MY TOXIC READER TRAITS!

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jessethereader

jessethereader

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@ivonazilic7051
@ivonazilic7051 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is that I read like tons of books in a short time and then don't pick up a book for months
@ariahoi5809
@ariahoi5809 2 жыл бұрын
This! Yess! That’s me!!!!
@tallbookish
@tallbookish 2 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you 😅
@maddino2538
@maddino2538 2 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@bertfechner417
@bertfechner417 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think that's toxic I think it's just a slump. Everybody goes through it.
@abbyluv2010
@abbyluv2010 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@EnvisageIt
@EnvisageIt 2 жыл бұрын
Being a mood reader, I don’t like being pressured to finish a book in a certain time so I tend to buy a book even though it’s free and available at my library.
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
I buy do many books becouse of fomo
@K.OrmeAuthor
@K.OrmeAuthor 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is falling in love with one of the characters, making them my comfort character, and adopting them as my entire personality for the extent that that particular hyperfixation lasts.
@aylinanywhere
@aylinanywhere 2 жыл бұрын
Not me thinking this is normal 👁👄👁 bc same
@sa-to-ritendou2202
@sa-to-ritendou2202 2 жыл бұрын
Me too 💀 it’s always the minor characters that there’s very little content for as well for me
@FilmingLavender
@FilmingLavender 23 күн бұрын
Relatable, only when the main character gets hurt or is sad then I'll be sad to and can't read the book anymore
@lovefairfox5249
@lovefairfox5249 2 жыл бұрын
my toxic trait is adding books to my tbr but never reading the books on my tbr. Instead I read a completely new book I randomly pick up in the library while my tbr gets longer
@madamejaysynstarotoriginal
@madamejaysynstarotoriginal 2 жыл бұрын
That is literally all of us lol
@playlistenthusiast
@playlistenthusiast 2 жыл бұрын
I read books from my tbr yet it still gets bigger. It's a perpetual growth that can't be stopped.
@shadzxdz
@shadzxdz 2 жыл бұрын
my tbr is never ending bc i go "tbr shopping" when i dont have money (libraries aren't a thing here) and never picking them up 🙈
@sanaashraf3107
@sanaashraf3107 2 жыл бұрын
My tbr list goes on and on and on….it has a spontaneous growth
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
@@playlistenthusiast physical tbr: it started with 10 books, i though no problem there, over 700 books, know i admit i have a problem.
@playlistenthusiast
@playlistenthusiast 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is never taking notes or writing reviews and then forgetting most of it except for the basic plot. My long-term recollections consist of, "I remember that novel being fun." or "I remember highly agreeing with that nonfiction." Don't ask me to go into details.
@annmoore321
@annmoore321 2 жыл бұрын
When someone tells me I should read a book, I automatically don’t want to read it. A prime example of this: My mom told me I should read Agatha Christie, so I avoided it for years. Then one of her books was required reading for one of my college classes, and I was hooked. I now have all 80+ of her published books on my reading list.
@jeanaoun3897
@jeanaoun3897 2 жыл бұрын
Agatha Kristie is just amazing. My favorite book of hers is Then there were none. Just perfect
@annmoore321
@annmoore321 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanaoun3897 That one was the book I read in college. 😁
@mellorine893
@mellorine893 2 жыл бұрын
she's my fav author!
@Spicy-Raven
@Spicy-Raven 2 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way, my mom and my brother have been trying to get me to read Harry Potter for years, still haven't done it fully
@dagimille
@dagimille 2 жыл бұрын
my toxic reader trait is beginning a book, liking it and then toss it in the corner for the next few months (well, the same goes for movies and series...)
@pipermckoon8637
@pipermckoon8637 2 жыл бұрын
A trait I got from my dad: Reading the last page or chapter to build suspense… or ruin the whole thing for myself.
