Styling Wigs & Buying Books 📚

[@jenvcampbell]

Let me know if you decide to pick up any books from Charco Press ☺️ x

[@lucyrose1542]

After watching your reading vlog I ordered Elena Knows and The Rooftop! :-)

[@jenvcampbell]

@@lucyrose1542 I hope you love Elena Knows as much as I did, and that we both enjoy The Rooftop! x

[@Abbieh95]

I bought The German Room, Die My Love, and Ramifications 😍

[@jenvcampbell]

@@Abbieh95 Happy reading :) x

[@Readinordertolive]

I got 4! Elena Knows, the new Ariana Harwicz called Tender, The Wind That Lays Waste by Selva Almada and The President’s Room by Ricardo Romero

[@heroinescorner]

i love hearing you talk about all the things, Jen. Don’t ever feel like you have to preface your thoughts when it comes to your own experiences. It’s exhausting yourself for the wrong kinds of people. I hope you have a good weekend !

[@jenvcampbell]

Thank you, Dee. I hope you have a good weekend, too. x

[@alisonmassey9998]

I think a great term to describe what you were saying about the emotional energy that goes into something like a doctor's appt is "mental load". Basically, your mental load under that circumstance is greater than Mr M's, which is draining and can be upsetting. I've used this to explain my experience of my anxiety disorder to my partner - that by the time I actually get somewhere, I've already lived the whole journey out in my mind in a million different ways. Thanks for discussing this, Jen! PS. The up-do is really cute!

[@booksandbargains]

Jen with you talking about how you present yourself to Drs really hit a chord with me. I had my appendix out last week and it was after nearly being sent home by a doctor who didn’t believe I was in pain, and oh my fox my discharge letter really makes it sound like I was making a fuss over nothing, when the actual surgeon who did my surgery came and spoke to me loads about all the intricacies of what he’d had to do, and he said I’d feel like I’d been kicked by two horses. And yet the ward doctor said oh you can’t be in that much pain it was a simple surgery.

[@anasky00]

i love hearing you talk about all things disability or not.. a lot of times it feels like someone is finally able to put my thoughts into words.. thank you

[@katarinakidd9450]

The President's Room sounds SO intriguing. can't wait for you to read and review it whenever you have a chance!

[@ginanusha.g8944]

I really loved this video. As someone who is losing their hair due to various reproductive syndromes. I have started to look into wigs and different extensions. Its nice to see someone else also experiment with wigs makes me feel a little less alone. I also feel for you with the process of IVF I've had a such a long winded treatment journey and I havent even started IVF yet so I send you well wishes with all that.

[@kimkantor8782]

Jen, though I am in a very different situation from you, I have been dealing with cancer since 2006 and have dealt with some very apparent side effects. Listening you speak about gearing up for appointments and the looks/reactions from people is absolutely like standing naked in front of a crowd. I so appreciate all of your commentary and am hopeful for one day folks are more aware of the harm they are doing with the side glances and whispers. Take care, my friend.

[@jenvcampbell]

Thank you for sharing this, Kim, and sending lots of love to you. xx

[@laufleur5824]

Gosh I replied before finishing the video and you began talking about ivf, thank you for your vulnerability and I wish you so much luck and love

[@laufleur5824]

This is such an interesting talk and helped me so much with gaining insight in myself. I always make sure that I don't wear concealer when I go to the doctor for my asthma, because I want to make sure they see that I don't look well. And at the same time, I have really learned to make them not perceive me as weak because with invisible illness and a plethora that relate to stress, you really have to advocate for yourself and your un-wellbeing in order to get help with a lot of doctors.

[@user-lm5nm7fu4i]

Hi Jen. Thanks for your videos. I realised, with the help of your videos, that I might be reading too many books about “othering” without realising it, and that it could have been retraumatising me as a disabled person with complex problems. Thanks for raising awareness about disabilities. Your book suggestions about feeling included have been very healing for me. Have a lovely Autumn. 🍁

[@hannahro9967]

I love how you styled the wig! Really suits you!

