We love ❤️ people like you, ... As a Mexican I love seeing how much love you have for your our country Mexico 🇲🇽 is an honor having good humans like you living in 🇲🇽
@skippylippy5475 жыл бұрын
I agree, there is a LOT of anger in the U.S. It is much safer in Mexico. Thank you for saying that. :)
@brianleonard68855 жыл бұрын
I've never shared any video in my life , but this is going on my Facebook!
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian. :)
@brianleonard68855 жыл бұрын
@@JCTravelStories indeed sir
@janetphelps18963 жыл бұрын
I could listen to you all day! I’m a female, turning 73 yrs old and hope to make a move to Mexico soon. My rent here in Houston sucks up a major part of my Social Security check. My check is $2200 a month. I feel, I can do good in Mexico! I’m an entrepreneur so maybe, I can start a little side business!!
@michaelmartinez43035 жыл бұрын
Well JC, as far as I know I'd say you and your wife deserve all you have . The comfort and all.... God bless you and your family
@retromoto94565 жыл бұрын
Hi Jerry, seen many of your your vids, but this one is inspiring! I'm 56 and just retired (pension, assets, 401k & Investments) with no debt, and have been considering living abroad. I lived and worked in Colombia for 7 years and loved it! I was homesick for Colombia when I returned to the U.S. and went through reverse culture shock! All your reasons for staying in Mexico are the ones why I want to go back to Colombia. Whenever I walk out the door in New Jersey it's GAME ON! I long for the days when I was just happy to be alive and surrounded by other happy people that celebrated life every day! My plan is to travel and check out Ajijic, Costa Rica and of course Colombia (Medellin) and find that sweet spot for myself and my wife. Thank you for reminding me that there is another world out there!
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
And thank you for confirming I'm not alone in my opinion and experience. :)
@tatialo375 жыл бұрын
People are angry because they have to work so hard to live to buy junk they don't need!
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Exactamente! :)
@valeriegriner56445 жыл бұрын
These days, they are working to stay alive! The price of healthcare, medicine, utilities....EVERYTHING...is so ridiculous. You are right about "the junk," too. In the U.S., it's all about selfies and status symbols...ugh!
@chevyiceraw5 жыл бұрын
This video deserves 5 stars. Such a wealth of information.
@billallbright4 жыл бұрын
Jerry, I went to Chihuahua in 2000 on a church mission trip and I was so impressed how happy the people were there. We were building home for retired preachers. The land was on top of an abandoned dump! But the people could get a piece of land and build a house there and they were happy. The poor church we attended didn't have much but they took up an offering for another church that had even less than they did and the were happy to do it. So, I really liked this video!
@lauriefunke98955 жыл бұрын
I think I have to say that this is YOUR BEST video yet! With age comes wisdom for sure, I have just sent this video to my 67 yr old workaholic husband and my 23 year old son (who loves Mexico and has lived there for 2 years and wants to go back for all the same reasons you just mentioned...the other thing that impresses him is that you can't date a girl on Sundays because she is with her family and how important family is to the Mexican culture!)
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kind words, Laurie. :)
@jovit-vs5 жыл бұрын
Mexican families are firs not matter what gran pa and gran mama allways gotta be first n take good care just the way they take care and love us not sending them to a nursing home thas a nonono in a MEXIMEXICAN CULTURE 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽🎆👨🌾👦🤠
@lauriefunke98955 жыл бұрын
@@jovit-vs Yes, i love that about the Mexican culture!!!!
@dorianbelen5 жыл бұрын
Laurie Funke It is true. One of the businesses, which is never a business in Mexico. It is a nursing home. Mexicans love their old people. they will never send them away. even if they do not have family. even strangers take care of them
@valeriegriner56445 жыл бұрын
The Mexicans do value the family and they RESPECT their elders, too. They have their priorities straight.
@jeffcokenour34595 жыл бұрын
What incredible honesty! I hope many many young people watch this and learn.
@IngridMClark Жыл бұрын
Thanks a Million JC. I am feeling very blessed to have had the opportunity to hear your heartfelt talk. I am single, 70, living in FL, and feel that my soul is slowley dying here because of the lack of opportunity to give and receive smiles and love. Ergo, in 2 months I will start a new chapter of BEing at Lake Chapala. I'm already feeling more alive while taking online Spanish classes. Who do you know who is qualified to help me find a 1 Bedroom aparment to rent in the Lake Chapala area? Thank you kindly.🥰
@GreenGrapes012 жыл бұрын
Amen!! I looking to live for today! I glad you have found peace in your mind!😎 Jim from Minnesota
@Madmickey885 жыл бұрын
Great video. I agree. We're in a hurry, and we're angry. Not all of us, but we do need to slow down and say buenos dias more often.