@lucijatadinac9667
@lucijatadinac9667 2 жыл бұрын
My biggest "toxic" trait, if you can call it that, is that I can't bear to see I DNFed a book. On my Goodreads and Storygraph, instead of DNFing it, I just remove it from my books and pretend I never tried reading it lol. Also, it takes one or two good reviews on the first book to make me buy a whole series without reading a letter, but when my mind is set on on reading a book there is no amount of bad reviews that will change my mind. I may end up loving it or hating it, but I gave it a fair chance, unless I DNFed it, but there is no evidence for that hahahhaha
@sunrisefun
@sunrisefun 2 жыл бұрын
I'm the same, hate to dnf. The idea of actually removing it from goodreads and pretend I never tried reading it is really good. I might do that :D
@rebekahpolanco3017
@rebekahpolanco3017 2 жыл бұрын
I deleted all my DNFed books off Goodreads too. I didn't want to see them, honestly!
@Maddie.d326
@Maddie.d326 2 жыл бұрын
YES! I do the first one! I don't want to leave a bad review and say that I DNFed it, it makes me sad. So, I remove it too. 🤣
@aewhitehead
@aewhitehead 2 жыл бұрын
I agree 1,000%. I hate DNFing a book. It takes a lot for me to do such a thing. So if I do, y'all know I tried.
@naastyaaaaaaaaa
@naastyaaaaaaaaa 2 жыл бұрын
Saaame! Cheers to pretending we never-ever DNF!🥂
@cierrawatkins9247
@cierrawatkins9247 2 жыл бұрын
I give you points for being able to even annotate, I get so anxious when it comes to writing in my books lol
@courtneym5523
@courtneym5523 2 жыл бұрын
What helped me is thinking of the book as a notebook
@AliviaHaven
@AliviaHaven 2 жыл бұрын
Me too! I still refuse to write in books, but I’ve bought colored tabs and made a key for myself so I can start annotating my books that way without permanently marking them up! I’ll also keep a notebook or even just a note in my phone for more extensive thoughts or theories for next books in series etc! It’s a nice little in between of not annotating at all and marking up your precious books lol
@gracie9658
@gracie9658 2 жыл бұрын
@@AliviaHaven I use tabs too, and I write in pencil that way it's a good middle ground because I can't bring myself to write with a pen...
@AliviaHaven
@AliviaHaven 2 жыл бұрын
@@gracie9658 lmfaaooo I felt that. Ink is a huge commitment and not all of us are quite there yet 😂😂
@unavezms8167
@unavezms8167 2 жыл бұрын
Jessy speaking 1325 words per minute when it comes to books. ❤️ We have something in common, I am also "the reader". And each times parents try to scold me for buying a lot of books I will be like DON'T YOU DARE TOUCH MY BOOKS. 😠(The same goes when someone wants to borrow my book btw). I really wanna have deluxe editions of all the books I love but I am as poor as the church mouse.🐁
@zaraaaaa3697
@zaraaaaa3697 2 жыл бұрын
the inability to describe books and the annotating books one are so true and people automatically assume that you write deep stuff, what am i supposed to do when they see 90% of it is me saying "ha" "oh no" "shady"
@krystalicia
@krystalicia 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic traits are reading 6 books at a time and confusing the storylines of all them if they’re even a little bit similar. Also, as an avid library user, I check out up to the check out limit and continue to renew the loans because I read a book on my kindle instead 🙃
@kanashiiookami6537
@kanashiiookami6537 2 жыл бұрын
Me doing that (the renewing library books thing) but not picking up the book and searching for the audiobook on Libby instead so I can get other projects done while enjoying the story. Lol.
@annikaringbooks
@annikaringbooks 2 жыл бұрын
Would anyone else here pay to own and read a book that’s been annotated by Jesse with “slay” in the margins? Because I would.
@lovefairfox5249
@lovefairfox5249 2 жыл бұрын
"but if I don't buy it I'll regret it" 😂😂😂😂 dude relatable
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341 2 жыл бұрын
My problem is that I _used_ to binge read, literally ALL the freaking time, and I used to just stick with a series until I was caught up to every book available in it at the time; so I stockpiled a ton of books/series back then, but life shite happened and things changed hella drastically, and now I'm just like 👀 _crying inside_ 💔😭😭 .. feel like I'm never going to read them all. It's so tragic.
