10 ways to get your ex who has lost feelings for you back

[@JessicaOS]

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[@JessicaOS]

@@believebelieve5758 appreciate you

[@darrenfalvey1785]

my ex fiance lived with me, she moved and said i need space, respect my boundary's. i told her im going to go out and date because she stated, i dont know how im going to feel and cant promise you anything.. im lost... any ideas?

[@lovethsweetlove5601]

@@JessicaOS my heart beat for you, I wish to meet with you am in Nigeria

[@dycomcomedy8795]

How do I know why my girl lost interest if am giving her the no contact attitude

[@dariness7176]

Cant give me the time I deserve She introduced me to her family and told everyone she loves me and I was confused cause she pulled me in this thing we had or thought we did. What do I do now or should I pursue or no contact

[@salwenmarak1029]

I know it's so unlikely but.. If somebody were in a relationship with me, and they weren't feeling it, regardless of the length of time we've been together.. Just tell me. I can do nothing but respect the fact that you told me instead of lying and cheating behind my back. I'd be thankful. That's what real men/women do. Who has time and will power to do all this sneaking around? Come on. Why cheat on someone when you can just tell them you're not feeling it anymore? Is it really so difficult to be a decent person instead of giving someone false hope and holding someone else's husband/wife hostage. Things don't need to end messy if you do it the right way by hiring *Johnsonspy* to do that.

[@priyaginiupadhayay26]

I stop pursuing her knowing shes now a company of some else and I dont think she sees me the same way as before... I felt hurt when I found out they watch movies together and they love each others company while im dying, Thanks *Johnson* for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's phone.

[@josephdavid1031]

*Many good testimony about you JOHNSON I'm so excited and gladly I got access to my ex account*

[@josephdavid1031]

*Many good testimony about you JOHNSON I'm so excited and gladly I got access to my ex account*

[@asitde692]

That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*

[@ElizabethSmithJane]

Discovering my partner's infidelity triggered a mix of emotions: sadness, anger, confusion, and a profound sense of betrayal. *Johnsonspy* stepped in to assist me remotely, providing spyware access to their social accounts

[@MaryJane-qx7pk]

I really want to appreciate this guy *Johnson* for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's Locations. I always had a suspicion that she was seeing someone else. Good job

[@quickscoperxmw3xftw]

Forget her, make money, get in shape and conquer the world, women are a bonus

[@IamSuperman618]

Love it! Great advice

[@atman5230]

I agree,she's not worth the effort and i don't want to crawl back after she has shown her true colours,I reason if I did get back with her the relationship is always tainted because of her past cold actions.Clairvoyance is a bonus.

[@derrickmoon3296]

@quickscoperxmw3xftw women are ungrateful they only think about happiness right now. Long term they hurt themselves

[@doggidog2992]

@@quickscoperxmw3xftw top g said that

[@LunqCharlotte]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

[@anastasiae3416]

@@LunqCharlotte I'm sorry to hear that! Same happened to me 3 days ago (also a 5 year relationship) but I'm still trying to get her back every day. She said maybe we'll get back together in a few years or maybe never again and that hurt so much. I asked her to tell me if she doesnt have feelings for me anymore and I would just leave her alone but she keeps saying she loves me very much but cant deal with my anger issues anymore and doesnt believe I can change since she's given me plenty of chances in the past. Now I'm praying she comes back. I would never snap again....

[@jorgereyes84]

@@LunqCharlotte You will be fine over time, I promise you. Over time you’ll see yourself dating other people, moving on, and even finding a better relationship

[@SahiboDilliTTawil]

I’m in the same boat. She’s been ghosting me since July, and it makes me sick thinking she might be with someone else. I feel depressed-can’t eat, sleep, or even go out. This has been the worst summer of my life

[@levylindokuhle6691]

Mine told me that she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore but she loves my I’m confused now we hardly spend time together like things are no longer the same I don’t know what to do coz she keeps communicating with me like normal couples just confused about the whole situation.

[@JohanLucain]

@@levylindokuhle6691 mine told me exactly the same. I asked if she still wanted to have a life with me she said yes but she really is un sure. She told me she is not 100% in the relationship any more. Either way well try having couple therapy and see where that gets us. I'm not really hope full it Will for me but maybe you can try that.

[@FarmMinds]

Never a good idea taking a woman back especially when she has been with another man, she will never be the same.

