Jessica Kirson is Building a Gay Dynasty | Lesbian Comedy Show | We’re Having Gay Sex Podcast

[@1eweir]

OMG MY HEART WATCHING ASHLEY GET SO MANY WELL-DESERVED COMPLIMENTS BY SOMEONE SHE ABSOLUTELY IDOLISES

[@sergbastian5]

How does this comment not have any replies?! This beginning was such an amazing part of this episode and made my heart so warm

[@rbarber]

I just tried to come out as a trans guy and it went pretty badly. Had completely forgotten it was Monday. Never been so happy to see Ashley's face! :)

[@deepwateryaya]

We love you 💗

[@prozierozie5692]

Awww, well your always home in this community

[@gwenjulianna2372]

I'm so sorry 💙

[@SpaceyD]

We are here and we see you

[@elliotbridge]

Yo, trans guy to trans guy: you'll be alright, its gonna suck, but there's always someone hoping you succeed

[@oheyseven]

Ashley: “You seem moved by that story.” Maddie: “Yeah, part of my body moved.” 🤣🤣

[@sydneyhance1919]

I don’t know if I can explain this well but my daughter has a rare brain disease and it was so refreshing to listen to someone I can relate to but not have the entire subject be the heavy stuff. Often when I find other parents I can relate to all we talk about is really sad heavy stuff and this was hilarious, uplifting but also real and relatable. This was a special episode and I appreciate it!

[@sergbastian5]

Wow thank you for sharing this! Good to know everyone and their families are going through something

[@codirennke1109]

You might enjoy one of the recent ymh episodes titled Christina has tit cancer. They make jokes about it. Some of us deal with tough stuff with humor. Its valid and ok. Sending love ❤

[@brittneyramos7346]

As someone who is here for the comedy first and the seggs as an added bonus, i legit SCREAMED when I saw your guest and I am sooooo happy to be a fan of yours, Ashley. I met you at your show in Orlando and we nerded out over our shared love of stand-up comedy while my girlfriend took pictures of us

[@caracat2076]

I've been PRAYING for Jessica Kirson to be on this podcast, this is about to be AMAZING

[@liamclarke64]

This should have been a 4-5 hour episode!!! Ended way too soon, and I enjoyed every second of it!! One of the very best guests so far, I would love to see part two three four and five!!!

[@rbarber]

I'm not even 10 mins and I've never seen Ashley bottom so hard 🤣🤣

[@brittanyr0607]

My computer thinks I’ve had a gay awakening since I found you three weeks ago and became obsessed. I broke the google alg. Def still straight but so here for all of this!

[@ashgavs]

Thank you!!!

[@Nyx_Nyx]

Love the podcast!

[@randomripoff123]

holy shit i'm so happy for you having jessica kirson on the pod and getting all of that validation and getting her for your weekly show! i started tearing up w you, ashley, that's just fucking amazing. it's so wonderful when the ppl you admire turn out to not only be admirable, but supportive of you, too! HILARIOUS episode w just absolutely wonderful heartfelt content. loved it loved it loved it

[@Roxisound]

My aunt is a Lesbian Rabbi from New Jersey who doesn’t believe in God, writing a book on multi faith marriage in the Judaism. I called myself JewISH because my mum was the rebel Jew. And she said - drop the ISH- it’s about the traditions and heritage 😊 Love all these women!

[@alnibodycare]

I love that! She is the exact type of rabbi I would want as a secular atheist Jew! lol

[@gracelarmee]

I got into Jessica pretty recently and have now watched every video she's put out because I'm obsessed with her unhingedness and humor. I'm so happy that you two got to meet and hangout and that Ashley got to hear such wonderful true things about her by Jessica

[@crystaldimples86]

I stopped what I was doing just to watch this. Love Jessica. Been following her for awhile & so happy to watch her finally get the appreciation she deserves, as a comedian. If no one has seen her crowd work, highly recommend following her & watching her crowd work videos.

[@shayleeann7481]

Ahhhh I loved this So much!!! Also great choice on new co-host, I didn't think I'd ever adjust to someone new after Kate but I'm sold!

