretending that the toxic person is just flawed or have issues. No they are toxic and you need to get away from them!

[@adaphoenix4207]

Oh Derrick! How are you so wise! That was an impeccable explanation

[@thugmrs02]

*I'm not 1st* 😁🖐🏼 *I'm not last but, when I see your video's 👀 I click.. FAST* 🏃🏽‍♀🏃🏽‍♀🏃🏽‍♀❤✌🏼

[@kimsmith819]

I think you hit it spot on. Thank you for your wisdom. I don't know about others, but my mind works on ovrrdrive. Your wisdom helps me level out the playing field

[@chriniece]

I think this is spot on, this video gave me some clarity on my way of thinking.

[@Kathy-sp3hl]

Toxicity is on both sides, get out quick, fast, and in a hurry!

[@Nisha_Nykelle]

Most overused word of 2019: TOXIC Most underused words of 2019: YOUR MOMMA WAS YOUR FIRST TOXIC EXAMPLE

[@LaShaMayolaWright]

I really enjoy the content and valuable information you give in your videos. It’s really amazing hearing things from man perspective so a can better understand things. Thank you

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

They always turn the tables on you.

[@yourdarkness999]

This guy cracks me up in the best way. With the truth.

[@thefilmprincess22]

Helped give me peace - thanks for everything, Derrick!

[@tonyayvette9057]

Thanks for this. I think the most overused word in 2019 is narcissist. A narcissist is a personality disorder diagnosed in the DSM. A person must have a diagnosis. A true narcissist is very rare. Just because someone is selfish or immature or even toxic doesn't make them a narcissist. Now, a person can have narcissistic traits, but a true narcissist is rare. This is not your average manipulative person. Only behavioral health professionals trained in diagnosing should use this term.

[@tonyayvette9057]

@UCfkDHD2n6CDVl1CGouC_18w The DSM-5 which is the manual by The American Psychiatric Association categorizes it as a personality disorder. The point is a person can exhibit traits but not be a narcissist. This is not subjective. It is unfair to judge a person based on your opinion of what you think they are. It goes along with what he's saying. There's a difference between toxic traits and being toxic. I think the media needs to be held accountable for flooding the public with labels such as these without having the medical fundamentals to even discuss various mental health behaviors.

[@casscat7]

a good person person with toxic traits.. i needed that.

[@QueanaIvory]

Everybody has flaws.. it is extremely unhealthy to deny one’s own issues. Can we please not try to weaponize Accountability tho Bro...Accountability is still Extremely important. One of the main reasons toxic people remain toxic is that they refuse to hold themselves Accountable for their toxicity... See how that works?💁🏾‍♀️

[@rachelsweets]

True

[@QueanaIvory]

Beautiful are you serious? Do you understand why I said what I said? Because there are some people who may Not understand him.. Goofy. I was clarifying. I see Derrick as like a real Brother. I’m not downing him or his content. You’re the asshole trying to turn up on me as if I’m putting down his message. I was honestly bringing some clarity to the situation for others who may think that he’s saying Accountability is the same as deflection. I know full and well that’s not what he’s actually saying. Be careful stepping to people you don’t know Asshole. I’m gonna say the Actual word to your Clown Ass. 🤣

[@phyoomz7841]

You will rarely hear a woman be accountable for anything because it takes a certain level of maturity to do so. It is always & I literally mean , it is always the fault of the man lol. If blaming men don't work then the next to blame is the parents. When they run out of options of who to blame then they are forced to look in the mirror.

[@nichole7600]

Prior to this title .. I need neither in my life .. Happy New Year !!