[@techawatch]

That is my concern

[@cipryan96]

@@techawatch did that mistake. Never again, pump and dump

[@imkai8800]

I cheated. She left me. I deserved it. But I will try to get her back

[@edybouaki8153]

Anyone rest thé samedi person either, the life's experiences is important for our behaviour after one experience.

[@NonnyStrikes]

@@imkai8800 DON'T. Regardless of what people say, once you do this, it ends any real trust. It sucks... bad... because sometimes you think you're right in leaving by cheating. Sometimes there is no way out, so you do the unthinkable. If you cheat, you've already proven you aren't committed. Take it from a man that has vowed to always be honest in relationships. It is extremely rare to find someone that will provide the same morals, but it is possible. Keep the chin up, and remember it is an opportunity for you to improve. Don't live off this mistake and don't repeat it. My two cents anyhow. Hope the best for u

[@arthurchigogo512]

its sad how by just showing you have feelings for someone is seen as a sign of weakness or desperation.

[@HolyRollerTV]

men need to be rational women are in their feelings.. men up in their feelings IS a sign of weakness, thats how a lot of men get their assets taken by women

[@themainbase]

I know right😔 I think people should feel how they feel and contact them if that's how you feel...if it wasn't meant to be it won't happen and eventually you will move on... I am sure no one tries forever...go with the flow.

[@IamSuperman618]

Ridiculous, right?!

[@esthersarfo9698]

Hmmmm

[@philipparkes420]

@@arthurchigogo512 exactly. But it’s what my ex said to me. I’m not attractive when I’m begging and telling her I love her. I made mistakes and pushed her away. Then when I realised that I didn’t want anyone else but her it was too late.

[@felixmutale7415]

Remember you had a life before your ex, remember you used to be happy even before your ex... If she's gone move on, life goes on

[@Jetson10]

What if my life started good and growing then last week she ask for break up

[@RAMIC-tv1ye]

You said it perfectly

[@emojiman2947]

what if my life sucked before i met my ex

[@Arxez]

Man my life before my ex sucked she showed me the world bro I'm telling you man this was the first woman to show me a purpose

[@Hehehaw458]

@@emojiman2947 yeah same goes for me

[@KobiaKobiaPatrickKimani]

A WOMAN'S REJECTION IS GOD'S PROTECTION ! I love my ex but sadly can't take her back.

[@willm5772]

Never get your ex back. Especially if she's the one who left. Know your worth and move on.

[@keyyyla]

This only applies if you did absolutely nothing wrong and your ex just randomly fell out of love. You have to be very clear about things you did that eventually lead to the emotional state your ex was in to decide to break up.

[@thearmedwolf]

@@keyyyla this just gave me hope 😭

[@thatdaisy7944]

My GF slept at her ex boyfriends and said nothing happened 😂. I kicked her to the curb and she never took responsibility for it. Said it was my fault and I was immature the way I reacted. Never take an ex back or chase them. You deserve better and have respect for yourself.

[@derrickmoon3296]

You did the right thing they think we are fools because we care. She for sure cheated don't let her gas light you

[@emmanuelagbafor2027]

Same thing happened to me

[@jorgereyes84]

Don’t ever, ever take her back!

[@GivMeUrGamerTag]

Number 5 is probably the most important thing I believe....because something clearly went wrong for them to leave you...decipher the signs that you missed, improve and fix those things so that you don't make those mistakes again when they come back or so that you don't take those mistakes into the next relationship. A breakup is very very very hard, but the only thing you can do is be patient and work on yourself in the meantime...again, you need to be a better person regardless of the outcome. Also giving them space with zero contact, it'll also be an abrupt cut off from you, your attention, and your love...the same way it was abrupt for you!! That most likely will give them the opportunity to realise that it was better off with you..however if they go, they go, and it was never meant to be. I am currently going through the same thing...15 years of memories, children, aligned goals, future plans etc, which came to an abrupt end. It felt like a death had occurred as she left for work one morning as usual, but then just never came back. We are working things out....but the only real advice I can give from my personal experience is...give time and space, and most importantly work on yourself and speak to people who you trust and are close to you...because letting those emotions and thoughts just sit inside you will eat you alive. I hope all that are dealing with a breakup get through the tough times and come out the other side a better person❤

[@redline350zHR]

Hey man im just curious, my situation is my ex is a single mom and a difficult situation..i kinda messed up with disrespecting and getting angry so its been a week since she said she wants to have space. How long should we not talk for and im asking bc u said u and your ex are working on things, so who reached out first? I always dont like the thought of being complete strangers with someone i love so i check in to see how she is but this time i dont think i should