@vt7814 Жыл бұрын
I am enjoying every single of your stories even if the subject is not my personal interest you have the ability to tell them the way people glued in front of the screen. Never boring, always entertaining, your voice is very soothing. I just love and appreciate your work to put in to create these videos. Thank you Jerry and Lynn ! Victoria from NY🗽
@maritzawright66455 жыл бұрын
What a great video with a wealth of information. How refreshing it is to hear an American say he feels safe in Mexico. Most Americans are scared to travel because of how the media portrays Mexico and the Mexican people. If they only took a chance and experienced the beauty of Mexico.
@AZ_Bill2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I’ve watched many of your videos but missed this one. Thank you for being so honest about your journey. I understand now that your greatest source of wealth is your wisdom. Thank you for sharing. You are truly an inspiration.
@gerardolozadluna41494 жыл бұрын
Jerry I'm going to give you a like just because I like you decorating you have done in your house got some beautiful matching colors it makes life fluorescent happy colors
@shereestark56365 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have dual citizenship in the U.S. and Canada. My husband has now added the year of his pending retirement date to his password, (he is an IT tech), and we will be heading for Mexico when we hit that date! We love JC's pod casts...we also watch and enjoy Jerry Brown's, and Tangerine Travels with the "youngsters". It is so nice to see things from 3 prospectives!
@agor445 жыл бұрын
Wooooow!!! I’m 30yo, I’m Mexican btw, I live in Mexico City, where every person is in a rush, an I just love those last words... Estamos trabajando para estar como tú estás, y no para vivir en Mexico, si no para estar cómo estás en tu mente, donde estoy en calma, tranquilo y feliz, y no trabajo para estar feliz. Trabajo por un feliz hoy... I places those words in Spanish cause oh my God!!!
@donm5235 жыл бұрын
Thank you JC, this is a different culture and wife and I enjoy it everyday. Don M. Jocotepec.
@juanalatorre7663 жыл бұрын
Este es México mi amigo .aquí trabajamos para vivir y ser feliz y no vivimos para trabajar .solo disfruta la vida que al fin es muy corta .
@kathrynb46835 жыл бұрын
We are Mexican like in Buffalo, NY. We have always been known as "The City of Good Neighbors". You can relax and be friendly and talk to everyone wherever you go. In our new rebirth, newbies by the thousands have been delighted at learning this. It's the reason all those who left in decades prior always miss home forever. Also Lake Erie does the same warming and cooling effect. Newbies have changed the culture of the thruways though. We'll have to get a campaign going to address that. Thanks for your time in explaining your story. Helps a lot. Just selling and considering my next move for all the same reasons. You're lucky to have Lyn to share the journey.
@gladysrodriguez5492 жыл бұрын
This is so far the best video for me. Thank you very much for your honesty.
@boaz75452 жыл бұрын
A very profound realization. Among the best videos I've ever seen. Thank You!
@timcoil62242 жыл бұрын
I know this video is 3 years old, but it is just as relevant now as it was then. Thus is the exact same reason I live in Mexico as well and I suspect most other people as well. I love Mexico as my home and made the decision 3 years ago after having traveled and lived in Belize, Guatemala and Hinduras as well. I get to be!!! What an expression of what life is. It reminds me of the fisherman story where is he already living his life fishing with his family and not chasing the opportunity to become wealthy so he can spend time with his family. I have enough friends in Mexico now to look back and see the folly of my old ways and our society as it is built. Thank you for this video and thank you for the gentle reminder of the purpose of it all, especially for those seeking it out.
@joshbasterrica74775 жыл бұрын
Gracias por elegir a México para vivir👏👏👏👏
@kathybitzan74735 жыл бұрын
The colors is what I love about Mexico. The people there are more happy also. The good is fantastic as Mexican food is a family favorite for years. I love everything about it. Your right about road rage in the states.
@giannagiavelli50985 жыл бұрын
I agree. I want a community. There isn't even anything to do or anywhere to go where I live, people all around and all are strangers.
@jackiel67055 жыл бұрын
@@giannagiavelli5098 I know, the same here. It's so sad isn't it. Have a good night friend :)
@cacatr44955 жыл бұрын
@@giannagiavelli5098 I don't know where you're from, but it used to be that people knew one another, there was a social structure, people would happily greet each other as they bumped into one another all around town. One might play tennis and know everybody there, or go bowling, or simply to the store, and would know people. It's become an angry, toxic society of strangers with no sense of community at all. One can't make new friends because people's social circles are closed; they don't let new people in to their circle. It's the whole attitude of closed doors. If you don't have good friends from long ago, you're sunk, because there's no making friends now. Everyone is standoffish, aloof, closed down. I remember when I still said " Hi!" to strangers on my way in to a store. I remember when and where I was when the first person looked at me strangely for saying Hi. I figured they must be from a big city in California. Since that time, the state has been inundated by Californians and the culture has completely changed. No one says Hi to strangers anymore, everyone avoids eye contact as if it would be the worst thing in the world. It used to be that people standing in line would stand within 18" or so, now, they have to stand 3' apart, as if everyone has cooties. Even people you know have to stand 3' apart when chatting. It never used to be that way. Friends would hug in greeting, they'd say " I missed you!" Now, no one hugs and no one ever seems to miss anyone, but everyone is lonely and most admit it. 😵. They say they know people, but that they have no good friends. If you stand 2' from someone you know in chatting, they back up like we need 3 feet. It's all gotten goofy, weird, paranoid/fearful like, and nobody has true friends unless they had them thirty years ago. The young friends we had thirty years ago, too often didn't value the treasure of friendship. Friendship used to be a precious treasure that people held dear. Now, they are quick to dismiss for no good reason, "disposable friends", I guess, just like social media. Easy come, easy go. Easy?
