Jeff Buckley - Lover, You Should've Come Over - Music Reaction video - Married To The Music

Our thoughts on Lover, You Should've Come Over by Jeff Buckley - Thanks to Meriza Gionet for this recommendation.
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[@junkyardheaven]

It's a song written to Buckley's ex, Rebecca Moore. He allegedly called her the night before he drowned. He didn't reach her but it's said he left on her answering machine; "Think of me and smile. I'm gonna work my ass off, baby. I'll see you on the other side."

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks that’s a cool story. It was such a tragedy, another talent gone too young!

[@MojoPin1983]

Jeff was 30 when he died. His dad, Tim Buckley, also a singer-songwriter who died young, was 28 when he passed.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks for the info, I couldn’t remember if he was part of the infamous 27 club or not. Seems not but he wasn’t much older than that!

[@Jaqueli9er]

I think this song is more about him reflecting about his own mistakes than actually expecting for the love to come over, you know? It's one of those cases of only realizing the value of something after you lose it, but I don't think it's meant for us to feel sorry for him, but actually try to learn from his mistakes through the experience he tells in the song.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks, I agree and started to touch upon it when I was saying that he's not talking to her but I don't think I finished that point. We spoke more about this afterwards and about how he'd probably exhibited similar behaviour with others he'd been involved with but this time he lost someone he really cared for. Great song!

[@johnnyhock]

You should review jeff buckley’s “last goodbye” You’re welcome

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks, my fave JB song. Let’s hope Carrie likes this one! 😊

[@Ryan-cr2xw]

Fair review imo! For me it's my favourite Jeff Buckley song, but going from Hallelujah to this is a massive change and that's probably why expectations vs reality may have been so jarring. Also I feel like Hallelujah is a very recognisable and comfortable song to listen to, whereas this song is more "indie", and has an approach not often heard in music. I think a couple more Jeff Buckley songs and you start to get a feel for his style and then it becomes a wonderful experience. It took me a few attempts to get into his music because it is so different however I always had a undercurrent of feeling that it was great music and I needed to give it a chance, and now he's imo the best singer of all time. P.S. I liked the shoutout to Chris Cornell, incredible voice.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

I hadn’t really considered that they were quite different stylistically because I think of his work holistically but you’re right! There was a period where I listened to this album a lot so I don’t really hear the differences between the songs anymore. With that in mind what song would you go for next in trying to win Carrie over?

[@Ryan-cr2xw]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHWalmCbhtqbgK8 cover of satisfied mind kzbin.info/www/bejne/gnycdIaIhrqresk Mojo pin live at Glastonbury kzbin.info/www/bejne/pKOwqJqKmJtsr5Y Everybody here wants you kzbin.info/www/bejne/aZfWapuIirmCpLc Dream Brother live in Chicago I'd say either of these 4 are really good. Easiest to listen to is probably everybody here wants you, although my fave performance is the satisfied mind one (don't know why, I just love it). It's difficult to find a song as emotionally gripping as hallelujah, however these songs show Jeff's vocal skill and take you to that otherworldly place - as cliché as that is. May or may not win Carrie over, some music just isn't to people's taste but hopefully she does like it :)

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks for these Ryan, We've already had a request for that version of Mojo Pin so maybe that's the one to try. I think that he's well inside Carrie's wheelhouse in terms of what she likes so I'm quietly confident she'll get it eventually. :)

[@MojoPin1983]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 Re Mojo Pin, use this link; it's much better quality than the one that Ryan posted: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a3bagGylaql-q6M

[@dargosinger]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 I was say Grave the live BBC version

[@MojoPin1983]

React to Jeff Buckley - Grace (BBC Late Show). Also, please try to refrain from talking too much during pauses. That detracts from your experience of the music, as it creates too large of a gap between sections of a given song, thereby ruining the flow. I would gently encourage you to save most dialogue until the end of a song.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks for watching and for your feedback and suggestion

