answering tmi GIRL TALK questions bc i’m ur big sis (ep 5)

hey, it’s me again, the big sister u never had
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it’s been a long 6 months since our last chat, i hope ur well :’) tonight, i chatted about tinder (ft a bad story lol), taking out my birth control implant, doing the dirty + insecurities w/ that, struggles w/ beauty standards being a WOC, astrology, & more. i know i didn’t get into super jUicY stuff but i feel like i’ve already talked about what i am comfy w sharing on the internet in my past girl talk videos! hope u understand :)
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[@estrellasjournal]

*I love how u talk about sex in such a positive way. feels like a safe place here.*

[@1_winn_1]

Fr

[@sarahdemartin1183]

oath. She doesn’t make it seem so dirty she’s very open and encouraging

[@ciggss]

yes :)

[@anitamantei637]

@@sarahdemartin1183 rightt? ugh i love her

[@ameliashives8493]

my whole life sex has been seen as this terrible thing and jazzy makes it feel like a positive thing

[@sasha_bean]

The content The hair The editing The thumbnail q u a l i t y

[@sashankonyana7422]

That part.

[@lonelypoptart5638]

the personality *chefs kiss*

[@politeleader3532]

👍🏼👍🏼

[@fleece_mcbottomtop]

cute pfp♥️

[@sasha_bean]

@@fleece_mcbottomtop aw thanks

[@tajashania]

um which friends have been telling you not to make these videos because this is literally one of my favourite series on youtube?? 👀

[@karlanizhoni5748]

so true. like i LOVE this series so much

[@beu7990]

fr they must be boring af just saying 😡😡 ok jk i wont hate on jaz'z friends i just have a strong attachment to this series

[@liahsimpson9728]

IKKK

[@happymistakes4439]

exactly this is something I needed!

[@jokesonyou222]

exactly these do the best/ really good on her channel too !

[@ASHLEY-qr2sy]

girl this is NOT boring, i’ve binged watched them ALLLL

[@friedfishh]

Same, more than once hehe

[@sofiacrucesss]

LITERALLY SAMEEEE

[@carat4svt]

i love this series, it’s not boring. It’s very helpful

[@estrellasjournal]

yea it’s my fav series on her channel!!

[@Bia-xe7cc]

yeahh!!!

[@marghejackson]

Exactly

[@rachelnguyen4283]

! i love her girl talks!

[@livkitty07]

Exactly she’s like the older sister I always wanted

[@imani0nline]

Sleepovers with a full face of make up… this concept tickles me pink 👁👄👁

[@beu7990]

fr how do u sleep with it on

[@chaeratonic]

Okay but I love it like 😩🤚🏻lookin cute while gossiping

[@mireiafernandezobama6361]

I literally see you in every single video essay and now here 😂

[@fallingpearls2292]

tickle me pink is a phrase people need to use more often, it makes ur sentence stand out so much :D

[@hyunjinsamericanhoe1078]

@Iuvryujin nooo sis don’t do that it will make your skin irritated! you’re beautiful, remember that

[@hyunjinsamericanhoe1078]

I personally have nobody to talk to this about, so I can’t thank you enough for being my big sister (even if you don’t know me)!

[@hyunjinsamericanhoe1078]

@claudia yes please! my insta is @salmaratt

[@cookielu131]

GIRL, I completely relate

[@hyunjinsamericanhoe1078]

@@cookielu131 😕 we’re on the same bus sis

[@juliah7949]

@claudia can I be there too? 🥺@fidrygantka

[@user-sh6mm7ps4j]

@claudia can i join too? my @ is roseecyn

[@BadSloucher]

"we all need to accept that we're all kinda gross" ⚰️

[@beu7990]

this channel is so wholesome :( jaz is literally the cool older sister that'll give u the best prep talk and will beat up ur bullies for u

[@pastaslut]

YESSS OMG

[@beu7990]

@@pastaslut 😭💞

[@hqneymoons]

i cant like this comment bc 444 :(

[@beu7990]

@@hqneymoons 😔😔 its at 447 now..