@kathybitzan74735 жыл бұрын
Wow, you really nailed it. I thought I was the only one who had thos experience at the store when a lady turned and said "your in my Space" I went sorry and backed up. I looked at cashier she just shrugged her shoulders. No wonder I get weird looks when I greet someone. But I always say thank you if someone opens or holds a door for me. Sometimes people need to wake up, I've even just smiled at someone and you can kinda see their brain before they return that smile. But I think they hesitate before responding. Sad world we live in today.
@giannagiavelli50985 жыл бұрын
@@cacatr4495 yah, once friends got married they dissapeared, invited neighbors to swim in my pool on 110 degree days, no one ever did, they all just stay in their isolated worlds no one is ever friendly. I think that plus the property taxes are why I'm feeling done with the usa. The thing is i'm very social, I play music, I'm brainy, I'm a writer, but americans are just worked to death and worn out.
@RobbSR5 жыл бұрын
I love to hear about your experiences, is like hearing a teacher and you have a way to tell your experiences that capture your attention. Saludos?
@andreaboulder5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honest sharing of your “WHY” ....it so resonates. My whole life I’ve been driven by “will I be able to afford retirement?” I mean since I was a kid! Crazy I know! I’m pretty spiritual and that fear seems so out of alignment- life shouldn’t be about that. I too am self employed and am working to get free so I can live that “happy simple life” you guys enjoy in Mexico. I’m in my early 50’s and my goal is to move down there full time by the I’m 60 if not sooner.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Do not let your future be too far in the future. :)
@cdiaz13135 жыл бұрын
JC, Thanks for the fantastic video it was very informative. I always enjoy your videos very much. Jerry, at 73 you look great. Take care.
@owlscoffeecats5 жыл бұрын
~~> I am laughing Jerry! "That wasn't on my mind that day."
@rolledz245 жыл бұрын
You reminded me of the many times as a teenager in Florida sitting on the dock at my uncles marina in Sarasota, fishing and feeding the pelican that would always come sit by my side waiting for me to catch a fish and give it to him . Sitting there surrounded by million dollar yachts with not another human around listening to Otis Redding on the radio . Yep , I’m working on getting back to that feeling .
@rawinder653 жыл бұрын
Just returned from our home in Panama. It took me a week or two to remember to say a few hello's as I walked around down there. It's taking me more time to get used to not being so friendly here and I'm in Texas! Thanks for the video. You're part of the reason we bought property in Panama in the first place.
@HarshColby5 жыл бұрын
This resonates with me. I love Mexico. I had a similar situation. In 2008, my home automation business died. No income. I bought rental property. Today, my business pays the bills but I'm not relaxed. When I'm in Mexico (Cancun) for a couple months of the year, I'm relaxed. You mentioned safely: I feel as safe in Cancun as I do in Atlanta. I haven't gotten used to the slow progress of life in Mexico yet. It took two years and three lawyers to buy a house. In the States, that'd be done in a week or a couple months at most. But now that that's done I think I can learn to relax and enjoy life in Mexico. Relajate. Disfruta la vida en México.
@troymills94375 жыл бұрын
JC, I know I've mentioned this to you several times before; our stories are very similar! Like you, I owned a small business. Like you, at 54, I lost my largest contract very abruptly (through no fault of my own). Unlike you, I didn't lose half my income, I lost it all. While I had accumulated a large nest egg I had not invested it in income producing assets. Hence, I had nothing coming in the door but A LOT going out the door every month while I searched for another contract. With one son still in college, a large mortgage, and a private BCBS health care plan, I'm sure you can imagine just how large my cash drain was every month. For others who can't imagine I'll say it was a 5-figure number. Like you, I discussed our alternatives with my wife. Like you, the thought of becoming an employee again at age 55 was not appealing. My wife and I drew a line in the proverbial sand. If I did not land a new contract by 'X' date, we would begin to plan and execute our 'Plan B'. That date came and we made plans to visit Mexico. We visited Ajijic in July of 2017 for 10 days. We returned home and put our home on the market. It sold in 2 days! Knowing we were then only 30 days from truly being homeless we returned to Ajijic in August for another 8 day visit for the express purpose of finding a place to live. We were successful and returned to the US, held an estate sale, selling or giving away everything we had accumulated in almost 30 years of marriage. We arrived and moved into our new home (we rent) on September 30, 2017. I do not regret any of it. We are very happy here. Hope our paths cross someday here in Ajijic. Regards, Troy
@livingitup96475 жыл бұрын
Troy Mills: Wow--thanks for the additional inspiration! Great story. Nice of you to share it with the rest of us.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Although it was 16 years before your story, all that sounds so much like my story. The big garage sale .... We put a sign in the street that said, Come buy this stuff. We're moving to Mexico! Send me an email, Troy. jc.travel.stories@gmail.com :)
@buildingbuildercip82924 жыл бұрын
I bought a beach house in Rosarito that I’ll be retiring to... maybe sooner than later. 52 years old 100% debt free with some good passive income. Watching these videos makes me just want to retire early and enjoy life.
