3 reasons you should never chase women

[@JessicaOS]

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[@dennisokoi8234]

Make her chase you!!! How??? The answer is: Focus on your dreams/goals. This is exactly what I'm doing. No more chasing women! Thank you sister! You're my favorite on this! Love you!

[@trapkidvoke6145]

Exactly my brother

[@ofosuappiahpage1701]

I was once chasing my girlfriend and I realised I was being stupid”so I move back and she’s now chasing me!! And am also chasing my dreams for now ..

[@jasonyoung1608]

Lol so they what you have become if that’s it so then I’ll will her dawg if she come to Me after 🤣 the fact

[@Fn7_ACTUAL]

Amen to that! She's right.

[@Fn7_ACTUAL]

And always great advice

[@calvinthompson2590]

I’ve wasted years after chasing and it never hit me until I lost my dreams, I put all my effort into the relationship and all I did was to complete her goal and not mine, hope all men see this and learn, I learn the hard way.

[@InfluencerKhiz]

Thank you for this ❤

[@InfluencerKhiz]

Thank you

[@Colonfuego]

I had to learn the hard way as well but glady I stop chasing and starting working on my goals

[@kenchino0161]

Never too late to get back to your goals.

[@Josue-zm9iu]

@jade azeem 💪🏽💪🏽

[@Damola247]

"You lose money chasing women but you never lose women chasing money"

[@JustinLeon423]

Facts my dumbass falls for everytime. I think I can give them something that they never got with all the past relationships. I could of had cash to buy a 200000 house

[@waynesworld90]

@Damola Adenola Right✊🏾

[@MrSnow-dx1pr]

I think I love my wife.

[@elliottsmith7530]

faaaaax.....the only aphorism u need to know on god

[@karlen5550]

Yes and alot of them are a big waste of money..and most time you chase a woman at times when you finally get them your not as interested anymore she probably done do so many things to make you change your mind

[@jordanwest43]

I spent my 20’s chasing relationships. My last relationship were fucked me up. Depressed & not eating. I ended up getting a gig & got back chasing my goals. I’ve been traveling & working ever since. Chase your goals fellas. If y’all aren’t chasing each other then stop. You deserve love & effort too.

[@jessemartinez2127]

I wish you were there in the 70s. You would have been the greatest ❤️! Case closed. It's ok. Before your time. Love you Jessica.

[@jimmyfritz8240]

No dating apps no social media no chasing women. Focusing on myself. Living alone doesn’t make it easy especially when get inside your head feel needy and lonely but just have to push through the mental stuff. One day at a time

[@neo5973]

Dude it’s the same with me. I’m happy being alone and focusing on my stuff but it does get challenging when you see all these couples everywhere you sometimes wonder what am I doing… but it only lasts for a couple of minutes haha then I’m back to liking myself

[@-TheMaskedMan-]

Alone? Its time you guys start dating abroad. Brazil etc, better women in every possible way with significantly less the effort. That loneliness and depression is not healthy for us regardless of what anyone says. We have needs and we just cant get them in this country which is weird as hell.

[@brolysmash9333]

Bro you’re not the only one. Focus always on yourself my King. I went tru many sh*** in life with girls I loved, and trust me, you’re doing good. Work, learn always something new, set goals, buy a house, etc.. The right person will come to ya at the right time. I’ve been alone for 8 years and I still am. You play games, go to bar, talk to your friends when you have the time, money is not an issue, life is beautiful, and I most importantly, I don’t focus on these so called beautiful woman from the outside but rotten on the inside. Waiting for you to break, so they can squeeze you in every sense possible. Mostly monetary.

[@brolysmash9333]

@@neo5973 bro facts. I saw this dude having a hard time with his girl, she was being rude and disrespectful. I felt bad for him but at the same time I was like yo I’m happy I’m not living that life. I always say, the right person will come to ya. Just give it time. I rather whack of*** than having a chick that after giving you some pus*** start taking dominance in certain ways.

[@lhcoco94]

Keep pushing brother. It is all about quality over quantity, it applied for relationships and friendships. I deleted all my social media and freed myself from so much waste of energy and curated alternatives realities.

[@omartamer1334]

As a 19 years old, I really felt like you're my older sister and wanna give me some advice and life lessons. Thanks to KZbin for recommending me this.

[@jt.8144]

How sad for a 19year old to be getting LIFE lessons in KZbin. I pity anyone under 40 years old nowadays. CLEARLY Lost AS WHAT WE SEE HERE.

[@foodetc.]

I'm over 50 and still learn from KZbin @@jt.8144. There is definitely a lot of bunk here too but in that mess of bunk, there are nuggets of gold. This lady gives good advice and there is A LOT of good advice on KZbin. It's the world we live in; to draw from others and their experiences but in this generation, it's times 1000. You just have to separate the wheat from the chaff.

