Jay x Susana | Craziest Blind Date Ever | Desi Me Dating | Season 3 - Episode 3

[@cookiesarelikecream]

It bothered me so much when she wasn’t even listening to him. She just waited for him to finish so that she could start talking about herself again

[@mizzstizzie]

Clear signs of a narcissist

[@susanamollick8496]

I asked him more follow up questions than he asked me - if you have observation skills you would have realized lol

[@cookiesarelikecream]

@@susanamollick8496 “If you had observation skills you would have realized that.” Sis if everyone in the comments is calling you out on your self absorbed and rude behavior then maybe you’re the one who needs to work on your observational skills. Some self reflection perhaps?

[@susanamollick8496]

I still listened and asked questions was my point - this was a tv show - had to and some umf @@cookiesarelikecream

[@zaakirahabdul-kader5303]

Literally Arpana from Indian match maker

[@ManKan510]

She really said "i dont have anything to work on, im 28..." and then proceeded to talk for 30 seconds straight and project her opinions on him. lol

[@jigsawpuppet1000]

😂😂

[@Elestucheperdido]

Omg she talks so fast and so much without stopping. She thinks it’s normal lol

[@ManKan510]

@@Elestucheperdido I don't recall her family structure, but when I come across fast talkers it's usually families where there are multiple other kids so you have to talk quick to get your entire point across 😅🤣

[@papiyapatel5837]

She’s clearly been hurt in the past. Feels like a lot of defensive mechanisms to hide her own insecurity

[@buzzedbrain]

But bro, she is good to go! She is 28, everything about her and her life is perfect, (except for them elbows), what insecurities! * Sarcasm *

[@susanamollick8496]

@@buzzedbrainhyperpigmentation too

[@ralphw530]

@@susanamollick8496ngl I mean this in a loving way but I would honestly consider therapy if I were you. I started going recently and feel great already

[@socommaster]

​@@susanamollick8496your personality is why you havent been wifed up

[@Revived_Heritage]

Probably true but it doesn’t excuse her behavior. She’s a narcissist.

[@dynasticsarcasticat94]

She cancelled herself like 5 different times, with his facial expressions I'm actually dying 😭😭😭

[@Kureshiman]

There are unsung heroes in this world. Susanna’s LIFELONG friends: you are one. Please know that you are appreciated. The world (now) acknowledges your resilience. 🤗

[@susanamollick8496]

hahahaha

[@JayPatel16]

Her friends are the ones doing real community service.

[@italkwhatever]

😂😂😂

[@91toinfinity]

​@@JayPatel16 😂😂😂

[@roymadethat]

He genuinely looks scared for his life. His face when he’s caught off guard “please get me out of here”

[@xoxoamirtha]

The fact that she refers to people with mental illnesses the way she does.. and drug users the way she does SPEAKS VOLUMES about her personality

[@asifuzzamansami4079]

Yeah I really didn’t like the bit about being on antidepressants, some people genuinely struggle with anxiety and if they need these, then it is what it is. It’s not something to be judged about

[@payalguhaps1875]

she has a right to chose too ..

[@italkwhatever]

I meannnn to be fair you should not get into a relationship with someone who has mental illness if you cannot handle that kind of a thing, it takes a lot of energy and patience and not everyone is up for it.

[@rsp1239]

This girl couldn't last 10 minutes without being the biggest red flag ever

[@whattacorker]

Jay is the kinda guy ya'll need to strive to be more like.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

He could use a little more confidence and swagger but I agree he’s a good person

[@obatalaosun2222]

​@@cookiesarelikecreamIt doesn't hurt that he's FINE. I stan a hot nerd.

[@cookiesarelikecream]

@@obatalaosun2222 I don’t find him that physically attractive but to each their own

[@ShakesProd]

People who are on anti-depressants are crazy? Yikes. She ain’t it 🤣🤣🤣 this was unwatchable.

[@deletedaccount8200]

dawg, she is the crazy one, ranting literally 5 minutes in about situationships

[@jigsawpuppet1000]

Her priority are makeup, tiktok. 😅

[@Animeow08]

@@jigsawpuppet1000yup and that’s a whole lotta makeup

[@shefaliibahalii]

Jay seems so sweet, and Susana seems so fun, but their energeries and personalities clashes so much. Both of them were so polite in declining another date with each other too lol.