@mysticpluck85 жыл бұрын
I am glad to have found a tiny town, in southern Oregon, where life is small, friendly, and peaceful. It's a rare thing in the U S.
@deegonzalez75932 жыл бұрын
I subscribed to your channel after this video was done, therefore I had not seen it until today. So glad I did, I truly enjoy them. I wish you and your wife a happy long healthy life.
@jacqdanieles5 жыл бұрын
*"I'm not working for a better tmrw; I'm enjoying a great today".* Yup, I'm with you on that! Quit the rat race 9 years ago. Seems like a lifetime ago.
@rassabossa45545 жыл бұрын
Retiring and slowing is wonderfully refreshing. I just got back from a trip to Atlanta and it is always stressful. "I'm not working for a better tomorrow; I'm enjoying a great today" is a perfect descrption.
@rassabossa45545 жыл бұрын
@@satchrules101 Hi Music! Are you in Mexico? If so, I am looking to meet up with other musicians (GDL this month, Ajijic next month).
@Shulamitefire5 жыл бұрын
@@satchrules101 So, you are living in Mexico now -- all year round or seasonally?
@irmarose22675 жыл бұрын
my hubby and i are moveing to PV in August we are now in the proses of selling our things and moveing one good part is my hubby is from Mexico and worked in PV for many years i myself am mexican American one good thing for me will not go through much culture shock i speak the language and I'm familiar with all the foods of the Mexican culture well most of them anyway...
@greenandgold1435 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE your videos! My husband and I are 32-33 with two kids 2 and 6.. and I want us to be where you are, hahaha! I know I'm shooting for the stars but hey why not try! 😄 We live in CA and are home owners. We recently bought a piece of land in Mexico and are saving to build a vacation home out there. Truly, I want us to move out there PERMANENTLY! My husband works online for the pharmaceutical industry. So, us moving out there could actually work out. Pray for me that I manage to convince him so we can live like you and your wife 😊.. Thank u for all the great vids u share with us!
@gladyrose215 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts here and for asking for prayers i will be praying for you. Today we online school should not be difficult to leave and another country while your kids get educated better of i notice other country has better and safer education system.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
You're way ahead of the game with a location independent job to support you. Don't make it a life changing move he has to accept. Work on the vacation home. Mexico will grow on him. An elephant can be eaten ..... one small bite at a time. :)
@Dancin2smile5 жыл бұрын
School is better in Mexico fyi. Good luck!
@Dancin2smile5 жыл бұрын
@ right? Its like, they make you stupid so you cannot ever leave. Hence why everyone fears moving to another country even if its nicer and cheaper.
@greenandgold1435 жыл бұрын
@@gladyrose21 thank you for your prayers 😊👍
@jennifergarciahernandez7665 жыл бұрын
I'm 42 and have your frame of mind as I just want the simple life. I do not want the fast life. I love the old country towns yet in the US you have to live in the fast paced city to make it. My husband is from Mexico and I told him I would not mind living here. My kids are adults now and I can do something like that. He wants to build up money before doing that. So I pray not too long from now I can do so. Love your stories and wisdom. Again thank you for sharing.
@MyBonita084 жыл бұрын
I agree with you! US is a time oriented culture. We here say things like "I am hungry but it's not dinner time, I am sleepy but it's too early" You schedule appointments for everything! Even to see a friend
@erikavillegas47035 жыл бұрын
Good morning! I love what you said it's so true. We live too fast here in the USA
@billiamc19695 жыл бұрын
I wish my wife and I had neighbors like you guys...so refreshing to hear you speak about your remarkable life...
@healthylivinginajijic5 жыл бұрын
I am watching and rewatching this video today and shared with all my family and some friends. What a great video, Jerry! Thank you for sharing your paradise with us via KZbin. Hope to experience it for ourselves this summer. And so true about the atmosphere in the USA. We were in CDMX just for 5 days this March but coming back to the USA we had to readjust back to people and to traffic, and it seemed so lonely here - barely any interaction with people. While we didn't speak Spanish, we had so many contacts with people while in Mexico City - asking for directions, ordering food, trying to buy tickets for the bus. And everyone we met was friendly and helpful, and also curious about us and the USA. One young couple even invited us to go along with them, since they were going in the same direction and gifted us their extra card for transportation. We met and talked with a lot of people, Uber drivers, taxi drivers, in restaurants, all without trying to. Everyone was friendly and welcoming, phenomenal, really. And this was after people warned us not to travel to Mexico not to get killed, and I even had to block some "friends" on FB for making such hateful comments. Love comments to your videos, such a nice community of people, but I am sure you also had to block quite a few who were spewing hateful propaganda. Keep up the good work!