[@awhjoyy]

yess, goals 🌝

[@hotpocketmaster6926]

I’m 20 years old and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’ve never even held hands with a boy romantically lmao we’re all in this together you guys💖😌💅

[@mr.beancouldbreakmyspleen643]

Same here

[@maebunny5298]

You're not alone 😊

[@suryasr2816]

Haha same

[@FirstnameLastname-bm9lr]

Turn 19 this october and same here🙋‍♀️

[@marianaazevedo4749]

Not alone don’t worry

[@tajashania]

if a guy i matched with on tinder didn’t realise he’d matched with me if we met irl, i’d simply have to ✨pass away✨

[@claudsxx2566]

I don’t understand why there’s such like a stigma kinda around the age you loose your v card. I have turned 18 like a month ago and the first thing my “best friend” said to me was how does it feel to be an adult virgin? Bearing in mind we were in public and people were around but why do you have to judge that, it’s no one else’s business why you haven’t done it by a certain age and that doesn’t matter. Anyways great video jaz I love these they always feel like it’s a friend to friend conversation and it makes me o happy

[@paris.998]

yeah I kinda feel you but in the opposite way. I lost it in a considerate "early" age while the great majority of my friends didn't even had a relationship or were serious dating. In my friend group some "friends" would judge me and say my relationship wouldn't last and call me a slut behind my back, you know that stuff, while my real friends (who turned out to be like only 2) would stay by my side and understand me. 10/10 I do not regret my past decisions, its been almost 4 years and me and my bf are still very happy together. Don't listen to what others say, its your body your choice, do what makes you happy and you feel ready

[@batmanfan15]

that friend needs to go

[@thisismyprivateaccount6546]

that’s not your friend.

[@eliseson00]

tbh I feel like v card is only a social construct, so those who care about it must give it a thought about why it is so important to them

[@claudsxx2566]

Update everyone: we were out last week and she said about it again and goes “tbf it’s an achievement nowadays but you do need to get some” and now we aren’t friends🥰🥰🥰

[@sourdough6653]

If your friends don’t hype you up it might just be that they aren’t great at expressing affection or things like that.

[@spicywings2315]

But if they don’t hype u up also look out for other signs bc sometimes they’re just jealous people and u should distance from them

[@sourdough6653]

@@spicywings2315 yeah totally, I just meant if they never compliment you out of the blue that doesn’t mean they don’t love you, I’m just speaking from personal experience because I’m bad at doing that.

[@sourdough6653]

@stupid Yupppp

[@chi2om]

Lol I haven't seen those tiktoks but I'm literally 22 and never been in a relationship, had sex, or even kissed a guy. The last guy I seriously wanted to jump his bones had a girlfriend and I haven't found someone that attractive in a while. I think the romance, fantasy novels I read have raised my expectations too high 😩😂

[@paris.998]

Omg this reminds me of my Wattpad phase oh the expectations I can't-

[@insert_usernamehere]

This is me but 21.

[@justpeachy_honey4430]

I’m 22 & same

[@Belo9606]

I’m young and my expectations are to damn high I’ll never get a relationship but I don’t really care for relationships

[@fairsuns]

as a 22 who relates everything... are you my ghostwriter? also, i blame dimitri from anastasia 🥴

[@aubreyharmon1581]

I love her she's just got a really nice vibe

[@beenguyen1351]

as the oldest daughter in a vietnamese household, I've never been on the receiving end of the little "girl talks" I've had. thanks for making up for it jazzy :)

[@nikkiiwithani]

being raised in a super religious household had me scared at these kind of things, but recently i've started educating myself and trying new things. these kind of videos really help me and are very reassuring for me so thank you sooo much

[@KilayaJennings]

i second this. i grew up super religious and knew more about god than i knew my own body. but i’m learning now.