[@GivMeUrGamerTag]

@@redline350zHR hey brother, lemme know when you're online and I'll message you to help

[@will1371]

I'm going thru the same thing 17 years 1 kid I raised and the other 3 kids and biologically mine but basically everything u described except for her leaving and never coming back happened but we still live together for the kids sake as coparents we just dnt sleep together or do anything together. she just started to show a lil more emotions and opening up to me more and at the same time I'm excepting whatever she gives me but not making it noticeable that thats what I've been waiting for but I'm also working on myself in the process and makin things happen that I didn't let happen cuz of co- dependency but what you think would happen with the woman your with so independent or likes to have more of the control of how or wants things done that you compromise cuz you love her that you jist give her the control and now I found I had lost my self worth and my drive as a man that I'm takin control of my life and getting it back during this break I'm not ready to let go of 17 years but in the end if it happens it happens and atleast I will be set with everything I need and will be able to move on ok by myself.

[@ndn2589]

@redlinevqhr i just did the same thing with the kids tho and i fucking did see the writing on the wall

[@ayoseunmicheal1727]

Wow, this comment spoke my mind exactly what am going Tru right now, she left for work and never came back..14 years of togetherness gone, she even went with my kids, am burning inside.

[@m4srx]

You can't love someone twice because first you fell in love with them but second you fell in love with the memories

[@lw8k686]

I say different, yes the memory's were nice, but your falling in love again because you see this person as a genuine person and not just a fond memory

[@kenyonferguson1243]

Damn that hit

[@dobbletapp]

We’ll, I actually fell in love with the connection through our similar culture and family values… that’s what I’m missing, the SMALL things that we similarly share.

[@fordshojoe8080]

Love doesn't just go away, if you were actually in live with the person than they will have a piece of you forever. Especially if it's been a long time. You can't just walk away all easy peezy like people say to do. Don't take her back and get someone else she never loved you. Well I'd beg to differ since we've spent half our lives together and spent the best and worst parts of our lives together and experienced everything for the first time together. Idk maybe I'm just old school and still believe in true love. I know she still loves me but I fucked up bad and now I'm paying for it. I'm bettering myself and plan on getting her back too.

[@tripletaker5007]

never offer a friendship to someone who you’re romantically interested in

[@ekemelunnoli7149]

Wish i had discovered your Videos earlier in life. Find them very helpful. Thanks for sharing.

[@katricelyles7928]

What if you do not have romantic feelings in the beginning but later develop romantic feelings?

[@jmdyt3626]

When we broke up she said about friendship but then she regretted the breakup straight away and wanted to try and get back together

[@roberttruman8444]

Don’t accept your ex’s offer of friendship after they leave you.

[@heale3625]

No, we should offer friendship and make the bond stronger first and win her trust back and then try again to rekindle the relationship again

[@COOL-G404]

One thing worst than someone by me: you know whats worst than a person you love dies is a person you love just decided not to deal with you and their still living.Breakups are the worst.

[@terceldude]

i want my Bay Shore, NY ex back! she was beautiful!

[@COOL-G404]

@@terceldude real shit

[@UnifiedFriends]

Wrong mindset. Be happy for the time when it was nice and shiny. Look forward, to the new experiences ahead of you. It just didn't work out and there's usually a reason for that. If necessary, fix the problems that led to it. But don't let fixable errors and misunderstandings get you down in a powerless state of wait and hope.

[@tinktink8888]

If an ex lost feelings for you first time around, they’re going to lose feelings again. Push forward, don’t look back. Waste of time & energy. Invest into someone that doesn’t put you in this situationship. Unconditional love exists, starts with self love✨🧚🏻🧿

[@keyyyla]

This assumes that you did absolutely nothing wrong to cause that loss of feelings.

[@IamSuperman618]

Self love is the best kind of ❤😊

[@tinktink8888]

@@keyyyla besides being a solid loyal, honest woman to a narcissist that physically/emotionally abused me. yeah, guess you can say I didn’t do anything wrong. Period.

[@fordshojoe8080]

​@@tinktink8888I'm sure there's things you can work on. Not saying she should have left but everyone has issues somewhere nobody is perfect. If you were the one that did something and you know its your fault the woman you love and been with since high-school and shared so many firsts together left. Then yea it's not that easy to just walk away and forget them and move on that fast. Especially if you were blindsided by it. I've seen people do exactly what you're saying to do and they regretted it. Because that rebound girl doesn't mean shit to you and you're gonna treat her as such. Then you're gonna just bottlenit up acting like it doesn't bother you until you explode and end up doing something stupid to others or yourself.