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
I monitor my comments several times a day and have filters which hold certain words and phrases for my review. I don't mind negative questions which give me the opportunity to give another point of view, but the haters don't get a second chance. Life's too short.
@montealegre_rp5 жыл бұрын
Yes sir! Affordability, weather, food and easy going pace. The main ingredients to a great life recipe! CEASE TO LIVE AND BEGIN TO BE...! Gracias Jerry, un extraordinario video de vida!
@Paperlover1235 жыл бұрын
That was so touching. It kinda brings me to tears that the U.S. has become so hardened. It's not what I remember as a teen or even young adult. Thanks for telling us honestly how things were and are, and I appreciate it so much. Thankyou, Jerry! Hello to Lynn also!!!!
@cacatr44955 жыл бұрын
It's not Kansas anymore, or Mayberry either. The only things the city of my birth has now that it had then, are the mountains and desert, the heat and the monsoon, and the street names. That's it. Otherwise, it's a completely different place, culturally unrecognizable.
@alexandramedichi44215 жыл бұрын
Thank You JC for a Wonderful Video about how You and Lynn have arrived at a philosophical level of living the true dream of a quality of life that few will ever have the experience or the Privilege to be Blessed with.
@legaleagleandpaws81985 жыл бұрын
Very good observation between US and Mexico... its right on:)
@ITXSHEL5 жыл бұрын
I want to be living there; in Mexico!!! I miss sooo much my beautiful country. I'm mexican and I live in Lyon, France, and it is so different from my country. People are so miserable and afraid of eye and physic contact. If you think States has angry and serious people, you h haven't been here!!! Have a very nice sunny day there? BENDIICONES!!!
@1533ramsay5 жыл бұрын
I've been out of debt once. Now I'm back with the debt monster. I'm 57, self employed and going through a divorce. I've subscribed to your channel because I'm planning my next move of action... I may look you up someday when I came check the area out... Thanks Mark
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Please do. :)
@Balligat5 жыл бұрын
Somewhere in the video you mentioned your age. All of a sudden, towards the end of the video I realized why you always made sense to me. It's the fact that I'm exactly your age .... until last year and after I retired I spent a lot of time each year in Spain (for the same reasons you stay in Mexico). I decided to break my habit and do a trip to Mexico the beginning of 2020 - I just need to see it for myself after all the stories about Lake Chapala.
@rafaelcastillo4665 жыл бұрын
Balligat Hola Amigo! How is Living At Spain? Gracias
@Balligat5 жыл бұрын
@@rafaelcastillo466 Hola, que tal? La vida en España es relajado, como JC describió para México . But I don't spend all year there, just about 5 to 6 months each year. Now I'm back home in Germany. Because I will fly to Mexico in January 2020 I'm not going to Spain this year. Hasta luego!
@rafaelcastillo4665 жыл бұрын
Balligat Very Nice! You have the best of both worlds. Enjoy!
@LadyMarie8805 жыл бұрын
I sure hope that people of all ages are truly hearing you........... Thank you so much
@LuisTorres-mn1wv5 жыл бұрын
I'm in my 30's and as I said before I always appreciate your advices
@reginathomas29305 жыл бұрын
Jerry you out did yourself with this wonderful video I am so glad I noticed that I missed watching it, and this is a 5 🌟 video in my eyes Thank You for it.
@rodolfosalomon5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jerry, wonderful video and deep touching words coming from your heart.
@Pasat855 жыл бұрын
¡Órale JC!, You almost make me cry, it reflects your peace of mind and the good person you are, in everything you say. People like you are needed more, not only in México, but everywhere. Great video congratulations amigo.
@RaulGiorgiSr5 жыл бұрын
Profound piece, JC! Thank you for sharing, not just your experience, but also your wisdom. Love the context you built prior to the conclusion of "your why" and your tranquil delivery is in fact evidence that you are living in the moment. I doubt that our fast-paced environment and culture in the US allows most people to reflect and elaborate as you have. I think one of our biggest struggles (for most Americans in the US today) is to find enough hours in the day to take time and focus on what's truly important. It's a pleasure to watch you experience what many of us are attempting to find. I believe that your video today is deeper than you imagine and it's truly appreciated.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Raul. Your comment is greatly appreciated. :)
@RedSpiralHandTV5 жыл бұрын
People in Mexico are just so nice, in general, especially smaller towns. The pace of life is awesome and I always just felt so much better when I was down in Baja/Mexico for extended stays. I'd literally cry and be depressed when I had to go back to the U.S. And that was in the 70s and 80s before things really got bad.