[@mae7158]

One day my dream will come true and I will be totally humiliated and topped by both of these ladies at their shows. ❤️

[@katzenbekloppt_mf]

🤣🤣🤣

[@thenayelirubio2996]

Can’t wait to see the episode with Jessica and her daughter! This episode was amazing. Seeing the first minutes and how happy Ashley was it was moving, like all the hard work had paid off.

[@Sappby]

Jessica is everyone’s gay mom

[@kerukei1]

I am slowly starting to realize this is the only video that I watch that points out their pronouns as an "intro" (of course we use that term loosely round these parts) As a huge proponent of using and informing people of your own personal pronouns I want to point out how truly amazing this podcast truly is for that very fact.

[@amberathey8564]

Hearing "What's up Bottom Nation?!" is what gets me through Mondays.

[@michael_the.girl.]

Oh my GOD, Jessica is amazing!!! I'm so stoked she is on the pod! 💞✨️🧡

[@TransTess]

Its so funny to see Ashley be flustered and starstruck :D

[@carterpeele4913]

My two favorite lesbians on the same pod! I love this episode so much ❤

[@michaelmiller6579]

As a very recent fan of Jessica Kirson, I tuned in today having never heard of Ashley Gavin or Maddie Wiener, and I now have 3 new (to me) comedians to watch for. You all had me busting out loud laughing as I was enjoying my morning coffee (I'm NOT a morning person) Thank you for starting my day with laughter. A new fan.

[@justasimplenobody2666]

So happy to see two of my favorite comedians on the same podcast ❤ Also I am totally using the whole "if you wanna be a parent you gotta be prepared for whatever comes out the other side of the cervix" line. Tho I will have to figure out an alternative for c-section moms like my own for reasons.. cough cough.

[@tex1622]

No one is funnier that Jessica Kirson, what a perfect guest. Maddie Wiener - how did I not know about you? So funny too! I love this threesome!

[@abigailjupiter374]

Comedy episodes are my favourite episodes, the banter just can’t be beat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@raquel8780]

omg omg two of my fave comics on the same podcast! living for this

[@Hollymodz]

can't wait to listen ash!!! i have a feeling this is going to be an amazing episode

[@Hollymodz]

update: 8 minutes in and i am WEEPING

[@meanjeanmcqueen6171]

I recently came across Jessica Kirson and I became a bit obsessed watching all of her videos, lol, so I was stoked to see this episode! Such a great episode!

[@antotheja251]

i wanted to hear more of Jessica. this episode was not long enough! i need more!!!!

[@CleoBearRogers]

Just subscribed to patreon!!! I got a raise at my job and I'm so happy to finally be able to- it's only a little but hope it helps as your pod gives me such joy and a good laugh :) sending love from the UK x

[@Badusername2000]

I would love to see if yall could get someone from the new A League Of Their Own show on here, i think that would be fun

[@kenziewenzieasmr9800]

I will always come back to this episode , I definitely rewatch episodes but this is a favorite

[@bobeighteen]

As a child I was in a children’s hospital a lot and honestly they were a lot more joyous than those audiences 😂

[@JennySieck]

It is amazing to watch the depth of appreciation on Ashlee's face as she listens to Jessica sharing. You often come across as very inured. It is wonderful to see your response beyond the (fabulous) shtick. So enjoying these interviews! Can't wait to find Maddie's comedy. And comedy on the internet is what got me through the Trump presidency.

[@CaliSaint]

Thanks!

[@LauraGarcia-xe9zi]

It’s so funny for me that Maddie’s -gay- sex stories seems to always involve doctors 😂.

[@hnFyA8S]

Watching the best 3 comedians for me together is a lil overwhelming for me my cheeks cuz can’t stop laughing 😭

[@simongarland5789]

I love WHGS, what a great way to start a week. Hopefully one day you will travel to Cardiff, Wales to do your show here 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿

[@8happyperson]

So im in my early 20's and queer and while I was still in college i felt a little confused about why i really liked dressing masc just as much as I liked dressing more femme. I felt like I should chose one or the other but within the last year or so I've just realized there isn't a need to chose, I can just do either whenever I feel like it. I think people still expect me to fall into one category or the other but fuck people's expectations, yk? So I'm more comfortable with it now though I still have my days where I still might hear what people might think in the back of my head.