[@g-man8023]

@@jt.8144 how is it a bad thing for someone to obtain advice and knowledge from KZbin? Isn't that the whole point of these channels and the internet itself? There are people who don't have a figure in their life to give them guidance or personal experience to help reflect. These types of videos aid so many ppl to feel a little less alone and lost and im grateful for this video Jessica made 💙

[@mandlamgwenya382]

Agreed. Imagine begging someone to love you. If we vibe and we are both looking for a relationship, we should start determining if we are compatible. It's a 2-way street. No one is doing the other a favor.

[@harneksingh8296]

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[@DecimalD_]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Just started dating this year after a 4 year hiatus and it’s been mostly a disappointing experience. I also immediately started slacking in the Gym as soon as I began dating. Going to just focus on myself for a while and keep leveling up my career.

[@otiss3213]

Never ever have I chased any woman. My dad taught me early on never to go running behind any woman because another one would come along in a few minutes...chasing only makes you look like you're less than someone else's equal and so forth. I've taught my sons the exact same thing! NEVER CHASE ANY WOMAN! PERIOD.

[@thehistorylab9316]

Hmmmm

[@frankeydaniels]

Never chased!? And you have sons!? Right…🤔🤣🤣

[@NK-nh4vo]

@@frankeydaniels Pursuing is different from chasing

[@thehistorylab9316]

@Water_Mysol I'm still a Student [College]. Not married yet😊

[@thehistorylab9316]

@@NK-nh4vo Hmmm

[@mophemewapitori3747]

That's what I've been doing and women think I'm proud because I don't chase or beg. I court, you decline, I walk away. Or you accept, we date Thank you Jessica

[@yourlandladysson6395]

Way to go my brother

[@emmanuelasamoah3168]

Facts !!

[@believekings7130]

Nothing can stop you ur all d way up

[@TRuffin]

Hearing a Woman say this from a genuine perspective is very pleasing, alot of men need this so they can make their necessary adjustments..

[@DC-qv6gq]

It's just one woman's view.

[@DC-qv6gq]

@gracey ANDERSON complete fallacy. It's a shame so many men have fallen for this message . May they receive sense.

[@shadowgarden6053]

As a woman a man chasing me, repulses me. It makes me feel like he's desperate. It makes me cringe. Trust a man I want, will never have to chase me, if I'm into man I speak up, or if he pursues me I'll agree. But nothing makes a woman want you more, than a man working on his goals. It let's woman know your mindful about your life, and possibly those in it. It makes a woman feel safe, & secure with you. As much as I love being important to a man I love, but if his dreams, and goals aren't just as important I feel like he's weak, & is a ticking time bomb bcus in return he will be looking for me to satisfy, his lack of care for his goals, he will take until there's nothing left. Bcus he's not giving to himself. In return leaves a woman feeling drained, and him feeling like a failure.

[@awareness2remember]

@@shadowgarden6053 men feel the same way about women these days. We see a lot of them as weak and not worth our efforts.

[@Lv12v]

We need women that can advice men genuinely like you do now than ever ❤️

[@MrKnjwhite]

Dennis Okoi said it perfectly! Please my brothers I know its hard to hear but trust us on this. Focus on you, your goals, your purpose, and your legacy and the right woman will appear without much effort at all. The ones we chase, most of the time are not the right women for us. I found my Queen the minute I had given up on chasing. I was enjoying life with my friends, my professional career took off, and my community activism was through the roof! All of a sudden my bride to be appeared!

[@tylowe78]

Your situation is kind of similar to what happened to me. Once I stopped looking or chasing...then low and behold there she was. I was running late for a doctors appointment when I ran into my wife to be. Just imagine if I was on time for the appointment, we probably wouldn't have met each other. Lol.

[@ItBeFactsThou6669]

When a Woman gives you game on Woman, YOU LISTEN 🎧 💯🤷🏽‍♂️

[@sphiwekancube908]

Great, this is called wisdom👌

[@abcde9867]

nahbro all they care about is money she telling us to be more selfish but we have to sacrifice for family and cover them with love. this advice is realistic but not romantic or lasting

[@sdk7367]

Can confirm this. I had a crush on a girl and “chased” her for over a year. It was during highschool. I noticed that I was being rejected and just stopped giving her every sort of attention in just an instant. Summer break was over and she suddenly began chasing me. Like having a conversation with me whenever she saw an opportunity, starting lots of nonsene small talk and or taking a seat near me

[@Say_King77]

👀

[@jam4678]

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[@Joevenantgroup]

You're absolutely right Jessica. I have been a victim of relationships for years. However, your videos transform my life completely because I have experienced most of those things with women. Thanks a lot for this wonderful job 💞💞💞.