@margaretcaldarone35455 жыл бұрын
Great, Thank You. Enjoyed so much. One could listen to the voice and appreciate the words and experience.
@leew3rd5 жыл бұрын
Really wonderful Video JC. I am champing at the bit to leave the U.S. and spend my last years in Mexico where I spent 8 years as a boy. You hit the nail right on the head, "cease to live and begin to be."
@HamiltonRb5 жыл бұрын
There are similarities in our story that brought me to Puerto Vallarta and you to Ajijic. I owned a business in Canada, and vacationed a couple weeks in PV every year, until I was 54. We started seeing competition from online that we never saw coming, and decided to sell the business before the business sold us. We did quite well off the sale, considering, and had no mortgage or other debts, and decided that cold weather 4 or 5 months a year wasn't as much fun anymore since we stopped skiing and playing hockey years ago. We decided 6 months in Mexico and 6 months in Canada, to connect with family, friends and take advantage of our healthcare was the recipe to peace of mind, since didn't want to give up our citizenship It was always my dream to be able to do this but as you say, people get caught up in the rat race to make more, spend more, wash & repeat, and likely was never going to happen, if I was honest with myself. It was circumstances beyond my control to finally make that decision to retire at 54 and live, not exist, but I just decided that you should never let a challenge stop a dream.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
The day my main contract was cancelled seemed at the time to be a horrible event in my life. In hind sight, it was the best thing ever. It forced me to re-evaluate what is important and I very soon learned that how much money you have to spend does not always depend upon how much is coming in. How little is going out is much more powerful in the big picture of middle class life. I guess rich might be different. I never was. :)
@HamiltonRb5 жыл бұрын
@@JCTravelStories You can buy a lot of stuff with money, but you can't buy time. That was the deciding factor.
@Leatherkid015 жыл бұрын
@@JCTravelStories Rich or Middle class dont matter but i get excited when i save....even if iwon 1 million 😁. Like i got today front pads (ceramic) and rotors for CA$80 (abt US$60 today i think) Yes Americans may find some cheaper but for Canada, online from a Canadian parts store + free delivery is pretty good.....👍 As to the original poster of the initial comment, Re: not wanting to give up Canadian citizenship, doesnt MX allow dual citizen JC? Am wondering.
@sharonmeikle72365 жыл бұрын
This was a particularly good little “what’s on my mind” chat. I also retired early and pretty regularly get the comment, “What do you do with all your time? Don’t you need the motivation of some kind of work?” I tell them that, at this time in my life, I’m more concerned with just savouring the joy of being in the present moment, than in frantically searching to become something else. I’m content. I regulate my own time and I worked hard to have the gift of independent action. Some days the time slips by so pleasantly that scarcely recognize that it has passed. I eat well, sleep well, enjoy the company of good friends, and have time for books and walks and dogs and nature .... and that is enough. Going to head on down to Ajijic next winter. I think it’s time to check it out.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
You've ceased to live and have learned to be. Joyous, isn't it! :)
@oscarpicon71645 жыл бұрын
Jerry- I have to tell you that I love your videos. My parents were born in México. Your videos bring me peace because my dad just passed away on 2/5/19. He was from CDMX. Oddly, your demeanor and your narration of your stories make me feel happy and sad. I’m happy for you and your wife that you are living the life you want to live. But it also makes me sad because I wish he could have probably lived longer. My dad traveled as much as he could in his life. He traveled quite a bit to México but he always wanted to see other places in the world which he actually did get to see. He was 71. Even though he would have never moved back to México before he got sick he was living a normal retirement life here in California. Life took a sudden turn for him this past December 2018 through January 2019. I’m so happy for you that you used your head to plan your life in my parents’ beautiful native country. Your home is beautiful. Keep recording your videos. Keep soaking in life to the fullest . Maybe one day I’ll live there too.
@alexzamoraclips5 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a small town in Mexico and was taught to be respectful to my elders and to always say buenos días, buenas tardes or buenas noches. I no longer do it here in America because most of the time people don’t say hi back even in the apartments elevators. Time for me to go back!! Thanks for sharing your experiences
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for confirming my experiences. :)
@diazcastelan5 жыл бұрын
I like to watch your vídeos because i like your flawless english AND it helps me to perform my english so I can give a better service at my job
@lloydkumley18115 жыл бұрын
Another top notch video, Jerry !! I think your shirt and the background, both inside and out, are visually attractive, and the content of your presentation is great! I especially appreciate the humorous way you say things: "what was on my mind, was not getting a job"; "losing half one's income, gets your attention"; "not highly motivated to move back to the USA to mow a lawn"; etc. Very enjoyable presentation, with well reasoned explanations. Thanks again.
@shaunareay32165 жыл бұрын
Because of you and Lynn, my husband and I can't wait to come and see ajijic. We truly hope when we are down there this year, that we could meet up with you and buy you dinner.