[@MothGirl007]

It looks super cute and natural.

[@dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664]

we always enjoy watching you videos,,,, Happy Bookish Tuesday Friends

[@ashleymarie5093]

You are such a beautiful person it makes me feel so sick that anyone could be so ignorant to bully a complete stranger with or without a disability. It's truly the most transparent form of showing their own self misery and self hate. I'm so grateful for your channel and your knowledge on books and your experience of just being a human and sharing that with us. Thank you thank you ❤️ you are lovely

[@jenvcampbell]

♥️ x

[@dr.suezettealoysiaandcarla1664]

we are catching up on our comments and videos today,,, Happy Bookish Tuesday Friends

[@RahulSingh-books]

It's always pleasant to hear you speak- on books, personal experiences, or anything at all. Wish I could attend a public event live and witness you giving a talk someday.

[@jenvcampbell]

[@MilenaReads]

Thank you for your honesty on hospital appointments, I know how conflicting it is. I loved the way you styled your hair! 🥰

[@jenvcampbell]

Thank you. x

[@nymeria941]

[@jenvcampbell]

Drag queens wear these a lot (as, of course, they tend to wear much bigger wigs). I’ve always worried they’d give me a headache but might be worth a shot! x

[@indubitablyzara]

Just starting the video but what you say about the ratio of talking about disability to experiences of disability is so true. It makes me think of a tiktok I saw some time ago about chronic pain where an able person had told the person in the video that “oh, you can tell me anytime you’re in pain, always feel free to complain, I won’t mind” (or something to that effect) and the person was like...I don’t really believe that’s true because you have no idea how often I’m in pain. And I’ve often felt that way where I start to mention something disability-related and I’m like hang on, have I talked about it too much this week with this person? Idk

[@chantellebehrens]

Proactively avoiding social friction: I think we all have this urge. Love to you.

[@jenvcampbell]

♥️

[@mayah3342]

I really appreciate you sharing about the doctor visit. I have had many similar experiences in the energy spent in preparing for a visit. I went to Charco Press and I decided to pick up The Rooftop and Theater of War. Thank you for sharing their sale.

[@munglejoela]

I get what you mean - a fraction of it, anyway. I have what's considered mild ME (doesn't feel mild, but of course it is compared to those who are bed-bound) - almost 4 years now - and I feel like I constantly need to explain things, particularly with work. And that in itself is so exhausting. I also totally get the planning to go out - now I do it rarely, but always have to work out the pros and cons of different methods of transport, what I am likely to be able to manage - and then often I can't manage as much as I would like when I'm out and end up frustrated. It does help to hear someone else articulate it though. x