[@amirprime44]

Truth be told Jess, you hit the nail on the head in this video. I always tell my gender "Chase your dreams, the women will come later" no woman wants to be with an unsuccessful man. Also she will respect you even more when she sees that you're operating on a certain frequency. Thanks for this piece ✌️

[@bradiepoa3409]

I've been doing this shit bit not I promise I won't do it anymore. Thanks a lot dear Jessica

[@ronwilli684]

ive come across a plethora of female dating advice in my lifetime but this right here is the most to the point, factual and no bs advice ive ever seen.. definitely great video

[@franckb.8071]

I have never chased any woman. Mainly because time is precious, and I use this time to work on myself. Besides, why focus on someone who doesn't want you? To prove your worth? That might look like a sign of lack of confidence. A woman doesn't want you, it's not the end of the world. Move forward, build your mental strength and your brain muscles. Work on your goals and aspirations, and observe. Thank you Jessica for this great video.

[@ojimaochuma3971]

Never chased women, never will. Thanks for making my thoughts more plain and coherent Jessica.

[@webexpert247]

Why do people think u can't chase women and work on ur success at the same time? If u would really stop improving yourself or giving 100% in ur job/business just because u're chasing a girl, then u have a different problem. If u ignore girls until u have money, then u attract more golddiggers than honest ones and u'd be too inexperienced to know the difference. The golden rule is: don't be needy, have standards, value ur time, learn to let go when u're not appreciated.

[@alhassanfirrdous7292]

You said it all! There are a lot of rich men with bad women!

[@koalsam1494]

Even by doing what you said doesn't escape you from chasing gold diggers but how experienced enough are you relating to females will determine how far you can go with your point. And it's in both ways. In my opinion Jessica points are okay for me based on my experienced with female. Less stress if you're switched on in your head.

[@jsnow07grad]

Now your post is realistic thank you.

[@danielgitau7213]

Your comment is pure gold

[@MaJeSTiCz0]

Facts hustle and grind.

[@hvppy_world]

As soon as I decided to stop chasing women and started focusing on my dreams...she came to me. we immediately connected...2 years later... we still together.

[@HDMIOT]

i stopped chasing a girl i was trying to get with for almost 8 months, we spoke regularly if i did'nt call or texted her she would contact me, we went to bed a few time in the 7th month which after another week she started to show some pulling away and some bad vibe, in a late night convo she told me she had taken sex off her mind, me seeing she was still going thru a break-up she says had'nt fully gotten over. so i shut down the engine no calls no texts, she was the one texting cause i told myself and her if she was interested i'm here waiting. after a week she stopped texting first and when she saw me around she looked at me like i did her wrong. even tried to call me friend (must be out your mind) behind, why she was upset i don't know know. i've been getting a lot of flack "bad mouthing" and bad puffed up lips stare down looks that should cause an argument but i'm not letting her have it her way.

[@davidholt1250]

I wish I had had you as an advisor and life coach when I was 18! Would have saved me a lot of time, energy, and heart ache.

[@collinmorudi5242]

Ooh thank you Jessica!!! There's tears in my eyes right now, I wish I had known this all these years, I have been chasing women and working hard to get their attention and even if I got some of them but things never really worked well coz I still had to work hard to keep them engaged, eventually they just leave for better successful guys. I did all that at the expense of my dreams, thanks to you it stops now!

[@bobstone8446]

Jessica is a typical example of someone who has really worked on her craft. She’s so professional! Great work!

[@larryshenault8107]

She is world class. Now where is the video tell black women how to conduct themselves to get black men to show them more respect, there must be a code of conduct for black women. I See so many video putting down black women concerned there additude.

[@AbubakarSeif]

I concur.

[@jonathanbanda2869]

That's true

[@klausmakaneta6890]

She is a woman so she knows how they work kkkk

[@vicdoesfitness]

Absolute Class!

[@MD_Mainz777]

I’ve been really chasing this lady I fancy, but the effort isn’t reciprocated it’s quite frustrating and honestly I feel like I’m wasting a lot of time and I’m slowing my dreams progress. Thanks Jess solid advice

[@RILLAMAN84]

I’m married already, but this is dope. In a sense, that was my mind set. I had things I wanted to try to achieve in my own life. My wife came to me🤷🏽‍♂️. 17 years together now with two kids. It pays to not chase. Less problems I think🤔.

[@yourlandladysson6395]

Good for you bro

[@dillyselad1170]

If I may ask, How did ur wife come to u?

[@90s-h7l]

I’ve been doing this all throughout my high school career, no more. Don’t care how beautiful the girl is, I’m not bending over backwards over another human again, especially one that’s not giving me the same attention, treat a female or a male like a celebrity and he or she will treat you like a fan.

[@eseigbepablo6109]

I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️

[@norman9541]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@90s-h7l]

@@norman9541 Something to say, Norman?

[@elliotwall5664]

Hoodville fam

[@tajdyer2803]

Been there so many time bruh! I regret my past choices I have made. I bend over backwards for females when I was younger. The results were not good. Make your own self happy. These females will not acknowledge you until they have child(ren) , no eyes problems. In short you will be there back up plan when things turn sour for them. I learned alot.