@hamkittysan
@hamkittysan 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is finishing a series even when I’ve read the first book and hated it. I know I should just DNF the series but the lizard part of my brain is like “maybe it will get better” and most of the time it just gets worse
@purplekitten6637
@purplekitten6637 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic reader traits of mine: -I sometimes start a few books at the same time, which means that at least one of the books I've started is likely to be abandoned, even if I'm enjoying it -I go through periods when I read around 15 books a month followed by other months when I only read around 2 books, which makes it harder to stick to a reading challenge -I cannot stand having to read books because of external pressure. For example, it's very hard to motivate myself to read a uni book, because I always have other plans when it comes to what I want to be reading. -I buy too many books that I don't end up reading.
@ryanbrueckner6581
@ryanbrueckner6581 2 жыл бұрын
my mom is a librarian so she has THE MOST amount of bookmarks that i’ve ever seen
@mariepotter8921
@mariepotter8921 2 жыл бұрын
So happy to see another video! Been reading Stephen king a lot! Missed your videos! Love you, and HAPPY SUMMER!!!
@nate10465
@nate10465 2 жыл бұрын
Possibly the most relatable video on Booktube. Sidenote: Jesse looks lovely in that lavender color.
@kanashiiookami6537
@kanashiiookami6537 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing! It works so perfectly with his colour. Eyes, hair, skin, all popping beautifully next to that colour.
@SerenaRosetail
@SerenaRosetail 2 жыл бұрын
this is a recommendation for everyone in the comments since I know Jesse probably won't take my recommendation lol. In Order to Live by Yeonmi Park is one of my top books that I have ever read. It is her autobiography about how she escaped North Korea and it is so emotional. I honestly respect her so much more after reading it. I've been following her on youtube for a few years now but I read her book in 2020. It is a book I hope more people read.
@SpindlesEnd2
@SpindlesEnd2 2 жыл бұрын
Okay, no no no, I TOTALLY get buying a whole series at a time. Having mismatched covers is the WORST. I have the initial run of Percy Jackson covers in paperback...except for The Last Olympian, which is in hardcover. And now I can 👏 not👏 find 👏 it in paperback with the original cover art and it drives me nuts when I see it. Buuuut I also have Tom Clancy in every shape, size, color, and cover style, sooooo...
@atotallyhumanbeing
@atotallyhumanbeing 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the video! My toxic trait would be never recommending my all-time favourite books - I just want to keep my precious darlings to myself to protect them from mean opinions and also just so that they belong to me aloneee >:)
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
I do not want do be judged, by my book taste. So that is why i keep my most loved book to my self.
@taeevans1485
@taeevans1485 2 жыл бұрын
i can relate to the author thing. the author of my fav book, after several years after said book, came out with a new one and i was so pumped and i got like 75 pages into it and i was like "wow... this is geuinely trash" and i haven't read anything of hers since because i'm so scared of growing a distaste of her work(s)
@tommycaldarera4714
@tommycaldarera4714 2 жыл бұрын
Mine is reading at most 6 pages of a book before bed every night, and then wondering why it’s taking me forever to finish this book.
@rayabbottgayjaycult3488
@rayabbottgayjaycult3488 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is borrowing books from the library when I'm in the mood to read them then not returning them for 5 months because I'm never in the mood to read them again
@katherinekempton
@katherinekempton 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is that I remove the Gregory Maguire books from the YA section of the thrift store books and put them in the adult section where they belong.
@kenndan
@kenndan 2 жыл бұрын
The one of buying the whole series at once is understandable, I have some books that are different editions and it's annoying af
@mariajohnson2294
@mariajohnson2294 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic trait is being unable to dnf a book. I just see myself as a failure. I get scared of starting a book because I don’t want to be trapped if I hate it. I have dnf-ed 3 books in 2 years but that is because they were so extremely bad I physically couldn’t read another page. I just wish I could dnf more often because then I would start books more fearlessly.
@Booklover-coffeelover
@Booklover-coffeelover 2 жыл бұрын
Most of the time I keep reading books I want to dnf because "who knows it could get better“. It almost never does. Then I get mad at myself because I wasted valuable reading time in a book I didn't like 😶
@madilynanderson2497
@madilynanderson2497 2 жыл бұрын
I tried out the 50 page rule where if you aren't liking it or hooked by page 50 stop reading it, and that helped me to decide by around that page count if I was going to have to drag myself through a book or not. Sometimes it's because I'm a mood reader and I just don't happen to be in that particular mood, and sometimes it's because I legitimately don't like the book. It takes some practice, and I didn't get rid of books for a while so I could change my mind if I wanted to after reading something else, but now I can tell better whether or not I'm going to like a book and I don't feel as bad putting some books down. Reading is my fun time, after all. If I'm not having fun, then why read it?