[@tinktink8888]

@@fordshojoe8080 work on ‘self love’ & ‘self worth’

[@almatt8310]

If somebody choses to be a part of your past, let them simply stay a part of your past. Use your time and energy to improve your life in any way possible and just move on. People make decisions and they should face the consequences. Good or bad. Wish them all the happiness in the world and sail away smoothly. There is somebody out there somewhere who will be a part of your future.

[@potheadrel4016]

But will it be the same. Will it be "the one". I'll be honest I'm scared. I don't know what to do, and I feel like I'm suffocating just thinking about it. It's been damn near two months now and it's still so fresh, I'm not good with emotions so Idk what to do. I'm officially lost.

[@HojaFPS]

Are u improving your life rn? Like in any aspects where u maybe wasnt that good at or sth?@@potheadrel4016

[@alexyen5326]

@@potheadrel4016 you are not alone bro

[@God_lovin_Patriot]

11 years since we broke up. I saw her with her child, we just smiled and kept walking.

[@abdouyousif41]

Jessica you're like that one magical friend that appears mysteriously in the movies and helps the protagonist , great job

[@vinvin808]

I never thought I’d be watching this video. I promise I’ll get her back

[@andrew17122]

Update?

[@tunuper773]

Update?

[@zoiemzoi]

Same. I'll get her back too

[@IamSuperman618]

I feel #5 should be #1. After being dumped, I am learning to be true to myself and not worry about what others think or bend myself into someone I am not just to please a woman. #1 (do not be bitter) is a tough one for me. She broke up the day before our anniversary, made like she stopped loving me overnight after 8 years of friendship first and then dating, and then would not tell me why she broke up with me. Ultimately, being bitter was tough but now I am living a better 'me.' Hang in there everyone, you deserve better.

[@nenrotsvarietytv5869]

When you get use to someone you'll learn jow to get use to their flaws n overlook certain things n the relationship will Grow. Forgiveness is all you need in a relationship n u dont hav to worry abt break up

[@jackallen5451]

I'm in so much pain so I think I'll follow this plan step by step hopefully things will turn around because I don't want to loose her forever

[@morpheous4599]

Same bro same i wish you luck

[@emmanuelmensah7480]

She only want me back because i was the one paying her fees.. not because she has changed or anything just be careful who you take back in your life

[@ixtalii8607]

thankyou, i really did need that talk after almost going into another one of my modes, but if you really take out all of the emotions out of it (anyone else trying to win they’re ex back) you have to be a new you. a new interest for your ex, and redeem and ascend upon your past mistakes and discipline yourself not to make those mistakes again. eventually your ex may see you as an interest again, be cautious and be chill as friends, if they don’t want you don’t force it but also don’t give up hope.

[@elliottsmith7530]

man finding that balance is where im at right now....i def want to keep the interest without seeming overzealous

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

I was weak. That’s why she lost feelings. My fault, I let her get away with too much.

[@biancadelarosa7986]

I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex love is back after he left me and our kids for another woman.I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back

[@fightingteamers6074]

Hey bro what type of stuff did you let her get away with cause I’m going through the same thing?

[@khanyancapai7082]

@@fightingteamers6074 same

[@stefankelchev2992]

Real.

[@loveu2pieces18]

Don't feel bad. This next person will do the same as she did to yall. Remember when you spit in the air, it falls back on you👆🏽

[@sammuliango8121]

What a beautiful voice well spoken woman and beautiful Vocabulary, so refreshing to listen to while trying to focus on getting the message.

[@siddhanth9188]

Yes, I agree to certain extent where she says to understand ex's feelings. Women I met unfortunately were committed to circumstances and not the relationship with me. No circumstance will remain the same for anyone. So, when it changed --- it changed her feelings for me. I don't understand how to process something like that which is beyond one's control.

[@octaviasimpson4030]

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times I cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

[@trevorkelly5036]

its always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back

[@octaviasimpson4030]

@@trevorkelly5036 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?.

[@trevorkelly5036]

@@octaviasimpson4030 Her name is Sylvia Regina White, and she is a great spiritual adviser who can bring back your ex.

[@octaviasimpson4030]

@@trevorkelly5036 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@robertarmo4201]

@@trevorkelly5036 guy how can I get such spiritual adviser

[@philipgadri7625]

wow I learnt a lot of lessons which do not only apply to your ex, but also applies to someone you want to start with and also someone you are already dating.