[@GnomieTheHomie]

That's awesome! Props, it's not easy to not care what people think

[@alnibodycare]

I am a straight women but I hate feminine dainty looking clothes. I play golf and most female golfers wear skorts or dresses but in the last year, I started only wearing shorts and pants as a form of protest. Also bc women on lpga back in the day were forced to wear skirts. So I still see them as restrictive and only serving a purpose for men. It’s really hard to find women’s golf shorts, it’s almost like they want us to wear skirts bc every brand mainly makes skirts not shorts. I have always been this way. My mom never allowed me to dress how I wanted to dress bc and I quote, “she didn’t want me looking like a lesbian”. Who cares???? I would be in my softball uniform in high school at a GSA meeting totally confident and not caring what anyone thinks or if anyone assumed I was gay. I don’t care. I feel more comfortable around lgbtqia folx and always have. Then after my SA in college, I really started to dress more masculine and avoid any femininity. So the way you dress isn’t ascribed to any one sexuality. Unfortunately the world doesn’t see that; straight men still find more feminine women attractive bc they play the part to look the role for the male gaze, spending $ on hair dye and highlights and makeup and tans and Botox and nails. No thank you. I don’t even wear make up anymore.

[@kenziewenzieasmr9800]

Holy sh!t, never realized just how much of a “meeting your hero’s” moment this was until rewatching this. 7:35

[@liasnclr]

Yes Ashley on the comment about having a trans kid. Same thing with disabled kids.

[@jd9785]

YESSSSS! Jessica Kirson..what a legend

[@kellyannefitzgerald]

i discovered you on tiktok and i've been binging your stuff lately and i like Jessica Kirson too so I checked to see if you'd had her on the pod- what a great surprise that she's not only been on but she loves you!! Hell yeah!! This was so nice to listen to. I hope you come back to Chicago soon, i wasn't able to see you when you were just here but i hope i can catch you next time! And I'm looking forward to listening to more of the episodes of the pod. i'm a bisexual lady getting married to a man next month (i know i know, another bi girl marrying a man, but he's the love of my life) and this pod makes me feel like i'm still part of the queer community, even though i'm also a gay virgin. I'm so glad I found your content. I love comedy and for years I would flip thru the stuff on netflix looking for a decent standup- I watched everything Ali Wong and Iliza Schlesinger and love Taylor Tomlinson- and then I realized there's female comics on tiktok and a whole new world opened up. So excited to see where you go from here- I'm waiting for the Netflix special!

[@supernovaskies5044]

Tiktok gave me these two New York lesbian comedians for the first time on the same day and I fell in love with both of them. (How am I now just seeing this video)

[@emmagination444]

I laughed so fucking hard at this I’m obsessed with your guest!!!

[@hoperobertson3732]

I LOVE this podcast and I can't think of an episode that I didn't like but this one is my absolute favorite! It had all the feels and it was just so incredibly beautifully entertaining. ❤

[@bluepursue8542]

Just so you know I would like 👍 all your vids but now I listen on Google podcasts and I don't get the option but im here and loving the pod and Maddy is such a vibe keep thriving 🤝🙏

[@MrNicoleCherie]

Please bring her back! And all her friends!

[@moif_velocita]

I just discovered Jessica Kirson today and I absolutely adore her. Love from Denmark ❤

[@Sselwal]

Loved this episode again, Ashley. Can't wait to see you live, hope you tour Ireland!

[@alexgutter8509]

Such an interesting gay thought ! Amazing episode as usual.

[@lilliab_nomadicmechanic7142]

So I just totally saw these three in a sitcom. Jessica being Ashley Gavin's gay Aunt and Maddie being the bestfriend.