@Vention1MGTOW5 жыл бұрын
You handled that financial setback very gracefully. I'm retiring at 54 as well. Your career must have been a bit higher up on the foodchain than mine is but I adjusted my life toward the frugal side of things. My mechanic job brings in 4600 a month, my spending is 1400 and my surplus is usually around 3000 a month. I've been socking away that surplus for years. With a couple wise investments that surplus has grown and multiplied well beyond what my house is now worth. I keep running the numbers and it pencils out. I'm ready to pull the plug on my job and start a really long summer vacation. I have an appointment tomorrow to get a medical thing checked out and if I'm ok I'm pulling the plug on my job as soon as possible. I'm selling my house to an investor who owns the neighbor house. That way he can rent it back to me while I finish up liquidating my belongings before the move. I plan to downsize my possessions down to a suitcase and a carry-on. I'll get a remailing service so I can keep Washington as my state (no state income tax here). I think I'll go with an outfit called travelingmailbox unless I hear some bad things about them. I'm hoping to find an apartment with a pool, a reasonably secure place to park a scooter, decent Internet and AC.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Unless you're going to the beach, you can cross AC off the list. We don't have a need for it here. :)
@Vention1MGTOW5 жыл бұрын
@@JCTravelStories Sounds like a nice place. Can't wait to get there.
@dorianbelen5 жыл бұрын
VentionMGTOW You can put a mechanical workshop in Mexico. have your employees and you will be the boss. just for fun
@cacatr44955 жыл бұрын
@@JCTravelStories Could Ajijic use an expert automotive Tech shop, English-fluent, expat for expats?
@Vention1MGTOW5 жыл бұрын
@@cacatr4495 I'm actually a heavy diesel truck mechanic. My skills are focused on 18 wheelers, electrical, and Cummins Diesel Engines. I keep my own car, truck, lawn mowers and such working but I'm not really a qualified automotive mechanic. In Automotive I'm just a highly skilled shade tree mechanic.
@bob49195 жыл бұрын
"In a hurry, angry" and fearful. You make a very compelling case Jerry. Buenos dias from your Canadian amigos.
@winkhvac625 жыл бұрын
I keep learning every day Thank you
@guillermoperezvargas42885 жыл бұрын
Every thing you said about Mexico (Ajijic) is very true specially the last few minutes. I think that is what is most important! it is what quality of life is all about! That is the real reason I'm planning to move to the Chapala area in the near future.
@stemarify5 жыл бұрын
Great video JC. I totally agree with you. The hectic pace of life and the widespread dissatisfaction and anger with the whole system here is getting to be too much! It's time for a change! Thanks for your thoughts.
@calistatejobcoach2 жыл бұрын
Your comment about there being a lot of anger in the U.S. was spot on and it's gotten worse in the almost 3 years since you made this video. It's why I'm hoping to sell my house in Sacramento CA and move to Lake Chapala in the next 2 or 3 months. Gracias amigo! ;-)
@k0d3g3ar5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for such a deep and beautiful video. One of your best.
@refugiochavez9794 жыл бұрын
Whao, those words got me!!. I retire five years ago, after so many years of being in a hurry and angry, and Im still in a hurry and angry I've been watching your videos, and thinking about buying a small house in Guadalajara or near by Chapala lake, thank you for sharing, your experiences.
@robjordan25065 жыл бұрын
Ive been here 16 years myself. I live near Atlacomulco EdoMex. I agree with so many things you say about Mexico (and the USA).
@fv12915 жыл бұрын
To me you are the Mr. Rogers of the over 60 group, with your positive outlook and calm demeanor. Your informative videos are a joy to watch, even for those of us who may never live in Mexico, but travel there often. I am lucky enough to live in a large border city, so can enjoy the best of both countries on a whim. Muchicimas gracias Jerry!
@deedeew40405 жыл бұрын
Ajijic, Mexico was a popular destination for Americans to retire back in the 1970's. I am glad it worked out for you both.
@ellena8584 жыл бұрын
Boy did I love that story. I was transported. Thanks JC
@JCTravelStories4 жыл бұрын
Hope you went to a nice place. Thanks for the kind words. :)
@rpal3205 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing how you made lemon~aid out of lemons🍋🍋🍋! Everything you say here is so true! Hurry up and live so you can some day live! So true!! Enjoy that sweet breeze! 🍃🌺🍃
@bonitawauls62745 жыл бұрын
If I could afford it, I would love to come visit Ajijic and spend time meeting with your wife and you. I love to hear the honest good and bad you tell us all the time. Just looking at the beautiful colors, the tropics, and the wonderfully slower life in Mexico. The people are sweet and accepting of us gringos.
@mariahahn-silva28925 жыл бұрын
Dear friend, JC...you didn't;t need to explain why...your eyes said it all. Thank you for all that you and Lynn are, do, have and feel. Happy trails...