[@michaelpye8340]

Never take an ex back. They took a bet they can do better and coming bk when they realise they can’t. Never be an option!

[@tpstarkenya9187]

let's subscribe to 1M before this year ends for her good work. I love you work Jess. Much love from KENYA 🇰🇪

[@JessicaOS]

Thank you 😊 💓

[@Kwezi_42]

Right?! 🇿🇦

[@trollkenya]

Jessica come to kenya you got 100k fans. Am the greatest.

[@waledavies5765]

The first 3 months is the crucial and painful period or time. If no communications or contact, you would have naturally healed and moved on. Time heals and after more than 3 months everyone would ve learned to be okay differently and put the past behind.

[@anangaabotimasumjohn4463]

Jessica, unless the guy was careless and not putting in efforts to build their relationship, the lady can go, and soon he'd realize how huge a blessing that was. If he wasn't trying then he really deserve the pain. Thanks for sharing you enlightenment

[@martinfoy9327]

no one EVER comes back. it’s not a movie

[@timka56]

Yes yes let me work on my self when even she was at fault.....let's go guys ....

[@jamesjones7798]

Exactly !!!

[@KinzyMwale]

Now this is my position right now. This speaks to me because this is where I am 💯. My biggest headache is, we have a beautiful baby girl that I can't keep away from.

[@corseybriana8861]

@Trevor Kelly It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation my wife for 12yesrs left me, I couldn't just let her go, I did all I could to get her back, I had to see the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me

[@georgenjeri8547]

A Witchdoctor Right?Sounds Like that

[@KennedyBrown-rz5en]

This really helps but I pray that she’s not too far gone 😢

[@theophilusassefuah1132]

Me too😢

[@keishabrenda47]

yesterday was my anniversary of 6yrs of listening to you Jess I got you on THE KSM SHOW 6yrs now Am super blessed to have you my happiness.

[@JessicaOS]

awwwww

[@keishabrenda47]

@@JessicaOS Words can't express how much I do love you darling. You did me well, you made me a super hard working and strong woman. I can't tell

[@keishabrenda47]

@@JessicaOS I don't know welther there's other Ugandans who love you like I do

[@JessicaOS]

@@keishabrenda47 appreciate you sis

[@23jsk]

@@keishabrenda47 🙋ofcourse...OS rocks👍

[@shanehester5317]

dont be bitter,move on.the best revenge is living well.

[@Mangumboys88]

We thought we had stuff in common, but in reality we didnt even try to learn stuff about each other. We just jumped into the relationship immediately and before I knew it a year and a half passed by and she posed the question, "what would we even talk about if we were friends"? I thought about that real hard and it made sense, after all this time we had been blind teens.

[@CHAD-sl5mu]

Step one : don't make mistakes and choose a bad partner

[@WillactVlog]

My ex broke up with me, I started gettin in the gym and for the very first time Im consistently going every single day. I cant let this slide. She cheated and I treated her right. Im gonna make her miss me.

[@kabwemmichael2917]

Jessica you're on point in handling a hurt relationship. Now help me understand how to repair a relationship where there have been infidelity acts on the part of the many in a 40 years old marriage.

[@scorpion2958]

Never take them back keep it moving, Give yourself that love and focus on your life.

[@kabelodavid4605]

Thank you my sister you are truly a blessing 🙏🏼 am going through a breakup but she hasn’t collected her stuff and she still have a key to my appointment

[@Eilmgh]

I met Baba dada and he just brought my husband and family to peace ❤️😊

[@gracerules2008]

As a general rule (not applicable in all breakups) the best chance for getting an ex back is to do no contact for a mininum of 6 months or until the dumper initiates contact (whichever comes last). If and when your ex calls or texts take 1 day to decide if and what to reply. Keep conversations light and funny and positive and short. No longer than 10 minutes. Always end conversations first.

[@gracerules2008]

I'm not looking to get back with any exes if that comment was referring to me. Thanks but no thanks.

[@mob-dee4210]

Expecting me to wait for someone to get back to me for half a year! Over my dead body

[@gracerules2008]

Well it's not really about playing a waiting game. If I used no contact as a waiting game then it is unlikely I would have the strength to stick to it for 6 months. The idea is to use that time to focus on your own life, stay busy with hobbies, get emotional support from family and friends, maybe do volunteer work, maybe take an online class, maybe ask for overtime hours at work, maybe start an exercise program, take a road trip and finally try to be open to new dating opportunities. I know none of this is easy. When one starts no contact I think the hardest period is the first 1-2 months. The emotions are still raw. Yes re-evaluate if the reasons your ex left you are something that you think warrants correction.