[@anka9405]

this has got to be one of my new favourite episodes of the pod. perfect mix of seriousness and humor. thank you for what you do! i keep trying to get my friends to listen to this podcast because it really is something that brightens my week :)

[@beyourtrue3154]

I wish that someone could write too me. But I realize that it’s never gonna happen for me. But I am so happy for you all. I hope that I could see you do stand up live one day

[@ForestFairy]

OMG an international mailing list? Hell yes!

[@ROCKONplaceboforever]

This is incredible and u and the pod deserved to have a legend on this episode was so funny thank you all ❤️🏳️‍🌈 appreciate you so much for making me laugh every Monday ash

[@LeighsOffBackpacking]

Jessica Kirson! LEGEND!!!

[@fibbermcghee23]

Jessica is a great actress should be a movie star by now

[@123SBCsandra]

6:51 there was a lil orb flying in front of Jessica 🤭

[@hahalove47]

Ashley! So glad you asked me to be on your podcast as I am a decently young mom of 2. Bisexual married to a man (I think Shan was the only other person married to a man you've had on) but am a virgin on my gay half. DISCLAIMER: cant be mommy for you

[@haleyfischer5316]

Loved this, so happy to see Jessica as a guest here, great show

[@carterpeele4913]

I'm gonna see Jessica live in June and I'm so pumped!! Now only if Ashley would come to Raleigh too 😢❤

[@emerson1998]

Thank you for this (and the very shouty intro @ Ashley), I just finished therapy and need some queer laughs (much superior to str8 laughs)

[@RCola1217]

Ashley and Jessica together 🤗♥️🤗♥️!!! Please go on tour to Portland Oregon together so I can watch you both for the best night of comedy ever 🙏🙏🙏! PS, I have no Jewish ancestry that I know of, but considering your description, it seems likely 😂!

[@emmawanner9972]

Omggggg she’s on finally

[@shopgirlkc]

I’ve loved and purchased Tomboy X since they came out. I started wearing them before I knew I was trans*. It’s nice to have a code so I can check out some of their new stuff. Love you so much, love Jennifer. Love watching this episode.

[@mia26799]

44:05 that was right on time😂😂😂😂

[@SpaceyD]

Great episode!!! I love Jessica!

[@Loveisloveislove2]

You walked the line immaculately Ashley, some do love from e face of fear kinda thing

[@liasnclr]

It’s cool that green chef has vegan options. I’m so sick of people doing ads for hellofresh and saying they “have something for everyone” when they do not have vegan options lol

[@tris5602]

The IUD story is pretty horrifying. I had one years ago and was told No Sex whatsoever for at least a week.

[@maiabradshawlevy391]

Thank you so much for letting us know about tomboyx, I’ve found underwear so difficult to get right. Whether it’s how they fit or the style or how masculine or feminine they make me feel, I can’t find undies that feel good or right. I’m super excited to try tomboyx because I think they could finally be the right fit for me.

[@katzenbekloppt_mf]

Aww😍 -gasp- Oh Godess! How.... someone please help me... JESSICA KIRSON at ASHLEY GAVINS podcast -gasp again- I must dream... Thank You💓

[@hurricanecatrina9548]

If you could EVER get Roberta Colindrez I (and the other lesbians) would actually die

[@andieheim]

Heck Yes TomboyX!!!!! I felt such a sense of euphoria when shopping and wearing these undies!!!

[@shylanish4774]

Omg been waiting for this duo

[@pauldee1577]

49:54 It's like every time Maddie comes on the "We're Having Gay Sex" podcast she has to give consent lol. Maybe that can be a podcast gimmick where others are introduced by giving consent because consent is important! or maybe just Maddie, just Maddie gives explicit consent

[@willlimah]

Please, PLEASE invite Hannah Bayles to talk about coming out as bi during the pandemic

[@rzdanger]

OMG, yes! Love her!