[@shelbyhiromi]

I grew up in a super white area as well, and I definitely did have that same experience where guys never looked at me, only my friends, but I never connected it to race. I figured it was because I’m really small and looked a lot younger, but I guess that is also kind of a side effect of not being white lmao. I do vividly remember in elementary school, I was so conditioned by media that I thought it was impossible to be pretty if you didn’t have blonde hair. Like in all the movies growing up the blondes are the pretty ones and if you have dark hair you’re not pretty, you’re smart, and you’re a side character. There was a girl in my class with the same name as me and she was blonde, and so I just assumed she was “the pretty one.” I thought that maybe if I still wanted to be pretty when I grew up I would dye my hair, but now in college I get comments all the time about my natural hair being a really pretty color. I had a friend tell me “is that you’re natural color? Ugh I know so many girls who would kill to have that color”. Beauty standards are so illogical. Also about the astrology thing, I have a Leo rising and I’m very proud of it! People who aren’t friends with someone based off of a SINGLE sign are hypocrites, because they definitely don’t know enough about astrology to use it to inform anything about their lives. Sun signs are much less important than people realize, the reason it’s valued so much is only because it is easy to figure out without having to look at a chart, so to judge someone based solely off of that is a mistake. Astrology has just as much to do-if not more more-with the relationships between the planets and how they interact in the chart as their placements in a sign. Every sign has positive and negative aspects, and the way a person expresses those aspects depends on the planets and placements around it. Also, just because something exists in your chart doesn’t mean you are bound to it. It’s just describing the karma you were born with, and karma is something you can always change by deciding to make different causes. Im sorry mean comments sucked the fun out of it for you 😡😢 Being a Leo means you shine, which is obvious in your videos.

[@juliah7949]

I'm white and blonde lol but I'm also super short and I look like a 14 year old (and I'm 21). I consider myself pretty and I've never really had big doubts about it, but as of right now I can say guys are not looking at me, only at my friends.. So I guess being short and young looking has it's part at not being picked up I'm not saying it's not also a racial thing and it really sucks you though you are not pretty because you are not blonde, it should never be a thing

[@stellatheestar]

I’m watching this while I’m playing animal crossing and the vibes are immaculate

[@chichi2425]

Saaaame!! 😊

[@lc-do5eo]

My mom would KILL me if I had seggs during hs 😭. She even pushes me to not have seggs in college 🤣. Also I agree. White women won't understand our struggles since they are the standard. (Not that they don't have issues, just not our issues.) And I understand realizing your friends are racist. Even though my friens group is POC, there is still racism present. After a while I had to stop being friends with people because I realized that they only saw certain ethnic groups as sexual objects, nothing more.

[@chaeratonic]

What's poc?

[@tangerinesrsophisticated]

@@chaeratonic people of color !

[@chaeratonic]

@@tangerinesrsophisticated ty lol

[@elizabeth-qy6mm]

Excuse me? That’s racist. You’re racist . I’m a white woman and I have these problems. Please get the facts you are 10. I can tell by your pfp.

[@elizabeth-qy6mm]

@jude no she’s racist. “Black people can’t be racist “ I suppose you think that’s true too.

[@cooky3589]

this will NEVER get old and/or boring , ily and y‘all sm 🤍

[@beckyard]

girl, your girl talk would never be boring, pls don't stop

[@dreambeliever6778]

but your hair tho sis T-T.... I love

[@jettwashed]

still not over how good the red hair looks!!!

[@irene_amelia]

Hey Jazzy, I actually went to the same high school as you (i was one year behind you) and you described HB perfectly lmao. It's so difficult living in an area with many POC but a lot more people who are racist. It came to the point where my friends in high school were people of color. Love you and thanks for this immaculate video :)

[@naela4464]

ur pfp !! your so pretty!!🤎

[@Yara-vr1cp]

As a white girl who has blonde hair and blue eyes, i never really thought about the fact that some girls with different skin/eye/hair colors don’t feel pretty just because the stereotype “pretty girl” is white, has blue eyes and has blonde hair. Just wanted to say to everyone reading this: you’re pretty! No matter what your skin color is! (If you don’t believe me, just say to yourself: “i’m pretty” every time you look in the mirror, until you believe it)

[@guesswho5314]

I’m white and blonde but I have brown eyes and even I’m insecure about my eyes which ik is ridiculous cuz I’m still white and blonde. Btw everyone is beautiful ❤️

[@paris.998]