[@hysonapeugongaziseh5570]

I can testify. I asked a girl out several times. She finally accepted. Everything went on well until I discovered that I had to struggle for us to meet even when she had the time. I started questioning my approach from the start to where we were(more than 2 years in a relationship without any clear progress).

[@madahmed7454]

Let her go

[@salmendramodi7703]

Atleast you got a girl....

[@Realcordy]

Are you in high school?

[@planetsai]

Bro, Let her go

[@PalmdalesAdonis]

@@salmendramodi7703 at least he has a girl? Yeah she's most likely talking to other guys too.. all that free time she has she's spending it with someone else

[@Men-of-Culture]

Everything that Jessica said in this video is on point. I have experienced all of the above.I wasted a lot of time and money chasing my dream girl, only to realise that I had made a huge mistake when it was almost too late.

[@melisizwengcobo1170]

My relationship has evolved ever since I started watching your videos Jess. Thank you alot.

[@tyreeperkins968]

This is what has gotten me girls in the past. Staying dedicated to my goals and myself. Constantly visualizing myself in the driver seat of my life, and crushing all of my goals. Now it’s time to get back to that after a deep heat break. I claim it! The power is within all of us.. dig deep 💥

[@briankiprono3853]

You got this bro!💪

[@clidenjei9270]

The sound of your voice is so soothing. I Like your choice of words too. Great video straight to the point and simple. I believe every guy has chased a chick at some point in their lives but personally I always knew no one should be chasing be it a man or a woman. If you’re going to chase them, let them go!

[@gamzaify]

Found this video randomly and I must admit I found you very eloquent, well put and straight to the point. You've earned a new sub

[@saintmearl8518]

I already stopped chasing "them" and this video even gives me more reasons why I should. Focusing on my dreams and goals is my prime prioty right now. The only problem though is I don't if I make it, I'll still be interested in "them" who I had chased before

[@salamiganiuolatunji1033]

Make sure you don't have any "if" when you're trying to achieve a goal...rather than "if", always remember yourself that "you can do it" "if" brings this negative thought about getting things done.

[@mwanekwa1588]

True talk

[@iharris3466]

Nope !! You going have women on your level of dreams chasing you

[@antoniomitchell1883]

You won’t make it.

[@kenstevens7855]

The key is to develop a social network and lifestyle where you have repeated interactions with wife/gf level single women. It's much easier to resist the urge to chase when you know you will be interacting with attractive women on a regular basis and developing relationships where they can see your better qualities. If you only rely on online dating or picking up women in bars, then the first time a woman you are strongly attracted to shows a tad of interest the urge will be there to do whatever it takes to get her and that can lead to chasing or simping. Women know what they want at that particular time, but their agenda changes frequently as well. Instead of trying to force her to change her agenda, have several attractive women that you interact with on a regular basis (via organizations or peer groups) and you might end up being in the right place at the right time. My dad did not meet my mom's requirements when they met, but they bumped into each other a year later and it was a different story.

[@olajuwontokunbo7979]

You are so on point, but sadly not evey has that has that circle/connection with the opposite sex.

[@javo10ful]

Or just be on your purpose always. Have hobbies and life goals, etc. that way you don’t become relationship focused when you meet a girl you like.

[@mwanzafitalpha9827]

1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf

[@gauravkumartailor]

Excellent but I can't agree with few points ...

[@infinitesupply8035]

Facts!! 💯💯

[@forgivemakwena6252]

You're red pilled brother 🤒

[@cashrhodes2296]

Taaalllllkkkkk... 🎯🔥🔥🔥

[@juicykindess3129]

Lol you are funny

[@KaranIsAgoodMan]

Thank you for this video. Glad It was recommended to me! I'm in love with someone but I feel like I'm the one always doing the chasing. Have learnt things from this video. I always encountered a man motivating men on these issues, this is the first time I have seen a woman telling me not to chase women. Thanks for the guidance it means a lot.

[@gregorybush1403]

If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot

[@gregorybush1403]

THNAK YOU BRIANHACKSONLINE ON WEB

[@javaailon2802]

This is one of the best description to my recent experience. I've never had the right words to describe it but this sums it up! A painful place to be in. FYI, just came across this channel and great content.

[@likeitornot8027]

Bro this is excalty what I had, she kept lying about things, hiding things for me and when I was asking something about why some things are like that she couldnt tell me truth. And one day believe I had a bad feeling that she was cheating! And boommm i caught her

[@thabangtaukobong1040]

So accurate!

[@tailsthefox6568]

It’s called covert narcissist

[@michaelmerritt9657]

It’s crazy. Things are so messed up out here. I’m done chasing. Definitely focusing on goals, but there’s something I don’t like about me achieving my goals, then being chased. I don’t want it. It’s become a game of chess.