@u24ttompkins
@u24ttompkins 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic reader trait: Checking out a book from some library with the intention of reading it but than reverting to a book I have on my personal shelf. Then I return the library book without finishing it and never go back to it 👀
@girllittlemorbid
@girllittlemorbid 2 жыл бұрын
I was telling someone they should read Nevermoor (Cuz everyone should!) & she asked me what it was about.. I made it sound so boring. 😆 So I decided I had to prepare a pitch for it. Which I practice in the mirror.. Lol I use my bookmarks.. But I also have this thing where I want them to match the book I'm reading. Like I can't read this vampire book because I can't find my vampire bookmark?!?
@pamelakibildis1177
@pamelakibildis1177 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is also collecting too many bookmarks too Jesse so don’t feel too bad Lol 😂 Loved This Video Have a Great Day 😉
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
I do not have do many, but i leave them in books and need do use something else
@emmawagner8915
@emmawagner8915 2 жыл бұрын
Me too, except most of them are random pieces of paper but now I consider them bookmarks and I get smad when I lose them
@AyceMcGee
@AyceMcGee 2 жыл бұрын
"Who in their right mind has this many bookmarks?" *scurries to a dark corner because I have at least 3x as many*
@emmal7510
@emmal7510 2 жыл бұрын
I've bought a bunch of books by one author, as soon as they came out, because I saw two new books by her in hardcover and thought "oh, I'll get them when the paperbacks come out" and that took like five years. Never saw the hardcovers again and Amazon wasn't a thing yet. (Yes, I'm ancient.) Still have to read like half of them. Fortunately, it's an episodic series, so order doesn't matter, which helps with mood reading and series. My bad habit with bookmarks is leaving them in partially read books and not being able to find them all again. Love those tiny magnetic ones, but they're easy to overlook. I suspect some of them have been returned with library books.
@erinsbooks
@erinsbooks 2 жыл бұрын
I own too many bookmarks. One of my favorite books series second book went out of print and I know I should've bought it years ago. My other toxic trait is checking out too many library books and holding on to them for a while even though I'm a fast reader, it's a lot of books.
@fanpiresam482
@fanpiresam482 2 жыл бұрын
literally all the same traits except for the out of print thing because I've honestly never thought about that before. And recently I've been trying to find a Horror book that blew up and has gone out of print. :(
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait, at the moment, is having too many books/series that I've started but haven't finished for literal years even though I had no desire to DNF them. 👀
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341 2 жыл бұрын
I totally get the special-edition buying dilemma too. And the fear of things going out of print, or changing covers to something I like less.
@Foxheartbooks
@Foxheartbooks 2 жыл бұрын
Buying books has always made me very joyful 😄 so any time I get sad or am in a bad situation I’ll stop buy a BnN and spend a few bucks. I stopped by the bookstore just to use the restroom last week and left with four books and a new journal.
@Joy_Martin
@Joy_Martin 2 жыл бұрын
Once i finished a book, I no longer remember any of the characters name that a colleague of mine said how come you finished it but you dont remember any names? Ah well, hello - welcome to my world! 🤣🤣🤣
@playlistenthusiast
@playlistenthusiast 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I think I only remembered the names in Game of Thrones because the beginning of every chapter had their name in giant bold letters. That kind of helped.
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
Mybe you are reading too fast?
@taylorreads
@taylorreads 2 жыл бұрын
i want to gatekeep reading as a whole while simultaneously wanting everyone i know to read💀
@dustmotey
@dustmotey 2 жыл бұрын
my toxic reader trait is that any and all info about any books falls out of my head the instant anyone wants to talk about it, do not ever ask me for a book recommendation because suddenly, "o no i cant read"
@leonajeanlunn4302
@leonajeanlunn4302 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is forcing myself to finish a book (sometimes even a series) even when I can't stand the book. Like, for some reason I would rather skim through every page and be miserable than to just DNF it and call it a day.