I´m also what is called the pretty girl stereotype (white skin, blue eyes and blonde hair) and my parents work really hard so you can say I have a bit more financial possibilities. I always hype my friends and other girls up because I honestly think everyone is beautiful and deserve to feel appreciated idk just being myself and nice in general and a lot of girls would say "she's just full of herself because she's rich and pretty" and that honestly hurted me a lot because it was not only strangers saying that but girls who I thought were my close friends. I don't give a damn anymore but oh boy if that hurted my feelings :/

[@ciara9047]

I guess you could say I fit that stereotype too ^^ but a lot of people bullied me for being white so I just crawled in a ravine an ate rocks

[@kurororikana]

I LOVE YOUR PFP IT’S LOVEJOY

[@Yara-vr1cp]

@@kurororikana Yess haha

[@anuskapatel496]

Tbh I feel proud to be a virgin ✨

[@joshuawilliams2487]

As you should be.

[@NimBelle]

it makes me so sad that people are taught to feel insecure about their looks bc theyre poc. I hate that white is the standard for everything. Poc are stunning, especially when they embrace their culture with traditional dress. I wish I had a cultural background like that. Y'all are so beautiful, please dont forget that.

[@MeganNicolee1]

I totally agree with poc not feeling beautiful compared to their white friends and I remember feeling this growing up and noticing society pushing the standard of beauty being white. I remember being in middle school thinking guys would like me if I was white or I wish I was white. To any other women of color that has felt this feeling just know you are beautiful the way you are. As I grew up I learned to be confident in my brown skin and my ethnic features. It takes time but just know there is no standard of beauty and being confident in yourself is beautiful 💕

[@1_winn_1]

You're the mother sister we all needed but didn't know we did

[@susancan978]

I love how she's just hugging her little hello kitty 🥺 so cute and cuddly

[@isalysdelarosa1969]

you’ve literally grown so much compared to the first episode of this series. I definitely felt that you were more comfortable and confident with yourself (: so happy for you jazzy

[@kayzzzzzzzzz]

RIGHT i noticed that too !! :))

[@maferramon387]

Im Mexican and the whole ethnicity and beauty thing resonated DEEP within me. American beauty standards are pretty much the reason why my self esteem has been going down ever since I was a little girl

[@connie2442]

At bad as this sounds, please don't listen to your friends lmao. I check your channel everyday in hopes of another girl talk video. I absolutely adore this series and i can guarantee so many others feel this way. The way you carry yourself is amazing and how you can be so open helps me so so much. Thank you for continuing this wonderful series :))

[@lilac_jade]

i just watched a tmi girl talk from another girl’s channel who said (and i quote) “shaving for your partner is a must”. i clicked away immediately like wtf. your girl talks are super informative thank you so so much for them💓💓

[@stellatheestar]

miss girl I could listen to you talk about anything🥺

[@noone2062]

obsessed with these videos istg😫

[@virginluvr]

im nb and not many ppl talk about nb sexual health or tmi things,,, and ik u say this is "girl talk" and "girlies" but as someone whos afab, these videos help me a lot with understanding myself on a personal level

[@pureedecay]

i've been missing these videos! i was in desperate need of a big sis talk

[@lilrayofsunshine2992]

Can we be friends ?

[@dianareynolds2446]

I love Girl Talks. It just makes me feel seen and understood. Thank you Jazzy 💜

[@FiMilton]

I’m 22 and have never been kissed. Did anyone else have this experience and then finally kiss someone? I’m kind of terrified no one will want me ever.

[@mariahly]

This is advice u have ur own timeline and when ur ready u will do it if ur not don’t force ur self also some one in this world out of billions of people some one will want/love u it takes time just for now just love ur self because at the end of the day the only person there for u is ur self

[@doralilikovacs2898]

it truly doesnt matter when it happens 😊💛 you are lovely and beautiful regardless! I was 21 when I had my first relationship and I don't mind waiting at all for that long because it all worked out so well and before I was simply just not ready. also I know many amazing woman who only started dating in their twenties and there is nothing wrong with them and they are all doing really well. also try to remember that have these experiences is amazing but it is not that big of a deal. like sex is fun but it doesnt make you any better, wiser, special. having or not having it doesnt define anyone's worth!