[@Ivan-eo8du]

@@gracerules2008 Hi, thank you very much for your advice. This girl that I loved so much blocked me from evereywhere almost 2 months ago and I miss her a lot. I feel like I truly lost an amazing and special girl, so it's hard not to think about her. I know that a few other girls have shown me interest, but I just can't seem to be able to like another girl right now...

[@gracerules2008]

Perfectly understandable to feel that way. You're in mourning and it will take time. Don't try to rush the process. If you don't mind sharing why did she break up with you? What did she say was the reason if she gave you any? How long were you in the relationship?

[@TheProphecyENT]

I find it fascinating that your videos popped into my feed the day after a break up. Very insightful. This is day 2 and I am not taking will. I understand though, I need to get my stuff together.

[@mrtheodaprophet]

How has your breakup journey been so far? How have you been copping with it?

[@TheProphecyENT]

@@mrtheodaprophet Thank you for asking. It has had it's ups and downs but I am staying focused on what I need to do. I learned how to code and am trying to improve and get work. Also, going to the gym, I think, saved me from sinking into a deep depression. Over all, I am doing okay. Not great but not horrible.

[@atlas_al_maghribi]

bitterness is strongly related to hope, im that kind of man that if i had only 1% of chance i will do my best but if it is 0% it becomes very very hard emotionally.

[@gwendolinechakanetsa7748]

This is not for everyone, it's mostly for those guys who know they messed up and have come to a realisation that they lost a good person. They want to fix things.

[@babyluvjr]

So what u saying? Women don't mess up? Y'all PERFECT in relationships? I guess you're perfect huh? O ok

[@evb2065]

I came to this realization and now I want her back do you recommend I leave her alone or tell her how I feel

[@nanapoku5259]

@@babyluvjr Good thought provoking questions there! The fallacy in that sweeping statement about guys and the holier than thou posturing got me shaking my head🤔🤔🤔

[@babyluvjr]

@@nanapoku5259 that's real spit , we (men) are always the blame...black, white, Hispanic, etc etc

[@nanapoku5259]

@@babyluvjr Oh yes, totally agree 100%!!! I simply can't stand some women who always want to play the victim game, and doesn't want to take responsibility for their own actions or own up to their mishaps, but blame men for almost everything. It sucks!!

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Your shows are the best adult education I ever had. They can be even taught in church.

[@fitforlifepft1]

MOVE ON! She THOUGHT she could have BETTER!

[@darriusbonner5684]

True

[@darriusbonner5684]

Latched onto you until someone better (IN HER BS MENTALITY) comes along & does everything she was supposed to do with you, but with someone else

[@fitforlifepft1]

@@darriusbonner5684 100

[@radicalmind5742]

Never get your ex back period . Move on , there are so many women out here. Work on yourself, Never stop focus on your purpose, everything will be fine. Simple is that, Do not ever let women the primary focus on your life, Use women as a complementary part of your life.

[@onejamaican1551]

This.

[@amarajimnwoko3077]

First, it is difficult to fall in love again with your ex or whoever, when you fall out of love. Especially, when you're so hurt. I have had some terrible experience, in my marriage that, it seems difficult to notice love again I just feel it doesn't exist.😢

[@HolyRollerTV]

forget the ex... she is for the streets..move on and get money dudes

[@jeffreyklaui2835]

I really lover her and I hope we will get back together with all my heart.

[@hasaha9843]

This tips good i dont even cry when she left zfter listing this ❤

[@grigorirasputin425]

Be friends with your ex is the most fucked up advice on the internet. Do not listen to her if you are a guy and really want your ex back

[@dieudonnemcful]

not really

[@grigorirasputin425]

@@dieudonnemcful you friends with your ex? Talking to her about her new boyfriends?

[@rwentfordable]

Yeah, that was very crap advice.

[@HolyRollerTV]

being friend zoned is like being in a cake shop with no money ,,,all that delicious smell of pastry but you can't taste any...