[@greenjack101]

Jay was way too polite in his decline. Most guys would straight up say Hellnaw I don't wanna hear another second of that banshee

[@mangopudding5979]

​@@greenjack101😂😂😂

[@RenegadeJP08]

Sis definitely kept talking after production wrapped it up and shut the lights off

[@susanamollick8496]

lmaoooo the funniest comment

[@tara7206]

I think the audience underestimates how hard it is to be your genuine self and connect on camera. Fun episode!

[@cookiesarelikecream]

He seems so sweet. I think he needs someone who can take him out of his comfort zone. The girl on the other hand clearly only came on the show to kickstart a reality Tv/social media career. She loved to hear herself talk omg

[@crystalphillip588]

So true

[@moh1t]

That look he gave the camera at 6:08 sent me, Jim Halpert moment.

[@aashishjagga5103]

Hahahhhahahahah

[@danushiethattil7113]

if red flag was a person, it's her lol

[@babymoon555]

That comment about antidepressants was ignorant and it reflects how mental health continues to be stigmatized in Desi communities, even in America. Susana should add that to her list of toxic Desi traits, since she's the poster child of that toxic trait 🤡

[@whereisshreya]

exactly what I was thinking. And she doesn't think she has anything to work on...GIRL be fr

[@susanamollick8496]

well a mental patient harassed me and my fam - so there's a reason to every story look at both sides fam

[@moureeninmotion]

@@susanamollick8496you’re comparing a mental health “patient” who… sounds hospitalized… who you don’t know the diagnosis of, to someone who has depression/anxiety & regulates it with meds? You said earlier you’ve grown enough at 28, but you need more education on mental health. Your language is ignorant & damaging.

[@susanamollick8496]

I am aware of his conditions? People are the way they are due their experiences and if I used my past as a way to make a joke what's the issue? many entertainers do it - not everyone will like it and some will that's just reality @@moureeninmotion

[@thesocialnerd]

​​​@@susanamollick8496that's a hell of a way to generalize people w mental illnesses. I'm an Indian psychologist and I think you should really examine why being on an anti-depressant is an automatic red flag. There are plenty of Desis with mental illnesses and we as a culture should absolutely salute when people get the help they need. Saying that everyone on a psychotropic medication is "crazy" is wildly inappropriate and harmful.

[@AnittaF]

I need her on a bravo show asap. She is reality tv gold 😂

[@noormashriki4190]

She needs to have her own Netflix show 😂😂so entertaining

[@malinasworld]

She’s hilarious and scared him good 😂

[@finalwrath]

Jay should have been with pip and Nikhil should have been with susana

[@whatup307]

Ha! Now *that* may be worth a watch! Haha-- or-- even *more* painful than it was with Pip! Lol

[@sbee278]

Susana would’ve ripped nikhil’ opinions apart

[@sams517]

@@sbee278and he needs that

[@whereisshreya]

Did she really just insinuate that people who are on antidepressants are crazy? and then proceed to say she did her "community service" ?!?! girl needs to get educated on mental health.

[@syedaminx]

Popshift found their Aparna

[@sharonkhalsa]

💯💯💯💯

[@chewchew4270]

Haha you can tell this guy just wants this date to end

[@tiffanieclare6245]

Every word that comes out of her mouth is funny but his reactions to her stories or words is hilarious to me😂 cause those side eyes and eye rolls😂😂😂 its like the crazy aunt with the silent and reluctant husband dwl

[@saramirza6307]

Susana is unbearable - her emotionally immaturity and lack of composure are actually astounding.

[@doofuscreations8173]

Haters gonna hate

[@chamudirajapaksa9173]

@@doofuscreations8173 and rotis gon rotate 🙃🙃

[@susanamollick8496]

I thought I was fine lol

[@jashnmin]

why you hating like a man

[@socommaster]

​@@susanamollick8496your lack of self awareness will keep you single and most likely cheated on

[@rashminarendra]

I love her .. she speaks her mind .. life will never be boring

[@kompalg4187]

She didn't even listen to him, every time he talked I felt like she was waiting for her turn to talk...

[@deletedaccount8200]

muh god, this woman is so judgemental...interogating him like 5 minutes in and calling him a liar....