@sunrisefun
@sunrisefun 2 жыл бұрын
Omg same, I just hate to DNF. I would also get the audiobook and play it at 1.5x/2x speed (barely listening it) to finish the book quickly instead of DNF.
@FlameWings307
@FlameWings307 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reading trait is forcing my sister to read books that I loved but at the same time avoiding the books that's she reccomended 😅
@Foxheartbooks
@Foxheartbooks 2 жыл бұрын
I do this with one of my closest friends😂 we have a small overlapping section between our preferred genres so sometimes I can
@deannascorner8112
@deannascorner8112 2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes that’s my toxic trait about popular books too. I think it comes from never having any popular items growing up (I.e. toys, books, clothes) that I’m like anti-popular now. Though I also fall prey to FOMO as well… and do want the good books. But I also get scared that the hyped up books will be too hyped up and therefore I’ll just hate them on principle. I’m toxic in my toxicity!
@lpequestrian46
@lpequestrian46 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is that I will reread the same books I have read a bunch of times rather than picking up any of the new books sitting on my shelf that I haven't read yet😂🤦‍♀️(Something I am currently doing lol)
@Foxheartbooks
@Foxheartbooks 2 жыл бұрын
I do this all the time. “New books I’v been looking forward to for months? Nah..The Raven Boys again!” It’s like comfort eating or rewatching your favorite tv shows to calm yourself down or ease anxiety with a familiar setting.
@MsWillowbayOrelse
@MsWillowbayOrelse 2 жыл бұрын
Main one. I keep starting book series before looking to see if the whole series is in audio format..... There is nothing more frustrating than really loving a series and you can't finish it. I mean I guess I could if I was willing to put up with the week long migraine. Which I'm not. I have 20+ series that I can't finish because authors/publishers don't release all of them in audio. There should seriously be something in the contract that if you release one in audio format you have to release the entire thing. I have wasted soo many hours, seriously it blows my mind, on series that I can't finish. I also have a 5T external drive full of audiobooks. At least half are unread. Thankfully I love a reread, well relisten, so I do get my money worth. I really should do a title by title delete day and go thru the ones I either didn't like or lost interest in. Is it still unhaulting if there wasn't a haul to begin with?
@emmawagner8915
@emmawagner8915 2 жыл бұрын
Yes because you get “shelf space” back
@TheThreeBookshelves
@TheThreeBookshelves 2 жыл бұрын
Not giving authors a second chance - yeah, that’s me! I very rarely read an author again if I gave the first book I read from them three stars or less. I only will if the premise of another book REALLY grabs me. Thankfully, this was the case with Andy Weir’s Project Hail Mary. I loved The Martian but then HATED his second book, Artemis, so I wasn’t planning on picking him up again, but Project Hail Mary sounded so great… and it ended up being my favorite book of 2021 and a new favorite of all time. My other toxic trait is constantly critiquing and editing a book in my head as I read it. As a writer, it just happens naturally and I can’t stop it! I’m sure I would enjoy most books more if I wasn’t a writer.
@Darrkness
@Darrkness 2 жыл бұрын
Like everyone else, I buy new books when I have stacks at home I still need to read. Someday...📚
@readaholicgirl_5
@readaholicgirl_5 2 жыл бұрын
Me:👀👀 not me side eying my currently reading pile get bigger. I swear I'll read them but I'm juggling like at least 3 rn Wuthering Height, audiobook & ebook because classics are hard on me Project Hail Mary, because kindle has a 3 month book challenge going rn And finally, Sawkill Girls, because I'm also trying to finish my physically own tbr pile thank you for coming to my Ted talk
@missathepandabear
@missathepandabear 2 жыл бұрын
I relate sooooo hard!!!! I'm always recommending books to my parents and my friends (my friends don't really read but still) and whenever my parents recommend me books I still feel this great aversion to that lmao. Which is really not fair as my dad read Scythe because I kept insisting he'd love it (which he did btw) in exchange for me reading the Daughter of The Empire and I didn't... We made this deal in February.... OOPS Also, my entire personality is also reading, and IKEA, as I am a fulltime IKEA employee, at work I'm always talking about books, so much so that my co-workers have started to say, "Oh you and your books". And one of the security guards even asks me periodically how many books I've read so far and what I'm currently reading, even though he doesn't read himself, he doesn't have the patience and focus for it. So long story short, I relate
@sherrismith8874
@sherrismith8874 2 жыл бұрын
Among my many toxic reader traits is brooding over which books to take on vacation. Shouldn't I be packing clothes, shoes, toiletries, my sunscreen, passport...? Yes, of course, but do I want to take three books? Four? This paperback, because it's lighter in weight, but maybe this hardback is more appropriate for my destination? And so on, and so on...