[@kevincroft9848]

Thank you Jessica for this most valuable video. It really spoke to me alot. My ex has been away from me for 2 years . But Iam still hopeful we can still get back together aether again Hope she can see some changes in me . Iam taking it very slowly so I don't make old mistakes. She says she still lives me so Iam. Encouraged encouraged encouraged

[@krisindia]

I can definitely avoid the mistake of thinking about the ex...forget wanting her back 😜

[@kennedymwale5772]

Exactly what's the point of wanting it back

[@jaybee4288]

I was really happy my ex decided to speak to me again out of the blue after a couple of years... they literally asked me roughly how much money I was making, whether I was buying a house and when I was like ‘no same as before’ they ghost and block me.. would laugh if not sad.

[@givenchykingkunta996]

Could you please make a video of ways/tips on how to make girls open up,it can be their current or past problem in a relationship or life in general.🙏🏽

[@wasap-fd9vq]

🖕🖕🖕🖕hello friend why don't you send a message to this man doctor emonoyon who can help you get your partner back he was the one who helped me attract my love back to me 💕💕

[@Gryphon129]

The being friends idea is actually a bad idea. You will get friend zoned & you will then be an front row observer to their romantic life & that’s not healthy. Be friendly yes but do not be friends with them

[@josephinedarko5390]

I wish you had another channel helping females also in relationship with men

[@GonzinGodwin]

I could see that you not feeling fine get well soon my mom ❤🙏

[@JessicaOS]

struggling with a little cold! Thanks for caring!

[@shovelheadpec]

Theres nothing more horrible than losing someone you love we as humans are powerless its not ours 2 have whats so ever if your still young or old love yourselves first and foremost thats were it all begins people are people! There's so many options 4 us out there the possibilities are endless be yourselves rid yourself of negativity and anger or hate watch your speech the words u speek have tons of power if i can do it anyone can

[@worldlyrics223]

I thought she was finding a way to start an argument so I got on my defensive and dismissed her reasons. Now we’re broke up because she said I didn’t see where she was coming from, I blamed her 100%, and I guilt tripped her. She said the change about the issue is just temporary. I’m in her shoes right now and I really regret it.

[@PrashantSingh-rp6mf]

How much have you moved on in 2 months?

[@moustaphazaher1532]

How will your new partner feel if you are still communicating with your ex even by becoming a good friend with your x my opinion you start from zero as if your ex didn't exist you can never heal in the same environment existed before

[@rhodahjere8747]

They will back to me for ever and ever ❤❤❤❤

[@babayaga12379]

You don't. Simple. Uncover a new chapter of life

[@chrisgoosebrooks638]

I treated her awful. She left. I agreed with everything she said. She said “you know what to do”. But she wants to move on gave me enough opportunities.

[@yannick930]

The person who walk out of the relationship because of lost of feelings out of the blue is not a quality woman. Never take that woman back. This isn't an acceptable behavior. She betrayed you once she'll do it again

[@ChristopherJones-mr6ug]

I’m almost 5 years in with the love of my life…. We both cheated, she cheated first, an o felt bad when I did. Her diet came out an she was cheating Dan near the who relationship… we talked it out, an I forgave her an she forgave me…. I’m just hurt because of how she cheated, an when… I truly forgave her, but in the back of my heart she scared me…. But I want to grow an love her… just don’t ever think it can’t happen to you!!!

[@abdallahabouda6339]

Do not ever ever ever take her back if she been with another guy, be a man and do not take what is exposed to anyone !

[@shedrickwallace9363]

I your ex girlfriend breaks up with you and she is somewhere healing from the breakup (and you’re doing the same) there is a chance of true reconciliation. However, if she had acquired another man during that time there is no reason to ever continue that relationship.

[@ADayInTheLifeOfJames]

This video should be titled how to get yourself from intimacy, to permanently in the friend-zone of a woman.

[@kanolemaster]

The first two days of the break up i told her i will beg and ask for her to rethink her decision, im in my right to ask for her back but after the two days .. silent treatment when i comes to our relationship, i say that because i own a business with her and i still have to work with her. Ill be strongest

[@paulekechukwu8481]

Thanks i needed this she broke up with me today but i know we can make up it takes time

[@mob-dee4210]

Why would you beg someone to get back into your life🤷🏾‍♂️? You can’t force love, let them go and move on.

[@dadadadad7787]

I tell u why. Its not begging I'm a male. Most women are stupid and they don't think straight alot and they make bad decisions based on their feelings and emotions instead of rationalizing things women can f. Up a good relationship with a man because of couple bs. Don't ask what kind that's the stupidity I'm talking bout of what women do.. it can be any shiddd. Now u as a man u love this woman and for her to break up with u over some bs. Not hard to just let go u may feel he or she is the one

[@Camvpspam]

I mean tbh the only reason I want mine back is bc she actually made me happy

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Public comment. Jessica your message is so true. I am happy and proud of you. Amazing..God bless you.