[@greenjack101]

"Susana is the smartest, hottest, most amazing woman on this channel" --------- Susana

[@nimcaluull]

No like no

[@Spitty95]

Some episodes feel like it's a perfect match.. this wasn't one of them 😂

[@PopShift]

lmaooo noooo spittyyyy come on the show

[@anisha1142]

This girl is toxic and has insecurities that she is not willing to talk about. She is trying to hide behind a wall and just think it her way or the highway.

[@davidabrahamtx]

100%. I'd walk out if this was a date irl. Oh, and she's "perfect" and has nothing to change lol.

[@nataliemartin7019]

I lost it when she started listing all the medications. God i love her😂

[@susanamollick8496]

lmao love u

[@ksmooth2671]

@susanamollick8496. You are batshit crazy. You really think It’s a good look to come to a first date on camera with all those conditions and rules you have??

[@osama4318]

​@@susanamollick8496As a Desi medical professional, I'm really shocked to see the diaspora further stigmatizing mental health issues and calling people on antidepressants and anxiolytics psychopaths. Living in a community already struggling with accepting and destigmatizing mental disorders, this was sad to watch. Please try to be better.

[@mrnoobskool1]

The one thing that has stayed constant in my head after binging these videos is that I am so happy I am in a relationship already and don't have to date anymore 😅

[@murk959]

Please I wish this was me

[@shidara4554]

Susanna is the type of personality i stray away from...just clashes with my calm personality

[@randeepsidhu9708]

Not only she was overtalkitive but also dumb as anything. Hollow from outside as well as inside. I can feel for the guy and kudos to him for bearing her for so long.

[@0zora]

i mean the opinion on situationship is understandable from Susana’s pov but everyone has their own opinions too you don’t gotta call it dumb. 😂 just be respectful of everyone boo it ain’t for anyone

[@ishan1050]

Don’t disrespect sis, she might eradicate cancer someday. And all the other 11 zodiac signs.

[@ankitapaul7613]

IS NO ONE BOTHERED BY THE FACT THAT SHE BROKE THE PASTA 😭😭

[@PopShift]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@whereisshreya]

No I was very bothered by this lmao

[@kumarsarkar2841]

There were so many other things that were bothering me, did not see lol

[@sumanaali]

AND she refused to eat the pasta to check if it’s cooked 😭

[@nanduri79]

Man that Nikhil guy would’ve loved this chick

[@cookiesarelikecream]

Such a missed opportunity for an entertaining trainwreck of an episode

[@susanamollick8496]

I think he would have hated me lmao

[@Raj-zt6hf]

" im 28 year olds i dont need to work on anything" RUN FOR THE HILLS

[@nancyxoxo232]

She’s is everything that is wrong with society. From misogynistic to judgmental to patriarchal to not being sensitive towards mental health. Sad to see people like that having extinguished by now.

[@ishifairy]

i love her. it's like brown women aren't allowed to be sassy but she pulls it off well.

[@adityarao5345]

She's probably the most insufferable person on the show

[@91toinfinity]

Her sass is annoying af. Not funny at all. She lacks self-awareness.

[@nimcaluull]

This isn’t being sassy sorry

[@arada2ar]

She’s slutshaming and offensive to those with any mental illness or even minor emotional issues

[@JaspreetSingh-dy8pw]

me casually watching her rant while indulging in my real not relationship situationship

[@Kevinchase03]

This guy is too good for her. She is so self centered

[@cookiesarelikecream]

He was being so patient with her. I woulda walked out 5 minutes in

[@pallavisharma117]

I hope Jay gets another date

[@anhadmohananey8782]

Taking SSRIs doesn’t make you crazy. I would have left then and there if someone had said that

[@Ruby-dv4le]

This was too funny to watch. Loved it!

[@almondbutteraddict]

@PopShift, Who chooses these dates??? Have you no mercy for kind innocent people looking for love???

[@kayyemmohh]

Lmaoooo at the moment he asked if she got in trouble because she did community service

[@divyachawla2284]

The judgement on mental health concerns was real, painful to watch

[@lanevocraze]

Watching this show reminded me of how grateful I am to not be dating😅

[@Ishi4794yt]

I am scared to even have a thought of having someone like her as a friend!