[@juliagarzarella2113]

~~~ ! The Adventures of China Iron cover giving me Pippy Longstockings vibes ! ~~~

[@enjay5087]

I had already done some damage on Charco's website before I watched this video. I have never read a bad book from them. Just finished The Loop by Brenda Lozano which was fantastic.

[@LeonelaEsteve]

I haven't read Adventures of China Iron yet but just wanted to mention that it's a retelling/fan fiction of Martín Fierro, our national classic here in Argentina, which has shaped Argentinian literature, culture and politics since its publication. Also, I can't recommend Dead Girls highly enough. It was one of the first non fiction books that touched the subject, even before the women's movement here started fighting to get more policies and state action against domestic violence and femicides.

[@SM-vr8dz]

The Rooftop by Fernanda Trias is so good! Very twisted, but good. She writes from Uruguay.

[@jenvcampbell]

Great to hear, thank you :) x

[@suehayward-ault3587]

Know what you mean about access , all the things I took for granted pre disability. Elevator’s, moving pathways. Underground doors and crowds. Stairs, staircases and curbs and uneven surfaces etc, etc the list goes on. Your hair looks great up 😊

[@jenvcampbell]

If more nondisabled people focused on the social model of disability over the medical model, the world would be a much better place. xx

[@Juultje11111]

I'm trying to buy less books this year, but I was sorely tempted to buy some from Charco because of this video and the sale, especially since I want to read more about/from South America after reading Cantoras by Caroline di Robertis, which I adored. Right before checking out, I decided to quickly check whether Scribd had any of the titles available and it turns out there are *a lot* of Charco Press books on Scribd! Very happy to have added Elena Knows, The Rooftop, Theatre of War, The Adventures of China Iron and Brickmakers to my TBR. Thanks for the chat on disability and hospital appointments. Lots to think about. Have a great weekend!

[@jenvcampbell]

Thanks, Julia. I hope you have a good weekend, too x

[@Juultje11111]

Oh and also added Thursday Night Widows by the author from Elena Knows, because that one sounded suspenseful and intruiging!

[@hannahmay11]

I feeeeeel you on the beginning part 💓🙏

[@sueseanglynn2801]

Love listening to you Jen, you style your wigs beautifully you have a real nack God bless hugs and love xx

[@YourTrueShelf]

I just had to pause to say that I'm ashamed that the NHS made you answer those questions about parenting as a disabled person, like you need some sort of license to do so. I'm really just so dismayed that this happens. Like a non disabled person has the right to judge whether a disabled person is OK to be a parent. More doctors and healthcare professionals should be watching your channel Jen. I often think about what you said at the beginning about preparing for an appt. I know that what is one of my daily appointments is something that for some people it was a big deal to book, something that they've thought about and planned, and has potentially big consequences. And I think it's good that we remember that. I'll keep watching now! Xx

[@curioushmm9027]

just a word before i run off to check out charco press..or maybe two or three words..i think the book about the woman on the pampas was on the booker international prize list a few years ago...the cover looks so familiar...and two..it might be time to consider buying one expensive wig for certain uses...and three...so sorry about the cancelation....

[@lindacarson5429]

So I wasn't going to buy any books for a while 😂 Ordered Elena Knows & The Wind that Lays Waste - such good value. Also very interested in the Daniel Hahn book they're publishing in April about translation - thought it might be like the Polly Barton.

[@eyesonindie]

I just picked up six Charco books, too! Many thanks for the heads up. I ordered Brickmakers, also by Selva Almada (Dead Girls), which I think just came out from Graywolf, too, in in the US. But at 40%...might as well add to my order from Charco! And now I'm seeing other Charco recommendations in these comments...I might actually place another order....

[@jenvcampbell]

I also got very excited about Here Be Icebergs but then realised that's a pre-order and not out until June. x

[@MilenaReads]

I got Elena Knows, German Room and also The Adventures of China Iron. I wanted to read more from South American this year, so this is perfect.

[@jenvcampbell]

Excellent stuff. x

[@MilenaReads]

@@jenvcampbell i hope so!:)

[@rachaels7893]

Oh my pre order of Tender by Ariana Harwicz came in from Charco today. But it would rude not to pick up more... I've read China Iron and it was good fun. Was like a much wilder Upright Woman Wanted almost? Would also recommend Die, My Love and Slum Virgin from Charco.

[@jenvcampbell]