[@trafelder5530]

I didn't make any mistakes. I helped as much as I can. With her kids and all

[@HolyRollerTV]

of course you made a mistake you dated a baby mother and paid for her kids...

[@onejamaican1551]

​@@HolyRollerTV This

[@mobydick5046]

I love Jessica. Our lady is back!

[@jeremytaliakura2651]

Keep it up Jessica and please do more videos about how to move on from someone you love. The previous videos had really helped me💖💯💯

[@LindaVanGalder-jt6yf]

This doesn't always work. Usually when a breakup occurs, I especially a long term relationship, it is permanent. They don't want to come back or they can come back temporarily for sexual intimacy. It also depends on the person. Some are narcissists and they will come back temporarily when things are going nowhere for them only to leave again when they are done again. In my long-term relationship, a part of me wants them back but another part of me know that it is over. I think people need to ask themselves if it was really love in the first place before trying any of these options to try to get someone back. I know there were happy times and sexual intimacy but it just was not enough to last a lifetime. It has a beginning and an ending. I am working on me now so I can attract the right individual. Louis brought me some happiness but a lot of misery and I release the bitterness. But I will date again and I know my value now.

[@WiliwalkerGh]

My ex is dating now how can I get her back, am really desperate

[@raugust3376]

Its so difficult for me as a man to let go of my ex girl when you actually thought she was the one.....its true what they say some women never like to self reflect and will always make it about them when the relationship ends

[@ahmedrashid4524]

My Girlfriend is leaving me because of Religious factor .. i am a Muslim and she is Christian.. Two year of dating after year she agreed to join me which we all knew I wasn’t forcing her to compulsorily do the deeds of a Muslim but she felt my Mum doesn’t like her …. Surprisingly her name is Jessica ❤… What’s your advice on that please I really love her very much ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@ahmedrashid4524]

Is he a spiritualist??

[@ahmedrashid4524]

It’s a Nigerian man ??

[@ahmedrashid4524]

He is a spiritualist huh

[@lubegahamos6559]

Become a Christian

[@georgenjeri8547]

I Know the reason For Breaking Up So I Need To Work Hard To Make My Life Better.She Needs Change In My Life Rather Than Being On My Comfort Zone.She Really Wants Me To Show Her That I Can Use Some Amount Of Money For Her Services While She is In University

[@mattagaijined3448]

Kings, if she goes, she goes. Dont try to get her back.

[@okandameshark951]

This one hit differently Jessica..Thank u

[@12Messenger]

I did not know you stayed in gunna Jessica. You probably dont remember my comment on one of your videos. Thank you. Im not in search of advice just like listening to your content

[@paulssevume2628]

No turning back I have to focus on my life

[@kojoagyekumboateng1997]

New vocabulary learnt;blasé…can’t wait for 1 million subscribers 🍾🍾🍾

[@mrkobe3691]

I don't think it's good idea to get her back if she is just cheated on you. It's not easy for man to forgive cheating women. Man don't heal.

[@snaakie]

I don't even want her back. There is a better person out there.

[@titanniki412]

When your involved with a Bi Polar & NPD. Treated her like a Queen. Would not take responsibility for her actions. Everything was my Fault!! Only thing I did wrong for 17 mos was treat her like a Queen & put up with her BS. In NC with her!!!

[@donkeyshins5736]

Update?

[@titanniki412]

@@donkeyshins5736 3 months she set me FREE. I'm moving on!! She suffers from Bi Polar/Narcissism. I can't do it!!

[@deluxmwanza3299]

Am watching from zambia 🇿🇲 very intresting

[@catharsis9722]

How to act after years of break up, and just try to have a friendship? for then move forward from there again...?

[@kmbheights2151]

I did #7. Her response was almost immediate. She said, "Me too, I'd love to be friends eventually because you are a great man." I did respond by saying, "and you're a great woman.". I assume I wait now, about a week to affirm I meant what I said? What should I do now, if anything?

[@thetruthshallsetyoufree337]

Ex is a no go zone...freelanza freestyle comedian here

[@AdelinoBarbosa-wd7qm]

I always crave on learning from your videos,their very handy to all circumstances that gets me closed to em opposite sex!!!