@Silverware-vk1pg
@Silverware-vk1pg 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic Reading Trait: annotating my books believing I don't mind if other people see it, then not recommending said book just because I don't want them seeing my annotating 🙈 Second: Having a complete physical TBR yet still continues reading other random library books online (Hahaha why do I continue to do this to myself)
@Krystlecodes
@Krystlecodes 2 жыл бұрын
I’m with you on the bookmarks and another trait I have is in the middle of reading, I think of another book and stop the current book to start the book I thought of and then switch between the two until I end up with like 6 books and then race to finish them all, so I don’t have a DNF pile. #hellatoxic
@babyboybensolo632
@babyboybensolo632 2 жыл бұрын
When I was in high school, everyone was raving about The Hunger Games and I was told I should read it. And I was like "oh a popular book? Ew, no." And then it was required reading in English class... I ended up reading the entire trilogy within the week and it got me back into reading.....
@ThirteensHologram
@ThirteensHologram 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader traits Buying new books when half my my shelf is unread. Bringing books everywhere with me despite rarely getting the chance to read them. Bringing at least 3 books somewhere when I only need 1.
@Lillyjoy
@Lillyjoy 2 жыл бұрын
When you talked about bookmarks I was like oh no I do that too😂 Like I have 3 really special fancy bookmarks that are all in books I haven't finished, so I got more and now I haven't used any of my new ones.. like I love bookmarks so I don't get why I do this haha
@withlove_nikki
@withlove_nikki 2 жыл бұрын
I think my toxic reader trait is that when I'm in a bad mental space and lose the energy to read, I get so desperate to _want_ to read that I start requesting every book I've ever been interested in from the library. it's not like I don't always have at least 10 books checked out at a time, but it'll be close to 25, all of which I actually feel lukewarm towards or don't particularly feel pulled to in that moment, and then they just sit in a pile in my room, and both of us wish that I was not ~like this~
@tn6223
@tn6223 2 жыл бұрын
My most toxic reader trait is definitely that I have convinced myself that I don’t like books written in my native language. (Danish and German)... I just can’t help it.😂
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
I need do read more austrian books, there are just not much fantasy. Krimi, a lot, poetry a lot, not much easy reads there. I am afraid of kafka, Freud, too havey for my taste.
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
Wolfgang Hohlbein, Cornelia Funke, Michael Ende, Bernhard hennen, haben aber gute fantasy bücher. Die elfen von hennen sind super und gibts auch auf englisch. Sowie cornielia funke tintenherz, was ja auch verfilmt wurde.
@theapenning8944
@theapenning8944 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic trait is spending to much money on books, because I don't buy secondhand books. For some stupid reason I find them 'dirty' and don't read them when I do buy them anyway.
@FairladyZ2005
@FairladyZ2005 2 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of bookmarks too. Do you match your bookmark to the current book you are reading like I do? It's fun and I find it helps justify the collection. Maybe try sticking in a matching bookmark at the table of contents of each book. That way you'll be ready to go whenever you pick up a book to read or reread it. Or make it part of a book ritual to pick out a special bookmark out of the collection of them when you start a new book. It's a little hard to remember at first but it's easy once the habit is formed. And yes, I totally get the wanting to make better displays thing. I used to make displays when I worked in an independent bookstore. I occasionally will find myself adding a book to a display, usually at the library, if there is that missing space because someone took a book off the display, and no one bothered to fill it in yet.
@kaylacrawley5402
@kaylacrawley5402 2 жыл бұрын
My two most toxic reader traits are adding to my tbr while still having over 100 books on it and buying a whole series instead of just book one even though I don’t know if I’ll like it but the premise sounded interesting so I do it anyway.