[@JuMixBoox]

I already commented this elsewhere, but if you want more parents on, I'd suggest Dear Greyson,/Alex Cloutier who escaped a marriage with a man and came out as gay after having a teen mom KZbin channel and who is knowledgeable in so many topics that have touched her life. She has also been a foster parent and is now a single parent. Also, these must have been commented a thousand times already, but Jessica and Claudia Kellgren-Fozard and Rose and Rosie are great lesbian KZbin moms. Jessica is Deaf as well and I know you are interested in the intersection between that community and the queer one. I do also see you having excellent chemistry.

[@JuMixBoox]

Also Allie and Sam, obviously!

[@JuMixBoox]

And while we're at it, Leanne Yau from polyphilia is not a mother, but a bisexual polyamorous autistic content creator who has lots of cool stories about online dating, orgies and overall gay sex.

[@axiom2472]

Didn't start to figure out my gender stuff until just over a year ago. I'm nonbinary and genderfluid and do I think it will always be a process for me but I'm in my 30s so it definitely took a long time.

[@karoscgot]

This has nothing to do with the episode, but I want you to succeed so much, I watch through skippable ads

[@Frankie_Ozzie]

I have a suggestion maybe your next cohost should be Alex I mean like just for one episode and u bring him on with another comedian omg maybe it could be cate it could be like a special episode like a family reunion. Idk sorry if it came off like I was telling u what to do but it would be hilarious and love the content and am a huge fan but really just keep doing what your doing and hope you are doing well

[@theembersinside1420]

As a 41 yr old bi/pan woman who's felt like I've been a cat w many lives, different chances & relationships etc, I still don't EVER want kids. U really need to think about if u are able to adult fully for yourself FIRST before adulting for someone else. U have to take ur mental health issues into account, as I did. (Wasn't my only decider but a big one) My entire family, on both sides, struggles w some MAJOR mental health issues & I never want to bring someone into this world who most likely will come out w something like that, as well as having a parent w those issues. U have to take those things into account cuz that prsn will have to live in this crazy, scary world. And being a parent doesn't stop when they reach 18 yrs old. The way this world is, put me off kids as well. Really take time to think about how every part of your life (& their life) will be affected & I'm pretty sure you'll be in a more realized place when it comes to whether u want kids. And pls, don't have kids for anyone else but u! GREAT EPISODE!!! 🤘🏻💜☮

[@raapyna8544]

I know you don't mean it like this, but for me, I don't think I will ever be fully able to adult for myself (I have some strong adhd signs and I've heard that that means my frontal lobe will never develop past 18 years) and I will never be completely done with having mental health issues, but I think it's unrealistic and unfair to expect that people who are disabled in that way don't have kids, or people who have kids never have any issues in those areas. Kids are not too good for this world, in that I don't think it would be doing a kindness for the kids in the world currently to be euthanized, so why would the next kids not deserve a chance in life? I've heard a lot of this 'I can't bring myself to bring another child to this horrible world' from young adults and I think it's second hand deppression. I think it's very unfortunate and I don't think it's reasonable or agree with it.

[@snappybabby4646]

Now here your audio is great. I hear everyone as it should be.

[@deliri0um]

Jessica is so much nicer off stage haha

[@annarobbiewilcox6347]

28:03 was it supposed to be breannes tag on insta?😂😂

[@sensiblejack3294]

i do relate to and agree with the gay thought very much

[@avastuglin1913]

wow I loved this episode

[@Claire-zc7wf]

Omg i love Jessica Kirson!!!

[@amycook2986]

Petition to have Semler aka Grace Baldridge on the pod. Queer Christian musician, we haven't really seen that side yet!

[@antotheja251]

Maddie is sooo funny 😍 i love her.

[@kiranrao621]

this was such a good episode

[@stephjones5317]

LOL i was at that sunday show and im so sorry

[@ashgavs]

truly will haunt my dreams

[@emilylopez867]

I really wish Peter Monn would come on the pod!

[@idibidi3724]

Ashley, just fyi, the TomboyX code doesn't seem to be working.

[@ColdDaveball]

Get MARGARET CHO on the pod!!

[@allyabernathy4098]

15:30 wow, based on this description, TIL i’m jewish 😂

[@briannagreen9638]

I vote for Maddie to be permanent cohost