[@afleyao8545]

Thanks a million.! Got my heart broken and presently couldn't piece myself together cause I have been trying harder to get her attention... she's independent and got me through all kinds of motions and desolations... honestly I'm drained and fed up of chasing her... I completely retreated...if she returns, good! On the contrary I'm moving on.! Thanks Jessica, you now have a new subscriber to your channel...❤️

[@christianjoseph4784]

Love your wisdom & knowledge about relationships. You are Gorgeous as well.

[@DC-qv6gq]

@@christianjoseph4784 Nhmmm

[@mondliedwin4857]

🎉You are literally teaching me how to become a better person. You deserve a subscription.

[@jcmoneyman]

A+ advice... AND from a WOMAN. THANK YOU... I think that movies, books and media have duped us for so long to believe the storybook romance is real life, when it's not. YOU speak the truth!

[@markoivanmarelic]

Well said bro 👏👍

[@korneliustalenikapofi6146]

Thank you Jessica, your teaching is really helping many men worldwide. I was one of those men who are chasing women but since I started watching your videos, I learned a lot and I can assure you I'm totally change the way of proposing or act toward a woman.

[@malikmartin481]

This video randomly came up on my feed, but I’m happy I watched till the end. I’ve been chasing the same girl since HS and everything you said in this video was spot on. I put her on a high pedestal and forgot that I matter.

[@emmamilescakes6300]

😂 Sorry bro.. We have all been victims of our hearts..

[@antoniomitchell1883]

You don’t matter

[@victoronwukwe8181]

@@antoniomitchell1883 wtf!!!

[@antoniomitchell1883]

@@victoronwukwe8181 I don’t like seeing men bowing down or being weak to women.

[@jeffreyhunter1823]

Don't chase women, chase your dreams! Great lesson! A lesson I learned the hard way!

[@Wayland.]

Honestly, this explains very clear the quality not just the video but the quality of advice she gives.

[@neyodiaries]

Have always believed that in the things of life pursuit; one has to keep trying(chasing)having the no giving up attitude, but on this video tips I realized it is not applicable to women(chasing one woman). One has to bring in balance in the affairs of women. Jessica your tips are fascinating, keep up the good work

[@Ben256MB]

It doesn't ! It's a dance with women and dating isn't a chore !

[@activistbabahjanneh926]

Thank you for your advice sister Jessica, this is exactly what am going through with my marriage but as from today, I will put myself and my dreams first.

[@xolanivanda185]

For me, the problem with women is they have too many signs to read, if you should be persistent and patient with her, or is she giving the signs that it's time for you to move on. Then again, as men, we do tend to chase the one woman who is not really looking for what we are looking for. If you are looking for someone to introduce to your mom, the club is not necessarily the best place to look.

[@theoriginalkilox7592]

‘If you know how to attract people with the right attitude, you don’t need to chase them.‘

[@citrinwarren6073]

Enoch, you are not alone. I too am hooked to Jessica and her deep rooted facts. I always find her programs very interesting and command the attention of her listeners. Undoubtedly Jessica is always prepared for each topic. Great Job Jessica.

[@gregorywest4112]

When I first started out I though that I.was suppose to be the hunter but as time went by I found out the other way around was the shit.yeah and it was more fun lol.bottom line was getting into her panties believe me its more fun when she wants to give it to u and the cool part is u get the chance to say no,I'm good lol

[@eyabatabadi7174]

With your awesome videos, I renew my relationship with my wife everyday She’s always proud of me! Give us more of your potentials!

[@luckysakonta3724]

I agree brother, and all the best

[@jb19channel19]

You are a true legend when it comes to love issues. I wish the world was filled more of people like u.

[@koalsam1494]

Jess thank you for helping we guys out. I relate to everything you said in this video. Presently I am worn out as you mentioned. But trying to adjust all I get is am not a gentleman anymore. So frustrating! But I still refuse some stupid stuffs no matter what!

[@aaronandoh4854]

I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way. There was a time I was in your position and a friend gave me this book that helped me cultivate some real perspective. Reach me via mail and let me send you a copy.

[@josephmarandu9052]

@@aaronandoh4854 can I also get a copy? Please!.

[@sigma_z]

Perfectly well said. Allow the girl your interested come into your world by making your world the most amazing world she has ever seen. Do this by being successful. No girl ever wants to be with a loser. Don't be a loser. Be the winner. Everyone wants to be with the winner.

[@BarronBarca]

They sure do pop out a lot of babies with losers

[@nderitusistem4606]

Very helpful content. I once almost fell into depression because of someone, used to buy her expensive gifts but thankfully I learned the hard way. Wish I saw this earlier.

[@ekwenemceekay8264]

Sometimes or most, they wouldn't even let u know they're not interested

[@drock577]

You are not the only one.

[@doejohn7548]

Me too recently was going out with this girl bro and got her a teddy bear 🧸 and more took her out was agreeing to dates but this weekend she canceled plans with me it hurt for a day but then the next I Was like fuck it, it is what it is 💯

[@gailfroelich9633]

I’ve been thru some big heart break too. Not all women are after gifts. You will find the right one.