[@mzchocolitt4091]

😂Women need to be more accountable for not being a man I wouldn't be surprised to hear this in real life...You the truth Derrick

[@Desaraee92]

People love to justify their actions if their loved one does something two wrongs never make a right

[@Chozen781]

Spot on! 💯

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

In 2019 I've for encountered some real toxic "chemicals"😰.....2020 kindly save my sanity, I need to feel Normal positive energy once again in my life👊

[@Blondee68]

Happy Holidays Derrick! Hope 2020 is awesome for you =)

[@Nineto_5]

I was just saying to my Lord today that... I want no parts of this generation because everybody seem to walk around as if they’re so perfect. Nothings wrong with them. I guess it’s just me. I’m ABSOLUTELY okay with walking alone in imperfection and being proud of it if that means I’m good within myself and my creator. I wouldn’t say the person that wrote that quote is necessarily TOXIC but they may lack knowledge between the two words... one word... Ignorance. One ❤️

[@cr4228]

Toxicity defines a person who is ALWAYS toxic. It is the go-to choice of seasoning on every emotion. Blame, no accountability, and entitlement are always the theme underlying the toxicity. It is disgusting. It makes good milk in a glass curdle.

[@skyhaven4131]

To many people still don't know about toxic relationships so no not over used at all!!!

[@dey2056]

Derrick I agree a million percent thank you for this post.

[@wardaathman3250]

Good advice Derrick ,watching from Kenya Africa

[@rhondateal9859]

Right on time!!!!!! Thank you♡♡♡

[@jessicaward7664]

Thank you ! I needed to hear this . ❤️🙏🏽

[@chinab9811]

I agree. How dare a toxic person think they can toss the word accountability around as if it does not apply to them too🤦‍♀️ Its like they are getting hip to folks call them out on their crap and they came up with accountability towards their victims as if it makes sense to them as to why toxic ppl do what they do🤣🤣🤣 That accountability phase is as useless as trying to nail jello to a wall🤣🤣🤣

[@bantuodowa1216]

I've dealt with someone who slings both of these terms around and they couldn't be more clueless that they are the epitome of both! This person made most of their decisions within their marriage based on KZbin videos...guess what? She's now divorced🙄

[@texast5070]

2020 is gonna be my year of silence. I have no words and time for bullshit!! I only have about thirty summers left to live and I'm not wasting it on negativity. T

[@mcole8594]

this 100% straight up happened to me. Had to go..just wish i'd done it sooner and not wasted so much time that i can never get back.

[@lane89]

Soooooo we all need to take accountability for our toxic behaviors sounds like a connection.

[@theatrejunkee9229]

Toxic is toxic. Trash acts like trash. Let them work it out & come back when they decide to not be trash.

[@angelamoore6378]

I love your videos. Been watching them about a year now and I've learned a lot. Thankyou

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

I can be considered toxic, but I take accountability...🤷🏽‍♀️

[@piecesofreese9743]

🤣🤣Ain’t shit vibranium..🤣💪🏽🤗!!! Good shit Derrick🤣🤣💯💯

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

True or facts?...unless you know the person on a personal level. That is how you would know if a "toxic" person created that meme. It's toxic behaviour to judge without knowing the facts and then giving the solutions if you see it as a problem...as far as accountability goes both men and women need to be accountable for what they say and do whether good or bad. Which will only happen when they are clued up on the true art of how roles and relationships actually work.

[@MyEpiphanies89]

I think the post was talking about being problem focused vs being solution focused.

[@shayboogie83]

Well said 💯

[@bernetajohnson3296]

I agree with you 100%. Thank you. Team Jaxn.

[@demeannnelson1876]

Good to see you...

[@TheKyblair]

“Ain’t shit vibranium” 🤣

[@notesbynaq]

Yes this is so right on thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!

[@vickicsurbs444]

Yep my sons a toxic person & everything is my fault that happens in his life.🙄 Naw it's your choices you made son not me. Kicked him out and happy I did. Hes just out for himself.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

Vicki C's UR BS how old is he if you don’t mind me asking?

[@sara-tu9km]

even if i tell my mum she’s a good person,with some toxic traits,she’ll yell at me..

[@Shaunpeters105]

oh no I'm mad toxic.... gotta change for 2020

[@Denise-wj4yy]

Thank you I needed to hear this..now if clean house...💯