[@User-jo7jp]

this horror movie isnt scary; said the man watching on mute in broad daylight while scrolling through instagram.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

🤪

[@chrissuperstargaming]

You two should react to danny carey pneuma live

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks for the suggestion, I've added to our requests list

[@chrissuperstargaming]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 if you need a link or anything just let me know I'll send you one

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

@@chrissuperstargaming Thanks, I think I know the one you mean :)

[@robertmanley4828]

Though your initial reaction to the lyrics seemed to be quite cynical, I found your reaction to this song quite interesting from a woman's perspective. Maybe in a sense, you were the woman in this song. And she was like, well you shouldn't have screwed up, move on and learn next time but in one last plea he starts pouring out his heart at the end of the song and you're like, hang on a second. Maybe he wasn't so bad. That's why I like authentic reactions... thanks guys

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks Robert, Daz and I have talked a bit about this since our opinions on the lyrics were so different- that’s why this is so good for us, so thanks so much for your comment 😊

[@robertmanley4828]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 The early nineties were full of these angsty break up songs. 😅

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

It is great to get different perspectives and that’s why we love doing it and also getting feedback from yourself and others. To be honest I’d never really paid that much attention to why he was in his position and focussed mainly on the parallel feelings I could identify with. I guess we all do that with songs to a degree and that’s how we can all take a different meaning from the same song. So thanks for your comment and if you have any angsty 90s break up songs you want us to react to then just drop them in the comments and we’ll add them to our requests list.

[@robertmanley4828]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 Jeff Buckley Mojo Pin live at Glastonbury or Jeff Buckley Dream Brother live in Chicago. You've already done 'Black' by pearl jam so maybe State of love and trust from the same unplugged concert or 'Oceans' unplugged which is an angst love song about his surfboard when the singer moved from California to Seattle... lol.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

@@robertmanley4828 Thanks, those two Jeff ones have already ben requested so that's another tick against those. I've added the PJ ones too. Queen did 'I'm In Love With My Car' so why shouldn't he be in love with his surfboard?! 🤣

[@redwingsfan004]

Hey guys! Can you please react to Creep by stone temple pilots? and Sour girl by them as well?

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Hey, thanks for the extra requests, I’ll add to the list. I assume you saw our Plush reaction? Carrie really enjoyed it so more STP is a good call!

[@redwingsfan004]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 yes! Plush is such a great song

[@mg-cy1kr]

i'm sorry you didn't enjoy it, carrie! jeff's an acquired taste for most, it's true. i know that feeling you're after. but give another song or two a listen ... he just might surprise you. 🙂

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Aww thank you! I will listen to some other songs- I felt the same about Mark Lanegan for a long time, his voice definitely grew on me over time, so maybe Jeff’s will do the same. I do love his Hallelujah so there is something there 🤞🏼 Carrie x

[@redwingsfan004]

Hey guys I have another request as well; can you react to After Midnight blink182 music video?

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Cheers, I've added to the list. We've been unable to record for a while but hoping to pick it back up this week.

[@BasilOnatopp]

React to One by Metallica. You have to do the official music video, though.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Thanks for the request. I know it well, I don't know if Carrie knows the song or the video but if not it's a great suggestion and it's on our requests list.

[@lynnmcclaine7683]

You need to hear the whole song before you criticize.

[@kwise09]

Ugh studio version is much better

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

This was a request, feel free to request studio versions of other songs either by JB or anyone else

[@kwise09]

@@MarriedtotheMusic2010 can I request a reaction to the studio version of this song?

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

You can absolutely request it! I can’t promise we’ll do it soon but we could revisit it a bit further down the line for sure.

[@marshlake74]

Wtf?

[@Kraftpunk1983vc]

Already infuriated with this commentary. Listen to the song more before you pass judgment.

[@MarriedtotheMusic2010]

Kind of defeats the point of a ‘reaction’ video but ok.