@agispaaa
@agispaaa 2 жыл бұрын
i feel called out by the annotating thing, i usually "converse" with the characters? book im reading currently has just whole margins filled with insults towards the main character lmao
@clari09
@clari09 2 жыл бұрын
Same with the recommendations lol even when my best friend recommends me a book I thank her knowing for sure I will never read it
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah i got game of thrones recomented 10 years befor the Show was a thing. When did i read them? As the Show started.
@february30
@february30 2 жыл бұрын
7:03 I just need more than one book at the time, I can’t just stick to one. I do this with tv series too. (I watch like 20+ shows at the same time, one episode of this show, two of this other show and so on (unless I really enjoy something, then I’ll binge watch it)
@lilewc
@lilewc 2 жыл бұрын
I despise people that stop reading mid-chapter.
@chainilotus1117
@chainilotus1117 2 жыл бұрын
Buying books on Kindle when I know I very rarely read e books. I see the two dollar price tag and can't help it. Or buying books on pre-order and then not reading them for a year after they come out
@leanereads1052
@leanereads1052 2 жыл бұрын
Not me relating to all of these👀 Toxic trait: starting a book, getting a new book, starting that book, getting another new book, starting that book and ending up in a cycle of half read books
@Spoomis
@Spoomis 2 жыл бұрын
*buys new book* I must start reading it now *book I've been reading from the corner* "What about me?" hush.
@jackiejackman8664
@jackiejackman8664 2 жыл бұрын
I think you buy all of them in a series that you won’t read is an ocd thing. I feel in my soul that I need the series to be complete because having just one or two of the books feels wrong and unfinished. Just saying 😂
@elisabethprice4697
@elisabethprice4697 2 жыл бұрын
toxic reader trait I have books I've started but then I just don't ever get back to them and I keep telling myself ill read it eventually but five months later I still haven't read it!
@ashleighifert
@ashleighifert 2 жыл бұрын
Mine is that I smack people when they touch my book while I'm reading when they are trying to get my attention for important reasons but I just ignor them
@ashleighifert
@ashleighifert 2 жыл бұрын
Mine is that I have to buy any candle that relates to a book that I love. Actually just any merch for a book I've read and loved.
@virginiagill5902
@virginiagill5902 2 жыл бұрын
I suddenly feel so much better about my collection of completely unused bookmarks.😂
@thesouthernbookend6093
@thesouthernbookend6093 2 жыл бұрын
Next time you do an unhaul, put a bookmark in each book. Then put them in little free libraries.
@franciscasantos3770
@franciscasantos3770 2 жыл бұрын
my toxic trait is absolutely having to finish a series even after it's lost the charm... i just keep at it because I get attached to the characters and then it takes me far too long to be done with it and be able to move on to something more enjoyable
@simplyramble9660
@simplyramble9660 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I didn't know how much of a toxic reader I am until now XD I related to almost all of these lol
@eireann9239
@eireann9239 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic trait is going to a bookstore and not finding a book I really want but buying one regardless. 🙃
@ryn_pb
@ryn_pb 2 жыл бұрын
I definitely annotate the same way... half of my annotations are “lol” or “oh my god legend”
@mugglepuff
@mugglepuff 2 жыл бұрын
I've gotten into the habit of grabbing a bookmark when I take it off the shelf to start it. My toxic trait is reading too many books at the same time.
@alaenamarie8702
@alaenamarie8702 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic trait is that I take months to read one book but constantly buy more to add to my collection 😂😂😂
@cryptic_sunflower
@cryptic_sunflower 2 жыл бұрын
When I start reading books from a new popular author, my brain is convinced that I have to start with their debut. Even though that makes no sense, but it just doesn’t feel right not too.
@emmawagner8915
@emmawagner8915 2 жыл бұрын
I’m always afraid that if I read the debut later I will think it’s worse because they’ve grown and I won’t like it as a result. So I read the debut first but also why??