[@skrrr1986]

She would overshout you in every conversation lol

[@nudoruG23]

A KZbin short brought me here. Stayed for the discombobulated feeling she provokes e v e r y t i m e she opens her mouth. Hope Jay can laugh about this too, now hahaha

[@upuliedirisinghe1363]

His face says it all 😅

[@borkblep]

This would be like … Jim and Kelly from the office going on a date

[@vankstar]

Y’all do a phenomenal job with these matches, kudos to the team

[@PopShift]

😭😭😭😭

[@jessiequinton9974]

6:07 lmaooo it's like an episode of The Office

[@ishan1050]

The UN is sending a peacekeeping force to speak to sis

[@miz2k]

There is someone out there for you Susana.. Good luck to them 😂

[@nimcaluull]

😂😂😂

[@surferofthemusic]

Susanna is amazing I would love to see her in reality channel

[@simidog15]

Okay sis so if you’re on antidepressants you’re crazy?

[@omchimma2209]

editor needs a raise

[@PopShift]

eyyyy

[@claireh8125]

She’s putting on a full beat to spend 5 days in the ER and has the nerve to call people on antidepressants crazy …

[@thinkingcitizen]

Biggest parent toxic trait is not accepting your boyfriend if he isn't a doctor or Ivy League/MIT/Stanford/elite educated guy

[@rukhsanazaidi629]

I love her but her saying she doesn’t need to work on herself bc she’s 28 is a major red flag!

[@nimcaluull]

Major major

[@tara7206]

@@nimcaluullI think she was joking

[@thonmoybhattacharjee3041]

This girl is something else damn , gonna be single for a while for sure lmao

[@Ttbh]

Say what u want abt hee but the community service comment took me out lol hahahahahaah

[@Myprimetimes]

I think In India all food varieties are healthier than food from other parts of the world except for the fried food. It's how you and your family eat and take a healthy meal at home or make samosas daily, it's your choice. But people from other parts of the world don't have these many choices. we should be proud of being in India 😊

[@anushkachopra9540]

This girl is a mood. I love her. Although I’m the complete opposite, her brazenness is awesome. She also just seems like she’s being herself.

[@davidabrahamtx]

All the Desi girls saying Susanna is their type... No wonder why there's a dating issue in the South Asian community.🙄

[@1flower161]

...imma be nice and say that she was talking a lot bc the wine was HITTING 😅

[@yrrannapanna]

wait did bigg boss just premiere yet?

[@ishan1050]

Susana, haters gonna hate, I’m with them. Hate from Delhi ❤

[@susanamollick8496]

thank you

[@ishan1050]

@@susanamollick8496 A red flag can look pink in the right lighting

[@creativesurgeinfidel]

Dude dodged a bullet

[@vizanomusic]

Indian Barbie drinks too much coffee and dates Indian Ken.

[@farahbangui7487]

Well, he was quite patient.. i woudlnt last 10 mins around her without having a headache

[@Saberking875]

There is no way susana has this many red flags

[@nimcaluull]

So many I lost count 😂😂😂

[@PunofHarts]

I love her so much. She asked if he does crack or cocaine ???? LOL

[@sumanaali]

That’s a New York Bengali lmao

[@nimcaluull]

Whaaat!!?? Who does that🙄

[@LamechPalmer]

She is NOT managing her ADHD well... makes sense since she hates medication 😂😂.

[@sumanaali]

Ok now this comment funny lol

[@Democrathicc]

The fact that she didn’t find anything within herself that she could have possibly worked on is the biggest red flag. Bruv you’re human you can’t be perfect, what is this bs 😭

[@Tanimcqueen]

Patience… breath between the questions.

[@joydip5106]

She is for the TV. Absolute entertainment!! But I would like to have the option to SWITCH OFF when it gets a bit too much.

[@lubaba95]

They haven't been doing a great job with pairing people together.

[@littlangel37]

Yikessss, the girl's comments on mental health and ppl with depression were NOT IT !!! What an inconsiderate way to talk about ppl who are suffering...

[@nathaliamuniz1013]

She's so pretty and he's just my type 😂

[@PopShift]

🤣🤣🤣

[@CM-ff4dl]

That “Wow” was a scream for help. Dude was probably shocked & lost interest. I personally wouldn’t talk about something about a negative experience on a first date. She’s dumping her traumas on him already & that’s a huge red flag! 🚩

[@Revived_Heritage]

Poor guy but he’s way to nice, this girl doesn’t need that much validation. She’s already a narcissist. Anyone who says they don’t need to work on themselves is a narcissist. She needs a masculine man who’s not gonna let her walk all over him and is not gonna be afraid to tell her.