[@gailfroelich9633]

Been there Jessica…..hard to let the wrong ones down easy.

[@drkips4757]

Keep them coming Jennifer. You're opening the eyes of men. Glad that I found this channel; so real and practical that I cannot ask for more

[@mohammedolalekan2338]

I so much love this, I found this motivational, and it’s quite impressive, I believe in chasing a dream instead of chasing what you will still get at last. Thanks for this Jessica we are really grateful

[@elijahahalikundira1551]

Great!! U have said it!!!

[@perryoffei-akoto2710]

Had to learn this the hard way and now I'm actually comfortable when a "no" is said to me

[@bonnymb1_official597]

Wow, this is really helpful. I needed someone to tell me that honestly. Been doing exactly what I'm not supposed to. My thoughts and intentions have changed right now. Thank you Jessica.

[@godsgirl7201]

🙌🏼

[@godfreymckay]

Love this Sis. I also think having chased my dreams, I cannot allow anyone who chases after me in my sacred space, Love. We better meet chasing things bigger than ourselves, and thereby fall in love because of our common goal/s. That way I envisage longevity and continued fulfilment in individuality hence capable of enjoying companionship. My thoughts.

[@MichaelBredy]

Thank you so much for this. I needed to know this. It puts my mind more at ease to not bother chasing women anymore.

[@corneliusallen1777]

I love Jessica's mindset. Very intelligent and truthful. Experience, honest.

[@ernestmalonkane8668]

Thank you Jessica; this topic almost talks about me. I did a lot of chasing in the past, so much so that I came to the juncture where I began to realize that I was actually making a fool out of myself. She once told me that she doesn't need a man, I asked her why she was with me and the answer was "because l just want to be with you"; it was one of the red flags that today I regret that I ignored. You're absolutely 💯percent right ✅; the biggest lesson I have learned is never to chase a woman. My philosophy is; LOVE HER, BUT IF SHE MAKES YOU SLAVE TO KEEP HER, THEN WALK AWAY. Today when I look back, I actually laugh at myself, because there are so many things not making sense that I put up with in the past because of love. Thanks Jessica 😊🙏, you're really a God sent Counselor 💐

[@healthmat3971]

Well noted. God bless you brother 🙏

[@Kelavis]

This is exactly how my last relationship went... The chase wasn't even that hard, but it was just enough for these exact dynamics to play out...

[@yourlandladysson6395]

As a man, I don't take dating advice from women on how to date women. However, as someone who can listen and evaluate information, I totally agree with you. I've been living by that principle for a while now and it's quite difficult because of how we have been conditioned to chase women. I feel good and my self esteem is above the roof.

[@fmar.8311]

"As a man, I don't take dating advice from women on how to date women." There's your first problem, twat.

[@Simmiebird]

Never seen a woman that's dedicated to helping brothers out there with insightful advice like this. I kinda wish my sister was like you, I would have avoided so many mistakes. Sad truth is society thinks women alone need help, but to find material like this is truly inspiring.

[@collenmatsepe606]

"Focus on you big bro. Focus on you."- The spirit to be adopted by us men.

[@JessicaOS]

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[@willywonka1768]

U not lying u are right

[@arturzdebik8057]

Jessica throu out screen i can sense your strong personality and confidance love that

[@antoniomitchell1883]

Oh, no thanks

[@choicekperegbeyi2947]

I learned from this cause am currently chasing my gf now she's agreed it seems am always going to please her...well she broke up wit me and I have been begging for over a month....now I will make her chase seems fair... thanks for the tips

[@isaackadyakale4861]

nice channel Jessica

[@willie2036]

U are matured and experienced love counsellor, everything u put across is indeed true. Valid advice !!

[@jayc9327]

this video definitely hit home for me because i'm going through this right now..i'm the one always doing the calling & or texting, trying to find out when we'll see each other & so on & nothing's happening...there's more to the story but i'm the one doing all of the pursuing & feeling like a fool because it comes across like she doesn't want to be bothered, hmmm, i guess that's because she doesn't...time to let it go...thanks

[@marcusknoll9500]

Same here Funny thing is She used to be the one telling me....talk to me more....n stuff I did Sent her to school I HAVE ...... It's heartbreaking what I went thru I don't know if I will ever be willing to truly love a woman again You can tell me more details if u want of your story

[@codeosagie]

I made that mistake in the past, spending money on a lady, meanwhile she got pregnant to a guy who was not even chasing or running after her. If you run after a lady too much and she is not giving the same momentum back, they see the man as weak and a fool. This is what many experience women told me too.

[@makatelli]

Its a game, You need to pretend you do not care and always give them time to respond. Never send many messages in a row if you dont get a reply. Dont read their messages immediately either if they are not responding quickly to you. Show interest but never be desperate. Sometimes even ignore them for a while just to regain some control.

[@dhanrajmohan701]

Stop 🛑 chasing red flag 🚩 run.