Thank you for the recommendations :) x

[@Readinordertolive]

I love Ariana Harwicz, I ordered Tender too

[@lillybingo2]

Do you have somewhere in particular that you buy your lovely scarves from Jen? Lovely video as always xx

[@jenvcampbell]

I used to pick them up in vintage markets but I’ve also got some of these sets: www.amazon.co.uk/LilMents-Designs-Square-Womens-Scarves/dp/B01N4GA8N8/ref=mp_s_a_1_15?crid=1O09XRCHHKQG&keywords=90+silk+scarf&qid=1643400673&sprefix=90+sillk+scarf%2Caps%2C122&sr=8-15 ☺️ xx

[@sandeesandwich2180]

We're about to have a major blizzard here starting tomorrow (like over 2 feet of snow and hurricane force winds) so I think I'll wait to dive into a book set during a blizzard. :) But I just checked out another pile of books from the library, so I am set for this weekend! You look lovely today (as always) Jen, and I'm just trying to picture you with mask, wig and eye patch and thinking that a stuffed parrot would have completed that look and perhaps kept the commenters at bay (because the parrot would have been a step too far for them). Probably not -- people do seem to feel like everyone else needs their opinions and advice despite the fact that virtually no one does. Hope you have a wonderful weekend!

[@jenvcampbell]

There are so many parrots around London these days I wonder if I can befriend one 😂 🦜 x

[@jenvcampbell]

Ps hope the books keep you company during the blizzard. Stay warm x

[@sandeesandwich2180]

@@jenvcampbell Makes me think of a picture book called Bookstore Cat that features a storyteller dressed like a pirate with a fake parrot on his shoulder, a pigeon that strolls into the store, and a cat who does his job protecting the store from both ferocious birds. 😄😹💜

[@sandeesandwich2180]

@@jenvcampbell Thank you! We survived just fine despite the very thick blanket of snow. x

[@jetskeapollonia]

Thank you Jen! I especially related to the start of the video. I'm currently in therapy, learning to accept and talk about my diagnosis of Crohn's disease. Taking up space is hard.

[@jenvcampbell]

Sending love. x

[@serianc9036]

Wish I had anything erudite or helpful to say in response. I am just forever moved by your videos, you never sound like you are word vomiting. Thank you for sharing these thoughts and reflections. Will look forward to the reading vlog!

[@jenvcampbell]

That's very kind, thank you. x

[@BaskinginBooks]

💜

[@tracy2919]

Unrelated to the topics of this video, but this was my first time hearing the phrase "tree surgeon" and I didn't want to let the moment pass. Is that a Jen phrase? An English phrase? IT'S SUCH A SWEET PHRASE REGARDLESS 🥺

[@jenvcampbell]

Haha, it’s a real thing; a name given to an arborist (someone who maintains, prunes and fells trees). It’s a great phrase. x

[@thomasjohnson8391]

Hey Jen I was hoping to do some more fairy tales with Jen and I wish for to the ones with the list I made. Also I wish you did some Beatrix potter books on your channel. The four musicians of Bremen The snow queen The red shoes The princess and the pea Brother and sister Moby dick White fang Call of the wild And many more

[@wendyvilla2904]

🖤💚

[@ambitiousreader4710]

I'm sorry for all the ableist stuff you have been facing. I'm hoping your IVF is successful.

[@MeMyDogAndBooks]

Loved your chatty videos

[@alexflipperson1355]

[@jenvcampbell]

♥️

[@chantellebehrens]

First! 💕

[@jenvcampbell]

Hi ☺️

[@sarareads9185]

If you were for example interested in doing some videos about IVF and the process would you consider maybe doing a panel or group video with other women who are going through the process as well? Maybe if you had it where it was more of an open discussion and you're all providing different information or your individual experiences you would feel more comfortable. You could have a few able-bodied women as well as disabled women who are going through the process. I personally would be interested in hearing information that you have about the subject. Also, never feel like when you discuss disability or disability representation that you are rambling or preaching or on a soapbox or whatever it is that you fear you're projecting. I think anyone who comes into your space knows that this is a subject that's important to you and comes to your channel because that's something that is both interesting or familiar to them. As a chronically ill person it's very difficult to find representation within the media that are similar to experiences that I can relate to or that I've personally, have had. I always feel like I'm in a safe space when I watch your videos because I feel more seen. Thanks so much for your content Jen, lots of love to you and yours, and stay safe.

[@jenvcampbell]

I don't think so. PGD is a very different experience to IVF on its own; that's why I find it harder to talk about. x

[@jenvcampbell]

PS. Thank you for this kind comment. x