[@missabeerk]

9:32 Wait… hold up… did she just call someone who has depression/anxiety a crazy person??? This is so fucked up - especially coming from someone that is “good to go” and “an amazing”person. Sis needs a reality check and serious work on her self awareness.

[@emanr7502]

That's not what people in the comments are judging you for 😂. Jokes aside, she seems cool but a little nervous from all the cameras

[@sumanaali]

lol you are so right I think it’s nervousness and just specific kind of humor that girls would appreciate. Also she drank her drink too quick and probably didn’t eat before smh lol she’s very open and warm, I could NEVER put myself on KZbin knowing how people talk in comments. I hope she doesn’t read that nasty stuff!! Also I feel like how talkative she is bc the guy is so slow 😭 idk I might be wrong.

[@snaik500]

Matched with her on a dating app . I did ask if she was the girl from this video though to confirm. Unmatched immediately

[@Saberking875]

Susanna’s formula for why girls and guys shouldn’t date is fucked up

[@sumanaali]

Be friends * it’s true. After a certain age of you are not in school or whatever you tend to not find friends of the opposite gender that genuinely want to be your platonic friend. She’s actually kinda right. A lot of you men are currently bothering your one female friend you are in love with and she’s just praying you find a girlfriend and go back to being her nice guy friend.

[@Twilight-fp6um]

Y’all are hating on her too much … let’s be real we all have traits other people don’t like.. she’s honest and brash but I think she’s fun and has a warm personality ❤ I think he’s great too but I don’t think it’s a match for them

[@ksnewway5171]

How do I sign up to be on this show?!

[@sadigill709]

It’s giving grumpy sunshine trope

[@queenflippy]

Every time I thought she couldn't possibly stoop any lower in the rude comments scale, she proved me wrong. Yikes.

[@kushsharma8375]

She reminds me of Kelly Kapoor from The Office

[@Elestucheperdido]

Why did they pair these two together? lol She talks so much and so fast, as if she’s the only one there. that poor guy couldn’t have opinions lol.

[@diviAesthetics]

This was the most annoying episode to this day on popshift, why did the crew let this poor guy suffer. This was worse than the one for pip and Nikhil cause that guy was trying his best to ruin the date LMAO now it looks like Susana takes that throphy.

[@Ninadoes4]

@@susanamollick8496girl I like your personality! Don’t change for anyone and keep your boundaries in place. The opinions of these random people doesn’t matter. I think that y’all are a match✨😅

[@susanamollick8496]

thank you @@Ninadoes4 I think people forget it's an entertainment show lol

[@nishantkk1177]

This chick is insecure af, if she was 14, i would have had sympathy for her. But this is sooo irritatingly weird. Poor guy

[@socommaster]

​@@susanamollick8496yeah you're a joke

[@whatup307]

Ooh girl! She talks a lot. He was handsome in a nerdy way. He literally reminds me of a cartoon character I've seen, but I don't remember what show exactly... but he's handsome!

[@misswhiskey100]

She’s a walking red flag 🚩all she cares about is what ppl (commentors) think about her, but then she’s super judgmental herself about other ppl and their life choices and thinks there is nothing she needs to work on. Meanwhile she slammed poor ppl, ppl that choose to take drugs for coping or for mental health; shaming ppl for their sexual lifestyle choices, and constantly talking about her interest in wealth. She pretends to be woke as she rambles that colorism, casteism etc is wrong, but clearly it’s all just empty words as none of it means anything to her. seems like she enjoys demeaning ppl to feel superior (aka narcissist)🤢🤮 Jay dodged this one 😮‍💨 …… wish him the best of luck

[@sumanaali]

She’s a comedian or was like she said and no one finds her kind of humor offensive when a guy is doing it. It’s like social commentary at best it gets a chuckle if anything and if not move on it’s just not your cup of tea. I could see myself being like oh that guy is a funny if Jay had half her flare or fire or whatever. Many love Dave Chappell and Chris Rock but woman does their kind of jokes and you can’t stand it! She’s not “perfect” and I can see how she has a few things to examine for herself but the comments on here are horrendous! More horrendous than whatever bad things she’s said in the video.

[@Xedefenseform]

But as someone who does stand up, a stage and a date are 2 different things. On a stage, you can be a dick and be funny that’s ok. But if you’re a dick irl that’s different. So either she came on the show to put an a performance to further her comedy career (which is fine ig) or she just kinda sucks lmao