[@Pakiratigri]

Chasing women is not recommended. It makes them lazy. They let you as a man do all the work and they do the minimum. Can never be good. In addition, you may be dealing with a woman who is not interested and is leading you on. So, turn the tables!

[@mzee5533]

@@oyenirankofoworola2346 hey this is not a scammers channel getaway for fucksake.

[@pedromilanzi9654]

Jessica's voice is jus therapy for me, a lot of times I play her videos jus for that amazing voice

[@coachken1065]

Good stuff. Focus on your dreams, daily goals n hit that Gym... And Get ready for the person of your DREAMS🫡

[@JessicaOS]

That's the plan!

[@JessicaOS]

Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!

[@LW-ny7vl]

nice, just seen this, anymore videos on this matter thanks

[@fredrickegiebor8990]

I appreciate your concerns on us men best advice so far on the internet

[@SA80TAGE]

right so all I have to do is become rich and successful so worthless gold diggers will come chasing my money (not me)... what kind of advice is that? For both men and women?

[@augustismynight3457]

Another one, will, they will keep killing you guys and all you will good for is make Americans great for others and you here, it a sad day on Black Wall Street. Will they try hahah 😂🤣😂

[@akhil_1210]

I probably need an advice the girl I've been chasing for almost a few days...it's she who confessed to me and started a relationship...(everything was alright)in the middle she just wanna break up for no reason and when I asked her to think again,she said me to wait till she's ready to accept me again,she probably wants me to chase after her...I really don't like this,and the fact that all her feelings just dissolved into thin air... just makes me think like I've been used like a toy/dog and thrown away after she became bored of me... The fact that this is my first love hurts me even more.. I really don't know what to do at this point.

[@britishman1248]

Am a victim of this and after seeing this video I gained courage to make a "U" turn thanks for sharing with us your wisdom peace!

[@njoysuccessnow]

Yep 3:38 This is exactly my current mindset. Keep focusing on fine tuning yourself physically, spiritually and financially.

[@marvinkalela3528]

Wonderfully articulated.. Chase your dreams /goals then women will chase you

[@albertappiah4494]

I always enjoy your critical thinking about the subject matter at hand.

[@nicholasgumisiriza2359]

Thank you Jessica for this video, it has really changed my perception on relationship goals. I have been hurt severely many times by just one girl in my entire 25 years of age. But this video has seriously taught me how to handle such situations, JUST FOCUS ON YOUR DREAMS. Never to chase someone who ain't into me. Thank you and thank you once more.

[@deepbreath5259]

This vedeo. Is. Very supportive to understand all. The thing thanks for. Advices us

[@franklinngwu6241]

This one is content filled like every other ✊🏼. There are different factors that play when the word “chase” comes in. While it is better and more convincing for things to happen naturally as the content advices, also know that some women need strong and persistent sunshine ☀️ for their flowers to open. The thing is for us men to be sensitive as to know when it’s just your ego keeping you to continue instead of your instinct. We all have that instinctual build, and that will help you determine if you are waisting your time or not. A girl that had bad experiences with men would not easily open up to the next guy that comes her way even if she’s into you. If she give you audience with the need to continue and you know you really like her, my humble advice is to continue without being too pushy. You will be surprised the day she will finally let her flower open. If you genuinely like her, all the effort and time you put in will be one of the bedrock of you both jokes, trust. Lastly, remember the Bible said, he who findeth a wife….. you’ve to look, wait, talk, be persistent, committed and sometimes get insulted to find.. NB: most men chase women bc of their selfish interest as well. Also, for the girls esp beautiful ones, guys it’s not easy for them. Managing several guys coming your way; think about it and the confusion. I feel for them and it is safe to say; persistent guys always wins. Persistency doesn’t really mean chasing, just be natural, keep it cerebral and watch time to know when to stop trying with the help of your instinct and God. These are my opinion and must be filtered by you. Jessica, I love you ❤️.

[@DC-qv6gq]

Thank you. You're very wise. This is my take too.

[@godsgirl7201]

He who find a wife find a Good thing no it's Not easy to find because good people come one in a million even after giving your time to women it takes time to find a wife or good woman it's all in gods time... I definitely agree with you just sharing my point of view

[@chigozieemeka6446]

U are both wise and with good grooming.

[@juicykindess3129]

Very wise words

[@dillyselad1170]

I like the way u balanced ur point, becos after everything "someone" has to do the seeking and I loved the way u described the seeking. Thank u

[@Matthewsian7]

This beautiful lady just gets straight to the point unlike other thousands of videos out there that people just talk and talk and bore you to death

[@sylvesterese466]

I've said it,over and over and over again....When she truly loves you,then she does,and When she's not into you, no matter the effort,get it, bro, she'll drop you when you least expect.Yes,Yes,Yes,....pathetic is the word....eeeewwww?You up Your game,career wise,watch her pull into you...