[@cherokeedove]

I have a bunch of friends who I think had their first kisses around 23-25. There's no rush!

[@vintagelover2211]

same here, i am also hideous so

[@shannon348]

I mean I’m 20 now and only just had mine and honestly the older I got the less nervous I was about kissing a guy coz you mature and are at a point of adulthood where it’s not as big a deal even though I still hadn’t had mine yet so when it did happen I wasn’t freaked out at all it was pretty chill and nice so I think it’s better when you’re older actually

[@luvllye]

yesss!! ive been waiting for another sleepover with u! thank u so much and I want u to know that these will never get boring for us they're seriously so helpful

[@racheltii5365]

I love this series, it makes me feel so safe

[@cafekat8910]

oh yes we luv when jazzy post

[@sophiaa4419]

This is literally my favorite series on KZbin it’s so relatable and like reassuring

[@kaihehehe]

Pls keep this up. It’s a nice way you connect to your followers ever so often and i think we all love it 🥺

[@mag_zi3]

I love these girl talks! Your so thoughtful and make all your fans so comfortable and welcomed.

[@cloudysouls7069]

Girl a lot of things you talked about were SO relatable! I love this series and please don't ever stop it! Love your channel 🖤

[@kaleewalee8818]

I feel like this should be a podcast

[@sabsupsub]

love these girl talks! growing up with brothers never really allowed me to feel what it might feel like to have a sister to talk about stuff :’) this video series makes me feel like i have one!!hahaha

[@prathnapatel5136]

I love this series so much!! I’ve actually rewatched all of these multiple times so just know that we really appreciate them and don’t find them boring 💗 thanks for the amazing content!!

[@mr.maryel1835]

I really need more of this

[@FragileLunar]

i love this series so much!! the more of these i watch from you, the more open i want to be on my own channel! i love that you don’t shy away from topics and it genuinely feels like a conversation with a bestie

[@spammusubi1607]

We love the girl talks!! It’s like getting an update from our fav older sis as well as just getting some good life qnas in

[@apulsine]

hey hottie thank u for the vid :) girl talks are so amazing and if u enjoy them continue! i feel like each video is different so I enjoy them sm!

[@maplesyruuup]

These girl talks literally help me sm I love the advice

[@honeykoxo]

girl i will NEVER get tired of these girl talk vids 😭

[@tiannaritter9899]

ur hair is making me want to go and buy hair dye right fookin now🤭it looks so good bestie‼️also this made me feel better about not dating yet even though i’m 16, people always asked me if i’ve ever dated anyone and made me insecure because they’d be weirded out, like sorry there’s not a lot of great boys to choose from🙄all my friends are starting to do stuff with their boyfriends and i’m trying to realize i don’t need someone to rely on for happiness😎ur so cool and so r your vids❤️

[@crybaby7496]

✨I literally die for these girl talks really feels like a safe place my gurl jaz deserves more✨

[@SugaSwag]

i hope u never stop this series, i don't care how many u've done but these make me feel so SAFE

[@el_mirjam620]

Jazzy u really have inspired me in so many ways to feel confident again. I love you're content and bubbly personality. Whenever I get a notification that you have uplouaded a new video my whole evening gets better. I just wanted to tell you that you have such a big role for all the girls in our age and the younger generation as well, keep doing what u do cause you really are the best

[@sahana8444]

ahhh everytime jazzy makes one of these i start to love her a little bit more. she rly is the big sis figure in my life ❤️

[@lovealexius4129]

I absolutely love this series ! very much needed when ur the only girl in the household besides ur mom

[@urfriendlove3543]

lol i met my boyfriend at trader joe's bc he works there! i wonder if people secretly think we're lying about that. 😂

[@user-ui5sn3cc6h]

this series will never get old!

[@emmawilkinson1176]

love this series so much! and I love ur hair :)

[@kv7414]

omg no these aren’t boring at all. it’s so interesting to hear your different takes, experiences, and advices on different things. please keep making these videos i love watching them!