@saymiriter77235 жыл бұрын
I have been following you for sometimes now , this video it’s the most excellent because you speak from the heart , very rare this days, you love Mexico, Mexico loves you back and some ❤️☺️👍🏻
@cjthomiii3 жыл бұрын
Just got back from a 3 week wander in Southern Mexico and couldn't agree more with your appreciation for the more relaxed, just being quality of Mexico... and I live in Seattle, a far less ambitious city than others I've lived in, but it was still very apparent to me. Love your videos and always enjoy hearing what's on your mind.
@cliphero3335 жыл бұрын
Good morning from Chula Vista California in San Diego County, this is one of your best videos, I've seen them all please take care and stay safe.
@lunazamoraart5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. It is much appreciated!
@alfredogarcia31905 жыл бұрын
Gerry , you did the right thing, your intuition guided you to the right place , you own a beautiful house and you are surrounded by an expectacular view, let congratulate you . Your the man. I was born I Mexico State of Veracruz . I had lived in the States for over 41 years, I’m 58. I have a Government job which allows me to retired wit full pension after 33 year of service. Next year I wil be joining you moving back to my home town. I remodeled my vacacional house. I should be able to live a modest live here in Mexico. Once again thank you for sharing your videos , you really inspired me.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Come back home Alfredo. :)
@allenpiniol2245 жыл бұрын
Thanks JC. I appreciate your honesty. Thanks for sharing your story. You have been very helpful to me today!
@dianner66375 жыл бұрын
Hi JC! I love watching your videos. Thank you for sharing your experiences and home. You and Lynn seem younger than your chronological age -- I was so surprised when you said you were 73! I can,t wait to visit the Lake Chapala area.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
Good clean food. Exercise. And good genes. My mother is 101. :)
@aking19145 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! Eighteen years....you "got out" just in time!
@aking19145 жыл бұрын
JC, with the influx of expats descending upon Ajijic, some KZbinrs are saying the cost of living is skyrocketing "bc of the gringos"; are you finding this to be true?
@livingitup96475 жыл бұрын
That was beautifully articulated, Jerry. This video, more than any of the others, has touched me deeply today, and further stirred the longing for just what you described: a state of being that is not in a rush (sigh). A state of being that is not chronically angry (which, of course, is the human defense for all types of pain), or endlessly anxious about the political turmoil and eroding civil and constitutional rights here in the U.S. Thank you for the inspiration... and for adding another nudge to my plans to get movin' ! These types of videos are much more than entertainment, they are a great service. A service to ALL of us who are trying to find other ways of living lives with deeper meaning, values that include loving our fellow humans (actually, all life on the planet) and resisting what has become 'the norm' in this current materialistic, capitalist-driven modern world. Change is gonna come. Blessings to you and Lynn. ;- }
@centralcal70914 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful and inspiring Video, thank You Señor!!
@stefaniehasandras74735 жыл бұрын
Hello JC. You're so right about AZ having so many beige/brown homes; thoroughly boring. I dream of beautiful summers, water, foliage and more color. I'll be visiting Ajijic in June and can't wait! Cheers!
@mikerapchuk51625 жыл бұрын
This is my first comment on a video. Thank you Jerry for this video. My wife and I took our first vacation in 27 yrs this year in Mexico, it changed me. Your video changed my way of thinking. Thanks again. P.S - I am Canadian and the people here also seem angry, I don't really want to be a part of it anymore. Thanks again.
@williambeta5 жыл бұрын
Hi Jerry, I'm a relatively new viewer (2 months) but you have really opened my eyes about a place I always found welcoming. I'm almost 60 and planning on ending my professional life here in Seattle once the calendar turns 2020. Though my spouse is younger and probably wants to work a bit more, but I will wander down south and look for somewhere new to call home. Your video talks have been enlightening, even if you do it on Mexican time... Thanks for your contribution to my part of society.
@eliwilliamson78495 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your observations about Mexico and the USA. I love the quote from Waldon's Pond. I''m all about the "being" and I find even amount my seniors that there's such an emphasis on doing constantly and I'm viewed as eccentric
@calitrucker60605 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your life story. I am 47 and find your wisdom to be enlightening in my life as I plan for a great today as well. I recently have purchased land in mexico and currently building a custom home in Colima. Thank you once again. Gracias que Dios los bendiga. From California.
@JCTravelStories5 жыл бұрын
I like Colima. :)
@gilc76265 жыл бұрын
JC. I agree with you 100%. I’m in my mid forties and have been self employed my whole live I can’t see myself working for someone else. Was able to travel Mexico in my 20 and loved everything about it. It’s so laid back. Here in the states it’s stress after stress even for the small issues. Man i hope to soon join you in that tranquil country. You have won the lottery in leaving peaceful ness with your self and wife. You bring relaxation to me when I watch your videos.
@slvgarcia225 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos, but this one was extra special. My husband and I live in a small town in Zacatecas. Lived almost all our life in California , but when he retired we came down here. I was born and raised in the states , so hearing you has just helped a lot in the transition. Thanks for all your informative videos.😊