[@madreas418]

Thank you Jessica

[@juniorsimon5390]

That’s all I have been doing all my life:pursuing my dreams and I love it. One day a girl asked me, “ aren’t you used to spoiling women with gifts?” I said nope and she was confused about my answer.

[@gadgetreviews1855]

@Amadi Bathram bustard... who ask you?

[@jacyahya3063]

Jessica,you changed my life through this platform.Thank you.

[@BooneDraw]

Absolutely. Explains the difficulty of Chasing. Being the one to do all the work in the relationship. Most painful to find out when you marry her that she never really cared. I was only financial support to her and her dreams but she never put forth the effort for me. I tell her I love her she says I love you back sometimes but not always. And never tells me she loves me without me saying it first. I have always chased women but expected to be chased back and it never happens. I say my must-haves are positivity, kindness, compassion, and good honest communication to build on respect, and romance ... and it all sounds good but Not finding that special someone. I am a little desperate because I have never really been loved. Ya. I need to stop chasing and set a new mindset. I Subscribed today, and watched two videos... TY. I am now getting a 2nd divorce from a narcissistic relationship. Finding True Love has been so hard for me.

[@effiya_ephya]

Loving your content, confidence, and consistency. Keep it up. Thanks.

[@godsgirl7201]

❤️

[@godsgirl7201]

@@Pita1148 love this isn't the place for that

[@tacticalhuddy3614]

This is arguably the best solid advice I have ever encountered. Very collected and informed advice that impacts directly in our lives.

[@cartertroy8844]

Tbh you are totally right in everything you said here ..Absolutely true💯 thank you Jessica 😊

[@khalidmayes2401]

All I have to say is I follow this woman's advice and she is completely right.. I also recently got in shape and posted pictures of myself something i never do and I should have been free mentally a long time ago now she's on my page liking photos things shes never done before but it's 7 8 years to late done writing ✍️

[@cyrilpreciousatori4862]

Hi, I’ve been in this situation and it’s unhealthy and toxic. From day one I’ve been the one putting all effort to see the relationships work and I feel frustrated at times because it took my time, energy, and lot more and I feel regret going into such because I should have use those time for something meaningful.

[@emmaoti118]

Hmmmmmm I don’t know what to even say about your situation….I have also been through this several time and is #hell😪

[@goodengineer3441]

This is what am going through right now but now that i watched this video, am going to be more focused on my dreams/ goals and myself because i have wasted a lot of time doing something else and not getting appreciated for

[@tebelloternmamasemola4124]

Hi Jess🙂 I recently found out about your channel and have to say your content is of high value. I just silently walked out of a relationship that lasted 7 years because I've been chasing the woman. Much of the information you're sharing in this video made everything acquire some sense. I was really worn out. Thanks for opening our eyes as the male species🙏

[@1stone379]

That silent cut off is a MUTHA!! 😂😂

[@tebelloternmamasemola4124]

@@1stone379 Lol no cap

[@oluwaseundavid3819]

I'm subscribing right away. You're just so straight to the point, no beating about the bush. Everything you mentioned is so profound and thanks for sharing.

[@geraldsanzala8119]

Ahsante saana ukweli wako wauma ila ni dawa Kwa wanaume wengi. So ahsante ndiyo neno zuri kwako, maana ulikuwa so sincerely katika kuelezea. God bless you

[@isaacboakye967]

Spending your time and money on videos like these is a great great investment! God bless you Jessy. You're solving problems!

[@eseigbepablo6109]

I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️

[@fridayblessed9742]

@@eseigbepablo6109 get out

[@christianwright1775]

She did not have to spend money to pull out her camera and record but she is investing her time

[@Roestradd]

@@fridayblessed9742 Lmao, you said that 🤣

[@Kellensolidus]

Great video...personally through my experience,when a man does the chasing,the woman feels like a prize to be won ,thats wrong in the sense that "arrogance and pride” comes into play and women are experts at displaying these.Sometimes I love making the first move giving the fact that i place so much value on my attention, a display of confidence as a man but I'm so sharp to know when a woman ain't worth my attention,I back off immediately.it has helped and protected me a lot from manipulative women who only wants men as emotional prisoners.you act up ,i back off,you dont reciprocate my calls and attention then i ll see you as a stranger again by deleting anything related to such lady in my life,its been part of playbook for years. Hopefully all men would wake up to the truth someday.No woman is truely worth the stress of chasing,the more you chase ,the more power she as over you.let the connection come naturally ,love your self first cos you cant pour from an empty cup. will be sharing this particular video with my friends and my social media handles.

[@gilbertsamuel2144]

Ma nigga 👏🏾

[@dukejukebox775]

Even though I found the woman of my life ,I definitely wasted so much time on chasing women and not my dreams. Best advice to men that actually comes from the woman!

[@boyejohnson4287]

I totally agreed on this topic, chasing women is a complete waste of time and if you're not careful, you will remain down for the rest of your life. Thank you Jessica, I've subscribed to your channel and looking forward to more teaching.