[@sapphirevibes2763]

I loooove that series, i feel comfy while u talking bout that kind of stuff, please continue S2

[@tamaragyurko9472]

i love the way jazzy talks so much, her expressions are so cute

[@jassyp9457]

thank you so much Jazzy, I dont have any sisters and my mom never talks about thses things so I really appreciate you for making people feel more comfortable with these kinda topics. take care and make sure to drink water

[@starrailsunday]

NOOO if you love doing these talks pls keep doing them! They’re super helpful and fun! 💕

[@vivi40180]

I WAS BINGING ALL UR OLD TMI TALKS and im so grateful that u posted another :)

[@itsurfriend7795]

don’t listen to your friends, I love these so much.

[@Savannah-yi1yv]

Jazzy making everyone week better by posting. Shes a ride or die🤧✊

[@olivianavarro7053]

I really love these. It’s so grounding. Like in between everything else it’s a nice constant to go back to every so often

[@byisabellalujan]

maam please never stop this series! your girl talk videos are my comfort videos🥺

[@meccacamille1218]

Just wanna say I'm really thankful for these videos.... I grew up with all men and so never had ANYONE to talk to about all the crwzy shiz happening to my body growing up, or the things I had questions about. So I luv you and this series and I'm totally fine if you kept this going for a while .

[@emmanuella7997]

I will NEVER get bored of these girl talks !!! we love it! keep it coming :)))))))

[@aliciarivera8880]

girl talks could never get boring. we love them, don't ever stop posting them

[@nyamarieeee]

these girl talks are literally my favorite thing ever please keep doing them

[@zealysage8033]

Petition to do these more often😅 I’m hooked

[@landynistrash9378]

this is definitely one of my favorite series on KZbin

[@kclee7788]

nooo you NEED to continue this series its very helpful and you provide such a comfortable and safe space for people who dont feel comfy having these conversations with others ♡♡

[@korentaylor8508]

they’re not boring!!! these are like some of my favorite videos from you :,) i never grew up with a sister and my mom was always deployed with the army so i kinda just never learned about this stuff until high school really LOL these videos really make me feel so much more comfortable and it really feels like a sleepover :D

[@tanmayaremeyn4162]

Bruhhh this is not boring at alllll I love you❤❤

[@TeeryvelizCurbelo]

To be honest, I loved this series! Keep them going, your being so raw and informative. I feel like a lot of girls don't have anyone to be able to talk about this and often they don't have parents that give them talks and teach them. I am 26 years old and I wish my mom would've had these type of conversations with me, it would've taken a lot of insecurities and I would've avoided a lot of ignorance. Props to you!

[@friedfishh]

I absolutely LOVE these girl talk videos you do! They're definitely my favourite thing to watch and I don't think I could ever get sick of these

[@vegsamosa]

I love this girl talk series, never stopp 😤🛐

[@isabellaboone7510]

💖Plz never stop these girl talks I love them sm!!!!! 💖

[@miladynoir2037]

I was just crying, wondering so many things. thank you lol

[@emmas4658]

i love this series!!! i makes me feel like im hanging out with my cool older cousin or friend or something :) it makes me happy

[@nanifilms550]

I am so happy I’ve been wanting you to do another one of these :)

[@makailalashay]

these videos are always so .. cozy if that makes sense 😭💓

[@juli3131]

IT TOTALLY DOES

[@Astrid-fw2mj]

i don’t know what your friends were talking about these never get old!

[@chwe2137]

These videos are so calming and you always discuss issues that I don’t realize I actually deal with and it helps me figure out how I can feel better about myself in general. I love this series, I hope you continue to make these vids 💗

[@rroselandd]

PLEASE never stop making these, they are my favourite videos

[@mochimelon6999]

My favorite series on youtube~ I grew up in your typical Asian conservative household who banished sx and pron and the thought of losing my virginity would be unbelievably daunting and mortifying if it were not for people like Jazzy who talk about sex positivity. Much love to you Jazzy and to anyone who struggles with sex insecurity! 💕💕

[@addison6922]

Ahhh thank you for this I needed this

[@kalyanisrivastava1780]

i audibly gasp whenever u post, love u jazzyyyy ❤️

[@kieramalham978]

I love these so much, going through so many changes and these are just so grounding