@briannanajera4470
@briannanajera4470 2 жыл бұрын
I know you in goodreads and then i realized that you have a channel and i come and then love to hear you haha
@laurel217
@laurel217 2 жыл бұрын
You’re so cute 🥰 I always sit and smile all the way through your videos. And I relate to almost everything you said 😂 I feel like most readers will 😆
@JayGTheAwkwardBookworm
@JayGTheAwkwardBookworm 2 жыл бұрын
Lol yes I’m the same at trying to explain books 😂
@nooraalbuali3757
@nooraalbuali3757 2 жыл бұрын
1:44 If someone asked me about book and wants me to explain...the first thing i will ask if they going to read it? If they answer NO then why should i explain myself to them .... if YES then i will ask them to read it and found out about it ..
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@margaritamikalauskaite9875
@margaritamikalauskaite9875 2 жыл бұрын
I am the opposite with bookmarks. I always pick one out that suits the cover or I think would fit with the description and I have even swapped out a bookmark if I find that it does not fit. Also I have way less bookmarks than Jesse, but I make my own by watercoloring bookmark sized pieces of paper, so my collection will eventually grow.
@craftyreads
@craftyreads 2 жыл бұрын
My brain literally shuts down when anyone asks me to describe what a book is even about. Like you cannot put me on the spot like this 😂 Even if they are a fav book of mine
@Foxheartbooks
@Foxheartbooks 2 жыл бұрын
I can pretty much only give spoilers when I’m asked about a book. Especially when I know that person is just pretending to be interested😕
@february30
@february30 2 жыл бұрын
5:23 omg I do this with books and tv shows. If it’s too popular I’m just really scared it’s overhyped or something (most of the time it isn’t, but I’m still scared)
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341
@jaginaiaelectrizs6341 2 жыл бұрын
Having an elevator pitch ready for your fave book but blanking when asked what any other book is about on the spot is *totally* mmeee!!!!!!!!!😅😅🙃😁🤍
@emmawagner8915
@emmawagner8915 2 жыл бұрын
Lol I blank when someone even asks my favorite book
@rhilou32
@rhilou32 2 жыл бұрын
Jesse! I got into the habit of sticking a bookmark in the front cover of a book, BEFORE it goes onto my bookshelf. That way, I always have a bookmark for whatever book I'm reading (even if it takes me 4 years to get to a book). Also...if I see I have spare bookmarks, it just means I can buy more books!! ....right? 😶
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
I like that. It is not form me, becouse no normal Person has more the 700 bookmarks.
@rhilou32
@rhilou32 2 жыл бұрын
@@ericazahn9689 I can confirm. I'm not normal 😂
@bubsjrd7290
@bubsjrd7290 2 жыл бұрын
Have you read any Brandon Sanderson?
@unavezms8167
@unavezms8167 2 жыл бұрын
*noice* Nobody asked for my opinion here I am. I am reading well of ascencion rn and IT'S SO GOOD. (But Vin is drama queen)
@G33_W4Y
@G33_W4Y 2 жыл бұрын
I relate to everything in this video!
@O1ived
@O1ived Жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is it takes me one and a half months to read 1 book but I am still buying more books
@O1ived
@O1ived Жыл бұрын
Ya me too
@jennareads1238
@jennareads1238 2 жыл бұрын
No but sometimes the end tables are so bad, yesterday I was at the bookstore and they had The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo and It Ends With Us under POPULAR NEW RELEASES! Like they aren’t from 2018 and 2016 respectively
@aye.p
@aye.p 2 жыл бұрын
Definitly the need to binge-read. And I didn't even read series!! My anxiety that leaves me to read spoilers, not that I won't read them next but I'm scared that I won't understand them. Finally, try to become everyone into a reader!!🤗
@offline._archive
@offline._archive 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic trait is having a certain mistrust for books that are older than 10 years. I guess another one that i think a lot of people can relate is buying a lot of new books and not reading the ones available at home.
@ericazahn9689
@ericazahn9689 2 жыл бұрын
I actualy mistrust new releases of Autors i never read.
@Momin_Azam
@Momin_Azam 2 жыл бұрын
My toxic reader trait is that I keep buying books even tho I know very well they’ll just sit on my shelf for months to come 📚🫤!
@booknerdme7946
@booknerdme7946 2 жыл бұрын
Jesse, love, the bookmarks.... THE BOOKMARKS! They are purely for the aesthetic, my friend. The aesthetic is all that matters.
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